Vassalage: Truth, Lies, and Power
When I was five years old, I watched my father threaten to drive off a bridge. Years later, I began to understand the truth: my father — a respected school headmaster and teacher, beloved by families and students — was not who he seemed to be.
Vassalage: Truth, Lies, and Power is a true story of how one man’s lies and unchecked power tore his family apart, and my quest to understand why so many chose to believe him instead of the truth.
Told through the actual letters exchanged during my parents’ bitter divorce, and the memories I can’t forget, this podcast examines the loyalty, manipulation, and deception — and what happens when you try to challenge the one who controls the board.
Season 1: The Prologue sets the stage. The pieces are arranged, the players take their positions, and a family prepares for a battle that will change everything.
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In a world where power protects lies… speaking the truth is how you change the game.
Disclaimer: All names, locations, and identifying details have been changed to protect privacy.
Vassalage: Truth, Lies, and Power
Family Business
To an outsider, it was just a passing comment. To us, it was a bomb. This episode reveals how words can wound like weapons, how secrecy can preserve and destroy, and how silence leaves its mark — from my sister’s abusive relationship to my own. Families aren’t the only ones who guard their private “business.” Churches, schools, and organizations do the same, protecting reputation at the cost of truth. Family Business investigates the danger of boundaries that keep secrets hidden away — and the cost carried by those trapped inside.
⚠️ Content Note: This episode discusses sensitive themes, including abuse, domestic violence, and family conflict, and may not be suitable for all listeners. If you or someone you know is struggling, call or text 988 in the U.S. for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.