Slut in Training
Slut in Training is a podcast about modern dating, sexual confidence, and relationships after divorce. Host Missy Greenberg, Tania Ross and Jordan Carlson explore the realities of dating again, communication in relationships, and how to talk about sex with honesty, humor, and curiosity. Through conversations with experts, storytellers, and guests from all walks of life, the show dives into dating after divorce, sex positivity, intimacy, and the awkward, hilarious moments that come with modern relationships. Whether you're navigating dating apps, rebuilding confidence, or trying to understand what people actually want in the bedroom, Slut in Training is about learning, laughing, and saving one bedroom at a time.
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Hosted by:
Missy Greenberg
Tania Ross
Jordan Carlson
Produced by:
Missy Greenberg
Edited by:
Charles E. Becker
Slut in Training
The Secrets Behind Hot Scenes: An Intimacy Coordinator Spills the Tea
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How do actors make chemistry look effortless? And what are the real tricks behind filming a hot scene without crossing a line?
This week, we go behind the scenes with a certified Intimacy Coordinator, Olivia Ku, who choreographs desire for a living — and keeps it safe, sexy, and authentic.
From closed-set secrets to modesty garments and confidence boosters, she reveals how boundaries, consent, and trust create the hottest moments on camera.
Enjoy!
Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Tallahassee Night Train
2:06 – Olivia Ku introduction – Los Angeles based Intimacy Coordinator
3:46 – How Olivia got started:
- A young actor on TNT - “1000 Ways to Die” – asked to make out in a scene
without any advance discussion
- Social media influencer in health and wellness space
- Supporting survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault
6:33 – A lot of BDSM stories are happening now in the vertical world
7:53 – SAG has a list of accredited Intimacy Coordinating training organizations
8:04 – What is it like to be on set for a very steaming scene?
9:35 – Olivia can’t tell actors what they need – she’s here to listen to what each actor needs
10:40 – Olivia’s involvement also depends on the Director’s approach
11:53 – What’s in a full intimacy kit!
12:09 – What goes into the process of creating an intimacy scene
15:20 – Verticals – 60 second Soap-opera like dramas to watch on your cell phone
17:26 – Tell us about Modesty Garments
19:10 – Weirdest object Olivia used on set as a modesty barrier
20:28 – Do actors ever get too into the role? Tongue versus no tongue kissing!
22:41 – Have you ever had to coach a sex scene that was painfully unsexy?
24:16 – Most ridiculous locations - from mansions to up against a bookshelf
25:48 – Awkwardness of choreographing simulated Oral Sex scenes
27:45 – Best choreographed oral sex scene – Bridgerton
27:53 – Favorite intimacy sex scene in a movie – Titanic
30:29 – Olivia would love to do more work in the Young Adult space and why!
33:33 – What actors should know before they start filming a sex or intimacy scene
35:32 – Common misconceptions about intimacy coordinators:
- Not the sex police OR HR!
- She is there for everyone – not just the lead actors
- Specific intimacy needs experts in that area – e.g., Shabari
39:00 – The best tip to help everyone at home have better cinematic sex – consent and boundaries!
42:48 – What advice would you give your younger self about relationships?
Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.
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Resources and mentions:
Follow Olivia Ku – Instagram @lovehealthok
Learn more about SAG Accredited Intimacy Coordinator Training Programs:
https://www.intimacyonset.com/sag-aftra-accredited-intimacy-coordinator-training
Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross
Produced by: Missy Greenberg
Edited by: Charles E. Becker
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