COMING HOME FROM PRISON TO BE A STEPFATHER : TALES FROM THE JAILS LIVE!!!

TALES FROM THE JAILS LIVE!!! The host speak about the difficulties of men serving extensive time in prison then coming home to take on the responsibility of being a stepfather. #talesfromthejails #stepfather #prison

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SPEAKER_07 6:37

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SPEAKER_04 10:37

It's Tells from the Jails. We're here live in Parms. You will say TNS Media group with the team and the family. We apologize for the wait. We apologize for the delay. But you know, we're here, no doubt, man. Shout out to John Michael that's in there. I see you, 716 Deuce, Corey Woods, you know, you know, uh, who else we got here? C2 Prince. We got uh Cam 1122, Cam in there. Um clamping 808386. So what's going on, man? Yo, listen, y'all. Uh you know, we're happy that the gang is here, happy that everybody's here chilling with us, man. You know, what y'all do this weekend? How was the weekend, man? How was your weekend, Mr. Jackson? Everything cool with you? I was driving, just rolling around.

SPEAKER_05 11:20

Boy, bro, looking good out that George. I you know what I mean. I ain't gonna speak too much because I don't know what you mean, but I was looking good this weekend, man. I'm gonna do that, man. Not tonight, though. Everybody, what's up with y'all today, man? It's beautiful Monday, man. Um, hopefully everybody is here, man. I told you about Friday. Don't go to jail, don't go to jail on no Fridays, man. We ain't we trying to talk too much. Yeah, it's a little warm in here, but I feel good a little bit. I mean, you didn't talk. Yeah, I mean, I just I don't know. I'm just I don't know. I feel like I feel like nah I should be in your shoes, but I'm just glad that my shoes is next to yours. I'm gonna do that.

SPEAKER_04 12:03

Hey, listen, we got an interview this week, man. Uh first of all, don't forget, hit, don't forget to hit the like button. We got a little bucks dropping this week, you know, for the crazy interview. Uh Lil Bucks just coming home from serve, I think Bucks did what, four years? Yeah, four or five years of things. Something like something two, four. I don't think he was going for four years. But Lil Bucks did some time. Lil Bucks told him, you know, you know, they was they was beefing the YBC gang and and Lil Bucks and them. And he goes in to speak about you know the people that he lost, and you know, he talks about the YBC beef and and so much stuff that's going on that was going on in the city at the time, and him being home and having so much stuff going on with him. So that interview was crazy. He got some clips out right now that y'all can watch, that y'all can see. You know, so y'all can uh definitely uh you know uh get prepared for that interview that that's coming out this week. But what's going on with you, Mr. Jackson? How you feeling, man?

SPEAKER_05 12:55

Um I'm good, man. Uh uh Dark Skin Beauty. Hey man, I got the I got the I got that thing out today. Y'all still do it. I got the she said, y'all got the it ain't even freshly shaved yet, though. It's kind of a little fuzz coming back, but we out here. We out here, man, on this beautiful Monday, man. Let's get let's get to it, family. Man, we got a lot to talk about today, man. I hope hopefully everybody is here. Hopefully, is everybody here? James the Flame, we at? I ain't been looking, but we we at you better not be if anybody go to jail to be James the Flame. We gotta watch him, y'all. Dark skin beauty checking on James.

SPEAKER_04 13:26

Yeah. So um it was a it was a question. We got a few topics today, but the one of the topics was uh that was posed to us, like um, if say you had a child or your son, right? Right, you raise him different, you raise him, you know, a little to do certain things, he get arrested for you know, he in the streets, running around, running running the streets, selling all the drugs in the world, go down on an indictment, or you kill somebody, so forth and so on. He decides that he wants to turn witness, he wants to testify, he wants to snitch, right? You have you have a different belief. Your belief is you don't condone snitching, you don't condone telling. Hold on, I'm not done. Let me finish. You don't condone snitching, don't condone telling. He tells. Get somebody a bunch of time, go get somebody in life in prison, and then you know, while he's in jail, are you taking care of him? And then when he comes home, are you gonna ride around with your son knowing that he's a known rat?

SPEAKER_05 14:27

First and foremost, I I want you to um, because it's me, I'm a convict, I'm a hardcore convict, convicted felon. I I'm in rehabilitation right now as we speak. So that question that you ask, you gotta you gotta format it a little bit for the for the whole audience or for like I'm talking about for the layman people, for the people that work go out there and work, never committed a crime in their life. Anybody. Or just anybody.

SPEAKER_04 14:54

It could be a difference in opinion. I'm talking about you. People I did y'all can get y'all's opinion too. I'm talking about you, you, Mr. Uh Ceso uh dad, you know, you was bashing him, giving him a hard way to go.

SPEAKER_05 15:05

This is your son. Let me get let me get three seconds to think on that, y'all. Okay, three seconds. I can't cut him all the way. That's my son. That's he's from my loins. He's from my loins. Ah man, this joint crunchy right now. I he can't like oh my goodness, man. Can I plead the fifth? No, you gotta pick a side. You can't do that. You gotta pick a side. Dark skin beauty, help me out, dark skin beauty. Like, what do I like? Ah, everything that I stood for, man, everything that I did where I'm at to this point today, it comes from uh being a hardcore criminal, man. Being a hardcore criminal, one of the aspects is going to jail and taking your time as a man. Taking your time as a man, whatever I was charged with, may have whether it be with other co-defendants or not. I'm taking my part, whether I cop I did that or I'm going to trial. I'm not putting the blame on nobody else. So now, with that said, that's that's embedded in me. My son, he's breaking law though.

SPEAKER_04 16:19

He out here breaking law. You told him, you talked to him about because I'm I'm pretty sure you're gonna try to talk to you. Yeah, because you're not sure. You're gonna take a sign that you shouldn't be doing it, you shouldn't be doing that. And if you you end it, this is what you this is the consequence. You can't pick a side because it's because it's your loved one, because especially, you know, we had an interview, and people saw, you know, you going hard at uh Door Kareem, Caseo's father, about his line, bro.

SPEAKER_05 16:42

I'm I'm not gonna if he's down and out, like when he called me for help one day, I'm I'm gonna do it because that's my son. I'm gonna do it, but like I say, how you give me that money and you be holding on to it, and it comes with instructions. That help that I'm gonna give him gonna come with instructions, it's gonna come with a lot of instructions, like yo, don't ask me again. Hopefully, this will work for you. You don't owe me nothing, but um get out. Man, he a black eye, man. He a stain, but that's my son. That's my son. Yeah, what like what do one like oh my eyes, like that's this question right here. Crazy. I don't know how to answer this. Help me, y'all. Like, if y'all's son, man, was out there in the streets, you know, and then the people who has been convicted, been to jail before, been out there in the streets, you know, running them streets, and they are firm on what they do. When I say firm, meaning um they they they they took accountability for their actions, whatever they got caught with or charged, with whatever the case may be. I'm one of them guys, so it's hard on me. It's hard on me, but I can't turn my back on him all the way.

SPEAKER_04 17:53

I can't. I can't. So you basically not let nobody harm him. They want to harm him. Like, I told him, he got my my my my bro life in jail. He told him the homicide, told him this was the case. He told him we got everybody a bunch of times, but they like, listen, we we rat bashing, and then I mean that goes to me too. Your son is a uh a rat, and now people trying to no, I'm cool with that. Get out because he is a rat. They're trying to get at him now.

SPEAKER_05 18:14

They're trying to if they kill him, I'm saying, you know, if they kill him, I'm gonna be sad, but he bought that. He bought that, and I know y'all looking at me like I'm crazy, y'all. He bought that. You out there in the streets, man. You out there busting guns, and then especially if I got to him and was telling him before all this came about, and I'm like, yo, because you know I'm gonna be telling him. I'm cool right now. I don't want nothing to do with the streets, nothing. And I'm telling him, and he still go out there and do it, and then get caught up and telling these dudes and then killing. I can't what can I do? I'm gonna just be a set, I'm gonna be at the fruit, he's gonna have the best gymnast. He's gonna have, you know, if he got kids, I'm gonna take care of, but what can I do? He played the wrong side of the game. I can't do nothing. I'm gonna be crushed, I'm gonna be crushed, I'm gonna be tore up, I'm gonna be tore, I'm gonna be sitting back thinking about it days on in, years on in, decades on in. At the end of the day, man, he dug his own grave.

SPEAKER_04 19:10

I should wind a little bit because you didn't say it. Now, are you like if he comes home, are you riding around in the car with him? Are you like, are you uh greeting?

SPEAKER_05 19:17

I'm not doing no, I'm not doing no riding around with him. I'm gonna see him, I'ma see him a couple times, a few times, and I may hit his hand if I'm in a good position. He comes home and I and I and I'm I'm not well off, but I'm doing good.

SPEAKER_04 19:31

That's my son. So is it guys that you know this is me at twist? Is it guys you know that that that that that testified and gave statements that you give passes to?

SPEAKER_05 19:44

Is there anybody that I know that testified and gave statements that I give passes to? As of man, I can't think of not one. But if it was, I would give a pass to because of the life I'm living there. I'm I'm not, I'm not like we had uh accusations about one of the homies or whatever, you know. You know who I'm talking about, and I'm not gonna get into it because we ain't messy up here and we ain't in the trying to back. If you did that, you did that. But you know, I talked to him and whatever, whatever. Just been released from jail, and I asked him, damn man, how the hell you get out? And you know, he whatever, whatever. He told me his story, and that that that that you know, I gotta take that for whatever. But if he did the I don't care no more because I'm not in the streets, and I seem yo, I keep, but we're not hanging out and all that. We're not hanging out, and I'm not saying he did the jury still out with that.

SPEAKER_04 20:33

You say you can't know that that's not that's not a good example. Is it anybody that you know that we know that told that's out here that we like all right? You still I'm trying to think. No, I can't think of not one person because we know that people are letting people come home and say, ah man, man, we about to die soon, and all the type of stuff that they say to try to, you know, um stop the you know, the the the the the rap bash and whatever it can be, or what I was old, and you know, people try to find reasons to to hang around people that that tell, whatever reason. But what I'm saying to you is this is your son, this is somebody that you raised. So I must I'll go on and say for me, beans to where I'm at, and my son did that, this my son. I probably would I probably would deal with him, but only yeah, like like a father's son, like you my son, you know, you need me for anything. Boom, but as far as it'd be just like that.

SPEAKER_05 21:31

As far as me hanging too much around you, like yeah, I can't, I can't, I can't put me we seen, we out eating, and we nah, bro.

SPEAKER_04 21:38

But then again, that's part of being a father. I might have to hang, he might he may have he may have a a child. So in in if it's an event where we gotta celebrate his child, you know, maybe graduating no high school, no, whatever kindergarten, whatever the kid, the kid is his kid now transitioning to be a grown man or grown woman, and I gotta be involved with him to be involved with the child more so now. I'm gonna do all that, but I gotta take a back seat to the to the the code that you can.

SPEAKER_05 22:06

Yeah, it's not even taking a back seat to it. Because we're not in he's not gonna get what he would get from me if he didn't tell. I'm gonna show up to if his son or daughter is having a function, a graduation or something like that, because that's my grandbaby. But other than that, that that's where the buck stops at. Now he can't be having a cookout. He called me, yo, pop, come to the cookout. Necatron. He's not even gonna call me to come to it. And you can't come to the family fun. Well, you could because you could, but I'm not gonna be. Everybody gonna know what you did. Everybody, it's just it's just that I gotta carry it like that. So what about when it's time to grab arms? He's like, I'm riding with you, pop, you're shitting me. But you I'm riding with you, Pop. Let's go. That let me if you don't get out of here, he not even gonna come at me with that. They might like your son, no, they won't. He might. When your sons know how they see what type of man you is, whether you a poke ass nigga, your kids know if you soft, then I can get over on my dad. Or like your dad. You know what type of man he is?

SPEAKER_02 23:05

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_05 23:06

You ain't gonna come at him with something because you know he raised you underneath this discipline. You know, you can't go to your dad with just any old thing right now. He's gonna be like, even though he's older than his years, he's gonna be looking at you and be like, boy, if you don't get out of here, because it's certain things that he stands for and don't stay, you know it. And so my son's gonna know it. Man, my dad ain't know he didn't do he's gonna be hype about that from the drive. Damn, my dad, the stand-up nigga, did all this time because he's out in the street, he knows everything about me. I'm like a little legend. I'm not saying that I'm bigger than above nobody. I'm a I'm a I'm a fool legend that's been in jail for a whole lot of times that ain't tell on no niggas and stood on my own responsibilities as a man. And that I'll get you legend in the hood. And your son gonna know that. So he's gonna know not to try to bring this into your circumference.

SPEAKER_04 23:56

Yeah, but what I'm what I'm saying is, you know, it may be, it may be a time when you only got him, even though he's he the last resort, but he may be the only one that's really ready to rock with you or roll with the road. Yeah, he is.

SPEAKER_05 24:07

That ain't it. So you you want you going by yourself? Yes, he's no resort. He's no resort at all. He's not the first resort, the middle resort, the last resort, up resort, down resort, nothing. Once he has cooperated with law enforcement, we're gonna get into some personal shit right now. Let's get into some personal shit. Like this, this is why the audience loves us. Because we we're not, we're not, we're transparent and we speak on our ways. I got a rifle. Got a rifle. It looked like an assault rifle and all that. You know, I was ready to get off parole. I thought the P.O. was ready to come to my house. To where I lived at because my girl wasn't answering the phone to where I was paroled at and all that. And she wasn't answering the phone, so I'm like, damn, I gotta tell my P.O. that I changed addresses. I'm here, and I'm ready to get off parole. Before I told the P.O. that where I might, you know, was staying at, where I moved to, I had the right phone there. So, you know, I know they want to walk through and do a walkthrough. And where I'm staying at, your son, your own son, stays upstairs over top of him. Yeah, we're gonna put it out there. You found out that I took that to him to let him hold that in case the P.O. come. You know your son. You say, yo, don't get that to my son no more. Not off just the fact, because you know I'm not gonna put him in no dangerous horn. But everything, how he's emotional, how he not really built, because he's not one of them kids that you raised in the streets, which is applaud. We're gonna applaud you for that. You raised him in the good way. He not no street kid, and you sat there and looked at me in my face and said, he'll tell on you, nigga. Right? That's what you told me. Yeah. And I'm like, damn. You was like, anything go wrong, he'll tell on you. And I'm like, yeah, you're right. Let me get this back, Neff, and yeah, and I'm out, and I'm gonna take this and dispose of it properly. So I say that to say, you know your personnel. Yeah, you know your personnel. This is your son, this is like like, come on, man. Certain things that you do, man, you you can't do things around certain people, man. And just because it may be someone closer to you, a son, a brother, some of kin blood, you still gotta judge them accordingly. And then you judge the cordingly, never been through nothing. So when something happens, if it get crunchy like that. And I'm not saying he's a poker, none of that. I'm not no, not saying that. But we just speaking some real shit. Yeah, but get this is some shit that just happened the other day. That's why everybody loves us. Because we come with the authenticity. I hope I said that right. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You know, y'all know what I'll be trying to get at. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_04 26:43

Yeah, so yeah, so my reason for saying that was because not saying that he's gonna take that and go to the go to the police and with it and say you you gave it to him. But if something was to happen, it's a possibility. And he he may not, but me just thinking, like, I don't want to put him in that in that position because he may when when talking about going to jail or whatever the case may be with somebody, he might say, Well, I got this from him. Or, you know, him and his homies gonna be hanging around, somebody get shot with it. He could say, Well, I got it from him. Exactly. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_05 27:16

Yeah, so you gotta prepare better. Yeah. You gotta prepare better. You know your personnel, man. Like, that's just it, man. Like, when you see signs, man, if it walk like a duck and quack like a duck, man, it's a goddamn duck, man, and that's just it. For sure.

SPEAKER_04 27:30

And it's only because he wasn't reading there's certain kids I would be like, are certain people I would know, like, you know, like yapping them, I would think that they would, I would, if you gave it to them, I would have like, you know, and these these is our like our nephews. If you gave it to somebody like them, or you know, FS and them, I would have been like, you know, they not gonna you would think it, because you don't know it still, but you I would I would I would lean towards they're not the perception would be more so that they not. Exactly. I don't know what's gonna happen with this case that they own whatever, but me just looking at the nephews, you know, these people that we basically been around, more so ya, you know, more so with anything, but knowing them and in their their background, I would have said I wouldn't too much think about it. But you you you know you never know. You never know. But him, you know, my son loves him to death, but I just don't think he's cut from that type of cloth to sit there.

SPEAKER_05 28:22

I'm gonna pressure start to mount, when that pressure crawl up on your back like a bluefish.

SPEAKER_04 28:28

He may say something and it may, and it may ultimately be out of ignorance because he don't know no better at all. He may hear you, can't tell, can't, but once they get in there, well, where do you get it from who this and do that? And you know, something crazy happened, you know, you could be in a bad situation. That's just how I look at it. Like, it's like even you, even you might get somebody who got a gun license, right? Yeah, he licensed to carry a gun. He may be, he may, he, but he not, he not, may not be street or not, may not be street savvy. Like we said, the guy he had a license to carry, and the boy took the gun from him.

SPEAKER_05 29:00

Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_04 29:03

But he's not street savvy. No, no, no, I'm lying. No, that's not no no my a friend of mine, a homie of mine, seen him. He was telling, he was telling, I seen him, I was in um, what's the giant down uh downtown, um where everybody go, the uh the where all the food at down there? Where's that John? Oh, the red and terminal. Redden terminal, yeah. I was at Redden Terminal. And I ran to one of my guys and he was telling me a story about his son, his son got killed. And he was like, his son likes to carry. So the boy so the guy walked up on him, put the gun to him, his son knocked the gun out of his face, and still never never pulled his gun. And the ball came back after he smacked the gun down, he shot him. Normally, if that's me or you, I knocked that gun out.

SPEAKER_05 29:44

If I knock my gun, I'm automatically pulling mine already from the gate. Even before I even had the chance to knock that gun down, once I seen he was a threat, that gun was getting, he done had to shoot me right then and there. Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 29:55

But everybody don't have that mental. It's not even I mean the mentality, like, because we've been through gun violence. I've been shot, so I understand, like, all right, when them joints, when it's time to time to let it go, I'm let it go. But everybody not built to think like that all the time. They may have a gun and something may happen, and the gun may end up on the floor. Right. They may run the shots for, because they might never never been in that type of environment. And them joints hurt. I don't know everybody in the group chat who got shot, who've been shot before. Y'all know, especially getting hit in your torso or wherever you get hit at, them joints hurt and they move around inside your body like you know, them bullets move around inside your body. You know what I'm saying? So everybody ain't built for that. Everybody, this just this the loud, the loud sound of a firearm is just getting scare somebody. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. I know exactly what you're saying. But sometimes you and then people that who have been been through it, you become immune to it. You ever you remember the first time you ever shot a gun? It was like you you shoot it, but turn your turn your head because you should now you shot. Now I embrace it. Yeah, now you you turned out by it, but everybody don't, they gotta go through that that aspect of the stage to get to uh what you call it. It's levels to it.

SPEAKER_05 31:07

Shout out to Meek Mills.

SPEAKER_04 31:08

Like I tell my I tell my nephews in here all the time, you know, they get licensed to carry. I'm I'm for the first couple until they go to the range and they used to fire the gun. I don't know. Let me hold that way to come back.

SPEAKER_05 31:19

I don't care if they go to the range or not, until they come in encounter with a comeback. That's when I'll be fully safe with them having it on their hip. Until then, put it somewhere where I can grab it in case it gets crazy. Not on duty, boy. Here you go. We on a crazy topic, talk about some man shit. Yeah, I'm just saying. Like, because you know, motherfucker had that joint on them, a nigga busting his joint and still be like, they they be looking like this, and they got it on them. And do I think they would do that? Absolutely, because they never been through that. Yeah, they never been through that, especially smart. And that don't make you a punk, that don't make you a punk at all. That just makes you unaware because you've never been through that. You might and then in the midst of it, when somebody runs up on you, you might have to take one.

SPEAKER_04 32:03

You might have to take one just to get anybody else on the back. Maybe two or three.

SPEAKER_05 32:07

Yeah, but you're gonna get yours off. And I'm with all that, every last bit of it. Yeah, even if I got the go. Me too. Even if the for the greater good, me too. I'm cool with that. I'm cool with that, bro. Might drop the gun and be like, oh drop it, never pull it. Yeah, you're talking about drop it. Drop it mean you went for it. That joint was never, hey, right here. Yep, right here. I got this one me, get this too. Damn, you had a chance to grab it. But you know, but and that could only be taught through itself, actually, meaning in combat. And we're not promoting this, we're not telling you to get a gun or no, but if you we're telling you to get a gun legitly, in case things like this do arise, somebody trying to rob you or that nature or whatever, then you got all rights to bust his ass, bust his motherfucking ass. You know what I'm saying? And yeah. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_04 33:01

But let's go back to the let now to the to the topic about your son telling, or you, or, you, or you, you know what I mean? Anybody close to you. It can be your brother, it can be your son, somebody close to you that tells. Friend. Friend, you know, you know, are you still befriending them? Are they still gonna be your homie when they when they get out? Are you still gonna look look looking at it?

SPEAKER_05 33:22

Matter of fact, where I'm at now, where I'm at now, like I just explained that situation to you. I I because I'm not breaking law. I'm not, but I'm not hanging out with you. But when I see you, yo, what's up? Yeah, yeah. In front of everybody. Yes, yes, you know he I? Yes, everybody knows who you are. Yes, yes, I'm not breaking law with this dude. He to he got an answer for that. He ain't telling me none of my men, big hugs and everything, huh? Yeah, but if I because he before that, it was big hugs. Okay, yes. So you just like I said with Catter. Everybody knows who Catter is in West Philly. He's why he's screaming his name now there. You know, everybody knows Catter knows not to put his hands on me. You better not put your hands on me, Catter. You know, I can't beat you. But boy, I got the thing still, don't act crazy. Yeah, we ain't gonna act crazy. But my thing is, I see him every day. I just sing him today. Yeah, and I was coming from Brown. He was on that, I stopped. You know, I like to ride through the especially when I got something big and husky out. Oh, duty. Anything back and open up. I'm coming through. Tupac is back. You know, I look like a little Tupac a little bit, but except without the beard. They'll be with the beard, excuse me. And I seen him, I stopped and jumped out. Gadda, what's up, man? Damn, feet more. You doing good. Tell us in the jails. I'm like, I hope you listen. But I don't, I don't see, like, all right. You mean the the hell would they say you you you caught sucking a couple chumpies on TV? All right, cool. That's what that's your life. You said you watched that, George. Yes, I watched it just to make sure he did it. I know I watched the whole hour and 17 minutes. I watched the whole minute. Yes, you are you saying? I wanted to make sure duty, yes. I did, I didn't do it off because I'm I want some. You watched a whole hour. Yes, I did. I was in jail. I was in jail, I was curious. Hold on, listen, no, it took you an hour and 17 minutes to recognize who there was in the video. He no, no, no, not to recognize, to be sure. Are you sure? I was sure he was first 30 seconds. No, no, no, no, no, no. I wanted to see him live it through. Yo, he died on duty, yo. And I'm like, damn, he did it. Yo, you sat there for an hour, 17 minutes, and what I was shocked. He a good close friend of mine, and I was shocked and I watched it. I watched it and I'm like, this nigga out his goddamn mind. Yeah, I did. You wasn't disgusted by that, man. Yeah, I was disgusted, extremely disgusted. But you sat there for you know, watched it for an hour in jail. Yes, I did. Yes, I did. I had a cell phone, I had a cell phone at Fort Dix. Yeah, the shit was breaking news, everybody was telling me, yo, such and such is doing this. What? Doing what? I pulled it up on Pornhub, and there he go. Not on duty. I was like, damn. But I seem to still respect him as a man because can't nobody come up to him in his face and by use a faggot, can they? You better be ready, you better be ready. Yo, hour and 17 minutes. Hour and 17 minutes I watched. Yes, I did. You keep talking about some yo. Yes, I did. I watched it to make sure I wasn't, you mean triple the first five seconds. Yo, yeah, yeah. You crazy, man.

SPEAKER_09 36:16

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 36:18

Yo, so hold up, what you say? So down's the yo uh staff, uh staff M4612. He said, Nah, black, you ain't need that much. I did though. Nah, hold up, I did though. That's a childhood curse personal friend of mine. I did, and you matter of fact, you might be right. I might not, but I'm just so wow, flabbergasted. I wanted to see how many he can take Dollar Duty, how many he can dollar duty, man. And I'm like, no, he ain't just eat that joint and go that joint. So I wanted to have it all recorded, and I did it, man. I need no literally. I probably shouldn't have did it, and I don't have no urges to do that with a man. I'm full heterosexual. But that right there was I just wanted to be prepared when I seen my gonna all the arson I needed. If he be like, no, I ain't do. I'm like, no, you ate the left nut. I seen you eating the left nut. Call of duty, man. Man, no duty. All right, let's move on, man. Yo, man.

SPEAKER_06 37:15

No, bro. Yo, yo, are you sick? Yo, yo, that's it.

SPEAKER_05 37:22

You said you out of the you told me that when you was in jail, like yo, I watched the horse. It's a man over here. His day ain't complete till he got some giggles and wiggles, man. He out of peace. I think it's a game, man. Listen, man, like if I ain't know you, man, I would think so.

SPEAKER_04 37:39

It was like a left with you, man. Like if I ain't know you, bro. But the thing about it is this, man, knowing that, so who's worse? Somebody like that or somebody that's to that tail?

SPEAKER_05 37:50

Somebody that tell. Okay. All day long. I could mess with a homosexual before I mess with a rat. And when I say mess with, meaning do business with, you know, and not the type of business like I'm buying his ass and nothing like that. No, business like if he's stealing stuff out of the kitchen and blah blah blah. Yeah, but a rat, I'll be like, ah, I stand off of him. Because he's a he's a coward, he's a betrayer. He would send you down before he got to go down. A homosexual ain't looking to do that. He's looking to suck your jumpy if he can get a chance. And that's just it.

SPEAKER_04 38:20

Yo, man. Yeah, you out of pocket, man. But you know, these type of things do happen and people live their life.

SPEAKER_05 38:28

They all on your side today, man. They all on your side. They better be. Hey, hey, dark beauty. You ain't nothing today. I thought you was with me. He's out of line. He out of line. Yo, he way like hours of black, you might go viral for this one. Hour and 17 minutes, bro. Yeah, I watched it. Hour and 17 minutes. I couldn't believe it, man. He was eating ass, he was getting his ass. But listen, man, listen, listen.

SPEAKER_04 38:51

I don't want to go into all that, but he was what he was doing. This is not on duty. But he thinks he's not on duty. He since that he's no longer a pun that. Yeah. I don't know, but yeah. That's what he told me. So I'm I'm gonna take it.

SPEAKER_05 39:03

Oh, so you talk swim too.

SPEAKER_04 39:04

That's my man.

SPEAKER_05 39:05

All right, all right, cool. So you can do it.

SPEAKER_04 39:06

I mean, like, I'm gonna say like we grew up. We grew up, we we we we got 30 years in. We can do it since we were kids, but I don't want me to say it about him because you know, I don't want to, you know, make it like Yeah, like we being messy and catty.

SPEAKER_05 39:17

No, we just bought that up. All right.

SPEAKER_04 39:19

Yeah, but like, you know, whatever case may be. But let's go back to to to uh to the rats and people telling and so forth and so on. Like when they come home and people are still deciding to look um look um beyond what they did in the past, even if it's 20 years ago, and people always say, like, man, man, that was that's old, man. You hear that a lot. Yeah, we hear that a lot, like it's old, and you know, they have since changed their life. Not saying people can't change, it's that situation. In that situation, they told. I had a person call me the other day, a person I know a known rat. I know he told. He called me and asked me for a favor. But I know he's I know he's hot. You know what I'm saying? I know he told, I know he did, but I still which call I I still um sat there and had a conversation with him, you know what I'm saying? You know, but for me, it it's just that I can't, I'm not gonna be seen out with him in public and hanging around, hanging around him and so forth and so on, knowing what he did. Right. And I agree with it. You know, so hey yo, uh also shout out to King underscore Tony215 for the donation. He said, uh he said, Black had a hell of a weekend. It's time for a not on duty commercial break. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I agree a thousand percent. Um so this type of thing that happened. Now let's go to another topic that was mentioned, like, you know, a person incarcerated, right? Right. This person is incarcerated. He comes home, he has to uh move into a house with a woman. This is a question. Or not has to decide. Decides to move to a house with a woman that has that has kids, right? She has children.

SPEAKER_05 41:01

Of her own, is they his children or they're hers. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 41:04

She's coming home and then he's moving to the house with a woman with a woman with children. We already know number one cardinal rule is never never come home on parole and live with a woman. But now you got a double woman, you're living in the house with the kids and trying to chastise someone's kids. Are you ever gonna be able to be the man that's gonna be able to control her kids? Is it okay? It could be be due to the age of the child. Because sometimes kids get a certain age and you know, they don't like you. Like you said, you're in there drinking the drinking up the caprice of.

SPEAKER_05 41:35

No, I ain't in there drinking, you better not be in there. I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 41:37

I'm just saying some people's in there drinking up when you're coming home into a situation where you're trying to raise kids after you didn't did a bunch of time. Do you advise men to do that? Is that is that a good idea? We're just answering the questions who that's been posed to us.

SPEAKER_05 41:55

I'm going in, man. I'm going in, man. I'm going ahead, go. I gotta get my money, man. Um I'm in a situation like that right now, man. Real live topic. We ain't even talking about what we think and what we know. I'm telling you what I went through. There's absolutely no chance. The other day I'm coming out, you know, I don't think it's gonna work out. Hum ditty laugh, it do it, do it, don't, it don't, but I'm at I'm at a breaking point. Woman got a five-year-old son, the woman that I'm with. And like I tell you, I always say, if you ain't got no money, I can't breathe. That's like air to me. You know, I'm grinding, I'm grinding. Things gonna come overnight. You gotta grind for it. So I'll be fucked up a lot of times. A lot of times I'll be on my face, on cups, or whatever you want to call it. Because I ain't in the streets no more. Five-year-old kid tell me, you know, I'm used to I take him to school. I ain't got no car right now. I'm walking, my car broke down. So I walk him around a corner to the school every day when I'm over there with her. So one day I go to take him to school. Five-year-old, remember, he say, um, I get some chips today. I'm usually getting him chips every day, two bags of chips of juice. That shit like six, seven dollars, if that. Today I ain't got it. I ain't got a pot and a piston and a window to throw it out of. I'm waiting on my check. Whatever check I get. He says to me, I said, damn, I ain't got it, man. You know, we'll do something when, you know, mom pick you up, whatever, whatever, but I ain't got it right now while I take you to school, so we gotta go straight to school. He says, Damn, man, you broke. He five. He said, You broke. Now mind you, we walk into school every day. He say, You ain't got no car, you ain't got no money, you broke. He five. He's five years old. I'm like, damn, I look at it, and his older brother with us, which is her son also. He like, yo, don't say that no more. Don't do that no more. He knows that's disrespect the 17 year old. So I'm like, damn, the whole time we walk into school, I'm just in thought in there. I'm like, damn, man. Not to him, but you know, it's just me and him. The son got to get on the bus to go to another school, the older son. I'm like, damn, how five-year-olds just don't know what the difference between bro well, maybe the generation is more enhanced now. Learn in a faster degree at my generation when we was five. Maybe so. But it leads me to believe that your mother was having conversation. If not talking to straight, and I say it leads me to it, may not be true, but it may not be true. You saying, nah, shut up. You talking about some nah. Ain't no five-year-old boy just learning that out the blue, just saying. Hold up. Ain't no five-year old boy waking up saying, yeah, you broke, you broke. You ain't got no like this leads me to believe that maybe the mother, maybe the mother was saying some things around him that was about me. Because I wasn't. Maybe it's you. I'm not hold up, man. Let me talk, man. You want me to talk and open up and then you cut in. I didn't actually got the floor. I didn't actually cut it up, but go ahead. You know what I'm saying? So I'm like, damn, man. I'm the whole time I'm thinking, like, how can a five-year-old boy conjure that thought up like you broke? You you go back to I ain't got no car, and then you say, Yeah, you ain't got no money, you broke. Five. And I can see if the 17-year-old said it to me. He ready. He been around. Five? Five? They don't even know his money to spend yet.

SPEAKER_04 45:26

Like, come on, man. Let me say something though. Y'all walking to school. Yes. So he's thinking that you ain't got no car because y'all walking to school. Yes. When we did have a car. Well, listen, you wait in your check to come, so then you now you check that you check, you're supposed to get paid, you check coming, and you ain't had no money at the time. So now y'all walking, she ain't got no car. And then you didn't buy him no no chips. So he's saying you ain't got no car because y'all walking and saying you ain't buying no chips because you ain't, because you ain't uh saying she ain't got no money because you ain't got buying no chips. So it wasn't, it may not have been because of her talking to him at that that the moment he was in, y'all was walking and you couldn't buy him no chips.

SPEAKER_05 46:03

No, bro. So that's probably a pride thing for you. You got what you got though. No, that wasn't a pride thing, bro. Yo, family, let me know. Don't know five-year-old conjure that, man. I don't know, young. This five years old thing. He's like, yeah. And then he said, didn't he say this is what he said. Not five. That's they do. Not five. But this is what he said at the end. My mom got all the money. My mom right here, and she walking too.

SPEAKER_04 46:25

But the thing about it is, as a kid, it's probably just your pride to really buy it.

SPEAKER_05 46:29

Man, I ain't messing with. I don't advise you to get a woman with kids of her own because then my thing is, these not your kids. I done went through a lot. I uh, you know, you know, I might be fucked up or whatever. I done went through a lot. I done came to you a couple times. Yo, bro, give me $100 real fast, man. I gotta feed my family, bro. Hold on, hold on. You mean it ain't nothing in the fridge in the crib. And I got a son of my own, but my son, he's cool, he with his mom, but I'm feeding me, I'm feeding her, I'm feeding both her kids.

SPEAKER_04 47:00

Yeah, but I'm saying this, yo, listen, so yo, uh, Nitro, what he said, he would have gone home and ate all the snacks. But me? Nitro. He said. I ate the snacks? No, nitro, he says, oh, what did he say? Nitro said he would have gone home and ate all the snacks. Say, I would have went home and ate all the snacks. I'm sorry, uh, Tim Barr 17. He said, I would have gone back in the house and ate all the snacks. He'd have gone in the crib, ate all the things.

SPEAKER_05 47:22

Yeah, yeah, that's cool too to get his ass back. I get it, get his dog ass back, but I ain't, you know what I mean? It just messed me up bad. Fire old kid. Like, man, you keep talking about fire, shut your ass up right now, let me get the floor. Like, that shit be like disturbing, man. Like, that shit fucked with me. And I'm I'm trying, I'm working. I'm working, I'm not out here just sitting around like this. I, you know, right now I'm a little unemployed. I'm gonna get another job or whatever, whatever, you know, thing. You know, I don't know, but yeah, yeah. It is what it is. But uh that right there didn't sit well with me. A five-year-old kid telling me, yeah, you broke, you ain't got no car. Like, how you know what broke is? How you know what, like you five. He's a kid. That leads me to believe that conversations is being had around you and you're soaking it up and you give it to me. I may be wrong, but this is what I leads me to believe. So now, when the question that you asked should have meant, no, you shouldn't make because they're not your kids and they gonna say little wild shit, and it might make you feel uncomfortable. Me, I'm giving you a real live experience. This just happened not even uh 200 hours ago. Not even 200 hours ago. So it made me step back from the joint and be like, dang, when this bag does come through, and I do got this car, and I do got money for chips every day. You only like me because I got this, and you ain't speak nah. I'm just you know, some things is everybody can't take the ride. And things one thing about pursuing money and greatness and success, things is gonna fall off. It's like a rocket. You know, when a rocket first takes off, it got all the type of uh boosters on it and all that, but as it reached certain altitudes, shit uh come off of it, where it can be lighter to make it into orbit and shit fall off. These boosters right here, this engine right here, this right here, shit falls off, and that's life. When you're trying to reach that point, no matter how it happened, it happened. But certain things, it just everybody can't take that ride, and that's a real fact, man. I agree. And it hurt me to say it because I love this individual, but I agree. It's certain things in my face that I can't overlook because I'm always remembering that for the rest of my life, even if I stay with her. I'm gonna be like, ah, your son knows how to tell me I was broke and I ain't got no car and I'm broke. He's five. I can see if the 17-year-old would say that to me. Now that's one thing. Which you you probably wanted to fight then, because he's 17. No, I I would've no, I'd have known for sure. I wouldn't want to fight because it's still her kid. I'd have known for sure. Then with this little five-year-old saying that now I'm in I'm in turmoil. Like, damn, how the fuck he know that? Like, what the hell? You know what I mean? When that june. But it is what it is, man. You know, I'm out here, I'm a layman, man. I ain't no rich nigga, man. I'm out here trying to get it, man, and telling my story about it, man. And you know, let's go.

SPEAKER_04 50:18

Yeah, but I would, I would definitely, I would definitely um, this is my opinion. This is my opinion. You know, just to go back to what you used to talk about with that rocket taking off and and everything falling off.

SPEAKER_05 50:29

Um, I want to give a shout out to Tavan, uh, T-Y-E-V-A-N S206. He said black. He said black won't end up a star. This was super transparent, but that kid definitely learned that from somewhere. I'm not stupid. He's five.

SPEAKER_04 50:44

All right, but when you read that, you gotta read something else. Um, somebody else is saying that's opposite of that because it is a difference, a difference in opinion. You can't take what you want to take from a situation. All right, all right. Well, we're true.

SPEAKER_05 50:53

You gotta look at the everything true, true one in blood. Stout out the true one in blood. Say, Black, you and your feelings, bro.

SPEAKER_04 51:01

Maybe, maybe, maybe, but I'm just saying, you gotta you gotta take both of both of them the same way. You can't just take one and then you know what I'm saying? Is it in dollar bills?

SPEAKER_05 51:10

He said he's only repeating what he heard from somewhere else. But let's I'm gonna say hold up, hold up. The Philips said, Philips 5895 said, bro, five years old. Are you on TikTok watching creators with some bust damn chains? Be real, guys. Like, for real, like how do you learn that at five, bro? Then another one, uh Diesel. Uh um, excuse me, uh Terrell Walker 1312. If I said that wrong, I apologize. He said Youngboy killed the whole relationship. Yeah, bro. He did for real. You sitting over here being biased. Oh no, no, no, no, no. Maybe it's like both. Listen, man. All I'm saying is this. No, I'm a realist. Well, how the fuck you know that it's five years old, nigga? And that's just the fuck it. What? Yo, like what? See, all he wanna do is laugh, y'all.

SPEAKER_04 52:01

Because yeah, I'm just saying, though, man. Like you, you, you, you think you be a little like you just like you acting a little crazy. I'm just saying, man, because look, no, I didn't talk.

SPEAKER_05 52:11

Shout out to uh um um um uh um let me see uh uh T TBY the way 155. He said, Black, did you talk to your lady about I didn't because what what she's gonna give me to appease me? I didn't. There is no doubt in my mind that he heard this conversation. But listen, I'm gonna say something about this. That go ahead, go, go, but go freak. I'll give you the four in there because I want to please make me feel a little bit better. Let's be clear though. I want to be clear because you don't go through these side problems, but go ahead.

SPEAKER_04 52:42

I go you know I'm going through these side problems.

SPEAKER_05 52:43

But go ahead. I'm not no, I see these.

SPEAKER_04 52:46

So so that's a that well I'm going through probably worse. But the thing, the thing about it is this though. The thing about it is this. When you have when you when you when you have a woman, right? And uh a woman, the worst thing that a woman can do is talk to a child or have a problem or or or bring the issues to the forefront in front of the kids. If that's happening, bro, you might as well throw the whole crib away. Because it's gonna be an uphill battle for you trying to fix it. Your kids are in your business. I go through it now. Kids in your business, kids they they go through it, and you know what I'm saying? You gotta sometimes you gotta just throw the whole crib away, man. Start over, man. And have your kids in your own in your own setting. And you know what, I'm finally starting to believe that. Yeah, because like people, people gonna do what they want to do, man, and people gonna play the victim. Like you the victim. I'm a victim. Nah, man. No, no. People are placing themselves in positions and doing things, and then when it doesn't pan out to how they like it, they resort to putting involving the children. And they want to involve the kids, not knowing that they destroying the children at the same time, but more than the outcome is more now. You get the kids destroyed. Now the kids are looking at the significant other or the father, because it could be it could be happening with with a mother and a father. A woman may be winning more than you, and you're trying to you work at another job. I see it. I got a situation situation now, I see it. And you know, it's a brother I know, he got he he worked. He worked all we he worked in, you know what I'm saying? Like I was we work like in Norrestown. I might as well say work in Norrestown, his wife, she got some money, she got, she got a good job, working with the city. She works, she does something like forceptor. And he asked for the car, he gotta take the bus all the way out there. She don't want to go take the car or pick him up. He gotta call somebody that I know to come get him from work. I'm like, why like why is she why is she carrying him like that? Why are you carrying him like that? And the person I know gotta get up and go there and go get him. But that's corny, bro. Yeah, but and then and then the person talks about the person too, man. I oh it's just the worst 25 years of my life. But you still with the with the person. It's just crazy. You keep feeding, feeding to the child, then the the kid, but the the the flip side to it, the kids are gonna get older and start seeing through whoever it could be mom or dad. But nine times out of ten, I'm not being biased, but women sometimes because of the emotional fact that they involve the kids in the business, especially I'm gonna be real.

SPEAKER_05 55:25

I I can't say that, but this is what I think. But I think it's like when like for you to involve your kids five, seventeen, even seventeen and night, like your kids in your personal relationship, you're a broken woman. These are your best friends. If I'm telling my kid, man, five years old, man, your mommy ain't got no money, man. Mommy ain't got no car, we gotta try to figure something else. Like mommy a whore. Or huh? Or you say mommy's a whore.

SPEAKER_04 55:49

I'm saying we told your kid, your mom's a whore. No, I'm not even saying about the girl. Somebody did that to their kid, told them that told their kid that they mom was a whore. You affecting the child. I don't know what you mean. What you talking about, if a man goes to their child, he beefing, I'm beefing with my my old my wife or whoever.

SPEAKER_05 56:07

Well, yeah, but that's her son, too. We talking about we talk about different aspects of this not your kids.

SPEAKER_04 56:12

No, I'm saying, whether it's your kids or not. All right, well, whether whether it's your kids or not, whoever kids it is, to involve a child, whether it's your stepchild or your child, to involve a child in your business is ultimately gonna affect the child more than it's gonna affect you. Because we grown. After a while, we're gonna get off our own. Shake it off. That kid gotta remember, I remember when my mom said this. I remember when my mom said that, I remember when my dad said that. I done seen men talk to their son like, man, your mom a whore. You know what I'm saying? So somebody like you out of pocket. Even if that's true, you don't go on and say that. If she is a whore, you keep that to yourself. You shouldn't even say it to her.

SPEAKER_05 56:50

I just gonna lie, we human beings. If something came out and she did something, I'm petty Eddie. Call me the boy, petty.

SPEAKER_04 56:56

How are you gonna be mad about somebody doing it to you then? No, I'm just saying, if she did it to me first, it don't matter, let it go. She's a woman. I'm just this is my this is this is how I look at it, let it go. But you Yeah, I'm not telling the, I'm not telling my son and mom a whore. I'm not doing that. Yeah. Uh King underscore Tony just said giving up a donation. Appreciate you, man. I said, black kids watch YouTube and be on the internet. My seven-year-old does uh fortunately he's not watching bad stuff, but he does repeat stuff he watches. Yeah, of course. But they repeat what they watch, but when it's when it's in close quarters with mom or dad, when dad picks up the baby, he like, yeah, mom, you mom, I hate your mom. Hello, trifling self, whatever you say to her. Then when the when the when the mom get back to the dad, I mean when mom got the kids back, she's bashing the dad. All it's like a it's you're ping-ponging with the child in the middle, being a referee. Can't do that, man.

SPEAKER_05 57:48

But do you check him? Check who? Like, like, like the incident I just told you about with the the girl mom. I mean the girl's son. Is that something to be checked about? Who? The little boy? Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 58:00

Nah, because you're not gonna get the Noah gonna be. That's not nothing to be checked about, so saying it may not have started with you. It ain't it may not have started with him. You should go to the person that you thought it started with and have not check her in a minute, but have a conversation with her. Like, listen, he said this, I want to make sure he's not getting this from you. Okay. And then she says, Well, no, I didn't say it to him, or ish, or she's like, yeah, I did say it to him, whatever case him, then you can address it from there. But if she did say it to him, my this is my opinion, I think I don't think it's ever gonna get any better. So you might as well just chalk the chalk it up. But if she if she didn't say it to her, she should be able to go to that little boy and check him and with you standing there, and then make it be like, listen, he this is my husband, this is who this is, and then your father. Yeah. Yeah, because at the end of the day, we ain't gonna talk about his father. Then another another thing, stepfathers, and this is and this is this guy's come home from jail. Another thing stepfathers get is if a child has a, if you, if you could become a stepfather to a child that has a deadbeat dad, a lot of the frustration from that kid is really towards the dad, but you're gonna get the blunt of it because you're around. No, but it's still gotta be checked, that's no excuse. But I'm just saying you gotta understand the kid is traumatized. So you're gonna get a lot of that. You're gonna get a lot of that first. So you gotta have thick skin. No, man. Somebody gotta have, so I gotta put up with this. Fuck no. You gotta deal with it. No, I'm not putting up with a lot of this. You don't gotta put up with it, but you gotta expect it. You gotta expect it to happen. I'm gonna tell you right now, man. If I'm going there thinking that somebody just could you spend money in the house and that you you there, that the kid gonna gonna go gonna uh not disrespect you. They got issues with their real biological parent. So they they just taking it out on you. And it's up to you to have thick skin and be able to endure it and also to expect it to happen. So you come home from jail. I wouldn't advise you going in there doing nothing like that because you fighting a super uphill battle. And it's some dudes that did it. We got a friend of ours that came home and did it. And and he, I don't know the situation, but I I hear they still together. But maybe the woman that set the brownie the boundaries with the kid where the kid is not being disrespectful. But it's always a you know, it's always a it's always uh just a chance that you can, you know, with your feelings hurt or end up being feeling just disrespected by our kid.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:15

I want to give a shout out, personal shout-out right now to Terrell Walker 1312. He said feek. He said feeks need to be in politics because he always wanted to take the high route. This nigga is out his goddamn mind. Because it's the best route to take, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:31

It's the best route to take. You gotta take you gotta look at it like with a grain of suck. Why you gonna sit here worried about what a what a five-year-old said?

SPEAKER_05 1:00:37

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Shout out to uh, look at you. He said the next thing he's gonna say, he said next shorty, he said next thing Shorty gonna say is you not my daddy. Do you care? It's the truth. It's the truth, but yeah, but still it's disrespect. If I'm in there paying them bills, I'm helping. Well, I ain't doing that right now, but you know, I'm I'm doing what I can. So fuck it, I am paying them bills. If I'm coming, man, it's been times, man, I come to you, bo, bo, I ain't got no money, I'm waiting for my check, man. Give me a little bean 50 to feed my family. But the thing about it, and you'll give it to me. Yeah, but the thing about it. I go out there and spend that whole 150, I spend 142 boxes of pizza, goddamn jugs of milk. This nigga make the five-year-old drink jug gallons of milk in six hours, the cups all over the career, but half a cup of milk left sitting here overnight. I'm like, damn, the fuck? But I know how to be conservative and know how to stretch my outfit. Man, fuck all that. Man, we we we under siege. We ain't got nothing in this refrigerator. You talking about it as a kid. When they gonna learn, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:01:42

But you know, like, people go through something. I'm listening listen, we all in this in this together. We all go through the same, a lot of the same stuff. And it's frustrating, bro.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:50

I done been through it, man. No, hold on, got a question for you. Somebody just asked you a question. What's the question? C dollar bills. He said, where does the respect for the man come in at, though, feak? With the woman.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:00

If the woman is not respecting you, then the kid's not gonna respect you. And if and if she listen, I'm I'm not done. I'm not done. Up down, all around, y'all. And then she and then she did, you might as well, if she can't, if you can't establish this respect with her, you might as well just chalk the whole relationship and move on. If she can't fix that, I'm telling you, man, we all go through the same stuff. So it's gonna be even worse with a guy coming on from jail. Because now he's gonna papers at the house and he said any any anything wrong or try to chastise a kid, he's going to jail. Because women are, especially moving into her, her setting, she's gonna be emotional, man. Especially about our kids. They her kids, they're my kids. Yeah, they hurt the truth. And even with even with a biological father, I'm gonna tell you how it goes. A woman, they are their kids when it comes time to make a decision for the child, but they're your kids when it's time to spend money. Take care of your kids. But it's my kid on time for me to determine what they want to make decisions, where they go to school, everything. They that's that's that it's their kid. You say we'll do my kid, but when it comes time to spend some money, it's your job. Better take care of your kids. That's how they do you.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:10

You're right, you're right. I agree, and then that's what I would say, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:13

That's how they do you. You know what I'm saying? People will go against what they bel their beliefs to try to deter you from you know having access to your kids, how you want to have access to access to your kids. For real. A woman can still be in love with you and being moved on to another man, and he's still gonna try to block you from your kids and try to harm you. This is how it goes. And it's some men out here that's good that do the out of pocket too. Because then men that don't take care of their kids or not even around. And then the stepfather got step step in for you because you ain't around.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:48

And that was me. But I'm getting disrespected because I'm not doing a lot. It's a little bit because of my situation. So now it's like the stepfather getting disrespect. And I don't even call myself, I call myself Big Homie. You ain't gotta call me pop. Like she got mad at me one day. He said, Who is you to me? I said, Big bro. She cut me, how you gonna tell him you big bro and this and that? You you that that's like missing. I'm like, damn, what you want me to tell him I'm his father? He don't even respect me as a father at everybody. You know where his father at? I don't know where he at. Oh, 40 for market. What the fuck are you talking about? Where's father at? I don't know that. You're acting crazy. You acting crazy. But we are go ahead.

SPEAKER_04 1:04:34

Well, maybe, maybe, maybe the woman needs to allow the father to be in the kid's life. Or maybe the father needs to be in his kid's life.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:43

You know, people only want to be parents when it's convenient. I want to say something to uh Terrell Walker, 1312. He said, you did all them years behind bars, forget the relationship, sow your royal oats. You absolutely right, right? I'm getting old, man. I'm closer to death than I am life. You know what I'm saying? Not, you know, it's come I'm 45 and you know what I mean hit 50, man. I don't, yeah, I mean, when you sort your royal oats, you got little different broths that you hit, but they're not available when you want them to be available all the time. So it might be some nights I gotta go in the crib alone. I ain't looking for that shit no more. I ain't a young bull, man. I want to come in, man, the crib clean, man. I smell aromas, some chicken breast cooking all in the oven, bell peppers of onions and all that shit. Kids laughing all in the background. When they see me, it's me. Father, Abby. Abby is an Arabic word which means father. Like that, that's what I'm I like. I ain't looking to I like I told y'all before, man. If it's like that, man, I got two bad bitches that never cheated on me in my entire life, and they do what I say. Hannah and Pommelina. These bitches gonna go whenever I say go. Whenever I say go, how long I say go, or whatever. If it's like that, I'm gonna do it like that. And They ain't got no diseases, never had no diseases. I can hit them raw all day long. But my thing is, man, I want to come home to some comfort, man. I'm not looking for the, okay, I got Shanice over here. I got Jacqueline over there. I got Gwen down there. I mean, that was cool when I was a young boy, man. Like, that was cool. Like, I might get burnt by one of these bitches. Cause they know they ain't my. We're not exclusive. We're not an item. Like, I ain't looking to get this. I ain't never, you know, you know, knock on wood or humduty ladder. I ain't never been burnt or nothing like that of that nature in that category. And I ain't trying to get burnt at this big age. I don't need my dick sticking to my boxes. No, like whatever y'all say, how the pus come out. Now I don't need none of that.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:42

Let me let me tell you something then. Well, you got a very nice apartment, bro. A real nice apartment. Yes. Why don't you establish that in your apartment with somebody else? Bring your son over there, get your son there, and have an environment for you and him. What you talking about? I'm talking about. I'm talking about come home. You know, establish that environment with you. Yeah, but I needed some chicks in there. I started that with him. I need some yikes. All right, that's what I'm coming.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:04

He and that motherfucker trying to break the phone and go on this and go on that. Nigga, get your ass to sleep. I need to get his ass out of there. I'm trying to live with the mukes. Yeah, well, you got you can't put you in there. That's what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:16

That's that's part of the problem, though, bro. Man, get out of here. Listen, hear me out though. I'm just you my man. You walking him to school, but you you turn five too. She is keeping him away from me.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:27

We know that. Okay, but I'm saying though. Just keeping them racist on her own joint. You mean this and that? She would have dude. So it be hard. Your son ain't gonna never tell you that, bro. What tell me what?

SPEAKER_04 1:07:36

That you broke.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:36

Yeah, I know, I know he ain't. I never said he was.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:38

But try to find time to get to get him. Well, well, when I when you know what you mean, you know, get him and and go to walk up to school. You know what I'm saying? He ain't gonna tell you that. I would just put invest time in your own. You ain't gotta worry about that. He loves you unconditionally. So you got you maybe you try to put time in into something in the wrong thing, this is me get you into the wrong thing. You trying to chase yeeks, put the yeeks on hold. You got two, you said you got two women to start investing time in in a little uh more nasty. Get him in and start having him. You know what I'm saying? Whether you I take I just take take my I should go on the bus, man, my son and my kids, man. You know, I done did it. And they appreciate it. And and if they don't, that's on them. But one thing, one thing my kids ain't gonna never gonna say is that of that I wasn't there. You know, or I ain't never tried to be there. You know what I mean? But we gotta we gotta understand. But now for the guys who who coming home, and another thing too, I just realized too, man, with kids, man. I'm gonna say this like you gotta be there for your kids, right? But allow them to make decisions, you know, well be okay with the decisions that they make. You can't try to force a kid to try to do something that it's gonna force them, it's gonna push them away. But you gotta be there to try to cultivate them, give them advice. Where kids should listen to listen to their parents, but these kids nowadays want to do what they want to do. You know what I'm saying? And then they gotta be careful with the kids who want to style with you when it's good, when it's good over there with you, and they want to style with mommy when it's good over there with mommy. You gotta be careful, man, with that too. And that's why it's important for even though if you're not with your kid's mother, y'all have to be able to co-parent together and be on the same page when it comes to disciplining the child. You can't put your personal feelings in front of what's important. Because you want the kid to have equal respect for their mother and their father. You know, that's just how I see it. Because if if if we're not doing that, you can tell a relationship where somebody in the one of the parents is putting themselves before the actual child's well-being. It's my daughter or this my son, or whatever kids, whoever's doing it, but you can tell when that type of relationship is going on because the kid is gonna get older and it's gonna be bad, man. You're gonna see it, and it's just terrible. But, you know, I don't know everything. But anybody in jail coming home, I would not advise you to go home and be be no step parent.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:00

Yeah. It's not gonna I'm not saying it's not gonna work, but nine times out of ten, it's not gonna work, man. Yeah, I mean, especially if the kids a little older, man. If you ain't coming in there rich with that bag, it's definitely not gonna work. Because now that mask is shit. That'll keep them mute, your money or buy them out. Which it ain't really supposed to be like that. Ain't supposed to be cause because I could do. If I had that bag, that little boy wouldn't have said nothing, we'd have got in the car and drove to school that morning. He'd have been in that motherfucker bouncing around with bad.

SPEAKER_04 1:10:31

But it'd been something else, though. It'd have been something else on his mind. Well, well, it was not that. Yeah, but it's something else could have been on his mind. Baby, you never know. I don't really like him. I just I got you know, sometimes kids are smart, may not really like you. No matter how much money you give them, whatever. He might, when you tell him to do something, he may not like you. He may only just accept it from when you tell him kids is crazy, man. I'd have had some kids say, so I'd have had step, I got a stepson. I he had said some stuff to me I didn't like. But now he's 30-something years old. But the thing about it is, you know, at the time I had to have thick skin. You know, and I did everything for this kid.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:10

Everything for him. And you know what I want, I want to I'm gonna just say this with Dark Skin Beauty just said. She said, it actually can though. You have to have the right woman and you gotta be standing on your business. And this is what you teach me every day. Yeah. What you say, man? You said you you went in with a lot of shit that wasn't right. If you'd have married that woman from the drive, like she bring it up to me now. I lied on you one day. I said, damn, man. She's like, that though he was getting married. I said, yeah, Feek got the ring. He got up in his apartment because he knew I wasn't gonna marry you yet. And she like, yeah, I said I could show it to you. He'd send me a picture of it in there. I lied. I lied because I knew I was wrong. And it was a lot like she like the month later, she like, Feek still got the ring, huh? Just sitting up there in this drawer.

SPEAKER_04 1:11:51

But that's that's- And then it was just, you know what I mean. As your fall, you went into a wrong. Yeah, I went to the room. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. You you may have to chalk it or step back and then let it change and then come back totally different. And then you might have a different outcome. But you keep trying to put the same key in the same door and open, inspect and open the door, and then coming in is a whole different situation. Nah. You gotta, you, you gotta, you gotta, you gotta step away from that whole situation and come back. Because it's the same thing in there. You put that key in that door, open the door, it's the same stuff because it's the same key. You gotta change them locks and all that, man. Come back, it sounds different, and you might open the door. And maybe that chicken in there cooking with the green peppers and the onions, and the kids may be in there happy to see you when you walk through the door. But but you know what? This is just a collective issue, man. That's just how I see it, you know. I'm not perfect, man. Like I go through stuff all the time. Majors, major situations. No, but I just try to keep the high rule. I I take a beating. Taking a beating now. A life's beating. But I gotta fight back sometime. Like, I'm saying, listen, I'm fighting back, yo. I'm fighting back. I listen, man. I advise anybody, anybody who's going through something out here, man, do not sit that sit back and let nobody take advantage of you. Do not do it. You fight back. You go ahead and fight back. You know, people choose a weapon of war. You know what I'm saying? They choose what weapons of war. We see it all the time. You a woman want to go take you to child support and fight you in there and all that, do all that stuff. That's what you're gonna do. Let's just choose what weapon of war. I'm gonna go in there and fight that battle with you. You know what I'm saying? You go, you, that's that's what you do, you go in there and fight. Don't don't let the people just get get over on you, man. But I want to say something too. Shout out to M4 Mansa for the donation. Appreciate it. It's a black. Would you be putting up with that BS if you had that bag? Of course. You know the goddamn. What's his name? It's a uh M4 Mansa. M4 Mansa. Come on, man. So why you put out why you put out with it when you ain't got the bag, though? What's the difference? Because I love her. So a bag defines who you are as a man? No, it don't, but it makes me feel better. All right, but it makes me feel better, Pete. Yo, but listen, you gotta, you gotta, listen, we gotta establish, and this goes to the women too. What woman has to establish she's a woman first, and a man got, we gotta establish we men first. Telling nobody that's gonna be.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:04

Yeah, but if you a man and can't come with flowers and shit like that, you ain't a man. But listen, bro, like you used to say men first, like if I can't break flowers, if I can't do this. What type of man got a woman he can't bring his girl flowers?

SPEAKER_04 1:14:17

But listen, you can do you, I can do what I can do. And you knew this from the gate what was going on in one situation, therefore, it is what it is. Maybe you should have stuck to paramela and uh and a and a sister, whatever you were doing at the same time. Maybe you rushed into that. But it's a lot of factors. You gotta we can't just look at the woman and say it's her. What how did you come into the situation? What did you bring to the table? And this is talking about guys coming from jail. You come from jail with no job, nothing, nothing to do, that's uh that's gonna be productive in in and actually in the house. We can sit down and read all the books we want. That stuff, that stuff be in and out of the air of people, especially when their stomach is ground. You know what I'm saying? But firstly, I want to say this we gotta check ourselves. Check yourself. You don't fix yourself, man. You gotta come home and fix yourself first and work worry about you. I'm telling you, man, because once you do that, you ain't got you're not gonna be you're gonna be too strong for somebody to tell you now. You might hold up, I came home to like you won't you won't be able to bypass it. But once you go into a situation and your heart is attached to this and attached to that, your heart attached to chaos. Oh, she just tripping, she all right, you start stooping it under the rug. And all it's doing is making her turn turn to a stronger, stronger, disrespectful monster. And now she and now you can't control her. And now she said stuff about you see what Gilly said. They talk about your dead mom. They want they wanted to. They said the worst things in the world to you. You know why? Because we because we've been letting it slide. Men too. A woman who let a man who keep, oh no, he just, he he loved me, he loved me. If you keep letting him disrespect you, it's he's gonna turn into a beast. And they say, you know, you might slap your head off your shoulders and he'll start beating you and doing all type of stuff to you. And then your self-esteem is gonna be shy, and you're not it's gonna be a time where you're gonna feel like you want to kill yourself. So we gotta check ourselves and and our attentions from the gate. I wouldn't advise anybody to go into a situation without preparing themselves to be independent first. This is how I see it. That's my opinion. I could be wrong. I could be wrong, but that's how I feel. But you know, I wouldn't advise guys to do that, bro. And I want to say this too. We got a little bucks coming up this uh this week. Um, you know, for anybody who want to watch it, man, you know, uh Lil Bucks from Philadelphia, man. He did a he did some time. You know about the street violence, I think when he was out, the murder rate was around 500 some killings that was going on. You know, not saying that he was doing, not saying whatever, but he they they these guys had a lot going on in the streets, whereas though it was a lot going on, a lot of these guys lost family, friends, and so forth and so on. But he has an interview that's dropping this week. Um, it's crazy. I think you can see a clip out right now. We posted a clip from him from the interview that's ready to drop. Um, so if you can become a member, we definitely appreciate that. Don't forget to hit the like button right now and subscribe. You know, we got a lot of people. Here about these phone calls right now. We want to hear from y'all, man. It's almost like 300 people in this chat right now. Let's have a conversation, man. 215-316-4492. That's 215-316-4492. Don't get shy now.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:24

Yeah, man. Please, please call up, man. And a lot of, like I say, I always say this, but I'll be because I'll be wanting to hear from the ladies, man. I'll be wanting, because the ladies got that their voice matters, man. They the mothers, man. They the mothers, they the queens, man, they the nurturers, man. Like, give me some feedback. Even argue with me. Because I argue with your ass all goddamn layup here until we get it right. But we're gonna come to a goddamn solution. We're gonna come to a goddamn solution. So, ladies, man. I'm not I'm not saying men call in too, but I want to hear more so from the ladies, man. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:55

Tell us in the gells, we speaking with. Who this I'm sorry? How you doing today? How about you see? What's going on? Who you speaking with? The C, the C from North Jersey. What's up, C Shout to North Jersey? What's going on, bro?

SPEAKER_03 1:18:11

Ain't nothing, man. I was I was watching the show and uh the kid might be talking what he heard, but you gotta show him. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. You know, later on I'll have you, little bro. You know what I mean? Yeah, you're right. Uh do anything crazy, I don't believe you will, but certain guys that'll make them, you know, come out and do things they're not supposed to.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:38

You're right. It'll push you to go selling some dope. You're definitely right, man. You that the wrong woman to have you out here making the wrong choices and she leave your ass if you go back to jail. And thanks for calling in, too, man. Appreciate you, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:52

All right, brothers have a nice one.

SPEAKER_04 1:18:56

Yeah. Yeah, man. My thing is this, man. I just think that you know, we gotta understand we gotta prioritize ourselves. And it's not just for the men, it's for the women too. You know? You know, you gotta prior prioritize, build your relationship with the right people. You know? Call in y'all 215-316-4492. Tell us from the jails we're speaking with.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:25

Yo, Pete, this is Alex from Atlanta, bro.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:27

Shout out to Atlanta, what's up, bro? What's going on?

SPEAKER_03 1:19:29

I'm actually I'm actually surprised I got through. I'm not I'm not gonna watch it.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:34

Uh man.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:36

But uh, yeah, I agree with you with what Black was saying, man. Like you gotta earn that kind of stuff, that respect. You can't just expect it even from a five-year-old. And having a family is a reward, it's a it's an earned thing, it's not an automatic. So you gotta still put in the work to get where you want to get to.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:02

Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:03

Um right now I'm in Atlanta, I'm 33, I have no kids, no family. I just bought a house. And I still got more work to do to earn a whole family. So, you know, it's it's just it's just level to it.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:19

Yeah, man. Thanks for that.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:20

Also, kids kids disrespect everybody.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:23

They do.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:24

Right. My dad was in my life my entire life. I saw my dad basically every day. I still disrespect him. And I still got discipline.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:37

Yeah, well listen, man. Shout out to Atlanta, man. Thanks for calling in. We appreciate your call, man. Have a great night.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:42

Yeah, me too.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:43

All right, thank you. Tell us in the jails who you speaking with. What's up, man?

SPEAKER_03 1:20:56

What's going on with y'all?

SPEAKER_04 1:20:57

No, chilling, man. What's going on?

SPEAKER_03 1:20:59

I'm gonna touch on a topic, right?

SPEAKER_04 1:21:01

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:02

So, so as far as with the kid and different things like this. When when when dudes come home, right, it it's not ideal to jump in a relationship, right? Because of what blacks folk are, right? As far as like, because you still deal with insecurity, right? And a lot of us as men because it's pushed on is that we gotta get to the band, we gotta get the money. So when we don't got the money, it messes with our self-esteem and our self-worth, right? And and the morals and principles get diluted and pushed to the side because everything revolves around the money and not actually what the man brings to the table. It's more than just money that we bring to the table, right? So when a five-year-old is running around talking about you broke because you don't have something that's materialistic, we're giving that more value than what more of the principles that we might be trying to uh push on to the kid, right? Because if a five-year-old thinks that not having money in a car is the definition of being broke, ain't no telling how that's gonna play out as he get older. This little five-year-old might be willing to do anything not to be broke as he gets older, if he thinks because oh, I don't got a will and I don't got no money, so I gotta get out here and get it. You know what I mean? If he's not taught properly. So a conversation can be had with the five-year-old. You don't gotta cuss him out and grind him up, but you you you try to provide context because the mind's speaking out of anger. So the five-year-old don't know that this boy just did a dub and that certain things he can't get because of you know his criminal background. He all he hears and know is that, oh, you don't got it, I ain't trying to hear it, you broke. So you gotta have a conversation with him, like, listen, youngin, money ain't everything, woopy, woopy, woop, and don't let you, because that five-year-old might fall into that same situation as he gets older, and then he might feel less than, right? So it's like, I'ma give you, I'm gonna I'm gonna give you an example, right? And I don't mean to be wrong, but this is a touchy situation because I've been there. I came home and I made it my business not to get involved with no women. I told, I gave myself at least a year because I ain't had nothing. And I don't want that pressure on my back. I already got kids, right? Already got kids. But now I'm bringing my broke ass to a to a chick that she don't got no time invested in me, but because she looked good on the outside, I'm trying to get with her. But the reality is, what do I got to offer? I'm broke. I'm working at a job agency making $8 an hour, right? So let me let me get right with me first before I bring my nonsense and my baggage to a whole situation. Let me at least try to make that in a buzz. You know what I'm saying? I had a chick, and I'm gonna hang up after this because I'm um I'm I had a chick, right? Nice bag on that I had met, but I purposely didn't get involved with her because I was trying to kick the perk habit. You dig what I'm saying? And I'm like, damn, I'm fresh out the joint. I'm gonna need a perk if I if I wanna lay down with Shorty. But I know that's part of the downfall. So I had to fight my designs and fall back off of that. I had to stand on the morals and principles. So the discipline starts when you get out here. Like you in jail, you force the jerk off. You dig what I'm saying? But out here, they at your disposal. So where's the discipline at? So this is why when dudes come home and and first thing they want to do is hop in a relationship, this is why they crash and burn. Because they really ain't address those desires that they like, like, like, because you ain't really, you don't really got time to fight and address your desires and your and your and your and your inadequacies in jail because everybody's all barbarian time in that joint.

SPEAKER_02 1:25:08

Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:09

You don't you don't got time to sit down and really evaluate yourself. Yeah, you might cry and shed a few tears, but you're not getting the help that you need in that joint because you gotta put the mask on. You gotta be ready to go at all times in that joint. But out here, everybody ain't on jail time. You know what I'm saying? So all them things that you were suppressing in jail is now coming to the forefront. Why? Because now you living life on life term.

SPEAKER_04 1:25:35

Thanks, man. Appreciate you. Appreciate you, man. Enjoy your night, bro.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:38

All right, y'all, y'all, y'all too. Shalam alaikum.

SPEAKER_04 1:25:41

Yeah, that was he made a lot of sense with that, man. He made a lot of sense. Like, basically put yourself first, get yourself established, get everything else. Because you're trying to come into a situation with the what-ifs, or I got this possibly coming, or I got this possibly going on. Nah, it ain't gonna work because their situation is what it is right now. Say they're looking for relief from whatever right now. Tell us from the jails we're speaking with.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:11

Area.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:12

Shout out to EA, what's up, man? What's going on, bro?

SPEAKER_03 1:26:14

So what the situation, bro? Nothing to do with him coming home from the television. It's just the way it is. Fuck them kids. Let me kids ain't yours. Them kids ain't yours, they're gonna never be yours. When you step into a situation, you're an assistant parent. Period. And that's just that. You can you can help out and everything, but you know, them kids ain't yours, man. It don't have nothing to do with you coming home from the penitentiary, man. That's just how it is. That's that. You know what I mean? Fuck some kids. Let me tell you, man. I was dating this girl. I get to a crib, right? I'm at the crib. This little motherfucker hit me in the hair with an animal down. Give me your motherfucking feeding out on my shit. Fuck some bad ass kids, man. Man, get away from me. Get away from me and listen. There's no way around it, man.

SPEAKER_05 1:27:17

And I'm and I'm I'm agreeing with you, bro. Yeah, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:21

It's just how it is, man.

SPEAKER_02 1:27:22

For sure, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:23

I mean, like I said, you can come in and you can help out, and you can be there and all that. I mean, but end of the day, that's not your kids, man. How many stories you ever heard about like uh a dude taking care of a kid for 18 years, put the kid through college, or then the kid all of a sudden want the real dad walk her down the aisle and crazy, yo.

SPEAKER_04 1:27:49

Exactly. Or she handed a diploma to the real dad who ain't been there in there never.

SPEAKER_05 1:27:54

You right, bro. You pay for a whole outfit to get to graduate. Not paid for, not just paid for, but been there.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:00

The way through pay for the prom. You pay for the first car she got. You pay for everything. And then next he showed up, and she's so happy to see him forget about you sitting in the background.

SPEAKER_03 1:28:09

Absolutely. Because that's that's that's that man DNA. Period.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:14

Yeah, man. Thanks for calling in, bro. Man, appreciate it, man. This guy.

SPEAKER_03 1:28:17

Wait, wait, wait, wait, before I go.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:19

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 1:28:19

Black, you stay with me. Fuck them kids.

SPEAKER_06 1:28:23

Fuck them kids. Yeah. Yo, enjoy your night, bro.

SPEAKER_09 1:28:29

Salute.

SPEAKER_06 1:28:30

You're right, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:31

Yeah, man. 215-316-4492. 215-316-4492. But yeah, man, you know, the kids, man, I already all think you should be saying it about the kids. Man, look.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:42

Yeah, what? Fuck them kids, man. That's my man said, man. We up on chair.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:51

Nah, man. Yeah, you crazy. Shout out to uh Aleak Raw for becoming uh a member.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:59

We got the chat line going.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:01

I mean the Tell us from the jails we speaking with.

SPEAKER_03 1:29:03

Is that your fun? But you got Yeah, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:08

Call back, call back, man. Call back. Got the line. Tell us from the jails we speaking with.

SPEAKER_03 1:29:15

Yo, this is Aline from Jersey, but I'm actually out of Ethiopia.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:19

Ethiopia, shout out, man. Shout out to Lean. Ethiopia, man. Yeah, what's going on, man? How you doing, bro?

SPEAKER_03 1:29:25

No, I'm I'm straight. I'm straight.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:27

Yeah, we good. We're good. What's going on?

SPEAKER_03 1:29:31

Nah, so no, I'm just calling in for um for tells for the jail. They said you can call in live.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:36

Yeah, you all you on live right now. You're on live now. What's up? What's going on?

SPEAKER_03 1:29:41

Oh, bro? Oh, my bad. Yeah, yeah, what's up? Why are they coming slam with some of the casual? No doubt, no doubt. So now I just wanted to let y'all know that in regards to the whole stepfather situation. Um, my pop, you know, you did what 28 years um upstate in Jersey. And if he came home, like um what tall speaker saying, you gotta get yourself right first. If you could build up yourself, get yourself right first, then you're able to get through all the other stuff later much better. You know what I'm saying? You don't have to accept that disrespect or accept that humiliation, right? Just because you might love her or you know, you don't have the money to move how the way you want to move. But when you're able to come home, you know, get yourself a little trucking license, a little trucking business, got yourself going on. Now you're able to put yourself in a better situation. So that's what I would advise to get yourself right first and then you know prepare and move on to the next step.

SPEAKER_04 1:30:31

Exactly. I agree, man. Thanks for coming for calling in, man. Shout out to you, man. Ethiopia, man. Wow, shout out to you, bro.

SPEAKER_03 1:30:37

No doubt, no doubt, no doubt. Shout out to y'all too. Enjoy your night. Peace and love. No doubt.

SPEAKER_04 1:30:42

Yeah, man. That makes a lot of sense, man. And because my thing is, I think the best thing to do is to bring a woman into you into your situation. Because now the disrespect can't go rampant. That's just that's my son right here. So now she don't actually think thinking your son might say something about her. Or your kid, you gotta bring a woman into your circle. You can't just be rushing into her door. And that's not a problem, too, man. Like, all the money you trying to give a lady, man, should be giving it to your kids, man. Yourself or your child. Really, real rap, bro. You can't do what you gotta do for your kid. Why you trying to give something to a woman? It ain't gonna add it up at the end of the day. All that stuff should be dedicated to you and your child. You can't afford to take care of a woman right now. Sean a doctor's text me. What's up with a dot?

SPEAKER_05 1:31:36

Call in, y'all call in. The lines are wide open. We want to hear from y'all.

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SPEAKER_03 1:31:48

Oh, that's love from Delaware.

SPEAKER_04 1:31:50

It's who?

SPEAKER_03 1:31:51

Love from Delaware.

SPEAKER_04 1:31:53

Shout out to Delaware. What's up, bro? What's going on?

SPEAKER_03 1:31:56

I just I I'm listening, I'm watching you guys live and I was listening to uh uh two guys, one of the guys that's talking about uh you know not being a stepfather saying, you know, fuck the kids and all that. But you know, that's that's the way people think, but it is it it is a story out there. Like I've been married 22 years with a woman that her kids that wasn't even mine, no biological kids mine. And uh I did a total of 12 years out of my whole marriage. And her her kids, like I said, her kids ain't mine. They was like 10, 6, you know, like nine. That that age bracket. But hey man, I do I did lovely with 'em. Told me they was born, they used to have a little problem at school. When I got out of prison and I told my wife that I'm gonna I it's I'm another man. I ain't the person that I went in. It been lovely. I'm helping graduate. You feel me? Let me ask you a question though. Little job, you know, I mean you need to be there for the kids.

SPEAKER_04 1:33:07

Let me ask you a question though, right? I hear you. Let me ask you a question though. But the only reason why you was probably able to do that is because you had a woman who respected you as a man.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:15

And you know what she told me? She told me when I was incarcerated, she said, I would rather have your presence instead of presence. I don't need nothing, just be there. I'm we gonna make it regardless.

SPEAKER_04 1:33:25

Exactly. See, that's that's what we need, and that's why and that's why it works.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:30

Us men coming out of these prisons, man. It's women out here, you just gotta put your mind together and make it. That's it. It ain't hard, bro. I'm 51 years old. That's in a total of almost like 14 years of prison. You hear me? Straight up. And I don't got no problem with getting no job nowhere.

SPEAKER_02 1:33:46

For sure, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:47

People can worry about their backgrounds and all that, man. Listen, I'm gonna sell myself.

SPEAKER_02 1:33:50

For sure.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:51

I sold crack, all that shit. I know how to go to people and and make a move. And and not just, you know, cut the I I got a I got a little situation going on. I'm about to open a restaurant in Middletown, Delaware.

SPEAKER_02 1:34:02

Shout out to you, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:03

You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_02 1:34:04

Shout out to you, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:05

I'm a five times convicted fella, man. I came home and got my shit straight.

SPEAKER_04 1:34:09

That's what's up, man. Well, listen.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:10

It ain't hard, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:34:11

Well, listen, we wish you the best, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:14

Just say fuck the streets and do what we need to do with men.

SPEAKER_04 1:34:17

All right, well, thanks, man, for calling in. Enjoy your night, bro.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:19

I appreciate you, bro.

SPEAKER_04 1:34:21

All right. Tell us from the jails we speaking with. Tell us from the jails we speaking with.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:28

Yo, this Ben from Brisburg.

SPEAKER_04 1:34:31

Shout out to uh Ben from Pittsburgh, you say? Shout out to Pittsburgh.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:36

Yo, nah, Briggsburg, Bridgeburg, Connecticut, not Pittsburgh.

SPEAKER_04 1:34:39

Oh, oh, Brickford, Connecticut, Connecticut. I'm sorry, my bad. What's going on, man? How you doing? Shout out to Connecticut.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:43

How y'all doing? Hey, yo, black man, don't fuck that shit, man. Them kids gonna do what they want to do, man. But you is right though. He heard that shit from bro.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:54

Yeah, I know it. So Feek wanna act, bug, dumb it down, but I ain't crazy.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:59

Oh, yeah, you nailed that. You nailed that 100% on the head. He don't know. Yeah, bro. He don't know. You know what you know.

SPEAKER_09 1:35:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:07

Thank you, man, for the call.

SPEAKER_04 1:35:08

Let me stay safe. What? Tell us from the jails who you speaking with. Tell us from the jails.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:19

What's up, fam? Hey, this King Riley, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:35:22

What's up, King Riley? Where you calling from, man?

SPEAKER_03 1:35:24

What's up, fam? Jersey City.

SPEAKER_04 1:35:25

Shout out to Jersey City. What's so going on?

SPEAKER_03 1:35:27

Hey, nothing much. I just wanted to comment on the whole step parent thing or whatever. First of all, bro, it ain't never fucked the kids, ever. Kids practice learn behaviors. Can't blame the kids.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:38

Yeah, you're right. You're definitely right about that, bro. It was just in gifts. We was just laughing, but you're definitely right, though. It's never fucked the kids.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:45

Yeah, never. And um, I I got a stepson. Me and his mother ain't together. We ain't been together for some years. But we locked in forever. Like I'm picking him up for work as we speak. You know what I'm saying? So in certain situations, man, you know, I don't even use that word steps. That's my son, you know, and he's been a blessing. You know, made me better. You know, I came in his life at once, and I probably would be locked up with dead right now if he didn't come in my life when he did. You know, and um, but like you said, also, you know, if he had a if his mother was, you know, had a different mindset or whatever, it probably wouldn't have worked out like that. So every situation is different, man. But it ain't never fucked the kids, bro. I can't respect that.

SPEAKER_04 1:36:21

Yeah, shout out to you, man. Shout out to you, man. Shout out to the kid keep doing what you're doing, man. Joy night, bro.

SPEAKER_03 1:36:26

Oh yeah, you too.

SPEAKER_04 1:36:29

Yeah, man. You know, uh, you know, it's it's never F the kids, I agree. It's just that we you gotta understand where you're appreciated and where you tolerate it.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:41

Basically, when it's time to go and when it's time to stay, and that's just it. Yeah, that's just it in a nutshell. Again, it ain't fuck the kids, it ain't that, but if I'm getting the hell out of here, it's fuck the kids. Nah, man. Man, listen, I'm like good caller, just called in, you're right, it ain't fuck the kids, but if I'm not showing that respect, I get with you. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:37:02

And at the end of the day, you you you you're entitled to do what you want to do, but when you when you hear the term F the kids, that just means a lot. That's just like you ain't you don't got you don't have you, you don't say F somebody, that means you don't gotta care in the world for them. And I don't believe you feel like that because it's gonna happen to happen to the little kid. You you will be like, dang. Yeah, yeah, definitely that. So that's yeah, choose the workers wisely. Right. Whether we playing or, you know, or you know, or being serious, but just gotta choose everything. But I get it, what I get the point. Like he like, you know, like don't worry about the kids and what they gotta say.

SPEAKER_05 1:37:33

But the term that that that that term is like, you know. I don't uh the term a little harsh. Yeah, yeah, man. I want to I want to thank everybody, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:37:44

Tell some the jails. Tell some jails who you speaking with.

SPEAKER_00 1:37:48

What's up, family? It's dark skin beauty.

SPEAKER_05 1:37:50

What's up? Dark skin beauty. Yes, that's me.

SPEAKER_00 1:37:57

Um, so I wanted to say it, black, like in all seriousness, if you're not being respected, if all you're doing is like going unseen and not appreciated, you need to just take a step back and worry about you.

SPEAKER_06 1:38:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:38:14

You can revisit the situation at a later date. Like you're right, trickling the relationship with your friend, because that's most important. Get you right. And you know, if you gotta go back to that or if you still want that, then you do that. But I do know for a fact, like, people, faces, and things really block your blessings. So if it's country for you right now and it's staying like that and it's just getting worse, you gotta change your environment. You gotta change the people you're around. You it could be even person you lay with.

SPEAKER_05 1:38:47

Mm-hmm. You're right. Thank you. I appreciate that dark skin beauty. I appreciate and that that just touched me. And you're right. You right, you're right. Hey Dark Skin Beauty, you from you from New York?

SPEAKER_00 1:38:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:38:59

I can hear I can hear I can hear the uh the New York in your voice.

SPEAKER_00 1:39:03

I'm from Harlem, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:39:05

Shout out to Harlem, shout out to Dark Skin Beauty, shout out to Mayna, and I'm guys right there, man. Enjoy your night. You too. Appreciate you. It's always good to hear from people like her, man. She she hear from everybody, you know, but it's good to hear from people like her. She came with a, you know, a mellow tone. You know, she was on point. Listen, y'all, we'll take a few calls. We're about to get up out of here, man. It's time for mug rip. Uh, number 215-316-4492. It's 215-316-4492. Um, don't forget to hit the like button. Don't forget to subscribe. Shout out to all the members. Lil Bucks this week. Lil Bucks. Tell us from the jails who you speaking with.

SPEAKER_01 1:39:48

Oh, this is Carter from Washington.

SPEAKER_04 1:39:50

What's up, Carter? What's up? Where you been at, man?

SPEAKER_01 1:39:52

Oh, I've been killing, man. I have uh I have a question. Yeah, what's up? Uh topic.

SPEAKER_04 1:40:02

Say it again? Okay, go ahead.

SPEAKER_01 1:40:09

I got a young boy. Um he he recently got a plea deal, but it was like a horrible tree deal. Do you guys think incentivizing him to take it to trial? Because his lawyer already incentivized him to take it to trial. Well, he already pledg guilty in the first time.

SPEAKER_04 1:40:30

Well, if he pled guilty already, he he you know, in my opinion, the only way he can change that is if he um if he gets to the if he gets to the time when they start asking him questions before they get hand down the time when they ask him, are you are you uh comfortable with this your plea and so forth, so he can probably change it, change it then. But if you already plead uh pleaded out and waiting for sentencing, you know, but normally normally normally normally they they do the plea and sentencing at the same day, same time, right? Yeah? No. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:40:58

Once you plead out right there, the judge will sentence you right there. No, no, no, they don't. When you plead out, plead guilty in order, you gotta come back for sentencing. Okay. You don't get sentenced that same day. Yeah, so he gotta- That's like being convicted. You don't get sentenced the same day, you get found, you you get found guilty.

SPEAKER_04 1:41:11

Okay, so when they come back, if he's not comfortable with his uh with what he said, he gotta say, um, no, I I I didn't I don't agree to this uh this plea.

SPEAKER_05 1:41:20

And then he has to um Well if you plea out, if you plea out, you plead out to I don't know, you can't say I'm not no, no.

SPEAKER_04 1:41:26

You can't change it when you get it when they ask you not to ask you did you did you agree to this now? You're like yes, yes. Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So he can be like, no, I don't agree to that. That's the only way he can get out of that. But you know, my opinion, but yeah. That's what he probably would have to do. But yeah, man. That's that's that's what he has to do. He has to tell them that when he right before it before the judge sentences him.

SPEAKER_01 1:41:46

Yeah, because I was like, when I heard the plea deal, it was horrible. It was like it was it was none of a life-threatening injury, but but he got like 24 to life for Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:42:01

Well, he got sentenced already.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:02

Well, plead deal.

SPEAKER_04 1:42:03

Oh yeah, yeah, he got sentenced already. Yeah, he got a at least he got a number, he can try to fight that, man. But I want to say, man, thank you for calling in, man. Thanks for your call, man. Enjoy your night, bro. Shout out to uh Washington, man. Enjoy your night, bro. Yeah, we about to get up out of here. I want to thank everybody who was tuning in, man. Shout out to uh Dutchman, you leak, man. Where you was at, man. Um shout out to Dutchman, shout out to everybody that's in the chat, shout out to all the all the members, all the subscribers, all the people that share a video, all the people that's you know, uh commenting, whatever you're doing for Tells for the Gels, we appreciate it. Don't forget to follow us on all platforms TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, you name it. We are available, we're everywhere. And I want to shout out to you, young. Anything you want to say before we go?

SPEAKER_05 1:42:46

Man, stay free, man. Stay free, man. Get it together, man. We all walking together, man. I ain't above nobody, I ain't underneath nobody. We all human beings trying to figure it out, man. Hopefully this brings some, you know, some type of closure, not even closure, but understanding. You know, us up here, you know, because closure is when you're dead. That's when it's it's over with for real, for real. We just need understanding until then. But, you know, until then, man, you know, stay free, man. That's my whole thing, man. Stay out of them junks, man.

SPEAKER_04 1:43:14

I got one last question. Uh, you know, listen, um, I I won't say I even sat there and watched an hour and 17 minutes or something like that. But do you remember the name of the actual um the video?

SPEAKER_05 1:43:23

Um, I don't remember the name of it. I just pulled his name up, pulled up his whole full name, and was like, uh, such and such, such and such. Uh fuck videos or freak videos. Uh yeah. And then it popped up on Pornhub and he was he was doing him. Yeah. Hour and 17 minutes. Man, we out of here, man. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:43:43

God, it's crazy. What they can find is that it can find to all platforms. It's tells them the Joe's.