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SPEAKER_02How you feeling? Oh man, I'm good today, man. This Monday right there, right here today is better than last Monday. But you know, we here, man. We ain't nobody get locked up on our side anyway, you know, over the weekend or did anything that was, you know, uh breaking laws to the constitution of the state that we live in, we here, man. Hopefully, all the family is out there, everybody's in attendance for what we got to talk about today.
SPEAKER_00Another thing too, man. Um, you know, the thing is this I want to say, if anybody come up here, say something that people don't agree with, and they have their opinion that they have whatever they want to say, if somebody comes here and tell their story about uh their events and what they uh believe to be true, then that's on them. We're not here to say who's camping or not, because we just going off of a story. Somebody got a good story, somebody has uh a certain time. So people reaching out to us and say, Well, that person said this, this person said that, I got a problem with this, I got a problem with that. We don't know what you know what to do if it's if you got a problem with what somebody says. Well, if the story wasn't like that, it's not what really happened, so forth and so on. Or whatever reason you got uh a bone to pick with somebody now on duty, you got a you got an issue with something, somebody say up here, reach out to them, you know, because we can't really go back and and try to correct errors or whatever the case may be and say that somebody's lying. So we don't have the ability to do that. Maybe I'm we're probably gonna probably get a lot of detector up here, though. We can, you know, people can have hooks.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, we can do a light there. Because now they know if they come up, they gotta keep it 100% authentic.
SPEAKER_00But you might want to do that though.
SPEAKER_02We could surprise them with it. We don't we shouldn't even put that disclaimer out that we might we should just get it in play. You probably like, yo, we got a lot of detective stuff for you to take before you start, you know, or after the show. Everything that you said during this interview is correct and accurate to your knowledge. And yeah, you gotta ask after the show. But yeah, but um, let's go ahead and jump into it today.
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SPEAKER_02Um, you know, we know we we we talk about prison. Prison, the things that lead you to prison, uh one's conduct upon being released released from prison. Today I got a uh not a topic, but a question. And I'm gonna ask you the question. I'm gonna ask the audience and I'm gonna ask you to question from a man's standpoint and from a woman's standpoint, because you know everybody with the questions, everybody like to try to answer from a woman's standpoint. No, no, I'm talking about from no, not for you to answer from a woman, for the ladies that's listening in the audience, then they can answer from the standpoint of the question that I'm gonna present. So it's it's it's it's you know it's bisexual. This question is bisexual, it goes both ways. Okay, boys and girls. Now the question men and women, right? Well, men and women. Okay. Okay. The question is, now listen, everybody, I want y'all to close your eyes and listen to this. You dealing, Feek. I'm asking you the question first from a man's standpoint. You dealing with a woman, you married to her, married to her for years, right? You got three kids by the woman. No, excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. The woman has three kids upon you meeting her and getting married to her. And, you know, they was relatively young. None of them was over 10 years old when you married her. Okay, now you 10 years into this marriage, and the kids is getting a little older. Kids is older, you finally get this woman pregnant with your own son now. How many kids she got again? She got three. Okay. She got three. She got two older boys and she got a younger girl. You you have a girl by her also. This is the baby of the litter now, of the family that you have. Okay. Okay. About four years into you having this new brand new baby, right? This brand new little girl. You got an older son, but it's your stepson by her. Uh, you walks in a room, right? Upon one day of, you know, relaxing, probably vacation off from your work or whatever, walks in a room. I ain't like no where this is going with. Where your daughter went, where your daughter was at, and you catch your oldest stepson in there, finding her with his penis in his hand, and he's touching on her. And you you snap right out. You runs in, you kills him, you beats him to death right then and there. That's probably what happened, yeah. The beats him to death right then and there. Now, from a man, now that's a man doing it. If your wife would have did it, right? If your wife would have did it, now let's switch the re let's switch the roles. Your wife comes in a room, see your daughter getting raped by your oldest son, but this is not her son. She likes him to carry, she pulls out, fires his ass up and kill him. Do you want to see your wife do life in prison behind that?
SPEAKER_00No, he does not. He bought no, he deserved that. He's taking advantage of a child, he's taking advantage of his authority over a child. He deserves whatever, whatever. You know what I mean? That's that's what she did. Because you're going to jail. Because if I could, I'll probably take the gun from him and do it and probably do it myself. Okay. Because at the end of the day, like I said, you you you violating a kid, a child, a a little girl.
SPEAKER_02Okay, well, let me ask you, do it get trickier if this is your biological son? Because it might be because I when I asked the question the other day when me and a group of people were so don't change, bro. It becomes tricky when, like, like say, because I want to know how the woman would feel. This is your husband, this is your husband. You just had a brand new baby by your husband, but you got three other kids that's not his biological kid, but he's been there raising them for years on end, like they his. He comes in and sees this act getting committed to his daughter by you, by your son, and he kills him. Do you want your husband to do life or go to prison for a long time? This is what I'm asking to the ladies. Um, but I present the question to you if your wife did it, would you want your wife to do because she killed this your son? It's not her son that she killed, but she just raised, she's been there raising him with you because you're you're all family now. Yeah, but this is your biological son. Because now, is it gonna be something in your mind like, dang, she killed my son? Like, dang, but he was alright.
SPEAKER_00He out of pocket, but we ain't seen he ain't, but you killed my son. I'm not gonna be able to get past the fact that he he was out of pocket because at the end of the day, killing me, but listen, what I'm saying to you is because if he if he has that sickness in his heart and in his mind, that's gonna continue on. So now I can't even trust him to be in the kit, be in the be in the house no more. I can't trust him to be around the kids no more because he's already proven to be who he is.
SPEAKER_02So that's a sickness, and that's very much a sickness, but I'm asking you from your the hell with all that, bro. The hell with all that, the sickness, we can get into that. We're talking about you, your wife did it. Would you feel she has to go to jail? Nah, nah. She probably is gonna go to jail, but we we I'm talking about, but would you want her to go? She's cute. This is your son, this is your force, not hers, though.
SPEAKER_00No, I'm paying for lawyer, I'm paying Bell. I'm putting I'm putting houses up to get her out. Whatever I gotta do to get her out. Yeah. Because I understand why. Damn, I don't even know how to answer that. What y'all think? Audience may ask me, do you what you what you gonna do?
SPEAKER_02You gonna say, oh, you're gonna say no, she wrong? I'm not gonna say she wrong because she not wrong, but man, you killed my son. Like, why you gonna leave it to me? Like that. I probably wouldn't have killed my like I probably wouldn't have killed her son doing that to my daughter. But I'd have he'd have a life-altering experience that day. But killing, even though the crime warrants this, and I don't promote anybody to go out there and kill and all that. No, let the judicial system take action and do their job. That's how we function as a civilized civilization. But other than that, us as a human aspect, we as humans, because that's how we go to jail a lot. We our emotions outride our logic. And that's not to say it's wrong. You coming in and catch a grown man, whether it's your son or not, filing your baby three, four-year-old daughter, you don't know what the hell you're gonna do. But I'm just talking about in hindsight, after it's all over, do the man need to go to like how I want to ask the ladies how would you feel if you had your son, your biological son, which your husband was raising, but it's not his? You finally have a kid by your husband, and three, four years later, after you have a girl, your oldest son does this to your daughter, which is his daughter, and your husband catches him and kill him? Do you want him to go to jail? Or can you be like, damn, that's a hell of a journal, though, bro? From a woman aspect though, from you dealing with women and having wives and stuff like that, and being, you know, ahead of, you know the woman. You know the woman aspect somewhat anyway. Because you know, you'd never fully guess a woman layers. But do you think a woman could sit with that and be like, damn, or yeah, my husband killed my son, but he was raping our daughter. But like, do you think what you think? What you think, Pete? You think they're gonna let the emotional this is the hell of a- a woman's standpoint.
SPEAKER_00Um I think she, I think she gonna she probably be a little torn between the two, but she probably will be more so side with the um with the husband. Because at the end of the day, I think that she will probably be like, he he's harming my harming our small child. Now, she may not want him to get killed, but if that happened, nothing could do. Like, what do you what do you say to what do you what do you say to somebody that does something like that? Like, I don't even know.
SPEAKER_02I don't even know where to to to to even approach the situation.
SPEAKER_00How do you how do you deal with it? Do you call the police and get them, you gotta call you gotta either call the police killing call the you got you you got to because at the end of the day. So we're skipping over ass whooping. No, nobody's not doing that. Whatever happened if I catch somebody doing something like that. So you won't just stop him out? Man, listen, man. I don't know what listen, I know that if I had this is your biological son fee. You couldn't your biological son doing that to myself. If I had a firearm, I probably would, I probably would use it. Yeah, I probably would because I don't know. I mean, or I would, I would, I would, I would really just answer it. You all over the place, basically, question speak. I can see like I can see like Ben and Rachel. Exactly. I might go in and put my hands in, then I might be in the crib and oh, it's a firearm in there, and I might go use it. I don't know. Because I got you know, I got four girls. Yeah, so yeah, I I heard how you I heard how your voice just broke up.
SPEAKER_02And I and I and I know how how effective they can be off of that one act like that, yeah. For the rest of their existence. They will this will carry in them. Yeah. But the question is should the man go to jail if he did that from the ladies? Would you want to see your husband in jail after killing your biological son for raping your biological daughter, which is his biological daughter, also? And vice versa, for the men, if you came in a room and you caught, I mean, excuse me, if uh uh uh for yeah, for the men, if the your lit, your your wife goes in a room and catch your son raping your daughter and your wife kills him, your biological son, do you want your wife to go to prison for killing your son for doing this act to your daughter? That's the question.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I mean, the thing is this, I just like I said, I think people, a lot of people gonna not gonna really care. What if if you know what I'm saying? I don't say care, but it's not gonna be to the point where as though it's like, you know, they mad at the result because that you call them doing something crazy. That's like catching your wife. Nah, people say that's probably worse than catching your wife doing something, but nah, people say they plead uh temporary insanity or or or a love crime, as though they catch their wife, and they and they go get a gun and they kill them, or they or if they come with a gun, they kill a man. And so for me, I understand, man.
SPEAKER_02I understand it was just something that me and the men was just kicking around on a yummy on a on a on a on a park bench, man. It was and it's something that goes on. It just happened recently, and what uh oh I got it right here. I could pull it right up where it just happened that to where as though a husband and I could read it to y'all real fast. This is a major crazy jaunt, man. Bad joint, man, that happened. But it's like, damn, where do you go from now? Like, you killed us, like, do you think that relationship will ever be the same with the husband and the wife? It would be at the time because like could you look at your wife the same after she killed your son for doing that? Yeah, you could love her the same forever?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I could. I mean, I'll be hurt behind it because I would be like, damn, like, you know, but no way, should no way is that is that even cool.
SPEAKER_02A man in the a man in Detroit, Michigan, killed his own 15-year-old son for sexually assaulting his three-year-old half-sister. You know what I'm saying? And this is was this was carried out uh a couple days ago that happened in Detroit, whereas though these things went on. And I wish I could have threw it up on the screen for you, but he killed his 15-year-old son, man, for sexually assaulting his three-year-old half-sister.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, man, I mean, are you sexual? Are you mad about that? I mean, what are you mad that he did that? What you're no, I'm not mad. I'm just saying, if it was my son, that kind of sickness cannot be trusted. Yeah, you're right. You definitely right never killing though. He could never be in the house with me ever again.
SPEAKER_02He could never be in the house with you, just you and him.
SPEAKER_00What about just you and him? He probably me and him, like alright, it's me and him, but he can never be, it's gonna be awkward. He can't never be on his sister's relief alone. Um, they're not gonna trust him. How is he gonna interact with the one that he did that to? How are they gonna be when they be around each other when I got him around, knowing that what he did to her when she was young? She may not even remember it because she may be a kid and she may get ordered, but I know what happened, and he knows what happened, and everybody knows what happened, but they interact, and I can never how do you how do you deal with that in your household? That's an awkward situation. He goes to jail, comes home as a kid. Now he's now you gotta now you gotta have him living at a separate house, and then he you got the other thing living over here. You because it's just crazy. And and then if somebody get killed behind that, if he get killed behind that, of course, you want my shit kid, you don't want to see nobody dead, but it's like, all right, he did do some foul stuff.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but but Joe, though, this is all the way real. I hear I see your comment in the uh in the comment section, man. This is real, Joe. This happened in Michigan. This is something that can take place and happen. This is a real live question night. This is not something that's you know, uh, we just talking far off, off topic. No, this is something that can happen in your home, my home, his home. You don't know the kids, you you could raise them as best as you can, but if you really you don't you don't know a kid until you do some wild shit. And that's some wild shit. But now, what I'm asking is if your wife killed your son for catching him do this, how would you treat her from here on out? And vice versa, ladies, if you caught your husband killing your son because he was fondling your other daughter and your husband murdered him right there on the spot, would you look at your husband and want him to go to prison?
SPEAKER_00Listen, man, every any any man, I'm talking about every man that's that's probably in this chat, but make sure you hit the like button. Anybody that's in this chat, it's gonna be hard to find a man that's not gonna try to harm him in some way, shape, form, or fashion, which may lead to him being killed.
SPEAKER_03Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00You know what I'm saying? So it's not gonna be no way. I mean, I'm saying it's gonna be a very, very small amount of people who are not gonna want to kill that person. Because the person will, it's just it's just out of pocket. You know what I'm saying? And this is a this is a this is a baby that can't three-year-old baby can't defend them, can't defend themselves. You know what I mean? And you taking advantage of her of her of her, snatching away her her life, you destroy her life.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. You know, I can see you taking this a little personal, because you're taking it a little personal because you got a bunch of girls.
SPEAKER_00No, I I got sisters, I got I got nieces, I got little cousins, I got people that you know, I will. Want to see this happen to. And the thing about it is this this stuff that you're speaking about is really real. This stuff happens to people, little kids, all the time. Male and female. You know, and these people in the jails is filled with individuals that have done this to little kids. I'm talking about grown men to young teenage boys. You know what I'm saying? It's crazy.
SPEAKER_02James LaFlame, man, James Laflame, go ahead and uh uh elaborate on your answer because you said that you wouldn't want your wife to go to jail upon an act like this, but you said the relationship probably be over nine times out of ten after that, though. Well, is you done with her after she killed your son for doing this act to your daughter? Could you, could you, yeah, I mean, is you done with her? Like, because you're telling me the relationship is over. That's what I just read in your comment.
SPEAKER_00But what I'm saying is so like this lead this leads back to to the jail point, the jail aspect of it.
SPEAKER_02You know, okay, somebody tapped in from the true. I'm from I'm tapped in from Detroit, yeah.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. So the the the the thing is this though, what I'm saying is the the jails, the federal, the federal uh and state pens are filled with men who embarked upon these type of acts. And the thing about it too, man, like you know, we we didn't heard about situations, and I I done been uh close to a situation like that where though these allegations were made against somebody. And um and the reaction from from the men that was around this man when his allegations was made, I was almost a little disappointed. It changed the way I thought about the person um you know for me. And people was like still accepting him with allegations and things that was true. You know what I'm saying? And I d I never I never understood like I just thought that that was just fake. And that's the reason why I be backing out people a lot, because I be sitting back to see how people move with certain individuals. And for me, like this person got accused of this. And it's like certain people get a get may have a bad rep of uh being a drug user or a person that messed up money. Like a person that stopped messing with a person who messed up money faster than mess they stop messing with a person who's a uh a pedophile. Like a person got a bad rep for messing up money and you know, whatever case maybe have an addiction. People sometimes, man, like turn the blind eye to stuff just because that's that's their man. That's their homie on duty. You're turning your body, you're turning a blind eye to it, and I seen it, and it made it really made me sick to my stomach a lot of times. It's like people just sweep stuff under the rug, but you don't really take a look into that, and they'll and then people talk about the person behind their back and say, Yeah, well, I'm gonna keep my kids away from them, but you're still hanging with this individual. When you're gonna have a conversation amongst men about, yo, is this true? What really happened here? But instead of turning the I'm gonna turn a blind eye to Alligate, Alligator never happened. And and and then still allow these people to have a a voice, a say so around around the way and in certain neighborhoods, y'all got these people listening, like yo. I don't be having I don't be respecting stuff, man.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, so with that being said, you ain't cool with that. You ain't cool with that uh so if your wife was the did that, you totally wouldn't want her to go to jail.
SPEAKER_00Nah I wouldn't want her to go to jail, no. Yeah, I don't know how I he did it, he did a he did a he did a vi did a he did he did a hang in his act. He deserved uh he he deserved to jail or get or get what he got. I would've came home and then did it this unto him again if I wasn't there. I'm walking in the door, she can't you can't get that phone call. I'd rather get the the phone call. Well you get that phone call, right? And they're telling you what telling you that that happened. How you gonna how you gonna how you gonna digest that that phone call? Nah, dude, how you gonna digest that phone call? How you gonna you at work? You you just get you you working and you gotta sh you gotta job, and your wife calls you, like, yeah, this happened. And you be like, what I'm did you kill him? So I probably would ask, like, did you kill him? Like, yo, all right, I'm on the way there. Like, because when I get there, he better not be there. My little baby, one-year-old baby girl. Come on, man. Y'all got y'all got daughters, y'all got it not because it happened to boys, little boys too. Mm-hmm. I got little babies, everybody got little babies. I got a little baby in the house. And if somebody ever was to do anything to him that I don't like, not saying everything will be what will warrant death, but certain things will be warrant death, and I will be willing to go extra mile for that little boy because I know he's an innocent child. I agree. I agree with you four heartedly. He's smiling and laughing, and this is day is you know, sucking on the breasts and laying on the chest and going to sleep. That's his that's that's his day. He ain't where he ain't he ain't he ain't looking over his shoulder, right? And then you want to take advantage of a little kid who's just want to, you know, play with some toys and watch TV or whatever they whatever the kid does, you taking advantage of this kid who doesn't have any any um whatch call any defense, uh you know, they can't defend themselves in no way. So you you taking advantage of this kid, bro? Like what? And then you and then you want people to get to be lenient on you? Nah, man. Ain't nobody ain't no ain't nobody ain't nobody dealing with that, y'all.
SPEAKER_02Quick second, y'all, man. Hit that like button, man, before we go ahead and get on out of here for the day, man. We ain't gonna keep having the yummy. We bringing y'all some real live content, man. There's over damn near 200 people in the chat and there's only 55 likes, man. Which y'all in here just seeing what the hell is going on? Which all in here just snooping around seeing the competition? Ain't no competition, man. Ain't no competition, man. And I don't say that, I say that respectfully and humbly. I say ain't no competition because we ain't in competition with nobody. We just come in here to tell you real live, direct stuff that keeps you out of prison or a situation that can cause you to make the best decision in the situation. That's all, man. It's free to hit that like button, man. It's just like breathing, man. That shit do not cause.
SPEAKER_00But yeah. So, right. And so now, the other question is if she don't kill him and you come home and you beat the brakes off him, right? Right. And but she just tell me what she could what she found out. Yes, now you now so how bad are you gonna beat him? If you don't kill him, how you're gonna damn near kill him. Yeah. Cause no matter, no matter what, you hit him, you're a 15-year-old boy. Extend you hit him, you're not dude, every time you hit him, hit him, hit him with a punch or whatever you throw at him, you're gonna throw another one because you're gonna fly, you ain't, you ain't, you ain't doing enough damage. I can see if it's to a grown man. Yeah, you might hit him, knock him out, stomp him. You might you might kill him with you.
SPEAKER_02But I said, like I said, I'm to to rebuttal over what you're saying, I can see if it's a grown man.
SPEAKER_00It's a grown man.
SPEAKER_02No, no, no. A 15-year-old boy? Ain't no grown bro, bro. That's not no grown man at all, bro. You see that 15-year-old boy. I wish we could uh people join up on the 10 years. No, he's not a grown man. No, he's not a grown man. 15-year-old boy. He's just freakier than a frog with a mustache. He is not a grown man.
SPEAKER_00You know better. 15, you know better. What? What he with the act that he did. No, no, you know better, bro. You said you just you was talking about that.
SPEAKER_02They said five, six years old. They didn't know. Yeah, but but I'm just saying, like he might got an illness. Yeah. Evidently, he got to have an illness if he went and not only are you touching a four-year girl, but this is your sister.
SPEAKER_00He not, listen, man, nine time out of ten, those, those people that had that sickness, man, time nine time out of ten, they gotta go through all this. They gotta go to jail, they gotta come on with this. Them dudes, them dudes be not saying they can't be rehabilitated, but man, you got you gotta take them out out of the out of the situation, man. And get them and get them and get them get them a body. Because they gonna they're gonna do it again.
SPEAKER_02I agree with that.
SPEAKER_00We can look at the numbers. The uh the stats show, they got they gonna they gonna do it. Yeah, he's in high school, ninth grader. Yeah, no, that that's what we're yeah, and and these kids right here, and I mean, and then the kid, three, a three-year-old isn't hasn't even isn't is in daycare. Yeah, you're right. Yeah. She she trying to, you know, watch learn her ABCs and shit like that. Yeah, yeah. And you want to do that? And you can't, you in high school, all them young girls in high school. And then then it's a this it's an abundance of them because a lot of young boys that that's ages is in jail. Yeah. So now it's more for you. Yeah. And you want to come home and do this? To to not only a little girl, but your sister. Yeah, your sister. But does it warrant death? Yes. If that would happen in the heat of in the heat of the passion of DNA. I don't think I would have killed him, though.
SPEAKER_02I'd have beat the brakes off of him. If it was my son, I don't I I can't sit honestly sit here and say, I don't think I would have killed him, but I would have crushed him. I would 15 man, like, and then I'm seeing I'm everything I'm hitting him with is questioning him. I don't care if he's balling up or nothing. He's a little boy to me. I'm gonna go, I got superpowers this grown man.
SPEAKER_00Are you calling the cops of that?
SPEAKER_02Nah, bro. You ain't calling the cops? If I caught it, nah. Nah, my son. Only thing different, if it wasn't my son, I'd have killed him. Being as the with my son, he a 15-year-old boy, I'ma beat the brick. I'm talking about that nigga, that nigga don't know if he ain't gonna know if he's a girl or boy after this ass whooping. After this, he's gonna have a whole lot of understanding. But am I calling the cops? I don't think so. Are you? Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Like I said, I probably I probably No no no, yes or no.
SPEAKER_02Let's get let's get to this, and then we can go ahead and get to the rebuttal after you answer. Are you calling the cops? Because if you do call the cops, you gotta call him before you whip his ass.
SPEAKER_00No, I ain't calling cops.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I ain't calling the cops, man. Now, yeah, I ain't calling the cops. I ain't calling the cops.
SPEAKER_00But I would if his mom called my one, we'll be mad.
SPEAKER_02Or yeah, you know, if she did it, I ain't gonna be sitting there mad in the but I'm not initiating the police in this. And if I could get to her before she does it, I would try to persuade her not to call the cops. But if she still went here and did it, okay. He bought that on himself ultimately. I still try and save your punk ass. I ain't trying to see you to jail, I'm just trying to give you the belt the ass. You know what I'm saying? But I but either way it goes, I'm just saying, me. I couldn't do that.
SPEAKER_00Another thing I want to say to her is, you know, like what's up with these women? A lot of times be doing this um, these PFA to protect us from abuse orders, right? Mm-hmm. And using them against men who try and take care of their kids. So women use these PFAs to try to, you know, send a man to jail. He calls and say the wrong thing. You you you call on the cop saying that he said something wrong to you. He just be questioning you probably about the kids or talking to you about the kids, and you're trying to send his man to jail. He violated the PFA, he did this, he did that. Like, why are you trying to send a man? Why are you trying to use this to get leverage? You only hurting your kids.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but they don't look at it like that, dude.
SPEAKER_00You only hurting your kids. You had a PFA against the kid's father, knowing that this man don't even care to even be in your in your presence. Or this man not even bothering you, this man living his life, working his job, doing whatever he's doing. And then you are you are trying to send this man to jail saying, now some dudes deserve a PFA, because I see some stuff where some boys be getting be getting uh be doing some crazy stuff to women. And then this stuff is going on, like if you like I understand, but if a man is not bothering you at all, a man is living his life and you got a PFA against this man, and not only do you got a PFA, you're trying to get this man, you're trying to use this man to go to jail. Brothers, we gotta be smarter out here, man, because what happens is once that PFA goes into effect, bro, you might as well just cut off all contact because at the end of the day, they're gonna use it against you. Unless you got a contact with your kids, unless your kids is calling you, answer the phone. But if you, if, if you got this PFA, avoid them, avoid the woman because she's gonna send you to jail. All it is is the plot deployed to get custody, to get you jammed up because she still got some issues and she still might be mad.
SPEAKER_02So before you say what it was just now, bro. And that's what I was just about to say. For a woman that went her separate way and you go your separate way, and you know, y'all both in relationships or whatever the case may be. So now y'all ultimately co-parent. And they weaponize, you know, the kids and try to put the PFA on the kids, seeing that you're a abusive, or whatever the case may be, why are they putting a PFA in fact? That right there is showing you that this woman still carries emotions for you enormously, from my point of view, anyway. I I don't want nobody else to take my point of view, but my point of view is just think about it. If you over there with your man and you happy and your new man doing everything he got to do, and I'm a father and I'm doing what I got to do right by my kids with you, what's the reason for all this other stuff in the play? But and if it's in, if it is in play to me, furthermore, let me know that you still on my line. You trying to go through all these things, PFAs, uh uh, can't go over here and do this, uh uh arguing with the kid. You supposed to, you in a whole nother now's another thing. If I'm calling you, I'm sneak on you. What's up, baby? How you doing? You slept good last night. Now I'm out of pocket. She going, I'm going, you know, I'm harassing this woman now. Yeah. But if ain't none of that in place, and I just want to see my kids, and you know what type of father, and then especially if you know what type, I can see if I'm a one of them wild ass drunk niggas that go to sleep with the stoves on. I ain't I I'm not suitable to add the kids over. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, but you got niggas to do that. Okay, I done went to sleep a couple times with that damn stove on that. But shit, well, I ain't no, no, no, I wouldn't have done it with the kids there, but shit, I don't know. But listen, you didn't stone drink, y'all. That shit is goddamn crazy. But um burn the whole crib down. Yeah, almost a couple times. But uh, yeah. If a woman is weaponizing all that with that, other than that, she's from my point of view, what I come up with, my opinion, she's still deeply in love with you. These are things that, especially if she knows that this can hurt you and she knows you want them kids bad as hell for whatever visitations or whatever they may be, and she's trying to block all that. She's doing this to disgruntle you because she's disgruntled that she's not with you no more. And that's the only way I see it. I'm not saying that's a fact. That's my fact. That's it. Yeah, so that's it.
SPEAKER_00It's just crazy because a lot of men is it's a lot of men out here going through that, you know, who are who are now placed under these PFAs and they have children. And it's like with the PFA, I believe they give the woman like the uh, they can give her custody of the kids, temporary custody of the kids. So now you gotta fight an uphill battle, trying to get your kids back with this PFA. You're not seeing the kids, the kids is affected, the kids miss you, you know, and she's sitting over there like everything is peaches and cream. This is a real fact that men are going through this. So the y'all women out there that's doing that to these men out here, you know. Like I said, there's some men who need to have PFAs on them, but for the men who don't need to have PFAs in it, for the women who out here who are doing that to these men and doing this as a ploy, a plot, you're only hurting your children. Dummy. I agree. You're hurting your kids. If you're if if you make up a lie and say something, he did something, he go to jail, the kids are missing the father. It ain't about you. It's not about you, it's about the children. Let that man or let that woman see their kids. Got his PFAs and all these things in place, and y'all harming the brother. Men is men is actually going to jail out here. And it's men who really care about their kids. It's men who actually whose lives are on the line, they gotta walk, tread lightly. Then they some men be like, man, no, I don't even care. And now the kid is affected. Some some dudes just can't do it. You know what I'm saying? Some dudes just can't. Once all these barriers and barriers are put up in the front of men, and men be like, man, I'm done, I gotta walk away. And now that affects the child. And now she can say, and the woman, sometimes I can say, Well, I told you your dad didn't care about y'all. Or whatever. Now they use it. Stop using the children as a plot and a ploy. The man may not want you. He don't want you no more. He don't want you no more. You somebody else, woman. Go be with that, whoever you're with. Don't sit up here and try and make it difficult on that on that man. And vice versa, if a man doing it to the woman, yo, she moved on whatever she moved on. Let it go. But you to put the PFA up and then try to use it as a as a weapon to uh you know, weaponize the PFA to send dudes to jail or women to jail, man, they're joining crazy, man. So I'm I'm just speaking about this because this is a real live thing. This PFA thing is like it's a weapon. It's a weapon, and they're using every time if the man call or text the wrong thing or talk to his stresses about what he got going on to your family, your family member somebody, or another person comes to the person and say, Yeah, well, you know, uh Fix said uh, you know, you was doing them wrong. She they they run into the daggone PFA thing to get the man locked up or get the get a person locked up. Like, come on, man. Like, yo, y'all, y'all, y'all here, you listen, me, you affecting your kids, woman. Homie, bro, whatever you, if you're doing whoever doing it, you are affecting your children. Why you don't see that you affecting your kids? I mean, these niggas is going to jail in the county locked up for a PFA because the woman said he violated the PFA. You know, I mean, then you might have license to carry, lost license to carry, all this other stuff. All cause you mad because he moved on. Like, it's just crazy. You want it, you want all this stuff from him, but you so happy with your new dude. You got your new dude, you smiling, and go be with your new dude. Oh, homie, go be with your new woman. But this PFA stuff gotta stop. Because I'm these kids is affected by it, man. And it's terrible. Because y'all forcing the kids once again to choose sides. And it's people in jail sitting in prison behind this stuff, man. It's crazy, man. Yo, man, like I just had to talk about that. Y'all like, you know, listen, man. Y'all, yo, man, it's just terrible, man. It's it's a terrible weapon that's being used. The only ones, the only ones that's benefiting is the courts and these lawyers, because the lawyers getting paid to go in there and try to make a person look like a lie. And then not talking about 10 with a PFA, it's a big chance you're gonna lose the PFA battle because they got they gotta somehow grant it to the person who filed because the the judges don't want to be on the hook saying that they uh they found you know uh that she was lying, or they're gonna grant it not time out of 10 because they don't want to, the judge don't want to be liable or something happened. So now you got a PFA on him or her, he, whatever. Yo, man. That jump crazy, man. Then you got your kids dragging your kids through the system. And then I and from what I believe, and a lot of brothers believe, and this thing about it is you what I believe, if if a woman gets married and move on, in our religion, she wants to move on, she supposed to take, she supposed to get the kids to the man. Now, if you're a man and you want to take your kids, whatever kids, you got you gotta be a stand-up man. Of course, you can't be, you know, like you said, falling asleep with the with the cook, with drunk with the you can't be on crack, you can't be getting high, you can't be a person that's you know, uh that's a bad individual. Everything gotta change. You can't have women running out that motherfucker all day long. You gotta be a man, get your kids to be a man. But the woman, she gotta understand, you can't in our religions, you gotta get the kids up. They're his kids. Give them to give them to the father. Because then at the end of the day, a man is gonna be not something. If a man is upright, he's gonna be more agreeable to Lia to come get the kids as much as you want. But women gotta put stipulations on stuff. It's just the the mo the emotional factor for them be crazy.
SPEAKER_02Hey, you I want to give a shout out to C Dollar, man. Sorry, C Dollar said something real good. He said hurt people, hurt people, bro. You know what I'm saying? And it's not a it's not an excuse. I'm not saying that like it's an excuse for her to go ahead and do that or the man to go ahead and do that. I don't just put the omus on a woman, I put it on a nigga too. Because you got a bunch of sissy ass niggas out here that's doing some whole shit. Yeah, I agree. You know what I'm saying? So hurt people, hurt people. Some of these people don't even dig it. They don't give a damn about because how could you give a damn like for real? If you want your kid to flourish, right, whether you the male or you the female in this once relationship that y'all was in, and you see that your partner, regardless of what y'all got going on, is everything that them kids not only want but need because how you dictating and how you carrying it for them, and you go to measures to keep they they hurt, bro. There's no other way around that. They want to hurt you by cutting off your ability to get to them. They're not uh uh they're their only seething, soothing of pain is you being frustrated you can't see the kids. They don't care about these kids being hurt now. See, they forgot about all the emotions intact in this situation, they forgot about the kids' emotions. Man was damn why daddy don't come around. Then they making up shit. Man, he don't come around because he don't care. They ain't telling them, Oh, I got the cops, that's why he can't come around.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, because they don't want to look like the culprit. And men get and men and women too, but people all these all these boundaries put up in front of a person who's trying to be a parent. You can make a person want to say, I'm I'm done. I can't do it. I can't, I'm not, I can't do it no more. I can't keep fighting, I'm gonna back off. And this is this this is this is the reality of it. And and people ask me to speak about this, but it's it's a it's a real life thing, man. It's a real live thing. Yo, worry about your kids. Worry about your kids. You know, and then another thing too, like you know, women coming at men uh for their finances. He moved on, he's doing okay. Now you want to take him, you wanna you wanna cause him problems and go at go after his money, go after his wealth. You know what I'm saying? Reputation. Listen, I ain't gonna lie, I don't I don't advise nobody to get you know like and and from from what I believe in, and my I would advise you to get married, you know, Muslims to get married religiously. But if you gotta go down to these court systems and go get married and all that, man, and and and and get a woman on in the business or a man on your business, because some dudes is bums. They're trying to take them, take woman money. But don't listen, man, that marriage stuff, man, is crazy, man. I see why people is backing off from getting married. Because it's a weapon, it's weaponized. They want your wealth.
SPEAKER_02So let me ask you this. If we wasn't Muslim, right, Tafique? Yeah. We wasn't Muslim, but you still got this same out of eye ideology that you got with relationships and how men should move and you mess with mine. Would you marry them by the state legally? No. You wouldn't? No.
SPEAKER_00I seen too many people, too many brothers, too many uh men, too many women in the railroad. There's no sense to getting with a lady then. Who she loves you? Y'all got she like don't talk feet, let's get married. But this thing is, but the thing is, you you don't have to get married. Where does it say? I'm just keeping it real. What does it say anywhere you gotta get married by the state? In any, in any, anywhere, I'm talking, you find it. You gotta get married, go down to the courthouse, go get married, go sign it. No, listen, no, we're getting married uh uh uh based on what we believe. And that's it.
SPEAKER_02So basically, what you saying, Freak, if you get married by the state, you're binding yourself for all types of problems.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you see, you problems that can arise. They take half your money. Listen, they want to something that they never worked for. They'll move on, they'll move on. Listen, in our religion, we believe that once certain certain things, when if a woman acts as out of a marriage in our religion, guess what? It's a colless. She wants out of the marriage, you she's free to go. If you grant her uh talak, third talak, you gotta take care of her for a certain period of time, then also a certain period of time if she's pregnant with a child, so forth and so on. But all you gotta take your kids as long as your kids are with her. But once she gets remarried, the kids come back to the man. Everybody agrees that the kids go back to. This is I'm speaking from our religion for those who don't know about our religion. But it's some dudes who who are who marry for certain reasons, because certain reasons in in the city, what they shouldn't have done, they marry for certain reasons, and then they have a woman who's coming after their finances or coming after dude while she lay out with another laying out with another man. Saying she wants marital support and uh spousal support. These things are happening to brothers, man, and men all over who are going through this. So my thing is like, man, I and brothers actually speak about something, speak about it, man. Like these these things is is destroying children. The kids is just the kids is the ones in the middle.
SPEAKER_02Ultimately, they take they they they take the brunt of this situation.
SPEAKER_00If you are if you are a believer, what you believe to be true, don't try to swindle and snake and and all this stuff to try to get a one-up because you forget that God is watching. God is watching what you do. You trying to harm a person because you hurt people, hurt people. Yeah. But you, but God is watching you, everything that you do.
SPEAKER_02I'm about to say something that's gonna be crazy to you, right? And it's gonna be like kind of contradicting, but I still gotta say it. Um, from my point of view, from everything that you just said, it's telling me that you gotta know who you having the baby by. For sure. But but look, you say for sure, a lot of us have been in situations that we didn't have babies by motherfuckers and shit that happened, and you thought you knew that motherfucker. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So that statement is really like a lie for real if we was really saying it, right? You gotta know, because you really didn't know her.
SPEAKER_00But then again, like you said, sometimes people um get hurt, and then that part you can't never really you can't really see him because you can hurt them. You can hurt a woman to hurt a person too, and I get it. But you gotta once you once you decide to move on and and be with another man or whatever, some dudes move on and get another woman. Once you decide to move on to another spouse, another person, you gotta say calls and move on. Don't tell them what kalas mean, huh? I mean, done. I'm done. That's it. Finito, we done. Like it's done. You gotta you gotta say done, and then you gotta move on. You can't still try to drag this man or this woman through the mud while you're over here with this person because you still mad. You moved on, you should be happy with the situation, decision you make.
SPEAKER_02So not only is she giving you grief, she's giving her a new husband grief. Because he, me as a man, I'm gonna be peeping at it. That's what I'm saying. Another one I'm gonna be looking like that. You a dude's done with this guy.
SPEAKER_00Then you would do sitting up there. This is this is I'm talking about this. As we talk about, I'm gonna speak about it. So I'm sorry I've hurt people's feelings. You you gotta do, you a dude, you married to a woman, you see her real rolling this man over here. She laying up with you, but she all she can think about is how she's gonna how she's gonna send this man to jail, how she's gonna get money out of this man. You see how she's keeping the kids away from this dude, you see everything that she's doing, like, and then you still sitting up sitting up there with her. Yo, man, like for real. You still sitting with her and watching what she's doing? You a coward, man. You a coward. And you can't stand next to real men, and then the real men running to you is gonna be a problem. Seriously, because you're moving like that. So my thing is people is just crazy. I you can sit there and watch a woman just do that to a man. And like you, I'm laying up with like, damn, I ain't trying to stop her. No, I I will be trying to get away from her.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, like because especially if I'm sitting back and I'm like, damn, and I've, you know, you got you gonna have different scenarios. You she might have been married to him, or she might have been a baby mother. But if it's like she married, but even regardless of what she was, she got kids by. So it was something, whether it was marriage, boyfriend, baby, whatever, you had, especially if you got more than one. You you you like this motherfucker. You went back and did it again. Yeah, but now to see you in your bag, like focusing so much, but you supposed to be with me now. You know what I'm saying? And I'm sitting here see you going through all this and you follow. Because if you my girl, I'm seeing you make police reports and all that. I'm know, I'm knowing about this. Yeah, me as a man, like, would you still want to fuck, boy? And then another thing, too, worse. What you want to do? You want to do something with him? Like, you got a whole man over here with me and family. How was you spending, and then I can see if you're bothering her. If I don't see none of that and she's going out her way to and I know what type of dude you is with your kid, like I'm I'm with her, I love her, but at the same time, these are not my kids. But I see you coming through, you showing up, you at uh uh uh uh school rehearsals or whatever, graduations, birthday parties, uh, whatever they need. I said, I'm like, damn, baby father is a man. I'm a man, I'm a big scene.
SPEAKER_00Another thing, too. That's why I say this, you mentioned that. It's men who missing birthdays. I mean, well, I'll celebrate birthdays, but it's men who's missing who care about these events, birthdays, who care about graduations, who care about these type of events with their kids, that you got a PFA on him. He can't even come see us, he can't even celebrate his kid what he what he wants to celebrate with his kid. He can't even do that because you got this false PFA against him, or he got a false PFA against a woman. It goes goes both ways. But you got a false PFA or PFA against somebody all because you want to uh cause a person harm. Let me ask you a question, bro. I gotta say I gotta say one more thing, too. Go ahead. Go ahead, go ahead. Hold that thought. Go ahead. Then another thing, too. My man texted me. Another thing. For her brothers, you you you got you got a sister, your sister out of pocket. You ain't checking her for the uncles, for the cousins, y'all ain't calling her to check her. The only reason why women y'all got brothers who are checking the men, you ain't checking her. She out of pocket, she trying to harm harm this dude, and you ain't checking her. If the brothers listen to respect, look, listen, you got a son, she got a son who's of age. And you ain't checking your your mom, or you ain't checking your dad, who, or you ain't checking your sister, whoever can't, you're not checking them when they moving like that. Y'all just letting them just do what they want to do. Y'all ain't checking them, y'all ain't pulling to the side. Where's where's the honor amongst men? You letting this stuff go go on, and the brothers is brothers' men is going to jail and the kids is being affected, but you sitting back like my hands are she ain't listening.
SPEAKER_02But but but but but then they want to get involved if her ass get whooped though. Exactly. If I jump in and whoop her, knock her goddamn head off now. But you sit back and watch all this, and you especially if you see your foot, your niece, your sister, your mother, you see that they wrong. When do the man come up and be like, ho, ho, you out of pocket, man. What is you doing, man? Like, what is you doing? Because the one that sit back, a friend, a father, a son, a brother, and sit back and see your sibling or your mother or your sister do this, you more of a sissy than she is. Yeah, man. And I'm gonna put that and I'm stamping that.
SPEAKER_00And then another thing, my man said, you call, uh he called, he called, call a brother, and the brother block him. I'm trying to call you to get your sister, bro, and you block me. Yeah, so all the all bets is off. So everything, nigga, you gonna get anything that comes with this. And you block me. I might like I understand how he's saying, like, yo, I want to see Bo and slap him. I understand why you feel that way, man. Y'all sitting up here, you you you dudes is letting these women run run wild, but you call yourself a man. And then sometimes my man said, he didn't looked out for you. He didn't took it and took it and helped you out on numerous occasions. And you and you sit back and you letting letting this woman do this this nonsense. When you we we when you gonna call her to account? Or when you gonna call him to account? When y'all gonna fix that? When you wanna when you gonna say, no what? Listen, she out of pocket. Make her get on the phone, make her have a conversation. When y'all gonna do that? These things is is crazy. This this is a real fact that's going on with men out here, and I'm speaking for the men that's going through this because I got guys who's too who really going through this, man. This stuff ain't this ain't no game. This stuff is messed up because you you're affecting the kids. Now the kids is is mentally drained, and then you trying to make it seem like you the you the better parent, but you really the worst parent. Like, come on, man. And then this is just crazy. The men, the men around the women or the men around the men, the people that's around this stuff ain't stepping up, ain't saying nothing. Ain't nobody doing nothing. Ain't nobody, what happened to you checking your brother or checking your sister? What happened to that? Nobody's checking nobody. Everybody is sitting back like all that, like I ain't happening. I got my all my own stuff going on. But when somebody needs some money or needs some help with something, they know who to call. They want to call people with their hand out. Hmm. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, man. I listen, man, I see what's going on. Stuff is just it's just crazy out here, man.
SPEAKER_02But these are things, these are things that can send a motherfucker to jail. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, you trying to, you know, come between the man, not to say that that's uh is uh this is a pass for you to act up and go ahead and do something that can send you to jail. No, I'm not saying that, but emotions, emotions overrules logic sometimes. A lot of times. Especially for a motherfucker that really can't think. Emotion will make you do some shit that is not logic. And it'll put your ass in that ground or the penitentiary. Now, my feet, my question towards you, Fee. You sitting back with your old lady, and you see her months in, which y'all, y'all probably years in, and she conducting herself like this with her baby father that's trying to have relations with his kids. And you see her, yeah, I'm fouling on that nigga. He wanna do this, bro. You done, yo. You done. Would you try to talk to her about it?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I would try to talk to her, but we done. You done, you're gonna leave that situation. I'm done, bro. And on top of that, I'ma side with the boy. I'll come, I'll come to court against her in court. Call what you want to call. I'll come to court, but listen, I was married to the woman, she out of damn mind. I would do that. Like these, these, these, these men ain't men no more. Like it's crazy. Where are the men that stepping in and intervening, like, oh, this ain't right. Fix that, sis. Yo, bro, you out of pocket, bro. Fix that, yo. Like, what happened in in in helping the situation? People just don't what they want to do. Like I said, people always gotta remember, too, another thing, too. If it's a man taking it from a woman or woman taking it from a man, and and taking taking away their rights is oppression. And in our religion, from what we believe, if somebody is oppressing you, you have the right to make dua against them, and the do I answer immediately for the person that's oppressed. People forget that that God is watching. People forget that the law is watching. You, you, you, you're trying to harm an individual because you got a problem with it. And these people out here, and it's rather just going to jail, getting arrested because you're making up something to try to get the kids, and then the kids ain't gonna do nothing but get a certain age and realize who you really are. Whether it's a male or the female, they're gonna realize who you really are, and the kids are gonna go be with the parent who is a sound mind, sound judgment. So, to those people out there that's going through it, the males and the females who are going through that, just be patient. Just be patient because at the end of the day, you know, you know, you're only being tested with something. But for me, like I'm I'm tired of the husbands and the wives who sit around watching the person do this. I'm tired of the brothers and the sisters and the cousins and the and the aunts and uncles who are sitting around watching this stuff going on. Nobody ain't stepping in, pulling by the coattail, trying to stop the stop the nonsense. But nobody cares until somebody get hurt. And once somebody gets hurt, and then now now there's a now is a problem. I wasn't advising by the child, go out there and hurt nobody, but I'm just saying, this is what happens. People get upset behind these things. For real. And ain't even gotta be the woman, it'd be the brother. A person might see the brother, and then yo, you ain't check your sister, and then knock knock the brother out, or knock the cousin out, or knock the son out who's of age.
SPEAKER_01Here you go with knocking the son out of jail.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm just saying, man. Like, I understand, man. My guys, I'm gonna talk about it. I'm gonna talk about it, man. We're gonna speak about it because at the end of the day, PFAs are sending it's men in jail right now that's locked up. That can't get a bell because of PFA ain't do nothing. She just mad. And like I said, there are some people that deserve to have a PFA against them, but it's also some men who don't deserve a PFA on their back. And some women who don't deserve it. This is this stuff is crazy, man. That man is just crazy, bro. It's just crazy, man. Like, so you see this going on at alarm at an alarming rate, and shout out to my guys and my and my and my people that's going through this. Keep your head up, man. Keep your heads up, man.
SPEAKER_02Because it will say, I could I can see a motherfucker going to jail about that. Me, I'm not strong enough to be in that position. I already told you how my my love is. You know what? I love you to death. You my brother. I love you. I love you damn. You know what I'm saying? And imagine the love for my child now, right? Right? And then a mother who is blocking all avenues of communication, growing, binding because of we separated, or whatever the case may be. Evidently it got to be because we separated, because I wasn't getting none of this when we was together. Would you agree? So now, cause we now you you got some niggas that are killed over there, bro. This is sending some certain people to jail. Nigga have his bag and everything, and still wouldn't care no two shits about that and be sitting out there plotting. Like, women got to be and the men too. I'm not, I'm not sitting here putting the blame all on women, but nine times out of ten, this is a woman trait to use these tools, the kids' tools, in disputes when the parents go their separate ways. Yeah, like he don't want you no more, sis. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00He moved on. He don't want you no more. Like I be trying, like, like same thing. Woman, he might do she don't want you no more. If she w if they if they want you, they just look look look just look through their phone. See all them old pictures and whatever you was y'all was sending each other. That's like that's if I want you. I don't want you no more. You trying to send me to jail? Like one that's that's like you said, that's a deal breaker for all I do. You trying to send me to jail. Like for real.
SPEAKER_01I told you it was a deal breaker for me.
SPEAKER_00You trying to send a send send a person to jail. Like, it's crazy. He don't want you no more, sis. He can look if he wants you, he just look through his phone and see you. However he wants to see you. Same thing with the with with the with with the with the woman. If she wants to see a man, she might go through our phone and see you however she wants to see you. This PFA stuff and this jail stuff gotta stop. And y'all brothers and sons and and cousins and uncles and aunts and all this stuff, people around watching her and these women do all this foul stuff, and y'all sitting back and saying nothing. Ain't stepping in doing nothing. Y'all the worst. Y'all the worst. I agree. For real. I was going through that and y'all see me, don't even shake my hand. Don't even like don't even don't even don't even come to me and shake my hand, man. Especially if you ain't don't even shake my hand, man. Whatever. It's whatever. Like, I see dudes going through that, man. Some good men in jail getting locked up behind this this foolishness, man. We gotta step up and be men now. We gotta step up, step up, and and and and and step up and work and control your your sibling and control your control your your family member who out of pocket. Control your family member control your family. Address your family. And if she out of pocket, man, yo, you gotta buy, yo, you out of pocket. You gotta y'all need to go to go to court on her. Or him, whoever it may be. Hey man, like you know, so it is what it is, man. But shout out to my guys who asked me to talk about that, man. I that that's I understand. I and I and I and I feel what y'all are going through, man. I feel y'all's pain. But it's about these kids, man. It ain't about how you how somebody's feeling, man. It's about your children. The children having the best opportunity. A children needs to have a mother and a father in a life. And nine times out of ten, and I'm not just saying it, sometimes, you know, it's the truth. But the more sound parent needs to be in control of this situation, the more emotional parent needs to go where they're going at too emotional. Trying to keep the kids from the father, to keep the kids from the mother. What are you doing? What are you doing other than damaging the child? The child grows up and have all kinds of issues, mental issues, this issue, and then what happens is when you can't control the kid no more, go be with your dad. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Facts. Big facts. And what happens a lot of times with girls, girls get older, they cuss their mom out when they go when they get their, they but when they see that, because though a girl, they they love their fathers. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Daddy's girl, mama boy. So when they when they see that you like, yo, man, like the daughter might put her hands on you. Yeah. Once they get that coverage up and they see you that you're doing wrong. Or rebellious. And I don't know because don't kids putting their hands with their mom. But we see it all the time. You only can you only can keep a kid from away from their parents for so long. Like, I don't know why she ain't wanna be with you no more, bro. She don't want to be with you. He don't want to be with you no more, sis. He moved on. What's up with this PFA and all this nonsense you got going on? I wonder who do, I wonder who filed most PFAs in in um in Pennsylvania. Is it the male or the female?
SPEAKER_02You know it's female. It's a by landslide. You ever met anybody that filed a PFA on a woman? Just think about it. Have you ever walked out with the body? Got it with the body, he ain't had a woman yet. He he on his way, though. He on his way. Once he let your stand lima go. Oh, Pommelina. You mean Pomelina right now is his shining star. He about to file a PFA of Pommelina.
SPEAKER_00But yeah, man. Yeah, but you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, y'all, man. So shout out. Listen, once it gets to my guys and my women who are going through this, like I said, it's probably more men going through this than women. But there are women that's going through this. I'm not saying that that um, you know, men is infallible. They can't be on the other end of the situation, but I'm duty. But I'm just saying, yo, shout out to my people that's going through this. Keep your heads high. Stay focused, man. Stay focused, man. You're gonna you're gonna get your uh your hop. You don't get your you're gonna get your you know, you're gonna get your rights, man. You know what I mean? So, you know, but I'm gonna ask you a question though, yeah. Talk to me. You talk to the chick, right? About this situation, doing this. After talking to her, because I didn't get you up. Is she not coming off of this? She's still pushing the the envelope. What do you say? What do you do? What do you do to her?
SPEAKER_02Me, man, I'm fucked up, man. You mean you're gonna ask me, man, people gonna go ahead and grind me up, man. But you know, I'm gonna go ahead and step away from everybody until everybody of age. I'm not even gonna try to, you know, this is what your mom going out and doing, and this is what she wants. All right, I'm out. I'm out, I'm out. Whatever you can take from me in the courts as far as in uh uh uh uh child support and all this and that, but I'm done. I'm done. I don't, I'm I'm done. I'm done. Me, you asking me, you asking black with my mindset right now today. I don't have the patience for that. I'm not having no more kids. I had one kid and that's it. I just cause of scenarios and situations like this that may arrive. I'm getting too old to go through that battle. I'm old, I'm sitting there trying to go through this avenue, I'm trying to go if she stopped. Me at every, and like you said, because the the judges don't want to have that on them. They gonna grant the like I got no win. The only win I'ma have is when these kids come to age, I'm like, man, I always wanted to be around for y'all, man. Your mom didn't want me around. Or whatever, I'm not even gonna make her look bad. Or on telling the kids why, whatever I think. She didn't want me around, you know. So by me was trying to get around, it caused more problems than it did, you know, healing. I stepped away from my sanity and for her sanity and for y'all's sanity.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, and I agree to go and fight for custody, but you gotta, you, you, like, you gotta back, uh, you gotta back off completely. Fight for custody, but you gotta back because she, the person looking for any opportunity to send you to prison. So you gotta you gotta back out custody. But I want to say something too. I just got this joint. So what if all right, a woman moves on to another man, right? And she has your kids, right? Whether male or female. But you try to have a conversation with the boy about your kids and what you expect from him as far as you know dealing with your kids, how what you expect, how him to treat your kids. Say you had all daughters, and it's another man. It's around your kids. Whether he's splitting the night or not, whether he's coming around, whatever kids may be, but he's around your kids, your daughters. And you try to have a conversation with this man numerous occasions about what you expect, and how but this man is not um is not trying to have a conversation with you, he's not even acknowledging you and your kids are around him. What do you say about a man like that?
SPEAKER_02A man like like me? I don't say nothing about a man like that. I can see, you know what I mean? Now if something try to arise with my kids after me trying to talk to him and he invoked, if ain't nothing like he he ain't entitled to talk to you because you got some niggas that don't that's not men. Okay. And I and I'm not even calling them not men. They don't have the the the courage, the boisterous enough to sit there. They be like, man, you deal with your baby mama. I ain't got nothing to do with that. I'm over here with her because I love her. And he's not wrong for that. If he don't want to adhere to what you got to say about no nigga, because like you said, if it's like that, try to give your kids, man. But she's not trying to get a kid to be. All right, cool. I have nothing to do with that. I don't look at him for that instance and say, then he's out of pocket. Because he ain't gotta talk to you. Because me, I don't want to talk to the nigga. I'm I like her. Like he kind of reach out to me. I ain't what I gotta talk to, and then I'm on her side anyway, because I'm probably believing damn everything she told me about you. So, but until I do something that goes uh uh uh against what you were saying about your daughters, that's when you can justify or or label me or whatever you want to label me. But other than that, me, I'm not, you know. I try to reach out to him and talk to him. All right, in my book, yeah, you a sucker, man. But for real, for real, he ain't gotta talk to you. He don't have to, he don't owe you. He owe her. This is her dude. Hey, wait, then I'm being like, What this nigga wanna talk to me about? Like, you whatever you say, I'm gonna be telling her. Like, why the dude keep calling me? I might answer one time, yo, what's up? Now when you start putting it, like, because what you gonna say now when I answer? Because now this could become tricky, especially when you're dealing with me. Yeah, what's up, bro? You've been trying to kind of, what's going on, hom? Yeah, like with a conversation. My daughter, yeah, but my daughter's in there with you and I don't need man. Who you talking to? Like, you're not making no telling me how nothing's gonna run under this roof. Now, yeah, my daughter's man, they're getting on. I just want to make sure that you on the right time. And I I I respect that. Like, yeah, I ain't no chomo and none of that. You ain't gotta worry about none of that. And what you say, yeah, and that they need to be disciplined out of contact, but all you trying to dictate this over here, that could lead to a but calling me anyway.
SPEAKER_00But what I'm saying is just saying calling me not trying, okay. Yeah, I I I I agree with you as far as we're trying to dictate anything, but sometimes men just want to know who their kid is around.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but you ain't gonna know that off a conversation, though, fee. But I should tell you anything. How you should know me. This is her man. But a man should know another man, or a woman should know another one, like a woman should know the other woman. I'm not even taking my baby mom to my woman, bro. I'm not taking my baby mom to now. If they wanted to meet, no, I don't have no problem with it. But I'm not like, yo, putting them together with y'all, no, you ain't got to meet her. If it's a lot of kids, you gonna take you, you gonna take my verb of advice, yo, who's your baby mom should know? Because that's on me now. If she is a creep and my baby, the girl I'm with now, and she a chrobo on a low and some shit happened. That's all on me. But they don't, them two don't got to get together and say nothing. I don't got to go to this nigga, even if my kids was the one over there. The only time I'm showing up, if my kids come back, yo, them dad, mom, new boyfriend, did he did what? Now my other than that, that's her issue.
SPEAKER_00But also, another time, that's just my point. Another thing is, and this is this is a this is a fact, a known fact. Girls who have absent fathers are preyed on by by men like their stepfathers sometimes. Because the the things are absent. Yeah. So the so what I'm saying is if a man knows, like, look, we need to kind of have a conversation. I don't got a problem with your situation, but if my daughters is there, this is what I expect. That's a man being a man.
SPEAKER_02Telling me what do you expect? What do you expect?
SPEAKER_00A man may I may expect to say, look, all right, listen, um, I want you to want my daughters to have have their own privacy. Okay. I want my daughters, want my daughters to have privacy. If you have, if you have sons, may want to, may not want to have their older sons intermingling with their daughters. You know how that stuff can go. Um, you know, it's just certain things. It could be because it's really too much you really can't ask for underneath their roof. Now that right there is like yo, or you or you or a man might come to you and be like, listen, I want to talk to you. Why don't you advise your wife to get a kids? Y'all married, especially what we believe in. Get the kids up.
SPEAKER_02Okay, and that might go back. Well, you don't think about wanting to get it? No, all right, cool. Yo, bro, she don't want to do it. Now, now what?
SPEAKER_00But still, though, she's going against what you believe, though. Well, with me? Is that I'm just so so now she's gonna so now she's gonna go going against what you believe, and you believe that the kids, nobody don't want to have nobody else's kids under the roof. Get get I'm I understand what what what bro saying. Get the kids up. Give me my let me take care of my kids under my roof. Yes, yes, that's that's definitely then you can go ahead and be with you.
SPEAKER_02But but feet, you're trying to know Feak. I'm not gonna let you do that. Feek. That man ain't like if he tells her she don't want to do that, okay, cool. I like her. I already ain't had no problem from the drive.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you want to. I would probably have a problem with you. Like if I was him, I'm like, damn, bro. You know what we what we believe. Yeah, I'm gonna tell her if she don't do it, then what? I would tell me personally, yeah. If a dude can't meet and and and I and this is his kids, yo, y'all get in the car with me, I'm chopping y'all off.
SPEAKER_02Oh, you're gonna just take the kids from her and take her kids over there. Yeah, to to the to the kids. You don't want it. Yeah, oh yeah, you would you sliding down a razor blade into a alcohol, man. You playing a vicious game. No, I ain't no. You gonna go round her kids up and take them to him. Yes, and I'm gonna tell her, look, this is this is this is this is what we're I can't do that.
SPEAKER_00This is what what this is what we believe. I don't want nobody else's kids running around my house anywhere, really.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but I can't do that though. I can't believe that I'm not gonna do that.
SPEAKER_00All right, but that's on you.
SPEAKER_02I'm not gonna do that. And against her wishes, yeah. This is who I'm with her. Did you you I don't know you, but you but I don't want you to think you gotta you gotta think about it. Hold up. Yeah, but you move too far.
SPEAKER_00Your religion, which you believe comes before that woman, yes. Yes, yes, it does, it does, but it's a lot of because now because now you setting a president because you may be in a position position one day, and then you're gonna be sitting like, Damn, I should do you gonna you could you got you gotta you you can't you can't you can't put you can't you can't put a woman, you can't put money, you can't put children, faith is faith is like something has more higher faith than making it. My faith making excuse me.
SPEAKER_02No, it's not an excuse. Mine's ain't up there. All right, well, mine's ain't up there to the point where the one they're dictating, yo, his kids gotta be with him. So they can get them kids to him. So they're not gonna care about it. So therefore, so therefore, you're a part of the problem. Why am I a part? I met this woman, she ain't got no dude. Y'all broke up, me and her get together. I gotta come in there and see her. Give him his kids. This is a good this is a good dude who has a who has a house. Nine times of ten. I don't know you. All right, but therefore, that's the problem. I don't know you. That's the problem. All I do is I know the woman. That's the problem. I'm dealing with the woman. I'm sure the type of dude you was, regardless of what you're flashing or bringing through here. You I still don't know you.
SPEAKER_00You see, she knows you. So a man, this is my house. You're my wife, this is my house. And I'm I'm I'm not moving in a situation, a woman's situation if I can't take care of a woman got a house already. All right, I'm gonna come and pay all the bills. This is my crib. You bring your kids into my crib. If you got an ex-husband who's wants his children to live with him and the kids, he he has everything in place and order to take care of the kids. Why am I letting her do what she wants to do under my roof? Knowing what I believe in and what she believes in to be true. Now, you out of pocket for EVU down riding with her. You oppressing this man too.
SPEAKER_02I'm oppressing him because I didn't stand up and say and take the kids and bring them back. I'm not getting involved with me. I'm just saying me, me. I'm not getting involved.
SPEAKER_00And that's when I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna tell you what happened too. Like the husband, I'm gonna tell you.
SPEAKER_02Let me let you talk. I wasn't done though. You was done with right there. What? I'm not getting involved with my woman and her baby father over there who did their struggles with the kids. Now, I might give a couple suggestions on what I think should happen, and these are her kids. These is her kids, regardless of whether I believed in or not. I'm still a human being and think on a human being, John. And it doesn't just sound weird, but I'm still a human at the end of the day. And I'm like, damn, all right, she fighting for her kids, you fighting for your kids, and I'm sitting back in the middle of it because I deal with her. I'm not gonna be the one that just up and pack these kids up one day and take them to their death. I can't, I ain't gonna. That's that's her. I'm out of here. She's doing things that I see that's wrong in my eyesight, like, yo, come on, man. Why you don't now I'm gonna say something about it, yeah. But me just taking it upon myself, packing the kids up, and then she coming, where the kids at? Oh, I took them to the vibe.
SPEAKER_00First she said you're not, you're not, you're not getting the vote, not saying nothing.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I said, but no, I'm not, I won't say nothing. But if I'm seeing stuff that's crazy, because I'm not saying that because I don't know what's going on with y'all two. All I know is this is my woman. Now, if I'm seeing she being uh uh uh uh tedious and malicious in the little way she's treating up because you'll see that shit. You sitting around, you'll be like, oh man, all boy trying to do is get his kids, you don't want to give him his kids. Then I'm looking, but other than that, I'm not speaking on nobody else because can't nobody speak on minds. Imagine me and he in there and he is saying, No, you can't take him, take your kids to go see him. I'm being, I'm like, what? Who who the hell? I'm not speaking on. That's they situation. If it's like that, I might as well leave this way.
SPEAKER_00You just like the brother and the and the son. You're not, you're not, you're not standing up for what's right. No, no, I'm not just like the brother and the son. What I'm saying is on a situation when when it goes against, that's the problem too. Like, if it goes against what you believe in, bro, that's it. If it goes against what you believe in, you gotta put what you believe in before you put a woman or you put anything else. If it goes against what you believe in, what you believe to be true, what you believe to be the hawk, what you believe, if it goes against that, she out of pocket. And then what happens is now you just like her, now his kids get disrespectful with you. Now you want to sit, now you want to drop them off then. Now you want to gather them all up and take them to him now. So you do it and begin, let him deal with that. His kids. You know what I'm saying? So now you when it or even with the boys, boys get older. This is my mom. So you argue with the mom and the criter now, you arguing with the mom and the crazy.
SPEAKER_02So when you telling her to man, let that man get his kids and she telling you no, you then what you're next. You leaving? All right, listen.
SPEAKER_00If you yeah, yeah, listen. I'm I'm signing with the truth, sis. If you ain't upon the truth, upon the hog of the truth, and this this goes with this this this this is how I feel. If if it if anybody goes against what I believe in, I'm collapsed, I'm done. So you going against what I believe in to harm this man, collaise. Because you're gonna do it to me. So while I'm gonna sit here and be with you, you're gonna do it to me. I already see how you moving. Get that man his kids. Get that man his children. Because what happens is, like I said, now you going against what you believe in, and it's no, it's not gonna be no good in that. It's not gonna be no good in that. Now the kids can get older and say, You ain't my dad. You ain't my tat, you ain't my dad. You a nut old head. Don't let the boys get, they stick their chests out, they might swing on you. And now you in there ready to put your hands on the hands on the boy. Well, you could avoid all that and get the kids to the to what's going on and deal with them, however, have the custody breakdown.
SPEAKER_02But you say you see, you keep saying get a kid, like, what you gonna take if she don't want to get the kids up. I'm gonna tell her. If she'd be like, yo, I'm uh these are my kids, I'm keeping my kids over here with me. But I'll ask her why. And then she was. Because they mine. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_00All right. It's not a good enough reason. But because your lord says, from what we believe in, your lord says, once you get married, get the kids up.
SPEAKER_02But after she don't do that, what is your next thing? I'm gonna tell her.
SPEAKER_00I already know, I already know. Now I know who she is for real. And I know she's gonna do it to me. So you're done with her, you leave. Yeah, Colas.
SPEAKER_02I I respect that. I respect that. I just I'm gonna tell her, look, yo, look. I just don't like to get caught up because I'm not letting nobody get in my business.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but it's but once you once you get married to somebody, you you involved. You involved, right? Whether you believe or not you're involved. And then the kids is gonna look at you a certain way, man, depending on how she treats you. If she's treating you out of pocket, the kids are gonna look at you a certain way. If she's getting away with it, they're gonna look at you a certain way. Because now she's dictating, she's going against everything that y'all both believe come together upon. So now she's going against everything, and now you and her is at odds now. Now you and her, she she's gonna do it in the back of your mind like that. She's gonna do that to me. And now it's gonna be all the more pressure because now the kids get older and the young boys get sticking their chests out, the little girls start to get breasts and periods and minces and attitudes and snapping, and you and they're dealing with all that. You gonna be like, oh damn, yo, this ain't you and you walking in the room, but a little girl got a she got a like you wanna be around that? You want you want you wanna deal with that? Yo, get yo, sis, get that, get that man. This kid, especially if it's an upstanding man. Now, this is crumb bummed boy, all acting crazy, you know what I'm saying, up here shooting enough stuff, walking around with a poof shakes, you know, Robin, shooting around, acting crazy and getting high and doing all type of stuff, man. You can't you when that incident happened, when that situation happened, you're gonna know exactly what you're dealing with. You're gonna know who she is. All right. Look, you can't get them kids up. This is this is what our Lord says, this is what we gotta believe, this is what we're supposed to be doing. You can't do that for us, because it's gonna be work, and it's gonna be worse the second time for you. Well, yeah, I believe I believe that, but the second time, because like I said, those kids are gonna get older, you're gonna argue with her, you have a problem with now. The kids just looking down your looking looking in your face. Wait if you didn't say the wrong thing. Now the kids don't like you. Oh you ain't my dad. Now the kids is comparing you to their dad. All this different stuff, man. So the best thing to do is get the kids up if she gets married. That way y'all can have harmony, harmonious, I'm sorry, harmonious, harmonious situation. Y'all can build y'all and have y'all kids in there, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_02I I agree with that, that makes sense, but me, I'm just talking about me. I ain't once I because I ain't, yeah, I ain't I ain't into governing nobody else's kids, bro. Not me. And I'm not saying you, you're you're absolutely what you say it makes sense, and that that should be the the thing to do. But me, I ain't, I'm I'm letting them two handle that. Longs ain't nobody getting hurt and beating up on each other and all that. You know what I mean? Let me because uh again, for you, you don't know who this man is meeting her.
SPEAKER_00If you with the woman, if you with the woman, it's best to meet him, it's best to meet him. Yeah, but just by one encounter, so you a person. No, it's like you meet the boy like say, I mean, you beat the brother, you beat the brother. But with a woman, the woman, the woman meet the sister. Cause you around, because you around. But do that that one encounter it justifies. I done seen situations where as though a woman will go and meet the ex-wife. Mm-hmm. Cause the man wants you meet ex-wife, and then, but won't let the dad meet the other man.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, because a woman just she's going to see what the competition about. She's doing this for her own benefits and her own, you know, whatever the soothes her at night.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but I'm saying she gonna meet her though, it don't matter. Yeah. She's gonna meet her. But won't let you leave the man. So the big that so what like it no matter what your your whole whatever it is, it's about them kids. And it's about that. You can't make it about you, about yourself. So my thing is, I think that everybody needs to understand, man, is you know, you know, it's just fear of God, man. You know seriously, because at the end of the day, you're gonna you're gonna be called account for what you do. And if you oppress a person, you're gonna be in trouble. And and and and people have rights. You can't do things because you're feeling you're feeling feeling to have you in a way a bad a bad situation, man. You know what I mean? If I know anybody going through that, man, going through this stuff, man, talk to them, man. Man, let them know it's gonna be okay at the end of the day. I mean, and and sometimes sometimes men can't make it about them about themselves, but if a dude is a real stand-up dude, a good guy, he just wanna he just want to have his have his his rights of having his child. Because really, there's another thing too. Like, do a man really want to have another man around their daughters?
SPEAKER_01No.
SPEAKER_00You know, can't really hear you.
SPEAKER_02Do you you you you you do you really do you really ain't no man gonna want that? Do you really trust a man around your daughters? No man. Because I don't know him. I don't know him. But that's just your feelings on it. You know what I mean? That's you from that side. Everybody got a feeling on it. The new man got a feeling, you got a feeling, the baby mom or the ex-wife got a feeling, huff siblings and fans. Everybody got a feeling on the situation.
SPEAKER_00And then another thing too, for y'all, uh, for your for y'all's y'all's stepkids out there, the kids out there who's living with your uh, who living with your, you're still living with your parents, and you like in your in your 20s, 30s, whatever the case may be, is old, whatever you got going on, and and you being disrespectful to your parents in the house and they making sure that you got a roof over your head. You got you got you got hot water, electric, you know what I'm saying? A nice bed, internet, all that stuff. And you sitting in the house with your with your with your with your parents and you wanna be this disrespectful. Like walking past, don't speak. You got an attitude. You out of pocket. You out of pocket, man. So yeah, y'all, y'all, y'all y'all kids listening. You got you in the you in the crib with your mom and your dad, you know, or you know, you in there walking past with an attitude, like somebody owes you something. You just when you just took a 30-minute shower upstairs, you up there on the internet all day. You got a flat screen TV on your wall. And you get mad about little small stuff. Because your mom asks you to contribute to some food in the house. You because you used to taking your check and putting it all in your pocket. Like, come on, man. Hey, come on. You and you and you mad that you mad that you that your mom asked you to contribute. It's even worse when it's when it when it when it's when it's boys. Like the boys is crazy. Like you got you 20, you 22 years old, 23, 24 years old, and you mad at your mom because she tells you to clean up. Clean the kitchen. You shouldn't even be in there. If you there, clean up. And then you don't even want to pay no bills. How you 22, 23, 24 years old and want to pay no bills? You don't want to contribute to contribute to nothing. And you get mad if somebody tell you to tell you to contribute to a bill. Like what? How you how how you how you how you grown? You laying up, probably got, you know, a nigga coming through or a girl coming through, because you you laid up all day, whatever y'all got y'all got going on. And you and you know, you in there mad at you mad at your mom. Cause she said, can you pay the can you pay the gas bill, can you pay electric bill, can you put some food in the refrigerator? Can you buy some detergent? Like, what's going on out here in the world? You got you walk past your mom and don't speak.
SPEAKER_02But let me ask you this. Do you think a lot of that goes towards the mom, though, for indoctrinating this in him? Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02That's all I wanted to ask. Let it slide too long. Yeah, exactly. Because now, uh, because a person could make her see that her new man or who whatever, and now it's like, oh yeah, you right. And they now they try to implement this rule now. After all these years of just, yeah, you what you need my, or yeah, yeah, your girl, you're all y'all ever.
SPEAKER_00Now she, but yeah, but is she wrong? But she has the right to say when. Like now is the time to all right.
SPEAKER_02She's like, but the kid sees us not really her boy. But the kids. The only listen, listen. The kids see, we're gonna we're gonna get real, we gonna get real. We ain't gonna just keep it one-sided. The kid indoctrinating now. Hold up. Mom was never talking like this till this nigga came around. He already knows this is a ploy now. This is something that she wants because of it. Because now, if this nigga ever leave mom one day, is mom still gonna be standing on, yeah, give me these bills for this or that? Because she was never doing it before you got there. This is just something to think about. We ain't gonna just keep it one side. This is a whole script that gotta get peeled to the core. So you gotta you gotta look at all aspects of it. Like, damn, me, because I know if I'm a kid 18, 19 years old, I'm running among what my mom doing, I got my girl over or whatever, whatever. And she with a dude, and now all of a sudden these bills gotta get paid when she with this dude. These now she's, I'm gonna be like, hold the fuck up, man. You ain't never asked me about none of this, nowhere near it, ever, until this nigga. So now this is something too that comes to the case.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it's it's it's mom's fault. It is. It's mom's fault.
SPEAKER_02More so I'm talking about 99%.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, because she she's been collining them too long. You're right. And and and accepting.
SPEAKER_02And then when a man comes through, it ruffles everybody. Feathers. A real woman gonna run gonna run while Yeah, she is, but that still don't change the fact in the younger person mind, whoever the girl or the boy, this nigga is setting this precedent. Because again, would she do it if you was there? And I got to say no. She ain't been doing it. Would you agree with that?
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That's all I'm saying. No, but but what I'm saying is though, but oh you said you was the last part. You said you said, Do I do I agree with the with the with him saying no?
SPEAKER_02No, no, no, no. Do you agree with if you wasn't there, would she be saying this to him?
SPEAKER_00Hmm. It may be a lot of things that be going on that that by what one thing about chick ball, you will scrap, scrape, scrape.
SPEAKER_02You got something about that bit ball.
SPEAKER_00You talking about that all. That was duty. That was duty. But look, what I'm saying is this though, because it was this the weekend, and people just, you know, we got the podcast of people is texting and saying these things, and these things is real life events. People are really going through this stuff. So you gotta, you know, you gotta, you gotta understand. If she if she was doing that all this time, it's time you gotta teach people how to be adults. Because what happens if you ain't around? What happens if if if mom died? Yeah, yeah, God forbid.
SPEAKER_02But we know that's a that we know that's a fact at the end of the day. We're not bringing that up. We're not bringing up what happened with mom died. We know what these things teach you of you being responsible. We know what all that entails. But without you getting that indoctrination, and then all of a sudden, one day, it started happening when this new nigga came around. That's all I want you to look at. That part, not everything around it that what it caused or what it can't cause, it's gonna be in think about it.
SPEAKER_00If you was 19, 20 years old, okay, we're we have to.
SPEAKER_02But regardless, no, no, I'm telling you, regardless, you with your mom, your mom never telling you how to do something or pay for this or take that trash out ever. And now all of a sudden you see your mom with new Joe Blow. Now a couple months in there, so you're gonna start getting this, and I need something for this, uh, this, this whatever bill, whatever, whatever. You ain't never got none of this before Joe Blow came. And I even called him Joe Blow. This is her significant other part. A man. Never got none of this before. What do you think as a teenage kid? Like, oh, this nigga is the I. You wouldn't think that? You 19 years old. You okay, just say you see him, no?
SPEAKER_00I had different mentality, so I can't really think like that. We was young, we was, we was, we was running the streets, we had our own spots. You know what I'm saying? We living in Stevenson Terrace and all that. We living over here, you know what I mean? You know, what was it? Uh we living in uh Linwood Gardens, all the other other uh spots. As kids. As kids. We living in, you know, we had apartments. It was John uh Adams.
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SPEAKER_02I mean, I said Adams Run.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, Adams Run. You know, Stevens and Chad, we we had apartments, so we live in a having our own our own spots.
SPEAKER_02So But the with the but the temperature of how we grew up ain't the temperature nowadays, how these 1920. As you say, you sit there and see certain relationships pan out all around us.
SPEAKER_00But there are some good young bulls out here who who who adapt who would adapt to it. You know, it's yeah, you're right, Ma. That's one out of every 50. Oh, yeah. I I well listen to it. In this climate of the time. I I've seen, I've seen um situations where though people people have mentioned that now I think about it, and young boy come straight cash.
SPEAKER_02Uh dark skin beauty, you're absolutely right. I agree with her. Nah, that should have been in place already. The kid gonna feel some type of way. It's just life. It's just a fact. Now all of a sudden, this looks like some cold-blooded usury, bro. If you big, you get you gotta be smart, bro. You you you you one of the intelligent men I know in my life, bro. In my life. But something just uh like I say, I'm 20 years old. My mom just got with this new dude. Now all of a sudden she tells me I need to. All right, cool, granted. I know I probably supposed to be doing this. I'm 20. But in my head, I'm like, because I'm still young, because you're gonna be like, oh, all right, yeah. But why? Because of this nigga, mom? You ain't been saying nothing before this nigga.
SPEAKER_00No, it ain't because of this nigga, because you a grown man.
SPEAKER_02You're a grown woman. But that's your answer. That's what it's why it is. But but that but but if he was to ask her that, could she say because you're a grown man, or is yeah, you you you you you might be saying something because my husband's saying something to me about it.
SPEAKER_00Because maybe dude be coming in like, listen, I'm paying all his bills in this junk.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, you're right. You you but but regardless. Regardless, it still starts with her. That's all I'm trying to get you to understand. She wasn't doing none of this before this individual came in. Nothing. Now all of a sudden she just up one day when I'm coming in with bags of sneaks with my girl, whatever, whatever. Hey, yo, you gotta pay. I'm like, well, shit, I ain't had to. Well, I'm automatically no, it's because the main man she with. Right and wrong. Right, but yeah. Now I'm not saying this makes it right for him to act in that manner. Hell no. But this is the type of, see, this shit get tricky with these kids and dealing with women that ain't your kids. And boy, this shit is a goddamn mess. If you ask me, I ain't, man, I am coolio.
SPEAKER_00How your young boy got hair on your nuts and don't want to pay no bills.
SPEAKER_02But listen, we ain't even getting into that. We be these young boys is crazy. You got grown men with four, four fuzzy hair on your nuts and ain't paying no bills. So let alone young boy gotta grow up into that and in that that indoctrination. But it's still a mess, it's still, man, me, I'm sorry, man. No offense to everybody, dark skin beauty and all that. I I mean moving forward in life, man, I wanna try to find a relationship to where as though, if I'm dealing with a woman with kids, her kids is grown, they gone. Or I can't, I I it's just gonna be some fuckery along the line somewhere. Her trying to hold the kids, and now I gotta check her to give him his kid. I I just don't want to deal with no woman with kids, and I'm not saying that y'all bad women ain't have kids, because y'all out here carrying it for your kids dolo, and y'all good women. Y'all taking care not only your kids, but yourselves, your property, your friends, your mother. But me, I'm gonna go ahead and be gang gang with y'all. If y'all got kids, just gang gang. Uh, you know, a relationship that's gonna take a lot. Because a lot come with it. Feet a lot like shit, like shit like that.
SPEAKER_00They all the kids can parry to their dad. Yeah, my dad. He's trying to tell me what I gotta do. We went, we ain't been doing this in here. Mom, mom been struggling paying to pay all these bills, but but but but mom been broke, yeah. Mom been mom been struggling starving. That's why I say I love you. Mom ain't got things you'll just book them. Mom ain't got no life. Mom just wanna sit here and work hard to take care of me. Out of pocket, though. But he tells me it ain't always a boy, it can be a girl too. Yeah, boys sometimes boys be um understanding, yeah, exactly. But it it it it it can be it can be boys too, but it gets, but it's it's worse when it's a boy who got attitude and walking past an attitude, whatever the case may be. But like, yo, y'all, y'all think mom knows uh people's mothers and fathers got wants and needs, mom can use that little extra little deuce, yeah. In her pocket, the extra little petty talk about a deuce. Sometimes people mom even got no man, and she might ask you, well, she might got a man, and she's trying to just ask some time to get put to buy something that look nice, and she can go out on a date with what I what I do. Just pay the son, pay the electric bill this month, pay the water. Yeah, but but pay to this bill.
SPEAKER_02Feek we know, we know at the end of the day.
SPEAKER_00And you got a job and you can't you got a job job in there?
SPEAKER_02We know at the end of the day, if we being honest and we truthful, and that's what we try to ascribe to up here on this platform of ours, of a lot. We try to lead with uh almost 100% honesty. Man, bro, you come into a situation, bro, to where as though, you know, you leading though. You come in to take a good man to lead his family, a good man to know what he wants. But when you come in there and you and you, that's like the same thing what I was telling you about with my baby mom, bro. You're coming in, I'm clean. This is something that was never put down before. Now, I mean, I am of the I'm causing the wrinkle in this situation that always been established upon this. When you wasn't there, that wasn't no, like she was struggling to do that, not even asking the kids for them because granted, um, is the mother wrong? These my babies, take care of my baby. So she's not wrong. She's not wrong at all. Now it's like, damn. She get a man that, like, hold up, man, speak up for yourself. And these motherfuckers is grown and they doing this, whether it's a girl or boy, or it's still wrong. Cause the kid's gonna be like, cause she might be like, yeah, you right, bang. God damn, it's somebody, you right. Yeah, they're gonna start playing. You are the number one enemy in that household, bro. Only one that loves you unconditionally is her.
SPEAKER_01You is a boy, man. That's just it. Crazy and shit.
SPEAKER_00Man, so yeah, it's it's it's it's a uh it's a tough, it's an uphill battle for for for men, like you know what I'm saying? That's why I would always advise men if you mean to move to your own spizzot. Might want to move to your own spizz out, but you know that's always the goal. Move, yeah, baby, but it's just hard. Like, it's not dude, it's it's just difficult when you gotta um deal with that. And sometimes like a person can see stuff, like a person can look at you, your your your relationship with your kids, your mother. And that goes on, but vice versa, men and women. You might might bear see something that you can't. Like they they're they using you. You're talking about the outside. Yeah, look at that. They're using you, man. Like yeah, yeah. I don't like your cuz or that. They're probably trying to get money out of you, or man, or a person said this, and but that's gonna go like that. No, but but listen, but what but what I'm saying though, some people can see things and see things that you can't see. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_02Or you might see it and choose to overlook it. Yeah, because you might see because you ain't no fool, or I ain't no fool.
SPEAKER_00You'll see uh but dads be sometimes the men don't men don't move like that with their kids though. My daughter probably because my daughter ain't walking ahead, you know what I mean, with no no no boyfriend. But I'm saying, like a dude uh get a they son, like, look, you have you gotta pay bills. Exactly.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, dude. It'd be more so be the mom than him.
SPEAKER_00I remember I remember uh every summer, uh the beginning of the summer when I was like uh summertime nine till like maybe twelve, thirteen. My dad gave me sixty dollars the whole for uh the start of the summer off with sixty dollars. I wouldn't buy nothing else. No shoes, no sneakers, nothing. So I had to go what? What were we doing? Gas stations, uh uh barbershop floors, bagging, uh clothing and laundry when we was really like going to war over that stuff. But I'm just saying, now people uh cut uh colling the kids up, man.
SPEAKER_02Dark skin beauty, I agree exactly what you said. I agree with that, man. But I just like moving forward in my older, my big years in life now, man. I'm damn near 50, man. And for me to take someone on fully and wholly, man. I don't do that. The kids got to be already intact. Like, cause yeah, man, like I said, once you coming in there and you laying down a mean, but uh uh uh a positive atmosphere for us to thrive in and us paying bills at 2122 is a positive atmosphere. Especially if you got a job, you got a job. Especially if you got a job. Super! You just go and get your checks and coming in this motherfucker hey week, huh? Come on, bro. But like you said, a man would address that faster than a woman because you know, baby, women want to baby. Hey, come on, baby, come on. I got you, I got you. You might I'm 46 years old. My mama always said, I'm I'm still her baby. Well, baby, here go a little 40 dollars before you get you lunch. I'm 46 years old. You give me 40 dollars for lunch money.
SPEAKER_00My mama gets tired of you too at the wild, though, but it's a little bit.
SPEAKER_02It took a lot more. Yeah. My mama still be right, that's my baby. And I get well, shit, but not mine's. Ah, I can't believe I have that nigga know what he's supposed to do. You know what I'm saying? So I get it. I get it from both sides.
SPEAKER_00But once your mom gets tired of you, it's a rat.
SPEAKER_02Oh, it's a rat. Once she gets there to that point, but you can push, the man can also push the mom to get tired of you because she'd have never got tired of you if you wouldn't have came around. Because she done still let it go. Because this is a way of life for her now. This is how she functions. This is a part of her regiment every day. She don't want to disrupt that. Like, what's the name said? Who I'm gonna be with after y'all leave, the kids. The kids is the kids become like they mate, they friends, they mate. Like, I done seen some sons talk to their mom, like, mom, where you going? We will like, this is your mom. What do you mean? Where's she going? And what time she coming back? Ain't nothing wrong with that, really. No, with that, yes, it is. I do that none of my mom. Yeah, but but still, but but do you so what though? That's what boys do.
SPEAKER_00Only the check, where you going at?
SPEAKER_02Like you how you why you out so you want to re go bust it for a real nigga. And she tell you that, and then you sorty. Then you sorty. Then you sorty because you in her business. Yeah, I might be sort of sorty. Yeah, man. And that's the type of shit my mama say. Your mama say that too. Crazy as shit, just like us. And you sitting there like, then you all goofy as shit looking stupid. Yeah, you know what going out, my nigga. Yeah, mom's get it too. Yeah, I mean, they they grown people and they got needs too. So we gotta be of the of the knowledge. Like, I won't get into certain situations or asking, like, my mom grown. Like, I know she ain't with a man and he still slinging guns and shooting, he takes her a drug block. All right, mom, be safe. Call me if something goes wrong, but yeah. That's it. That's it. All that me trying, where you going? What time you being home? Come on, man. You better go get your motherfucker. I know you do, but that's you a creep. You into the little creep shit like that.
SPEAKER_00I just want to know, just make sure she's cool.
SPEAKER_02She's cool. You know she's cool.
SPEAKER_00Where you coming from?
SPEAKER_02Getting them clapped up. She's grown. She's a say that.
SPEAKER_00She'll say, I was at the casino or something. Well, well, yeah, well, yeah. It's none of your business. Yeah, she ain't gonna say that.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, all right. Well, yeah. Well, you know, you'll be you'll be lame, especially if he dropped her off.
SPEAKER_00You think she'd be lying to me?
SPEAKER_02She don't lie to you, she just don't tell you the full truth. Casino skipped out the uh the room up there with main man, but it was still at the casino. But you don't get the full truth. But why should you? You her son, nigga. The hell you think this is? That woman ain't lived that long for nothing, raised you into the be the honorable man you is, as long as she ain't out there doing no wild stuff and pitting she with her. All right, man.
SPEAKER_00I'm about to call her while I'm leaving ask her to be. Oh my god, man.
SPEAKER_01Like you out like, yeah, man, you might got to know truth with it. And it ain't just no suit, no set boy. You know me and I like it. Yeah, man. Come with a date.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm about to call you, Bob. Yo, yo, you gotta find it action, like she's lying to me. But yeah, man, you know, the thing about it is this though, man. Yo, like y'all gotta um stay, stay, stay free, man. Stay safe. We're gonna take these phone calls, man. We because I know we're going a little over the time, but uh phone lines is open, man. Hopefully the bill's been paid. Uh 215-316-4492. 215-316-4492. Yeah, man. I hope she ain't lying to me, man.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, call up, man. Tell me what you think about that topic we brought up to you first and foremost, man. Due to with the woman. Dark Skin Beauty, I want you to answer that, Dark Skin Beauty. Would you get mad at your husband for killing your biological son if your biological son tried to rape your biological daughter that's by your current husband? Do you want to see him in jail? Answer that for me, Dark Skin Beauty. That's for you. That's one of the women that's a part of my family, our family up here, and I think you're gonna give me a nice good answer on that. I just want a woman's perspective on this.
SPEAKER_00But you know, the other thing too, like, um whenever you whenever you have like uh a mom, mom gets a uh a new husband in the house, and the husband may have rules or have regulations. This is wrinkled, this is going to be a honorable, honorable man.
SPEAKER_02But still has a reputation of being honorable. Fuck all that honorable. Once his rules implemented, you could be the the the grump the scum of the earth. When rules get into place in a situation, and it wasn't never nothing near you bought them, test the line.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you know, you got you got yeah, yeah, you're right. Once some once some rules come back.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, motherfucker be like, oh, motherfucker, that that's un that's like me being in the AC house for five summers, and then this next summer I'm gonna all goddamn heat. You ain't used to that. You is not used to that. You coming with a whole new agenda, bro. You are the op, bro. Until everybody this the disperse and leave, and you and your baby there, and when I say your baby, your old lady, bro, it's hard to restructure a grown. And it's easy to calibrate somebody young grown up to it. But when a motherfucker got, yeah, man, we got to we gotta turn it up some. I hear it.
SPEAKER_00No, you gotta connect it. That's what I'm gonna test it.
SPEAKER_02Oh, you call you called it?
SPEAKER_00No, he testing it. See what's going on. Yeah, it ain't connected yet.
SPEAKER_02Oh, ain't nobody called just now, no.
SPEAKER_00No, no, but the thing, the thing about it too, though, like, you know, when you have um an honorable stand-up man, or what about what about a woman coming in trying to? It's probably worse a woman coming trying to tell a man how because cause men get ran over by their daughters too. So a a man marrying a marrying a new woman, and a woman coming in, like, your daughters is out of pocket. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. Yeah, a woman will be more disrespectful than a man. A younger woman and a younger man, a w a younger woman will be disrespectful to uh uh a new mom faster than a boy will be disrespectful to a new dad. Women don't be like, they don't be wanting to hear none of that. Don't let the mom come in there and got some, don't let her mom be a buzzer. Be one of them ones that want to party all the time, but just so happened that's her mom, she loves her mom. And you beat a woman of substance that got something going on, like the clean, like the cook, wanna implement some things, think she can give a vice because of no woman.
SPEAKER_00In the house by a certain time, not out on the streets partying. Oh my god, that that's gonna be boy. And she's telling you, like, yo, y'all can't come in here at this late party. Y'all can't y'all coming in drunk and oh my god. Oh, y'all can't wear them kind of outfits. Y'all should dress a little more.
SPEAKER_02Oh my god, can you imagine that?
SPEAKER_00Can you imagine that? It's a rumble. But then my thing is nam what you do. I gotta live I gotta leave leave my daughter's where they at and still pay for them to have to live at, but move out, move out, move with my uh my wife.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I agree with that.
SPEAKER_00I gotta separate them. They can't be in the same house.
SPEAKER_02I agree with that 100%. Now you cooking with grease right now, feet, because you just was on your your tire about a half hour ago.
SPEAKER_00But right now you're gonna be like, because girls is a little different. They'll be in there fighting. Men really ain't gonna fight. I'm not gonna really fight. You're not gonna fight your uh your stepson. It takes a lot they really get there. But girls go off with that first little I mean, that first little argument, they going right in it. You might have some words with a young guy, talk to him. He more he would he might be ready to listen more. But the you know what I'm saying? Girls, they can't have a conversation because they gonna say something smart. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They get right into the emotional bag. What? Yo, when we was young, Zaynab, who was young, kids. And my stepmom was arguing with Zaynab back in the day. Zay Nab ain't like it. You know, Zaynab was really always ready to really, really like a fighter. So one day my stepmom said something, and Siobon said something, and then my stepmom said, I'ma break your, I'll break your face and you and your mom's face, something of the other sort. Zay Nab said, Custer, I mind you, we kids. I don't know how we probably was like 10, 11 and 10. I don't know. We was kids, it was young. Say Nab left out the house, went and got my mom. My mom came back around to the house to my stepmom. We kids. You know, we live in Brooklyn Street, my dad live on 42nd Street. They read it right behind you, walked up the lot and get right there at E's house. Man, my mom crying, and my mom ready to fight. My um ready to fight my um my stepmom in there. And uh, but it didn't happen. My stepmom went and come down the steps. And my grandma was standing in front, so my mom didn't want to knock my grandma over. But you know, that's that caused a big fight. My family, both my families clashed behind that. The girls on my the women on my on my mom's side and women on my dad's side, they all clashed and had a like a real rumble behind that. But why would the women on your dad's side have anything to do with it? Because they were saying that my mom came around and disrespecting their grand their mom's house.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so that's why they jumped.
SPEAKER_00And my and my and my stepmom like spiced it, but my mom, but you know, so they that caused the uh Yeah, friction. Yeah, it caused a real live. I'm talking about people, people got get hit with locks and socks and everything out there, yo.
SPEAKER_02145 likes to 216 in the chat. I really can't get mad at that. Again, 145 likes, likes to 216 people in the chat as of now. I can't get mad at that. But goddamn, man, come on, man, pump me up, man. Come on, man. Pump me up, pump me up, pump me up off this junk, man. I'm feeling good, man. Pump me up. We gonna turn up and turn out, pump me up.
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SPEAKER_02Very good.
SPEAKER_00Um, for me, you know, uh it this these type of topics don't stop. These are real life topics. People are going to.
SPEAKER_02Somebody say they just called in, it was ringing out. They said y'all don't hear the phone. Black skin beauty said she just called. Huh?
SPEAKER_00Oh man. So yeah, we have a little technical issues with the uh with the phone lines today. I don't know what's going on, y'all, but we have a little technical issues with it, but we'll uh we'll kind of figure it out um what's going on. But we thank y'all, man, uh, for tuning in today, man. We'll have a phone available tomorrow. Might have a special guest tomorrow with y'all for y'all. So don't forget to tune in. Um, anything you want to say, young before we get up out of here?
SPEAKER_02Man, think, man. Let's make it back to this weekend, y'all. We got we got past the week and got to the work week, man. Everybody working out here, man. You gotta do what they gotta do to pay their bills, man. Take care of their kids, take care of yourself because you can't take care of nothing else, your bills, your kids eating if you ain't taking care of yourself. You know what I mean? So, you know what I mean? Live the fight another day, man. Make great decisions, man. I ain't even saying make great decisions, make the best one available. You know what I'm saying? And yeah, let's let's live life, man. Let's live life, man. And I want to thank everybody, man, about the Friday that we just went past. And I was a little down. I'm a human being. I go through things. I'm not saying I ain't gonna go through nothing again, but I love the feedback off the energy that y'all was giving me from my energy that day. Thank you to everyone out there, man. Thank you. Dark Skin Beauty, James LaFlane, C Dollar Bills. Uh, it's a bunch of names that I ain't gonna go down the list, but thank everybody.
SPEAKER_00Larry Krasner.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, oh Larry, yeah. Where's Larry?
SPEAKER_00Larry said, you know my number 911. I saw that earlier, man. It's crazy. But uh, I want to say something too. Also, uh, we have uh our injury law firm coming soon. Jackson and Page injury law firm. Uh so I'm gonna, you know, get my um clap, you know, my clap it up for my man on duty. I don't oh, it's a clap it up. My bad, that was crazy. Uh yeah, uh Jackson and Page uh injury law firm. Injury if you've been injured in a car accident, you've been injured, and you know, uh, you know, in a malpractice fraud, whatever you've been injured, you've been injured. We'll have a number for you guys for you guys to call tomorrow. Uh that'll be available. It'll be Jackson and Page Law. You know what I'm saying? Jackson and Page Law. Anything else else you want to say, young? That's it, man. Listen, y'all, thank y'all for tuning in once again. Tells from the jail, sponsored by TNS Media Group. We're here live in power, as you will say. Thank everybody for tuning in. Y'all know where to follow us at, you know where to find us at Apple Podcasts, Spotify. Thank y'all for all the love. Everybody's been supporting us. Uh, we are on Amazon Music, you know, iHeartRadio, you name it, Tells from the Gels has been, you know, doing some substantial amount of numbers. Thanks to the support. Everybody listening, everybody that's in the chat. Thank y'all very, very much. It's Tells from the Gels.