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Yo, yo, yo. What's up, everybody? It's Tells from the Jails. We're here live in Parkman, you will say TNS Media Group is a team and a family. Um, today is a nice day outside, not too hot, you know, just you know, good weather. Summer's winding down, you know, electric bikes everywhere.
SPEAKER_04Well, I'm out here though. You ain't even introduced me. Not my counterpart, Mr. Brian Jackson. Just you here. Oh my God. Just you. This man is only 12 peak here today, y'all.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, me and Noob, Sidebot, we're here today. But listen, you know, I heard you had an interesting weekend this weekend, man. I was like, No, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_04We're not not, we're not, we're not, we're not, we're not gonna do that.
SPEAKER_00No, do what?
SPEAKER_04We're not gonna go into what? Your tragic acting. No, no, no, no. Listen, listen. All we talk about. Listen, all we know that today, Monday morning, this excuse me, Monday evening, this mute, this beautiful evening of ours is painting out great. I see everybody, all the family is in there, 215, Nitro, James LaFlane, where you would been at, Slim, kill my mother, Mo. You mean Ms. X? Like we in the building. I got a topic. Um, I had a good weekend, man. I was riding around, I was living like I was 18, 19 years old this weekend. This weekend, man, I went out, man, and I let them hang. Don't do it. You only can imagine what I let hang. Not these yeeks. You understand me? But I let them hang. And I let them hang on a grown-up tip. I was out there, I was enjoying life. I didn't get in trouble. As you can see, me and my brother is here Monday evening, you know, to see what's up with the family, man. But I was riding around on the city, feet on land. Feet on land. I'm pulling up, you know me, electric bike. Yeah, you mean so Feak City gonna get 10 of them next week. I hopefully I can I'll be in on that. I swear, boy, you can't handle that.
SPEAKER_00I'm riding dirt bikes and all that.
SPEAKER_04You cannot I don't even want to clearly you can't either.
SPEAKER_00So you can't either.
SPEAKER_04Hold up. I've never said I've been riding them 10, 15 years, nothing like that. I got on one.
SPEAKER_00You got on one? What happened?
SPEAKER_04I had to learn a lot. I had to learn.
SPEAKER_00All right, yeah. All right. So what happened? Good. What happened? I'll make sure everything's cool. What did you say?
SPEAKER_04I I had to learn. Everybody gotta learn no matter what. No matter what age you may be in life, if you're five, ten, fifteen, twenty, twenty-five, thirty, thirty-five, forty, fifty, fifty, sixty, seventy, eighty, ninety, hundred. Everybody still life is about learning. So no matter how what age you reach and what age you may think is the highest, you still can learn something. Yeah. And um, I learned this weekend. Learn what? Respect the uh I learned to respect machines. Oh, yeah? Like anything that they selling for a thousand dollars and better is not to be played with. Yeah. Yeah, all that. I learned uh physically. Not just mentally. I learned mentally, but physically. My body is, you know, I'm looking, I'm I'm up here, I'm up here and I'm looking intact, but I'm I'm You heard you? Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Hey, so so what happened? So you was it's a um so you was so you was riding a bike, what happened? You uh you were speeding, you what happened? Like your like your thumb dislocated?
SPEAKER_04No, no, no, no, no. That always looked like that. I socked the nigga in jail. That's why this looked like this. But what happened was I was riding. Um I got in two crashes, actually. Wow. One last night in the rain. Man, my co-defender was arguing at his house. He sent me home, kicked me out, him and his girl. I didn't want to leave at the time while the argument was going on due to the heavy rain, but the argument was so crazy that I just left. And that was a bad leave. But we ain't gonna talk about that's the second crash. But the first crash, um I crashed into a parked car.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah, they got a picture. They got a picture of you at the time. Are you sure? Yeah, it's uh it's uh it's um are you sure or are you lying? I look at your phone to see it. Yeah, it's it's a picture of you on your car at after the accident. And you sitting there nursing your wounds on the ground.
SPEAKER_05What you laughing about, bro?
SPEAKER_00They got a picture, you up there? They got a picture of you up there. This is you went viral a lot. This is you fell off the bike. Nursing your wounds, nursing yourself back together, have that motorcycle accent. So you was going what?
SPEAKER_03Yo, yo, yo, yo. That's crazy, man.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, that was a bad drone, man. I ain't even who see that yo, that's that. I'm gonna let you some know something right now. I should keep this bike from your brother and then get both of you niggas mad. But I'm gonna go ahead and chill, get a bike back. He lands about 8 o'clock tonight. I really don't like that bike. I'm gonna let you know that right now. So tell everybody what happened. What happened with this incident right here that everybody can see the picture from? Um, I was off the 27th in Lehigh. But those who are from North Philadelphia know exactly what this location is. And for those who ain't from Philadelphia, period, it's in North Philadelphia where I'm saying I'm where I'm describing where the incident happened at. Um I'm riding, man. I'm riding with Doc. It's probably about three other guys out there. It's uh this is a pine retrieving the bike, too. Oh, so I just Doc came and got me and put me on the back of his and took me to the location where the bike was waiting for me.
SPEAKER_00So people can get on that bike?
SPEAKER_04It ain't supposed to, but it can. Oh, wow. Okay. So you was like, y'all like real close. Yeah, I was up on, I was nuts to butt. Now on duty. It was super nuts to butt. I got my legs open on the back, like holding them off the ground. I gotta tell him to stop every goddamn half a mile because my everything, ass and nuts and hurting. Not on duty. Okay. Yeah, I mean, we get around the way. I got I retrieved the bike from the location I was supposed to retrieve it from, and we proceed to go on our route. During the journey of our route, we end up over there on the side of 27th and Lehigh. From those who are from North Philadelphia know exactly where 27th and Lehigh is, and we commence to Harold Street. That's about 25th and Lehigh and turn off and H block. Everybody, North Philly stand up H block in a building. I'm down there. I stops the bike actually. Okay. I stops it. I got my feet planted firmly on the ground, and I see everybody behind me. They stop behind me and like turn like U-turns is to go back up the street. Something going on up there. We're going up there seeing the people. We're seeing the people, you know, the people who's driving, the people who's committing law, uh breaking crimes. We're telling everybody, stop doing what you're doing, man, and enjoy life. So I see everybody went back the other way. So I'm thinking, all right, cool. The bike got three gears: one gear, two gear, three gear. First gear is like 25 to like damn near 30. Excuse me, like 10 to 30. 10 to 30, first gear. First gear, the the the lowest you can go is 10 miles per hour, and the highest you can go is 30 miles per hour. Second gear is like 45 to like 55, 60. Mm-hmm. So so that's a higher gear. That them drones ain't nothing to be played with, bro. Yeah, clutch runner? No. Oh, is it just no, no, it's no clutch, it's just all electric. So just get just turn it up and turn it down when you're ready. Go ahead and get 10 of them for us, man. Let's go bop through the city. But this is a good, this is a good spin. It's a good spin, but I respect it. I'm not scared of it, I respect it. So I go to turn the bike around. I'm turning it around. To follow the rest of the entourage, and I'm with Dot, a couple other numerous, numerous people. We're going back down the other side of Lehigh. So while I'm turning it turning it around, it's not a turn like to where as though I'm making a wide turn and I'm still hitting the throttle and I'm turning. It's like I'm already, I'm standing up. I got the bike in neutral. So I'm looking back and I see everybody turned around. So all I gotta do is just walk with it. So as I'm walking, like to push it, to turn it back the opposite way that I'm coming, I hit the throttle by accident. Because, you know, I still gotta learn these things and there's brakes up there and all. But you know, the throttle is right there, the the the the hand guard where we hold it at, and all you gotta do is the right one is turn it. And I hit it, and I didn't know to let go of it. Okay. I hit it, I didn't know to let go of it or to hit the brake. So when I hit it, as I'm walking to turn it around, and it was an accent, so it takes off. Yeah, but I'm on it. So I'm like running with it and dragging at the same time. Okay. And as I'm doing this, instead of hitting the brake or letting the throttle go, I continue to hold the throttle back as it at its full capacity, which is picking up speed in the gear that I'm in. Because you was in shock about how it moves. Yeah, yeah. I'm like, God damn it. I'm not thinking of nothing but stopping. Yeah. But my mind is not telling me to hit the brake or to let the throttle go. So I ram into a parked car. A park car, not a not a car that was currently moving and in the flow of traffic. It was sitting there. It was so parked that I dented the car and I was in the street for about an hour after I received puncture wounds in my legs and all that. My legs is messed up right now. So my legs is bandaged up heavy and all that. So the people didn't even come out to see that they call because I ain't got the money to pay them. I'd have had to call you, like feet. Need a little stack real fast. And no and no insurance from the bike? It's because they they got them online. They got them online.
SPEAKER_00I don't know if I don't know if they make insurance. If they make insurance, you're gonna have to call me. You could have just uh oh yeah.
SPEAKER_04Well, I'm already thinking that I gotta call somebody if they come out here because I ain't trying to die. This is what I'm thinking. A nigga already run out. The car got tin on it, so I'm already thinking, damn, it's a nigga. It's bombed out the door, the door where you open it up, then it and because the times. So y'all kept going. No, I stayed. We stayed there for an hour because I'm discaboblated. Nobody came out.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_04So I kept going because it mustn't nobody came out. So I got back on the bike. So now I have a new found respect for the bike.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_04I wish we could turn the cameras around to show everybody. These are black. Oh, a bunch of North Philly guys got these bikes. These bikes ain't everywhere. No, only in North Philly. Oh, they got them everywhere.
SPEAKER_00I see. I don't know if the uh the bikes.
SPEAKER_04They know Philly. Yeah. All North Philly boys got these bikes right now.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_04These is e-bikes, but it's not your pedal bike. These is electric bikes that look like dirt bikes. I wish we could pick that up. Do the cops mess mess with you on them jikes? Only if if you're on the sidewalks and stuff.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_04If you're not and you're in the street, because it got signals. It got uh street street legal. Yeah. Okay. And it got light in the front and you can turn on at night. It's yeah, I mean, so if you're doing but the law, like say if you're riding behind a car and you ain't trying to cut between cars and go past the raillight, they'll mess with you then. But if you're following the the laws of the street, then you alright.
SPEAKER_00So that lets your bike at the speeds that it can reach, is basically that you could die on that bike. Like you like, you almost died.
SPEAKER_04So you could die on this bike. I didn't almost die because it was a lightweight crash, but it was damn near there, if that makes sense. So you can die. You can lose your life at a warming rate on this bike. When I was coming up here just now, yeah, I know I got respect for it. But when I get in open land, I put it in gear three, it's 75 to 80. I'm rolling that joint trying to lift up. I'm rolling. I'm like, I'm bending all past traffic. I'm coming down, Lee Hop, boom. Man, I think I feel like I'm the shit. I'm like, I ain't no boy. I thought I was time cruise on that motherfucker the movie. Uh the joint time cruise with me flying and all that back and forth, and they know how to fight jets and all that. That's when he was good. I thought I was him. I'm like, yo, I'm coming through the chicks. Oh my god, black.
SPEAKER_00You fight a grab with me.
SPEAKER_04You see the post, you see the post we put up one chick put up, she was like, Oh my god, my north nigga, my west nigga. Because me and but we rolling, we deep. We all there. I'm I'm like, damn, okay. It's a good job. We ain't in no you know what? We went to Annie's today. Annie's seafood spot on 64 for Harry for everybody. Check that out. And this is a free promotion shout out. But I went and got some braided wings today. Me, that both both of them was on their scooter. And we went up there and we deep. We on these, but everybody got either that or a scooter. So the dude that was working in there that was making our braided wings was like, Yeah, y'all pulled up looking like he was our age. Like he was in his 40s. He's like, yo, it looked like back in the day. Remember how we used to drive up on bikes? We didn't care about nothing. With a couple of us got candy, like that's how y'all pulled up, like that join fast. Like it was just getting back to some old back in the day, you know what I'm saying? Remember how I was rolling up back in the day?
SPEAKER_00I mean, you had that trash behind blaster and you want to let nobody ride.
SPEAKER_04That you because everybody else had their own bikes, but you had to let nobody ride your bike. Yeah, but because I'm not gonna let you ride my bike. You got your own bike, why ride mine? But I had the little one, you know. The blaster is the baby of the banshee, and that joint was goofy. We we getting somewhere. You burnt the clutch out on that, whatever you did today. I finally did. I finally did. But listen, man, I got a great topic for us today, Fink. Man, I got something, man, that's gonna probably it's not gonna blow your mind, but it's gonna shake you up to ask a bunch of dumb ass questions where we can be grinding you up in the comments afterwards. Okay, that's that's good. Um, the question I have today, man. You know, shout out to the family, man. Everybody that's here, man. Shout out to everybody that's here with us on this Monday, man. Hopefully, the flame you out here. I see you in attendance, and you ain't go to jail or nothing like that. But uh, Dark Skin Beauty, is she in attendance? Yeah, Dark Skin Beauty, Mr. Stax. Okay, we'll say that. Justin Porter. I want everybody to listen in to this question that I'm ready to ask, and we go ahead and Krasners in there too. Well, that ain't the real lad. He's faking like shit.
SPEAKER_00That's Larry Krasner. That ain't Larry Krasner.
SPEAKER_02That nigga faking like shit.
SPEAKER_00That nigga can't call the movement stop. Yeah, listen, y'all. It is almost close to being official. Uh that Larry is gonna be up here on this podcast, man. It's almost close to being official.
SPEAKER_04Don't be telling them anything all the time.
SPEAKER_00Go ahead.
SPEAKER_04Man, boy by you always talking about some you had a good conversation, and your sneaks look bald up today. Okay. They look like the joints I wear. But listen. I don't know about that.
SPEAKER_00You'll be telling out the side of the.
SPEAKER_03Not today. If it is, it's supposed to bite. Not today. Yeah, babe. But listen.
SPEAKER_00Go ahead.
SPEAKER_04Um, I was gonna show you all the blood.
SPEAKER_00I see it. Oh, your sneaks is black and red.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, red. You see it? All that's blood.
SPEAKER_00It's bleeding like that.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, uh. That's join crazy. Like he was fighting a lion or something. Yeah, exactly. That's join crazy. But it's cool. I know, I know everything. But the topic for the day is everybody, just hear me out, close your eyes and think. You two feet, close your eyes and just hear me. You have a relationship. You meet a woman. Upon meeting this woman, right? From a man's standpoint, you have a son, she has two kids. Both of y'all kids, all three of y'all kids is relatively young, meaning one to two years old. This is a hypothetical question that goes on in society today. Both of y'all kids, none of y'all kids is over five. You like her. You take her on as your woman, not a just a fling, a slide or something you hitting at. This is your woman. So now if this is your woman, that means she's taking on your son or your daughter, the one child that you have, and you're taking on her two kids. Am I correct?
SPEAKER_00I'm listening to that.
SPEAKER_04Because this is a family. I say, am I correct?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I mean, I have to say.
SPEAKER_04I say if you would choose to do that and marry her, that would be your like the father not around. Yeah. You was with her for nine to ten years, seven to ten years. Seven to ten years, y'all been together. Growing, flourishing. Then got left apartment, went to a crib, then y'all got another crib. Y'all, y'all growing, y'all working together. And upon doing so, you'll be taking care of all three of them kids, right? Yeah. All three of them kids, you'll be taking care of. Because you're the man in the house, you're the man of the household, the head of the household, right?
SPEAKER_07Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_04Okay. With that being said, one day you know about who a baby father is. Yeah. You know he's a nigga. In the last seven and ten years, you probably seen him ten times.
SPEAKER_07Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_04That's not a lot in seven to ten years. You know he comes at all. Like with Danny, not even once a year, Danny. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? But but you know who he is. When he gets him, when he gets the acting right, he comes around or whatever. Whatever. But when he gets in his bitch mode, he ain't around. Okay, one day you out and about, you had a seafood joint. Your wife wants some shrimp and all that, but you take the kids. You take your son, who is your biological son by another woman, you take her two kids, who you've been raising, which is your kids. You take them, you take them, you take them to the seafood spot. They want some, they want some, I want some crab and noodles and all that. So you're like, I'm gonna take the kids and we're about to be back. We're gonna get the food. You got all three kids. Upon you at this seafood spot, the baby father walks in. Right? You hear me? Everybody, upon y'all at this seafood spot, the baby father enters the store that y'all are in. Upon seeing him, he knows who you is. You know who he is. You've been with this woman seven to ten years. He knows you, the kids, his kids have been raised underneath your tootelage, which is proper. You a good man, you working, whatever you ain't in the streets. He says, Damn, damn, what's up with you? You know, give you the proper yum mean, damn, man. He sees his kids, he's hugging his kids. You ain't yeah, you ain't saying nothing about him hugging his kids, is you? No. Yum, yeah. He's like, damn, man, he getting on the grill. He like, yo, Feek. I'm about to take the kids, my my two kids real fast. We're gonna go somewhere. We I'm gonna drop them off at the crib tonight. What is your answer at today? If you ask me that? Yeah. Um I'm like, I was telling him like, look, oh, audience, I want y'all to answer it, the men. I want the women to answer it too if the verse, the roles was reversed. But right now we asking tall feet, but as he answering the question, the men get your answers together and tap in. So what is your next response? He said, yo, I'm gonna take my two kids and we're gonna, I got somewhere to take them. I you know, I mean, I ain't seen him in so long, but yeah, I mean, I'm gonna drop them, I'm gonna just call you when I'm gonna drop them off.
SPEAKER_00All right, so what I would do is I would say, all right, I would tell him that basically, all right, I'm I'm okay with that. I have a problem with that. But if somebody call her and notify her that you're taking the kids. And I call, notify her, and then you know.
SPEAKER_04What if she say, I don't want my kids to go with them, with him? He right there waiting. He like this. Why you calling him?
SPEAKER_00If he's not a bad dude and the kids aren't in any danger or anything like that, I wouldn't, I would tell her, yo, let him go with him go with their dad. Tell her to tell her to stand up.
SPEAKER_04What if she say no? Fuck all that. What if she next say no?
SPEAKER_00Like I said, I would tell her, like, I know I'm gonna. I said, what if she say no? If she say no, I'm still gonna, if he wanna, if he, as long as she ain't the bad dude.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that right now. You're not giving that man his kids? I've been with her the last seven to ten years. I seen him eight to nine times out of this seven to ten years. It's the scenario I'm giving you. He comes around when it's beneficial for him or whatever. No. Alright, but you ain't said that. Oh, listen, I just said that. Yes, I did. I seen all that from the drive. You only seen him seven to nine times.
SPEAKER_00Even if he's not a bad dude. I know he's not a bad dude.
SPEAKER_04I'm not giving them kids, because this is these is real life situations that can happen in society right now.
SPEAKER_00Somebody wanna put it somebody wanna put it.
SPEAKER_04All right, that's cool. But if I'm with him. Why do you want to hurt him? Listen, I'm not giving. If I'm with my woman, if I'm with my woman, give me the floor because you answered me. I went and done it. Hold up. Yes, you was. I wasn't. If you answer, if you if I seen you and the nigga say, yo, and I seen, that's her baby father. But I've been with her the last damn near seven to ten years. He ain't been around like that. Seven to ten times. He sees me all of a sudden. Yo, Black, what's going on? Damn, man. Bye-bye. I'm letting him do all that. He can get all that, the hugs and kisses. Matter of fact, pay for this food if you can. And then he stops and tells me, yo, Black, I'm gonna take the kids with me real fast for a couple hours. No, you're not. You're gonna get them from their mind. But the thing about it, you're not taking these kids.
SPEAKER_00The thing about it is this. But this is a real life. Because you're gonna I gotta have an in-depth conversation with them. I would talk to him like, look, hey, listen, bro, I haven't seen you around the kids in this first time I've seen you once this year. Now let me talk to her about it. But I don't have a problem with you seeing your kids. But I want to make sure that I talk to her and notify her what's going on. And if she say, No, I want to go with him, but I had to ask him, like, all right, so where y'all going? You know what I'm saying? You got a phone, I can contact you, such, such. So that way we can, you know, correspond. Because I don't want to cause a big uproar because the kids will be crying because they want that they they know who they do.
SPEAKER_04No, but they ain't trying to go with him, they just sitting there looking. They ain't trying to go with him. No, they just looking. They just looking. I mean, they look at you adding all this stuff on. No, no, I ain't. You asking me. They they just looking. He ain't been around seven times. He's been around. You I said you've been with her seven to ten times. He you seen him seven to ten times out of seven to ten years. Yeah, man, that's a slippery slope. No, that's not a slippery slope. That's easy for me. I still, I still want to tell him no. My thing is cuz, call your baby mom. She says it's cool. I'll let him go with you. But you telling me you taking these kids right now?
SPEAKER_00What's the difference between you calling her and him calling her?
SPEAKER_04All right, I can call her.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm saying call her.
SPEAKER_04And then what if she don't answer?
SPEAKER_00All right, if she say no, all right. What if she don't answer? All right, she don't answer. Then I got back. I look I gotta talk to her, but I said I will say this. Time out. Time out. I will say, look, give me your number. Okay. I'm about to go, she answered phone, but I'm gonna go, I'm about to go, I know where she's at. I'm gonna go meet her. I'm gonna go talk to her. I love it. You lying to yourself right as cool. I'm gonna go talk to her and she say, and I'm gonna talk to her, and then once I talk to her, I'll meet you somewhere and bring you the kids. Okay, but guess what? You ain't doing what you ain't give them to them right then there. Only because she ain't answered the kids.
SPEAKER_03Man, shut your big head ass up, nigga.
SPEAKER_04Only because she answered the phone. But why you ain't giving them to them, nigga? She ain't answer the phone. Why you ain't give them to them? But why you didn't give them to them? You know they ain't kids. So why you ain't giving them to them? Because she she ain't answered the phone.
SPEAKER_00So what if people like the kids?
SPEAKER_04What if he be like, No, I need I need my kids, bro?
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna say, No, let me get aggressive. I'm gonna say, No, we're not doing that. Let me get on the phone. She's not answering. He's like, Give me my kids, bro. I just gave you all. I said, I just told you, bro. But she's not answering. I just told you. I said, let me listen. You are there's a lot of factors in that. Let me call her. Let me get in contact with her. I know where she's at. I'm gonna go to her and talk to her, and I bring your kids to you.
SPEAKER_04Give me my kids, I'll bring them to you later on.
SPEAKER_00This is what he's saying. Yeah, well, the one thing I'm not gonna do, I'm not gonna be out there fighting, fighting anybody nobody's kids. All right, so if he get riled up, you're gonna give him the kids. Yeah, if he actually wanna fight and all that, I'm not fighting about no kids.
SPEAKER_04So if he wanna fight, you're giving them to him. I might.
unknownNot me.
SPEAKER_04Because I'm in I'm I know I know where it's gonna go. We're fighting. I'm not you're not gonna put your hands on me like I'm fighting you about your kids, nigga. If you've been around seven to ten times and seven to ten times, I'm not gonna waste I'm gonna waste my energy trying to fight. I'm knocking your ass out.
SPEAKER_00I'm not gonna waste my energy fighting.
SPEAKER_04But but but is this a real question? This is what was gonna feel. Is this the real question? So from your standpoint, is this question legitimate? Or is it I would tell him, listen, bro. No, no, I'm asking you. Is the question?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it's a legitimate, but you gotta you gotta talk. You alright today? Yeah. So so the thing is, when it when whenever a situation happened, you gotta uh allow me the opportunity to get her on the phone. I'm trying to give you what you want as far as you getting your kids, bro. So now you're trying to be too hostile and too all crazy. Now we're gonna go into something else, and then it's not even worth it. You got the kids right here. My kids here, I'm not gonna do that in front of the kids. So you gotta, you gotta understand that, you know, you gotta you want something. I'm trying to allow you to get what you want, which is your children. But you can't just be rushing me like, no, I'm taking them now. No, I ain't gonna wait for her. Let me get it, let me get it on the phone. I make the proper arrangements. You know what I'm saying? But if she says, You see, I haven't seen him, but he didn't, he's not a bad dude, he's a good dude. You know what I'm saying? I can find out where he's taking them to. These are all things we got to talk about. Where they y'all going, you know what I'm saying? With your phone up and all the bad things. A lot of men meeting.
SPEAKER_04I want to be the one, I want to be the one denying the man from seeing his kids. All right, but I'm asking you, can he, all right? That's after the is he is the kids leaving with him underneath your guidance when you got him. That's all I'm asking. And then we can talk about everything else at there. Yes or no? Say it again. Is the kids if he asks you, can I take these my kids with me? Not without me talking to her.
SPEAKER_00Say if you don't talk to her. Well, I gotta go, I gotta go where she at. You can follow me. You can follow me to the crib. Huh? Say she don't answer. You can follow me to where she's at.
SPEAKER_04But but or but he can't take them kids right then until you talk to them. Nah, because I because she gave him a kid. That's all I wanted to be. You, you, you, you from the same call from the me. I love you. I know I love it.
SPEAKER_00I'm not gonna I'm not gonna be out here shooting it out with him and fighting or what over no kids. I'm not gonna do that. And they his kids. I'm not gonna shoot, I'm not gonna I'm not like I'm gonna give you kids before it goes to somebody getting hurt because that's what's gonna happen. You know, you gotta even fight me over some kids. My gonna get hurt. You're not gonna just try to fight me over. I'm not gonna try to fight, all right. Now you gotta deal with her. She wanna call the cops on you, she won't call the cops on you. Now you gotta deal with her. I'm just trying to tell you, bro. Let me let me handle it like a man. That's my that's my woman. I'm gonna contact her, I'm gonna get everything together and set it up to where so you can get your kids. But if you want to go against that, and now you gotta deal with her. And what woman gonna do now I tell you? You're gonna call call authorities, get the cops involved, and now you're in a bad situation. My woman can say, Well, I ain't I'm not fighting him about his kids with my kid sitting right there. I'm not doing all that. Now, if he happened to just swing on me for like I like just try to swing on me or something like that, then I gotta defend myself. But for me to go there with him and all that about his kids, like what I look like. I ain't no sucker. I ain't no nothing. That's nothing. I'm like, no, you can't share, you can't take no.
SPEAKER_02So, so but but what is you saying? What what is your what is your answer, Feet?
SPEAKER_00My answer is because you just all over the place.
SPEAKER_04You be here and then you there.
SPEAKER_00I've been saying the same thing consistent.
SPEAKER_04So what are you saying, selfie? Same thing consistently. So right now, Feet. I'm him. So Feek, yo, what's up, man? Sound like I'm uh yo, damn. My mother's sudden door got her. Yo, I'm taking them with me right now, bro. Can I take them with me? I'm gonna drop them off at your house later on. You ain't seen, you only seen me seven to ten times out of seven to ten years you've been with this woman. And she's been telling you, like, they ain't never been leaving to go with me or nothing. Is you letting me take them kids?
SPEAKER_00Listen, bro, I have no problem with you getting your kids. All right, then thank you so far. No, no, no, no. I can't take them there? No, this is what I'm saying. You you gotta you gotta let me talk. You asked me a question. I said, listen, the only thing I'm saying to you is I have no problem with you getting your kids. These are your kids, not my kids. You have more rights to these kids than I do. So these are your children. But let me talk to her, explain to her what's going on. And the few things I ask you, man, just out of common courtesy, is make sure you let me get your phone number. Where you gonna let me know where you're gonna go with and let her know you can so she can feel comfortable because women, they they can be really emotional. I'm not gonna go into it with no bravado, my chest sticking out because these aren't my kids. Uh, these are their kids. I'm gonna let them iron that out. And if she says, No, I don't want my kids to go with him, if she has a violent reason, I'm gonna tell them, like, all right, look, I set up a different date, different arrangement, different time. You can come get the kids, bro. But right now, it's just so random. There's a lot of different things that go on that go into play with that. So I'm not gonna but I'm not gonna sit straight like no, you can't get them. I'm gonna try to provide an opportunity for him to get his kids. Because at the end of the day, the kids are gonna need they'll need their father. I don't care if they came around once a year. That's still their father.
SPEAKER_04But what is she telling you?
SPEAKER_00No. And then I would tell him, like, look, she said, no, I want to give your kids. So let's so let me know. I don't want to give you a kid. Yeah, because I don't really want to be trying to be playing step-pop all the time. I want to, this is his kids. But but they they underneath your tootlage now. Ah, yeah, but they but he got they got a father. They have a father. What's that what kind of what kind of man? Let's keep it keep it, keep it. What kind of man gonna stand in the way of another man being around his kids? Especially if the baby mom's saying she don't want him around them. Yeah, why is she even saying she don't want around? You said if he is he is he a bad guy? Is he gonna harm the kids? What's going on? But she knows things that you don't know. All right, but she gotta explain. She's been with him, not you. She gotta explain those to me. I got, and I gotta make the, she explained those to me, I gotta make the assumption based off the based on the if based off the information that she gives me whether or not she's not just acting emotional or if this is factual. That he's a bad dude, a bad guy, something such. I haven't seen him once, once every one time a year. All right, cool. I don't know what's going on. I don't I don't have anything to go off with, but I'm not gonna stand away with no man being with their kids. I'm gonna try my best to allow him to see his kids. And if I can't give it to him right here, bro, look, this is what we're gonna do. Because it's so random. The kids ain't got no clothes here, nothing here to go with you, nothing. They don't have nothing. They're just with me. Let's set up a set that's arranged a date even tomorrow. We can come get your kids tomorrow. I'm not trying to be in the way of you getting your kids. But we can't just rush sometime and run into it. And if he says, no, I'm taking my kids now, that's what you want to do, all right? You let them take them? Yeah, I'm not fighting nobody on the kids. Yeah. I ain't letting them take them. All right, so you better fight the man with a kid. Wow.
SPEAKER_04All right, but that's what's gonna have to happen. But he he haven't been around seven, he only been around, excuse me, he only been around seven to ten times in seven to ten years. I'm not letting him taking them kids. He's never been getting kids. Why are you trying to block that man who's gonna be a kid? No, but you still no I'm not blocking. Listen, listen, hold up, hold up, hold up. I'm not blocking him from getting his kids, but you gotta handle that with your baby mom. So what I'm gonna do is take the kids back to her and let y'all talk it out. You can't get these kids from me. And then I go home. She's like, yeah, baby, you I'm walking in with my son. Because I told you there's three kids. Your son or daughter with the other two. She's like, what are they? What they in the car getting stuff? You like, no. She's like, where they at? Your baby father got him.
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SPEAKER_00She ain't saying that. No, that's that's not how I explained it to him. I said, look, I was trying to call him.
SPEAKER_02Well, how else can you explain it to him? Fink, you ain't sitting over here acting green.
SPEAKER_00All right, well, I'm about to tell you. I will explain to her, like, listen, in the scenario, I tried to call you. You weren't answering the phone. Things get hostile. Before somebody get hurt, I'll let him take his kids. So whatever you want to do behind that, now she wants to call the cops on him and do everything. I tried to talk to him so it didn't get to this point, but he didn't want to listen. So now she wants to go ahead and call the police on him. He bought that. She wants to say he took my kids unauthorized or whatever. Because not sometimes she's gonna have custody. But I tried to play a man in the situation and he wanted to go off and be emotional. So now this is what he bought behind that. I told him, I'm not gonna be in the street fighting nobody over no kids. Well, with my kid there, knowing that somebody can get hurt real bad, ain't nobody gonna put their hands on me. I'm not going for that at all.
SPEAKER_04You're not gonna put your hands on me, yo. Yeah, you're not taking my girl kids. I hear you and I understand you, but this is my woman. I've been with her, I say seven to ten years. Y'all ain't got no little relationship in feet. Y'all gotta like you've been raising them. Them kids know you as I get it. I get it. Abby means for the people that don't know every word, that means another thing.
SPEAKER_00Another thing, if I was and if I was with her for seven to eight years, that means the kids can't be under four years old. They would have no no no, I say they're not under I said that's when you met them. Okay, all right. I said you met them around two, so these is these is kids who who are gonna have cell phones and but they still not 15 yet. Yeah, but saying they're gonna have phones and things will be in the place.
SPEAKER_04But but still, you're not taking these kids from me. From me, I'm talking about this is my this is my yeah, I respect. But you know, me and you always we I don't think we ever agreed on a topic ever up here, feet. That's what makes me love you so much. I love you so much. You my brother, I look, I look at something like that. Like we never ever say, you know what?
SPEAKER_00Both of us just no, I look I look at things that like. No, no, you escape grandma, man. No, I'm not. That's what it is. I'm trying to avoid nobody taking my girl kids because listen, listen. Now, if you tell a man no, he can't take his kids, right? And now he wants to get tough with you in front of your kids and your kids. So now it turned to altercation, right? Hold on, time. Tell me the time. What's the worst thing? What's the what's worse thing? What's the worst thing? You might get hurt or or or die, right? So now my freedom is at risk. Or you're like because over him not stop him taking kids. I'm not listening, I prioritize my I prioritize myself and my freedom, my and my health over my own kids. I get that, but so I'm gonna stand there and fight this fight this man. Or I might end up shooting him. All right, so let me ask you this in fact.
SPEAKER_04Let me ask you this, Topic, because I love talking to you. You my brother. I love these conversations with you. I love your mind then with these. But let me ask you this in reverse. Your wife is out with you got two kids, and she got one by you, and she out with yours. The verse, the rose is reverse. She sees your baby mom. Somebody that you seen seven to ten times within the last seven to ten years. You don't talk regularly, she don't talk to the kids regularly, or whatever the case may be, but this is the communication y'all had within the last seven to ten years. She sees your baby mom or your wife, or you may be married to her now. Out. She's hugging her kids. I'm gonna take the kids and you know, and I'm gonna take them with me and I'm gonna drop them off tomorrow. Telling your wife this. Your wife come home with just your son by her. But you looking for your two that's by another woman that y'all been raising together. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01You're like, well, such and such and such and such. I gave him again, baby. I seen her at the store and I just gave you I gave them the key. I gave her the key. She asked for when I gave it to her.
SPEAKER_00But this is easy this is this is an easy same thing. Did you try to call me? No. Why didn't you try to call me? Oh, I did, but you ain't answered the phone. All right, that's why I said you see, said no. Or I didn't I did, but you answered the phone. All right, try to call me. And did you tell her that you uh that you wanted to wait till you talk to me before you make a decision? And she said, No, but you said you giving them up though. Fuck all that. You said you didn't know. I'm telling you she did what you did. Uh listen to what I'm saying. Okay. So I'm asking her the same questions, the same pattern, and what I would do. If she say that, yeah, I tried to call you, but you didn't answer. I told her that I wasn't gonna give her give her the kids until I talked to you, but she was hostile and wanted to take the kids. And I gave them to you. I'll be like all right, you're right, you did the right thing, baby, because I don't want you out there fighting nobody and going, then you did the right thing. Good thing, good job. And then I will take it from there. I'm not gonna sit there and wife out there strapping in the middle of the street over some kids and the kid, like, nah, we ain't doing that. The ultimate thing, this tells them the jails. We ain't trying to be in jail. Yeah, I got a story to tell. I want the jail behind.
SPEAKER_04Whoop, but but these are just scenarios because these are real life scenarios.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it is.
SPEAKER_04This is something that can you like people don't mind. Like this, like you can't see this scenario playing out in life somewhere.
SPEAKER_00Shout out to LJ underscore 223 for a donation. He said, if uh if you was a dad black, how would you react if her husband won't get you the kids? How you gonna react?
SPEAKER_04I know that's the flip side. I would be mad. We talked about this earlier. Me and the group of men who was talking about this, like, well, what about we be putting that? Like, me, me, me, me. I'm only gonna speak for me. I can't speak for the next man. I only seen them kids seven to ten times within the seven and ten years. I'm gonna be boisterous, like what, nigga? But if I know them, my kids been underneath his roof. He's been there the whole time she ain't been, they've been with each other. I'm just trying to, you know what I mean? And he's telling me, like, no, I gotta ask their mom. I'm gonna chill, me. I'm gonna ask me, I'm about, you know what, man? I might call him all type, whatever. I'm like, yo, me's my kids, and whatever. But I'm not gonna force it, especially if the kids ain't like, I wanna go with my dad, I want to go. They just standing around him looking like he's looking at me, and I'm like, well, damn, bro, like, well, can you go talk to her? And I'm gonna leave. Me, me. I'm not saying this is everybody uh action afterwards reaction to that. I'm just saying me, black.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm not trying to go to, and nothing worth worth it worth my freedom. Because, like I said, is it when whenever two men get involved in altercations, not trying to attend somebody can get hurt. Suppose we get into a fight, I knock him out, or and he he hit his head and he died. Or suppose he knocked me out, I hit my head and died. Now I'm trying to, I didn't die over some over some kids that was his. I didn't kill him over his kids, and I'm sitting in jail, and I can't be home to raise my kids. I'm not knowing that. Go ahead, bro. Now you gotta deal with her. Whatever she does after that, because I tried to talk to you, I tried to reason with you, but now you want to go do what you want to do. So therefore, now she called the cops on you and get you locked up and whatever going. Now, whatever you bought that, bro. I tried to tell you the best alternative to avoid all that. But if a person wants to go against that, so on them. And then if my wife could come home and tell me she gave the kids to her, but she tried to tell my uh my kid's mother that it wasn't a good time to take them and she still wants to do it, then I'm like, all right, you did a good job. Then I'm gonna go from there and handle the situation from there with her. You know what I'm saying? Not say I'm gonna call the cops on her, but I'm gonna be trying to figure out what's going on with my kids. You know, we can't sit up here and and make irrational decisions. We'll be in prison. You'd be in jail, and then when you get in jail for making an uh uh irrational decision, and now you're saying, man, I could just let him take the kids, or I could just let her take the kids. Excuse me, because it's not really worth it. What's what altercation might try to take the kids? What are you gonna take them and go kill him? Do you never know what this nigga might do? That's all if he if he does that, I'm not saying, but I'm not I'm not thinking like he's gonna he if he doesn't give me if I don't know if he has a threat, is he as a threat to the kids like that? I would have to know that he's a threat to the kids. But how can you know what type of threat assessment you can make within the last seven to ten times? If he get in in the time that I see him, whether it's one time, if I saw him one time, he gave me a slightest inclination that he was a type of killer or serial killer, then I would like I would be willing to probably willing to stand up for those kids. I'm not gonna send no kids into no no meat grinding out on duty. I'm gonna sit there for the kids. But if he hasn't given me, he just gave me that he's just been absent. He might, he might be a cool dude when I met him, and I mean he ain't give me, all right. And if he takes him and and I, you know, God forbid, take him and do that, then I'll have to live with it. Like, damn, he never gave me that type of inclination. Now it was gonna affect me and her relationship because she's gonna be like you sent the kids with him or something like that happened, but I'm just not gonna be out here risking my freedom because we know men can't, we can't get into an altercation and punching each other in the face and fighting. Somebody gonna pull out a strat. And I might I might be the first one to do it. I ain't gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I might be if if I'm not gonna be fighting nobody, man.
SPEAKER_05I'm keeping it real. I'm just checking you out, man. I'm just I'm listening to you. I'm keeping it real. I'm checking you out, just listening. You think something's not gonna be real? You gonna pull out that what?
SPEAKER_00Oh, whatever. I'm just saying, nobody's not sitting up there going back and forth on like fight, fighting over his kids. I'm fighting this man over his kids. These is his kids. And my kid out there watching everything go down. Now I'm like, nah, man, we're not going to jail for that. We're gonna go to jail. Or you might get knocked out in front of your kids. It's too much, too much on the line. You know what I'm saying? So that for me. But yeah, what y'all think? What y'all would y'all do in that in that situation?
SPEAKER_04Everybody got a oh, we ain't got the channel on TV. That's join crazy right there.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, like like then another another thing too. Like, people can't choose who their kids' father is. Yeah, you're right. If you come around see a motherfucking month without seeing your kids, like you, it's something wrong, bro. You got you making every excuse for you not not to be a father. You go a month once without seeing your child. Like, come on. And then you living with and then you gotta you living with a chick who got kids, you see our kids more than you see your own. A woman should look at a man like that. Like, hold on, he never have his kids, nothing. But he around my kids all the time. That won't make you like think something like Hold up. How you around you how you around my kids all the time, but you never got yours? Or he's not even attempting to fight to try even get his kids. Make it you know, a lot of times uh people make up make up so many excuses of why they can't get their kids. And the main thing always be money. I ain't got no money, or I can't got time. Kids don't really care about money, bro. Get your kids, bro. You can't come around once every once a year, every eight years, and then come time, take me, take my kids. Take me, take your kids.
SPEAKER_04That's it, that's the send you a message, feet. He said, I'm going all out, feet. That's on that's on that. That you go you're going all out for hook for the for the kids. Yeah, bro. Feet, you sitting over here talking goofy and shit right now. I don't care about none of that you talk about, bro. Like you talking people, people here, people here agree too. Yes, they do. Yeah, at an alarming rate. So so for me, slightly, I'm not slightly. You my man, I love you to death, Fic. You missed grandma, babe.
SPEAKER_05I'm not letting him take them kids. That's it. So hold on, hold on. Oh, trying to take his kids.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I respect that. He's such a dot. This man, I love you, bro. Ain't fighting no man for his for they for their kids. Dot saying he's gonna out for his kids. That's his that's his kids. So if he says, I'm taking my son out, I'm all right, cool. Now you gotta deal with her. She wants to see you to jail, it's on that. That's on you. But I'm not gonna sit there and either deny a man taking his kids. I'm gonna try to talk to him like, yo, look, if this this does go this way, she might get you booked. You know? Seriously, man. Like, like, because why I think about extreme, because it can go there fast. You answer the question. Yeah, because it goes, it can go there fast.
SPEAKER_04But is this topic a real life topic? It might happen, especially because it's probably people in the middle. Yeah. They come like this type of shit happen. Nigga be like, yo, what's up, bro? Like, you know who he is. I got too much to lose. I'm not letting him take them kids.
SPEAKER_00I got too much to lose, bro.
SPEAKER_04And she ain't tell me. No, no. Listen, listen. I can be a game. I'm like, yo, you got to talk to her, bro. Let me get them back safe, secure. You and her have it out, whatever y'all gonna do. That's what I said. But you're not taking these kids today. Okay. Now, now you go.
SPEAKER_00You're not taking these kids from me today. But now, but now, but now it goes into what level or what extent you even see what Dot said. Dot said you're gonna all off his kids. So now this man might have a gun on him, he shoot you, you know, kill you. You know what I'm saying? Whatever case may be. Now you sit over over his kids. Like, damn. I could let the man take his kids. I'm in the hospital being a fight for my life. Like, how that sound? That just sounds like stupid, bro. No, but you you you look, I listen, listen to this. I love my I love my kids, and I may love my woman, but I'll be damned if I'm getting shot or going to jail with her or her. So you giving up her you good. So what you gonna tell them when you come in? Tell her. I try to tell you no, but like we're such and such is that. I'm gonna tell her, I tried to call you. I tried to tell you no.
SPEAKER_04Who wanted to take the kids? Him. Who? Your kid's father. You gave him my kids? I didn't get me took them. You let him take the kids? Yeah. Wow. So you she's gonna suck a champion on you tonight. No, she might not.
SPEAKER_00She might understand.
SPEAKER_03She might not. She might understand. I'm gonna explain my brother.
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna explain to her. Listen, my freedom and it's priceless. My safety is priceless. I can't put a price on my freedom and my safety. It's priceless. Because listen, I'm thinking in my head, I might not say it's her, but if something happened to me, you're gonna move on with your life. My mom's gonna be crying every day. My kids gonna be crying every day. If I go to jail, you might come and see me for a parent time. You know how that go. You might be on to the next nigga, man. Like, my listen, my freedom and my health and my safety and my money, I'm gonna go all out and protect that, bro. Everything else is negotiable, man. You know, and my kids, I'm gonna go out all out to protect my kids. I'm not going to jail for nobody else's children, bro. I'm not. Now, if he should take my kids, and now I'm taking him too. What? Nah. Now I'm willing to go. I gotta defend my child.
SPEAKER_04So let me ask you. Do you think your woman is gonna understand you gave them chicks kids up? Yeah, she would. You you the built a face.
SPEAKER_00I got too much to lose. My women know, I got too much. I don't, listen, yo, I preach all the time to them. Listen, we gotta think smart. We ain't moving out here dumb. Who moving dumb and acting emotional and irrational? About I'm not doing like, I'm not doing that, bro. I'm not gonna be in jail, man, or dead behind somebody trying to take their kids. He don't give them back. If he don't call a law and get them, he go to if he goes to jail. Because he chose that route. I didn't, I tried to tell him a reasonable option. He chose the route to go, to go that way. You know what I'm saying? I ain't, I'm not, nah, I'm not, I'm not, nah, we ain't doing that. Wife, she knows I ain't I'm not jeopardizing my freedom. And she went, and a woman wouldn't even wouldn't even expect you to jeopardize your freedom for her kids like that, especially situations like that. That's the kids' father. Suppose I kick some of the kids. No, you got some women that sit out there, but like, yo. Suppose I kill her. Why you let my kids go with him? Like, suppose then suppose supposed to happen and I kill him right there in front of the kids. Like, you gotta think about that. Because you never know what happened to go in the in the heat of the in the heat of a battle. You've seen it all the time. What'd you call say? He knocked it, knocked this man out arguing and slapped him right when he died. His man died. He done what? How much time he did? Eight years? Yes. For slapping this man off of an argument. They argue and they that's my throw regular slap. Like, come on, man. I'm not going to jail behind that, man. Like, as long as he don't put his hands on me in that situation, like, all right, y'all come with me. And the kids crying, no, I don't want to go. I'm like, yo, like, bro, you making a you drawing, bro. You're making a big scene. Now your kids, now your kids is upset. You're upsetting everybody. I'm gonna be talking to him. Like, look, you can just listen to me and I'll make sure that you get the opportunity to get your kids.
SPEAKER_04Your relationship will be over with your female, bro. Bro, especially if she never wanted him, the kids to go with him. Nah, because she's gonna be like, damn, she's gonna know kind of when I'm gonna go.
SPEAKER_00Once I explain it so she's gonna know kind of man.
SPEAKER_01No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_04You got my kids go with this nigga. Yeah. You let my kids go with this. Okay, you called me, I didn't answer due to work or whatever the case may be, but you let my and then you know, we bring up these topics, right, for a person to think about them now before they end them. Because there's a lot of females out here with kids, alhamdulillah, which means praise to God, raise your kids right. But you know, things might not work out with the biological father, and you move on. And sometimes the father ain't around, so you take your kids with you, and you know, when you meet the, you know, your new dude, y'all come together. Y'all might congel together and form. So now the question is, like I said, the father shows up one day just to be popping up because he feels sorry after a couple of years he wants to see his kids. And we all go through that, whether you're deadbeat or you're a stand-up man for your kids. And you want to come around and be relevant for a minute. And you like, let me take my kids. I'm not letting you, me, black, you can't get these kids.
SPEAKER_00Not today. So listen, so if it's me on the other side, and I'm like, yo, look, I don't care if I can once a year, what are kids in me, and I and I want my kids, and you tell me I can't get my kids, you trying to take my kids.
SPEAKER_04Me, me being a person I am. I'm right there. I see you with your thrill, but your and anything. I'm like, man, sound like I'm out. You ain't getting these kids, cuz. I said I don't want they come.
SPEAKER_00But the thing, the thing about it is this, like the thing about the thing, the thing about it is my bad, right?
SPEAKER_03I love this brother right here, bro.
SPEAKER_00The thing about it is this. If he um, if he don't if he didn't get my kids, and I know I'm out of pocket, I gotta sit back and check myself. It's it's it's an emotional, you know you ain't been there for your kids, bro. And now something you want your kids that bad when you could have been can't got them the other 365 or 64 days in the year, and now you want to sit up here and be having like you like you miss your kids so back and you see them out with the with the uh the kids' father. He just he's doing you a favor. I would check myself, like I'm tripping. You know what I'm saying? Like why I'm trying to take the kids from this. I'll be happy to see my actual. Could we start something where I can get my kids? I'm saying these scenarios can be easily avoided. That's why state road and upstate is filled with people make making rational decisions. I'm irrational decisions. I'm I'm just not a person I've I have done it in my younger years, younger years, and I and I'm I'm not doing it now. I'm about to I'm I'm in my 40s, I'm gonna go upstate for another 10 years, 15 years, and I miss out on all the opportunities out here. I got all this stuff going on. I'm gonna be in jail by some kids because nine times out of ten, kids get older and do what they want to do anyway. Kid get 18, 19, 20, they do what they want to do. And I'm gonna sit here and try to risk my freedom for a kid that's gonna want that's gonna get older, 18, 9, 19, 20, then I want, don't even want to come see you. You know what I'm saying? Only wanna call you when they want something, you know, all this. That's how kids do you when they're young. I'm not doing it. I'm gonna be out here for I'm gonna be out here to be out here for them. But my freedom, once again, your safety and your freedom is priceless. You can't put a price tag on your safety and your freedom. You can't, listen, man. A person spent all they own to get out of to get out of jail. If you told you, if they told you right now, listen, I'm gonna give you a life sentence unless you give up all your all your all your property, your clothes, your house, everything. I'm gonna give up everything I own to remain on the streets. I'm not gonna say, no, give me a license. No, give me, I can I can get it back. You can't get your freedom back. Oh, you're gonna live somewhere and you gotta you got a big house, you know what I'm saying? But you ain't got no cameras around the house, at least cameras, you know what I'm saying? You know, so leave the doors unlocked. So yes, so your safety is not voluble. You're not you don't care about your safety. You can't put a price tag on your safety and your free in your freedom, man. I'm telling y'all. I'm saying everything else, you know, I'm telling you, man. Because your girl is gonna move on and be with somebody else if you go to jail. You know what I'm saying? That's how I feel about it. Yeah, I mean, everybody's had their opinion. Uh LJ underscore 223 said, he said, damn fee. I was just super hating that point. Yeah, but you know, I mean, I appreciate the donation. But I listen, I everybody had a had a their opinion. But I'm just saying, man, my my safety and my freedom, man. You can't, I can't put a price on it, man. And I'm not going to jail for no for no kids, man. And then his kids too. You ain't my dad. Is she with that, John? Like, come on, man. Like, yo, you ain't my dad. As soon as you argue with the mom, the kids, they they don't like you no more. Like, come on, man. That steppot rule was a serious situation. Go ahead with your dad. Go ahead with your dad. Let's you let them hash it out. If she wants to call cops on you, long as he ain't trying to hit her and all that. And you know what I mean? I'm I'm cool. Go ahead with your go ahead with your pop. Yeah, I just can't let them kids go. I can't. Yeah, that's on you. I'm gonna say I'm like, you can call you have a collect call from Yeah, what's up, young? He'll be like, man, I man, I should have just let the balls take the kid. I'm like, yeah, I know, man. Yeah, I'm gonna listen, man. Uh I I'm gonna call you back. I'm about to you know, I'm about to do something. We'll call you back a little later around this time, be up doing something with the wife. You know, you can uh you make sure you put some money for y'all guys.
SPEAKER_03You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_00You talk to your lawyer, all that good stuff. I'm like, yeah, yeah, I talked to her real man. I gotta go see him next week. Yeah, yeah, I'm I got you. Don't worry about it. I'm gonna be saying you right up in jail. Talk to them, man. For some kids that's gonna get older and tell you, you ain't my dad. You want you what you want to go to jail for some kids to go tell you that?
SPEAKER_05Oh my god, man.
SPEAKER_00Come on, man. Let's keep it real.
SPEAKER_04Oh my god, man. It was something else I wanted to talk about today, too, man.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, man. We're talking about this all day, man. I'm not going to jail for that, y'all.
SPEAKER_04We go, we're gonna go back and revisit that, man. But we gotta uh huh?
SPEAKER_00Those those words is crazy.
SPEAKER_05What?
SPEAKER_00You're not my dad. Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_04Those four words I thought and took care of you for all those years. Yeah, if you getting all that before this conversation happened, he asked to take the kids and all right.
SPEAKER_00No, you get you getting the ad that. He you you you got you you you think back, yeah. I got shot two years ago for this kid, and he's and then he's 17. You ain't my dad. I'm trying to tell you what dude. Yeah, man.
SPEAKER_04But when I'm giving you bro, when I'm not letting him get the kids, that's solely for my baby mom or my wife. Whatever she is to me. That's not for the kids, that's for her. Respect for her. The reason why I didn't give him them kids is the respect for her. Not the kids being away from no. This is above y'all right now because y'all still kids, because y'all can't make the ruling on your own. So what I'm gonna do is make the ruling for you because your mother is not present at the time. Now, me, I'm making a ruling for my wife or baby mother, whatever she is at that time to me. I'm respecting her that that much to say, yo, you cannot have your kids because she got to make the final decision. If she was here, then y'all can talk that out.
SPEAKER_00Well, I well, for her. Other than that, no, you can't. For her, for me and her, for me and her, me and her, she would have to be like super respectful to me for it. Me even to consider. But if she's with you 17 years, she's super respectful. You just dare be just because you just no, if she's if you've been with her for 17 years, if you would have you with a woman who disrespects you, I mean I mean, some but people get disrespectful in some so many different ways. There's levels to it. But it just depends on type of disrespect she be dishing out. Because sometimes a woman might say something smart to you, but you just talking to me crazy, crazy, you know, super like not he trying to get his kids, I'm like, think about who you are. Manch say, man, if you ain't no kids. I'm not going to jail with nobody's kids, bro. I'm cool. I'm not killing nobody over nobody else's kids. I'm not doing it, man. There's too many factors that go into play when these kids get older, man. And like me and my dad, I'm trying to tell me, yo, who wanna hear that? I thought I just sit there and try to fight for you. I gotta understand where I'm coming from. I understand people people just may think that they gotta be had a bivado and stick the chest out and try to, you know, you know, take on any all-comers on duty, you know what I'm saying? And and and be out here trying to fight. But yeah, look, I would have to do that. I'm weighing my options from the gate. As soon as it happens, I'm thinking about her, how disrespectful she is. I'm thinking about these kids.
SPEAKER_03Or if she's disrespectful, she might not be.
SPEAKER_00But she is. How do you work? Oh, you just made that up in your mind. All this stuff is now me thinking, because me personally. Me personally, automatically with me, this is how automatically uh you know me. Automatically, what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna, before I react in the emotional situation, I'm gonna analyze the situation. I'm gonna analyze everything. Just analyze it. And if it go crazy, first I'm like, I'm thinking like, listen, these kids are disrespectful anyway. Are they disrespectful? Is she disrespectful? Because you never know, man. Me right now, me, me right now, I'm definitely not going to jail for no kids. Not even not I'm not going to jail for no kids, not even mine. I'm not going to jail. Not going to jail, bro. You're not even kidding me, man. If I can avoid it, now somebody lie on me and say, yeah, he did this and did that. Yeah, that's definitely you can't really avoid that. But if somebody like me going to jail for slope, slapping, choking, hitting somebody, hitting my bit. My freedom is priceless, man. I'm telling you, man, my freedom is priceless, man. I listen, I cherish even my name, who I am is pri nobody not gonna disrespect me, man. Not going for it. I'm I'm a standard for myself. Every way, shape, shape, way, shape, form, or fashion. I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna love those that love me. But I'm not going to jail for no reason, man. I'm not doing it. Not you gotta care about yourself, y'all. Think about yourself. Every situation when something's happened, think about yourself. First, think about you first. Because you're gonna be in jail, you're gonna be in that grave, and people are gonna literally live on. Kids gonna cry for a couple, a couple days, couple weeks, whatever, they're gonna think about you here and there, but you in that grave dead and gone. When you're in jail, you might not get a visit. You might not get no money on your books. Girl that moved on with a new dude. We hear it all the time, man. We see it all the time. How many times have we been to you know uh funerals, and as soon as the person is in the grave, the family fight about what he had left over, what kind of money he had, or whatever. Like, people, man, like people, it's crazy, man. I'm not putting myself in that position, man. I'm just not. I'm just sorry. You know, as long as listen, as long as my touching me, call them what you want to what you want to call me. I ain't contradiction myself. How? What I'm saying, I'm just I'm just not putting myself in a situation where it's I'm gonna go to jail on my freedom. It's not. It's not gonna do it.
SPEAKER_04Alright, well, I got another uh situation that happened in the news, man. Um I think it was this weekend. It might have been this weekend, it might have not been this weekend. It's right here, right now. It's a crazy situation, man, that I wanted to bring up into the topics today. And this is there was a case that happened down in um here we go, right here.
SPEAKER_00Let's talk about that cop that got killed, man. Let's get into that. What happened? What is the young boy killed? Why you why you trying to why you trying to pull it up?
SPEAKER_06Because this is right here. It's right here. Turn him off. You're talking about some what about the cop that got killed?
SPEAKER_00Let's talk about that. It was a cop that got killed, man. Um duty cop.
SPEAKER_06I was gonna bring that up too, but I wanted to bring this guy up first right here. Okay, let's get to that. This guy right here done lost his damn mind. He done been. Alright. I done got so many videos of this guy. It's crazy. This guy, this guy's way out of line.
SPEAKER_04All right, we got a goddamn hair. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00We got a Dutch man in Southwest Philly. Huh? Dutch man. All right.
SPEAKER_04We got a man. A man was arrested after he shot and killed his.
SPEAKER_00Nah, Leam. That's totally wrong, bro. Leave active. That's totally wrong. All right, hold on, man.
SPEAKER_04Come on, man. You before you go get to talking back, stop trying to defend. Let them have their comments and opinions about you, bro. That's it. You say, man, it's say you you you you trying to go on like that that's that. That's his comment, that's his opinion, and that's just that. It's a man was arrested after he shot and killed his friend, and then went to the funeral and carried the casket and took pictures with his with his friend's two sons. Louisville is Kentucky. A Louisville man was indicted this week for the fatal killing of a man in August 2025. His fourth murder indictment in the last three years. Andrew Jackson faces two new murder charges in connection to the shooting death of Patrick Brentz, Jr. on August 25th, 2025. The shooting death of Devin Jefferson on July 22nd, 2025. Jackson was already in jail after, excuse me, uh, yeah, Jackson was already in jail after police charged him with the murders in May 2024 and April 2025. In September 2025, Jackson was indicted for the murder of 31-year-old Adrian Lewis. And in December 2025, DNA evidence led police to indict him for the April 2025 murder of Wayne Wood Sr. Also announced Friday that Malik Johnson was indicted for Jefferson's murder in 2025. Johnson was previously indicted for the January 2023 murder of Monte Robinson at the time. He faced additional charges of being a convicted felon in possession of a handgun, tampering with physical evidence, and fleeing or evading police. These indictments represent other important steps in LMPD's ongoing efforts to reduce violent crime.
SPEAKER_00So basically you're saying he killed this friend and came to the funeral and helped carry the casket. Yes, and pictures with the baby. Yes. But I did it with his kids. This happens all the time. Well, I never met nobody that did that. I did. You did? I did, yeah.
SPEAKER_04Oh, yeah, I ain't know. It seemed to happen all the time. Yeah, not me. You say you keep saying you seen, I have never seen.
SPEAKER_00But you've been in jail for a while, but I'm saying it's happened all I done seen dudes that kill dudes that sit there and go to the mom and cry like they ain't do it, and was the ones that killed them.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, but what do you think? That's that's a college, especially if he knows the mom. He knows the mom wholeheartedly, and this is he ate at her table and slept over her house and washed up in the crib that she paid bills at. Yeah, but this happens all the time. I'm taking pictures with the kids. Like when I seen that earlier, man, I'm like, damn, man.
SPEAKER_00Nine times of ten, if somebody, if somebody, listen, if somebody mysteriously ended up being killed.
unknownRight.
SPEAKER_04Mysteriously, I'll declare blue.
SPEAKER_00I'll declare blue. They find them dead somewhere. Or if if or if the feds or the cops run down on somebody, just out of the blue, mysteriously, it came for somebody that's close to him. You just happen to find somebody dead inside the house. He got shot in the head two days. Somebody close to him did it. We've seen it happen all the time. That stuff ain't just a random act. Somebody close to him. Either somebody, it could have been somebody that was in close proximity to him, or somebody that was that knew him that did that. It happens all the time, man. You see people get shot. What's the Alpo and uh Rich Porter? The same thing. Rich Alpo killed uh Rich Porter, whatever. But this it happens all the time. These people kill people, like I I can I can step in a name maybe four or five people that I know that die like that.
SPEAKER_05That's a horrible death.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it's like it's like we in the car together. You've seen it happen all the time. Pete riding the car. How all of a sudden he gets shot? What happened? Our homie got killed like that when we was kids. And killed by somebody who knew him. Excuse me. People knew him and killed him. Well, they shot Mills in the head two times, right? Yeah.
SPEAKER_04One time.
SPEAKER_00It was twice. It was twice.
SPEAKER_04Twice? Okay.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, shot Mills in the head twice. Somebody close to him. We was kids when it happened. I was like, this was like that was like 96, right? Mm-hmm. 96 going in 97. I was 14 years old when that happened. And Mills. Mills was 16. Mills was a year. Mills was a year. No, no, no.
SPEAKER_04Me and Hansen was yeah.
SPEAKER_00Mills, no, Mills. Yeah, he was 15 or 16. Yeah, one of them. Shot him back in his head. We kids. That happens. And let's go on and on and on. On and on.
unknownOh no.
SPEAKER_00Sartre. Sorry, I killed. Somebody killed Sarge. Somebody knew where he was at, knew him and got it. It's just, you know, just that's just how it goes.
SPEAKER_04What you talking about? Not what jail I was at. What jail I was at for what? Like, what did I say that that warrant you to say what jail was I at? Let me know in your uh in the chat where I can answer that. Yeah, when I was reading that article, I'm like, damn, for you to you would be a callous dude, man, to be there with the kids and the kids know you as uncle. You mean the mom know you as son, the baby mom knows you as brother-in-law. And you there, man, we gonna find out what's gonna happen, man. Well, who did this? They gonna pay you whatever you be doing. And you the culprit, you're the actual culprit who committed the crime, who carried this crime out of taking this life. And then for it to be found out in such fashion, like, yo, he did it, and lock you up, like my dad. Like, even if he didn't do it, right? And they just blamed him by accident, just to see, yeah, I mean, whatever the case may be. You think he'll get love from the family? Like, because once you, once they charged you, you still innocent until proven guilty. But do you think the family think that he's innocent once they charged him? There's so many dudes that that that's. Like, because he could he could possibly have not did it. Listen, man. But all I'm saying is he could have possibly have not done it though.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_04He could have possibly not did it. But the streets didn't. But do you think the family is gonna be like, since he's charged? The streets know. I'm asking you, fuck all this. Fika, answer my question, Fika. Go ahead. And then go back to your rebuttal and what you were talking about. Well, I said the family. Even though I was charged with it, what do you think the family's first reaction is gonna be like, man, he did that? Like, do you think they're gonna believe that since I've been charged with it?
SPEAKER_00Um, no, they're not gonna believe it.
SPEAKER_04You you wouldn't? If this was a relative or friend or brother or cousin or whatever yours and knew that was my friend, and I'm charged with his murder. I call you. Would you answer the phone? I'm charged with it. You see, but I'm somebody that used to always call you before this happened.
SPEAKER_00Whether you're charged with it or not, would you answer the phone? I I got I gotta tell you why I wouldn't answer the phone or why I wouldn't answer the phone. Because if you already say say yes or no first, it didn't go into it.
SPEAKER_04I know you did it. Hold up. No, you didn't know.
SPEAKER_00You just hearing what everybody else heard, and I'm charged with it. All right, I'm calling you then. Your phone. If I don't know, yeah. If I don't know, yeah, I answer the phone. But if I know you did it and it's the person that I'm cool with, yeah, or a relative. Even if I'm cool with you. Like, say I'm cool with you and you kill one of our friends on some snake stuff. I'm cutting you off and still got because you killed our friend. You're right. You killed our friend out of some out of some jealous stuff. Like, damn, bro. That's our homie. You gonna kill him? You couldn't just I could y'all couldn't iron it out. So I gotta, we done. You on your own. No lawyers getting paid, no nothing. I gotta kill that homie, that's that means you would do it to me. And we see that happen all the time. People, you know, people do that type of stuff. But what I'm saying, what I was saying was, you know, um it's unfortunate that this stuff goes on, but how many times I heard people get shot in the back of the head? I I got a I got a homie that I know from my uptown, got shot in the head. Somebody he had somebody in the car with him that that he trusted, that he was that he trusts. Those situations like that, it's always somebody that you know. You get found, somebody get found somewhere dead, somebody you know. Look at the the football player, Hernandez. What's the name Hernandez? Oh, Aaron Hernandez? Yeah, they killed the boy, right? I know they got a bunch of well, I don't know if there's a bunch, but Aaron Hernandez got found good there killing the boy. They did it. They had the phone taps, so all that stuff is, you know what I'm saying? Text messages, all this. Yeah, he did it. They killed this homie. He killed somebody that was close to him. He thought he said he was ratting on him, but I understand. I mean, I understand that. If he rat, that was true that he was really telling. I understand why they would do that, trying to protect themselves. He was telling him another murder, so forth and so on. But everybody looked around like, well, who would do it? Who would do it? You already know situations like that. When it's happened like that, out of random, out of the blue, somebody that knew him. Somebody was close to him. We didn't know that. Ray Charles, if you can see that, that's that's but this is the world that we live in. You know what I'm saying? This is the world we live in. Like if I have a pop up dead killed, it's gotta be somebody that's close to me. Because I don't really, you know, I be I keep my to myself. Ain't nobody's gonna catch me slipping like I mean, I'm not saying I can't court slipping, but I'm I'm not gonna put myself in a position where as though somebody can catch me out out like that. And you gotta be the same way. Everybody gotta be the same way. Just keep this, keep it, keep yourself safe, man. I keep saying you can't put a price on your um on your safety. You know what I'm saying? You can't put a price on your freedom. You gotta be out here. You gotta have your you gotta be safe. Because um you never know when that people uh opportunists get you slipping.
SPEAKER_04Quick break, man. We got 280 people, 290 people in the chat, man. Again, I gotta stress myself, and I see that I'm gonna have to continue to do this as the days go on, probably years, months, weeks, whatever the case may be, to hit the like button, man. If we don't like what you're talking about, just get off of there. Just go find another page to look at. And I'm not being disrespectful, but you know, if it if it's something of interest, something that can be reality, the things, the topics that we bring up here, hit that like button, man. Like, hit that like button. Y'all gonna be mad I don't come in here, man, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, man. And Feek be up here, he's gonna put y'all to sleep. He's gonna give y'all some good topics, but y'all going to sleep if y'all ain't into the Dean and all that. Yeah, I mean, other than that, like, god damn, it's 277 in here, 77 likes. Like, god damn, who creeping and who's seeing the opposition or something? It's cost, it's free honey to hit a like button. The fuck? Y'all keep playing, I'm gonna show y'all something.
SPEAKER_00Hey, listen, you never see me at no bar, man.
SPEAKER_04I never see the bar.
SPEAKER_00No, uh uh uh who this he said rip tool tooley9930. He said, Stop it. I seen you at I see slipping down galaxy bar. Whatever. What the heck is a galaxy bar? I don't even know what that is. He was saying that was saying black kill feek.
SPEAKER_03I'm not answering the phone for yeah, that yeah, that this man is crazy.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that yeah, that but yeah, like uh it's just it's just crazy, man. But hold on, you know, uh I was gonna say you know like like like like people like that that that do that to their to their friends, right? And harm their friends in these in these situations, right? Were y'all ever really friends?
SPEAKER_04I'm not gonna say you ain't it's just the uh the jealousy outruled or the greed outruled everything else. Because I'm quite sure the people that killed some of their friends be heard about it, right? But it was the greed, it was the greed, but they like because we I'm I'm I'm getting to the intricate part of it. Like it's some niggas that killed their friends that live with that shit every day, be like, damn, bro, and be sick, but they still did it. That still don't make them a mess, not a messed up person, yes. But do they is they remorseful? Yeah, that shit kill them niggas, bro. I done sat around killers that kept their friends in jail. I just say I've never been a part of a situation and knew it. Niggas be in there every day, like, man, I supposed to be in here for life. They supposed to kill me. Like, but this them dealing with their demons.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you killed your friend.
SPEAKER_04Like a good motherfucker, they know it like, god damn. And then they was like, but I just won in the in the in there's a war. It's an internal war, bro. That shit really got it.
SPEAKER_00That'd be over like some petty stuff too. Like, man, I seen, man, it's it's a boy I know that's out here right now. He uh he killed he out here, he didn't get charged with it, but he everybody knows he did it. But he killed a close friend, his close friend, like his best homie. And um now he out here, he like you say, he's dealing with it, and he um he's on drugs heavy. He messed up, like he m he messed up. He messed up, man. And it's like cause he he just can't deal with like every since ever since this happened about almost 10 years ago. His his he has declined ever since. And everybody knows everybody know right. Well, people know he did it over nothing. Killed your best homie for your friend for nothing. Y'all could've, whatever the issue was, y'all could have ironed it out. Even if we would have fought and whatever, you gonna go kill me. That man, you're gonna get your gun and kill me. Wait till we're in the car together. You that mad you can't get over me. I'm shooting your head two times or shoot you. I'm gonna shoot, I'm gonna go shoot black in the head because I'm mad at him. I just want to cut off the phone and don't talk to him for a couple days.
SPEAKER_04That's it. That's that's my me and TY just had a bad argument last night. I dot probably don't know about this. I crashed the bike again another night, but I ain't crashing. I just slid back. That's why the rim the rim bent? No, the rim ain't bent. Stop doing that. Don't do that. Dot, don't tell Nick that because he's gonna be mad. I was gonna make sure that's it. It's not ain't nothing bent. Quiet up, boy. But me and the friend. No, no, it ain't nothing hanging off. But me and a friend, me and my one of my code defenders, shout out to TY's. T Y. I'm gonna tell you about it. Me, T. Y, the same drunkard that was at the live event. But you're drunker, huh? Yeah, but me too. I am too. I'm not, he's I'm not putting placing uh trying to say he's but I'm not trying to yeah, but I'm just real, but you're right, though. You're right about that. But um, I went over there last night. Around like 10 o'clock. I've been in the house all day, Sunday. I ain't I ain't got no, you know, I mean, after you leave, I ain't I I got my other friend, but yeah, I mean I it is what it is, but you know, so I go, I'm like, damn man, let me come over real fast. Have a little drink, which whatever. He like made my girl beefing, because you know, she came over and seen his baby mom leaving and wild crazy shit going on. So they beefing. And shout out to you, TY. I love you, bro. Love you to death, man. Um T Y. And we in this crib arguing, because I was supposed to come over, get the shot, and leave. But when I came over, you know, TY got a nice patio, we got a pool out there, like the sit that I had in Oldhamport. Like, but his shit out, like it's nice. So I go out because I know him and his girl in there, so I go as soon as I come in the crib, I grab my shot, I go outside, smoke with my little jack and all that square. I'm out there, but I'm out there because now start pouring down crazy. So I can't ride the bike in this. Like, man, all right. So I'm gonna sit out here. So I sit out there for about 45 minutes last night. When I go in, he's cooking a Sunday meal. Like, you mean they got turkey wings in there, they got devil eggs, they got all types of stuff there in there. Because that's what they do, him and his old lady, they be in. So when I go in there, they already have in their situation. So when I go in, it's like I threw the yo man, you supposed to come over and grab that and left right back out. I'm like, the reason why I leave right back out because it started raining, you know. So we start arguing, and I cuss this girl out, I cussed him out, so we already rumble in the doorway. But we meant girl out. Yeah, I cuss this girl out. I'm like, man, time to shut up and go back in her room and all this and that. And he like, yo, that's my girl in this and that. He already my face, he's spitting, spitting on my face, and I'm spitting back in the doorway. And I gotta remember, I'm a human, like I said. So we we convicts. We me and him is both convicts. And I and I gotta apologize to him again because I was wrong. TY again, I love you, bro, and I know you love me. But we it wasn't nothing crazy or nothing like that. It's just life, everyday life that we go through, not just me, but these are situations that arise in everybody's lifestyle. You might be with a girlfriend if you're a female, all right, or if you're a male, you might be with your homeboy, and and shit just happened, and shit just went left out of just clear blue, nowhere. But kill my friend. Like, I never thought at one time while we was arguing, I got the bike, I'm driving again out of this apartment because I got it, and I this I crashed from the way because I'm I'm mad now. I got a little sip in me. I'm running, you know, the back way back where he at and go back through the and I'm skish, it's raining everywhere in the slide. 360. I'm sliding the bike all the way over there. I'm like, damn, this is the second time. Ain't giving me this joint no more. Yeah, I know you ain't giving me the truck no more. I'm all out bad now. I'm all the way bad. But did I think about killing him? Nah, not one time, bro. Yeah, not one time, not one time, bro. Not one time. No, but I rumbled it. I'd have socked that face if he'd have kept going. Because I told you he said something fly. I said, nigga, you can't beat me, nigga. And he knows TY, you can't beat me. And that's just it. But that's my brother still. And we'd have got in there, but not one time did I think about taking his life, bro. Yeah, that never even crossed my mind.
SPEAKER_00But the thing about it, dude, it the thing about it be though, a lot of times when people do that, it'd be for something like drugs, money, girls, stuff like that. I think girls are the number one killer. A person will kill you by messing with a girl before they kill the mess. What you mess with a girl, I think I think money, money comes, uh drugs and money come second. It's probably kill you over a girl first. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, now and days, yeah. Yeah, it's not even a girl, it's the vagina. It's that hole. That nigga thinking about you being inside that joint, hitting that joint better than he hitting it. He thinking about her face with expressions, ah, he's thinking about the way she cream. That's the stuff that makes a nigga go to the edge of violence, like, oh, he gotta die. It ain't the girl herself, oh my god, because she's smart, she knows how to count, she knows how to piss. No, you thinking about the pretty how she is, butt-necked how she is at her most vulnerable time when you around her. You gotta, she's smelling like vanilla or cotton candy, and she's sitting there in that little that wound is just leaking for you. Then you're thinking about the next man being in that wound. We're gonna keep it real. That's what send you through the rage. Not that he's sitting there talking to her and asking her how they was, because all that went on, too. You don't think about none of that. You thinking about the that's what you're thinking about. And you sitting there, I'm gonna kill everybody involved.
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna tell y'all this. I'm gonna tell y'all something. Here you go. Here you go. Hey, listen, bro. If you got something good, cherish it. But if she let somebody touch her, bro. This boy, this boy. Nah, give it real, but somebody touch her, but if somebody touch her, bro, you got you got a boo boy. It hurt. Like, we all been there, it hurts. But as far as you trying to harm your harm somebody over over some harm, even if it's not your man, you want to harm harm somebody else over some vagina, man. Like, come on. Like, we just seen dudes go kill other men they didn't even know about some vagina, man. Like, come on, bro. Yeah, it hurt. I get it. We all been through it, but like, you want to go kill somebody over it, and then go to jail behind that, or have somebody's life on your hands? You took somebody's life.
SPEAKER_04We bring all these scenarios up just in case we run into one, man.
SPEAKER_00One more thing, too. Like, y'all, I think we like six to one out here, six six to women to one million. Something like that.
SPEAKER_04You still like who you like, yeah. But I ain't gonna but like you might like jail too. Oh, I ain't thinking about jail at the top. That's the only thing. You ain't nobody thinking because if you was thinking about jail, you would have never done it. And you start thinking about jail after the body on the floor. That's what you start thinking about. Not why you doing it.
SPEAKER_05Bitch, you think it's you don't think about that.
SPEAKER_04Just that's why I say it. The seconds you need to think. I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about it from the gate. Like I said, you said I'm thinking about it from the gate.
SPEAKER_00No, you people gotta say you gotta put yourself first, man. You got to, man. You got to put yourself first. I'm telling y'all, man.
SPEAKER_05I love you, bro. I'm like you, bro. I'm like you, I'm not gonna put you up off camera. I'm not, I'm not, I'm not just saying this because Mr. Sachs said, man, Fika good dude, yo. Listen, this is the same way, yeah.
SPEAKER_00I'm just trying to tell y'all, it hurt, bro. Like, I'd have been on the brink. I'm talking about, I'd have been on the brink of uh doing something crazy too, plenty of times, even just recently. But it just it ain't it ain't worth it. You think about it like that? Hold on, that ain't worth it. Cause hold on. I'm telling myself, I'm time gonna pass, I'm gonna I'm gonna be possibly be in jail. Hold on, I gotta I got all this going on, like I got it, I got a job, I got all this stuff going on, and I'm gonna sp and I'm gonna risk it over some vagina that's gonna be that you you don't own a vagina, man. She don't give it to who she wanna give it to. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, it is what it is. So, I mean, what you gonna do? Go kill somebody behind it, and then now you in jail. She's still giving it up to the next man. Then don't don't go to jail, and then guess what? And now you in jail, and then your man really sliding in.
SPEAKER_04Oh my god.
SPEAKER_00Oh my god. Now your homie really sliding in there. I just went, you know, I just want using jail, so I just wanted to go ahead and you know what I mean. Yeah, I mean, I got you. I just want to go over there and treat her. But that's how that's that's how it goes, man. People was it moving like that. So I I listen, man. Y'all got y'all gotta just um really think about yourself. Think about yourself. Now for you, yeah. Let me ask you a question, though. When you see these things happening, right? You see these like, you know, the people, you know, in jail, like you said, that's in jail who say, man, I should just throw about it. How is their mental are they like mentally just just gone?
SPEAKER_04No, they saying. They sing them more than the people, any people that you meet out here in society. Yes, no, and excuse me, this is their speech. They have proper etiquette, they have proper uh uh uh uh respect. Everything, but it all be in hindsight now. Like, damn, I shoulda, I could've I would've and you can't. Everything be on a bing, respect, pay attention, dedication, love, all that be intact with these men.
SPEAKER_00Dollar bills that she watches Sarah J. She turned to Sarah J on your homie around the way, huh? Who? That's what that's what that's what that's what I'm saying. She turned into Sarah J on your homie around the way. Who? The girl. What she said that the boy wanna kill Smite for instead of the guy. We're just saying a person who wants to kill me.
SPEAKER_04Oh, was he a Sarah J or a white girl with a big old ass?
SPEAKER_00No, no, no. The girl, the girl that somebody's messing with turned into Sarah J on a man on homeboy from round away. So now you want to know.
SPEAKER_02Sarah J and Sarah J ain't never killed nobody.
SPEAKER_00What happened? What are you talking about? Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_02So the way you explain it is wrong to me for me to comprehend.
SPEAKER_00Your girl turned into Sarah J on homeboy from round away.
SPEAKER_04Oh, oh, she turned, yeah, Sarah J. I wouldn't even be mad about that.
SPEAKER_00If she done turned into goddamn no, yeah, if your girl turned into Sarah J. No, no, no. I ain't Sarah J. That's what we're talking about. Yeah, but Sarah Jimmy?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, no, no, no. But Sarah J trash. If she done turned into goddamn skin diamond or something like that. What's the girl you say? The girl you say. I just was mentioning names like Sarah J and Skin Diamond, but Skin Diamond is the talking.
SPEAKER_00But Sarah J is still somebody that's that's that's that's talented at what she do, right? Not to me. Okay. Oh, yeah. Well, I don't know. But she's one of the ones. Okay, but she but you you would be mad with whoever, whatever Sarah J does, you'd be mad if your girl didn't put somebody else.
SPEAKER_03Nitro and all I'm talking about, Sarah J legendary.
SPEAKER_04You so stop saying you don't know these people, I know her personally. Not well, not personally, but I feel as though I know her personally. Kylie knows she is. Nah, he oh, he's young. He's young. He he'd get a little bit of that. He'd start peeing if he'd see that too. But he don't know who she is. Yeah, boy, because he ain't never felt nothing like that. Nut yet. He's gonna pee first. Motherfucker blowing his ear, he's a squirrel. What you doing? Yeah, I mean, you know how that goes.
SPEAKER_03Man, it's crazy, man. Yo. Yo. What's up, though?
SPEAKER_04Switch topics for a little bit, man. Can you let them know what we got going on this week? What we got?
SPEAKER_00Uh we already told him. We told him we got uh what's called Skinny Joey this week. We told him already? Yeah, Skinny Joey this week. Um good episode. Great episode. Him and Snuff are gonna be there. We got a lot of good episodes, episodes, episodes come up uh back to back to back, you know.
SPEAKER_04You ain't gonna tell him about the other one?
SPEAKER_00No, I'll just wait.
SPEAKER_04Can I just say, can I just see?
SPEAKER_00No, I wouldn't even say it, man. Nah, I would just keep it in the.
SPEAKER_03I'm sorry. I was coming. I sorry, but I was coming, boss. I can't tell you today.
SPEAKER_04I said I was coming, boss. You said not on dude. I was coming.
SPEAKER_03Oh my goodness gracious, man.
SPEAKER_00Yo, so well, listen, the other thing I want to say, right? Like in jail, right? Has it ever been a time in jail where as though a person um committed like a heinous crime?
SPEAKER_04Yes.
SPEAKER_00Right, hold on, hold on, hold on. Committed a heinous crime and was remorseful for it, and people felt sorry for him in jail. It makes like, man, I feel sorry for Boy.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, that could be, I could see that being the case.
SPEAKER_00But I have to say, you get sympathy in jail. People show sympathy for you.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, niggas show sympathy for niggas.
SPEAKER_04Like if a nigga in there, like that nigga, that nigga that killed that cop, like then uh one of them South Towns, remember the nigga that the son got killed and he went out and ran over the cop the next day? He was wrong. He was dead wrong. Like, cause this cop that you ran over didn't kill your son and all that, you know, but he was exacting his revenge on the police force or whoever he caught first because he felt as though that they took his son uh unjustly. Like, you know, okay. But when he getting there, and if he get a light and sit like, I don't know what he, I don't know if he's gonna beat it, I don't know if he's gonna lose it, but if he was to lose it, you know, if he was to lose it. Lose it. Men gonna feel sorry for him in there. Mill gonna be like, damn, man, they killed your son. You ran with they gonna feel sorry for him. But that don't mean that it's right that his act was right just because they feel sorry for you.
SPEAKER_00Dutch man said y'all need a once a month town hall man like them relationships. Talks when they got a line up of people on stage talking to the audience, we can start with the uh with the restaurant. I guess you want to have like a town hall, people talking about their relationships. Man, that might be good. People come in here and convince because you know, because it might be some people, some of y'all might be going to jail. Y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all not y'all sit, y'all give me hell for for uh I I take time and think. Like, hold up. Am I gonna go to jail for this? I ain't gonna lie, that's my that'd be my main thing. Like, what am I am I gonna go to jail? Like, like for real, man. Like I've been arrested. I've been arrested this year, man, for some I for some foolishness. And it's like shout out to uh Bay Area underscore old school for becoming a member. Like, I I got arrested this year, y'all, for some for some stuff, man, that was just foolishness, man. And and I could have avoided it because I didn't think. I thought, I didn't come hostile. No, dude, I didn't come in the situation hostile, but it got hostile for uh for me. And I wasn't even expecting it. But my reaction to the situation ended up getting me put in handcuffs. So it's like crazy. What do you what do you do? You know what I'm saying? This stuff happens, man. Yeah, man. Shout out to God. See, oh look, then another thing. Oh, what do you say? See, he won't know what happened, but I just I got I I can't really talk about it right now, but I talk about once it's over with. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_04Oh my god, you shouldn't even board it up, man. You always be in the past, I should tell y'all. I should just bust out and just tell y'all, but I ain't gonna do that because then y'all see a fight up here.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, my lawyer.
SPEAKER_04But I really want to tell y'all.
SPEAKER_00My lawyer told me this to be quiet on until it's over with. He specific he specifically told me they said, Yeah, when you're on the podcast, you gotta talk about it, have this over because.
SPEAKER_01Look, yeah, man, tell us why you gotta book this sales in the gym.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I tell y'all what happened.
SPEAKER_04I'm gonna tell y'all so bad. Yeah. I ain't gonna, again, I ain't because the people y'all everybody send me a poll right now. Say yes or no.
SPEAKER_03And if I get me plenty of yeses, I'm gonna tell y'all. Let me see.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you can't.
SPEAKER_03I just want to see how it goes.
SPEAKER_00Listen, we're trying to keep people from coming to court. That's all I've been saying about that. You go out there and start talking, they start showing up to court. So Laura said, keep it uh, keep it quiet. But I'll tell y'all once it's done. You know what I'm saying? Once it's over with. But yeah, like um, yeah, man. Like, I sometimes you get put into situations where you can't even you only way you can react is is be negative, so it's best to probably even stay away. Yeah, man. It's just it's just crazy. But um, so for you, he said Feedden told us Yeah, I I gotta listen. Yeah, I'm telling you, I'm I'm definitely y'all family, so I'm gonna let y'all know, but this because of the cases still going on, I can't really discuss it and talk about it because you know, we don't want to entice my people to come to court and start saying stuff. But yeah, I was arrested. Yeah, I was. He was there, but we just can't, I just can't tell you. I want to I want to tell it. I wouldn't tell it.
SPEAKER_03I would I would I'll tell it.
SPEAKER_00I'll tell y'all, I got y'all for sure. It should be listen. I'll tell you something. I I go to court this butt. It's my last court date. Nah, they say last court date. It's funny, but it's not funny. It's really not funny because it's a sad situation. But I tell y'all, man. I tell y'all about it. I mean, listen.
SPEAKER_03I gotta respect his wishes. Respect his wishes. I'm gonna go ahead and leave.
SPEAKER_04At least he told you that it happened. So now you know you're gonna get the rest of the story.
SPEAKER_00Yes, I'm gonna tell y'all. I go to court. I'm gonna tell y'all that day I go to court. I go to court on uh the 25th.
SPEAKER_03I will tell you this. I will tell you this. They're gonna do it.
SPEAKER_04Mr. Sack said, Mr. Stack said, Black, was he panicking at an alarming rate? To be honest, nah, he ain't do no panicking. He he went down like a man, and I watched him drive over to the back of that car.
SPEAKER_03Like, it usually be me. And I'm sitting out there outside the car with tears in my eyes, like, yo, yo, he's sitting there cuffed to the back. And I'm like, no, we tell us in the channels. And they took his ass. They weren't trying to get none of that shit.
SPEAKER_05All you wanted to do to get the car to you.
SPEAKER_03That's what I said too. They put him in the car, right? I said, you know, the truck, the truck I was telling you about, the truck. That's how it happened. I said, yo, your officer, the keys he got on him. He got these trucks. I'm driving that. And they was like, You driving that? And he was sitting there cuffed in the back with his Izar, so they gotta lift up the Izzar. And I said, Yeah, them keys right there. You could, and I'm like, I'm I'm looking at him like, you be cool, you be out in a couple days. I'm gonna get the truck.
SPEAKER_00And they out of pocket, man. Yeah, you're like, yeah, the guy over there, what's the what's so you got his keys? I said his keys.
SPEAKER_03They came back home and was like, here you go, sir. And I was like, I grabbed the keys and looked at him in the back seat.
SPEAKER_05And kept a guy said, You got his car keys? I'm like, what keys?
SPEAKER_00I was like, this nigga crazy. Yeah, bad. But the thing is, man, you know, uh, we just gotta be real, real careful. You should never never know, man. All right, listen, the ultimate goal was for me to try to tell y'all to stay free.
SPEAKER_03Somebody said free feet got a little bit breaking.
SPEAKER_00Oh man. I got I gotta break news. I gotta turn myself in for another situation that I even do. Yeah, then more breaking news. I got I got it's nothing. I can't, I gotta tell y'all, yeah. I'm going through it over here, but you know.
SPEAKER_04We ain't gonna get into all that right now, but he gotta turn himself in.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_04So it'll be me and Dot up here for about a day or two. You know how that goes it ain't nothing major. He's getting just some ruffles. All it is is ruffles that's getting straightened out, no abuse or no violence to no women or children. You know, just you know, certain shit that people go through in their lives with their significant, used to be their significant others and stuff like that. But everything is straightened the cord and we good, but he will be. And and to be honest, I'm glad I'm gonna be here and he's gonna be there.
SPEAKER_03Now, I don't want him to be there, but if I don't, I'm cool. He can go ahead and do this day or two there and then take this way like a man.
SPEAKER_00Yo, listen, man.
SPEAKER_03He's about to freak outside for real.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, listen, I'll tell y'all, man. Yo, a lie, man. Yo, listen, P gotta be careful, man. He's all he got booked in the fool.
SPEAKER_05Yes, boy, they don't care about none of that. They don't care. You gotta tell me.
SPEAKER_04The one boy told me, I said, I don't the one that was locking you up. He was Muslim. Yeah, the little the one that was mean, the one that told me I couldn't get the key, no, you won't get them keys. And I went over to the old Indian brother. Oh, the uh Indian brother? Yeah, the Indian brother, he's Muslim. Oh, yeah, yeah, he was Muslim. He won't act like it because he because you was a criminal to him at the time. You weren't Muslim to him at the time.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, he wasn't acting like none of that. Yeah, y'all.
SPEAKER_04Somebody said a real life podcast. Somebody said a real life podcast.
SPEAKER_00It's real, but listen, bro. Like, I'm telling y'all, man. Listen, y'all.
SPEAKER_03Somebody said once we start calling this happen.
SPEAKER_00A person can lie, like, be careful too. I want y'all to be careful out here. Everybody who's out here in the world, uh, just be careful because a person, if a person has it out for you, they would go to any no uh all types of extremes to lie on you to try to tear you down, y'all. And y'all gotta be real, real careful. But it goes both ways, men and women. I'm not just saying women is like this, but like, yo, y'all gotta be real careful, man. Protect yourself, protect your mental health, protect your, you know, your your money, protect your protect yourself out here, y'all. Because at the end of the day, you never know what may be thrown your way. But I always tell people all the time, you gotta put yourself first, even before you put your kids and you know, put your Lord first, and then put yourself right after that, man. Because it get what'd say it get crunchy. When somebody went, got it out for you, it's no limit that they'll go. You'll be surprised that people would do. They would even, like you said, people will kill you. We already seen instances where people would kill you. I mean, yeah, y'all. If they don't if they don't let me out and give me a bell, and y'all need everybody come come come come to the the uh the hearing and need the key courtroom.
SPEAKER_03Jupiter said black need the keys again when you serve yourself in, man. You think I can go ahead and get them this time real slim? Man, listen.
SPEAKER_04I will leave that job. One thing about it, I would never do that again.
SPEAKER_00I didn't even know, but when I turn myself in, I'm not, I'm I'm I'm uh I'll I'll I I I'll talk about it. I'm I got it.
SPEAKER_03Uh this is something we gonna we gonna y'all gonna know, but right now we gotta make sure we're straight to get it, y'all.
SPEAKER_00We're gonna be a uh which carp? Y'all gotta be careful, man. I hear man. Somebody got it out for you, man. Somebody hate you or got hate for you. He's gonna say black, we'll say get me and hold his hands out for the key. Yeah, the guy, some the guy over there said you got his car keys. I'm like, his car keys. This is my truck. I'm like, I'm trying to look back.
SPEAKER_03You know how your hand cuff like this, you try to look back. Like, you can't even see how the I'm like, yeah, no, they right there in that pocket right there.
SPEAKER_04That pocket right there underneath the Zara. Like, get them for me right now. AK right got the keys. They weren't playing no gangs.
SPEAKER_00Well, yeah, man.
SPEAKER_03Dutch man southwest said, do not take the PS5 in there with you, guys. Because you all he said feet, don't take that PS5 in there, bro.
SPEAKER_00Just grade it in, come on out, man. Speaking of PS5s by store my PS5, man. I said I need to take go there. I need you go get me, go, go poof me one. What'd it say? Boof.
SPEAKER_04Boof me a PS5. I ain't doing that. I can't booth no PS5. That's that's that's that's a little that's a nice little load right there.
SPEAKER_00Which cause uh I'm gonna be with the uh be on the rice bowl with the uh bell peppers and onions at an alarming rate. Yo, I shouldn't make it to corn. If I make it to quarantine, it's gonna be a lot of coming home. It's gonna be a problem. Yeah, but you gotta call from yo, man. That's like where they go, hey. Like, yo, this is what I was gonna say.
SPEAKER_03Somebody say feet, get that lock and suck.
SPEAKER_00They talk about some, yeah, yo, your bell ain't they ain't get your bell yet. I'm in that job, like, what? Yeah, get me out of here. Yeah, man. But y'all, y'all know, man, it's it's it's it's all love, man. But it's it's actually serious. Like, y'all, like, like I say all the time, like I said before, man, y'all, y'all's freedom is priceless, man. Stay safe, stay free, and um just be careful of people, man, of trusting individuals. I know it's hard, and I know y'all want to trust people, you know, but you can't trust, hey, I gotta trust this man, you know, Alhamdulillah. But you can't trust everybody, man. People don't have your best interest at heart, especially if they feel like you you wrong them. And a person might feel like you wronged them and you really probably didn't really really wrong them. And they'll they'll take your life. Or try to take your freedom or try to take your wealth. And they would go as far as lying about it. Whenever a person got it out for you, nothing matters. You can be their brother, you can be their sister, you can be their best friend, you know what I'm saying? You can be their uh husband or ex-husband, a kid's father, whatever it may be, or or kid's mother. People will go after you, man. Nothing matters. Religion, they throw religion out the out the window, everything just to get at you. So y'all make sure y'all be safe, be happy. We still ain't got this phone line set up yet. W Tophi. Yeah, we gotta we gotta fix that, man. We get because Oh, it's not it's not fixed. I gotta I got it's a special cord I gotta buy. So I had a cord for y'all, man, and apologize for the bootleg stuff we got going on up here, man. You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_04But um the last cord broke.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Oh, I want to say something too, man. Um Mecha Care and Assistance, man. If you need if you have anyone who has um any intellectual disabilities, contact Mecha Care and Assistance. You got the phone number up there, Tophy? I forgot I got a call, you got a content, but I'll have all the information to be up there really, really soon. This episode is sponsored by them. And um I got I I got y'all, so I'm gonna have some stuff more some more stuff for y'all, man. But listen, y'all, we're gonna have a uh a hell of a week this week. Got some good uh guests coming up here for the live. We got some good guests uh on a Thursday show. Um Crazy Clip should be back up this week. I know I don't I don't know what's going on with that, but it should be back up and running. Um you know what I'm saying? It is what it is. Yeah, we get them them uh free talk fake shirts, man. Them jaws rolling. But yeah, yo. So what's up with you, young? What's going on? Anything you want to say?
SPEAKER_04Man, you know. Again, man, we bring y'all real life experiences, man, real life scenarios, man. Real life stuff that's happening with either one of us that's up here right now, man, that's going on, man. And we not criminals, we're not breaking laws, you know. That don't mean you're a criminal when you come in involved with law enforcement. No, that means something happened and either you didn't think it outright or it went the wrong way. Whatever the case may be. But then you handle it accordingly. That don't mean you're a criminal, you know, because you came in contact with law enforcement. We give you the real so you can, so it can be, it's tangible. It's something that you can see. This is something that you can identify with. Like we brought up the scenario with one being out with the kids and them as not his kids, and they're from another father, and he comes upon. Like every, every day, every week, we bring in real life scenarios to think about and to ponder about if it haven't happened in our life prior already, to avoid it if it ever tries to get in our life. That's it, man. That's it, man. This is just real life family talk, man. We here, man, talk about it, man. Just like you go on the phone, call your mom, your friend, your girlfriend, your boyfriend, or whatever the case may be. Ha ha kiki. That's what we up here doing. This is this is a family affair, man. This ain't no, yeah, I mean, we cop and like you decline and all. This is a family affair. We out here.
SPEAKER_00Uh, one thing I g I gotta shed some light on uh uh incident. The uh off duty uh police officer who was killed, our brother was murdered. Um, unfortunate incident. Him and another guy were shot outside of a uh, I believe outside of a club. They were shot. Unfortunately, uh brother lost his life. Um one second, I get the brother's name. Yeah, but that's unfortunate, man. Uh brother was killed, man, and he lost his life. And the brother's name was one second, let me pull up because I want to shed a light on that with a axe to speak about it. And just to even talk about it, this is like uh senseless uh violence, man. Um these situations happen and it's just uh and not just because it's it's just a police officer, but this stuff is happening at our lumbery. People are killing each other. Uh the officer's name was um Al Hassini Barry. He's 29 years old. He was killed early Sunday morning in a double shooting in southwest Philadelphia. Police say the suspect was seen walking to a location of the shooting in the area of 73rd Street from Bewest Avenue. After the shooting, he fled the scene on foot southbound on 73rd Street. Um just to even talk about this, because you know, I don't I don't know the parameters of what happened, the situation. I just know that it was somebody who was killed. And this happens at an alarming rate, man. People were killing each other. They just happened to be a police officer, off-duty cop who was killed. Um, but no life, no life is is really worth it, man, to kill somebody, no matter if it's a cop or a regular individual, because we always harm each other. Like, I was looking at something about by Takashi 6ix9ine, right? And they was calling Takashi a rat, and the one and the whole and the person who was interviewing him was saying, You a rat. You you've told on we mad at you because you told on black people. And Takashi 6ix9ine said, Well, all right. But a black person killed Nipsey Hustle. A black person killed Pop Smoke, a black person killed Tupac, a black person killed uh Biggie Small. He was in List was going, he was just naming, naming people. It just is is it made sense to what he was saying because he was right. We are killing each other, man. More than anything else, we're killing each other. And it's sad. And not saying that, you know, African-American lives matter more than the Caucasian or Chinese or whatever your your your um your race is. It's just that we gotta get better, man. We gotta think more. We can't be killing each other out here, man. Especially we can't kill our brothers. We can't kill, smile, and look just like us. We can't kill our sisters, we can't, you know, continue to move in that manner because we we just we're destroying ourselves. We destroying ourselves. Like I said, in jail, they said what? If the African-American people come together in jail, then nobody beat them. And the same thing out here, man. Unity destroys poverty, man. We gotta unify. Not saying we just casting everybody else out because of their because we have, you know, uh Caucasian Americans who follow our show. Uh people, you know, who watch our show who are Spanish. And we we we appreciate all the support. And I don't condone them killing each other either, because you know, we're all family in some way, shape, form, or fashion, man. So, you know, God created all of us equal. I just think that we gotta stay together, in my opinion, man, because you know, the color of your skin doesn't always determine who you are. You know, we gotta all continue to try to be better, better people, man, and just come together, man, and stop this violence, man. It's unfortunate, man. That cop got killed, that brother got killed. And not to saying that his life is more viable with smiles, but it's other people that died as well. But this is the more, I'll say like this, this is the more notable news that's out there because it's a police officer, but you know, I don't want to downplay nobody else to die. I know other people out there probably got killed over the weekend as well. So whoever it was that I listen, listen, my condolences go out to these families out here that's killing. And, you know, we gotta try to just get better. Because jail is definitely a place that you're gonna go. And for the person that killed the police officer, like if, you know, if that was him, they got they got his face that, his face that fast. And the thing about it is people are gonna tell him it right away.
SPEAKER_04Super fast.
SPEAKER_00He probably already told him already.
SPEAKER_04He be caught before this Friday. I'm not into I'm I'm I'm anti-person going to jail. Why? Because I've been in jail a long time. I'm not saying he don't belong to jail. If he did this act, you run around killing police officers. I'm not saying I don't want nobody to go to jail. But me knowing the law and knowing how they operate and knowing how times is changing, getting advanced as second going fuck the days. Me, if I was a gambling man, he would be caught before Friday this evening. Friday evening.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah, man. And that's once again, now that's not this one life loss, that's two lives lost. His and the police. Yeah, so because they're gonna they're gonna if they're gonna catch it. Man.
SPEAKER_04Cook his cookies. If he's found guilty upon this, you know, charge they're claiming him for.
SPEAKER_00I want to say something too. I want to say one last thing before we get up here. Um I was at a I like we talk about people killing each other, right? I was at a Gennaza one day. This was like probably like two years ago. I was in a Gennaza is another word for funeral. So I was at a funeral, and I got to the funeral, come down, see y'all young young guys in front of the funeral home. Shaking hands, whatever case may be. But I could tell it's in tension. They start standing up, start spreading out. Tension. Right? So I'm there, I'm I'm there for a brother who got killed. So I go to the um the grave site. Go to the grave site. Yeah. So they put the they put the young guy on the ground.
SPEAKER_04Put him in the ground, put the dirt on him. Some other niggas almost got put in the ground, didn't they?
SPEAKER_00Next thing you know, I hear gunshots.
SPEAKER_04Then where you was at in the next grave that was vacant. Nah, listen. You down there, somebody pulled me up.
SPEAKER_00I look, right? I look. And one of the young guys I know, and other, and I guess the other fan, they shoot at each other. So they hit, they hit him, they shooting mine. I'm looking at this while I'm running. I'm jumping over tombstones. You know what I mean? I'm jumping over all types, I'm jumping over, you know, it was crazy. I'm running, they shooting. And um I'm like, dang. And they like, yo, yeah, he uh he the one who killed him. That's what they were saying. He was the one who was the one who killed him, supposedly the one who killed him. But they shooting at the gravesite, man. It was crazy, man. Like, I'm running. They got his mom there, his mom running. So his mom, whoever she was, talking to the people, the person that's shooting, like, stop, no, like it was just crazy, man. I said, man, this is ridiculous. I told myself, I said, I'm never going to nobody else's ganaza. I don't I know the young boy that is not like it's young guys like that. I'm not going because we heard about it so much. They come up there shooting. So y'all be be uh uh be safe out here, y'all. And like I didn't nah, I just try to jump over, you know, some tombstones. I didn't hit my hit the hit the shin bone on the on the tombstone, shin bleeding. I jumped that man. It's crazy. But y'all listen, y'all stay safe, man. Stay free, man. And remember to prioritize yourself first. You know what I mean? Work on you first. Priority, prioritize you and your safety, and your money, and your listen, your well-being before anybody else's. You have to. You have to because you can't care or take for take care of your kids. You can't care to care take care for your mom, your brother, your sibling. You can't care for nobody if you don't care for yourself first. Gotta put yourself first. Everything works after that. Everything else comes second. Put your put your Laura first, then put yourself second. And then after that, everybody else. For real. You know? Yeah, I was on, I was, no. What's the name? Who's saying boat? They ain't even realize I was that fast. But yeah, man, you got you gotta you gotta uh what's I said, I don't want no one seriously, this bitch prioritize yourself, y'all. You know, but yeah, y'all only thing that you want to say before we get up out of here, man.
SPEAKER_04Thank, man. Be be aware. Be aware is Monday, y'all. We go into the work week, man. People got up, work today. Some people getting off, some people probably getting on, some people probably still there. You know, we're older for the ones that's older. You know, we got a lot of people to look out for the men. We got people that we got families to look out for. Even if you ain't got a girl or kids, you still got a family to look out for. You may have siblings, you may have relatives, but to look out for someone else, you have to be aware, you have to be conscious of yourself. Yourself have to be right. In tune, if that's not right, your ass is grass. So, yeah, man. Be conscious, man, be aware, man. Think about the next person. You know, I like to do nowadays, man. Like somebody told me when you drive in a car, you got to drive for other people. You got to look for a motherfucker that's ready to run a stop sign instead of you making sure that you stop and just stop sign, if that makes any sense. You got to drive for other people. To make sure that your car stays in place, intact. Make sure your life, your insurance don't go up because of a nutty crash. You have to drive for other people. So now this is I say that to say, life. You have to think for other people. When you see somebody out there, all right, I got to think for you because I see you can't think for yourself. In turn, I got to think for both of us because I don't want neither one of us dying. And that's just it.
SPEAKER_00One more last thing before we get up hot. Listen, if I ain't here tomorrow, I'm turning myself in. So if I ain't here tomorrow, y'all know that uh they ain't pay my bell. So listen, I want y'all to raise heck. We're gonna start a go fun fee. Yeah. Turn myself in early in the morning tomorrow, man. So if I ain't here, I know they ain't pay my bell. But listen, man, I'm gonna thank everybody for tuning in, man. Uh, once again, the episode of Telf and Jells is sponsored by TNS Media Group, man. I love y'all. I love the support, I love the direction that we're going in. I love everything that's going on. I love all the guests who've come up here and sharing their stories. Everybody who's uh watching us and following us from all platforms. But like I said, y'all, if I ain't here tomorrow, they ain't paying my bell.