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Leverage, Not Lifestyle: Rethinking Credit as a Tool

Rita Ulloa Season 1 Episode 6

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Credit isn’t a mystery box—it’s a system you can learn and use to your advantage. We dig into the exact steps to establish a reliable credit profile from zero, the traps that keep people stuck in high-interest debt, and the everyday habits that move your score toward 700+ without stress. From secured cards that graduate fast to the statement-timing trick that protects your utilization, we share the playbook we actually use at home.

We start with the simplest on-ramp: a $500 secured card from your bank, Discover, or Capital One. Then we layer in strategies that build history and stability, like adding a responsible authorized user (yes, even for teens) and aiming for three well-managed cards over time. You’ll learn why car rental counters still insist on a true credit card, how to pick rewards that match your real spending, and how to avoid the silent score-killer of inactivity. Most important, we outline a rhythm that works: predictable charges like gas, payments before the statement closes, and small reported balances that show healthy use.

We also talk about mindset. Credit is leverage, not extra money. Treat points as a rebate for planned spending, not a reason to splurge. Pay off travel before you travel so your vacation stays a vacation. And if you’ve already paid down balances, cleaned up errors, and your score still won’t budge, we share vetted resources that have helped our clients—and us—remove roadblocks the right way. Subscribe, share this with someone starting their credit journey, and leave a review with your biggest credit question so we can tackle it next.

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Authorized Users for Kids

SPEAKER_00

Hey guys, thank you for joining us. Tough love and no te cutes, because I'm knocked up. In this week's episode, we're going to be talking about credit scores. And how to get it started, how to get it going and everything.

SPEAKER_01

So, mother, how how do you start a credit score? Like, what is that?

SPEAKER_02

So, there's a few easy ways to build credit scores. Um, had I known with you back then, like I've already added Uriah to one of my credit cards to add him as an authorized signer. I know he's only 11 years old. Um, but what I'm trying to do for him is build credit history. Um, if you do that for your kids, by the time they're 18, they already have over 10 years. I mean, wait, no, but that math, that math wasn't mathing. Um the the younger you are, you want to aim for at least seven years. Um, so I would say by the time your child's 11, it's a good time to add them as an authorized user on your credit score. That way they get to build off your credit. The thing to keep in mind when you're doing that is you have to keep on top of your credit. So for to do that with active lines of credit, you want to be able to make sure that when the statement close date is, your balance is under um, they say 30, I say 25. Um, and so basically when your statement close date is, um, you want to make sure to pay down that balance so that the what re it's reported to the credit bureaus, you're never fully maxing out your credit.

Secured Cards: How to Start

SPEAKER_01

Okay. So how do you even get started with doing that to begin with?

Why Three Cards and Interest Risks

Car Rentals Require Credit Cards

Refocus: Establishing Credit Basics

How to Use a Card Responsibly

SPEAKER_02

So first thing would be to, I mean, the easiest way to not get a denial would be to save around 500 bucks and do a secured credit card through the bank that you bank at or discover has a really good secured credit card, and so does Capital One. Um, so what happens in those typically, I think it's um I think it's six months if you keep the balances low under the 25. Well, it's not even so much that you keep the balances low, it's if you make your payments on time for 90 days and your balance isn't high, they typically release the deposit and just give it back to you on your card as a credit. So, so that's one good way. Um, you always want to aim for three, um, three credit cards. Um, and interest being so high on credit cards, it's really, really important not to max out that credit card. Um, because at that point in time, you know, if if you're not financially stable enough that you have enough income to pay what you use on those cards every month, then most people reach a point where all they're paying is interest every month. They're making the minimum payments, but nothing is happening to their balance. Okay. So that's um, I know there's so many people that they don't um they're afraid of credit cards um and they don't have credit cards. Um, I will tell you it's important to have credit cards because you will you won't be able to rent a card ever without a credit card. I worked at Avis for a period of time. I didn't know I wasn't gonna, I was whatever. Whatever I was not fired. I was not fired, and I met some really cool people. I loved working there, but I will tell you like there were so many people that get so mad because you cannot you cannot rent a car without a credit card. Um, it has to be a credit card, it can't be a debit card, and among other things, you want to just improve your whole credit profile altogether. On this time, I thought you could use just a debit card. You can't. I mean, I will for El Paso, you can use a debit card if you have a flight, an outbound flight, they'll let you use a debit card, but that's the only way. But I feel like we're we're changing topics from how to rent a card to how to fix your credit. And it's not even so much fixing your credit. I think today's discussion is on how to establish credit. And so for me, I would definitely start with the secured credit card. Um, then there's the option, like I said, not necessarily just children, but for like maybe spouses or somebody that has credit and the other doesn't, being able to add the other person as an authorized user. Um just to be able to build a little bit of credit history. It doesn't necessarily build the whole profile, um, but it it gives them some type of credit history while they work on getting their score high enough to be able to qualify to take their own out.

SPEAKER_01

So, how do you even use a credit card though for like people that are new, like brand new to it, like say myself, even like how do you spend it? How do you like so for me?

SPEAKER_02

Like I tell you, you never use a credit card as your it's it's not an in addition to your money. Your credit card should be something that you you leverage. Um, I told you use credit cards. I use my credit cards for points. Yeah, I use my credit cards to pay for everything. Um, but that's because I'm able to use those points to either do cash back, to get travel, to be able to, you know, pay our hotel rooms, get our car rentals, do all that stuff. So um for me, it's about making sure to I I always try to find ways to make my money work for me. Um, and so that's the most important thing is not to carry a balance um and not to be paying high interest on your credit card. So it's really about being disciplined enough to know that even as your credit lines increase, um, I try to do everything not to carry a balance. Um but I mean, I will tell you if you don't charge anything on a credit card um for 90 days and every single month it records a zero balance, they will close your accounts. Oh, okay. And that hurts your credit more than anything. So it's it's really about like like I would tell you, like even with um, you know, your first credit card that you have, use it to put gas. Like you know what your monthly budget is for gas. So use it to put gas. And then before your statement closes, pay it down, leave a balance of you know 20 bucks, 30 bucks, something like that. So they can see that you're using it, yeah, um, but that you're not maxing it out. Okay. You always want to stay below that 25%.

Rewards, Categories, and Not Using as Cash

SPEAKER_01

What about like how like earning points though? Is that like something that's specifically for like the company that you're going through to like know where to spend it in order to earn those points?

Travel, Points, and Paying Before Fun

Avoiding Debt Traps and High APRs

SPEAKER_02

Well, or different credit cards have different reward systems. Okay. So like certain banks will do 3%, other ones will do 5%. You know, some I will tell you with business lines of credit, um, those it's really specific categories. Okay. Um, specific categories will give more points than another, you know what I mean? But it's it's really just about using it, how do I using not using it as another form of cash? Okay. Um, because like like I I will tell you, like, I I would never I would book a vacation on my credit card, but in order for me to have fun on my vacation, it has to be paid before I go. Oh, okay. That makes sense. Because then I'm sitting there on my vacation, like, oh my gosh, like we gotta get this paid, we gotta do this, we gotta do that. So it's just about using it to as a tool. Because really the more you take care of your credit and the more that score stays high, there's so much not only opportunity, but if you do find yourself in a bad position, it's nice to have that safety net to be able to charge it. But you again, like that, and that's why it's important not to carry the balance every single month because then you know, if you find yourself in a position that you need it, but you've been making the minimum payments at 26, 27, 28% interest, yeah, it's not that money's not going towards the balance. It's most the majority of it is going towards your principal, and it becomes almost impossible to pay it off.

SPEAKER_01

There's so many people right now in credit card debt. I've seen some crazy like debts already, just for this past year already. I'm like, wow, it's crazy. Yeah. But no, like me, I'm I'm so new to my credit card. So like right now, I I still have like a good amount that I could spend if I really wanted to, but I'm kind of on a security theme right now because I I'm still learning on what it means to really use it.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

So I'm like, that's why.

Budgeting, Limits, and Reporting

When You’ve Done Everything: Credit Help

Never Pay Late and Resources

SPEAKER_02

Well, you're on a budget, and that's where I feel like it's important, as long as you know what your budget is, and you know, like if let's say your credit line is a thousand dollars, yeah, you know at the end of that statement period you don't want to balance more than$280 to get reported. Um, you have to know that you can't go charge$800 because if your pay isn't gonna get you that difference in time and it reports higher, then not only are you building, not only are you not building a good credit history because your balances are being reported high, it's going to hurt you in the long run because it's not if you don't have it now, you're probably not gonna have it later. So you're you're basically just playing catch up. You're trying to pick catch up all the time. So for me, it's important to um just try to use it responsibly. But I will tell you like if there is um anybody listening that's having issues with their credit and they've done everything they've made, um, you know, you've you've done everything, you've paid balances down, and your credit is just stuck. Um, I have a resource to be able to, you know, um get like payments removed, um, be able to just kind of do a credit reset so that, you know, if if you've done everything you can on your part as far as being able to correct stuff, but your scores just stuck, um, then don't hesitate to give us a call because I do have resources available that have helped um not only clients, but have helped myself, um, as far as just getting your score to where you need it to be to be able to um just have a you know a decent score, which to me a decent score is something over 700 because that's basically the difference between getting a B prime and an A prime bump. So and you need to work on after having year one for six months and you reported low balances and you're making your payments on time. That's the most important. Do not make late payments. Do whatever you can to make your payments on time because once that 30-day late hits your credit report, it does so much damage that it it takes a long time like to be able to recuperate from that, or you have to reach out to third parties to be able to get it removed. Um, and that's an out-of-pocket expense. But I mean, there we have so many resources available. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to reach out to us and we can kind of walk you through the whole process because again, like so many things, especially financially, everybody has a case by case basis. So we're here's a resource. Thanks for joining us this week.