Would You Rather, $9 Trillion or 9 Minutes With Jesus?

This week on Women in Black, we’re asking the questions that sound fun… but hit deeper than expected.

We play a round of Would You Rather, covering everything from love and money to faith, relationships, identity, and growth. What starts off light quickly turns into a real conversation about peace, trust, maturity, and what actually matters.

We talk about:

• Choosing peace over loud love
• Being financially stable vs. emotionally mature
• Faith, fear, and the internet’s reaction to real answers
• Why being a safe place can matter more than being a priority
• Outgrowing people without resentment

This episode is for the women who think deeply, laugh loudly, and still want peace at the end of the day.

Pull up a chair, answer along with us, and let us know what you would choose.

Transcript

Icebreaker: Talk To Animals Or Polyglot

SPEAKER_04 0:00

Would you rather talk to animals or speak every human language? Speak every human language. I think I would rather talk to animals. Because it's like a raccoon is in my trash. Picture this. He's in the trash. Hey yo, get out my trash, can you? Wait, what? And then I'm like, yeah, what? You in my trash? And then he's like, you can hear me? Yes, I can hear you. Get out my trash. Go on over there.

Priority Versus Safe Place In Love

SPEAKER_03 0:30

I want to be someone's priority. I really do. But marriage has taught me. Be in a safe place is so precious.

SPEAKER_04 0:40

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 0:41

And sometimes them kids be priority.

SPEAKER_04 0:45

It's peaceful. No matter what you're facing, you're gonna come to that safe place. Alright. Feel that peace and that security.

Show Identity And Warm-Up Banter

SPEAKER_01 0:55

Woman in Black is where we put down the cape and pick up the mic, being authentically who we are, where we are, unmasked, unfiltered, and unapologetic.

SPEAKER_04 1:07

Alright, so how are you today?

SPEAKER_00 1:11

I am doing wonderful.

SPEAKER_04 1:13

Is that your sexy voice?

SPEAKER_00 1:16

See now. My sexy voice. It gives a little more.

SPEAKER_03 1:24

My husband said, I don't know how to be sexy.

SPEAKER_04 1:28

I know it's so sad because I'm not sure. Because if you are like this, and like I could, I swear to goodness, if you're like this, like I could count the three. One, two, three, you're gonna start laughing.

SPEAKER_03 1:41

You're trying to hold it in. See that? You're trying to hold it in. He said I'm sexy when I'm not trying to be sexy. When you're not trying to be. When I'm trying to be sexy, y'all, it just all fall apart. It just be like.

SPEAKER_04 1:51

It'd be happening like why. Okay. Um, so how are you today? I'm good.

Joy Check-In: Dance Parties And Plans

SPEAKER_03 2:01

I had a dance party in my room last night. Okay. It was a whole party while I was folding clothes. And then my 10-year-old came in and she joined me. And we we was doing the same move at the same time. But she was she was able to get a little lower than me. My niece said no. Uh-uh, not today. So we we was cutting it up up there. I needed that though, because it made me want to throw a party. Yo, me and my sister, and you know, she came over yet later yesterday. So I was telling her, she was like, I guess we're gonna have to throw a part. I said, I guess we is. We're gonna have to bring women in black in it too, okay? We're gonna have to have live podcasts and after party, and I want the music to go through the stages. I wanna, I want, okay, don't judge me. Okay, but okay, 70s disco, we could do that for like a half the first half hour. Then go into 80s, that gotta be like a good hour. And then we gotta go into 90s, 90s, listen, 90s. They could have a little over hour. Them 2000, drop it, drop it, little girl, drop it, drop it, little girl, drop. Huh?

SPEAKER_04 3:08

Like we can just we can just bring it there, you know what I'm saying? I think it's gonna be dope. Speaking of your sister, sis, I didn't see now one picture of me in 2025 recap. I am that you posted up. You had to send her some pictures. No, we're gonna start taking some pictures every time you walk through those doors. Let's take a picture. I love it. We're gonna do that because I was looking hard as if I was really gonna be in there. Like, I don't even remember. I didn't think we took one picture this year, last year. But I was looking. I am cracking up so 2026, Karen. Picture, click it up. Don't act like y'all don't have a fourth sister. Don't forget that y'all did.

SPEAKER_03 3:56

Carol, listen, we just adopted her at this point. She

Photos, Sisterhood, And Being Seen

SPEAKER_03 4:00

here.

SPEAKER_04 4:01

But my friend is in Nigeria. This was on this is what's on my mind. Okay, and they released those bombs over there in Nigeria. I don't know nothing about it. And I was scared, and I was like, yo, you got hello, hello. I even found the people that he went with. Did he respond? He finally responded two days later. Two days, two days later, and I was just like, oh my gosh. And his wife doesn't have social media,

Nigeria News Scare And Faith

SPEAKER_04 4:30

so I couldn't even reach out to her.

SPEAKER_03 4:33

I'm gonna need you.

SPEAKER_04 4:36

That's what I told him in the um when I wrote him on Instagram. I said, I'ma need her phone number for when you take these adventurous trips like this, so I could just send her a fast text, like everything good over there. You know what I mean? She might need something. They don't have no family around here.

SPEAKER_03 4:53

First of all, I you be knowing the news before I know it, so I I ain't even know a bomb happened in Africa.

SPEAKER_04 5:01

I mean hopefully it was a clickbait.

SPEAKER_03 5:09

Oh god, well, Nigeria is huge, so maybe it was on the side that it wasn't on.

SPEAKER_04 5:14

Allegedly they came from the president on Christmas.

SPEAKER_03 5:18

I gotta get up there with my current event. My mom be telling me to watch news by why would he do that? So now I gotta look. Oh my god. It really happened, right? Islamic State in Nigeria, Trump tells you strikes as a Christmas present.

SPEAKER_04 5:42

See what I'm saying? And he went on Christmas Day.

SPEAKER_03 5:45

Listen, let me let me tell you something because the devil is a liar, and that's why he didn't let me see that.

SPEAKER_04 5:52

Because yeah, I wasn't feeling that. Because why why are you messing? You just had to do something, and then the fact that he keeps saying Christians, that ain't them Christians ain't the type of Christian I am. We ain't related. We are not related, those are not my Christian, my fellow Christians.

SPEAKER_03 6:16

God forgive me, but God, they ain't a rebellious children, so they are Lucifer's children, they might be Lucifer.

SPEAKER_04 6:24

Because you know, the the devil disguised as an angel before, too.

SPEAKER_03 6:28

The devil it get kicked out, exactly. All right, this is a lot for me to take in because I wasn't aware. That was my check-in.

SPEAKER_04 6:38

Because it was are you okay?

SPEAKER_03 6:40

Yeah, I'm all right now. This is why. This is why I be in a bubble sometime. It's not all good, but yeah, now I'm not faith over fear, right?

SPEAKER_04 6:52

But reality is there too. Yeah, I mean, like, he would go when yellow men, red men, peach men do this stuff.

SPEAKER_03 7:03

I just don't get it, and I guess I just need more information because the reaction that I want to have is not nice. Yeah, it's not because you know we are Nigerian. Not culturally, I don't know much. But my ancestry was like, I mean, like y'all heavy. It wasn't even like, oh, you two percent. Nah, that shit was like 30%. Nigerian? Yeah, I'm just one of the yellow ones. They gotta exist. Yellow people are everywhere. Yellow people are everywhere. I

Heritage, Identity, And Shades Of Black

SPEAKER_03 7:40

can't, but you know, black people come at every shade, they do, they really do, maybe every shade.

SPEAKER_04 7:46

So I have a few questions for you. That's how we're gonna do this. Okay, this podcast. Okay, I have a few questions for you. We're gonna start off with some. You see how serious and intense that was? Yeah, we need

Would You Rather Round Begins

SPEAKER_04 8:00

some calm me down, right? We do. I like your phone case. Is that new? Um, you probably just you just be switching out phone cases. No, you remember I got a new phone? Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah, so the other phone case is going to be.

SPEAKER_03 8:11

Yeah, all right, cool. I need a new phone, but I'm gonna wait.

SPEAKER_04 8:14

Oh, your phone case is cute too.

SPEAKER_03 8:16

Oh, thank you. You got a new one. This was for December, so I have to change it. Um acting like Nia. Oh my god, you ever talking here, you kids? Yep, anyway.

SPEAKER_04 8:32

So right, would you rather forget your phone at home or forget your wallet?

SPEAKER_03 8:43

This is funny coming from you because you would say wallet. Because I never see you pull out a wallet. She just be like, tap it. Yeah, I would have to say wallet. I'ma just have to figure out

Phone Or Wallet In A Digital World

SPEAKER_03 9:00

how to get that money over. Yeah, yeah, but definitely wallet.

SPEAKER_04 9:05

Because my phone is my wallet. I know. So I would definitely go with wallet. So one for wallet. Wallet, wallet, wallet, wallet. All right. Um, would you rather have nine trillion

Trillions Versus Time With Jesus

SPEAKER_04 9:20

dollars or nine minutes with Jesus?

SPEAKER_03 9:25

Nine trillion dollars? Because I'll listen, don't even tell me nothing at this point. If you give me the trillion dollars, I can figure out how to be happy because I know Jesus. I be having nine minutes with him every day.

SPEAKER_04 9:39

So at first, I was like, nine minutes with Jesus, right? But if God presents an opportunity of nine trillion dollars in my face, I know that's from him and Jesus. So I'm gonna go pay it back. I'm gonna give my 10%, I'm gonna go pay it back. So, you know, nine trillion dollars, nine trillion dollars. Because the truth is, we're gonna take care of the people. Exactly. We already know them. We be talking, I talked to him for more than nine minutes.

SPEAKER_03 10:13

So, I would like what you gonna do? How else? I'm gonna what image am I gonna see? Because the ones I

Loud Love Or Peaceful Love

SPEAKER_03 10:20

grew up seeing ain't even him. So, what are we about to do here? I don't even know.

SPEAKER_04 10:25

Yeah, yep, nine trillion dollars. Nine trillion dollars. Okay, would you rather be loved loudly or peacefully?

SPEAKER_03 10:35

Peacefully, I don't care about no loud, just yo, don't be dis disrupting my peace. Period. I don't care about the loud.

SPEAKER_04 10:44

I don't care about the loud. Like, we we're not a secret. We could be private and low, but just be peaceful for me.

SPEAKER_03 10:52

Yeah, because me and Dom, we not we don't really do PDA. Like, what is even loud though?

SPEAKER_04 10:58

What is it like just like your man posting you everywhere, flaunting you around, like my girl, my girl, this, my girl.

SPEAKER_03 11:06

Nah, that's gonna annoy me after a while.

SPEAKER_04 11:08

Yeah, um, and you know why I wouldn't want loud either? Because the little serpents be watching. And if my man steady posting me, they gonna be like, oh, I want that.

SPEAKER_00 11:22

Cause they like loud.

SPEAKER_04 11:23

They like loud, not even knowing what it took for me and my man to get here. And then I gotta go make sure you won't work for the rest of your life and all this stuff. Because you over here interfering in something that God sent me, and I deserve it.

SPEAKER_03 11:42

Yeah, you got to go. Yeah, like just love me respectfully, yes, and peace. Love me peacefully, yes, love me with intention, love on me. But yeah, I don't need all that.

SPEAKER_00 11:54

I need another one. I'm about to say I can find some for you, too, if you want.

SPEAKER_04 11:58

Would you rather talk to

Languages Versus Animals Revisited

SPEAKER_04 12:00

animals or speak every human language? Speak every human language. I think I would rather talk the animals. Because if like a raccoon is in my trash, and then you he don't know that I talk raccoon, I could be like, hey yo, get up out of my trash can, and then um he'll be like, picture this. Oh, he's in the trash. Hey yo, get out my trash can. He like, wait, what? And then I'm like, yeah, what? You in my trash? And then he's like, You can hear me? Yes, I can hear you. Get out my trash, go on over there. So yes, or chomper, my mom's dog. Instead of whining in my face, Chomper can be like, Josh, give me that from Troy. Hear Chomper saying, take it.

SPEAKER_03 12:55

I can't.

SPEAKER_04 12:56

I don't care that much about under I barely want to understand the humans now. So I don't care that much.

SPEAKER_05 13:04

Yeah, I would.

SPEAKER_04 13:05

I can talk to dogs and and tell them, tell the squirrels, don't don't jump in that tree, and you know my car part right here, and them acorns gonna fall on my car.

SPEAKER_03 13:16

Something wrong with you. I need the languages, I need to be able to interactive network with them. Oh, I need it. I feel like I'll get more done faster. And I'll know who talking junk, like when you're going to nail salon and all that. Because think about it.

SPEAKER_04 13:30

I can put a translator on my phone with my airpods in right now to hear when they talk about me in the nail salon. But I can't put nothing in my ear for me to say, Chomper, you know you're not supposed to use the bathroom on her grass right there.

SPEAKER_03 13:45

And he could be like, Oh, let me go over here. I just have no desire to talk to animals. I am cracking up. Yeah, even though them deer or that turkey that flew across the dairy. Or, okay, picture this. Because why did you do that?

SPEAKER_04 13:59

Picture this. You're riding on a dark road one night. What am I gonna yell out the car? Yes, put the window down. Megaphone. Get your make sure y'all don't run in this road because I'm coming.

SPEAKER_02 14:16

I'm just saying, guys. Just saying, all right, one for the animals, one for the languages, one for humans.

SPEAKER_04 14:28

Would you rather restart

Restart Life Or Jump Ten Years

SPEAKER_04 14:30

your life with all of your memories or jump 10 years into the future?

SPEAKER_03 14:38

Neither. I'm so confused. Wait, okay, let's break this down. Would you rather restart my life from an infant with all of my memories or jump 10 years in the future? Golly, if I could say neither, that would be the answer. But if I have to choose one, I don't feel like restarting my life, so I'm gonna just have to jump.

SPEAKER_04 15:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 15:02

That's too much. I'm just doing too much.

SPEAKER_04 15:05

Because I feel like if I have to go back to the memories, that's taking me backwards. And I've already been back enough. I'ma have to jump to 10.

SPEAKER_03 15:15

Yeah, I'm just gonna have to jump 10 years.

SPEAKER_04 15:17

That's it. That's it. Jump to 10.

Snacks Forever Or Real Meals

SPEAKER_04 15:20

Yeah. Yeah. Would you rather have unlimited snacks but no meals? Or unlimited meals but no snacks?

SPEAKER_03 15:31

I could do either because I'm gonna make a mill or snack out. It's just gonna be look, it won't be small meals. Give me the snacks.

SPEAKER_04 15:39

Give me the snacks. I'm a snacker. Give me the snack.

SPEAKER_03 15:42

But then I think I prefer mills because I'ma make a bunch of them.

SPEAKER_04 15:47

Yeah, I might have to say mills because I can take a people to this meal.

SPEAKER_03 15:54

That's how I'm thinking. That's how I'm thinking.

SPEAKER_04 15:59

Okay.

Fame With Critique Or Quiet Respect

SPEAKER_04 16:00

Would you rather be famous but constantly criticized or unknown but deeply respected?

SPEAKER_03 16:09

A second.

SPEAKER_04 16:09

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_03 16:10

Because I ain't playing with y'all.

SPEAKER_04 16:12

I don't care if y'all know us or not. Them numbers know us.

SPEAKER_03 16:18

And respect is something. You can't get back oftentimes after you lose it anyway. So just give me the respect. Work too hard not to.

SPEAKER_04 16:30

Okay. Would you rather know how you'll die, or would rather know when? I don't want to neither.

Know How You Die Or When

SPEAKER_04 16:40

I don't want either one of them. I would prefer when. Yeah. I don't want you to know when. Okay. Yes. Imagine if you knew when. Yes, and you'll be like, no, because we gotta get this done because I'm about to die in 5025. Yes. We are in 2026, and you trying to control five. I do that anyway, though.

SPEAKER_03 17:07

5020. I do that anyway, so I might as well I'd rather know when. Because if I know how and I don't know when, that is haunting. My dad knew how, but he didn't know when. Okay. That's wild to me. Because he told my mom, yeah, how. And so when I looked at the death certificate, and it said that she was, she, she, she was like, What? I was like, Yeah. I and she was dead. That's when she told me the story. She was just so taken aback by wild.

SPEAKER_04 17:42

But I don't I don't want either, neither or I don't yeah, but you gotta choose one.

SPEAKER_03 17:50

You made me choose one when I didn't want to.

SPEAKER_04 17:52

Okay, I would say how because if you're gonna tell me that, God forbid, I'm gonna be sick.

Emotional Maturity Or Financial Stability

SPEAKER_04 18:00

Right now I'm gonna try to do everything in my power to stop that sickness. We are changing, you gonna be like oh shoot, they got to make movies out of that. No, for real. Okay, would you rather be emotionally mature or financially stable?

SPEAKER_06 18:20

Oh, oh, you'd be financially stable.

SPEAKER_03 18:26

I'm sorry. But how? How emotionally mature person with no money and a financially stable person who acts like a child? I mean, I can't. Zero zero. No, you gotta pick one, remember? You gotta pick one. So you said financially stable, but you just gonna be walking around here immature? You're gonna be financially stable, walk around here immature. I be I be goofy now, but you're not emotionally immature.

SPEAKER_04 18:59

I could probably pay for somebody to feel my emotion. But it didn't even say rich. It's like it didn't. That could mean anything. Just have a stable 95, you're covering everything, but you still can't go on no vacation.

SPEAKER_03 19:16

Right. Maybe if I'm emotionally stable enough, God'll send me. Yeah, cuz how the heck that's gonna happen.

SPEAKER_04 19:23

I don't know, child.

SPEAKER_03 19:24

Yeah, I'm gonna have to do emotionally mature.

SPEAKER_04 19:27

Okay. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 19:29

Cause I just

Screenshot Slip Or Accidental Nude

SPEAKER_03 19:30

can't with the goofiness. I'm gonna have a goofy. I'm all first of all, I'm talking about the goofy in terms of just goofy. Y'all know I'm talking about. I wanted to say it, but the words you're not nice.

SPEAKER_04 19:47

Would you rather accidentally send a nude to a group chat or a screenshot of some of you talking something?

SPEAKER_03 19:59

First of all, it's Screenshot. Because I can stalk my husband for a while.

SPEAKER_04 20:06

Just let me go ahead. Give me that screenshot. I'm gonna send it right now to some of me stalking somebody. Listen. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 20:16

I don't wanna send the way this belly's

Wrong Thing Right Time Dilemma

SPEAKER_03 20:20

done up right now. We really don't do that. But also, okay, I feel like girls be stalking. I be stalking people for other people.

SPEAKER_04 20:29

I mean, people be stalking in general. People every day someone is looking at somebody else's page that they know they don't have no business on their page. Sometimes you don't even realize you want to be on their page. You just couldn't do the grill and didn't it bring you down a whole funnel. Exactly. Would you rather always say the wrong thing at the right time? Or the right thing at the wrong time? Yeah, maybe the wrong thing at the right time.

SPEAKER_03 20:51

Because I actually sound like it went exactly how I wanted to. The wrong thing at the right time? Yeah, because that means I meant to say it. I'm gonna say the wrong thing at the right time. Because it's obviously it's right.

SPEAKER_04 21:05

Well, for years, the people always say I say stuff at the wrong time. It'd be

Rebound Or Unforgettable Ex

SPEAKER_04 21:10

right, but at the wrong time. I'ma just keep doing what I know how to do. I'ma keep saying it at your wrong time because your wrong time must be not the right time. That's how I feel.

SPEAKER_03 21:24

I was saying myself because if I'm gonna say it, it's the right time. It might be the wrong thing to you. Yeah, but I meant, I meant it.

SPEAKER_04 21:33

Listen, listen, right time, your right time and my right time is the same. Okay. Would you rather always be the rebound or always be the one people never quit?

Villain Or Lesson In Someone’s Story

SPEAKER_03 21:50

First of all, I'm not being anybody's rebound.

SPEAKER_04 21:52

Right. Um and if you're my ex, you still love me in me.

SPEAKER_03 21:58

I'm okay with being loved a lot.

SPEAKER_04 22:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 22:01

So I don't mean they're gonna. I mean, I only got one right now.

SPEAKER_05 22:08

Forever that didn't come out right now.

SPEAKER_06 22:16

It didn't.

SPEAKER_05 22:20

Which one? Okay, go ahead.

SPEAKER_04 22:25

Would you rather be the villain in someone's story or the lesson? I prefer the lesson.

SPEAKER_03 22:35

I think that's my life.

SPEAKER_04 22:37

It depends on whose story.

SPEAKER_03 22:39

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_04 22:40

Because a lot of people, I don't care if I'm the villain. Right. But if you if you bypass this awesome woman that I am, I would love to be the lesson that God taught you.

SPEAKER_03 22:54

I don't cry.

SPEAKER_04 22:55

Listen, I love to be the lesson. I'm some lessons right now,

Trust Yourself Or Trust Others Easily

SPEAKER_04 23:00

but I'm also some villains.

SPEAKER_03 23:05

And I yeah, sit with that. Um, I'd rather be the lesson. I don't like um I don't like villainizing people. I just I'm okay. I'm a type of person, I am so okay with getting up and walking away. So learn lesson. And that could be in any season, anybody. It don't even gotta be a man. It's just like, all right, you learned your lesson, cool. I learned mine too.

Outgrowing Loved Ones Or Yourself

SPEAKER_04 23:41

So I'm not purposely the villain in people's stories. How they view it is on them. Narcissists will never admit that they are the true villain. So they like to put the finger at somebody else. Well, of course they will. Yeah. Would you rather trust yourself completely or trust others easily? I can't trust others easily.

SPEAKER_03 24:12

I'm gonna try I'ma go for me every single time. Every single time. Yeah. You gonna have to show me that I could trust you.

Relive A Missed Day Or Erase Regret

SPEAKER_04 24:20

This is a good one that we just discussed. Would you rather outgrow people you love or never outgrow yourself?

SPEAKER_03 24:28

I guess outgrow people I love because you can love people from a distance and it and it may not be like no harm, no foul. You guys could both be okay with that.

SPEAKER_04 24:38

Yeah, I agree with that. Would you rather relive one day you miss or erase one day you regret?

SPEAKER_03 24:46

I I think I'll choose relive a day that I miss because I don't think that is it will alter the calendar. Like I wouldn't do nothing different. Um, if I erase a day that I regret, I'm not gonna be the

More Time Or More Courage

SPEAKER_03 25:00

same person.

SPEAKER_04 25:01

Who's to say you won't have that same day again? Because you ain't learning. So, yeah, I agree. Um, would you rather have more time or more courage?

SPEAKER_03 25:15

Hmm, that's a good one. Although I think I'm a very bold person, I can't help but think, ooh, how much bolder could I get? Because I'm like quiet, bold. I'm bold, I'm not loud. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, like I'm just like, I'm gonna do what I want to do, type. Regardless, yeah, but more courage. I wonder what that'll look like.

SPEAKER_04 25:41

I'm kind of scared for myself to have more courage.

SPEAKER_03 25:43

I know some parts of me, but I guess because I'm like that risk taker, I'm like, give me more courage, more time in a day, maybe. In a day, maybe. I think I'm gonna go with more time. Who do you think that's like what like in and how?

SPEAKER_04 26:04

I'm going with more time. Giving instead of 24 hours, you're giving me 36 in a time. Like that's a day is 36 hours. I need that.

SPEAKER_03 26:14

Yeah, that might, you know, for us individually, yeah, maybe, but yeah, it's so not realistic. They're gonna have us working 24 hours in a day.

SPEAKER_04 26:25

Oh yeah, you know what?

SPEAKER_03 26:29

The whole sister's gonna check.

SPEAKER_04 26:30

I might just have to choose I might have to choose courage and then learn how to shut my mouth, right?

SPEAKER_03 26:35

But you had the courage to do it, yeah. Okay,

Priority Or Safe Place With A Call

SPEAKER_03 26:40

all right, you know my brain be going everywhere.

SPEAKER_04 26:43

All right, I got it. Courage. Okay. So the last one. Would you rather be someone's priority or their safe place?

SPEAKER_03 26:55

Dang.

SPEAKER_04 26:57

That's them safe places.

SPEAKER_03 27:01

We're gonna have to call the man down real quick. Versus a priority. I think we should call the man down. Go ahead. Okay. The only reason why I say that is because I want to hear his response.

SPEAKER_04 27:13

Think about that, chat. And um guys, think about that. Would you rather be someone's priority or their safe place? Which one? I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 27:25

And I'll tell you why. I want to be someone's priority, I really do. But marriage has taught me that being a safe place is so precious. Yes. And being each other's safe place is so precious. And sometimes them kids be more of a priority.

SPEAKER_04 27:45

Priority, that's what I was just thinking.

SPEAKER_03 27:47

And it's just like that's just how life is. But it's you don't, I'm not deprioritizing your life.

SPEAKER_04 27:53

Yeah. I'm gonna go with safe place because that's peaceful. So if I can be that peace real guy, right, and that if nobody else is gonna give me that, like I know that I'm your safe place. No matter what you're facing, you're gonna come to that safe place to feel that peace and that security. So I'm gonna take safe place.

SPEAKER_03 28:14

Yeah, because my husband comes home, he needs to know that that's

Closing And Listener Prompts

SPEAKER_03 28:20

so crazy. It's safe, it's peaceful, right when everything he had to do outside is against the world. Leave it out there, leave it. And he does that, he leaves it at the door for the most part. Me, on the other hand, listen, I've been working from home for a long time. Ain't no door to really leave it at.

SPEAKER_04 28:38

Yeah, safe. I'm gonna go with safe.

SPEAKER_03 28:42

Maybe I'll put him on speaker. Yeah, just put it. Hey, I got a question for you. Can I put you on speaker for the people? Okay. Would you prefer to be somebody's priority or their safe place?

SPEAKER_06 28:59

Safe place.

SPEAKER_03 29:03

I don't know if they're gonna hear you, but no questions asked. He said safe place, guys. He said, safe place, no questions asked.

SPEAKER_05 29:17

The reason behind the question.

SPEAKER_03 29:21

And I said, I want a man's perspective on this.

unknown 29:26

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_03 29:27

Yeah, we're rather thank you.

SPEAKER_04 29:37

Because I need my man to make sure his kids are his priority. I'll you know, take care of me too, but take care of them kids. Like those kids, because those those are the people that we're bringing up. Like, you know what I mean? They represent us when they leave the house. So take care of them kids, take care of that, take care of home, and just know when the world is against you, when work didn't got on your nerves, when them kids didn't got on your nerves.

SPEAKER_03 30:06

Let me look at Baldy. That's what you do. What? I was just saying, I got a couple pictures looking of Baldy. Oh god, that you come over.

SPEAKER_04 30:24

Well, guys, those were the would you rather questions that we had. If you have some, let us know and we'll comment back. Like, ask us some. All right. That's bye. We hope you guys enjoy.

SPEAKER_03 30:42

Buy us a coffee. I mean a tea. Bye.