A Season of Becoming

This season has stretched us in some of the best and hardest ways — as parents, as a couple, and as two people trying to follow where God is leading… even when it doesn’t make sense on paper.

In today’s episode, we talk honestly about what it feels like to grow in real time. The nerves. The obedience. The projects we’re building. And how choosing to take the first step — instead of performing or striving — has opened doors we didn’t see coming.

We’re still in it. Still uncovering. Still becoming.

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Transcript

Speaker 0:05

We're now don't you do the bump

Speaker 2 0:10

bump? Are we gonna get copy A copyright strike?

Speaker 0:16

Geez, John. See? Did. So why John? I don't know why, John,

Speaker 2 0:21

we're back.

Speaker 0:22

We are after a, um,

Speaker 2 0:25

did you miss us?

Speaker 0:26

Yes. That's for a peaceful holiday.

Speaker 2 0:29

Yeah, it was great. Thanksgiving was awesome. Very, very

Speaker 0:31

chill. Didn't host anybody this year. Are we ever gonna host again?

Speaker 2 0:36

Mm-hmm. One and done. No, I saw on Instagram they were talking about having a, like a, what was introvert? Thanksgiving and I was like, Hmm.

Speaker 0:51

An introverted Thanksgiving. Yeah,

Speaker 2 0:52

like you just go with just you and your spouse. You just go somewhere.

Speaker 0:58

Down

Speaker 2 1:00

talking, but I like being with my kids too, so

Speaker 1:02

I like my kids too. I like you more. Okay. Love them. They're great. Really love you.

Speaker 2 1:10

You're funny. Oh my gosh. Oh, man. Well, it feels good that we finally got things in order because it's been chaotic little bit with a baby. Mm-hmm. In what? Sleep and navigating all of this. She does not sleep. On her own. Like the fact that she is right now, we gotta, we gotta get through this because at any minute

Speaker 1:31

we've been trying for like four days to get this podcast, this episode. Yeah. We wanted to do it Sunday.

Speaker 2 1:35

Didn't work. Wanted to do it Monday, Tuesday didn't work. So back to our regularly scheduled plan. Right now it's working, so here we are.

Speaker 3 1:44

Yeah.

Speaker 2 1:45

I feel like all the parents who have babies or have had babies who did not sleep very well, it's just like. We're all standing in solidarity with each other because that's tough.

Speaker 1:57

And who would've thought that this one would be the one that is the one that breaks this?

Speaker 2 2:01

Yeah. But it's also, I also like don't care at the same time because I just, I know how

Speaker 2:08

do you And gotta get up and go work. That's, I don't care. Why not? Yeah. But I also, I do

Speaker 2 2:15

get up. I do get up. It's not like I don't get up. I take Kai to school some mornings. You take him some mornings. But yeah, I mean, yeah, I don't have to go to work, but I still have to chase after our 4-year-old who can be feral.

Speaker 2:33

Yeah, she's, yeah. Love her. Yeah, she's awesome. Does she,

Speaker 2 2:40

so it just can be, yeah. I mean, different work schedules, different, you know. Hmm. We're not competing.

Speaker 2:47

Yeah. No, no. Absolutely not.

Speaker 2 2:51

I feel like this season we've really stepped into a groove.

Speaker 3 2:59

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 2 3:00

And who, who we're becoming and what we want out of our life. I mean, the episode where we talked about network marketing and having been in that for six and a half years, and then transitioning out of that, I think we went on a. Well, really we took a step back from like everything. We were like, we're not gonna do anything. We're just gonna work our jobs and just travel and travel and live our life and not do didly squat. You know, just, we're not hustling, we're not doing any of that. Like, it's okay, we're watch television. It's okay to be average. You know? We were like very, we went, you know, from one extreme to the other extreme. Yeah. Very quickly. And then. I was, we like packed up all the books that we had.'cause we had spent so much time, like reading every day and listening to stuff. So it's like we weren't listening to anything and we were just like, like I said, average lifestyle. That was what we were gonna do. And then there came a, oh gosh,

Speaker 4:02

six, seven. Yes.

Speaker 2 4:06

Oh, the hand motions. Okay. So there came a point in our life where we, I. I don't know. I, something changed

Speaker 4:16

the fire came back.

Speaker 2 4:17

Yeah. Yeah. I

Speaker 4:18

mean, it's, we, you know, the fire came back and then we decided to look for other avenues to, you know, ignite our entrepreneur, entrepreneurial spirit. Mm-hmm. Be true entrepreneurs. You know what I mean? So, I mean, I get that. And when you, it's like that moment where, um. Like a power lifter has a cheat, like weekend after that, cheat weekend's over, they're like, okay, now back to business.

Speaker 2 4:45

True.

Speaker 4:46

And, and that's kind of like we had a cheat year.

Speaker 2 4:50

Yeah, it was probably about a year. About a year. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 4:53

Traveling, enjoying now it's like cool man.

Speaker 2 4:55

Concerts had a baby. I feel like we were trying, we like, were doing everything that we didn't do and we like fit it all into a year. Mm-hmm. And that was so much fun. It was like one of the best years of our life on this like. We were in

Speaker 5:08

such a groove with the kids, like, oh, oh my gosh, we

Speaker 2 5:09

were in such a groove. And, uh, the traveling that we did, the concerts, the shows that we went to, I do not regret going to that T-Pain concert. It was like one of the best concert.

Speaker 5:20

If you have a chance to go see T-Pain, you know, not, or not endorse by, but man, that what, man? That, um, Manchin Manch in Wisconsin, Manchin in Wisconsin

Speaker 2 5:33

tour her

Speaker 5:34

was

Speaker 2 5:35

live.

Speaker 5:35

Fantastic. I, we forget, it's like we all forgot that T-Pain was him.

Speaker 2 5:40

I didn't.

Speaker 5:41

Oh, that's fair. I did. And then you go there and you're like, oh, this is yours. Oh, this is, he is many hits. This

Speaker 2 5:46

is yours. Yeah. He's on so many, many, so many things.

Speaker 5:49

Right.

Speaker 2 5:50

It was really awesome. But it, as we came back into having that fire re-lit,

Speaker 3 5:56

yeah.

Speaker 2 5:57

It really opened our eyes also to the fact that like, we do want more for ourselves. And when I was laid off from my job, that was also another thing too. It's like, do we downsize our entire life? Which we're not afraid to do.

Speaker 3 6:14

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 2 6:15

Do we downsize and ke keep living the way that we're living? Um, where you go to work and I stay home, but also, I just don't think in our. Relationship. Both of us like to be contributing and like doing something. Not that me staying home is me not contributing, but once I had an ia, I started to realize that, okay, I. I wanna start doing stuff. Mm-hmm. Like I wanna, I need to create systems. I need to do something that creates a good flow because I am now the CEO of our home. You're the CEO of like the head of our household. And then here I am keeping everything in order in our home. And then, um, I wasn't doing that, you know, and I felt lost. And then once I stepped to start, okay, I'm gonna put my hands behind my back. I can't, I can't. Sorry. Little middle schoolers ruin everything. Um, and you're

Speaker 7:22

married to a middle schooler?

Speaker 2 7:24

I'm married to a middle schooler. Okay. Anyway, so I don't know where I was going.

Speaker 7:34

Mm. You felt like you weren't.

Speaker 2 7:37

Yeah. But then I, I guess I just stepped into doing stuff again. Mm-hmm. Slowly and praying and growing spiritually and starting to listen to podcast, not being in an echo chamber. Really discovering what I enjoy doing. Getting back into dance, you know, after MC off of maternity leave. Right. Uh, MCC, main character cardio. All of those things then, and I really think that you were, I'm gonna say it, you were the, the pillar because it was you taking a step and doing something that you wanted to do, and me standing there and encouraging you to do it.

Speaker 3 8:22

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 2 8:23

Also, I was like, I cheer so loud and so hard for you, and that that will always be the case. And I don't regret doing that. But what can, or not even, but, but I guess in addition to cheering loudly for you, what is it that I wanna do myself, that I need to take a step out on that you'll be my biggest cheerleader on?

Speaker 3 8:48

Yeah.

Speaker 2 8:49

That I also need to cheer for myself and be like, let's take, take a gamble. Like, let's do this. Let's figure it out.

Speaker 8:57

MC

Speaker 2 8:57

was born, MC was born. Tell me like, so

Speaker 8:58

let's, for those who don't know what MC is. Let's talk about it. We talked, I mean, listen, we talked about lead. We did. We did. We did not talk about mcc. We haven't really

Speaker 2 9:07

talked about M-C-M-C-C is main character cardio. Main character cardio. Yeah. And it is. I am dance fitness. I, I feel like I wake up, I eat, breathe, sleep dances. Shower in dance fitness, like I'm just always dancing, always coming up with routines and choreography and watching dance shows and YouTube videos, and dancing in the living room, in the kitchen,

Speaker 9:34

getting the kids involved. Dancing, getting the kids

Speaker 2 9:35

involved. Dance, making me

Speaker 9:37

dance.

Speaker 2 9:38

Yes, doing TikTok dances. We're, we're doing it all. I love it so much. And that fire has really been ignited in a, in huge. Thanks to you because you encouraged me to get out of my comfort zone because honestly, dancing, like filming myself dancing is not easy. I love it, but I don't like watching myself. Just like when you hear yourself back on a video, you're like, it was that. When I sound like I like watch. Myself dancing and I'm like, is that what I look like dancing? I don't think it's that great. Um,

Speaker 10:15

you look awesome. You mean.

Speaker 2 10:16

Awesome. Thanks. But you know, we're our biggest critic. Yeah. So main character cardio came to life. Mm-hmm. And it was, at first I thought it was because when I teach dance fitness classes. I encourage the folks in dance fitness to have a main character moment. Mm-hmm. So when we're dancing to a song and I, I incorporate a lot of freestyle elements into it. It's not for long periods of time, but it may be for four counts or maybe eight counts, where it's just like me, you can do whatever you want here, show me what you got. Right. And it's just have a moment to just let go and be free. So that was the initial like main character energy, but. I didn't love how that sounded because on the flip side of that and being a, a, you know, faith-filled woman and a huge believer in just knowing that when we are so focused on self, that that has sort of become the downfall of our society, okay. Is because that main character energy. When we're all walking around with main character energy, we forget to look at our neighbor and we forget to take into account other people. And that's not the way for a society to live, honestly. Like we need to look out for each other. So I was like, I like it, but I feel like there's something else here. And the more that I was praying and spending time in the word and really just understanding like what. Why does main character cardio, why does that stick out to me? Other than just like having this main character moment and what has been, I guess, breathed from that

Speaker 3 11:59

birthed,

Speaker 2 12:00

birthed from that? That's a great way of putting it, is God is the main character of our life and not everyone has to believe in God. Not everybody has to be a Christian. But I am. And I do. And when I have main character moments where I'm like, I'm in it. I am free. I am surrendering. It is because I'm giving it all to him and it, he is allowing me. And he is like, it's like I'm finally stepping into who he designed me to be.

Speaker 3 12:35

Yeah.

Speaker 2 12:35

Which is having that, because I gave him his main character moment. And that it's not just a moment, it's a lifetime like that. He is the main character of my life. Then I get to have and like walk in this main character like, oh, I'm free and you're seeing the real me. So that's main character cardio. It's like there's like a really deep meaning behind it. Yeah. But it's like there's also, for people who are coming in, just be free. Just surrender. Have your main character moment where you just let go. And then for me as a Christian, I add. Let God let go. Let God surrender. Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 13:14

You check the, um, check the emotions at the door. Leave the baggage at the door. Baggage.

Speaker 2 13:20

Yeah. Emotion is fine. Yeah. It's, yeah, it's leaving.

Speaker 13:24

Leave the baggage at the door.

Speaker 2 13:26

Yeah.

Speaker 13:27

We're here to dance like no one else is watching

Speaker 2 13:29

or dance like people are watching and you're cool with it. That's what I say, like, let'em watch. You're like, eh, it's fine. So what

Speaker 13:36

happened last Thursday?

Speaker 2 13:40

I had a, I had my first MCC popup event,

Speaker 13:43

and I, and I'm extremely proud of you for this because this is something that you've, um, so for those who don't know, you know, MCC was a part of. Law fitness for a while, you know, teaching?

Speaker 2 13:55

Not really. It was like, kind of,

Speaker 13:57

yeah. I mean you taught, you taught two, three classes a week there. Uh, yeah.

Speaker 2 14:02

And I taught under their umbrella. So it was cardio Jam. Yeah, it was. Yeah.

Speaker 14:06

So I mean, you kind of like. Said, Hey, welcome to name cc. Not really.

Speaker 2 14:11

Okay. Nevermind. I, you wanted me to and I didn't'cause I felt, felt uncomfortable Did, I felt uncomfortable doing it. Yeah.'cause I was working for a company, so I just,

Speaker 14:21

so it's, it's fun watching, um, you kind of step out of the, uh, shadows.

Speaker 2 14:28

Yeah.

Speaker 14:29

You were, uh, you've been kicking it around for a while about, you know, doing a popup and, and not necessarily owning a studio, but jumping in someone else's studio and having a, a regular class and we've all renting

Speaker 2 14:45

out a studio. Yeah. Yeah. And

Speaker 14:46

we've kicked it around a few, a few times, but this was the first time that you actually said, you know what? Screw it. Let's do it.

Speaker 2 14:52

And that was a huge thanks to you, but also my friend Miranda. Yeah. She. Be watching her, like step out and do it.

Speaker 15:01

Yeah.

Speaker 2 15:01

That was like, I was like, you know what,

Speaker 15:04

it's time.

Speaker 2 15:04

Yeah. I was like, it was time. I can do this. She, she's amazing. Mm-hmm. And she's doing a phenomenal job. And I'm like, I can do this too. And then, so having you in my corner, having her in my corner, hearing other people say and just like cheer me on. And I'm like, regardless if, if it's you and her, they're in class. Like I know if there was like nobody signed up, you would've been like, I'm coming like you. I'm coming. You're like, I'll be there. You know? If it was just you and her in class, like I would've been totally, totally fine.

Speaker 15:35

But it wasn't just,

Speaker 2 15:37

yeah, it wasn't So the

Speaker 15:38

room, the room fit 2020 people. Yeah, 20 people. We had 14 total. 14

Speaker 2 15:44

with me and Miranda. The owner of the studio came, which is funny. She was like, what do I owe you? I was like, you, I'm renting this place for you. Like, what do you mean you are fine? Do I owe you? Yeah, you're fine. I was, but every person counts. I don't care if you're here. You know, I'm counting Miranda. I count myself. We all counts. You should, but now I, so yeah, 14 out of 20. Slots filled. Yeah. On my first ever popup.

Speaker 16:15

The feedback was phenomenal. Yeah. People loved it. Yeah. The clips that came out of it were, were awesome. And now I'm just kind of like, I've

Speaker 2 16:22

got five booked for my next popup. Let's go.

Speaker 16:25

When is the next popup? The

Speaker 2 16:26

21st of

Speaker 16:28

December. Yeah. 21st of December. The 21st of December. Listen, if you're local here, here in, uh.

Speaker 2 16:34

I also might live stream that one.

Speaker 16:35

Listen, there we go.

Speaker 2 16:37

There we go. Yeah. So enough about like all the details of that. I wanna Perfect. I wanna, I like it, but I wanna talk about it from like a, a 30,000 foot overview. Okay. Okay. So doing that, it was scary.

Speaker 3 16:53

Yeah.

Speaker 2 16:53

It, it stretched me. It was, there was a lot of uncertainty. You felt similarly when you started. Vending. Yeah. When you were starting to do these shows, you didn't know what you were doing, right? You were uncertain. I remember you were asking me so many questions about stuff and I'm like, we, you gotta try. Mm-hmm. You gotta try and then you'll figure it out as you go. And then same thing for me when I stepped out in this and I'm like going to you telling you like what I'm nervous about, what I'm, what this, what you know about this and that. And you're just encouraging me. Like you have, like you have to do your first one. Mm-hmm. And then you're gonna start being like, okay, what would you like to do better? What do you wanna do from here? Right. Yada, yada. And that was really nice to like just do it even though I was afraid. I also, the fear, it, it was different. I used to, before a big game or a track meet, like my nerves would be through the roof. Yeah. The night before head case. And then, and then the day of just, I like, I would want to vomit. It wasn't like a good. Excitement. It was like, I don't wanna do this. Mm-hmm. I'm so terrified. I had the exact same feeling before the popup without the dread.

Speaker 3 18:11

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 2 18:11

I was so excited. You knew you were in the right spot, but I was so nervous. Mm-hmm. At the same time. But it was simply because I care so much about, about this, but I didn't care. That like if people didn't show up, I, I don't know that I would've, I wouldn't have been upset about it. I would've been fine. I know I would've been fine, but there was something where I was just like, I just, I know that God's like nudging me here. I know, I just know it, but I'm like. There was just that nervous excitement, right? Like, oh, I'm, I'm doing, I just wanna make him proud. Like, I just wanna make him happy. And that was it. It wasn't like, I wanna make all the people happy. I want them to cheer for me. I, no, there was not performance related. And I think that's the difference from years previous, just in, in how I approach things now.

Speaker 3 19:01

Yeah,

Speaker 2 19:02

it is. There is zero performance attached. Ooh, I'm not performing for anybody anymore. Yeah. And I used to, it was like, when I'm running track, I gotta perform. Mm-hmm. Right? For all of you, not for myself, not for God. It was for all the people watching when I was playing basketball. If I miss this shot, the whole stadium is gonna see me miss this shot. It's all about what everybody else was thinking. Performance, and now it's like, no. No, if God is telling me to do this, I'm gonna do it. Mm-hmm. If one person shows up, I, that one person needed to be there. Right. If nobody shows up, then I needed to be there. Mm-hmm. I needed to do this. If, if 20 people show up, great. This is awesome. 20 people showed up. Like there's, yeah. It's just, it's different

Speaker 19:54

this season of ours. Um, if, if there's anything this podcast has taught me is, uh, we were. Ready for growth and it's shown us our growth, our growth, um, both of us in different ways. Mm-hmm. Me with Ali, with MC heck, even this, this podcast in general, um, I have enjoyed just talking to you.

Speaker 3 20:17

I know,

Speaker 2 20:17

and I love it.

Speaker 20:19

I'm excited for season two and, and we'll kind of like spoil that next episode of where this podcast is gonna be shifting. Next, uh, next season. Yeah. As we like,

Speaker 2 20:29

figure out our grounding and our foundation.

Speaker 20:31

Yeah. But, um, I guess season one is really just, it's us more for us. It's us learning. It's us learning. It's us just kinda like, Hey, this is who we are. So, you know, we, you know, your internet besties, we can be, we can, uh, help relate to you if you're in, you know, similar, you know, in a similar life as we are. Um, but. The, the growth for both of us has been phenomenal. Just watching us just kinda like, you know, what burst out of the, of the, of the shell and now we're up our spreading we Yeah. Like next year, 2026 is three weeks away and mm-hmm. It is. I'm so excited to see what's gonna happen. I was talking with my, with, with one of the guys I partner with earlier today and, and we're planning out. What next, where we're gonna be traveling next year and, um, I'm excited. Yeah. I, I'm really excited. I'm trying to talk him into doing more. I can see more and then, you know, um, one, sadly one of your gyms is closing, which is. Awesome. I think it was a

Speaker 2 21:40

sign. Yeah. Yeah. I definitely think that was a sign.

Speaker 21:43

Sorry for the people who own that part of that gym and can't go to that gym anymore. But that's awesome for you now.'cause it really kind of, you were already one foot kind of out the door of like, let's do, go out, step out and do something on my own. Yeah. Now it's just kind of like you, you're shoved out the door to an extent. Mm-hmm. It's like, oh, let's go. Yeah. You've got your feet wet now with the first popup and you have five people already committed. Now it's just how can we get this out to more people online? Mm-hmm. That want to make it

Speaker 2 22:11

accessible for people who want to, yeah. So there's this really cool. Learning phase that has been happening, because that was why we started this. It was to start something new and to let people see. What that looks like.

Speaker 3 22:30

Yeah.

Speaker 2 22:30

To start something and we've had people reach out and ask questions because they've wanted to start their own podcast. We've had people reach out. Yeah. And just say like, that was, you know, encouraging because of X, Y, Z. And they're, they're trying to step out and do something. And so I think I posted about this online, or maybe we talked about it in the last episode, but, um, our gifts are not for us. Yeah. They're for. Are for others to shared. To be shared and yeah, like we are, it's like doing this podcast is, has a couple of things allowed us to hone in on our giftings. Yeah. And then learn in real time. Show people like. Sometimes the audio's not great. So sometimes it, sometimes like we mess up. Yeah. Sometimes we mess up. Sometimes like our dynamic and like the topic that we're talking about, we can go off topic and we're spiraling or whatever. Like we're just showing you the messy Yeah. That we don't have life figured out. We don't have this figured out and that was what we were trying to accomplish with who let us adult. If

Speaker 23:39

there, if there are, are any words of encouragement that I can give to any of our listeners and viewers that are watching? This is. Um, if this, one of the things that this, this podcast has taught me is, you know, just start it, it's time to, to, to, like Jasmine mentioned, share your gift. We, we, we both have the G of gab. We can talk forever

Speaker 2 24:00

and y we're like, this podcast is gonna be 30 minutes and then

Speaker 24:04

one hour later,

Speaker 2 24:05

55 minutes later, right?

Speaker 24:07

No, no. We, um, go out and do it. It's never, regardless of how old you are, how young you are, it just go out and do it. I've learned that it doesn't, there. There is no limit to when you can start something.

Speaker 3 24:20

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 24:20

Start something. Yeah. Go out and do it. I mean, God has shown us a lot with this podcast. It's shown us a lot about ourselves. Our marriage has gotten. You know, our marriage was tight before. It's real tight now because we can really just kind of, kind of joke around about the stuff that we're filming. Plus we're working towards something together, and that's so fun. Uh, are we filming tonight? Yeah. Let's film tonight. Or we gotta edit. Like, can you watch this edit back and see if you like this, or. Can you clip this up for Instagram or whatever? And I'm like, yeah. Yeah. It's just, it's fun. Yeah.

Speaker 2 24:51

Having this dynamic. Mm-hmm. But that's also on the flip side of that, we've, what we've been able to learn Yeah. Through that of like what's working, what's not working. And it's why we are taking these next two episodes.'cause the biggest thing is we wanna get to 10 episodes. Yes. Technically we're already at 10 episodes. Um, but we had two bonus episodes. Many episodes. So we wanted 10 full episodes. And we're about to accomplish that, which is amazing. Um,'cause that was a goal of ours is like, let's get to 10 episodes.'cause a lot of podcasts fizzles out before then.

Speaker 3 25:22

Yeah.

Speaker 2 25:23

And we're realizing why.'cause it is very time consuming on the back end. Filming the podcast is not the hard thing. It's all of the other stuff in between. Yeah. It's the planning, it's the editing, it's the, the promoting, like all of that stuff. The marketing. Um. With all of that is we're learning this dynamic and how we function together and yeah. Yeah. We're making it work.

Speaker 25:48

Yeah. So, To kind of put a bow on this episode, we are still growing and we're still stepping into our calling as gifts of gab.

Speaker 3 26:01

Yeah.

Speaker 26:02

And sharing. You know, our lives and crazy moments that happened in, in our Lives with, with, with you guys, as well as, as even words of encouragement to as many people as we can. Um,'cause the way I see it is I'm, I'm putting the earth to help as many people as I can.

Speaker 3 26:21

Mm-hmm. Love

Speaker 26:22

my beautiful wife, love the Lord, and raise little warriors. And so far I think I'm doing a pretty good job of that. You're doing

Speaker 2 26:29

a phenomenal job. Yes. Yeah.

Speaker 26:31

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. I'm

Speaker 2 26:33

excited to see what, uh, 2026 has in store. It's gonna be exciting. It's gonna

Speaker 3 26:39

be fun, but I

Speaker 2 26:40

also think people listening, what is gonna be very encouraging for them is just knowing, like you said, we don't, you don't have to have it all figured out. Right. It's going out and stepping out in obedience, like the episode that I did, the mini episode. Mm-hmm. Being obedient. You are gonna be shocked by the doors that open, by the clarity that you receive, that you're just not even, you're gonna be like, why didn't I do this sooner? You know? Um, when you stop trying to like, carry it all.

Speaker 3 27:12

Yeah.

Speaker 2 27:12

Stop trying to figure it all out. Stop trying to make sense of everything. Stop trying to make every single thing perfect right before you take one step forward. It's like, take those steps forward and then everything else falls into place because it's God's alignment for you. And when you're walking in that, it's like the yeses become clear. The nos become clear. Right. I was getting ready to post something on TikTok, and literally, I, I hear it. I, I have no doubt in my mind this was the Holy Spirit. It was like, no. Or not even, I was like, nah, nah, don't post that.

Speaker 27:52

That was not exists. And it wasn't. And it

Speaker 2 27:54

wasn't because the video, it was bad or any, like, it was inappropriate. It wasn't any of that. It was just not in alignment with what I am sharing right now.

Speaker 3 28:03

Right.

Speaker 2 28:03

And with the direction that what we're building, again, that clarity, we're not gonna get into all of like, you know, the little projects and stuff that we have going on, but just that clarity that God has given us, I think is. Been really fun to watch and I like being able to step into being your CEC, not C-E-O-C-O-O of Elite Energy hq.

Speaker 28:30

Can't wait for you to do my editor too, man. That's gonna be fun. That's,

Speaker 2 28:32

I mean, that's, I'd be part of the job description, right? I'm starting, I'm helping us get organ organized, so that's been really nice. So yeah, it's been fun like becoming. It's

Speaker 28:45

rock baby. Yeah.

Speaker 2 28:46

What, what are we gonna call this episode? Like becoming the journey to Becoming. Finding You something.

Speaker 28:54

Finding you, becoming you.

Speaker 2 28:56

The season.

Speaker 28:57

The season of you.

Speaker 2 28:58

The season of becoming. The season

Speaker 29:00

of becoming. I like it. Yeah, I dig it. This in

Speaker 2 29:02

between the hallway that you're in. When you are in between doors, one door is closed and you're looking at all these other doors and you're trying to figure out which door do I open?

Speaker 3 29:13

Yeah.

Speaker 2 29:15

Maybe you gotta stay in the hallway a little bit and just pray and let God decide which door is open. Let God do God things. Let God do God things. I like that. I like that a lot. That's how you put that

Speaker 29:27

on a t-shirt. Let God do God things.

Speaker 2 29:29

Hey. Okay. Oh, someone's definitely

Speaker 29:32

gonna merge that.

Speaker 2 29:33

Very, very cool. I like that.

Speaker 29:35

Anyway. Who? Jazzy Jay?

Speaker 2 29:36

Yes.

Speaker 29:37

Who is our fake sponsor of the week?

Speaker 2 29:40

Fake sponsor of the week.

Speaker 29:44

What you got?

Speaker 2 29:45

I don't got anybody. You

Speaker 29:45

don't go to bed? I got Spindrift spinning. Okay. The Spindrift

Speaker 2 29:50

is not, we are not sponsored.

Speaker 29:52

Hashtag not sponsored by

Speaker 2 29:53

Spindrift. Delicious. I

Speaker 29:55

saw it. I just thought it made sense. Fake sponsor of the week.

Speaker 2 29:58

Fake sponsor of the week.

Speaker 30:00

Anyway, if this episode gave you any kind of comfort or give you any kind of clarity. To go out and become the real version of you or God's version of you, we ask that you please like, comment, subscribe, share it with a friend that needs to become their real version of themselves. Yes.

Speaker 2 30:17

Um, and let them go back and watch all of our episodes, right This, see how far we've come from episode one, because we have to, this episode begun, right? Anyway, so yes, we would so appreciate it if you would like, comment, subscribe if you're watching us on YouTube. If you're listening to us on Spotify or Apple Podcast, y'all leave a review.

Speaker 30:37

Follow us on TikTok Instagram. We love you guys. Piece out from your internet besties, besties.

Speaker 2 30:47

Hey, we gotta get him in on the internet Besties. Ba bye. Let's go ba. All right, we out.

Speaker 30:55

We

Speaker 2 30:55

out here. Peace.