Why Is This So Challenging? Podcast
We help singles, couples, and married people understand how to have intentional and fulfilling relationships to inspire and normalize the importance of healthy, happy, and harmonious relationships and marriages.
Why Is This So Challenging? Podcast
Giving Beyond the Bare Minimum in Relationships & Marriage
In this episode of the Why Is This So Challenging Podcast, we dive deep into a truth many couples avoid:
✨ You can’t build a strong relationship when you only show up halfway.
We explore what it really means to give yourself fully — emotionally, mentally, and spiritually — to the relationship or marriage you’re in. From the challenges of giving after past hurt to the cycle of trying, failing, and getting disappointed, we uncover how to break survival mode and step into true partnership.
We talk about:
💛 The Importance of Full Participation
🧩 Why people hold back—and how to overcome it
🔁 The cycle of effort, disappointment, and shutdown
❤️🩹 How to heal and reset after emotional exhaustion
✨ Giving beyond the physical — the deeper kind of giving healthy love requires
Because real love demands presence. Not perfection. Not performance. Presence. Effort. Intention. Honesty.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving more than you’re getting…
If you’ve ever shut down because the relationship felt one-sided…
If you WANT to give more but you’re scared of getting hurt again…
We see you.
We support you.
And we’re here to help you rebuild the courage and capacity to show up fully for the relationship you desire — and deserve.
You’re not alone.
Your relationship goals and dreams matter.
And we’re committed to helping you reach them, one conversation at a time.