His Ex Is His...... Cousin?

This week we cover a Taylor Frankie Paul update, baby anatomy scan, and crazy client stories. Everyone needs to watch The Madison and the reddit story this week will leave you thinking "wow."  Real life with random detours.

Transcript

SPEAKER_04 0:00

What's up everybody? Welcome back to another episode of Dopamine and Detours.

SPEAKER_03 0:05

Yo!

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I look like Ed G what's his last name? Geen.

SPEAKER_03 0:10

Yeah, we're doing a podcast with old Eddie Geen right now.

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I shaped my face, which I do weekly, and then I put on a collagen mask after, and it makes my skin feel so soft and so moist.

SPEAKER_03 0:22

You look crazy.

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But right now you have to look at me while I look like that.

SPEAKER_03 0:28

Yeah, you look absolutely insane.

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I kind of made a bad choice because talking makes it fall down. Stop looking at me like that.

SPEAKER_03 0:39

What does he all say?

SPEAKER_04 0:41

Mother.

SPEAKER_03 0:43

No, that's not asking you.

SPEAKER_04 0:46

What?

SPEAKER_03 0:48

I can't remember. It's been a while since we watched that show.

SPEAKER_04 0:51

Yeah, and we'll never watch it again. That's all I have to say about that.

SPEAKER_03 1:00

I don't even know what he says.

SPEAKER_04 1:02

I have two topics to bring to the table today. Oh yeah? Before we get into our stories. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:07

What? Something that made that I did to make you mad?

SPEAKER_04 1:11

No.

SPEAKER_03 1:11

Oh.

SPEAKER_04 1:12

I have a feeling one of them will cause a marital spat, but that's okay. We come on here and give it give marriage advice like we know what what the fuck we're doing. So you might as well.

SPEAKER_03 1:24

So we should just start a fight on the podcast for everybody. Sounds like a great idea.

SPEAKER_04 1:29

What do you want first? Someone fucking their cousin or Taylor Frankie Paul?

SPEAKER_03 1:33

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Let's ease into this.

SPEAKER_04 1:40

Taylor Frankie Paul?

SPEAKER_03 1:42

Sure.

SPEAKER_04 1:44

Um I'm kind of just curious about how you're feeling. For those of you who don't know who Taylor Frankie Paul is, you're living under a rock. Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. The head of mom talk recently had her bachelorette season canceled for domestic violence. How do how do you feel about that?

SPEAKER_03 2:07

I don't know. It's just kind of weird because the video that they released came out in freaking 2023. Yeah. So, like, why do you guys care now? Because someone leaked it and it went out, and now you have to like face the fact. Because you were supporting her before this all happened.

SPEAKER_04 2:25

And they knew, like the first episode of Mom Talk, she got arrested for this fight.

SPEAKER_03 2:30

Yeah. So I don't know. It's just kind of weird that that they like decided to pull her now and not support her now. I don't know, it's kind of weird.

SPEAKER_04 2:43

I've been seeing a lot of videos that are like, we grew up with Jersey Shore watching Ronnie and Sam. We can handle Taylor, Frankie, Paul on The Bachelorette.

SPEAKER_03 2:53

Oh, yeah. You don't know toxic relationships until you've seen Ron and Sam.

SPEAKER_04 3:00

Yeah. Right? I'm feeling torn because well, I think the whole internet is feeling torn, but like mm-hmm have both been the child in the room while this is happening. And I've been a woman in this, I've kind of been her. Not to this extent, but I've had a man drive me to this side of crazy before. So, and you know what's crazy? I've been both of these women, and I don't feel bad for the man on either side of these situations. I don't feel bad for Dakota. And he was the one who had the violence thrust upon him.

SPEAKER_03 3:43

I don't really feel bad for him either because he definitely was like seeking that. Like they're so toxic for each other. Like he knew what he was getting himself into. Not that that makes her actions okay, but he definitely wasn't helping the situation at all.

SPEAKER_04 4:02

Mm-mm. I have a lot of empathy for her right now and her kids.

SPEAKER_03 4:07

I don't know. I I feel less empathy for her, to be honest with you.

SPEAKER_04 4:14

Than whom?

SPEAKER_03 4:16

I just I just don't feel like that much empathy for her, to be honest with you.

SPEAKER_04 4:21

I do.

SPEAKER_03 4:22

Because she is the one, like at the end of the day, she's responsible for her own actions. Like nobody made her throw chairs and hit her children or hit her daughter. I know she didn't do it on purpose, like she wasn't trying to do that, I'm sure.

SPEAKER_04 4:38

I feel bad for her because I think she was trying to grow and learn. Like the whole new season of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives was her trying to learn about her dad and asking all these questions. And it is kind of ironic that her dad abused her mom and was an addict. And you could kind of see Taylor's will spinning while she was listening to her dad's friend talk about this. Like almost in her head, she was like putting these pieces together and starting to have realizations about who she is and why she acts certain ways in certain scenarios. So I have empathy for her that she is trying. She's just stuck in this really toxic cycle. And I think The Bachelorette would have been a good starting point for her to finally move on and get away from him, and he ruined that for her.

SPEAKER_03 5:47

No, she decided to sleep with him the day before she went. So, like, was she trying that hard not to talk to him?

SPEAKER_04 5:55

Do you think she came on to him or he came on to her and be realistic?

SPEAKER_03 5:59

Didn't she go to his house?

SPEAKER_04 6:01

He was at her house.

SPEAKER_03 6:02

Okay, well, she had to have invited.

SPEAKER_04 6:05

I mean, I'm not saying she's not involved at all. It takes two to tango, but I think she was I think she wanted to get away from him and wanted to do better. And I think he continued to hang around her outside of being parents with. Because he wanted to be part of the show. Dad talk.

SPEAKER_03 6:28

I mean, he would have been part of that with or without her.

SPEAKER_04 6:32

Uh-uh. Tate, her ex-husband, not involved at all. That's what should have happened to Dakota. He should have just become another Tate, and we shouldn't have had to see him ever again.

SPEAKER_03 6:41

Okay, well, I could care less about Dakota and that whole thing. But I'm just saying I you can't feel that much empathy for her when she continually put herself in that position. Whether or not you want to blame it on, but you're trying to blame it all on Dakota.

SPEAKER_04 6:59

I hate Dakota, I think.

SPEAKER_03 7:00

You're trying to blame all of this on him.

SPEAKER_04 7:02

Like she definitely He just seems like the snake in the grass.

SPEAKER_03 7:07

Maybe he is, but she kept letting him in.

SPEAKER_04 7:10

I mean, psychological warfare goes deep. I just hope we see a new.

SPEAKER_03 7:17

She's not innocent either. She definitely was like physically assaulting him, so.

SPEAKER_04 7:22

Yeah, but we missed all the we missed everything in the beginning. We miss what led to this situation. And yeah, it's not right to get violent, especially in front of your children, but there's a lot of pages to the story that are missing, and we just saw that. Conveniently, we just saw Dakota being a victim.

SPEAKER_03 7:42

Yeah, but for to play devil's advocate, for all you know, you she could be the problem the whole time. Like you just said, you don't know.

SPEAKER_04 7:49

Yeah, but we watch him on the series, and I can see him being the problem.

SPEAKER_03 7:54

Okay, you that's how you feel. That doesn't necessarily mean it's true. Just playing devil's advocate here.

SPEAKER_04 8:03

I know. I see you and I hear you.

SPEAKER_03 8:05

Like you you literally just said how much of the story is missing.

SPEAKER_04 8:09

A lot of it.

SPEAKER_03 8:10

Yeah. So we may never know the situation.

SPEAKER_04 8:13

I just think that she tends to when situations land on her plate, she tends to be really honest and truthful. Whereas with him, I can't tell if he's being honest.

SPEAKER_03 8:28

Yeah, and he might not, but like, look at her, she we know she has anger issues. She flies off the rails all the time with other girls, with whoever.

SPEAKER_04 8:40

I mean, I've dated a guy who who created anger issues out of me similar to this, and I don't think I'm someone who is that way.

SPEAKER_03 8:51

Right. But that's what I'm saying. Like, it wasn't just him that she was like flying off the handle with. Like, she's known for like losing her shit. Not just about Dakota.

SPEAKER_04 9:05

She is pretty hot-headed.

SPEAKER_03 9:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 9:07

I just think a lot of blame is being placed on Taylor and it's not fair.

SPEAKER_03 9:14

I mean, they both deserve the blame for sure. They both are part of it.

SPEAKER_04 9:20

I just hope we get to see. I hope I hope Secret Lives of Mormon Wives comes back.

SPEAKER_03 9:28

I saw that they were doing something with uh Jen, I heard.

SPEAKER_04 9:32

I saw that Jen in Orange County with I I saw like an East Coast and she's involved.

SPEAKER_03 9:39

Well, that would be the West Coast.

SPEAKER_04 9:41

I know. Well, that's what I was confused about because the post I saw was talking about East Coast Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and then I saw something about Orange County. So I actually don't well, and I hope it's not even true. Like, let's be honest, Jen is the least Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 9:55

I was like, who would watch that? And her husband's such a little cheap. She's the worst.

SPEAKER_04 9:59

You know what's crazy is I'd watch a Whitney and Connor spinoff. Never thought I'd say that.

SPEAKER_03 10:04

I do not like Zach.

SPEAKER_04 10:07

No, I think I'm just a man hater today because now I want to Today, huh?

SPEAKER_03 10:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 10:15

Well, I want to talk about. Did you watch the episode? I kind of watched the show without you, but when Jen and Winnie get in a fight and she and Jen send Zack. And Jen sends Zack.

SPEAKER_03 10:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 10:30

What do you think about that?

SPEAKER_03 10:31

I think that they're both little bitches.

SPEAKER_04 10:33

I would never in a million years send you to have a conversation with my female friend. If it was a dude, no, I wouldn't maybe I would have you come with me. If it was a dude. But never in a million years would I have you even come with me for a girl-on-girl conversation, especially knowing she would be alone. Let alone send you without me.

SPEAKER_03 10:56

Yeah, that was pretty crazy behavior on their part.

SPEAKER_04 10:59

Like, yeah, you're fighting, but have your f have her I don't know. It just seemed like bringing a gun to a knife fight.

SPEAKER_03 11:08

Well, it just seemed very unnecessary. Like she didn't have any No, and you just came there to Like that had nothing to do with that conversation had nothing to do with him.

SPEAKER_04 11:16

No.

SPEAKER_03 11:17

And he was a psych. I'm here. And when he was right. I'm here on Jen's behalf.

SPEAKER_04 11:22

To tell you that we think you suck and the whole world actually thinks you suck. I read your comments. Like, sit down, bro. We actually all can't stand you.

SPEAKER_03 11:33

Meanwhile, he's like, uh, freaking out because he has to be a stay-at-home dad. When he was literally like, I'm going off to med school here, Jen, take care of all these kids. I don't give a fuck. And now the roles are reversed and he's like, it's so hard. I don't know if I can do this. Blah blah blah. I want to go home.

SPEAKER_04 11:52

I respect him for being honest about how he was feeling. I bet it's hard. I bet that's super hard.

SPEAKER_03 11:59

Yeah, I'm sure it is.

SPEAKER_04 12:00

Intense role reversal for him. He was the one envisioning going away and not having to deal with all this, and now it's on his plate. I know.

SPEAKER_03 12:07

I think it's just kind of funny how he was like, let's just have all these kids because I want to have all these kids, and then I'm gonna go off.

SPEAKER_04 12:13

And then I'm gonna leave.

SPEAKER_03 12:14

And then you're gonna stay home and take care of them, and life's gonna be great.

SPEAKER_04 12:18

And then there's Connor. I do magic to help. I still think Connor's gay. Love, love I appreciate him a lot. I like them as a couple, but I think that's a lavender marriage. I can't quite figure it out, but it works for them, I guess.

SPEAKER_03 12:36

The crazy thing is that I'm sitting here having this conversation with you about this show. Like when you first started watching it, I was like, why are you watching that stupid shit?

SPEAKER_04 12:46

I mean, I feel the same way.

SPEAKER_03 12:48

And and now I'm here invested in it with you.

SPEAKER_04 12:52

I think a lot of people are invested in it. It's a train wreck. Yes, but we all love to watch the train wreck and then talk about it with our friends.

SPEAKER_03 13:01

I'm just I never thought I'd be here, but I think I'm teen Chase, honestly.

SPEAKER_04 13:06

Okay, speaking of Chase, how do we feel about him making out with uh Jesse? I mean, already surprised. I'm surprised by her.

SPEAKER_03 13:14

Just another friend off the totem pole.

SPEAKER_04 13:17

I'm not surprised by him, but I am surprised by her. And I feel bad for her.

SPEAKER_03 13:24

Were they drunk? Were they drinking?

SPEAKER_04 13:26

I I don't know if there's any details about it. I saw a post that said that Jesse sent Miranda flowers to apologize. I just I mean, yes, they're divorced. She doesn't want him back, blase blase, but you shouldn't be making out with your close friend's ex-husband. I mean There's like a there's a list of people, and he would be on that list of people that you shouldn't hook up with anymore.

SPEAKER_03 13:53

I mean, you shouldn't, but like I don't know. I mean, I I don't think it's a good idea by any means. I'm not advocating for it, but also I'm like, sh if I mean it sounds like they have a circle and a group of human beings that is like seems It's like they're in high school. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 14:17

And all just sharing each other's exes.

SPEAKER_03 14:22

Yeah, well, mainly just Chase. Chase just sleeps with all of Miranda's friends.

SPEAKER_04 14:28

I know. Poor Miranda. She should have been the bachelor's.

SPEAKER_03 14:32

I want to I want Miranda back. Right. Which same bro. I don't blame you. I would want Miranda back too.

SPEAKER_04 14:39

No chance.

SPEAKER_03 14:40

She's actually my favorite one on the whole show.

SPEAKER_04 14:42

She's my favorite too.

SPEAKER_03 14:43

And I said I said this early on. I said this when she first came back.

SPEAKER_04 14:47

It's because you thought she was hot.

SPEAKER_03 14:49

I still do think she's hot, but I think she's like the most level-headed and the most like realistic down the world.

SPEAKER_04 14:57

The problem with her all of them versus Taylor is all of those characteristics you just said don't make good reality TV.

SPEAKER_03 15:04

No, there would be no show. And I think that's why she makes Taylor TV. I think that's why they didn't give a shit about what happened, is because they're like, oh, she's a loose canon, like, this is gonna be great, we're gonna have great TV. But now that it's come out, they're like, oh, we have to backpedal and distance ourselves from her.

SPEAKER_01 15:23

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 15:25

I don't know. I hope so. It seems like she needs like some therapy and some like mental.

SPEAKER_04 15:32

That was the first time I was actually gonna watch the show, and I think a lot of people can agree that people who don't normally watch The Bachelorette were going to watch that show just for Taylor Frankie Paul.

SPEAKER_03 15:44

Oh, yeah, they were gonna have a lot of views.

SPEAKER_04 15:46

I wasn't excited, and I'm not a big batch, I don't like Bachelor and Bachelorette Nation. Not a fan. Don't really want to watch one person date 20 different people. Yeah, it's kind of a weird unless it's Love Island for some reason.

SPEAKER_03 16:02

They're all dating each other too.

SPEAKER_04 16:06

Okay, moving on to the cousin. Okay. Oh yeah. Client sat in my chair the other day.

SPEAKER_01 16:13

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 16:16

Recently lost a best friend because best friend had new boyfriend. He's either Marine, army, something of that nature. This friend doesn't really vibe that way, so that was already red flag for her. Friend gets pregnant and can't decide if she should keep the baby or not. Stay with him, you know, all the questions. Well, after she decides to well, she was gonna break up with him, right? She was gonna I think they were living together, she was gonna move out, come stay with my friend, be done with him, I think not have the baby.

SPEAKER_03 17:10

Wait, this is your c so you're this is your client's friend.

SPEAKER_04 17:13

Client's friend.

SPEAKER_03 17:14

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 17:17

Friend the girl, the pregnant girl, finds out that her baby daddy's ex-girlfriend is his cousin. First cousin, as in his dad's brother's daughter. Is that reason to end that relationship? What would you do in her shoes?

SPEAKER_03 17:45

Well, it's kind of too late. You're already having a baby with him.

SPEAKER_04 17:48

Right.

SPEAKER_03 17:48

So you just can't like you're not his cousin, so granted that's a lot of red flags, but Well, like it's alright, you're too it's too late, you're having his baby.

SPEAKER_04 18:01

So you would just can get I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 18:04

If she was like already gonna break up with him, then I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 18:09

I think she had set her uh I think she was heading towards not having the pregnancy and not having the relationship and somehow ended up with him, is currently engaged, and that was the end of friendslash client's friendship with the girl because my friend slash client let her live with her for a while. So they were living in the same house. Yeah, my friend does therapy at home on Zoom. The girl sat outside my friend's door while my friend was doing Zoom therapy and listened to her whole therapy session as my friend was venting about how dumb she thought her friend was for staying with this guy.

SPEAKER_03 19:02

Oh, she was she's not like a therapist. She was doing therapy. She was doing therapy. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Well, I mean one, she shouldn't have been hiding and listening to two, it sounds like that friendship was not working out.

SPEAKER_02 19:23

Um how long was he dating his cousin?

SPEAKER_00 19:32

Like a year.

SPEAKER_02 19:34

Did his there's their family know? So was this an open thing everybody knew?

SPEAKER_04 19:40

They broke up because I think they had been doing it for a really long time and feelings were starting to get involved, and I think family found out and disowned him. Oh, I can't imagine why. Uh how old are they? Twenties. Early twenties, I would say.

SPEAKER_03 20:10

Stupid horny kids.

SPEAKER_04 20:12

Um I I think the issue that I would have in this situation would be I wouldn't be able to not see you doing it with your cousin.

SPEAKER_03 20:25

Well, and here's the thing now, you're gonna have to like I have they mended their relationships with the family? No. Okay, well, that helps. Actually, maybe Because I was gonna say, what happens when you go to Thanksgiving and the cousin is there?

SPEAKER_04 20:41

Well, I mean, I think by him having new girlfriend who isn't his cousin and baby and marriage will mend the relationships with his family. And go great, good, we may accept you back. You're no longer fucking your cousin.

SPEAKER_01 20:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 20:59

Well, that's kind of heavy.

SPEAKER_04 21:01

But yeah, right? Like, I mean, someday they'll all come together again. Yeah. Funerals, you know.

SPEAKER_02 21:11

Where are they from?

SPEAKER_04 21:14

Um I don't know. She's from here, he's from somewhere else.

SPEAKER_03 21:21

Oh, okay. So does his does his cousin live here?

SPEAKER_04 21:27

They live in the same city. The only one that's from here is the girlfriend.

SPEAKER_03 21:33

She doesn't live here anymore?

SPEAKER_04 21:35

She moved to go be with him in the house where he fucked his cousin.

SPEAKER_03 21:44

Good luck, I guess.

SPEAKER_04 21:45

Isn't that crazy?

SPEAKER_03 21:46

It's pretty wild.

SPEAKER_04 21:48

She left and I had to sit there for a second. Like, wow. I don't know how that makes me feel. Crazy.

SPEAKER_02 22:02

Yeah. Um how did she know about this before she started sleeping with him?

SPEAKER_04 22:09

She knew he had an ex-girlfriend. So she kind of pieced things together. So like she found out and confronted him. And then he came out and was like, yeah. And I think he told her, like, yes, this is this, it was my cousin. It was going on for this long. My family found out, like, she found out everything after, but she was already pregnant at this time when she found out.

unknown 22:36

Jeez, people.

SPEAKER_03 22:40

You you just make sure you know who you're dating, I guess, before you move in with them.

SPEAKER_04 22:46

First date, ask questions. Have you ever slept with your cousin?

SPEAKER_03 22:49

Yeah, maybe run a little repository and background check.

SPEAKER_04 22:53

What's I mean, like that's not a question you're gonna ask.

SPEAKER_03 22:56

Have you ever had sex with your cousin?

SPEAKER_04 22:58

That's not on the list of questions I would ever need to know.

SPEAKER_02 23:03

Well, you wouldn't think.

SPEAKER_04 23:07

Yeah, crazy. I actually asked my clientslash friend if I could talk about this on the podcast. She said yes. I hear some wild stuff behind the chair.

SPEAKER_03 23:19

Yeah, that one. That's that's crazy.

SPEAKER_04 23:24

That's I don't know what I'd do because I'm not I don't want to be like, I would abort the baby and leave him. That just feels so extreme. I don't think I could be with him though. And it would suck to suddenly be single parent, especially early 20s. I don't know what I would do. That is such a difficult situation. I just know I would never be able to get past it.

SPEAKER_01 23:51

Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 23:57

Should we move on to something?

SPEAKER_03 23:58

I wouldn't abort the baby, so I'd probably just be a single mom somewhere.

SPEAKER_04 24:02

Yeah. That sucks.

SPEAKER_03 24:04

It's not the baby's fault. His dad's a weirdo.

SPEAKER_00 24:06

Right.

SPEAKER_03 24:11

Well, that's a lot crazier than anything that I had for you.

SPEAKER_04 24:16

Yeah, what'd you have before we move on? I didn't even ask. Oh, I guess we could uh pregnancy update.

SPEAKER_03 24:22

Pregnancy update.

SPEAKER_04 24:23

We're 21 weeks.

SPEAKER_03 24:24

Yeah, today's 21 weeks. We had our anatomy scan last Tuesday, Wednesday, Tuesday. I don't know. Last week we had it. Um everything's good. She's measuring a day ahead of schedule.

SPEAKER_01 24:40

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 24:43

She's got all of her appendages. Fingers, toes, limbs, ears, nose, lips.

SPEAKER_04 24:51

Brain, heart, kidneys. You know.

SPEAKER_03 24:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 24:54

Doing great. So far, so good. We met with our doula again. We went over the stages of birth.

SPEAKER_03 25:01

Yeah, that sounds scary.

SPEAKER_04 25:06

I know. I just now I look around and I think, wow, every human on this planet has come out of a woman.

SPEAKER_03 25:15

You know what kind of got me uh when we were with her, it was like the whole placenta thing. I thought you had the baby and the placenta just fell out afterwards.

SPEAKER_04 25:27

Shit, me too, honestly.

SPEAKER_03 25:29

I didn't realize it was like uh you have to birth the placenta out itself too.

SPEAKER_04 25:34

I didn't I knew that I just within the last like year learned that that's a whole thing you have to do as well. I didn't realize it could take so long. So long. Like she said it could take up to 30 minutes. I didn't know that. Like I didn't think it fell out, but I thought like baby came out, placenta would come out right after. I didn't realize it was its own situation. Wait, I have a question. Uh huh. How does this work with twins?

SPEAKER_03 26:05

Is there two placentas or are they in the same placenta?

SPEAKER_04 26:09

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 26:12

I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 26:13

Shoot, let's see how quick I can Google.

SPEAKER_03 26:16

But I assumed the hard part would be the baby. Right. Now that the babies come through there, you would think the gelatinous goop of placenta would just bloop on out. Sorry for the trigger warning, I guess. Um, but yeah, I didn't realize that that was a thing.

SPEAKER_04 26:43

I didn't either. Hold on, I'm googling really fast. Great question. And it actually depends on the type of twins you're carrying. Two placentas, most common. Each baby has their own placenta and their own sac. This is common with fraternal twins and some identical twins. What? The placentas can be totally separate or fused together, but still function as two. What? One shared placenta. Babies share one placenta, but usually have separate sacs. This happens with identical twins. After both babies are born, one placenta is delivered. You do not deliver a placenta after each baby. Both babies are delivered first, then if there are two placentas, they may come out together or one after the other. So really we have no questions answered.

SPEAKER_03 27:44

Yeah, yeah, we do. What do you mean?

SPEAKER_04 27:46

All the above is possible. There could be one, there could be two, they could come out together, they could come out separate.

SPEAKER_03 27:53

Well, yeah, but they def they don't come like you don't have a baby placement.

SPEAKER_04 27:57

And then they're placenta, and then have a baby and then their placenta.

SPEAKER_03 28:01

I feel like that was the question, right?

SPEAKER_04 28:04

I'm confused about how it's like if they're identical twins, they share a placenta. But it also says if they're identical twins, they can each have their own?

SPEAKER_03 28:18

Yeah. Are they in the same sack if they're identical twins? Is that how is that a thing?

SPEAKER_00 28:26

Yes. Um. No.

SPEAKER_03 28:33

Always have their own sack.

SPEAKER_04 28:36

I think they can share a sack.

SPEAKER_03 28:39

I also didn't know your baby could be born s inside the sack still.

SPEAKER_04 28:44

Oh, yeah, but she said that's very uncommon. She hasn't even seen it happen.

SPEAKER_03 28:48

But it can happen.

SPEAKER_04 28:49

That's crazy, yeah. What was that?

SPEAKER_03 28:57

My chair just creaked. It's dirty in here.

SPEAKER_04 29:01

Um What'd you have to talk about?

SPEAKER_03 29:04

Nothing. Uh, we just did a bunch of yard work this weekend.

SPEAKER_04 29:08

I wouldn't say a bunch.

SPEAKER_03 29:09

I think it was enough. Cleaned out the flower bed.

SPEAKER_04 29:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 29:14

There's a lot of work. There's a lot of grass in there. Weeds and shit.

SPEAKER_04 29:18

We have a realtor coming to look at our house.

SPEAKER_03 29:21

Oh, that's a you thing.

SPEAKER_04 29:25

It's a team thing. Basically, she's coming to t look at our house and tell us what types of things we'll need to do in order to sell in the future. We're gonna sell our house in the future.

SPEAKER_03 29:38

Yeah. Yeah, we are.

SPEAKER_04 29:40

So why is that a me thing?

SPEAKER_03 29:43

Well, be just because I've just finished the nursery and you're like, we should have a realtor come look at the house.

SPEAKER_04 29:49

It's because I have a dream board, right? On my dream board, there's a house across the street from my aunt's house that I so it's not the house, but you can it's looking at my aunt's house from this house. Well, this house just went on the market.

SPEAKER_03 30:09

It hasn't yet, but it's going supposedly it's going to.

SPEAKER_04 30:13

It's going to, and it just prompted me to start making forward movement because it prompted you to be angry at me because I was like, what but you're like, you crush all my dreams.

SPEAKER_01 30:27

You're a dream crusher.

SPEAKER_03 30:29

Should we move on? Um, I have one last thing. Okay. So we have a uh garage door stickler in our neighborhood. And it's not who you would imagine it being. So at least, I don't know, twice a week, two or three times a week. Yeah. We'll be sitting in the house, and you'll hear a knock on the door. Yeah, he usually knocks. Hear a knock on the door, and I open the door, and it's my uh seven-year-old neighbor, seven, not seventy, seven-year-old, and he goes, uh, your garage door's open, and then just leak turns around and leaves. Like, I don't know why, and I think I I think I figured it out. Okay. I think I know why he's so concerned about us leaving our garage door open is because he's asked me in the past if he can ride his scooter and his bike up in our driveway. And so I think that if our garage door's open, he gets in trouble by his parents. Because the garage door's open and they don't want him to come into our garage or whatever. And so I think if our garage door's open, he's not allowed to be in our driveway.

SPEAKER_04 31:54

Oh my gosh, this makes so much sense.

SPEAKER_03 31:57

That's just that just came to me like yesterday.

SPEAKER_04 32:01

That makes sense.

SPEAKER_03 32:02

Because the other day when we were out doing yard work, he was riding in the driveway and his mom was like, Hey, you need to stay out of the driveway. And I was like, It's okay, he's fine.

SPEAKER_04 32:13

Wow, that makes so much sense. Well, that or because it did kind of happen at the same time, we had a neighbor whose tools were stolen out of his truck in the middle of the night. Yeah. And he started knocking this whole toolbox. Yeah. He and the seven-year-old started knocking on our door after that happened. So I thought maybe he heard that happened.

SPEAKER_03 32:39

He was being neighborhood watch.

SPEAKER_04 32:41

Yeah, and he is like, hey, we got a bandit in the neighborhood.

SPEAKER_03 32:46

Close that. Close your garage door.

SPEAKER_04 32:48

Both could be true. I almost think yours is right, though.

SPEAKER_03 32:50

But it's kind of funny because he just goes, garage doors open.

SPEAKER_04 32:53

And leaves. And then leaves. One time though, he did try to sell me cheese puffs. He had a giant container of cheese puffs. And he was like, hey, garage doors open. Also, would you like to buy a cheese puff? Or would you like a cheese puff? No, thank you. Good. They're$5 each. I was like, okay.

SPEAKER_03 33:14

Five dollars a puff.

SPEAKER_04 33:15

Yeah. Dang. He even had a sign on it.$5 each.

SPEAKER_03 33:21

He's pretty funny. I think I talked to him more than I talked to his parents.

SPEAKER_04 33:25

I know. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 33:26

I definitely talk to him more than I talked to his parents.

SPEAKER_04 33:28

Well, yeah, you talk to us three times a week.

unknown 33:30

Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 33:31

He's out, he's out riding his bike right now. That's what made me think about him. Um he's cute. I can't remember his name.

SPEAKER_04 33:39

Oh, I think it starts with a J.

SPEAKER_03 33:41

It does. Uh I can't remember. But yeah, he's a pretty funny kid.

SPEAKER_04 33:47

All right.

SPEAKER_03 33:48

Thanks, buddy.

SPEAKER_04 33:48

I know me too.

SPEAKER_03 33:50

The other day I felt bad because I knew it was him, and so I didn't even answer the door.

SPEAKER_04 33:54

You just close the garage. Close the garage. I know, because it kind of is a whole thing because our dogs were are annoying. And when you knock on the door, they freak out. We're that house. I'm it's what it is, what it is. So every time he knocks on the door, it's the whole gotta wrangle up the dogs, go to the door. Just to be just to be told, just to be yelled at by a seven-year-old that our garage door is open. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 34:23

Little garage door Nazi.

SPEAKER_04 34:25

Okay. Story time. Are you ready?

SPEAKER_03 34:28

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 34:29

This I brought this up in our last episode.

SPEAKER_03 34:31

Oh, I actually I forgot. I have one more thing.

SPEAKER_04 34:34

Oh my gosh, I've tried to boob on so many times. What?

SPEAKER_03 34:38

I bought some new supplements.

unknown 34:42

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 34:43

Um, and I got a free thing of protein, which was cool, but it's bubblegum protein. Kind of gross. But, anyways, that's not the point. The point, the point is, is I was talking to the guy, and he's like, this is where all the protein's at, this is where the creatine's at. This is where all the the pre-workouts at. He's like, non-stem on this side, stimulants on this side. And I was like, okay, cool. Well, sometimes my pre-workout messes with my stomach. Like, I don't know if it's I'm assuming it's maybe the caffeine. I don't know. And I do it on empty stomach. Anyways, so I'm looking at this uh pre-workout, and I was gonna get a non-STEM one, and then I see this one, and I'm like looking at it, and I look, and it's like caffeine 100 milligrams, and I was like, oh, it's only got a hundred milligrams of caffeine, like this will be perfect. So I I bought it, brought it home, I opened it. Well, I found out there's two different types of caffeine in it, and one of them says a hundred milligrams, and the other one says three hundred milligrams. So apparently there's 400 milligrams of caffeine in this pre-workout.

SPEAKER_04 35:59

We looked up the differences of what they are.

SPEAKER_03 36:02

No, I haven't yet. But I asked Michael and he said, be careful. Only take a half a scoop.

SPEAKER_04 36:10

I would take less than that.

unknown 36:12

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 36:14

The pre-workout that I took right now has like 300 and something milligrams. Jeez Louise.

SPEAKER_04 36:21

I'm just out here basically raw dogging on freaking 40 milligrams of caffeine a day.

SPEAKER_03 36:27

Well, like the ghost energy drinks and all those energy drinks like that have like 300 milligrams of caffeine.

SPEAKER_04 36:33

Jeez, you're gonna get headaches if you quit. It's gonna be a good thing. I've already cut back.

SPEAKER_03 36:38

I've already cut back. I don't drink well, I guess I was gonna say I don't drink coffee and energy drinks anymore. I just have my pre-workout in the morning.

SPEAKER_04 36:47

That's all that's all the caffeine you have?

SPEAKER_03 36:50

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_04 36:50

Yeah, but what I'm saying is if you start doing that every day, your body's gonna get used to that.

SPEAKER_03 36:55

Well, and like today I only had a cup of coffee.

SPEAKER_02 37:01

It's the only caffeine I had.

SPEAKER_04 37:03

That's just an insane amount of caffeine right on an empty stomach first thing in the morning.

SPEAKER_03 37:08

Oh, I know. My stomach is like and then I start sweating, and I'm like, I sound like you. Yeah. So, okay, that's all I have. End of story time. Be careful with your pre-workouts, people.

SPEAKER_04 37:27

I miss pre-workout.

SPEAKER_03 37:31

I'll keep you filled in on how this goes for me.

SPEAKER_04 37:35

My pre-workout right now is warm water with lemon and salt. Boom. Straight to the gut first thing in the morning.

SPEAKER_03 37:42

Does it make you poop?

SPEAKER_04 37:43

It does. Yeah, but it's my new coffee. And then I have a glass of black tea with my breakfast, and that's it for me. It's all she wrote.

SPEAKER_03 37:54

No wonder you're so cranky.

SPEAKER_04 37:55

Just out here, raw dogging life. No stimulants or nothing.

SPEAKER_03 38:00

I'll just oh, I'd be drinking electrolytes too. I don't know what the what I don't know the brand I have right now.

SPEAKER_04 38:06

They're pretty good. They're good though.

SPEAKER_03 38:08

They're expensive.

SPEAKER_04 38:10

The Madison. Everyone needs to watch The Madison.

SPEAKER_03 38:14

The Madison. I forgot about that.

SPEAKER_04 38:16

I am not a Taylor Sheridan fan. Wanna note. I actually decided I was never gonna watch any of his shows ever again after he ruthlessly ended 1923. That was it. I was done. He ruined that show and it was building up to be an epic show.

SPEAKER_03 38:34

Oh yeah, okay. I enjoyed it.

SPEAKER_04 38:37

You liked the ending?

SPEAKER_03 38:38

Uh well, I you kind of saw it coming.

SPEAKER_04 38:42

Horrendous. Anyway, the Madison is good.

SPEAKER_03 38:46

It's great.

SPEAKER_04 38:47

I'll give Taylor Sheridan credit where credit is due.

SPEAKER_03 38:52

It's a great show. Amazing.

SPEAKER_04 38:55

I can't figure out where it's gonna take us, though.

SPEAKER_03 38:59

I without saying too much, I hope they move.

SPEAKER_04 39:03

Yeah, we too.

SPEAKER_03 39:05

They have to, right?

SPEAKER_04 39:06

I have I straight up have no idea. We binged it though, unfortunately. All the seasons are on prime. Wait. All the seasons are on paramount seasons.

SPEAKER_03 39:17

There's one season.

SPEAKER_04 39:18

Six episodes.

SPEAKER_03 39:19

Yeah, we have one episode left.

SPEAKER_04 39:21

I know I'm saving it.

SPEAKER_03 39:22

No, we're gonna watch it after this.

unknown 39:24

I know.

SPEAKER_04 39:26

And I'm gonna eat my chocolate mousse with some strawberries.

SPEAKER_03 39:30

So we better get to the this uh Oh, you want to get to the story now? Yeah. All I all the important things I have to say are gone, so we can move on.

SPEAKER_04 39:40

Well, everyone watch The Madison on Paramount Plus and let us know. My wife went out last night and didn't come home until this morning.

SPEAKER_03 39:46

Shame on her.

SPEAKER_04 39:47

Boom, boom, boom.

SPEAKER_03 39:48

Sounds like an ex-wife.

SPEAKER_04 39:51

This is posted October 16th, 2022. This is horrible. I'm furious right now, but I'm also depressed as hell. I know what I have to do. It's just killing me that I have to do it. It's fresh and it hurts a lot. My wife didn't come home last night. She went out with a couple of girlfriends, which is pretty normal for her. She's normally back around 2 a.m. on these nights, so I waited up. Around two 2 30, I called the check-in.

SPEAKER_00 40:19

Sorry, hold on. I had to burp.

SPEAKER_04 40:28

She answered, and I could hear people in the background. She told me they went to a party but were leaving in a couple of minutes. Did I say how old they are? That's good.

SPEAKER_03 40:41

You should turn those lights on.

SPEAKER_04 40:42

I am inside of here. You turn the lights on.

SPEAKER_02 40:45

There's a remote.

SPEAKER_04 40:46

Oh. That those lights don't those lights don't really help us.

SPEAKER_00 40:53

Going for a vibe.

SPEAKER_03 40:57

Five set ambiance. It's freaking nappy in here, dude.

SPEAKER_04 41:01

It's dark in here. It's not even nappy. Okay. Oh my gosh. I'm sorry, everybody. Okay. Also, we need to know how old these people are because who goes out that late? Geez Louise.

unknown 41:15

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 41:16

Lots of people that aren't pregnant.

SPEAKER_04 41:20

I could hear people in the background. They went to a party leaving a couple minutes. Okay, she wasn't home by 3, so I texted. It delivered, but no reply. Around 4 a.m. I called again. It rang a couple of times before she sent me to voicemail. My wife finally came stumbling through the door at 6 47 a.m. this morning. I know the exact time because I was worried. She was wearing a dress she didn't leave the house in with mesh leggings I've never seen. The leggings had clearly been torn and her makeup was smudged.

SPEAKER_03 41:56

Naughty naughty.

SPEAKER_04 41:58

My heart sank when I saw her. My immediate worry is that she'd been assaulted. I was thinking that too. She only shook her head no when I asked her that. I asked her what she'd been doing. She only said that I knew what she had been doing, and that kind of confirmed what the voice in the back of my head had been screaming since she walked in. My wife cheated on me last night. I asked her who it was. She shrugged almost casually and said it was somebody they met at the club. She went back to his house and hooked up with him. Then Ubered home. She said she didn't want to fight and just wanted to sleep. So that's what she did. She's still asleep now and didn't even take a shower before passing out. Suffice to say our relationship is over. We don't have any kids and we rent, so it shouldn't be an extremely complicated process. I keep trying to reason myself out of it, pretending there might be something to salvage here. I've always maintained that cheating would be a red line for me though, but I think I need to stick to that now.

SPEAKER_00 43:04

Small update. Oh, this is odd. Where did he get where did she get a different dress from?

SPEAKER_04 43:26

So usually on the Redditor updates, it will give me the initial story, then the top comments, then an update, then the top comments. For this, it's just story update update.

SPEAKER_01 43:40

No comments.

SPEAKER_04 43:41

There's no comments until the very end. So I guess I just got a lot of reading to do here, guys. Okay, that was the sixteenth. Now we're at October seventeenth.

SPEAKER_01 43:59

The next day.

SPEAKER_04 44:00

Alright, things have happened. I'm no longer at home. I left. I wasn't able to get the day off work today though, so I'm writing this on my lunch. It's been a struggle struggle keeping myself together. I've had to sneak off to the bathroom twice to cry. Shit's rough, dude. I'll post something more detailed later on because holy fucking shit, there's a lot. I'm exhausted. I've only slept about four hours total since this happened. Does anyone know if I should post the actual update in a new thread or just update?

SPEAKER_03 44:31

Maybe that's why it's messed up.

SPEAKER_04 44:34

Also to the woman who felt compelled to send me topless pictures, thanks, but also no thanks. What would you do if I did this to you? It's this is how brazen she was for me.

SPEAKER_03 44:56

Yeah. Well she just like there was no remorse or no nothing. She was just like, You know what I did. You know what I did. I don't want to fight with you, I'm going to sleep.

SPEAKER_04 45:06

I feel bad for him.

SPEAKER_03 45:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 45:09

I'm typically on the woman's side. And now I'm on the man's side. I'm feeling conflicted.

SPEAKER_03 45:17

Maybe you should be on the the not shitty person side.

SPEAKER_04 45:21

I like women's white rights and women's wrongs, but I'm having a hard time right now.

SPEAKER_03 45:28

Just bouncing his ball.

SPEAKER_04 45:30

Oh, he's in our driveway.

SPEAKER_03 45:31

Yeah. Speak of the devil.

SPEAKER_04 45:35

Second update, October 18th. Me again, folks. I'm sorry I didn't get around to this sooner. I wasn't able to get the day off work yesterday because my boss kind of sucks. I was a complete mess at work yesterday though, so I was allowed to take the rest of the week as vacation. I think I went through all the stages of grief while my soon-to-be ex was sleeping. I wasn't expecting my post to get any attention at all. I just figured I need to try and talk to someone about it because I was not in a good headspace. I made the post in the morning and by noon she was still conked out in the bedroom. I had processed things a bit more, and I had a rough plan in my head that I was starting to set in motion. I made a short list of questions I wanted answers to. Gathered up all my important documents, laptop, etc. Then I went into the bedroom and started packing myself a suitcase. I knew a lot of folks wanted me to kick her out. I did consider it, but honestly I'm not overly attached to this place. We just rent, and I'm lucky enough I'm in a lucky enough situation to be able to say that paying half the rent for a few months isn't going to financially end me. It'll sting a little bit, I won't lie. But I'll make it, and I feel like being around this place is only going to remind me of her anyways, so I need to get out. She ended up waking up about halfway through me packing my suitcase. There was momentary confusion as she looked around the room. Then she just started bawling. Maybe this was awful of me, but it didn't but I didn't bother comforting her. I told her I had the screenshots of her Uber and text messages from her phone. And that plus her confirmation was enough, the things between us were completely done. She didn't answer me and just cried louder. I debated trying to continue the conversation, but as but I decided to just pack the rest of my suitcase and head back out to the living room until she came out. When she finally left the bedroom, she sat next to me on the couch and asked me if we could talk things through. I told her as calmly as possible that that wasn't how things were going to work. I was going to ask questions, I wanted honest answers, she told me she'd be honest, so I proceeded. Was this the first time she had cheated? She started crying before she answered that, then told me no. She had cheated on me multiple times over the course of our relationship. It was, and I'm going to use her words exactly. Quotes, just sex. A way from me to let off steam. None of it ever meant anything. I wrote a comment shortly after making my post that all the love couldn't just fade away in one swoop. Well it can. It hit me right then that I wasn't dealing with my wife. The person I was married to literally wasn't in the room. This was someone different. She refused to tell me exactly how many times she had cheated, just more than last night. Had she used protection? No hesitation from her before she nodded her head empathetically. She seemed surprised I'd even asked that. I'm still going to get tested just to be safe. I did some research into timing and I'm going to look after it. Were her friends also cheating on their spouses? Yes and no. I tried to get her to tell me which of her friends were cheating so I could get in contact with their spouses. She probably should have because her refusal led me to messaging pretty much the romantic partner of every one of her girlfriends I could find on social media media. There are a couple I don't know or couldn't find, but I did my part. Why did she do it? This was the answer that gutted me the most. I'm going to ex use her exact words again. Quotes I need to have sexual variety. I told her that it's not like our sex life is dull, she clarified. Quotes, it's not the same as something new. I didn't even have a response to that. I'd expected something about me working too much or not supporting her emotionally. Nope, she just fucked other guys because she felt like it and wanted to have some fun. When I didn't respond, she started asking me about counseling and therapy. I reiterated that our relationship was over. I'd be leaving. What she did next disgust me. My ex actually tried to have sex with me. She put her hands on me and started trying to take my clothes off. I felt like I wanted to vomit and pushed her away after a couple of seconds. She just kept telling me that we could figure it out, that there is a way through this together. I told her there's no way and she started bawling again. She went to the bathroom and locked herself inside. I was just sick about everything at that point. I called her mom and told her what was going on. The full story, the cheating, the questions I asked, and the fact that I was leaving. I had always had a good relationship with my ex's parents. They both decided to drive to town, which was about an hour for them. Once I knew someone was on the way, I just grabbed my things and left. Her water works in the bathroom were just annoying to me because I felt hollow, especially given the answers to my questions. I ended up packing another bag before I left and took all the things that I could think of that felt sentimental to me. I found a parking lot and sat in my car until I was able to get in contact with a buddy for a place to crash. I tried to take a nap, but I was running on way too much adrenaline. I knew her parents had had made it to the apartment because she started calling me. When I didn't answer though, she texted me. She had gone from sad and crying to furious. Apparently I'm quote a fucking piece of shit for telling her mom everything. Whoops.

SPEAKER_01 51:06

Hmm.

SPEAKER_04 51:08

I've received roughly a hundred texts from her since leaving. They ranged from name calling all the way to begging me to coming back, to sending me a picture of the food she ate for some reason. I haven't responded to any of them. I feel like I said my piece before leaving, so that's where I'm at now. We didn't have joint finances, so that part was easy. I canceled the subscriptions that go to my credit card just to be sure, and changed all my important passwords. I'm crashing at a friend's on the couch for the next bit, but I've got some fillers out for some short-term rental places until I can find something more permanent. I've got fillers out for a divorce attorney too. A co-worker of mine had a recommendation, so something's in the works. I also wanted to say that I was shocked how supportive everyone was, and thank you for that. Truly from the bottom of my heart. This wasn't easy to talk about and was really emotional to me. This was an invaluable venting place for me. Thank you all so much.

SPEAKER_03 52:01

Well, alrighty then. I feel like that one's not hard to feel like to not feel bad for the girl. Like to have the dude's backs. Pretty easy on that one. Crazy.

SPEAKER_04 52:16

What the hell did she think was going to happen? Was she still wasted when she came in and was like, you know what I did?

SPEAKER_03 52:23

I bet you she was. Sounds like it. Especially with her reaction of like her being so upset. It was like, oh, she was like, I fucked up, I got caught. I don't even know if she was sad that she like what she did or if she was just sad that she got caught.

SPEAKER_04 52:41

Yeah, sad that she got caught seemed that was just crazy. That was a roller coaster ride of emotions.

SPEAKER_03 52:50

I feel bad for the dude.

SPEAKER_04 52:55

I was kind of like, why wasn't he going out with her tomorrow or I mean a girl's night, but how often do you need to go get wasted with your girls?

SPEAKER_03 53:06

Did she say she was doing a lot?

SPEAKER_04 53:08

He said it happens often.

SPEAKER_03 53:15

I guess this is what happens when it happens often.

SPEAKER_04 53:18

It's also interesting to me that they're married and don't ha have shared finances or you know, like nothing. The only thing tying them was their marriage.

SPEAKER_03 53:28

Yeah, I wonder how long they were married.

SPEAKER_04 53:30

Yeah. I wanna know a lot of my questions were answered. A lot of his were. I want to know how old they are, I want to know how long they were together.

SPEAKER_01 53:41

Wow.

SPEAKER_04 53:48

We have one final update and then we get to some comments. Final update. Hey folks, I'm happy, I guess, to say that this will be my final update to what's probably been the most difficult chapter of my life. I felt an immense amount of support from the community here for my initial two posts. Bottom line, my ex and I both signed the final papers for our divorce this week. Feels kind of surreal to think about all that. About two weeks into everything she got resistant. I cut her off entirely and she refused to return my attorney's calls for a little while. Eventually things got back on track. As for the infidelity itself, I don't have a ton more details to share with you. We did a short mediation and by that time I didn't feel there was any remorse on her end. I've talked about it a lot with my therapist. I'm in therapy, by the way. It still hurts that someone who I thought loved me could apparently care could have apparently cared about me so little, but I'm working through it. That's really all I've got to share. Thank you again for all the support and advice. Top comment You know things are over when you calmly make your exit. I'm so happy he got out of there and came and can move on from his dumpster fire of an ex. I was hoping for an update on her friend's situation, knowing that others were cheating on their spouses and OP contacting the entire group to warn them there must have been some fallout and reckoning happening. I hope the others got the okay got out okay too. From his comment that we didn't get to see, two other relationships ended because of all this. I spoke briefly with both of the other guys. Oh wait, okay. From his comment, quotes two other relationships ended because all this. I spoke briefly with the both of the other guys, and they had both found out what I had in different ways after I tipped them off. Awful situation, but better for all of us in the end, I'm sure. Wow.

SPEAKER_03 55:51

Crazy.

SPEAKER_04 55:52

What a group of trash people. Yeah, this kind of reminds me of what was that show where they were in Texas and it was Britney Snow, and that girl was sleeping with the high schooler.

SPEAKER_01 56:06

Huh?

SPEAKER_04 56:08

Hunting wives.

SPEAKER_03 56:09

Oh yeah. Oh yeah, that that was a wild show.

SPEAKER_04 56:14

Yeah, it was.

SPEAKER_03 56:15

I forgot about that.

SPEAKER_04 56:18

Wow, this is crazy. I feel really bad for this guy. She came home in new clothes. What was that about?

SPEAKER_03 56:26

Yeah, where did she get those? Yeah. From that guy's girlfriend's closet? Yeah. Like, what?

SPEAKER_04 56:34

Why not just end the relationship?

SPEAKER_03 56:37

Yeah. You're like, hey, I need sexual variety, so I'm just gonna go sleep around with people. I don't think I should be married to somebody.

SPEAKER_04 56:46

Yeah.

unknown 56:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 56:50

Because people will be wanting their cake and eat it too. Like, I want sexual variety, but also want like stability and sexual.

SPEAKER_04 56:56

The security of this relationship. Yeah. Wow.

SPEAKER_03 57:02

Selfish.

SPEAKER_04 57:03

That is very selfish.

SPEAKER_03 57:07

Damn. It's a scary world out there.

unknown 57:13

I know.

SPEAKER_04 57:14

He was just home. I usually wait for her to get home.

SPEAKER_03 57:19

Cute. I wonder how many times she had slept with somebody and then just came and laid in his bed with him when he she got home. Oh.

SPEAKER_04 57:28

I think they're in their 20s. This is some 20-year-old shit. We're not just dumb, not fully developed brains. I would like to give her the benefit of the doubt for that. Got married too young, maybe.

SPEAKER_03 57:49

Not really an excuse.

SPEAKER_00 57:55

Well, that's all I have. I mean dang.

SPEAKER_03 58:02

Dang.

SPEAKER_04 58:04

Dang, guys, dang.

SPEAKER_03 58:06

Watch out for them cheaters. If your wife comes home, if your wife doesn't come home, and then when she does, she's in new clothes.

SPEAKER_04 58:17

If your wife looks like she got mugged.

SPEAKER_03 58:21

Red flags all over the place.

SPEAKER_04 58:24

Well, I hope everyone has a great week and thank you for listening to our show.

SPEAKER_03 58:28

Stay safe out there, homies. I got sick last week and it was rough.

SPEAKER_04 58:32

So nobody needs to hear about your men called.

SPEAKER_03 58:36

Don't let that I woke off.

SPEAKER_04 58:38

Oh my gosh. Sign us off, please.

SPEAKER_03 58:43

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