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Three, two, one.

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Welcome back. Hey guys. I like that.

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Juicy. Welcome back to Stassi Spill episode.

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Oh yeah, we're so back.

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We're so back. I'm already stuttering. Welcome back to Stassi Spills episode 15.

SPEAKER_02 0:56

Oh, wow.

SPEAKER_00 0:57

We have a guest here. Yeah. He's so excited. You literally asked. This is Dylan, my fiance. I didn't. My ma'am, my ma'am, my ma'am.

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I asked who you're a baby. Thank you. Um I asked who you're gonna podcast with.

SPEAKER_00 1:10

Dylan thinks every week I need to have somebody, and he's like, let me in, bust through the door. He literally was in Miles's room, like trying to finagle. Oh, who does she have to do?

SPEAKER_02 1:20

Well, honestly, I I won't say who, but I was I was trying to get someone else on here. Severely. And we couldn't make you didn't want to make that one happen.

SPEAKER_00 1:27

I don't know that. Yeah, he severely wants a specific criminal lawyer to come on here. And I'm like, we have to have a conversation where before we're like, hey, come sit down on my thing.

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Like so I selflessly tried to get someone more interesting than myself.

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He busted in here and was like, Miles, please. So it's episode 15. We have some fun things on the oh.

SPEAKER_02 1:51

Well, before we start, what are you drinking?

SPEAKER_00 1:54

Oh, I have water in my little cup down here. Um, my stepmom gave this to me.

SPEAKER_02 1:59

No, you had you don't you need something else to drink. You can't just have water. You need like a tasty beverage.

SPEAKER_00 2:04

I don't know, but I've had two coffees today and two snacks already. I'll give you something. Dylan, we're in the middle of recording. I know this is better this is good. Oh my god.

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I'll give you something to drink. I know you're thirsty.

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This is about to be so shady, and I know. Do you know what this is, Miles?

SPEAKER_03 2:18

I have no idea what's going on.

SPEAKER_00 2:21

Oh my god. It's a whole bit. I can't.

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I got you something. I know you've been dying to see you. I'm so terrified. Everybody's been dying to see.

SPEAKER_00 2:32

Can I give them backstory?

SPEAKER_02 2:33

Yeah, go ahead. Tell them what this is. Hold it up.

SPEAKER_00 2:36

This is you should have ripped the name the label off because it is the synergy. Dylan loves kombucha. I just off-rip don't like kombucha. I'm not into the taste of it. The probiotic sounds great. He loves kombucha. He drinks synergy all the time. Recently, he's taken up. I feel like from November to now, you've taken up making kombucha at home, and it is a treacherous process. There's like a live symbiotic thing that happens on the top. I always gag when I see it. We, I really like painstakingly opened up 16 pomegranates last time. There's a video on TikTok. I have pomegranate all over my face. He's smiling and giggling. I'm cutting all of his fruits for him. He's putting it in here. It's weeks long. He's like cradling his little um, what is it called? Kombucha bottle.

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This go be.

SPEAKER_00 3:19

It's disgusting. Um, he loves it. All of his friends like it. I'm glad. I'm so happy that he likes doing this. He did just make a new batch, and I he's gonna force me to drink it on camera, and I really don't want to be like I'm I'm making I can't control the face that I'm making because I don't like it.

SPEAKER_02 3:36

I'm so excited.

SPEAKER_00 3:37

This is why we do have all the wings.

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So this might the the label looks deceiving. This isn't a synergy, this is a homemade kombucha.

SPEAKER_00 3:45

It's a recycled bottle.

SPEAKER_02 3:47

I recycle the bottles because when you ferment the batch, you have to use the specific type of like thick glass while it's carbonating, otherwise the bottle will explode. So I reuse these bottles. But this is my kombucha, this is my second batch.

SPEAKER_00 4:03

It's made uh it's uh flavored with raspberry, grapefruit, lime, hibiscus, and mint from Moonlight and Sage, provided by and I do like that smell that tastes or wow, that seems like it would taste delicious. Like the combo sounds very like if it was a lemonade, mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_02 4:20

People keep asking about uh the kombucha because I made that video. Oh my god. Everybody wants to know what it tastes like, how it tastes. Who? Everyone, the the viewers. Oh dude. People are dying to know.

SPEAKER_00 4:34

I don't know if they do.

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Everyone who cares by it has loved it, except you.

SPEAKER_00 4:40

I just don't but here's the thing off bat, I don't like kombucha.

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Like we look thirsty, so I wanted to get you something to do.

SPEAKER_00 4:44

I look thirsty.

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You looked thirsty when I sat down, so I wanted to get you something to drink that we could drink while we'll take us together.

SPEAKER_00 4:52

Because I I've taken when growing up, my mom said, Do you have to do like a no thank you bite for everything? And I feel like you just it's polite to do. But he made me try like sift six different flavors, and I was like, I can tell you that I didn't like the first one. I'm not gonna like them all. And la the last flavor that he had, he was just like, please try it, please try it, please try it. And I felt mean being like, I can't do this, it's disgusting. And then I tasted it and kind of gagged at his face, and he's like, Oh, I know it was his favorite flavor, and I was just But it's um it shows it, it proves how much you love me.

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You're willing to drink the kombucha for me.

SPEAKER_00 5:28

It's so good, but everyone else loves it.

SPEAKER_02 5:30

You're the only person who I just don't like kombucha. Seriously, every other person that tried it was like, whoa, that's really good.

SPEAKER_00 5:34

It I could see how it does taste good, you know, like the flavor's there, but it's just the underlying like apple cider vinegar-y taste that just has me in a tizzy. I like it tart. I like tart things too, but not like that's not let's do it.

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Let's go ahead.

SPEAKER_00 5:50

Okay, I'll remove, I'll move my magazine.

SPEAKER_02 5:52

We'll talk about that a little bit. You just we can't talk about the magazine while you're thirsty, you know. I'm not gonna talk if I crack this here, will it pick it up the fizz?

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Be careful not to if it explodes it.

SPEAKER_02 6:03

Oh shit. I like really sealed it. Hold on.

SPEAKER_00 6:07

Oh, stronger no.

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What's oh that's a good fizz.

SPEAKER_00 6:15

Oh no! Dylan! See, yeah, hold it over this. Me being like careful.

SPEAKER_02 6:21

Hey, that's a good pro that's a good problem to have.

SPEAKER_00 6:24

Wait, I think that means it's uh here. Oh my god, on your shoe, on your Dylan's.

SPEAKER_02 6:29

Dude, look at it. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 6:31

And you won't be able to do it.

SPEAKER_02 6:32

It's fine. We're gonna have it. I've never seen them uh bubble up like this.

SPEAKER_00 6:41

No, oh my god, it's making such a mess. It's fine. Put your shoe in my rug. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 6:47

It's it's all um part of the process. Is it? Yeah, you never know what's gonna happen. This is the fun part. Well, don't okay, we'll we're just gonna let that go. We're just gonna let that go. There's a lot of sugar. I don't know. I don't know what to tell you.

SPEAKER_00 7:03

Well, put it on the thing so it's easier to clean up the glass than like all over the floor. We'll come back. That's terrifying. We'll come back. We'll come back to that.

SPEAKER_02 7:13

That was my bad.

SPEAKER_00 7:16

All that means is brand gesture.

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Ooh, all that means is uh there's a lot of sugar in there and it carbonated the bottle a little bit.

SPEAKER_00 7:23

I can smell it from here.

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It's embarrassing.

SPEAKER_01 7:28

A little embarrassing. It's okay.

SPEAKER_00 7:31

I don't think that's embarrassing worthy. I think that's probably why it was hard to get open. Maybe it's homemade. That probably happens at the synergies. Ooh. It bubbling at us. It's crazy. Um, anyways, brought to you by Lit Dylan. We'll try that after it's done.

SPEAKER_02 7:49

The herbs in there are brought to you by Mood Lines. It is. Um organic. Consumable grade.

SPEAKER_00 7:54

Yes, as long as something hibiscus and yeah, mint hibiscus lime. What else? Anyways, um, do you want a napkin for your hands?

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No.

SPEAKER_00 8:06

Are they sticky?

SPEAKER_01 8:07

No.

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I think he's lying.

SPEAKER_00 8:11

We have something fun to show you, which I feel like is shady because somebody online was like, can we please get the digital version? And I wasn't ready to release this because I guess to start, we had the brand's sixth birthday, um, February 15th. It's like has something to say, you know? February 15th, and we did Miles's beautiful lighting, photography, editing, everything ate the down with this. We did a Euros edit for my birthday or brand's birthday. Euros is Aphrodite Euros is Cupid, um, and one of Aphrodite's sons.

SPEAKER_02 8:46

So is that his like Greek name or something?

SPEAKER_00 8:49

No, well, what? His real name, like, think of goddess Aphrodite, Ares, any of the gods or goddesses have their names. People just know him as Cupid because like the general public when they see the little baby Cherub with Cupid.

SPEAKER_04 9:02

Oh.

SPEAKER_00 9:03

Um, but there's technically two different versions of him. We talked about it, I or I guess a slightly on my page and like in an Instagram story, because there's a version of Cupid that would have happened before Aphrodite was a thing or was born. And that's confusing because then in other stories sh he he is her son with Ares, who's the god of war.

SPEAKER_02 9:25

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 9:26

But when you see him like in the Cherub, like baby, you know, with the wings and everything, that would be the the kind that you see Cupid with the, you know, like the golden arrow. But then when a lot of times when he's older and talking about with like Aphrodite's son and like kind of his other arrow, the lead tip and the story with Psyche, which is a whole separate thing. The story with Psyche, um, you see him a little bit older, but he is Euros the god, not the Versace scent. Oh my god, it's like if it had its own mic right now, it's bubbling. Um, so yeah, we we did like a photo shoot for this to roll out all the products and have like a product launch and everything was great. And I wanted to see because we do everything in-house here at Moon Lane Sage. I wanted to see if I could make like well, it was actually Paulina's idea. She was like, I need this in a magazine immediately. So on the way home from Mammoth, and if you haven't seen the Mammoth vlog of Paulina getting engaged, please go on the YouTube page and watch. Um Dylan filmed that. Thank you so much. Um, I while we were going home, I figured out a way to make the magazine, formulated it, sized it, which I'm not good at that kind of stuff, and then just kind of pick some of the photos that were ready at the time. I think it's like eight pages or something, but I would be down to release it. People were like asking to do a digital version, but I feel like I need to one, we have too many more pictures that would be good to add on this, and I want to put words so. But we do have this, and I feel like it's really juicy. Like this edit, this is so vampire, like the everything.

SPEAKER_03 10:54

I couldn't help myself. I had to do it.

SPEAKER_00 10:56

The can we insert the one with the like moon and the the yeah, that one's so good. And Dylan, that's one Dylan's favorite from the shoot. He had it make it into a poster, into mugs, which he took both mugs home. We were just talking about that. He's like, Oh, I don't have them. I'm like, we you took one mug home, and then you saw the other mug from here and took it home.

SPEAKER_02 11:13

It's the work next mug and the home mug.

SPEAKER_00 11:15

No, but he took them both.

SPEAKER_02 11:16

Yeah, I can't bring it to work.

SPEAKER_00 11:18

There was like a whole thread. Yeah. The boys were saying that like it would start a fight. Well, because then really imagine he was like, Well, if someone drinks out of your mug or breaks it, I'm like, we have more.

SPEAKER_03 11:30

Don't touch it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:31

I mean, but why then my question would be like, why would you drink out of your some your co-worker's mug that has his wife's face on it?

SPEAKER_02 11:37

Oh, well. Well, that would be. That's why every time you try to throw away a coffee mug, I'm like, that is like that is like uh gold in our office because we don't have enough coffee mugs, so everyone's constantly stealing each other's mugs.

SPEAKER_00 11:53

When y'all have been doing tea time, you have to do that.

SPEAKER_02 11:55

And then people don't clean them, so then they just put them back, and then if you want to use your mug, you pick it up and you're like, they put it on. Someone used it, dude. It'll like still have like old coffee in it. Yeah, that's gross. Not just like not clean it, like it'll still have like a puddle of coffee. And you're like, fuck, now I have to go wash it.

SPEAKER_00 12:10

Why are you? And I wanted to drink it now.

SPEAKER_02 12:14

It's the fact that it's gross on top of the fact that it was your mug.

SPEAKER_00 12:17

It's disrespectful. Yeah. Like pointed. So anyway, so he made a picture. Oh, it's this one. It's this one. So he ha I has a poster of this that he wanted me to sign. He has it in a mug and a keychain. Do you have your keys on you?

SPEAKER_02 12:29

Yeah, I have my keychain. He made some keychains. Wait, is this the first time people are seeing these?

SPEAKER_00 12:34

No, I think they saw. Yeah, and I I put that on my desk after it got delivered. He came to work when I wasn't here and like put that on his keychain before I even showed him. And he was like, Yeah, yeah, hello. So yeah, this is we'll flip through. I think they saw it. I don't know when I showed them. Sorry, keep it in the mic. But yeah, if you've also, these pictures have been shown on Instagram and everything. Miles just so severely ate with these. Everything was just so good. So this is the this also, I don't think I will ever like, I know the other ones were easy, but it was just like the way that this happened. I was like, we were playing around, we were like, oh my god. And this is where my fake I feel like this kind of stuff is my bread and butter, and I wish I could do more of like, I don't know what that would be called. Um, because it's not set design, but like I guess it is the marketing of it.

SPEAKER_02 13:19

I just love uh so how did you get this idea? Do they know that? How did this idea dawn on you?

SPEAKER_00 13:25

The line?

SPEAKER_02 13:26

The yeah, the whole line, the cupid. Well, that concept.

SPEAKER_00 13:29

I have talked about that one because it's like as an Aphrodite lover devotee. I have already a whole line that's called Aphrodite and Her Children, and we have most of her children in it. And with Euros, I think Euros came out. We did Pothos first and Himrose. I think Euros was third, and that came out a couple years ago, maybe three years ago. It was just like one one oil and a bath and a cologne. And then I was like, it's Valentine's Day, it's our brand's birthday. I wanted we hadn't released things in since maybe my birthday, June.

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Because we're trying to get caught up on everything.

SPEAKER_00 14:02

Oh my god. Um, and I like to release things, it's just like a good thing to get my energy out, creativity. And so for the sixth birthday, I was like, we have to do something which is very moonlight-branded. Love, which I love a siren, I love a love, I love allure, I love that kind of energy. It's just like my favorite thing ever. And so I was like, well, we can expand. And of course, I a lot of times do find it going back to goddess advertising just love. While there's a lot of other like goddesses of love and things that you could go, or like allure, sensuality, and stuff. I just felt like it was really, it made sense. And also we hadn't touched on nor had I seen a lot of like spiritual items outside of just the god Cupid about like the lore of his stories of like he has a golden arrow, which a lot of people see, and then the lead-tipped arrow, which I feel like I never saw people talking about. Maybe in like stories if they were tell retelling like his stories. So I wanted to do a line fully around that.

SPEAKER_02 14:52

I remember you telling me about the the lead tip thing. I never had heard that before. The difference between the gold arrow tip and uh lead tip.

SPEAKER_00 15:02

And he'd shoot them both at people. Just the gold, obviously, is like making people fall in love and love um obsession, like lust. Um, where like love wasn't in the first place, then they would shoot, and it's like you think you see the cartoons with like the hard eyes, and then they're just like following the person, right? Which is an obsession, and like spiritually, we have some items that are obsession-based already. And traditionally, Cupid's gold tip arrow isn't like a two-sided, it can be an unrequited love, but you make people fall in love. Mine was more like it it enhances because I didn't, we already have an obsession thing, and then his lead-tipped arrow is it breaks it up. Think of it like a breakup spell, or like you're thinking it's like the ultimate ick, um falling out of love, breaking up, dis uh discomfort, strife between people to separate. So sometimes you need that when you're like fully ready to be done, or you put an obsession on somebody and you need to break it, lead tipped, which makes sense for him to have both sides. It's duality, I feel like with most things, like gods, goddesses, spiritual. You have even if you're not thinking of gods or goddesses, like there's balance, yin and yang, there's balance in both things, so he holds both.

SPEAKER_02 16:03

So and you have the look book to go with in. The lookbook looks awesome.

SPEAKER_00 16:08

Yeah, and this was beautifully printed. Like, I was really not sure. That's why we have like 20 copies of these.

SPEAKER_02 16:12

Are you like throwing those in with orders or are you?

SPEAKER_00 16:14

No, I wish like I just I feel like maybe in the future we could offer one. It was my first time ever making a magazine, and I should have like, in hindsight, when you read like a Cosmo or something, they have like a blurb about what this is, what the the edit. I don't have anything about the Euros edit. I don't have like even the date that happened here. I did put Miles and myself's name down here because of like who the shoot was done by, but like I should have put more words. Oh, it's still like whispering. I know. Um so maybe I I need to redo it, add some extra pages, and go on. So I think we will in the future. It's just it was just something to try.

SPEAKER_02 16:50

I think it's cool. I think it's cool just do like a look, but you don't have to do like a full like hundred-page magazine. Well, 100 would be insane, or even like 50, it's cool to have a lot of.

SPEAKER_00 17:00

Well, I think I think like max we could do 15 because there was so many other pictures that we didn't get to use. And y'all haven't seen it yet, but there's like we did like uh when after Lucifer fell from heaven into hell, like he's like pouting, and like we redid one of those shots. It's literally so good. And I would love to put it in here. Granted, it says go with the euro sided, but I just think like it was really good. I haven't put that online yet. I like that one. You haven't seen it. She's whispering at us.

SPEAKER_02 17:23

I know, I don't think they can hear it. You keep bringing it up, so I'll put it up here and see if the mic picks it up.

SPEAKER_00 17:28

Careful not to Yeah, wait. Oh my god, don't drip it. She's like, oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 17:38

There it's all done now.

SPEAKER_00 17:44

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 17:45

Do you remember what flavor?

SPEAKER_00 17:47

I hate pulp as well.

SPEAKER_01 17:48

It's foamy and pulpy tastes so good to me though, and it's like because of the presentation, it looks ruined, but it's gonna taste so good. I know it.

SPEAKER_00 17:58

But that's how you give me stuff, and you're like, he's so excited. It's like sticky, it's bubbly, it's foamy, it's pulpy. Oh my god. Is it time to try it or what? I'm gonna put this away just so it doesn't get messy.

SPEAKER_02 18:10

Let me pour out some of the foam and then uh get like some paper towels in a couple.

SPEAKER_00 18:14

We can share a cup.

SPEAKER_02 18:15

Yeah, but um, let me grab some paper towels and pour out the foam in the sink.

unknown 18:18

I got you.

SPEAKER_00 18:20

This in the middle of the pot is crazy. It's great. I mean, it gives us something. That was a surprise. It's insane work. Oh my god. Quick commercial break. We've been talking about uncrossings a lot. If you feel like your relationship's been crossed up, your money's been crossed up, the evil eye's nastily on you. Dates are falling through, people are being weird and shady. Check out Moonlight and Sage's Uncrossing, evil eye work, and or cleansing things. Hello, if you're looking for more money, get your fast luckin' money. Love you guys bad.

SPEAKER_03 18:56

So you're gonna try this kombucha. You haven't liked any of them?

SPEAKER_00 19:00

No, I don't like kombucha.

SPEAKER_03 19:01

I really and it's like have you had like a hard kombucha before?

SPEAKER_00 19:04

Yes, that's different, and I still don't really necessarily like it. I'll drink them, but I just no, I don't like damn well.

SPEAKER_02 19:13

I guess quickly we can-you can still be excited. Don't let it um I'm trying not to let it ruin.

SPEAKER_00 19:20

Oh, here's her experience. Oh my god. Why does it look thick? Same. Why'd you okay? I really don't need this much.

SPEAKER_02 19:32

No, it's fine. You'll you'll you'll like it enough that you'll want to drink so the whole bottle. Wait, Miles, are you getting a video up there? Oh yeah. Can you pick up the color? Look at that color.

SPEAKER_00 19:44

The color does look very pretty.

SPEAKER_02 19:47

Dude, it's beautiful. It's red, just like the it looks like the magazine.

SPEAKER_00 19:54

Okay, hold up, let me quickly fix my shirt. Okay, there we go. Cheers. Um, cheers.

SPEAKER_02 20:08

It tastes very good to me. That's good kombucha.

SPEAKER_00 20:13

It's better than the last batch.

SPEAKER_02 20:15

Thank you.

SPEAKER_00 20:18

Tart? It's the flavor is good. The I still and I feel like the apple cider vinegar taste is a little bit less than the last batch you made. But there's I wouldn't electively What are you picking up though?

SPEAKER_02 20:30

Are you picking up the hibiscus?

SPEAKER_00 20:32

No, but I feel like hibiscus you don't taste so much. Do you know what I'm saying? It's like an after.

SPEAKER_02 20:38

I'm feeling the mint.

SPEAKER_00 20:39

Yeah, you can taste the mint, you can taste the lime. Is there no pomegranate in there? You sure?

SPEAKER_02 20:43

Raspberry grapefruit.

SPEAKER_00 20:45

Okay, so it's you can definitely taste the raspberry. Oh, yeah. The grapefruit for sure. You could definitely taste the citrus. The blend is good.

SPEAKER_02 20:54

Sounds like you like it.

SPEAKER_00 20:55

That's not what I said.

SPEAKER_02 20:57

So I'll make you another batch.

SPEAKER_00 20:59

No, thank you. Also, I feel like if maybe it was strained out, it wouldn't be. I just like even when you look at the cut the left. Oh, I don't know.

SPEAKER_02 21:09

You are so spoiled. People would kill to try this. Kill is crazy. They would.

SPEAKER_00 21:13

Kill is crazy.

SPEAKER_02 21:15

I think they would. I would.

SPEAKER_00 21:20

Everyone would stay away from Dylan. He's willing to kill over some freaking kombucha. Yeah. Um, upon the second taste, you can taste the apple cider, but the the flavor is there. The raspberry is good.

SPEAKER_02 21:30

Well, now we have now we have a drink that we can enjoy while we're chatting. Sorry for ruining the whole beginning.

SPEAKER_00 21:38

I think it's perfect, actually. It's a great thing.

SPEAKER_02 21:40

It's entertaining. It's like watching a building on fire.

SPEAKER_00 21:44

No, it wasn't that bad. I mean, it I knew it was gonna bubble, but I didn't expect it.

SPEAKER_02 21:47

It's never going like that.

SPEAKER_00 21:48

Well, that's how things happen.

SPEAKER_02 21:50

I mean it's super carbonated though, that's pretty good. I was worried it wasn't gonna be It's good for your belly. It's good for your gut.

SPEAKER_00 21:56

They're taking the gut stuff seriously in the last year. Which is good.

SPEAKER_02 22:00

We've been gut maxing.

SPEAKER_00 22:02

We have been gut maxing. And to be honest, it's worked. Which is like a great thing. But also at the same time, now that like if I don't know if you got okay, if you're new to the podcast, slash if you just like haven't seen me in the last couple years, I had a bunch of stomach issues and also like mental health ones. So it compared Which are connected. They are just in general, but also like I was asking some, I can't remember which doctor, um, about bipolar two and like the stomach connection. It's like insane. In general, and correlation.

SPEAKER_02 22:30

Yeah, there's no, it's not, there's no causation, but there's correlation between the mental health issue and um and I have um celiac, but I was eating low FODMAP and my stomach was messed up, and like no mat I think I talked about this when I was like in the bipolar two video, but like no matter what I was eating, I had literally malabsorption.

SPEAKER_00 22:50

Like it doesn't matter what I was eating, it wasn't it wasn't absorbing into like the line of my stomach. And like when I had my colonoscopy and endoscopy, those like little hairs. I think they're called phylas. I could be wrong. The little hairs on this, they're not hairs, but like this the things that sticks out on your stomach to like grab onto nutrients and foods were more singed literally off. They weren't there, so like it was hard for me. I was just like skinny and sick sister. So we tuck the tuck, wow, we started going yeah, way me, started doing like you know, new meds for my bipolar, started doing lots of different therapy and changing a lot of stuff. I do exercise now, and I was it like for me, I was like, I'm skinny, I'm not gonna exercise and make it like I don't need to extend any more energy. But I think honestly, it's been helping me stick on to like more weight and like protein. But I've been like, I couldn't eat leafy greens for like six years.

SPEAKER_02 23:40

And now you've been having salads like that.

SPEAKER_00 23:42

Like almost every day.

SPEAKER_02 23:42

It's crazy it's like you just missed it.

SPEAKER_00 23:44

Well, and broccoli, I used to love broccoli, but then I couldn't eat like it would make my stomach so bloated. I it like there it was hard, and it wasn't like oh, I'm a little block. Girl was like, and then everything, it would just be so bad. So there were so many foods that I couldn't eat, and then slowly over the last year, I feel like year and a half now, really. We did we do a lot of prebiotics and probiotics, and just like really, really do I do whole foods. Obviously, sometimes I eat like snacks, or we'll have like we'll go and get ice cream or something. But we've been eating lots of whole foods, working out, getting my little protein, and making sure you get your fire. It was hard to eat fiber before though, because it was just like hard on my stomach. But things are good, we're gut maxing, so this is part of that.

SPEAKER_02 24:20

I just like hear you say that gut maxing. I thought I invented that term too. No, I think one of the marines said it at work.

SPEAKER_00 24:27

Gut maxing, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 24:28

Cause I was eating just the Greek yogurt, and uh he's like you're eating like Greek yogurt and like kombucha and like yeah, no pickled, like pickled skin kombucha. He was like gut maxing.

SPEAKER_00 24:41

We do pickles.

SPEAKER_02 24:43

Ooh, I like that. I'm gonna skip.

SPEAKER_00 24:44

He is Dylan's a healthy boy. He's like the skinniest boy I've ever met.

SPEAKER_02 24:48

Oh, dude, I wanted to I wanted to tell you the story. Skinnying everyone. No, I wanted to tell you the story of uh everything I did for lunch yesterday. I'm so scared. It was so embarrassing.

SPEAKER_00 25:00

Can I cut it? Can really quickly, can I cut in about his Greek yogurt thing? I make him Greek yogurt sometimes. We'll do like the plain Faye, like 0% Greek yogurt, and then I'll put honey and then whatever berries, and he does chia seeds and protein on top of it. And so I make his with the chia seeds and the protein, and I leave the that out of mine, and I just put berry and honey in mine. I give it to him in the morning, I go to work at eight or a little bit earlier, and he said that he leaves his yogurt out, not in the fridge, for hours, and we'll just eat it. And he's like, Oh, it's fine, dairy doesn't go bad.

SPEAKER_02 25:31

That's not what I said.

SPEAKER_00 25:33

You're lying because Paulino was around.

SPEAKER_02 25:35

Dairy goes bad, milk goes bad. Dairy goes bad eventually. Yogurt can sit out. No, yes, it can for like a long time.

SPEAKER_00 25:44

No, it can't.

SPEAKER_02 25:45

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 25:46

What do you think about that, Miles? No, literally, that's disgusting.

SPEAKER_02 25:49

Greek yogurt can't sit out. Not only can't sit out, it's probably good well past its expiration date. I've had it past the expiration date.

SPEAKER_00 25:57

Dylan will eat anything past the expiration date.

SPEAKER_02 25:59

He doesn't care. That's not true. It is. I'm very strict about certain things like like milk, chicken, you can't touch once past that expiration date. But like fucking Greek yogurt, room temperature Greek yogurt sounds like a nightmare. I had to read an essay in college called like on it was called like on uh trash. Oh, it's like trash surfing or trash.

SPEAKER_00 26:22

Oh, yeah, people that do that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 26:24

This guy was literally wrote like a long essay about how he was just living off of when he was homeless of just eating other people's trash. And I always remember one of the things he said was he was like, yogurt is totally fine. He's like, I'll pick it up out of the trash. Now I'm not doing that, okay? I'm just eating it. It's just letting I'm letting it sit out for like a few hours before I eat it.

SPEAKER_00 26:45

That's a few hours is insane work.

SPEAKER_02 26:48

Well, I'm still here, so you're no his stomach is like iconic.

SPEAKER_00 26:53

Like no, but even when you were talking about that, my friend Paulina's fiance is a doctor and he's a stomach doctor, and he was like, I wouldn't recommend that.

SPEAKER_03 27:01

Well, well, I think we have to remember that Dylan is probably like really advanced in gut maxing. Yes, he's been doing it for a long time. I'm on a different level.

SPEAKER_02 27:10

I don't think normal people should do it, but I think once you're once you're an advanced level of gut maximum. I'm at an advanced level. Untrained stomach handle it. But once you get to my level where you're like bottling your own kombucha and you're just eating like kimchi and whatever else, then you're fine. Build up a tolerance level, yeah, which is where I'm at. So don't try this at home. But please don't try it at home eventually. Don't take medical advice from me. What are we talking about? Don't even take dietary advice. I do. You do whatever you want. I'm not giving you guys advice. Like whatever you want to do. I'm just telling you that if the yogurt's out for like three hours, I'll still eat it. I don't care. I'm not ashamed.

SPEAKER_00 27:52

And also, I'm like, there's a fridge at work.

SPEAKER_02 27:54

Dude, well, here's a yeah, but here's another thing. Think about when were fucking refrigerators invented.

SPEAKER_00 27:59

They weren't making yogurt Greek yogurt when there was no refrigerators. I They weren't. I they weren't.

SPEAKER_02 28:07

Jamie, look it up. I doubt it. It's a it's just a cool. The Greek, it's the Greek were probably eating yogurt thousands of years ago.

SPEAKER_00 28:17

They weren't. Anyways, what did you eat for lunch yesterday? That was so scary.

SPEAKER_02 28:20

Well, now I'm even now I'm gonna be even more embarrassed because all off of the back of the whole No, because they need to know.

SPEAKER_00 28:28

I'll say what I ate for lunch yesterday.

SPEAKER_02 28:30

One of those things where I didn't have any food for lunch, so I went to Sprouts during my lunch break, and we like to get the like rotisserie turkey, and they don't always have it. And so the last time we wanted it, one of the Marines went and he couldn't get it. So now it's like, well, now like we all kind of wanted even more. So I went, I wanted to get the rotisserie turkey, and they had it, so I got that. It's really good, it's it's just like lean protein, it's perfect. And then I wanted to get some milk, so I went to the milk section, but the gallon milk was cheaper than the half gallon. So I was like, okay, well, I might as well get the whole gallon. It's like literally less money than a half gallon of milk. So I got a whole gallon of milk, and then I was like, well, what am I gonna eat with this stuff now? So I was like, let me go find like a side or something to go with the turkey. So I got Greek yogurt and cheese.

SPEAKER_00 29:29

I got Swiss cheese slices, and then I to go with the turkey, Swiss cheese slices to go with your turkey and I know.

SPEAKER_02 29:35

I just hold on. I know. And then I was like, Well, what am I gonna eat with so I got a baguette for the bread? Yeah, nice. And then I came into the office, and every time I come in, the Marines are always like they're on his food, always what do you have?

SPEAKER_00 29:50

What do you have? What do you have? What do you have? The Marines, I cook something, they're like, what's in there?

SPEAKER_02 29:55

Yeah, because they don't have kitchen, so they can't make it. What is that? I sat down and I put a gallon of milk on my desk, a whole tray of rotisserie turkey. Oh my god. I have a fucking baguette and then sliced cheese. And I'm just, and then it was like one of those moments where you I didn't even think about it, but it's like if like metaphorically you like saw yourself in a mirror, you'd be like, What is what have I become? What am I doing? So I'm sitting at my desk with a gallon of milk and a whole tray of turkey to myself, and I'm just like eating, like okay, maybe I'm I did I was doing the thing. We pulled up the video where I was like, uh the It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia video, where they're like, Frank, what are you eating? And he's like, a hoagie. And they're like, that is not a hoagie. And he's like, I make the sandwich in my mouth. And he's just eating ingredients of a sandwich and just making it.

SPEAKER_00 30:48

Have you seen those Balkan men that eat their Balkan lunches or whatever? It's like that.

SPEAKER_02 30:53

Yeah. So, and then like if out of context, if like someone came into our office, they'd be like, Why is this guy like what is this guy doing? And I would have to explain, like, well, the gallon was cheaper. And like, out of context, if I'm not explaining that, I just look like a crazy person.

SPEAKER_00 31:10

So I had tuna salad and crackers yesterday for lunch.

SPEAKER_02 31:14

See, I gotta just start doing something normal.

SPEAKER_03 31:16

Yeah, like that. Yeah, I no, I I'm gonna lean in and say go further.

SPEAKER_02 31:21

Go further, go further, take it a step further.

SPEAKER_03 31:23

I honestly to where they they can't even like you gotta push them to be like, all right, this is what's going on, dude.

SPEAKER_00 31:29

Like try to like set a he comes in with the weirdest snacks, too. I'm like, we have food at home.

SPEAKER_03 31:35

I know quite interjection with the Greek yogurt, uh, it was being used since the 5th century BCE.

SPEAKER_02 31:42

And they didn't have refrigerators back then.

SPEAKER_00 31:44

They probably weren't. Maybe they made it and they ate it right then.

SPEAKER_02 31:48

Maybe. But maybe not, probably not. If you're making a big batch of yogurt, you can't.

SPEAKER_03 31:56

Probably, but the survival was the most insane gut maxers of all time. They were, you're right. They made it out there. Yeah. That gut's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 32:07

Disgust. I've been like on, I don't know if you guys know, we talked about it on live stream a couple weeks ago, D'Andro Wallace talk. Love him. Um, he talks about sweet potatoes all the time, and he's like, the sooner that you cut cut open a sweet potato, put it in the oven for an hour, and eat it with some lean ground beef, like the better. And I've been doing that. I do not do the cottage cheese because I don't like cottage cheese. I don't do the hot honey because I'm not gonna put honey on dinner. I don't know. Um, well, maybe I I do a hot honey with like a pizza or something, like if I was doing chicken wings, but I can't really eat like fried chicken. I do it with steamed broccoli, my freaking lean ground beef and those sweet potatoes or the Japanese sweet potatoes like multiple times a week. It's so good.

SPEAKER_02 32:48

That's a healthy meal pro.

SPEAKER_00 32:50

It's very tasty. I have it for lunch today and probably dinner tonight. Unless I do a salad.

SPEAKER_02 32:53

My favorite part of that was when I took you out to dinner and you said I want to get something different, let's go out tonight. So I took her out to dinner.

SPEAKER_00 33:02

No, I was in the bathtub and he was like, get out. And I was like, leave me alone. I'm hanging out. And he's like, We're going to dinner. I was like, ooh, okay.

SPEAKER_02 33:09

So I took you to dinner and you're like, I want to get something different. All I've been eating is ground beef, broccoli, and sweet potatoes. So I took her to a restaurant. She ordered steak with potatoes and vegetables. And the vegetables were broccoli and carrots.

SPEAKER_00 33:24

And it was like a fingerling potato. It's different vibes. And she was like, This just hits. This is fine. It's so good. And I feel like it's a good one. Yeah. Steak is different vibe.

SPEAKER_02 33:35

Have some more kombucha.

SPEAKER_00 33:36

I'm okay, thank you. I'm fine. Thank you.

SPEAKER_02 33:42

Oh, yeah. So my whole thing at lunch was like $37 too, and that's gonna last me like four, three, or four meals. Perfect.

SPEAKER_00 33:51

Well, it's a good vibe.

SPEAKER_02 33:52

That was another thing. But I I mean, we were joking how funny it would be if like out of context, somebody just came into our office and was like, who is this guy? Because everybody I work with is their uniformed active duty military, and then I'm a civilian.

SPEAKER_00 34:05

Eating like imagine.

SPEAKER_02 34:06

And they're just like, who is this guy? Like, I'm not wearing a uniform, I'm just sitting at a desk with you're probably over your food too. Like enough of me. How are you?

SPEAKER_00 34:18

I'm doing good. I I had um I haven't done Pilates in like three weeks, unfortunately.

SPEAKER_02 34:22

Are you scared to go back?

SPEAKER_00 34:23

Well, yeah, and I was supposed to go tomorrow, but they canceled. I loved Pilates. I hurt my neck really bad, I think at a Pilates class. It was actually the morning before we did the shoot, and then I I had a Sunday morning class, and then I went Monday morning and my neck was hurting. And that persisted for about three weeks. It was fucking is it better? Yeah, I haven't done anything though. I didn't I didn't do Pilates for like two or three weeks.

SPEAKER_02 34:44

I know. I'm hoping whatever that issue was is like done.

SPEAKER_00 34:47

Yeah, I know. It was really hard.

SPEAKER_02 34:49

Hopefully you don't like re-injure it.

SPEAKER_00 34:50

Better not. No, it was like we could I couldn't lay down, I couldn't get comfortable for a couple days. It was hard to like look around. And then we went to Mammoth, and like it was really difficult to sleep because like laying down really hurt, and I had like a sleeping pill. I did all the things, like nothing really worked. Um, and then I just told everyone I was like, we're not talking about my neck, like we're not doing this, like we can't, it's too much. No, I think we're good on that. Um, I was like, we're not talking about the neck, we're not doing that. And then I started seeing a sports therapist that was like, Did I massage it? Is that the right word? They he was like working on my neck, um, which both made it better and worse. It hurt a lot during the time and the next day, but then it made it better. And then I don't know how I reheard it or if it was just like a couple days later, it was hurting really.

SPEAKER_02 35:33

He did a good job fixing it up.

SPEAKER_00 35:35

He was very nice.

SPEAKER_02 35:36

Yeah, he's really good.

SPEAKER_00 35:37

Dylan said he left him a uh what's his name?

SPEAKER_02 35:40

His name's Chris from Resolve Sports Therapy in Oceanside. He's uh probably one of the best sports therapists, I think. Wow.

SPEAKER_00 35:49

He was really nice because I was anxious going in there. I thought it was a chiropractic because I didn't set the appointment up. Dylan was like, You're going. And I saw like a chiropractic table, and I was like, I'm not getting my neck snapped up. Like, you could easily mess me up. And I was in pain. I was like, This is uncomfortable. He was like so gentle with me. Well, I mean it hurt, but he was like so gentle, like talking me through everything, letting me know what was going on. And it's like a big man, you go in there. I'm like, he's gonna and like they're like not in your face, but it was like he was really nice. But I was like, I'm gonna get snapped up. But Dylan left a note on there, he told me later, and I was like, So was he being nice and gentle with me? Because you left like the longest note being like, please be gentle with her, la. I'm like, top of his game. Yeah, shout out to him, he's really nice.

SPEAKER_02 36:28

And so you're next better now.

SPEAKER_00 36:30

Yeah, it's been a few weeks back in. Losing the muscle definitions in the arms would suck. So I was doing really good with my bodies.

SPEAKER_02 36:38

I like how you get too worried about building muscle. Like you think like you get worried where you think if you do like 10 push-ups, then you're gonna be like, that's gonna be too much where your muscles are gonna be. You're so dramatic. You actually think that though.

SPEAKER_00 36:52

No, I said I'm not going to the gym to lift heavy because this is the thing. What I actually have photos from when I was in high school and I was swimming, and my traps were fucking huge. And like there was nothing I could do about it. And I also like have a different, not to be like, I have a different build, but like I have my arms are thin and long. So like I will take an arm definition, but I don't need my this is where I build a lot of muscle. This has always been just like my declete has been bony, so it's just like a very odd look to have like your traps be like how many push-ups do you think you could do? Like 10. And I have a video. Prove it, I'm in a skirt, prove it. No, we have a video of me doing them. He made me wake up one morning in the morning. He was like, How many I literally it was a TikTok thing.

SPEAKER_02 37:36

I didn't ask. Was it? Yes, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 37:38

You made me do them though.

SPEAKER_02 37:39

No, I did not. You said I bet I could do 10 push-ups.

SPEAKER_00 37:42

And he was like, and it was the normal way, not the like knees down way.

SPEAKER_02 37:45

And you said, I'm gonna give this a shot.

SPEAKER_00 37:47

I didn't that was before my Pilates day. Anyways, I don't want to be doing push-ups.

SPEAKER_02 37:51

We people want to know.

SPEAKER_00 37:54

No, they don't.

SPEAKER_02 37:54

I want to know.

SPEAKER_00 37:55

You I'm sure you would.

SPEAKER_02 37:57

We still haven't had our swim competition. Yeah, swim race.

unknown 38:00

I wonder why.

SPEAKER_02 38:01

This summer we gotta do it. I know, dude. We gotta do it.

SPEAKER_00 38:04

Get it underwater.

SPEAKER_02 38:04

I don't I'm not even like overly confident or anything.

SPEAKER_00 38:08

Oh, that's right.

SPEAKER_02 38:08

They can go in the water and just want to know. I'm just curious if I'm a faster swimmer than you. I know you're not. There's one way to find out.

SPEAKER_00 38:17

You you sink. And I'm ready, I'll do it right now. Like you will sink and I'm like gonna float.

SPEAKER_02 38:22

I will go my arms are longer than yours. Whenever. You're the one that's been holding it up.

SPEAKER_00 38:27

I work 24-7. And it's winter time.

SPEAKER_02 38:31

So what? I'm not going outside in a pool in the winter. Rain or shine. I will go. You see, you're already making excuse me.

SPEAKER_00 38:37

It sounds excuse of just not doing it.

SPEAKER_02 38:39

Winter time, it's like 70 degrees outside.

SPEAKER_00 38:41

It's been really warm in Southern Southern California.

SPEAKER_03 38:44

I think Friday it's supposed to be like 80 something.

SPEAKER_00 38:46

It really did say like 80. I'm good. Yeah, it's gonna be like 79 on Friday.

SPEAKER_03 38:50

After the live stream. Oh.

SPEAKER_00 38:54

So stupid. We live stream it and record it.

SPEAKER_03 38:58

I can hear the Mario Kart music already. No, I'm not saying no.

SPEAKER_00 39:04

I will say, if you haven't seen the like, we already plugged the vlog with Paulina's um engagement, but I was like, for weeks being like, you let me go. I was ping-ponging our round. Miles put the funniest edit together for that, and they did slow-mo it. I was like, you let me go, you let me go. Paulina did let me go.

SPEAKER_02 39:24

I told you. Yeah, it's in the video.

SPEAKER_00 39:26

You let me go too, though.

SPEAKER_02 39:27

No, I didn't. I would I couldn't even have been holding you. The way he lined us up, you guys were holding on to my tube. My feet were on top. I had the camera here, and I couldn't grab onto your guys' tube.

SPEAKER_00 39:39

I was slung, slang, flung.

SPEAKER_03 39:43

I was vindicated. You were spinning like a top, bro. Yes, and my and my neck was hurting during that time.

SPEAKER_00 39:49

It was I was like, this is and that's why we did that because I was like, I can't go skiing or anything, and my neck hurts. If I fall, it's gonna be bad. So they take me to that and like skiing anyways.

SPEAKER_02 39:57

No, I remember I was like I tell everybody that this is my first time snowboarding, and I was going down with Ken, and I was like, Yeah, she would.

SPEAKER_00 40:03

I've snowboarded before. Really? Yeah, we went to West Virginia a couple times and snowboarded. Were you any good? I can make it down the thing. I fall like once or twice, but I would make it. I don't like it. I don't like it. The feet are just trapped in the city. No, because like what are you talking about? You're flipping around, your legs are all trapped, I'm falling, I'm twisted.

SPEAKER_03 40:20

We've only gone once. Quick uh baddies versus bottleneck update. Stuff has changed.

SPEAKER_00 40:26

Stuff has changed. Baddies versus bottleneck. We now have a night crew. Hey, we have two crews. People are working from 6 a.m. to 10 p.m. We I think we made it through all the Black Friday orders and we're moving forward. Things were crazy. We do have a new warehouse manager, which we didn't have that position before, and hopefully that's gonna alleviate a lot of the issues. It's been insane.

SPEAKER_02 40:47

Yeah, we're getting we're trying to get the orders out. It's been I think a big part of the disconnect is like we don't show anything behind the scenes because we shouldn't.

SPEAKER_00 40:56

Yeah, it's also hard because it's like the spiritual how to make it of it all.

SPEAKER_02 41:00

And then I just think that the customers don't see like all the hard work that's going on behind the scenes.

SPEAKER_00 41:05

Or how many people we have. And how many people we have, yeah, how big everything's gotten and how we're trying to scale it. Well, and like with a lot of uh people that work for me, that's their only job, it's their full-time thing. And so so many people are like, oh well, they have opinions on this or that. And I'm like, but I have these are these people's full-time jobs, yeah. So we can't just like either stop or we can't change. Like, there's a lot of there's also lots of rules and regulations in California and so many compliance things.

SPEAKER_02 41:30

So um Yeah, but if you guys saw everything that was going on here, hopefully it would be illuminating, but I don't know. Yeah, it'd be illuminating. Yeah, you'd be a little more understanding, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 41:42

There's a lot of people that are understanding, but then the people like recently and the emails have been so different, and it kind of does around Christmas time, lots of people get like kind of different customer service-wise. I think people experience that all over customer service. If you work because when I worked at Ulta, Christmas time was insane. People were so mean, like so mean. Um, but then you get them in emails, and it's like there was a couple weeks where even just going on my social medias, like my private page or my little Sassi's Stassi bonnet, which is like my like book account or where I talk about mental health, people were just like flooding the comments with just like crazy things about their orders, which I will always say it's like rightfully so that they had to wait extra long. Um, but we had a sale, and I kind of like le led into the sale being like, I'm not sure if we should do this, because like we when we put stuff on sale for Black Friday, we don't just put like the things that didn't sell for sale, we put everything on sale, and usually stores just put like you know their bottom sellers on sale. And we'd we talked about this before, but we'd gotten like the most sales that we in in a Black Friday that we have ever gotten.

SPEAKER_02 42:40

So it was a blessing, but you're caught up on the Black Friday stuff now, right?

SPEAKER_00 42:43

Yeah, yeah. We just finalized that, so that's good. Um, yeah, we have more, we're hiring more people. Retail's doing great. I think it's going well. I think we're on the right path. Yeah, it's just like always a lot. And I ended up getting like a Friday the 13th tattoo, which is so itchy right now. That was a can we say like that was a manic thing for sure. But all of us got Mile got a tattoo. A lot of us got tattoos that day. It's very itchy. Houses yours houses, how's your houses?

SPEAKER_03 43:11

It's good, it's not itchy anymore.

SPEAKER_00 43:15

For our next segment, we're doing unhinged spell advice. So if you want to get any unhinged spell advice with little to no explanation, and it's the most unhinged thing ever, drop him in the emails, we'll put it on here in the comments, or anything. Maybe yours will be chosen next.

SPEAKER_03 43:29

Yes. The guy I was dating abruptly ended things because he didn't like long distance after previously saying he was fine with it. He also didn't like that I overthink too much. We had no contact for a bit, so I did a come to spell jar, and he proceeded to block me on everything and stopped communicating instead. Sounds like a backfire. Prior to the come to spell jar, we would send each other TikToks and check in with each other. But after he blocked me, I stopped. I caught him viewing my TikTok account. Occasionally, but he wouldn't reach out or anything. So then, with the help of my friend Jackie, we did a few domination and other spells, and soon I am unblocked on everything, but he still doesn't reach out. Fast forward to December, he pops out with a new woman in a relationship. I'm heartbroken. I don't know what to do because everyone says we were the right person wrong time, but he's with someone. I pulled cards and they confirmed that his current relationship won't last. And someone doesn't want to be in it. Oh, one of them. I kept asking if I should do a breakup spell on his relationship, but the card said not to act on emotions and to just wait. Now it's February and I'm stuck. Advice?

SPEAKER_00 44:42

Can I give like advice first and then we'll go unhinged? Of course. Because I do have to preface this. Leave that man and his relationship alone. Because if it is right man, wrong time, it will do a full circle thing later. And then you might feel if you do the breakout spell, you do this, that and the third, and then later you guys get back together. It could be in the back of your mind being like, oh, well, I kind of like orchestrated this at this whole time.

SPEAKER_02 45:03

I'm glad you said it.

SPEAKER_00 45:04

Because it's a while we can do things, we not, we shouldn't always do it. And also, if I think like some people think, because we were long distance for like five years, thinking that you can handle long distance and actually going through it is like two separate things. So maybe he said in the beginning, oh, it's gonna be fine, and then you really find yourself not liking the situation of long distance because it does suck. It's lonely, it's isolating while they're doing stuff, you're doing stuff, and it just kind of feels very separate. So he could have changed his mind with that. And also, I feel like people always will wonder and kind of like view your page. Not everybody. I'm like once I'm done with somebody or something, like I'm not looking. I don't I don't really care. But it makes sense that he's looking. Um, and with the spell work that you must did, like it's pulling the energy. I wouldn't say do a breakup spell um or a third-party removal or anything like that. Even and here's the thing too, when I was like listening to the part about, oh, my card said somebody doesn't want to be in the late relationship. I am really careful also about doing divination on people that I've done spell work on um in that situation because you could, while I don't know, I'm not to say that you are maybe misreading the situation, but I'm always thinking people could have words up, their ancestors could not want it, and slash, or that person might be in their life right now to like it's a lesson, it's a what is it, the it's a season or a lesson. Like there's a word or there's a saying for that. And if they're not meant to be, then they'll break up. And then if the roads, I would then do like a come back to me or reconciliation or something like that. The unhinged part that I would say, this is like the best thing that I could say within the guides of the what I was saying on like don't break them up, do an illumination. May anything that are weird or anything that needs to show up or any miscommunications, do an illumination spell to like shine a light on all those weird things. And then I would, I mean, if you just want to be haunting and like thinking, you're already thinking about me. Why are you on my page? Why are you looking at me? I would do like the dream of me spells, yeah. Heavily, because then you're running through his mind. She wakes Okay, you know when you have like a dream about someone cheating on someone and they wake up pissed, you could do that about like if you want this isn't a breakup, it's just causing strife. And I'm not saying that you should do this, but it's unhinged. So I would have like dreams make sure that she's dreaming of you, and like why the fuck is she? Because I wonder if she knows about you. She probably does. And if not, then why is she dreaming about your man with another person? That would really suck. And I wouldn't say to do that, but if you wanted to do unhinged, have then dream of me. We do have a dream of me spell. Didn't we do that on live stream? I think so.

SPEAKER_02 47:24

Anyways, there's probably a video. Dylan. Show up to his house.

SPEAKER_03 47:28

No, no, just kidding. I don't know. I can't give you advice on like what's supposed to do.

SPEAKER_00 47:32

Do you have any long distance advice?

SPEAKER_03 47:34

I don't think you have to do spells. Now it's just your own pragmatic approach.

SPEAKER_02 47:39

I don't know. I'm not I again, like I these things are really challenging because I don't know all the like details of from what we were doing. It kind of sounds like he kind of like moved on. He might be like checking in, but it doesn't seem like he's like obsessed still. Now I don't know. Life has a weird way of like you said, like things coming back full circle. Maybe things have to play play out first.

SPEAKER_00 48:04

The cards need to be shot.

SPEAKER_02 48:06

But um, don't put all your eggs in one basket and just go out there and maybe you'll meet the next person. That's valid.

SPEAKER_00 48:12

I didn't say anything about that. Like while you're doing all these things, especially like okay, you're heartbroken that he's moved on. It's time to like let set your own horizons. And if it is meant to be, it will go back.

SPEAKER_03 48:21

Yeah. I'm curious anything how you would ever move on and not have the fear in your head of this person doing the same exact thing again of disappearing from yes.

SPEAKER_00 48:33

That that's also like I really don't give per people chances or options to treat me bad twice.

SPEAKER_03 48:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 48:38

So if you said that you're gonna do something, you change your mind and you're heartbroken over it, I'm actually great. You have zero option, like never again opportunity to do that. Cause like, no.

SPEAKER_03 48:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 48:47

Yeah, I would be like, even if you for some reason like found yourself in the same state or city and like now it's not long distance, it could be something else. He just ghosts you or he has to move for a job or something. It's just like not worth it.

SPEAKER_03 49:00

I say get one of your guy friends and start taking selfies with him.

SPEAKER_00 49:04

You have to start with like you go you're out to drinks and you just see his hand, like you guys are both like cheers and you just see a hand, or like you're you're you have to do it first. It's like a slow launch where it's not his face, it's just like like his arm or his like leg or something. You're at like a club, and you see somebody's hand like on you like this. But make sure his hand looks big, like it's taking up your whole, like, yeah. And then he's like, Who the f is that in a video like you're recording where all you can really see is your face and maybe like his chest, and then like play it out for a few weeks and then show his face.

SPEAKER_03 49:32

Yeah, yeah, you're right. That's your biggest, strongest gay friend.

SPEAKER_00 49:35

Yes, yeah, bring your baddest bitch out. Like, find him. Yeah, yikesy. Sorry, sorry, sister. Do some healings for yourself while you're doing spell work, you know, some illumination for you. Why what hurt about it? Was it that you actually are missing the person, or is it like because it's like an maybe an ego thing that he said he was gonna do one thing, he changed his mind, and you see yourself with another person? Are you comparisoning comparing because it's like comparison is thieves of choice? Yeah, sorry, sister. Sorry, sister. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03 50:10

Cutting it right at sorry, sister. Sorry, sister. Let's close out pod 15. That was pod 15. Well, we got we're doing a recording, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 50:19

We're gonna record another one. So we'll see you next week for pod 16 with a special guest again. Dylan, thank you so much for being here. And that was Dothy Spills.