Said Lovingly
Said Lovingly is the podcast for women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals ready to call in good love without lowering her standards, sacrificing herself, or chasing.
This podcast rewrites the narrative on modern love and dating. Each Thursday, Crystal shares powerful lessons, perspective shifts, and straight-to-the-heart truths to help you break old patterns, raise your standards, and embody the magnetic energy that draws in quality men who adore you.
These aren't surface-level dating hacks. It’s about aligning your energy, psychology, and standards so you date like a woman who knows her worth and gets what she wants.
With a track record of helping hundreds of women go from single to happily coupled with high-quality men, Crystal brings you the wisdom, humor, and real talk you need to transform your love life from the inside out.
Said Lovingly
Why He Keeps Seeing You (But Won’t Commit)
Frustrated that he keeps coming back but won’t step up? Here’s why it’s one of the clearest signs he’s emotionally unavailable.
If you’ve been stuck in a situationship—great chemistry, constant hangouts, but no real commitment—this episode is your wake-up call. You’ll learn why trying to get him to “see you differently” only drains your energy, and how to shift your focus back to yourself so you attract the kind of commitment-ready men you actually want.
You’ll also discover:
- Why his mixed signals are really just signs he’s emotionally unavailable.
- The hidden cost of obsessing over how to “make him choose you.”
- The simple identity shift that makes men treat you as high-value.
- What men actually mean when they say, “I don’t want anything serious.”
- How to stop settling for low-effort “situationships” and step into love that lasts.
If you’ve ever thought, “But the chemistry is so good, I can’t walk away,” this episode will set you free. Tune in and learn how to break the cycle of men who won’t commit—and finally magnetize the love you deserve.
Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.
Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.
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