Said Lovingly

7 Secret Blocks That Keep You Single

Season 1 Episode 10

Think you’re doing everything right but love still not getting the relationship you want? These secret blocks to love might be hiding in plain sight — keeping you single even though you’re more than ready for a committed, emotionally available relationship.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on seven subconscious patterns that high-achieving women unknowingly hold — the ones that make love feel harder than it needs to be. You’ll walk away with awareness that can instantly shift your energy, your self-worth in dating, and the kind of men you attract.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The “unspoken contracts” that keep you loyal to struggle instead of open to love
  • How friendship bonds (and family legacies) can secretly sabotage your dating life
  • Why holding onto your struggle story blocks emotionally available men
  • The independence myth keeping smart, successful women single
  • What to do when you realize your high standards have crossed into perfectionism
  • The subconscious identity shifts that make attracting love easier than ever

If you’ve ever wondered why you’re attracting the same type of man or why love feels like work no matter how much healing you’ve done — this episode is your turning point. Because once you see these hidden blocks, you can finally release them… and attract love with ease.

ABOUT THE PODCAST

Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.

Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.
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