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Said Lovingly
Said Lovingly is the podcast for women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals ready to call in good love without lowering her standards, sacrificing herself, or chasing.
This podcast rewrites the narrative on modern love and dating. Each Thursday, Crystal shares powerful lessons, perspective shifts, and straight-to-the-heart truths to help you break old patterns, raise your standards, and embody the magnetic energy that draws in quality men who adore you.
These aren't surface-level dating hacks. It’s about aligning your energy, psychology, and standards so you date like a woman who knows her worth and gets what she wants.
With a track record of helping hundreds of women go from single to happily coupled with high-quality men, Crystal brings you the wisdom, humor, and real talk you need to transform your love life from the inside out.
Said Lovingly
Deception & Delusion in Dating: Love Lessons from the Danish Deception
The viral Danish Deception story isn’t just internet drama, it’s also a masterclass in what happens when overwhelming attractions, love bombing, and fantasy show up in real-life dating.
In this episode we’ll explore some of the hidden lessons that any woman can apply to her own love life. We’re going beyond just, “don’t ignore red flags,” and offering practical insight and wisdom so you can trust yourself, stay grounded while following in love, and protect your heart (and bank account) without becoming jaded.
In this episode you’ll learn:
- The one practically universal deal breaker for all women dating;
- The reason the popular narratives about this story are missing the mark;
- The behaviors and patterns that made Onyeka most susceptible to this kind of scam (and how to know where your own vulnerabilities lie);
- Some fun tidbits about the Danish Royal Family;
- We’re also exploring the intricacies of romantic scams, drawing parallels to the Tinder Swindler case, including how to understand the psychological and emotional dynamics at play, recognizing the signs of a romantic scam, and maintaining self-awareness and caution in romantic relationships.
If you’ve ever been swept away, love-bombed, or have caught clips of the viral series, you’re not gonna want to miss this episode. (But even if you have no clue what I’m talking about, this episode is so juicy and you’ll wanna tune in!)
If you’ve ever been swept up, love-bombed, or convinced “this time is different,” this episode will recalibrate your entire nervous system for healthier, safer, more secure love — without losing the magic.
ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST
Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.
Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.
📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes out on Thursdays—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.