signs in real life and how to use them to your advantage

signs are everywhere and you can decide if you use them for you or not 

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Hello, hello, hello, and welcome back to Wild Already, where we are on the path to discovering our wildest self, and I'm here to help you discover your highest potential. I hope you enjoy today's episode. Let's talk about the things that we desire and signs in our real life that we are going to get them. I know this is a super spiritual topic and a lot of people are talking about it. But I really like it because if you start looking at your life like oh the things that I desire are coming to me because, and then even if you find the littlest things like I was able to get the gummy worm out of the package and eat it, amazing. Because the more proof that you can find that something is happening in your favor, that something is happening for you, that something is happening the way you want it to, even if it's just the tiniest, tiniest thing, amazing. So I um like I know you see those TikToks, like if this is happening, or if you're seeing this before the 10th of the 10th, I don't know, and then this is for you, and this is the message for you. And I always like to watch these videos because it's kind of like a little boost of like, oh yay, it's coming. But it is not like truly believable for me at least. If you believe in it, great, go for it. But for me, I like to look at signs in my immediate surrounding because I create everything in my life. And before we totally get into it, please remember I've told you this before, but I want you to always remember that if any information that you hear from me from anyone else, you want to check yourself if it is something that you align with. Because I could tell you something, and you're like, no, I don't like it at all, then fine by me. I want you to make up your own mind. I never want you to just blindly listen to anyone, not even me. Because I could I could talk the bullshit and you could be like, Oh, I'm gonna believe her, and maybe a week from now I'm gonna be like, Oh, that was bullshit, and then I could change my mind, and I don't want you to live your life like by me telling you what to do, absolutely not. Always make up your own mind, and uh thing that I like to do is this um knowledge that I'm listening to helping me like expand, like get bigger. So the and all be all of my rambling is make up your own mind, see every information that you get if it is something that is expanding your life or not. And then if it is expanding, I will go with it, and if it is not, maybe you take a little piece of it and be like, this is great, the rest I will just toss. And that would be a great way to acquire information about the universe, about how things work, and about who how you believe that it works, because if you don't believe the things that you're learning, it's not gonna be able to work for you as good. So, signs that it is working out how you want it to be. And I would recommend that you find as many signs as you can throughout the day that it is working for you, because the more signs you find, the more proof you have, the more your brain is gonna be like, it is working out, and the more it's gonna work out for you. So that's like a literal life hack to make things work out for you. Because if you, for example, want to have career success and you're in your office, and let's just say you have an office job and you see Sarah getting promoted. You're gonna be like, oh, two options. You could be like, oh Sarah got promoted and I didn't, it's so unfair, yada yada yada. Or you could be like, Sarah got promoted, I was able to see Sarah get promoted. Sarah and I do amazing work, and that means that I'm also on the path to get promoted. When it is how it is, you don't really know those details. But if you train your brain to see the success of others be equal to, oh that means I'm gonna be successful, like I already am successful, then it's gonna be a major shift for you and your life to be like, oh I'm successful, oh yeah, I see Sarah get a promotion, I see Sarah get a race, that's amazing. That means I'm a match to see it, that means I'm a match to get it. Okay? But a lot of people, a lot of people work really hard to be a match to something, like say this race in work. Let's say you work really hard to be to get this race, and then you see Sarah get a race, and automatically this I don't use it much, this terminology, but it would apply here, in my opinion. This lack mindset gets to you of like, oh Sarah got a race, so I don't get the race, and I'm not going to get the raise because Sarah gets the race, and that's where jealousy comes in, that's where comparison comes in, that's where this lack mindset comes in of like Sarah got it, so I can't have it. But even though maybe you are in a big company and there would be enough money to give each and everyone on your floor a raise, but in that moment you're like, I don't get a raise because Sarah got the race, and I'm not going to get the raise because there are not unlimited race options out there. Which is not true, because if your whole floor might do the most amazing job, they would be like, okay, we're gonna give the whole floor a race. Is it likely that the whole floor is gonna get a race? Not really. Is it likely that if you see how Sarah got the race and you equivalent that to you being a match to seeing a race, you being a match to getting a race, is way more likely that you get a race, or is it more likely that if you see Sarah get a race, you're like, I'm not gonna get a race, I'm never gonna get a race, blah blah blah bla blah. It is less likely that you get the race. I'll let you do the math. So, what we want to do is see everyone's success as a preview of our success. And I know this is hard because, like, let's say you don't like Sarah and you don't like to see her succeed because we are all humans and we all have emotions, and we all have people that we don't really like, and even if we try to do the thing like everything is positive and negative, this person's teaching me so much, this person's triggering me to help me master my emotions, even if we logically know all those things, it can be hard sometimes to communicate that to our emotions. So if you, for example, don't like Sarah and she got the raise, she got the promotion, and you could be kind of jealous of that, be like, I'm so much better than her, blah blah blah. But what is it helping you that you compare yourself to her and you're like she's worse than me, but she got the race. If your name's Sarah, I'm so sorry, just a name that popped up into my mind. So, what we want to do is see every success that we see, even if it is a person on the internet telling you they got the promotion or a raise or won a lottery ticket, you're like amazing. I'm seeing people make more money, that means I'm a match to making more money, that means I'm gonna get more money. Amazing. Okay, that's what you want to do. Someone got an extra fried egg on their rice this lunchtime. Amazing. It means they are a match to getting more, I'm a match to getting more, amazing, I'm a match to get getting more money, more fame, more success, whatever you want. See how even such crazy minor situations I'm trying to turn into I get more success. That's what I want you to do. Because the thing, you don't talk to this uh about this to anyone. I want you to do this all in your head because you're gonna sound crazy, like absolutely crazy to someone, be like, oh yeah, I'm gonna get a raise because I saw um Thomas get an extra fried egg on his rice this lunchtime, so I'm gonna get a race. Like, what logic is that? But has everything in your life always been logical? I don't think so, not in my life. And the thing about mindset work is if you can get yourself to believe that it's gotta be absolutely true. And seeing more food on someone's plate gives you more nourishment. I want you to think about this like that. Gives you more nourishment, gives you more energy. With more energy, you can do better work, you can do faster work, which will lead to, and I want you to go down this spiral of like being the the lawyer of your own subconscious and being like this is true because. And if you go down that route, it's gonna be so much more fun to think of ways how this is true. Like you could do it with everything, even with something not positive. Let's say you were in traffic this morning, and you were able to listen to a great song and jam out to it, and maybe do some emotional work with this song because it was really emotional, you were able to cry, and that was great because you were now able to be more emotionally balanced, which will lead to whatever, whatever, whatever. Or you were totally in road rage, which was great because that showed you an imbalance that you had about not about the road rage, but about something that made you angry and you ignored and da-da-da-da-da. So you can try to do this with everything, and it's not this toxic positivity like everything's great. No, everything is equal parts, good and bad. But if you train yourself to see how it's always working out for you, and that's the important part, how it's always working out in your favor. If you have this belief totally set in stone and everything's always working out in your favor, then even the bad situations, you're like, great, I was able to learn this and this and this from it. And it's gonna make it so much easier to expand your life in the ways that you desire. Because if you always think you're the victim, you never get what you want, you're always the last pick, then you're always gonna be the victim, the last pick, and you never get what you want. But if you think even the things that are on the outset not looking like they're working out for you, are helping you get this and this and this because all the greatest people had um immense obstacles to overcome. So every obstacle you overcome can be like every obstacle I overcome leads to a massive gain in my life. That's something that I personally um am working on the belief. And I would recommend everyone to do it because you could live even if you if your life doesn't change and if it never changes, the mindset is the difference between you being happy and you being not happy. You and your twin sister could live the exact same life in the same company, you could even like perhaps marry twin brothers and be like like nearly identical. And one of them thinks they're a victim and never get what they want, and one of them thinks this uh that everything's working out for her. Who do you think is gonna be happier? And at the end of the day, it is not the things that we want, it's the emotions that we want, and we believe those things will get them for us. But if we are happy right now, then we can create from a pre place of not wanting, and that is where we can truly create amazing things and that last and that we are not like dependent on. I hope you enjoyed today's episode, and if there's anything more I can do for you, reach out to me. 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