Season 3 Finale!

Episode 31 is finally here and my heart is overflowing. The season finale of season 3. AHHHH. What a beautiful journey this has been.

Since February second, when this season began, I have grown in ways I could not have imagined. I have stretched, healed, surrendered, and stepped deeper into who God is calling me to be. Every lesson, every shift, every moment of clarity is because of Him. I am sitting in pure gratitude as I reflect on how far I have come and how faithfully He has guided me.

As I move into sabbatical, I am thankful that this is where I landed. I pray that something shared across these thirty one episodes has reached you in the way you needed. That you learned something new about yourself, expanded your thinking, softened your heart, or found a little more courage to grow. My intention has always been to share what I know and what I have been taught so that someone else can rise a little higher. I hope you feel inspired to do the same.

We really do have to be the change we want to see in the world. It may sound cliché, but it is real. It is on you and me to show up with love, integrity, compassion, and intention. I am committed to offering what I can, being who I am called to be, and doing my part to make this world better.

The best is still unfolding, and I am so grateful for you on the other side of this audio. Thank you for rocking with me, growing with me, and choosing to be here throughout this journey.

See you for season four in May.

Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord plans to prosper you and not to harm you plans to give you hope and a future.

This Is Where I Landed with Shayla
I’m in my bold, soft, God‑led becoming era — and I hope this episode reminded you that you’re allowed to take up space too. Step into your power, step into your softness, and choose the version of you that feels aligned, peaceful, and undeniable.

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Remember, you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.

Transcript

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Hello, hello. This is where I landed with Shaylin. I'm so happy to have you here. If this is your first time landing with me, well, hi, how are ya? I hope that all is well. I hope that you come back again. I hope that something lands with you. I hope that something sticks with you. And if you are a return lander and have been rocking with your girl for a hot little minute, as always, hello, babe. Guess where? I just I I can't even get the words out. I was gonna say, guess what today is, but I mean, literally, guess what today is? Season finale of season three of this is where I landed with Shayla. What the heck? I honestly can't believe it. It's wild to think and know that I have once again, now for the third time, okay, thank you. Pat myself on the back, uh, recorded three 31 episodes in a season of The Pod. Again, if you are new here, this is season three, episode 31 of This Is Where I Landed with Shayla, and I really am so happy to have you here. Wow. Like, actually, wow. When I started this podcast, I was lost in the sauce. I was dealing with a lot. Uh, just a lot, a lot of grief, a lot of trauma, a lot of just confusion, overwhelm. Uh yeah, like I was just down in the dumps, to be honest. And, you know, my faith really got me back to a place where I'm just so thankful for, and I'm just filled with complete gratitude for how far God has brought me and all the things that He has brought me to. I thank God every day that I don't look like what I've been through because if I did, who oh lord, I don't even want to know. I don't I don't even want to know what that would look like, but I thank God that I don't look like anything that I've been through and that he continues to just shine his favor on my life and just love me and care for me and just have such tenderness, like the tenderness of God is unmatched, and I'm just in awe every day of just the goodness of God, honestly. And uh, as you know, if you're a return lander, uh your girl is on sabbatical, babe. Okay, that's what we're calling this season, which I mean technically it literally is sabbatical, but um, yeah, I am on sabbatical for two months, and I'm thankful to have the opportunity to have a moment, really, like to just be still, to focus on myself, to do the things that I never not necessarily never, but like didn't have the chance to do or focus on, you know, with working and having a job, and this season is very new for me. Uh, you know, like it's definitely an adjustment to have literally the whole day um to myself to do whatever it is that I want to do and whatever that my heart desires, and I'm thankful to God because I literally was praying for that. Um, I was praying for clarity, I was praying for the opportunity to be able to hear from him in a way that just really would just change things for me. And I was still, I was doing all the things, I was listening, and God spoke to me very clearly, and I acted and through obedience here here I am on sabbatical for two months, and this whole journey, season three specifically, has just taught me so much about myself. I have learned so much about myself throughout this time in recording the pod, and I I believe that you can hear that as you listen to the season. Uh, you can go back um and uh you know go through any episode in you know the pod, but season three started on February 2nd, 2026, season three, episode one, did you miss me? In true Shayla fashion, in true Leo fashion. I had to ask because I know you did, and I came back, introduced myself with allow me to reintroduce myself on uh episode two, where I just shared a little bit about me as a person. Seasons one and season two were really me going through the journey of healing and self-discovery and therapy and God and church and yoga and walking and journaling and just trying to really heal myself to get to a place where I am now. And yeah, allow me to reintroduce myself is really getting to know Shayla as the person, as the creative, as the the woman that I am becoming and have become that I don't think you know listeners got the chance to really. I mean, you did, but like not personality. And I feel like season three has just been so fun because I've been able to really showcase my personality because I'm just in a lighter space um to give that and to share that, and the conversations that we've had in season three have been amazing for me to go back and listen to. And I hope that as you on the opposite side of the audio have been listening to these episodes, that you have gotten something from them, that you have learned something about yourself, about the world, about God, about whatever it is that I may have been talking about. If Moesha Had a Podcast. Woo! Clap it up, clap it up for if Moesha had a podcast. That is episode eight, and our most downloaded episode of season three, which means a lot to me because journaling has really been a game changer for me. Journaling in the morning, at night, during the day, uh, you know, just getting those thoughts out of my head and onto paper. Again, game changer. And I shared with you guys, you know, that journey of journaling and how it has been such a huge help for me. And I gave some prompts on there, some suggestions, um, you know, to just be able to heal yourself, honestly. Like the whole premise of the pod really is healing, growing, becoming, learning yourself, unlearning yourself, discovering yourself. What do you like? What do you don't like? What do you want to, you know, maybe change, right? Like, how do you want to show up for yourself? How do you want to show up for people? That is something that I'm continuously always trying to understand and grasp the concept of for myself in my life, and just sharing that with you guys, you know, like I was having this conversation the other day with one of my friends, and just sharing, like, we hoard so much information when it comes to healing and betterment that is actually a little bit scary, and it's really just because people don't have the vulnerability and the transparency, and really the courage and the boldness to say, like, this is what I've been through, and this is how I was able to walk myself out of a season, and that is what I wanted to really do with the pod. Is that and literally in real time, that is what I have been able to do, and it has been so healing for me, and that is what is the most beautiful thing of the podcast is that yes, I'm here in my closet right now, sitting talking to you, and just sharing what I have been through and how I was able to get through it in hopes that someone on the opposite side of the audio that may be experiencing something similar, that may know someone that is experiencing something similar, or maybe you will experience something similar in your future, right? Like good, bad, or indifferent, and you will have the tools to know how to get yourself through situations. And I am thankful that God continues to use me, that He's continuing to grow me. I mean, I give all glory to God. You already know that I rock with the man upstairs heavy, okay? Like, there is nothing that I will do, can do, have done, will do that I will not give God the credit for. And I'm just thankful. Like, I'm just in a place and a season and a time in my life where I am connected to God in a way that I have never been before, and I'm excited to see what he's going to do um in this season, right? Like again, I am on sabbatical for two months. I have never had this opportunity before, and I'm going to take full advantage of it. I'm not going to let one single day pass me by without seizing the day, however, I feel fit to do for me. And I think that that is just so beautiful to be able to do. And again, that is not something that I take for granted at all. I know that people don't have the opportunity to do that, to, you know, like not work. You know, like, and it's it's insane to say that, like, that I'm doing that, right? Like, but it's a journey for me to continue to heal myself. And I am excited to continue to do that. I've gone, I've done so much healing, and healing is not an easy thing, it is very draining, like mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, financially, okay, because hello, therapy is not cheap, babe. But um, you know, like it's worth it though. It's worth it. And if I can encourage anyone, you know, therapy is a beautiful experience. I was not always pro therapy, um, because it's like, okay, I want to talk to this person and what are they gonna do? Like, huh? Like, what, like what? What are you gonna tell me about myself that I don't already know? Right? And it's like I had to get through that experience of like, first of all, girl, you don't know everything, even though you think that you do, because I just feel like I've had so many different life experiences. It's like I I'm can pretty sure like put some shit together and like make it stick. But it's like having a therapist that can help you to really understand your patterns, your reasons, your thoughts. That was life-changing for me. And I'm thankful that I have started therapy um through my journey of healing with just like the mourning that I was going through and the grief and the trauma. And my therapist uh specializes in trauma, and so I think that's also really great to have someone that you know has the knowledge to be able to help me go through what I'm going through. I'm I'm a very logical person. Two plus two must equal four. Okay, it like it it does, like there's no other explanation, like that's how my brain works. Um, and so I've said this on the pod too, to be able to name things and say, like, okay, like this is this. Like, it's like okay, like then my brain is able to process it, and you know, I think it's a beautiful tool to be able to help yourself go through and process and understand yourself better. And ultimately, that is what I have done over the past almost a year because I launched the pod on uh August 23rd. I always get the 23rd or the 22nd mix because I uh uploaded it early because I didn't know what I was doing. August 22nd, but really the launch date was the 23rd. But anywho, yeah, almost a year. It's April, April, May, June, July, August. Yeah, so four months will be oh my goodness, it'll be one year of the Oh my gosh, what am I gonna do? Am I gonna throw a party? What's the vibes gonna be? Where am I gonna be in four months? What is life gonna look like in four months? Like, what the heck? Do you like? Do you know? Like, that's like that's the beauty is that we don't know. We don't know what is to come, we don't know what the future holds, but I believe that my future is so bright. My future is so bright, and I remember saying probably in like one of the first few episodes of this season that season three was going to change my life, and it did. But my life changed within this time frame of recording this season, and my transformation and my growth and my bloom has just been so beautiful to see and to just hear myself speak and be and acknowledge and again like just be so transparent and vulnerable. It's scary. Like, I you know, I share a lot and I go deep because I know that there is someone on the opposite side of this audio, and I also know that a lot of times people feel alone, and I talk about that on the pod all the time, like saying, like, you are not alone, and I just remember just feeling so alone and remembering that I wasn't, and you know, that's that's what life is about. Life is about learning and going through experiences and being hurt and being sad and being lonely and being angry and being happy and being filled with joy and you know, like learning yourself, learning the world. There's so much that we don't know that we've never experienced that we will one day, but we haven't experienced it yet. And when you have those experiences, you're like, oh my gosh, what the heck? How am I gonna get through this? I have no idea what I'm doing. This is all so new to me. And it's just like, okay, well, you are correct. It is also new. Give yourself a little bit of grace, and grace has been literally my my saving grace is understanding, Shayla, you need to pump your brakes, babe. I was at Asia's house today, and we were hanging out, and we were talking, and I had said, like, which is true, like, I put a lot of pressure on myself because I hold myself to a high regard, as everyone should. But we also shouldn't put pressure on ourselves to the point where we just like get overwhelmed by the amount of pressure that we're putting on ourselves. And one thing that I have to acknowledge and give myself grace for, but also give myself fucking kudos for, okay, because I'm 30 years old over the past 10 years. I have created the most amazing career for myself that I am so proud of. And I did it with God, of course. Hello, didn't do it on my own, but that was hard. Like, I did not go to college. Um I'm just really smart. I always tell people that I'm like, I didn't go to college, I'm just very smart. I teach myself everything that I need to know. I do like I love to read. You guys know that I'm always reading, I'm always like looking up information. Um, you know, like I have taught myself a lot, and I'm a I'm a quick learner and I'm a sponge. I'm receptive and I'm also resilient. And when I get knocked down, I always get back up ten times better than when I, you know, was up before. And that is just again, resiliency. And uh, you know, the career that I've been able to create and you know have for myself at 30 years old, holding a position as high as I did in corporate and climbing the corporate ladder for a multi-billion dollar corporation, one of the most popular, you know, brands in the world. I did that. And I loved it while I loved it, and it was great while it was great, but then it wasn't great anymore. And it served its purpose for sure because it's taught me so I've learned so much about myself in business and in corporate and in leadership, and I love leadership, and that is something that I understand is that I don't like the corporate life. I realize that the corporate life is not necessarily for me as the person that I am with the morals that I have. And if you are, you know, a corporate baddie, you'll understand, I'm sure, uh, what I mean. But, you know, I have definitely exceeded my own expectations when it comes to my career, and I'm very thankful for each and every person that has helped me along the way. I've had really great managers, really great leaders, really great directors, and I've also had some really shitty managers and some really shitty directors and some really shitty leaders along the way of doing this for 10 years, and I'm just so excited to see what God is going to do next because I know that I can do absolutely anything that I want to do. I can do anything that I want to do, I can do anything that I want to do, and to have that level of faith to know that I can do anything that I want to do is what Shayla on Ooh, okay now of course we're getting emotional, but Shayla on August 22nd when I sat down in the closet did not have you know I didn't have I had faith, of course, always have faith, always have faith. Hello, like my faith has always been strong, but this level of faith and just belief in God, but also myself. I didn't have the faith in myself, and I have found the faith in myself to know that I can do absolutely absolutely anything that I put my mind to because I've done it before. And being so locked in with God, He has given me a level of confidence to know that He has done it before and He will do it again. And this season has just really blown my mind with just where I have come from in this season and where I am now. And I think the seasons of the pod are really cool for me because I get to reflect and think back. Like even when I just do like the recap episodes and I'm sitting here or on the roof or wherever the heck I'm at, and I'm just talking to y'all, telling y'all about my weekend, like it's cool to be able to reflect back in that way, you know, and like share experiences and things that I've learned. There's been so many episodes on this podcast that I've literally gone out of therapy and I'll come and record and share something that I learned here. Like, not everybody has access to therapy. So if I can go to therapy and come on here and share something that I learned with someone that, you know, again may not have access to it, then I have done, I have done my uh my job, right? Like I have done my part, and we just all need to continue to do our parts, like, and I think that's the most important part, it's just remembering that, yes, like you are your own individual person, you have your own individual life, X, Y, and Z, but we are meant to be in community, like we are that is what the world is supposed to be, and the world has just come to this, like just very nasty place that I just don't like, and you really have to be the change that you want to see in the world. And truthfully, like I know some people will think that that's like very cheesy, but I mean, obviously, I don't give a what you think. But but it's like some people would think that that's cheesy, right? That like, oh, you have to be the change that you want to be in the world or that you want to see in the world. But that is true though. Like, the world is not going to change around you just because the world is gonna change. Like, it's someone is going to have to do something in order to provoke change, and I'm willing to provoke change however I can. And I encourage you on the opposite side of the audio to invoke change however you can, wherever you can, whether that is in your family and your friend circle at your job. You know, I speak up uh a lot. Hello, I like to speak clearly. Um, and I have a lot to say, and I know how to communicate very well to be able to get my point across, and I think that that's important that you should do that. You should always speak up for yourself, you should always speak up for others as well. I don't think that we should ever see someone that is, you know, going through something that, you know, like an injustice, whatever the case may be, right? But like sometimes people can't speak up for themselves, and I'm more than willing to speak up on someone's behalf, and I'm, you know, I'm willing to be a mirror. Like I like I always say, I'm willing to put myself out there so that others can see their reflection in me. And I hope that there has been something in this season that I have shared, that I have said that has either made you laugh, that has made you think, that has provoked something in you, you know. That is that's that's what it's all about, you know. Like that's how we should all be thinking is what can I do to provoke someone in a positive way to do something differently, you know, like to be different, to show up different, to just have a different vibe, somehow, some way. Like, I just want to make the world a better place. Like, I it sounds so cheesy to say, but like I do. I just want everyone to be happy, and I just I it's because I know what it's like to be down, like, and because I understand that, I just don't want anyone to feel that way because I know what it's like, and so I just try to spread well, I don't try because I do, but I just spread positivity and love and good vibes and encouragement, and that's really what the pod is, and that's what I've realized is that it's just me coming on here, sharing, talking, being myself, and you know, like y'all are listening and y'all are coming back, and you're sharing it and you're downloading it, and I'm appreciative of you, and you know, I want to continue to grow the pod and just continue to share that, share the light, share the positivity, share the encouragement. You know, I didn't go through all the things that I went through just to learn from them and not share it, and I want to continue to do that however I can. Again, your girl is on sabbatical. This is the season finale of season three, baby. How do we get here? Like, that's really crazy. I recorded 31 episodes, released them Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays three days a week, okay. Season one, let me remind you, okay, because huh? Most people don't get past 10 episodes of a podcast, by the way. So let's clock that. Your girl has released 31 episodes for three consecutive seasons, okay? Give me my flowers. Period. I deserve them because I have worked really, really hard, okay, to put these episodes out. Um and I have shared a lot, I have shared a lot of myself, and I would do it again, and I will continue to do it because why not? Why not? You on the opposite side of the audio are listening, and you on the opposite side of the audio are learning something, and I have published a total of 93 episodes, which is insane. I am at this very moment, let's do some stats because you know your girl loves stats because I'm logical. Uh 234. I wish I could have solved the 2333, but it's okay. Uh 234 downloads all time. Amazing, amazing. 63 countries, 277 cities, which is absolutely amazing. Thank you to all of you who listen to uh to the pod on Apple Music, those of you that listen on Spotify. We've also had some people download on the web, like web browsers, excuse me, which is absolutely amazing to see that the pod is in, you know, being listened to in different countries is crazy. Uh, I don't even know how one would find that, right? Like, obviously, like I I know, like, obviously, like you can like find pods on like the app and stuff like that, but to know that I'm up there, you know, like and people are finding me and listening is absolutely amazing. 85% of my listeners are in North America, 2% in South America, 2% in Europe, 8% in Asia, 1% in Africa. That's absolutely amazing. I'm thankful for each and every one of you all over the world, which is kind of crazy to say. Um, and I am thankful that you know you are here with me. And this journey has been absolutely amazing. Again, I have learned so much about myself, I have learned so much about the world, I have learned a ton, and I'm just excited to continue to keep learning and keep growing and just continue to see what God has in store for me. Your girl is going on vacation because what would a sabbatical be without vacation? And again, shout out to God because He is the way that God is that's what I'm saying, God is doing something, He's doing something, and I'm here for it. Uh, but the way that everything has kind of just continuously fell into place just shows me that God's timing is the best timing, and for that I am always thankful. Your girl is going to Denver, honey. I've been to Denver for work, uh, but I have never been for leisure, and I'm going with my uh my sisters, so that's exciting. Uh, two of my older sisters, one lives in Denver, and the other one lives here in Vegas, but they grew up in Denver, and so I'm excited to see their stomping grounds, meet some family that I've never met before, and just I'm getting meet my uh nephew for the first time. That's crazy. I have three sisters. Uh, my sister Judy lives in New York, and so she has my nieces and my nephew, and I love them, and so I have another nephew that I'm excited to get to meet um and hang out with. You know, I love the kids, love the kids. Do I want a kid? You know, no, but like, do I like them and like hanging out with them and then giving them back to their parents? Yes, Auntie Shay Shay is here for it, so I'm excited about that. I leave on Thursday, and then honey. Okay, today when I was at Asia's house, I was talking to her because I've been looking, I've been talking about a vacation for a hot little minute. Have I not? All season three. You could go back. I probably talked about it every other episode, probably. And so Asia and I are going on a past day cruise, freaking frack on a cruise ship. I should vlog. Oop. Maybe I will. I maybe I will. That'll be fun. Uh so yeah, and that'll be in May, and I'm excited about that. So, yeah, I have some trips coming up, which I'm very thankful for because I need them. I need a trip, I need a change of scenery, I need to be around good company, to just explore, to experience, and to continue to grow. And I feel like you really get to learn a lot, see a lot, ingest a lot, digest a lot, and hear from God when you travel. I love traveling because it also allows me to see the beauty that God has created in Denver is absolutely beautiful, and also to be on, I've been I've been praying to go to the beach. And the fact that I'm going to be on the ocean sailing, God is good. God is good, and He knows exactly what you need when you need it, and He will make a way, okay? Literally, He will make a way and He will make a way out of no way. I'm going to Denver and I'm going on a cruise. And the way that God literally did that for me, that was not me. It's not me at all. I know that. I know that everything that is happening to me right now in this season of my life is God. 1000%. And hey, if I can get you to believe, well, as my grandma says, I'm an evangelist, which means that I have done my evangelist job, honey, okay, because there's nothing like having a relationship with God. Nothing. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. It has been the best thing that I've ever decided to do. And I've always had a relationship with God. Been in church my whole life was literally Bible study in the morning, uh, church, usher board, choir, praise dance, like the whole shebang, babe. So yeah, it's just as I've gotten older, I've been able to create my own relationship, and I think that's the great thing, and that's something that hey, maybe you'll want to start your own relationship with God. And I mean, hey, all it takes is a face of faith of a mustard seed. You can look up a mustard seed, they're very, very small. All you gotta do is believe, babe. All you have to do is believe. You can go back and listen to uh Atmosphere of Faith. That is an episode of this season. I'm trying to find it really quick so I can tell you what episode it is. Episode 16, Atmosphere of Faith. And I also had a prayer or shared a prayer. I prayed basically for you on the opposite side of this audio. So if you are in need of prayer um or interested in how to pray, I also did kind of share a little bit of that, an atmosphere of faith. So you can find that. I shared some good music, some good vibes, the moon, the music in me, episode 14. We talk about forgiveness. Forgiveness is a flex, episode 13. Um, so yeah, I mean, your girl's always giving you the gems. Give yourself the credit you deserve. A weekend of vibes, a week of surrender when the waves come back because grief is consistent. Uh, and then my one and only guest of season three, Tay, a friend's eye view featuring Tay, episode 22. Come on. Uh, you're almost there. Keep going because hello, you know I'm gonna encourage you, babe. A weekend of little joys. What March planted, April will bloom, which is also really cool because if you are a return lander, then you know that I do recaps uh every month as the month changes. And so I had where is it? Uh-uh, dear February. I heard you. That was episode 12. And then you can go and listen to what March taught me, episode 26, what March planted April will bloom. And then, of course, you need a little encouragement. I had my grandma on the pod. How cool, I know. I shared a conversation uh that my grandma and I had, and uh, it was really good. And so grandma said what you needed to hear, episode 29, Food for Thought was episode 30, and here we are now, season three, episode 31, season three finale. Uh, I can't believe it. Of course, I'm gonna cry now. Oh, jeez, Louise. This is just amazing, and I'm just so thankful for you on the opposite side of this audio. I'm just so thankful for how far I've come uh in these months and in these days and in these weeks, and I'm just thankful for the continuous growth and for me never giving up on myself. And I hope that you never give up on yourself. I hope that when times are hard that you find something in you that helps you to keep going, and I hope that that is you, and I just want you to know that you are so valued, you are so loved. If no one told you I love you, that's why I say that at the end of every episode, at the end of every episode, I say that I love you because knowing that someone cares about you is something that helps you to keep going. And when I was at my lowest point and I was ready to just end it all, remembering that I had people that really loved me and care for me helped me to continue to keep going because I know love is patient, love is kind, okay? And love will help you having that family, that friend, right, to be there for you, to love you, to pour into you, to encourage you. It's so important, and you on the opposite side of this audio has done all of those things for me, and I again your girl is so grateful. I'm filled with gratitude because what gratitude is the best attitude. I will be back, of course. It is 10:33. Confirmation. Uh, I will, of course, be back. Duh. My plan, should I tell you my plan? My tentative plan. My tentative plan is to return on May 4th. Um, may the force be with you. LOOL. Um, but that is my tentative plan. That may or may not change. We don't know. But I think having a good two weeks of solitude and to just continue to be, enjoy my sabbatical, lock in, rest, do everything, do nothing, whatever it is that I want to do. Um, and then yeah, come back. Uh so yeah, follow me on Instagram and TikTok at landed pod l-a-n-d-ed-p-o-d. That's where you will find me. That's where I will be. Um, and yeah, I'm going to be posting more. That is my goal. I have not started yet because I literally was had didn't even have Instagram downloaded on my phone. And I think that's really the hardest part is that I really do want to post more, but like I prefer not to have the app on my phone, aka not use it. Uh, but yeah, I just need to, I guess, just do it, right? There ain't nothing to it but to do it, so I'ma do it. I will. Um, but yeah, it's always so funny because this is now the third time where the season has ended, the episode is over, and I just cannot stop talking because I don't want it to be over, but it is, and all good things must come to an end. And season three was absolutely amazing. Remember, you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. There's absolutely not one person on this planet that is fucking with you, babe. There is no man on earth that has the swag like you, the charisma like you, the charm like you. Your beard is connected, big bro. Like, nobody is messing with you, nobody is touching you. The emotional intelligence that you have, the awareness that you have, the charm. Nobody the waves, that's you. I don't know if you have waves. I don't know. I just made that up. But you may, and your waves are on the swim. And I love that for you, big guy. And girl, you already know you are that girl. You are that girl, you are her. You are her H-E-R, cap Capital H E R, period. You are her. There is no one. No one that is touching you. That smile, that laugh, that charm, your hair, your body, your just swag, your style, the way that you care for people, your kindness. Ooh, come on. We love a kind baddie. If you're not kind, you're not a baddie. Okay. Um, there's nobody. Nobody. I am telling you that. Because you have to believe it. You have to have the confidence in yourself to know that you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. Don't let anything, anybody make you feel like you are less than because you are not. You are more than enough. You are more than enough. You are you are a bag of chips, babe. All that in a bag of chips, okay? Tens across the board. And that's on that. Be kind. Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. This we are it's just so much going on in the world. The least you can do is be kind. Be kind to others and be kind to yourself. Okay? Hold on to those things. Hold on to the fact that you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whoever you choose to be, whomever you choose to be, and be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle, including yourself. So be kind to yourself because the way that we can sometimes speak to ourselves only makes things worse. We don't have time for that. The world will try to tear you down. You need to build yourself up, okay? I'm spitting. Spitting, the gyms is dropping. I know. I'm just over here just giving the word because I know that somebody on the opposite side of the audio needs it. Because I know that I'm her. I know that I'm that girl. I walk around with my head held high, my shoulders back, my chest out. I walk with confidence because I know who I am. I know who God says that I am, and I walk in that. You cannot tell me anything about myself, honey. Flaws and all. I love me. There, I know that there's nobody like me. I know it for a fact. That's how I want you to also look at yourself. I know that I'm beautiful, I am gorgeous, stunning. It's sickening, actually. Like, but hey, shout out to the man upstairs because he did something glorious with me, honey. But I want you to have that same level of self-love, not because of how you look. And I've said this before in the pod, it is never how we look. The exterior is a bonus. It's about the interior. If you have a beautiful, pure, loving, light, kind-hearted interior, the exterior has nothing to do but to show up and be the same. And that's that on that. Okay, so I'll leave you with that. But to do my final closing for season three, episode thirty one you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. And I love you.