The Black Sheep Diaries

Episode 5: The Smear Campaign — When Families Rewrite Your Story

Dr. Michelle Scoggins Episode 5

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They couldn’t control you with guilt, so now they control the story about you. Smear campaigns are one of the most painful tactics families use against the Black Sheep — rewriting your story so you look like the villain.


In this episode of The Black Sheep Diaries Podcast, Dr. Michelle Scoggins unpacks:


  • What a smear campaign looks like in toxic family systems
  • Why families rewrite your story when guilt stops working
  • The deep impact smear tactics have on identity and relationships
  • Tools for reclaiming your truth and taking back your narrative


✨ Reflection Prompt: What’s the biggest lie they’ve told about you — and what’s your truth?


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