The Black Sheep Diaries
Stories of family dysfunction, boundary-setters, and important stories they never wanted you to tell.
The Black Sheep Diaries
Episode 6: The False Self — Who We Became to Survive
Have you ever wondered if you’re living as your true self — or the version of you your family needed you to be? For many Black Sheep, survival meant creating a false self — the caretaker, the achiever, the peacekeeper, the rebel — anything to stay safe and accepted.
In this episode of The Black Sheep Diaries Podcast, Dr. Michelle Scoggins explores:
- How the false self develops in toxic family systems
- The roles we play to survive — and how they linger into adulthood
- Why shedding the false self feels so terrifying
- Practical steps to reconnect with your authentic self
✨ Reflection Prompt: What role did you have to play in your family — and who are you underneath it all?
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