The Black Sheep Diaries

Episode 6: The False Self — Who We Became to Survive

Dr. Michelle Scoggins Episode 6

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Have you ever wondered if you’re living as your true self — or the version of you your family needed you to be? For many Black Sheep, survival meant creating a false self — the caretaker, the achiever, the peacekeeper, the rebel — anything to stay safe and accepted.


In this episode of The Black Sheep Diaries Podcast, Dr. Michelle Scoggins explores:


  • How the false self develops in toxic family systems
  • The roles we play to survive — and how they linger into adulthood
  • Why shedding the false self feels so terrifying
  • Practical steps to reconnect with your authentic self


✨ Reflection Prompt: What role did you have to play in your family — and who are you underneath it all?


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