THE RE:STARTACADEMY

THE GRIEF THAT WONT END-WHY YOU ARE STUCK IN VICTIM MODE AFTER DIVORCE

EYITEMI SAMUEL Season 1 Episode 20

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Why won't this pain go away?

It's been months—maybe even a year—and you're still replaying the same conversations in your mind. Still angry. Still hurt. Still stuck.

You look at other women who've moved on and wonder: "What's wrong with me?"

In this episode, I'm breaking down The Law of Perpetuation and showing you exactly why your grief won't end—and what to do about it.

Here's what you'll learn:

  • Why your mind keeps replaying what happened (and how to stop it)
  • How you're unconsciously recreating your pain every single day
  • The 4-step process to break the mental loop
  • How to redirect your focus and finally move forward
  • My own 3-year journey from stuck to free

The uncomfortable truth: Whatever you focus on expands. Every time you replay that fight in your mind, you're recreating it. Your mind doesn't know the difference between what's happening now and what you're replaying in your thoughts.

But once you understand this universal law, everything changes.

This isn't about toxic positivity or "just get over it." This is about understanding how your mind works—and using that knowledge to set yourself free.

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