The Greater Journey: Stories of Transformation with Gregory Rutledge
Everybody wants the highlight reel. Nobody wants to talk about the trenches.
The Greater Journey is where we flip that. I sit down with entrepreneurs, leaders, and creatives to unpack the setbacks, the doubts, and the messy middle that actually make you GREATER.
Each conversation follows my GREATER framework — Grounded in your story, Reframe your beliefs, Embrace learning, take Action, Transition with purpose, Empower your network, and build Resilience through it all. This isn’t theory, it’s real people sharing the real stories that shaped them.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or like you were made for more, these episodes will remind you: your story isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of YOUR greater journey.
The Greater Journey: Stories of Transformation with Gregory Rutledge
Safe Connect ID: The Tech That Could Save Lives
What if a single piece of technology could prevent the next tragic police encounter?
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Greg Alexander, founder of Safe Connect ID, and his business partner Eric Kibodeaux, a 30-year medical professional and public health advocate, to explore a groundbreaking solution to one of the most urgent issues in public safety today.
🛑 People with disabilities are 4x more likely to experience harmful or fatal interactions with law enforcement.
✅ Safe Connect ID is changing that—by connecting first responders to real-time data that can de-escalate situations before they turn tragic.
We discuss:
🔹 The real-life tragedies that inspired this movement
🔹 How the Safe Connect system works (and why it’s needed now more than ever)
🔹 The power of combining medical insight, tech, and advocacy to protect vulnerable communities
🔹 Their strategy to roll this out nationally — from partnerships to policy to AI
🔹 What YOU can do to support, share, and save lives
Whether you're a parent, educator, policymaker, or just someone who believes in justice with compassion — this conversation will move you.
👉 Visit https://safeconnectid.com/
to learn more, get involved, or register for yourself or a loved one.
This isn’t just a project. It’s a public safety revolution. And it’s already saving lives.
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0:02 [Applause] Welcome to the greater journey. I'm your host Gregory Rutled, author of From 0:08 Waiter to Greater and creator of the greater framework. On this show, we 0:13 don't just celebrate the highlight reel. We dive into the trenches, the doubts. Welcome to detours real, the lessons 0:20 uncut and the breakthroughs that shape who we become. Each conversation here is going to 0:26 follow the greater framework which you can find in my book from waiter to greater. My goal is to uncover the 0:31 moments that made my guest greater so you can find the courage to step boldly into your own journey. Let's jump in. 0:39 Welcome to the greater journey. All right. On today's episode, we have 0:46 future Dr. Greg Alexander and his COO Eric Kibido. Did I say that right? You 0:53 did. I did. Okay, perfect. And they are with Safe Connect ID. And I'm not even going 0:58 to like take away any of the glory of what this is and what it does. I'm going 1:04 to let them tell you what it is. But let me just say this. Mental health is 1:10 something that's been a buzzword, but it needs to be more than a buzzword. It needs to be something we take action on 1:16 because there are people that are dying every day because people are uneducated about how to handle 1:22 mental issues properly. And what they are bringing to the world is something 1:28 that every parent of a child with special needs will be much much 1:34 appreciative of. So what's the story guys that started you 1:40 that most people don't know? Well, it started with my dissertation. 1:49 You know, I wanted something to write about that was passion that was going to help, you know, people. And it was just 1:59 a blessing to know that um I came across this subject or this gap in mental 2:07 health. And so the research that I was doing was showing that people with disabilities, 2:14 people with autism, down syndrome, uh Alzheimer's, dementia, or even just any 2:23 disability at all, um are four times more likely to be um shot or um 2:34 misunderstood by police during their encounters. Yeah. And so what I did is, you know, I 2:42 thought if I'm going to write about this and do the research on it, then I'm going to build it. 2:47 So I uh found a great um uh tech engineer. 2:55 Okay. And um we got to work and uh I totally 3:01 funded this out of my pocket. Wow. And that's how passionate I am 3:07 about this. And um it it has been this 3:12 journey that helping individuals 3:18 um in need, you know, especially, you know, I have 3:24 relatives that have um you know, uh disabilities 3:29 and that could be easily misunderstood by police. And and I didn't tell you that I'm a police officer. I'm a current 3:34 Texas police officer right now. And so when whenever we come across 3:40 someone, let's say the little emblem on your tag, you know, the the handicap, it 3:46 doesn't tell us anything, right? I mean, we just see an emblem and we we 3:51 walk up on the car with we know this person has a handicap, but 3:56 what kind of handicap do they have? Could be a limp. It could be a stutter. 4:01 It could be anything like disability, you know, it's it's something people can actually 4:08 manipulate the system to get. Mhm. And you know, you never know who's 4:14 manipulated the system, who's pretending. So this safe connect ID tell. Okay. So, I know I knew kind of a 4:22 little bit of the story beforehand, but for the listeners, like what what was the d what was the thing 4:30 that that made you decide? Like I know writing the dissertation about it, being 4:35 passionate about it, but there's something under there that's driving this. Like usually someone's not 4:41 passionate unless there's something deeply personal to them. And I don't 4:47 know if you're comfortable sharing this, so I'm asking, but I don't want to mention it unless you're comfortable 4:52 with it. Well, it's not that I'm not comfortable sharing. It's just I 4:57 don't know that my other half would be comfortable sharing that. That makes sense. Okay, we'll leave that 5:02 alone. Um, there are family members that have a disability and you've seen 5:09 it in your work and that's enough. That's all we need to know. That's all passion you need. If you go back and and 5:15 look at the news, I mean, we have an incident in Idaho that happened several months ago about a 17-year-old with 5:21 nonverbal autism. They get shot in the front his front yard by police and killed. 5:27 Gosh. And so we need to 5:32 we need to give police tools that they can use in mental health situations. 5:41 And that's that's the passion. Me being a me being an officer, I'm tired of seeing police getting killed by by 5:47 mental health challenges and then police shooting people with mental health challenges. 5:52 Yeah. Yeah. Kind of goes both ways. It's it's not a it's it's a highway straight through. 5:59 It's not a bike path meet meets a highway, you know. I didn't I didn't even think about that perspective. The officers getting killed 6:05 for for mental disabilities. Like that's that's a perspective I literally did not 6:10 ever think of. Mhm. Wow. And so, Eric, where where do you come into this equation? Uh because I I 6:18 I found out a little ahead of time, but I just want the the audience to see how 6:24 this is the perfect combination of people to be working on this. Well, I mean, my background is in 6:30 healthcare, so I've been in the medical field for close to 30 years. Um, and so 6:35 dealing with some of the, you know, patient privacy and the HIPPA aspects of the platform and everything, that's kind 6:41 of where my skill set comes in. But just being a doctor and understanding a lot 6:48 of these even physical disabilities. Um, there's times where some people are 6:53 on some they may be struggling with a certain disability, but then they may also be on medications that slow down 6:59 their processing. Yeah. which escalates a police encounter. Um, sometimes you have an 7:05 individual who has certain specific triggers, which could be the strobe 7:10 lights of the police car or um high volume demanding officers where if the 7:17 officer knew ahead of time before he got there, it it may allow him to treat uh 7:25 individuals differently rather than escalating a situation. and it may deescalate a situation. 7:31 So, yeah, that's just basically how how I kind of fit into the picture here, 7:37 you know, and I have I have personal experience with this. Um, some a relative of mine, we'll just keep it 7:42 anonymous all the way across the board, right? Um, was in downtown Fort Worth 7:48 and he's waiting for an Uber, blacks out and wakes up in a jail cell with bruises 7:54 and his body hurts and has no recollection of what happened. the last thing he remembers is waiting for an 8:00 Uber. Um, so now he's sitting in this cell with public intoxication charges 8:05 for having a seizure. And it's like like h how is this okay? And how are we in 8:11 2025 and no one's done anything about this? But here you are. So I have to 8:17 ask, you know, there's there's always that that opposition, that disruption 8:23 that follows your intention. Was there a moment in all of this that you felt overlooked or under underestimated? 8:34 Um, I really haven't talked to a lot of people about this in a way that produced 8:41 any negativity. Um, they all think we need this. Um, I 8:48 think I think a lot of them that I've talked to are a little bit scared because this is something new. M 8:54 um you know I've heard mentions about what if the government got a hold of 8:59 this uh how would they use it? Um 9:05 but as far as really having any kind of challenging um I think the biggest part would be 9:12 HIPPA. That's probably I get most questions about HIPPA. And a lot of people don't understand is 9:19 HIPPA, there's no HIPPA with police. Um, as long as police are using it in an 9:25 investigative or probable cause manner. Now, they can't they can't drive around in their patrol cars, jump on their 9:32 NDTs, and run their ex-wife mental health to see what she, you know, was going on. That's a violation of HIPPA. M 9:39 they have to be using it in a way that's you know that is protecting public the 9:46 public's interest to protect and serve right and even even with the platform and I 9:53 know we haven't gone deep into the platform but even with the platform only certain things are are visible not just 10:01 any medical information so there are some things that are very much protected 10:06 and and that is correct what Greg is saying a lot of People are just kind of scared of the idea about HIPPA. But in 10:12 all fairness, if you bring Well, there's so many different inventions that have happened over the course of mankind that 10:19 when they first came on the scene, people were scared of it because it's something new. Yeah. Um 10:26 the other thing is a lot of times when people go to their physician, 10:31 they sign paperwork, which is assignment of benefits with their doctor. And the 10:37 assignment of benefits basically just allows the doctor to send over the 10:42 internet your diagnosis codes to insurance companies in some other state 10:50 uh to build your insurance. So that information is already being encrypted 10:55 and protected out there and that's all we're doing. We're doing the same thing where it's encrypted and protected. Um, 11:02 so it's just something new that more than anything is something, you know, people are scared about. But like we 11:07 started the podcast, mental health and physical disabilities 11:12 have been pushed to the forefront where the stigma is starting to kind of fade 11:17 away, where that's not uh quite so scary to 11:22 keep in a locked up lock box in a closet now, right? People need help. They need to get help. 11:28 Period. Um, and then secondly, um, it's not 11:33 quite as scary when you're talking about, uh, trying to protect people when 11:39 you see, um, unfortunate encounters every day on the news, newspaper, the 11:45 internet, everywhere. And so, we're just trying to close that, um, that that gap, 11:52 I guess, that misinformation gap. Yeah, it's such important work, man. 11:59 And and just to piggyback off of that, I've made it free for police 12:05 police departments across the nation, whether sheriff's departments, constables, 12:10 um police departments, uh federal, uh state law enforcement, they can all use 12:17 it for free. Wow. I didn't want to have to I didn't want barriers put in place because of of 12:26 political hoops that people have to jump through to be able to use something that 12:31 could you that could possibly save lives. Absolutely, man. This is incredible, guys. Like I 12:39 mean I know that just the the sheer amount of 12:47 senseless things that happen in the news. I mean, 12:53 people are quicker to grab their phone and try to create some viral content than to try to help someone with it. And 13:00 so, just putting this in place is that, 13:05 you know, it this isn't just a platform to inform. This is a movement to 13:12 transform the world. Because yes, it may start in the US, but like I imagine this 13:17 being worldwide because I don't know. I know you you had some numbers for me 13:23 when we spoke, but there are a lot of lives that are lost unnecessarily. 13:30 It's not just necessarily the lives that are lost, but just the human dignity. Yeah. 13:35 Uh that's kind of um misplaced sometimes with law enforcement officers. It may 13:42 not always result in a death, but just human dignity, like you mentioned earlier with somebody who woke up with 13:47 bruises in a jail cell. I mean, that person's they didn't pass away 13:53 thankfully, but I'm sure their dignity was uh violated along with whoever if 13:59 there was somebody around like you said with a cell phone trying to create content, right? Yeah. And you know, as as 14:07 the relative finding out about this the day, like you don't know where your relative is 14:14 and then you get a call that they're in jail. Like that could have been worse, right? But with with this in place, like 14:23 there's a lot of peace of mind, not just for the relatives, but for the the people that are that are affected. 14:29 So, I wanted to, if you don't mind, I wanted to piggy back off of that. the you know 14:34 the research that I did whenever I was putting this together is I I talked to a lot of people that had like uh you know 14:43 sons and daughters of autism you know high functioning autism non-verbal autism I did some research and talked to 14:50 people with disabilities and even people with Alzheimer's they will not call the 14:57 police again because they're scared how the police are going to interact with 15:02 their loved ones And even to the point where one individual said he he can't he's in a 15:09 wheelchair and can't use his legs. The police made him get out of his van to 15:14 prove that he was disabled. Talk about dignity. And so this platform will allow them to 15:24 go on to safeconnect.com. They can register a profile. They can 15:32 put as much information or as least information that they want to. They don't have to give their full medical. 15:39 They can they can put their name. They can put um high functioning autism. 15:46 They can even put their tag number because high functioning autistic people drive. And that way when police officers 15:54 run their tag information through the platform, it will pull this up as well. 15:59 And so um and then they put their con people to contact 16:05 um and then when when police run them through this information and they're having some challenges then they can 16:12 reach out to these people their contacts and say look I have your loved one here can you kind of give me some information 16:18 on what's going on or they have some information so they can have a more compassionate interaction. M that's so 16:27 it just the compassion the compassion is what we need more of and 16:33 you know the the thing that comes to mind I know it's done now or or just about 16:41 done now but were there was there a time where 16:47 there was a struggle or or setback that made you feel like this wouldn't 16:55 be done or like was there a time where you felt like it might not ever see the day of 17:01 light? Whenever I was uh develop developing the 17:06 platform, I hired an overseas company to to do the platform 17:12 and it was not a good experience and they kept wanting more money, 17:17 wanting more money and it was almost like they were holding it hostage until 17:23 I gave them more money. and and I I you know, of course, Eric 17:30 was with me with then and so was my tech and we just decided we're never ever 17:36 doing that again. We're going to keep everything local because it just about 17:41 didn't happen because I wasn't I wasn't I was funding this out 17:47 of my pocket and I was about to run out of money. Wow. Wow. 17:55 So, so it it it nearly didn't happen. Wow. And to think money, again, we 18:03 talked about this earlier, you didn't want money to be the blocker for this solution to to be in the world. And it 18:10 almost literally happened. Wow. And and as of this day, 18:16 you know, we you know, I I don't have an investor. I'm still funding this out of my pocket. 18:23 Um, that's how that's how passionate I am about this, how much I want this to go through. Um, you know, we're we're 18:31 not a nonprofit, so we really can't take any donations or anything like that, but for the sake, you know, um, 18:39 it it's been challenge. It's been a challenge in the financial area. Yeah. 18:47 And you know, I have I have no idea what it's like to build a platform like this. 18:56 It's scary, man. I I was going to say it's like, you know, doing a podcast, coaching people, 19:03 that's that's safe. That's easy, right? But like you're getting involved with 19:08 things that could potentially cause some political unrest, some some like 19:15 You know, Greg, you're gonna get I'll give you some information that nobody has. How? Only on your podcast. 19:21 Let's go. We developed a platform where gun vendors can run your mental health 19:27 without violating HIPPA before they sell a weapon. Get out of here. 19:33 No, we haven't released it yet. We have it developed. We have the platform built 19:39 and all the research that we've done is they would use it. Wow. 19:45 Because because you have to give consent to buy a weapon because they have to run 19:51 your criminal history. Yeah. So if you give consent for that and give 19:56 consent for the mental health part of it, you know, that's all in consent. 20:02 And once again, all that mental health information when it comes to the gun vendors is all protected. Nobody sees 20:08 anything. All you get is a pass fail type um notification. There's no 20:14 information that the vendor even sees or knows about other than just pass or fail. Um so yeah, there's times where uh 20:23 we've seen those kinds of stories on the news as well and everybody says, "Well, 20:28 we saw all the flags. We just never put it all together." Because in in retrospect, you you may see these um 20:35 indicators and it's just certain certain diagnosis codes. It's not just any mental health code, you know, there's 20:41 there are some critical health codes that are that are uh dangerous to themselves and to to society, and those 20:48 are the ones that get flagged, not not just any mental health because because who who who's truthful 20:54 about their mental health when they go buy a weapon? Uh yeah, really. I mean, most people 21:01 will probably want to buy a weapon off themselves or someone else. Well, we funny you say that because we were 21:07 talking to a big box uh and big box store that sells. We 21:13 don't want to name anybody, but we we were talking to because because we we went out and did our 21:18 research and one of the big box says, "Hey, there's people that has come in and went out in the parking lot and oped 21:24 themselves after they buy a weapon from them." So, it does happen. 21:32 That is so unsettling. So, we just, you know, we're we're we're 21:39 wanting to do a few more things on that before we release it. But, um, we feel 21:44 like that that we, you know, that that would be a very useful tool, um, you know, in the 21:51 coming. And again, these are all things that, you know, make people scared in the 21:56 beginning and we and we get it. We also know that we're to some degree market disruptors 22:03 and that that also gets either people on your side or very much against you. We 22:09 understand that. We also understand that it's a political hot potato, which we 22:15 get that. But we're here to serve the greater good, the community, the community of the United States and 22:21 people that should not be um you know shot or killed or 22:28 those types of things that would be um you know a danger to society. So that's 22:34 that's the other part of the the platform. But um I want to circle back to what Greg was talking about on Safe 22:39 Connect ID that yes, police and law enforcement and all law enforcement agencies, not just local police, could 22:46 be state police, uh national that anything get to use the safe connect ID 22:52 part of it for free. But families whenever they create a profile for their 22:58 sister, brother, parent, child, what or themselves, um they our fee right now is 23:05 only $36 a year um to have that profile. And so whenever they put in um whatever 23:13 information they want, uh they don't have to put they can only put in certain things. Let's say maybe they have 23:19 Asberers or Tourette's or something along those lines or auditory processing disorder. They don't have to put in 23:25 everything else, just whatever they feel is the most critical. Um, that $36 a 23:30 year is cheaper than what most people pay for their home security system and 23:36 registering it with their local police department. So, for instance, if you 23:42 have a home security, uh you normally pay roughly about $50 a year to your 23:47 local police department so that if your house alarm goes off, they get notified and come and uh check on your house. 23:55 Well, our our platform for them is $36. It's, you know, $14 cheaper than um than 24:02 that fee. Wow. And it and it goes everywhere in the United States. 24:08 Wow. That's that's using you you know all the police departments that are using this. So 24:15 that's about 10. So if you're on vacation in another state or if you're sending you know your your child with aspberers to grandma's 24:21 house in in Idaho, as long as those law enforcement officers or police 24:27 departments are using that, uh that information goes everywhere. 24:33 Wow. Now, this cost for the $36 a year, is it for the the person signing up with 24:39 the platform? So, that's who you're registering on that profile for that individual. So, if you're a 24:44 parent and you're registering, let's say your brother, your legal guardian, or maybe your parent with Alzheimer's, 24:52 maybe your child with Tourette's, uh, whatever the case may be. Um, now if 24:57 you have two children, then obviously it's 36 times two, but but but basically that's what you're 25:03 doing by creating their profile. Okay. Okay. I just wanted to make sure I 25:08 understood that. Okay. And this this will allow the police to continue to use it for free. 25:15 M so the cost is on the user so that 25:22 there's no friction from the government or law enforcement 25:27 to say oh we can't afford that we don't have the budget for that right that along with the parent is the one 25:35 volunteering healthc care information so they have decided to release that 25:41 information which means they're uh uh restricted by 25:46 HIPPA because you're volunteering that information and that profile. 25:52 And the only people that can see it, of course, are the law enforcement officers. Nobody else can see that, including Greg and I and anybody else 25:58 that works for mental verification technologies. We can't see that either. It's just there for the people that need 26:04 it when they need it. Correct. And when that child turns 18, that information would fall off because 26:10 they're an adult unless they're still under guardianship because maybe they 26:16 have uh, you know, a mental disability where they have to have a legal guardian. But if they are, let's say, 26:23 somebody with Asperers who can function, it's a high functioning autism. Uh, if they want to continue to pay for 26:30 it, they pay for it as an adult and keep that that profile. Otherwise, it just falls off at 18. 26:36 And does any of that stay in the system or do they have to pay to keep it in the 26:42 system? Correct. Okay. Could they pay multiple years in advance? 26:49 Yes, they can they can pay up to two years. Okay. Okay. And and the other thing is 26:57 is maybe uh you know this is maybe your child is having a hard time at school. 27:03 um you know, maybe they've had some mental health challenges and they want the school resource officer to know 27:09 about it. Well, they would be the only ones that could see that information if they ran the child's name, you know, in 27:16 our system. So, they would know how to have a more compassionate interaction if there was some mental health challenges there 27:23 during school. This is so beautiful. I I can't stop 27:29 smiling because like I remember when we we met a couple 27:36 years ago and you told me you were doing this and then we've missed each other every day since trying to do just this 27:42 and here it is. It's ready. It's going to change lives. It's going to save 27:48 lives. It's going to save people their dignity. How? 27:53 So this this is the first episode of this podcast. It's going to grow and people are going to go back at some 27:59 point and listen to this. What do you want that listener to hear when when 28:04 they are wondering how can I support this? How can I help them to get this to 28:10 the world? What do you want them to know? um 28:15 buy a profile for if if if you don't have children, everybody in the United 28:21 States knows somebody with a disability, maybe suffering from autism, maybe 28:27 suffering from Down syndrome. Everybody in in the United States knows 28:32 somebody that has challenges. Get them a profile. Buy them a profile and say, "Hey, I'm I'm buying you a 28:38 profile. Go on and register." Wow. you know, that that could save 28:43 their life. You don't you don't necessarily have to be their their their 28:48 relative. You can just say, "Here, I'm buying you a profile. Go on here and register. 28:53 I want to save your life." Or if you're a member, if you have a a child that has one of these types of um 29:01 illnesses or disabilities that's already part of a foundation, then tell other people in your network in that 29:07 foundation about it as well. Uh yes, tell your friends, family, co-workers, people that all have, we all know 29:14 somebody once or twice removed, even in our own families that might have one of 29:20 these conditions that need to have a profile. But if you're also a member of, let's say, the Autism Foundation or, you 29:27 know, Alzheimer's Society, um, network and tell other people because they're 29:33 all the most vulnerable and and are susceptible to these, uh, encounters and 29:39 and need to be need to be informed about a platform like this that can help possibly save their lives and their 29:45 dignity. I didn't I didn't tell you that on Safe Connect ID you can put a picture of your 29:51 child or you can put a picture of your adult on there so you know who you're looking for, 29:56 you know, so they can match. So it's it's it's not just information. It's it's a you can put a picture of 30:03 them on there. Yeah. So they know exactly what to expect, who who they're looking 30:10 for, and Wow. This this is incredible, guys. 30:17 And and we haven't even we haven't even scratched the surface. We haven't even 30:22 told you about Counselor Connect. We haven't even told you about the National Mental Health Information Center. 30:29 Well, let's go into it. I know these these episodes are supposed to be 30 minutes, but this one's good. I think this one will go a little longer. Let's 30:35 go. Let's scratch this surface. Okay. So, Counselor Connect is a platform 30:40 where counselors can schedule, keep track of their clients. They can um you 30:47 know, check you know, keep up with their practice and they can pull information 30:53 from the National Mental Health Information Center to better serve their clients. It's kind of like if I was a 30:58 counselor and I have somebody coming in and I ran them and it pulled up that they had schizophrenia. Maybe I'm not 31:04 the one that needs to be talking to them. Maybe, you know, or, you know, maybe 31:11 somebody's moving counselors and they need a counselor out in, you know, Arizona. So, you know, that person in 31:18 Arizona, as long as they're on our platform, can pull that stuff, pull their information, and pick up right 31:24 where they left off. Wow. So, it I'm trying to to fill the 31:30 communication gap in the counseling realm because it's very broken. Yeah. 31:36 And very needed. And the National Mental Health Information Center 31:41 uh carries EHRs, electronic health records, and it only goes out and it looks for 31:48 personality disorders. We're not looking for any kind of like little anxiety or depression. We're looking for 31:55 personality disorders and it and it and officers can pull that 32:01 as well. Besides the Safe Connect ID, it tells them what prescriptions they're on, what their diagnosis is, who's their 32:07 counselor, if there's one listed, when the last time they were in a mental health hospital. It gives them all of 32:14 that, which will be so helpful because I've seen videos come across my feed where, 32:20 you know, they they said this lady was drunk and they were asking her what she was on and she's just you can see she's 32:28 genuinely scared for her life and she's just taking her meds, right? But the 32:35 officer's like, "I don't believe you." and you know someone's recording it or the body cam's recording it and just 32:41 roughening her up and if there was a little compassion applied that could 32:47 have been a safe transaction they would have understood that oh okay she's not inebriated she's just on her meds 32:55 and okay go on about your way be more safe next time or something like that you know just wow I didn't even know 33:02 that there was a communication gap in the counseling Mhm. world. And I guess I should have because 33:09 that is the number one problem I think I see in every area I've been is communication. It always boils down to 33:16 communication. So there's two pieces to that counselor connect where counselors if they um want 33:24 to advertise on our platform society can even look for them. So 33:31 almost like a directory and if I'm looking for a counselor who deals with um you know divorce or 33:38 counselors that deal with other mental health issues whatever the case may be that counselor and when I say when we 33:45 say counselor we're also talking about psychiatrists and psychologists it's not just counselors. Oh wow. But but the thing is is if I'm looking 33:52 for somebody I need somebody who works in the specialty of the field that I'm looking for. And so I could be moving 33:59 to, you know, from Fort Worth to Little Rock, Arkansas, and I don't know 34:05 anybody, and I can go onto that platform and look for free. Uh, I can also try to 34:10 schedule or um it's almost like a virtual assistant if they use us where 34:15 the virtual assistant, I can go on to our website and say, I want a virtual 34:20 appointment or I want an in-person appointment uh Tuesday, November 4th. and I can put in it goes into that 34:27 person's calendar and so it's already scheduled. It also for the professional, the health care 34:33 professional works the same as electronic health records like Greg said where they can maintain all the the 34:40 electronic health records and then send those things off to, you know, insurance for billing and that kind of thing. But 34:47 on the front office of that um doctor's office, the assistant might see the 34:53 calendar populate with individuals with the scheduled time, but they don't get to see the medical records. Only the 35:00 back office, which is the medical professional, can see the mental health records. So, it's uh very similar to a 35:07 lot of your I think um simple practice is already out there and we're very similar to that, but we're able to do a 35:13 lot more than simple practice. So, it's somewhat of a competitor when it comes to the EHR records and stuff, but 35:20 our um our individuals, our the society can basically look and find a counselor 35:25 in their area um geographically and also the area of specialty 35:31 and and plus we're a lot cheaper. I mean, they can sign up for free right now and if they decide they like it, 35:38 they can pay $29 a month, you know, to use the full platform or $9 35:44 a month just to use part of the platform. Wow. So, you know, I I want to make it, 35:50 you know, me being mental health specialist myself, you know, um working towards my license, my uh LPC, 35:58 um I wanted to make it as cheap as I can for counselors. we're we're nickeled and 36:04 dying to death. And I want, you know, we need to be we need them to to be able to help others 36:12 without worrying about gosh, this is so expensive. This is so expensive, you know? 36:17 Right. So, but that's that's the the key on that. I mean, it it's we we just there's 36:25 so many rabbit holes that this can go down. Yeah, I'm seeing this. I mean, the military can use it for MEPS. 36:33 It would probably save the taxpayer a lot of money because, you know, being able to uh uh run their mental health 36:41 before they enter the military. Um, you know, there's just a lot of 36:46 things this platform can do, but it's taken this long to develop it. 36:52 Yeah. So 36:58 it's just Okay. And then you said so there's Safe Connect ID, the counselor connect, and 37:05 then the National Medical Information Center. National Mental Health Information Center. Mental Mental Health Information. 37:12 It works a lot like the National Crime Information Center. You know, where we can we can run your criminal history. 37:20 So why not have it run your mental health history? Wow. 37:29 Now, there's there's upsides to this for the for the people that, you know, um 37:37 need more compassion in the world. But what about the people that are 37:42 embarrassed about it? Is it just don't sign up? 37:48 Well, you know, you got to look at like this. What if you're living alone? uh with schizophrenia, what are the 37:55 likelihood of you getting shot and killed uh if police respond? 38:02 The biggest thing is there wouldn't be an advocate there like he's talking about if somebody's there by themselves, 38:07 you know, or uh you know there are some situations where a diabetic could be so low on 38:15 their blood sugar that they become very agitated and irritated. Yeah. uh and become combative almost. 38:23 There's not that we're focused on the diabetic side of things, but there are so many times where there may not be an 38:29 advocate there in your in your in your in your place because you yourself may 38:34 be the one that's suffering from the mental health crisis at the moment or having an auditory processing disorder. 38:41 Maybe you're just uh you could be a a person that deals with deafness and uh 38:49 you don't have um maybe you're fully charged uh earpieces and so you hear 38:55 them talking but you have no idea what they're saying and all that does is escalate a situation rapidly because they don't 39:02 take that into account at all. No. No. And they take it as disrespect or just Yeah. There's there's so many 39:11 ways this could go. Yeah. And police get police get 40 hours of 39:17 training in this area. That's it. Seriously, I I it took me three years to get a 39:24 mental health degree. Huge difference in knowledge and 39:30 training that the the police have to deal with, you know. So, so it's this 39:38 will close that gap for them. Wow. 39:45 We know we know nothing is perfect. Um, and we're not saying we're solving every problem, but the gap that Greg was 39:52 talking about in the beginning is a very giant uh chasm, if you will, between 39:59 police interaction and mental health. Yeah. And so what we're trying to do is 40:04 uh narrow that gap significantly and and if a lot of people including um 40:11 was it your cousin you said that had the interaction with the the police officers? His relative. 40:17 Yeah. Your relative. Yeah. Wow. If if that if that closed the gap even more then there's a lot of 40:24 people that we save, you know, number one their life, the possibility of their dignity. Um, but like we said, nothing's 40:32 perfect, but it's also getting people past the stigma of mental health and 40:38 being afraid to put a profile in because like you just asked in your question, what stops that person? Well, 40:46 if they if they deal with that shame, you know, we want to be able to help them pass that 40:53 by, you know, having less of their dignity uh robbed whenever 41:00 there's an interaction so that you know those those things happen and it's not a usually I mean 41:07 somebody might say, "Well, I've never had that uh that that interaction before with a bad outcome." Okay. Well, that 41:15 doesn't mean it's couldn't happen in the future. There's always, you know, a situation that can and we've seen things 41:22 on our own with our own eyes how a normal everyday encounter can go 41:28 sideways in a matter of seconds. Oh, yeah. Yeah. And and it's again back 41:35 to communication. If that person knew that there was something that like a 41:41 mental disability or some sort of health thing there 41:48 like for example weighted tables for 15 years I've seen all people from all 41:53 walks of life and the one thing I find is that hungry people are the worst. 42:01 uh we can become someone completely different when we're hungry, but you said something about the diabetics being 42:08 agitated, you know, because their blood sugar drops so low. There are people that don't know they're diabetic, right? So, what do what do we do for the people 42:14 that don't even know they have a mental disorder yet or they don't know? Like I 42:20 I would imagine through Safe Connect and Counselor Connect that 42:28 the over time people would get more than 40 hours, the 42:34 officers, the counselors would get more than 40 hours of understanding. Like now when they meet with the client, they not 42:41 only know what to prepare for and what what they have, but they know to kind of see the patterns of each diagnosis so 42:49 that, you know, as the time goes on, everyone becomes a mental health professional or at least more informed 42:57 to where the whole world could have a little more compassion because I don't I don't know about y'all, uh, but before 43:05 um you know, early on in life, we're not researching mental health on our free 43:10 time, you know, like trying to learn about someone with schizophrenia and how that works. It's it's only when it 43:17 affects us directly. Mhm. Wow. So, what there's a couple things 43:24 that came to mind. Let's say it's too expensive. Like cheap 43:29 is relative, right? Because cheap to a millionaire is like $20,000. 43:36 um cheap to someone that you know has mental health and can probably you know 43:42 well there's the option for the the relative to buy it for them or someone to sponsor them. 43:49 Are there any partnerships with like schools, employers, um insurance 43:56 companies that that you're considering to where, you know, this could be a service that 44:03 not not only does the the payment shift from the government and the officers, but 44:09 also shifts from the person to like an insurance company, so it could be part of their insurance or part of like 44:15 benefits packages. Well, we I mean, you know, we we I think 44:20 I've discussed this with Eric. You know, maybe an alarm, 44:26 hypothetically, let's say an alarm company comes to your house and you buy an alarm system from them. If they offer 44:31 a safe connect ID profile as part of that alarm system for maybe the family that has autistic children, 44:37 that could actually save them in their household, you know? I mean, all options 44:42 are on the table. Yeah. I mean, I I I just I just want to get this out. I just want people to start using it. That's 44:50 that's, you know, that's where we're at. And so, 44:55 um, you know, I wanted to tell you a quick story. Yes, please. Um, so 45:03 again, a relative, you know, um, you know, that was having some mental health 45:09 challenges, um, was, you know, more so uh you know it was it had to go 45:17 along the line of drug induced schizophrenia. And 45:23 over time this individual slipped through the system so many times 45:29 with the brokenness of the system that ultimately 45:34 led her to commit suicide. Wow. And so um you know and it it affected me 45:45 as well because you know I mean that was a family member. 45:50 Yeah. And so as as as much as we want to get 45:56 people that help. We may not be able to get that those people help directly, but 46:02 indirectly we could give them a profile or or or help them get a profile and then police could have that information 46:08 and maybe get them to the right people. So, you know, that's kind of I mean that 46:19 there there's a way to get this out and it's going to take the nation to do 46:24 this. Absolutely. And that's why this the logo uh you know I know hopefully you'll 46:31 you'll put the logo up on this. Um, I would like this logo to be a national 46:37 symbol between people with autism, disabilities, 46:42 um, you know, and police because 46:50 there has to be a a lifeline in that 46:56 that call for service and compassion. I'm gonna share it on the screen real 47:02 quick. And for those of you listening, since this is an actual podcast now, 47:08 um, go to safeconnect.com. 47:14 I I would love for that symbol to be a national symbol between police and people with the you know all those 47:20 disabilities, mental health, autism, 47:26 you know, because they can put police departments can put this on their website. People can click on this and 47:32 sign up. And I know that Florida passed a House 47:38 bill to do this. Wow. Kansas has also is doing this and 47:45 so is Maine. And I'm kind of like, hey guys, let us manage your database for 47:50 free and let let let's do all this electronically. So when your community 47:56 moves across, you know, state lines and stuff, they'll this will still go with them. They're doing it locally. Like uh 48:04 I talked to a police department in Kansas and they just they just do it by 48:09 CAD system. So when somebody somebody downloads the piece of paper, you send them the piece of paper and then they 48:15 put it in their system. It doesn't go anywhere else. It stays with that department. That needs to change. 48:25 So yeah, again, communication, right? It's 48:32 communication. I I don't know if you've ever been to Well, a a great example is 48:39 résumés, right? Like you got to fill out your application and send a resume. Then you talk to someone else and they're 48:45 like, "Hey, send me your resume. Then you show up and you got two, three copies of your resume printed. You give 48:50 one to the person at the front because they asked for it." Then you give it to the person that's interviewing you. Then 48:57 let's say you get a second interview. That person needs it. Like, why did I upload it and fill out my application? 49:03 Right. And then the first question, so tell me about yourself. 49:09 Did you not read my resume? Let's get to the conversation part. But 49:15 then the doctor's office, too. You fill out all this information. I had an an um an instance with a dentist. I won't name 49:21 any names, but let's just say I don't go there anymore. I had hepatitis C for 11 years. Thank god I got cured in 2018 49:29 thanks to some amazing insurance. Um, but when I had it, I went to this 49:34 dentist and they have you fill out all this health history stuff and I told him, "I have 49:40 hepatitis C, right? So, you you're going to have to wear gloves when you're in my mouth just for safety." And so, I'm 49:48 about to start and I just wanted to make sure because I know people don't communicate, hey, I have hepatitis C and 49:53 the doctor got an attitude with me. She's like, why didn't you tell me this? Why didn't you put it in your paperwork? 49:59 I was like, I did put it in my paperwork. So now, let's shift this back to you. Why didn't you read the 50:04 paperwork? Why didn't your staff inform you about this? Right? And this is just, you know, a viral or what what do they 50:12 call them? Um, not viral disease. Is it a viral? Whatever. It was a blood disease. A 50:18 bloodborne disease, right? It's a communicable disease. And so to punish me, she told me we'd 50:24 have to reschedule and then like put it out another month or something. And I was like, I'm never coming back here. This is ridiculous. Like, you have a job 50:32 to do with the information you asked for me from me what you need to do to make 50:39 sure you're taken care of. But if that information isn't passed, and this is just talking about, you know, resumes 50:45 and if we have this with with mental health or with health as it is, just 50:50 getting information, even if I was to put my mental health stuff on there and there was an incident, 50:57 how would that be handled? Right? If you're not even looking at the stuff that could protect you, 51:03 how am I supposed to know you're looking at the stuff that can protect me? Well, we've made it very simple. I mean 51:09 police we made it very simple. You know me being an officer myself we can only look at things in a split second. So we 51:15 made this very simple. So they see that logo they see the disorder. They see 51:21 they can see it quick. And is there like instructions of how to handle that person, how to approach them 51:27 that pop up too? The people can put that in there may may experience uh extreme this or extreme 51:34 that may be unsteady on their feet. Maybe, you know, they can put that in there. In fact, all they got to do is 51:41 put some information in the chat GTP and then copy that into the safe connect ID. 51:48 Yeah. So, they don't even have to write it. I know. However, however you feel like is the 51:53 best way to interact is what that person inputting that profile would put in. M 52:00 so there's some control there with the parent or the guardian or whoever they're um entering that child or uh 52:09 sibling or parents profile if they if there's a certain way that they need to 52:14 be interacted like no yelling or screaming or you know I mean we're going 52:20 into hypotheticals but I'm just saying that when you say uh is there a certain can 52:26 you put certain things in there yeah you're in control of what you want to put in If you fail to put that in there, then 52:32 as a guardian, you probably need to put in the correct things and on how to handle that individual. 52:40 And is there like when you sign up, is there a guideline for what like a recommendation for what they should put? 52:47 Uh they just kind of just follow the the prompts. Okay, perfect. And there is a there is a place that 52:53 they can upload a doctor's note for the police if they want to for proof. Wow. 52:58 And there's a way that whenever the police um can pull up that information, if they're going to, let's say, a 53:05 residence or if they happen to pull a car over, they can run it by a license 53:12 plate because you may not be at home and that person's sitting in the passenger seat or the back seat or something like 53:19 that. So that car would go with that that license plate can be ran along with 53:25 a residence if you're going to the residence. And here here's another thing. People in 53:31 jail can use this when they're bringing inmates in you know or they're or you know or they're bringing people into the 53:37 jail and they're using the system. So they know they can use it to see if there's any mental health. 53:43 Yeah. You know we have we've had there's been many deaths reported in jails for mental health stuff. 53:53 So sad. And and when you're in jail, you're treated like the worst of humans. Like 54:00 they don't they don't care what you did. You're a criminal now. Mhm. They may not care what you did, but at 54:07 the same time, you may need certain medications and you're missing those proper um dosages at a certain time 54:14 because you're sitting overnight or or some of the some of the um noises or 54:22 just the anxiety may trigger certain episodes of certain things. Yeah, 54:28 man. There's so like you said, there's a lot of rabbit holes we can go down with this one. Absolutely. because mental health is so 54:34 broad even just the name mental health uh you know and I will tell you this 54:41 because this was a challenge for me I actually got a patent on this so that was a challenge in its own so you know 54:50 because of all the drawings and all the technical uh information and and 54:56 I mean it was it was a challenge but it finally went through so 55:03 So in this process what was the hardest setback that you faced and how did you bounce back 55:11 um right now I think I I uh the financial setback 55:17 um you know we don't have a marketing you know I don't I mean pretty much I 55:22 I'm I'm sustaining the database um and and so that the users that are 55:29 already on it can continue to use Um, right now I'm not making anything 55:35 off of it. So, sustain. We only we only lost it launched a couple of months ago. So, now it's just 55:41 a matter of people like yourself that's putting us on your podcast and um other 55:47 you know what other social media that we can try to do because since Greg said earlier we're bootstrapping this 55:53 ourselves, there's not this uh deep marketing budget. So, we're um trying to 55:59 get the word out basically so people tell people. Hey, word of mouth is the best way to 56:05 spread. So, what's one last thing you want our listeners to hear? 56:13 All right. I would just say I would just say that um when your listeners hear this uh take 56:22 take a little bit of action. Don't just uh enjoy the the content. Uh tell 56:29 someone that you know in in your circle of influence, whether it's a co-orker or you know, like I said, once or twice 56:35 removed or if you do have a family member, create the profile because this 56:40 doesn't work. You we can sit back and and enjoy the idea of us filling a a 56:46 major uh gap in the mental health interaction world with law enforcement. 56:52 But until you take action and create a profile or tell somebody who needs this, um this ends up being just listening for 57:00 your enjoyment and not um helping helping kind of save the world, if you 57:05 will. Absolutely. I, you know, I'm all about action. So, I 57:12 would second that. Don't just be hearers of this word, be doers of this word, 57:17 and go spread the word with someone you know that could benefit from this. Uh we 57:23 all have that member or those members in our family that could benefit from this. I think every family at least has one 57:31 and they're suffering. They're suffering and and we just want to maintain, you know, their dignity in 57:38 society. you know, uh we we look at physical disabilities and and mental disabilities sometimes uh in a different 57:46 light. And so we're just trying to give those individuals same dignity that the 57:51 rest of us walk around with because everybody in the everybody 57:58 deserves the same compassion during police interaction. 58:04 That was a bar. Everybody deserves the same compassion during a police interaction. 58:10 Absolutely. Absolutely. 100%. 100%. Man. Okay. So, where can they find y'all? How can they support? I know you 58:18 said you can't take donations, but like uh safeconnect.com. 58:26 Uh www.mentalverificationtechnologies.net. 58:32 uh they can also email us on the platform. Okay. Um you know if if we run into an 58:39 investor, you know, everything's on the table. So um we just want to make sure 58:46 that the direction for society is still maintained 58:52 because that's what this is about. It's it's about helping people that haven't 58:59 been treated fairly in the past. And it also helps to follow us on on 59:04 even our own social media channels because Greg and I do put out content from time to time. And even though 59:10 social media is um kind of the the way to market, the only way you can get 59:15 other people to hear about it is to get more and more people just to to follow us on Instagram and X and YouTube. So 59:22 that's just that's just the following piece because we're putting out content, but the biggest thing is just telling 59:28 everybody to create a profile and save the life of your loved ones. Beautiful. And what are those social 59:35 handles? It's MVT for um for X and I believe it's also for 59:41 Instagram as well. So MVT is short for mental verification technologies. Okay. MVT at MVT. So simple. I love it. 59:50 Guys, thank you for sharing this with the greater journey. Um, I will do 59:56 everything in my power to get this out to the world starting with this podcast, but 1:00:02 I just envision a world where people have their dignity saved. There's more 1:00:09 compassion in every police interaction and people's loved ones don't have to be 1:00:17 treated unfairly because of something that they cannot control. 1:00:23 So, I thank you for coming on the podcast. Um, stay tuned afterwards. Uh, we're going to have a little 1:00:28 conversation backstage. I'm going to do the outro and we'll see you in the next episode. 1:00:34 Awesome. 1:00:44 I just love the outro music too. 1:00:49 This has been the greater journey. We will see you in the next episode tomorrow. Thank you for tuning in. 1:00:55 Safeconnect.com, guys. 1:01:04 [Music]