Reclaiming Yourself in Motherhood: You Were Never Meant to Disappear Episode 13

Somewhere along the line, women were taught that love means disappearing.
That being a good mother requires self sacrifice.
That devotion means depletion.
That presence means erasing yourself.

But the truth is this: Motherhood was never meant to cost you your whole self.

In today’s episode, Ashley unpacks the quiet ways women disappear in motherhood (and life) and why reclaiming yourself is not selfish, rebellious, or wrong. She shares personal stories about identity loss, emotional erosion, and the subtle praise women receive for self abandonment — and why a woman’s presence, voice, and humanity matter just as much as her caregiving.

Inside this episode, you’ll explore:

• How self sacrifice became the badge of honor for womanhood and motherhood
• The subtle ways women are taught to disappear without realizing it
• Why being praised for “doing it all” often comes at a personal cost
• How identity loss affects families, relationships, and legacy
• Why reclaiming yourself models self worth for your children
• The difference between being present and being depleted
• How motherhood can expand you instead of erase you
• Why a woman’s aliveness is essential, not optional

If you’ve ever wondered where you went, felt guilty for needing space, or questioned whether you’re allowed to take up room again, this episode will meet you right where you are.

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