Becoming the Woman Who Can Hold More | Episode 20

Welcome back to Making HERstory!

This episode is for the moment when the story you’ve been telling yourself stops working—not because you failed, but because you’re being asked to become someone who can hold more.

Not more hustle.
Not more pressure.
More support. More truth. More wealth in its real forms.

This conversation is about the quiet identity shift that happens when you stop performing strength, stop martyring yourself, and finally allow yourself to receive the support you keep saying you want.

We talk about what it really means to manifest—not as wishful thinking or perfect routines, but as embodiment. As becoming the woman who can receive what she’s been asking for.

In this episode, we explore:

• The difference between wanting support and being willing to receive it
• How control, martyrdom, and “doing it all” quietly block abundance
• Why manifesting is about identity, not forcing outcomes
• How other women are essential to building sustainable wealth
• The way motherhood reshapes leadership, ambition, and support
• The identity shift required to move from survival into embodied abundance

This episode is for:

• Mothers who feel like they’re carrying everything alone
• Women who crave support but struggle to accept it
• Builders who are exhausted from proving their worth through burnout
• Women navigating wealth, leadership, and visibility after motherhood
• Anyone who knows she’s meant for more but feels stuck between control and trust

“In order to receive what you are asking for, you have to become the woman who can hold it.”

If this episode stirred something in you, here are a few ways to keep the conversation going:

Download the Tell Your Story Firestarter — a free guide to help you get your story out of your head and into embodiment, leadership, and action.

Book a 30-minute vibe check if you want clarity, support, or space to talk through what you’re building and becoming.

And if you’re here for community, stay close. This podcast is a room for mothers, builders, and leaders who are done doing it alone.

You don’t have to earn support by suffering.
You don’t have to prove your worth by carrying it all.

Wealth isn’t built in isolation.
It’s built in rooms. In relationships. In trust.

And you were never meant to do this alone.

RESOURCES + CONNECTION:

Find Ashley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsashleycrabb/ 

Download the Tell My Story Firestarter: https://ashley-crabb.mykajabi.com/opt-in 

Book a Vibe Check Call with Me: https://calendly.com/itsashleycrabb/30min