第十七期【结婚生子是一场骗局吗？】

这一期我们从在澳洲留学生婚恋市场观察到的有趣现象聊起，进而聊到关于“结婚”“生子”这样人生重大决定的问题。
结婚、生子，这些曾被视为人生“标配”的选择，为什么现在越来越多的人开始犹豫、甚至质疑？
我们三只小仙女从各自的视角出发，聊聊我们对婚姻与生育的真实感受——是期待、是压力，还是一种被默认的人生路径？
我们还会谈到小时候被教育的那些老生常谈长大后到底有没有应验。
结婚生子，究竟是幸福的延伸，还是被包装过的叙事？也许它既不是骗局，也不是唯一答案。
如果你也在思考“要不要走这条路”，或者只是对这种“标准人生”有过一瞬间的怀疑，或许能在这一期找到一些共鸣。

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