第二十五期：【母爱很伟大，但我更想做父亲】

澳洲父亲节到了，我们决定送给全天下爸爸们一份最真诚的祝福：

母爱很伟大，但如果可以选，我们更想做父亲！

毕竟，妈妈要负责怀孕、生产、哺乳、夜奶、辅导作业、照顾情绪、操心孩子的吃喝拉撒睡，还要对孩子未来的发展负责；而爸爸只要参与一下，就可以收获一句——“他真是个好爸爸。”

这一期，我们就从这个荒谬的“双重标准”聊起。聊密集母职，聊为什么社会对母亲的要求可以无限叠加，却很少用同样的标准要求父亲；聊为什么爸爸做一点本来就应该做的事情，就容易被包装成“伟大的父爱”，而妈妈做了无数事情，却常常被认为只是“应该的”。

所以，这一期我们不想讨论“母亲到底有多伟大”。

我们更想问：如果养育孩子本来就是父母共同的责任，那为什么一个爸爸认真照顾自己的孩子，会被称为“好爸爸”，而一个妈妈认真照顾自己的孩子，却只是“一个妈妈该做的事”？

母爱可以很伟大。

但我们希望有一天，妈妈也可以不用那么伟大。

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