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Navigating Life Through Different Seasons🦋🤍

Monique Anderson Season 6 Episode 12

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Life moves in seasons. 🌿

Some seasons feel beautiful and full of promise…
 Others feel heavy, uncertain, lonely, confusing, or exhausting.

But one thing I’m learning is this:
 God remains faithful in every season.

In the waiting.
 In the wilderness.
 In the grieving.
 In the rebuilding.
 In the becoming.

This episode is for anyone trying to trust God while navigating changing seasons, emotional battles, unanswered questions, and moments where life feels overwhelming.

You are not forgotten in this season.
 You are not abandoned in this process.
 And this chapter is not the end of your story.


🎙️ NEW EPISODE:
 “Navigating Life Through Different Seasons”


“To every thing there is a season…” — Ecclesiastes 3:1

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Good morning, good morning, good morning, and welcome to the Beautiful Me Empowerment Ministry Podcast, a safe space for healing, wholeness, identity, faith, and transformation. Here we blend biblical truth, emotional healing, and practical encouragement to remind you that no matter what life has done to you, God still has a plan, a purpose, and a promise over your life. You are not forgotten, you're not abandoned, and your condition is not your conclusion. Of course, I am your host, Monique, and it's been a while. How are y'all doing? So let me tell you something. Life is life in, but I am here, and um, you would have noticed that the podcast isn't happening every day as we used to, um, but you know, as we talk about navigating seasons this morning, you know, life is about times and seasons, and the Bible tells us that there's a time to plant and a time to reap. There is also a time where we are productive, and then there is a time when we have to rest. And today I am going to be talking about just navigating life through different seasons. Hallelujah. Father, we want to thank you for this morning, God. I thank you for your grace and your mercies. Thank you, oh God, for your love. Thank you, Abba Father, for just who you are. Thank you, God, for meeting us here today. Father, we thank you this morning for showing up in our weaknesses, and your strength becomes perfect even in those moments. Thank you, oh God, for showing up in our needs and supplying our needs. Thank you, oh God, for helping us to navigate the different seasons in our lives. Thank you that you are the God of every season. You are the God of the beginnings, the endings, the wilderness seasons, the waiting seasons, the grieving seasons, the rebuilding seasons, and the victorious seasons. There's a song that says, You are the God in the mountains and the God in the valleys. And we thank you today, oh God, that you are with us every step of the way. Lord, we invite you, even in this moment, into every chapter of our lives. For the listener, oh God, who feels lost. I pray, oh God, that you will guide them. For the listener who feels exhausted, Daddy, please strengthen them. For the listener who feels confused, bring clarity. For the listener who is grieving, comfort them. For the listener who is waiting, remind them you are still working. Holy Spirit, minister deeply through this conversation this morning and teach us Abba how to trust you when life changes unexpectedly. Teach us how to remain anchored when emotions shift, circumstances shift, relationships shift, and seasons shift and remind us that no season lasts forever. We thank you in Jesus' name, amen and amen and amen. As I mentioned today, we're gonna be talking about something that we all experience, and it is the fact that life indeed moves in seasons. There are seasons where everything feels exciting and fruitful, there are seasons where prayers are answered quickly, and seasons where doors are opening, and then there are seasons also where we feel emotionally strong and spiritually confident, but then there are also seasons where life feels uncertain, emotions feel heavy, prayer seems delayed, relationships shift, your finances become difficult, and in those moments we wonder, God, what are you doing? And the truth is, many of us are okay with God being in good seasons, like hello, but struggle trusting Him in difficult ones, but yet the scripture shows us repeatedly that God works through seasons. I want you to take a moment and just pause with me. I want you to close your eyes for a little moment, a little while, and I want you to imagine standing in the middle of an ocean during a storm. The skies are dark, the waves are violent, the winds are loud. One moment your ship feels steady, and the next moment everything is shaking. Your sails are torn from seasons of fighting to survive, your hands are tired from trying to steer through waves you never saw coming, and somewhere between exhaustion and faith, you whisper, God, hope much longer. But then in the middle of the storm, you notice something, you notice that you're still afloat, not because you were strong enough, not because you had all the answers, not because you never cried, but because God was the anchor holding you together while life tried to pull you apart, and maybe that's what's different. That's that is what different seasons of life feel like. Some seasons feel like spring, others, and and during the spring season, you have new beginnings and answer, um, answered prayers, fresh hope, open doors. Other seasons feel like winter, silent prayers, grief, loneliness, confusion, waiting, emotional exhaustion. Some seasons feel like wilderness where God strips away everything you once depended on, so you can learn to fully depend on Him. And then there are seasons when you feel caught in between, between healing and hurting, between trusting and questioning, between surviving and becoming. But through every season changing, I want to remind you as you open your eyes that God remains constant, the same God in the valley is the same God in the mountain, the same God in the waiting, is the same God in the breaking, the same God in your confusion, is the same God in your clarity, and today's episode is for the person like myself trying to navigate life while the seasons are changing. As I've said before, you know, I myself I am navigating different seasons at the moment. I am navigating summer, spring, autumn, and winter all at the same time, and it can get very, very overwhelming. And sometimes, yes, I sit and I write to God and I ask God, did I do something wrong? Like, what is happening? Like, are you hearing me? I have been navigating seasons uh where I tell God that um at this point in time it is hard to trust you, it is hard to hope, it is hard to believe, it is hard to have faith. And I quote Pastor Sarah Jake all the time that she she did a message and she said in the um the sermon that everything is falling apart, but in reality, the truth is it is also coming together at the same time. It's just that sometimes we can't see how it is coming together. It is almost like Abraham, where he God made him a promise. God told him that he would be the father of many nations, but the present the season that he was in, it it it looks nothing like what God promised, it looked impossible. But then, isn't that how God is? He specializes in the things that are impossible. Every season has purpose, and one of the hardest truths to accept sometimes is that every season will is that not every season will feel comfortable, right? So there are seasons of growth, there are seasons of pruning, there are seasons of waiting. We experience wilderness season, there are seasons of stretching and seasons of healing, seasons of grieving, seasons of rebuilding, and seasons of resting. Uh, you know, and the Bible Ecclesiastes tells us to everything there is a season, and that simply tells us that seasons are part of life, and sometimes we frustrate ourselves because we are trying to force one season to look like another. For example, you may be healing in one season while you're comparing yourself to someone in a harvest season, or maybe you're in a waiting season, but you're watching others receive what you have prayed for. But I want to remind you today, as the Holy Spirit is even reminding me, that comparison will make you resent the process that God is walking you through. Because every season carries purpose, the wilderness teaches dependence, the waiting teaches trust, the pruning teaches surrender, the stretching teaches endurance, the grieving teaches vulnerability, the rebuilding teaches resilience, and often the seasons we resist the most produce the deepest transformation. And I am in a season, I am in a season. Well, I am in seasons, I am experiencing several seasons all at once in my life right now. I am experiencing seasons of grieving, and it is teaching me vulnerability, I am experiencing rebuilding season, and it is teaching me resilience, and definitely I am experiencing the waiting season, and it is teaching me to trust God, and trusting isn't always easy. I am experiencing a season where God is stretching me, I am experiencing a season, a wilderness season where He is teaching me to depend on Him. It's like I find myself in that space where I tell myself that I I'm not I don't even want to talk about what is happening or what I'm feeling, what I'm experiencing, because only God understands, only God understands it's like there's no language to what it is that you are experiencing, and yes, there was a point as I navigate this season when I realized that comparison started creeping in, and I began asking God, like, what did I do wrong? I am waiting on this thing for so long, and you're giving those people the same things, but I am grateful for the Holy Spirit, um, and you know, just the way how he shows up, because like I said, comparison will make you resent the process that God is walking you through, and I really don't want to miss what God is trying to do in me, do through me, and do with me in this season, right? Uh, God is still God in hard season, and I've personally learned this that difficulty does not mean abandonment. Just because a season feels painful, it does not mean God has left you. And yesterday, as I sat and I wrote to God and I said to him, I said, God, you know, I don't know how long David was in his season. I don't know how long Elijah was in his season because the Bible doesn't really tell us how long. Maybe it was a week, maybe it was a month, maybe it was a year, maybe it was a couple years. I don't know. But I said to God as I wrote yesterday, I said one thing that I am very sure of is the fact that you never left them. As a matter of fact, in that moment with Elijah, when he was he he had his mountaintop experience, and afterwards he crawled and curled up and he was ready to die. But God did not reprimand him, or what God did was God brought him into rest and God fed him and God restored him. So, even in that moment yesterday, as I wrote to God, I said to him, I don't know how long their season lasted, but one thing for sure is that I know that you never left them, you never left David, you never left Job, you never left Jeremiah. Jeremiah wept, and even Jesus experienced grief and sorrow, but you, God, you are present in every single season. And I want to remind somebody today that it doesn't matter what the season is that you are trying to navigate, you are not alone. As a matter of fact, you don't have to navigate it alone, just invite the Lord in that space with you and ask him to help you to navigate it and to help you not to miss what he is trying to do in you and through you in those seasons or in this season that you're going through. I mean, David cried, and even as I was writing to God yesterday, you know, uh, the Lord spoke to me through scripture, and he said, I don't remember what verse it was, but it was in Psalm where he said, as I was just there writing and pouring out to the Lord and just telling him how difficult a season this is. Um, and he said to me, Uh, he uh, why art thou disquieted? Oh my soul, hope thou in the Lord, and that was enough to get me up, you know, and just to push me through the day, and that was God just literally reminding me that I am present even here, even right in this moment in this season. I am present. I am present, and today, if you're listening and you are feeling emotionally overwhelmed, you love God, but you're tired, trying to trust him while carrying anxiety, trying to remain faithful while life feels uncertain, trying to hear him clearly while emotions are loud. I want you to hear this that God is not intimidated by your humanity. He understands exhaustion, he understands grief, he understands confusion, he understands emotional pain, and often difficult seasons become places of deeper intimacy with God. Because when everything else is stripped away, we begin discovering who God truly is. And I was sharing with my friend yesterday, you know, who was asking me how my night was, and I was like, I did not have a good night, I did not sleep because I anxiety, anxiety took me over. Like I woke up and I was hyperventilating uh several times throughout the night, so I did not sleep well, and this is beautiful. Me, this is honesty. I am emotionally exhausted, I am mentally exhausted, I feel spiritually exhausted, uh I just uh physically exhausted, and that is what I've been going through, and you know, some some journey, you know, it's really just going to be you and God. I want you to know that some seasons it's gonna be you and God. People will not understand the season that you're navigating, and it doesn't even make any sense that you try to explain what is happening because I've realized that the moment that you're not able to show up for persons, they forget about all of the times that you were able to show up, and so you know, yes, I have persons that I know that I can sit with, and they will pray with me and for me as I navigate this season. I said to God, I don't know how long this season is gonna last, but as he reminded me yesterday, he said, Hope thou in the Lord, and so uh I encourage you, and I'm saying this to you, that some seasons it's really just going to be you and God, and that's okay because he is with you through all seasons. The truth is, seasons affect our nervous system, and that is the reason I have been struggling with anxiety, so different seasons of life they affect us emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. Transitions can trigger anxiety, it triggers fear, it triggers uncertainty, it triggers emotional fatigue, it triggers grief and identity confusion and nervous system dysregulation. And I had to ask God, I'm like, God, please, I am asking you to help me, or I'm asking you to calm my nervous system to regulate my nervous system, right? Because, like I mentioned earlier, that seasons they do they they affect us, they trigger different emotions, and some seasons will feel heavier than others, and I remember. A couple years ago, as I was going through a very difficult season, and my sister said to me, She said, Mo, this is your biggest storm yet. But she said, She reminded me that you are going to just pull from all of the previous seasons, and just know that God will get you through this one. And as I'm reminded about it this morning, this season that I'm in, or or this mixture of seasons that I'm experiencing right now, it is new, and it is nothing like I've ever been through before, and it is hard. It is hard, it feels heavy. Because at the moment, on any given day, is like my mind and body, like they are trying to adapt while my spirit is also processing the change that is taking place, and sometimes we shame ourselves for struggling emotionally during difficult seasons, but emotional struggle does not automatically mean spiritual failure, it means that we are human, it means healing requires grace, and rest requires grace, adjustment requires grace, and God gives grace for every season. He reminds us in the word that my grace is sufficient for you. It means that his grace is able to carry us through every single season of our life that we are trying to navigate, and then we don't want to build a permanent home in these seasons either. So the Holy Spirit would have just reminded me just now to remind you do not build permanent homes in temporary season. Sometimes we become so comfortable with survival that we begin believing survival is our permanent identity. But difficult seasons are not always permanent. The storm has an expiration date, the wilderness has an exit, and the waiting season eventually shifts. The Bible tells us that weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning. It didn't say weeping endures, but it does not stay forever. It says weeping endures, sorry, but it does not stay forever. And sometimes healing begins when we stop identifying ourselves by our current season. So I want to remind you this morning that it doesn't matter what the season of life is that you are navigating this morning. You are not the depression, you are not the anxiety, you are not your financial struggle, you are not your heartbreak, you are not your waiting season, you are not your wilderness, and you are not your grief, you are still chosen, you are still loved, you're still called, and you are definitely still seen by God. And one of the greatest lessons that difficult seasons teach us is surrender, and it is not passive surrender, it is trusting surrender, the kind that says, God, I do not understand this season, but I trust you inside of it. Because real faith is not just trusting God only when life makes sense. Real faith is trusting Him while you are still waiting for clarity, and honestly, sometimes the greatest miracle is not immediate breakthrough. Sometimes the greatest miracle is the peace that carries you while you wait. So today, maybe you are in a grieving season, a waiting season, a rebuilding season, a lonely season, a healing season, or a confusing season, or maybe like me, you're navigating several seasons all at once. I want you to know that the season is not wasted, God is still working, even when you cannot fully see it, even when you do not understand it fully, even when emotions fluctuate daily, God is still present, and one day you will look back and realize the season that almost broke you actually built you. Just let that sit for a little bit, and just remember that every season in your life has purpose and God is with you in every chapter. You will not fear the transition or the change, or there's no need to. Just keep trusting in God, in the waiting and in the breakthrough. Yes, the season may be difficult, but it will not destroy you because God is strengthening you through every process. Today, I want you to release fear and anxiety and hopelessness and just believe that even as you navigate, you are growing, you are healing, and you're becoming stronger. Your current season is not your final destination. And always remember that God is faithful in every season. Father, I want to thank you for walking us through every season of life. Thank you for being faithful when we are weak. Thank you for sustaining us in difficult seasons and celebrating with us in fruitful ones. Daddy, teach us how to trust you more deeply. Help us to resist the not to resist the process, and instead to lean into your presence through every transition. Father, heal every weary heart, restore every discouraged soul, and bring peace to every anxious mind, and remind us daily that no season lasts forever. You are still writing the story. Our story is not over. In Jesus' name. Amen. I want to thank you for joining me for another episode of the Beautiful Me Empowerment Ministry Podcast. If this episode blessed you, share it with someone navigating a difficult season right now. And remember, difficult different seasons do not mean God has changed. He is still faithful, still present, still working. I love you all so much. See you next episode.