Detras de Una Mujer
Detras de Una Mujer es el podcast donde las historias se cuentan con el corazón. Con tus anfitrionas Bonnie, Liz y Eli, hemos creado un espacio seguro y sin juicios para hablar de las verdades que no siempre compartimos. Aquí, celebramos nuestras risas, validamos nuestras lágrimas y recordamos que no estamos solas. Si buscas un lugar donde ser tú misma, has llegado al lugar correcto.
Detras de Una Mujer
Te has quedado con las ganas? - Ep. 17
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En el episodio número 17 de Detrás de Una Mujer, nos abrimos de corazón para hablar de esas "ganas" que a veces se quedan guardadas en un cajón. Desde viajes que no se hicieron hasta carreras que se pospusieron por la familia o el trabajo, exploramos cómo la vida nos va cambiando las prioridades.
Acompaña a nuestras anfitrionas en una charla llena de anécdotas personales sobre:
El peso del "Hubiera": ¿Realmente sirve de algo martirizarse por el pasado?
Maternidad y Sueños: Cómo equilibrar la vida familiar con los deseos individuales.
La Parálisis por Análisis: Por qué a veces pensamos tanto las cosas que dejamos pasar las oportunidades.
Decidir ser Feliz: La conclusión de que la felicidad es una elección diaria, con lo que tenemos hoy.
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Thank you for starting with us in another episode of the family. I'm very emotional to be a little bit with you, our friends. I did bronquitis, my wife was enfermed, many things. You know that Liz were in the same camera.
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SPEAKER_02And chicas, you have to do that with ganas of something, always a viajecito, terminating a carrier, inclusive say a te quiero, or say to me.
SPEAKER_00I'm with via. No, today it's like I terminated, I have my wife, I have my family, I'm embarrassed. So with all this, the life is alcanzando, no? So it's so fascinating.
SPEAKER_01So you can go with the guy to via.
SPEAKER_00Exactly. I think it's part of it, because one of you, the life, one of the new. Exactly. And some things that have been a moment, but not your time.
SPEAKER_02But what chévere that is a via, because we are with the guys of something. And you know I was with guys to be here with my friends when I was to go to a player, but we are planification. It's like what we're doing, and we said, Yeah, this year we are and we are reunion in this line, and WhatsApp. But you voice. Exactly, but sort of complicated. But I think terminated, you quise study diploma, and for questions of time, no pude, young terminated periodista, but I just decided I was with diplomacia and no pude. And I think staying in other pays, representing an embajada, imagine. Exactly. These are not definitively. But no quedaste picada, okay, no, I'm picada with the English, because I'm gonna go in Ecuador, to study more lighterly, it's distinct to go to practical. And I've got to do it. But today no, at this point I had, but yeah, I'm at time today. I think. But there's a little or something that I think is dramatically.
SPEAKER_01No, because you had a rato, dandy vueltas, I got the gas, I did the guy, and the way, you have to date the gana, when me, okay. I did, you were, you agarraba, yo, who me quiero ir, agarraba un bolso with quatro trappos and me montaba and I i was via, never mean he parabed articles for gente, no, because I have to go with an amiga because I have to spare for my mamma. O sea, yo agarraba, simplemente, o sea, esos son recuerdos de que quiero ir para la playa, nadie puede, todos están cumpliendo con X cosas, lo que sea, yo me voy sola. Sabes? De verdad, o sea, anda, lo que puedo haber sido no fue, no exist. And I mean I get away because I think I could have. And I heard. In cual. I'm viva. You am the life and I am vivid, not existir. Sabes, like the can of Carol G I have been. So I've been my life intensely, and with conscience, I have this. When I like, it's like I like it. Seguimos, siguiente proposition.
SPEAKER_02You lives completely.
SPEAKER_01You am my life and I am living. Some is not exactly respirating, it's living. And I lived my life.
SPEAKER_02And I was for emotional, and now I arrey because I was a little bit more clear and more transparent with them, because they have other stories. I feel like this with this case, okay, nothing. I did the guys of this.
SPEAKER_00Or you're not going to be able to do it. One person.
SPEAKER_02You went to my emotional, because we're entering at the adolescence, don't let me know your money, your son, but I got another person and they adelant. And so I did with the gas, not to learn more, because this has been my natural idea, but with the guys of saying this is what happened really. And this is the frustration.
SPEAKER_01But in the part emotional, it's a little bit different, for the quiz, many of my family have muted, and I think that I'm going to go with the guy of more, but see yo, comparing a little bit more.
SPEAKER_00And no importer what I think today quisieras have been one.
SPEAKER_01So I had this recuerdo of this ultimately, but no sabía que iba a ser el ultimate because he murió de COVID, fue bastante repentino, it was the COVID. So I was very afortunada that those two me pude despedida con intention. Yes, this would be, my abuela had cáncer, and valor much in his ultimate años, that the order natural of those things i will pass in one moment, and consciently much, agradez much, and I was in mind, always with my wife, and my wife accompanyed the ultimate. And so I agree much, because I desped it is valiant.
SPEAKER_02When you do, you go, I'm pro-communication, you are of those people who explain a text and say I can't, to my thousand, to my papa, papa, I am. And my and those I know that I'm apart from those who are contacting, I'm gonna april, and my friends and if my among people and say that you don't want a message. If you interest and telephone and I'm super important for me dealing with it, I'm very communicative and I'm gonna say you're expressive, super expressive. You don't have to go to the guy to say I am. I like to amount to my kids, I am but the people who amount.
SPEAKER_01So it's because it's nothing or because I did a favor, simply a target.
SPEAKER_00My amigos, you do estilo meme con los reels. This is the one that you say pens in me.
SPEAKER_01Claro, yo comparto así como no antes, antes era 12 at the gente que me importaba, 12, ya, 12 a m, I am pendiente at the 12 for llamar. But después no, you don't receive much, and you're like, the gentleman is much in this notes.
SPEAKER_02My círculo, but not at the 12th, but super temporary, 8 of the morning. Hey, dime what five, you see, I'm sorry, yeah. I'm to escule voice, you have to say, I mean the voice to communicate, for me, the voice to communicate much of animal, what you see, if it's good, what is well. You are very auditive. Well, the people are very auditive, for the general.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, no, you can. And this is what I'm saying this year, because the point I've had more is present with my family. So that's what I try to say this year, and now I'm saying, aunque it's a text, hey. The other day I was coming with, and one of my among people at the day of my matrimonia with my mother, I spent for all the person to come and say, I have pairs, and everything was like, Okay, what we got the day of our time. So the other day I was coming and sent a photo, bro, you're the one. Thank you for having me. So there are things that you say, you need to stay very. If I hear, I'm gonna go ahead and intent to say, or I'm here in the supermercado, I'm sure of me, or whatever.
SPEAKER_02A part of the time, we are here, don't know if you grab this podcast in the next semester, and not for tragic, sort of enfermed and my page, okay. Or not, simply.
SPEAKER_01This is the life. Vive and the present is what I'm saying at the time of it. So I'm this like I got. Okay, mañana I'm gonna be more joven, then I'll go.
SPEAKER_02Or compression and a moment especially for luck, pony. Okay, viste, pony what you can do, because you don't know if mañana is away.
SPEAKER_00And I've got parties that have been because no me encantaría, like there are much that one. For me personally, um, not that I had a carrier, because I had a carrier bonita, but I commented to the school for my bachelor's at the 26 years. Empecé a poco, right? Immediately at the 18 years. You in this time exactly what I could say. Okay, yeah, like you create in this moment you could say uh forensics. Like all the way to work with investigation, with different cases and so, and then I encourage the murder mystery. But this is my carriage. My career was analytic and all this, and the 26 years, okay, yeah, this is part of my career, I'm gonna be able to get more in seriously and this was one of the things that I did, I don't want to propose and I will say because I will go with guns. You don't want to take 30 years and say, I know. No, I can't passionate and I passionate both of this of the analytics, and this has been a lot of places, I could enter the world of different ways, and it was to turn the time and say no me important, you will have control of my life and you will see. Because it's what I like. In the back and in the house.
SPEAKER_02But what happens if you logged at the 20, at the 30, to be a duelo, exactly a duelo of what, no? Because if it was the moment, it was the moment.
SPEAKER_00At the 18 years, I don't know what I was saying. For me, it was the Pariseo and talented and the amistades, and I'm gonna go in the discote. So for me in this moment was important. Now I sort of say, what do I have in the discote?
SPEAKER_02Yo, in the 90s, the sopa de caracol en vez de estar pensando los terrenos que voy a comprar in the año 2000. O sea, típico, o sea, no, no, no, no, no teníamos esta información.
SPEAKER_01No me arrepiento de nada, no me arrepiento de nada. O sea, pienso si me pongo a martirizarme todo lo que he gastado, voy a caer en una depresión financiera of muchas años because it has been much descontrol. But no me arrepiento de nada, I've been maravillosas experiencias, es con lo que I killed.
SPEAKER_02And the team has loved, I'm apprentices. Okay, I think at a larger, you know, I mean arrepient of that. And if you have something, it's because it was the moment to have it in this instant. And if it's a future incredible, but I got me from the cabinet or the party, say, nothing, because it's better today, imagine.
SPEAKER_01Exactly. So what martial? No. If you're watching this, quiz my life was of this manner.
SPEAKER_00But a lot of you know that's my natural. You asked me, it was my life.
SPEAKER_02But no me animated, nothing. But no, like in a way positive.
SPEAKER_00Like, okay, if the relation a certain time, you don't have to appear all that you appreciate. And I stay when I'm in a way. You know what I'm saying? Like it's very different because I'm not gonna go back.
SPEAKER_01You have been much in the present, you don't know what I went to my mind during my present, the present, the present.
SPEAKER_02Okay, this is a formula, because no stresses or no enters in anxiety in a future, and a little bit you deprimes what's what would have been. So it's vivid. The hour is this that explicit exactly this, that you find in the day a day, a day a day, the cargases of the past, because it would be that it comes a little bit in the past is the present, and there are things that you don't have.
SPEAKER_00And I don't camp my history, I'm here, and so now what I'm gonna do with my history, I would say no, decide. Exactly.
SPEAKER_02I'm gonna decide I'm gonna have things well, you will decide to take a good attitude, with the whole, I decided to be feliz. You know that something like the amount and serious is a decision, definitely.
SPEAKER_00100%. See, because that's what I think, one would say, I know, you for many years had this. What important? These days we appreciate, and we have to take all these things, because this apprentice compared to other person, always who can, or that's right. But the story is. No, and not a martializes.
SPEAKER_02You hid the moment with the errands that you need.
SPEAKER_01You then invite a little bit that if you're in a situation in which is completely inconforme, infelized, incómodo, or what they're doing, pues cambiar because it's vivo. My family, my family decided that it has a solution but the mute. There are things that quiz are more difficult to get, but because vivo, viva, yes, but it's cambiar. And if you have no, but if there's the option, tomate control. That's the question.
SPEAKER_02If you can paracaída and those, that ya no is the same, haga, pong, you can see this, let me see. Obviously, if there's the possibilities, hazlo, quit this money, and what is it with all the information that has and the guns?
SPEAKER_00Because for me, I think that means much of this of it in the moment is uh paralysis for analysis. This is part of my structure. If you do this, what are the risk?
SPEAKER_01No, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's why we enseñan parapet. I was in the carriage, I was at a place, and I saw that the people lancet.
SPEAKER_02There was one of the paradas at the public, the people language, and it was like, 'I'm gonna dance, vamos!' I was lancing, but yeah, with the time I went super structured. I think much if I have this, and if I put this, I know, no, no. I don't know if I'm with the guys, because at the time it's a really, because if I do. But I think when I was hoping, I dropped, I dropped in a time to work in plain concerts. What do you want to say? I'm with the guys of the things I think, but
SPEAKER_00But now with the time I've vuelto mucho más structurada, si yo gasto estos 5 dollars, entonces I demorated three hours in comprometing my car. Ay, no, te puedo creer. Because I can compare things, that's exactly what you did, the more.
SPEAKER_02No, mira, you think that the more plata inverted is the same. And if I have to get me a ghost, if it's commodity, because what I'm saying, nothing. The day that you have absolutely nothing. Chua vida, chuaya, disfrutar.
SPEAKER_03Chua vida.
SPEAKER_01My social era rumbo, muchas rumas, muchas rumas disfrenadas, and the maternity, and delicious. That's it.
SPEAKER_00Claro. And I see you buy plata.
SPEAKER_01For example, and not really the command, but the experience.
SPEAKER_00100%. And for it in a moment, because it's the only thing to get me a pasta than me to Italy and the other. No, yes, old. Now I'm going to have a way different. But you can use a niche and say we're going to have pasta with your papa, and they would.
SPEAKER_01No, but if you demorate three years to compare your car, what are the hours to planificate a car?
SPEAKER_00No, no, no. It's more like I'm a little bit more languada. There are certain things in the life. Like not all me paralyzed, there are certain things in the life. And so I forget, I was like, and you were in a sale of border.
SPEAKER_02The horror that has been delicious.
SPEAKER_00You connect to my spirit, in a year. I planificated in one seminar, and when he said, No, I can't get one, okay? In six years in Mexico, listen, I came to the Airbnb, listen, and then I was like, when we connect all the family, we're going to have a video, and these things inspire.
SPEAKER_02It's different, the organization is distinct, but we're going to disfrutze it of a manner different, not with it that you have when you are. But we have to disfruit distinct and have other types of recuerdas, no?
SPEAKER_00Claro, exactly. And more than not, my pension is in my host. Y ese es mi enfoque.
SPEAKER_01Yo por lo menos quemé mucho las differentas como in times that correspondían, ¿sabes? Como que demencié mucho a mis 20, sabes? Me gradué de la universidad, la locura, tal, no sé qué. Seguí rumbeando, rumbeando y trabajando a la vez. Entonces, como que no había mayor control porque podía hacer las dos cosas, rumbear y trabajar. Y ahorita como que, ¿qué?
SPEAKER_02Rumbiar y después al día de la roba.
SPEAKER_01O duermo, arrumber. Vamos. No creo, ¿sabes? Ya tengo la bebé, pero también mi bebé fue como planificada. Yo llegué a los 30 años y como que tengo un hijo ahora o ya después no. Y a los 30 quedé embarazada, a los 30 parí. Listo. Entonces, fue muy, muy, muy deseado. Fue planificado. Yo tenía un implante, me lo quité para buscar bebé y quedé embarazada inmediatamente. Entonces ya, como era como que lo que quería también. Entonces ya ahora entiendo, no lo veo como que, ay, la carga y tal, de bolas. Ya hay veces que me puede que me dé nostalgia. Wow, lo que era ir a esto. O sea, como que tengo que ir a un concierto, ya no es igual. Tengo que planificarlo. No, tú lo recuerdas viendo.
SPEAKER_02O sea, ya te cambia todo.
SPEAKER_01Sí, porque lo quemé, lo que quemé mucho, fue que fui a un concierto one, fui a muchos.
SPEAKER_02Tú sabes que tu is perfect. When I say at the 24 years, I literally agree, because I was traveling at the 17 years and the opportunity to visit, connect gentlemen, go to concerts, entrevist artists. I had a life accelerated. And when I say at the 24th, I think, I'm getting the bottom. And you're not mamma. I was my mama at the 28 years. And it's rich. No, you played it. A part of what I said, I mean. But Rico, because you said he had all the chicken. So I say, really, we have gas of something, can we learn? Can you say that for design, because who has something more at all? And definitively, I also think that nobody was with the arrepentiment of what it would have been and not. And if definitively this was a years, is because it was the moment. That was not the moment. So if you can't go with the guys, hell.
SPEAKER_00How the exact. So we're going to go with what we have. Yeah, I think that a lot of times it's the same. If you do a Red Bull, my life will reaction very differently from when I had 22 years and I'm two hours. But it's go with the life, because the life and literally is one and it's rapidly.
SPEAKER_02Much, much. In other words, much for acompawn.