Mamás: Los "Dichos" y Lecciones que nos Formaron🎙️✨ - Ep. 26 #mama #podcast

Bienvenidos a una entrega más de Detrás de una Mujer!

En este episodio especial, celebramos el Día de las Madres compartiendo un espacio íntimo sobre lo que significa ser madre, ser hija y el impacto de las mujeres que nos criaron. Recordamos con risas y nostalgia esos "dichos" clásicos que escuchamos en nuestro subconsciente hasta el día de hoy, desde el famoso "madre solo hay una" hasta las advertencias que ahora, como madres, entendemos perfectamente.

En este episodio hablamos sobre:

La nostalgia y alegría de celebrar a mamá.
Frases de crianza: ¿Por qué mamá siempre tenía la razón?
La vulnerabilidad y el instinto protector: "Con mis hijos no te metas".
Cómo la maternidad nos transforma y nos ayuda a valorar a nuestras propias madres.

Como decimos en el podcast, el posparto es para siempre y el amor de una madre es INCOMPARABLE. Gracias por acompañarnos y ser parte de esta comunidad!

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

Amigos, ¿qué tal? Bienvenidos a una entrega más de Detrás de Una Mujer el Podcast. Muchísimas gracias por acompañarnos. Y por favor, te invito, si aún no te has suscrito, por favor, que toques la campanita y te suscribas y también que nos sigas por todas las redes sociales para que no te pierdas nada de lo que comentamos aquí. Chicas, ¿cómo estamos hoy? Estuvimos festejadas el fin de semana porque recién pasó el día de la madre. Comenten qué tal estuvieron. Inspirada, sería mi palabra.

SPEAKER_00 0:29

Inspirada porque tú estás stando, supongo, ¿no?

SPEAKER_02 0:32

Exactamente, porque ahora, pues, aparte de que soy mamá, seré mamá, entonces esos días are muy especial that compared to the nuestros that we are festejando at noses, ¿sabes? It's much chévere.

SPEAKER_01 0:44

It's a festeja y is festejada. It's a episode in the house.

SPEAKER_00 0:50

Ay, a me does a little bit of nostalgia because I'm my mamma, qué rico, qué maravilla, and I'm a little bit of nostalgia because mommy is with me. And definitively one.

SPEAKER_01 1:10

It's during it in this case, I'm my mama, no one are my hair, and my mom is there. And this capital just is to honor. And no mother who has redundancy that we have and that we are with this after the day of hour.

SPEAKER_02 1:35

The madre are famous for their created, which escuchamos in our subconscient, that we left because my mother took the 15 minutes and I said la loca and I was dormant, and now I essentially, and then I was and now I left with all the gun.

SPEAKER_00 1:57

Imaginate what I transmit my abuelita who is in the cielo. Much, really. But there are much, okay. In my conversation, you say that you should use much. Siempre enseñada con eso. Ella me formó, me traumó, no, well, but she had a formation and you find her confident. Ella siempre me estaba contando su things, cómo si had a platication, or something, or entrenched for that you don't repeat. But you dictate, no puedes decir nada. Acuérdate que lo que te digo entre you and yo, tal, no sé qué más. Equal if you have a casa de visita, era no repita nada de lo que tú ves in esa casa. Usted no ve ni para los lados, eso no es problemas suyo. Eso era un entrenamiento. Fue un entrenamiento. No repitas. Lo que pasa es que no.

SPEAKER_01 3:16

But mira que desde chiquita we comenzar a educar like adultos, because for the general you say to alguien a little bit more, but a creature, my friend, who repeats.

SPEAKER_00 3:36

And you don't know in the entrance. It was demo important to not say mentions, no mientes, not exaggerates, okay, do the things as. And my mamma, my mamma, my mamma, the who I was, my mom me enseñed to tiring the piece and alzhear the man. So frontal, you free.

SPEAKER_02 4:30

You don't have to do that.

SPEAKER_01 4:35

At the time of this, you don't know. In my case, it was when I'm mad, I don't understand. And what apprentices there are this phrase, but it's typical, I mommy, but when I'm a mother I don't understand. Or I'm your mother, and mommy, because I'm your mother. And this infundable respect. Exactly. Because it's the law of mom, it's the word of the mom, and it's like this. But we have this, the children are like what happens, mama. Antes in our episode it was like mamma, this is definitively.

SPEAKER_02 5:08

And you think that this is who had the limits with her.

SPEAKER_01 5:16

You said empujar and yeah, I said, no, no, no, I was like when I saw the language of mamma, the fucking thing, and when I pelava the eyes, because now the chicken said, Mommy, I'm like, I in one occasion to my entrepreneurs. Mammy, I'm like, when I had this eye, I entended clearly the mom, like silence in this moment. Exactly.

SPEAKER_00 5:59

No recuerdo imprudence of my part, but the infundable era was embarrassed. Chama, what terror era? Much cuid, psychoterror, chama, mucho psychoterror, mucho cuidado. It's like if you're talking about the elephant in this moment saying, Much cuid, yeah. No tan chiquita, no, but this was my education sexual. Much cuid when you pasta la manito, mija.

SPEAKER_02 6:34

Yo pensaba que funcionaba así, o sea, no, si yo le toco la mano a un muchachito embarazada.

SPEAKER_00 6:40

Sí, toda mi educación sexual de pana, mi video con mi abuela, era cuidado con una vaina, cuidado con una vaina, cuidado con dejarte pasar la mano. Esa fue el verdadero terror. Quedar embarazada. Cuidado con una vaina y cuidado con mi mamá.

SPEAKER_01 6:59

Yo recuerdo en mi época, mamá sorry, que lo voy a contar, my mamá como que nos llevaba el calendario, mi hermana y a mí del periodo. Claro, chicas, and ya les tocó, ya necesitan algo for sus días difficiles or something, pero era la forma diplomatic, and what necesitas? Y ya compraste, te compro, pero estaba pendiente de, ¿no?

SPEAKER_00 7:18

Y tu hermana y tu estaban cronometradas. Siempre. Todas en la casa. Eso es así. Eso es una explicación if alguien in the audience says it was a little bit of a little bit of a little bit of a little bit of a little bit of mujer in casa se les alinea la menstruation. And those están at the same time.

SPEAKER_01 7:38

It's rarely. Or sales on the doming siete.

SPEAKER_00 7:52

De hecho, después era como que, bueno, ya hijos no voy a tener. And ya quedé embarazada a los 30, pues. Ya era una adulta, ya me graduate, ya he hecho my thoughts, but it was much of this.

SPEAKER_02 8:07

A mí me da risa because after when you embarrassed a 30 years, I fui with my mama and you had made it, you no entire por qué you had made it.

SPEAKER_00 8:14

So I'm a señora of 30 a year. For el psychoterror of the life, cuid, cuid.

SPEAKER_02 8:19

Mamá.

SPEAKER_01 8:22

Sabes que llegar al embarazo, it's like vergüenza, no? O sea, mamá, es eso. Mamá, yo when I announce that I was embarrassed, I was casada. You had months of casada, but you were, I'm embarrassed. Those felices, but in the end, quested embarrassada. O sea, it's like Imaginate, imaginate. It's like the picardía. Sin estar casada también, valiente, valiente.

SPEAKER_02 8:55

Me imagino como hombre that's embarrassed to a mother, because this is the mother one on one. So no me voy a track to the casa. Don't you know?

SPEAKER_01 9:05

A mí me gustar the title professional. The casa, what I can say, I try the title.

SPEAKER_00 9:13

In my case, it was equal. Then graduate. I thought my ability the visit, I didn't have two things pending that I've heard, which is the casa of your thousand. My wife with casa, the gentleman pensed in this manner, I have to matrimony and get to my hair. And the other was that you don't have graduated, Lisa Alejandra. No te has graduated. Some of the two things that I had pending for me tranquil. And you learned, abuela, no meaning, I don't want to graduate, because you don't want to vayas, talk. But I was graduated, and it was very emotive for me that I was already my ability and me graduated, I graduated. I think my ability to graduate because it was important.

SPEAKER_01 10:17

Imagine as well as, or mother, expectatives of those homes, and they clean. Then the effort, all the empowerment that they put.

SPEAKER_02 10:44

And we're creating a little bit. Appends your personality, and now school, society, all of this. And this orgasm.

SPEAKER_01 11:52

Because in a whole moment I said, 'They're saying that I go, you go and say you're not.' Okay, imagine one adapted to the model of his eyes, and they turn repeating. You don't want to be when I'm grand and turns more exaggerated.

SPEAKER_02 12:15

But what I encourage is that you use me more to me to me. And so I say.

SPEAKER_00 13:14

Aprovecho este paso para pedirte perdón for esas things that quizás llamé mamá a otra persona who no era mi mamá, and te pido perdón, madre, solo hay una mamá, tienes razón.

SPEAKER_02 13:26

100%, porque yo también he tenido mis moments of imprudencia en contra de mi mamá, porque no te hace better than my propio a veces. Qué duro.

SPEAKER_01 13:35

Sí, es during.

SPEAKER_02 13:44

You connected more than a man, yes, Elena, si you are. And I entire 100%. Because I said, you are Luna, and you have to say because I'm my mama. Those are my mom.

SPEAKER_00 13:58

No, because I'm my mama, because nobody more than you, because you're enseñando, because you appreciate, because you thought these things dictate the moments. Y tú, no entiendo.

SPEAKER_01 14:12

Y saben que, chicas, and no hay oration like the mother. O sea, no one will desech the more deseada. Ni your parents, including my kids. Ni the abola, ni the mother, ni the mother, not my mother. When a mother doubled rodillas, creme that much attention. You for larger time, my mama, my mother. When I do something, I say, Mama, for sure, put it in or something, because I think that else. I escuched, but I think. And bend the moment in the mother, the people, and those who don't have to go with the reward, but nothing like the mama, no one will say the more. The owner of the mother, not equivocal. Because digging ustedes, in a moment the mamma, this chicken me gonna, and you have a reason. It's a locure, but the mother don't equivocas, jam. Ni con pareja, ni con amistades, ni con trabajos, inclusive with trabajos, the mommy not equivalent.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

My mom said, No, this is uh, I can see, and I was in situations more time than I was for giving the contrary to my mom. Because I have a reason. And I see this voice, and Selena, you know, you say that my mom has happened, and now I will pay to my mom because she had an answer and I'm the contrary.

SPEAKER_00 15:48

Anyway with the phrase more repetitive of my mama, which is you. No teacher, but you know, you tea. Qué fuerte!

SPEAKER_01 16:07

For no escuchar. Now that somebody escuchamos a nuestra madre. But retrocedamos el tiempo, pues a ver si cuando éramos adolescentes disfrutábamos de escuchar a mamá, para nada.

SPEAKER_00 16:15

Dios mío, no, este episodio iba a ser puro, yo pedíle perdón a mi mamá. Yo sí que le di mal a esta señora chamo. Yo era una rebelde sin causa, porque es que era muy callejera, era muy callejera, Dios mío, yo ahora, que tengo una hija, yo, Dios mío, que Agatha no me haga esto. O sea, irse de la casa y quién sabe dónde estaba, ni haciendo qué, y me fui dos días y llegué bronceada, porque hasta para la playa fui. Y lo que te pido. Y mi mamá lo único que me decía era, Licey, por favor, contéstame el teléfono, qué angustia. Chama, y yo bien enloquecida por ahí.

SPEAKER_01 16:48

Yo le criticaba igual a mi mamá que yo me iba de farra con mis amigas, con mi hermana, and my mamá no dormía hasta que llegamos. Y mi mamá duerme, and mi hermano, bravísimo, porque mi mamá no dormía, por ejemplo, él no dormía y nadie dormía en esta casa. Entonces yo le digo, pero mami, no, y si yo llegaba 2 de la mañana, mi mamá era esperándonos in the sala, despiertas y chequeando, bueno, ya llegaron a sus cuartos. Y si llegaba a 4 de la mañana, you said, pero mamá, you envejecto dormir. No, ella said, No puedo dormir hasta que ustedes llegan. Son preocupations únicas ofers.

SPEAKER_02 17:27

At the 17 years I was the ventanita where you escaped. Yeah? And you said that you were more intelligent than those. And Selena, what I was like, Oh my gosh! And I thought that you were mad and I said, I'm sure and again. I was this night, and I said, Oh my gosh, you don't know what I'm saying, my mother. The ultimate that I was if I'm, but if I'm bad, my mother did the silence. It's better. Oh, because I think that you rotate the I was the big, that you, okay, and this is the anguish deception to my mother. And in this moment, you wonder my mother sent me, and Selena, what I'm saying. Oh, this is my moment, perdon my mother, because I have an eyes, aunky, it's perfect and never meeting.

SPEAKER_00 18:39

Oh no, I think you leave a dios, for sure, to be a much tranquil. Because no faltar, no faltar quien me diga, I es que las vas a pagar todo.

SPEAKER_01 18:52

Claro, por supuesto que me cuando dicen.

SPEAKER_00 18:54

Por supuesto que me han dicho. Y no solo me han dicho eso, sino que me dicen, ¿cómo te va a engañar, Agatha? O sea, ¿cómo que en busca te va a meter? Porque el de la pijamada te lo sabes. Ay, claro. Yo me escapé porque mi mamá había una llave que solo tenía ella. Entonces ella en las noches pasaba esa llave. En lo que me dejó pagando las llaves, le sacé copia y me escapé, pero me escapé un montón de veces. Hasta que un día llegué y ella estaba despierta haciendo algo por ahí, anda, ¿qué estás haciendo mal? ¿Estás llegando? And I was derechito para el cuarto, and después, bueno, ya hallar la vainita of the puerta. Sí, pero yo era terrible. O sea, it was callejerísima, callegerísima, callejerísima. I was demasiado la room in the country that I got the disco.

SPEAKER_02 19:41

And now we went away from this one. Because you were, I was like, Because now you can apply to Luna. You create that you don't have to, I can't believe it.

SPEAKER_00 19:57

Exactly.

SPEAKER_01 20:01

I said to my mom, in another episode I viable and my family in that moment. And those person, mommy, I said I'm. And my mamma podía transformar in this episode, and so pobrecita, my mom, mommy, perdóname si te derramar lágrimas. De verdad que sí, sí. Pero sí, pobrecita, yo ahora creo que después de escuchar las versiones de ustedes andar lo que pasó a mi mami, de verdad, qué valientes, de verdad, todo. Because nunca dejan de amarte. No, nunca dejan de poner el pecho under the balance because pues, but else van a decir, is my wife or is my wife and else no te metas.

SPEAKER_00 21:03

And with my sino, in the house I arranged with them, but in the country I would defend the pronostic. This has been my mama. Mm-hmm. My mamma, protector. I met in that problem, and I was my mama defending me, and in the house with me, my different, but with the others, I was defending, and I think that I'm because I had my moments that I will be like my mama.

SPEAKER_02 21:30

You will be, I don't know, this will have those things or these things that I would have. No, if I said I'm like my mama, it's a lot of people, because she's the one intelligent that I've connected in my life. But that is where one empire qualify the things that I have of my mama. You so I'm a mama very strict, always like my mama. One of the things that I said jam is that my name will be dormant in Casa Jena. And I sort of reclamed my mama because all the amigues of the school know that we're going to have a sleepover in casita for the years. And my mom said, I mean no means what happens in Casa Jena.

SPEAKER_01 22:18

And no sevista.

SPEAKER_00 22:29

I mean me, nunca me dejaron. El sometimiento me llevó a ser tan callejera después.

SPEAKER_01 22:36

Claro, fue como que la exageración, como que aprovechaste y saliste.

SPEAKER_00 22:42

Así mira.

SPEAKER_01 22:45

Yo le decía a Juan Martín, ¿te quieres ir al no mami que una piscinaza o una reunión? No, todavía my casa is llena of them. I'm a forever who will receive those contact and supervision. In my life.

SPEAKER_00 23:18

Exactly for the moment that she could in the car. But igualita, you're not going to be able to do it.

SPEAKER_02 23:24

Because you know what happens in my car, you don't know what happens in Casa Gena, so before, we're back, they can see what they're doing. And there's no player of the casa.

SPEAKER_00 23:36

Exactly. Escucharlas, what are you saying?

SPEAKER_01 23:42

No.

SPEAKER_02 23:44

Antes era exaggeration, mamma, you don't have privacy. I enjoy mama.

SPEAKER_01 23:54

I disfruta conversation with my mama and I think, Mammy, how was my entire time? And I have these conversations profundas with my mom that I want to say that my mom is my mother, which I was because I was like mamma. In the moment you transform from mother and have two times, obviously, I made the risk to my mom. No, I didn't know. No lay to exponential. But I'm going to get me an hour conversation and escuch, because for the general, she is the one who escuches. But then you press attention and say, Mamma, cuent me. And then this day I conversed with her, how do you say the voice? Because I was in a late telephone, mommy, cuéntame de este enamorado que you say. Ay, my hitting a llamada, and I wanted all the stories, but escuchabas like lead the space to her for you, no?

SPEAKER_02 24:42

Yeah, I'm auditing. And for example, this podcast and the things that we have talked about have been many of these for my mom of different things. Your mom, imagine we're going to talk about talking. And I'm going to say some stories, and I'm like, man, you're now entire those things that you said. Because one of the kids said, I know my mom is this and this.

SPEAKER_00 25:20

But I was 20. And I destaped my mother and I did. My mom says to me. My mama me connected me. So my mother is engañada because I will go with a type of person that ella I'm others. No, my mama says, I think that my, but I don't know in this, and this and this, and don't prepare that you say. This is my relationship.

SPEAKER_01 26:18

I'm not sure after there are things preocupations, for sure.

SPEAKER_00 26:32

Guilla, dale una vuelta to my mamma, tal, and I said, Lise, you don't know what orgullosaurus that is my mamma of tea. Osea, you don't know with the emotion that your mamma habla de ti. Me dice my pana, no, and you say, Oh, it has been a process.

SPEAKER_01 26:49

Sabes que see, one that was durable with mamma, what lindo reconocer el trabajo de ellos, no? O sea, and say, my mamma passe in crianza because no sabemos whether it was para comer or not in the casa, but you pony el pan over the mes, para dártelo y compartirlo para tus hermanos. Andas batallas internas that mamá at the moment of crime. Yo por eso no hay que ser tan duros. And the time of my mother has been an austerity super forte that when I was in Ecuador I sent because mamma was here.

SPEAKER_00 27:40

Antes of being mamma, you had hijabs or this or the other, and I said, I am, I am like my eyes, I had responsibilities in that manner with these person, but when I think that no point of comparison. And it's abierto, no, if alguien has one point of view, but for me there's an answer and después of the maternity. Okay, I said I should have this personita like my hair, but when I tuve my propia hija and yourself, this amount is incomparable with nada.

SPEAKER_02 28:24

Disculpa, pero yo diría que ser mamá es ser vulnerable. Esa es la palabra. Y ahora mi hijo.

SPEAKER_00 28:43

Mi mito como lo acabas de decir.

SPEAKER_02 28:45

No hay nada más grande in this world. Donde escuchando, les damos mucho cariño in those days.

SPEAKER_00 29:03

Les mandamos un abrazo muy grande, muy fuerte.

SPEAKER_01 29:07

Completely. And those who have arrebated for any reason to our higher fuerza. And if we were a year depressive, anime, because if they have cosechas, definitely.

SPEAKER_02 29:34

Some.

SPEAKER_00 29:34

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01 29:45

Luchona, the mamma alcoholic, the mamma of those.

SPEAKER_00 29:50

Ser mamma is a time complete. The postparto is for sort of. And it's a lucha, but there's mucha retribution.

SPEAKER_01 30:03

And if they have contact, if they're alejado, if you have any type of resentiment, no puedes pelear with your matrix. No puedes pelearte con quien Dio escogió para que te traje al mundo. Recapaciten and some mother and abracenla. Chao, chao.