Señales de que ya eres un Adulto 😅 - Ep. 27 #podcast

Bienvenidos a un nuevo episodio de Detrás de una Mujer! 🎉 Después de unas merecidas vacaciones, regresamos con las pilas recargadas para hablar de un tema que a todas nos toca: La vida de adulto.

En este episodio, Bonnie, Liz y Eli se sientan a debatir sobre en qué momento exacto nos dimos cuenta de que ya no éramos unas niñas. Desde la primera vez que tuvimos que pagar los "bills" y mudarnos solas, hasta los dolores de espalda, la obsesión por el protector solar (¡adiós bronceados sin culpa!) y cómo las resacas ahora duran tres días. 😅

Hablamos de:

El shock de las primeras responsabilidades y mudarse sola.

Por qué Excel y YouTube son los mejores amigos del adulto moderno.

Señales de que ya eres "señora" (aplaudir al bailar, regar las plantas y dormir con antifaz).

La importancia de mantener viva a tu niña interior y tener inteligencia emocional.

¡Nuestros "Pro-Tips" para sobrevivir la adultez y no morir en el intento!

¿En qué momento te diste cuenta tú de que ya eras un adulto? ¡Cuéntanos tu anécdota en los comentarios, queremos leerte! 👇

¡No olvides suscribirte, darle like y compartir este episodio! Y si quieres ser nuestra próxima invitada, escríbenos.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_04 0:00

Hello people, bienvenidos a new episode of Detrás de una mujer. Well, you're reincorporando me después ofrece andriquecedoras vacations that mean much because the beauty of adult is potent. The part of the vacations, I recommend no salt. I want to invit to our canal of YouTube, to sight in our redes sociales, and to anecdotas, to move some sugerences, compared with us, and form part of Detrás de una mujer.

SPEAKER_02 0:33

Así es, y for sure, we're gonna be, you know, invited, están cordialmente invitados, andiamo con nosotros, and it serious tenerlos aquí.

SPEAKER_00 0:45

And then regresamos with Liz.

SPEAKER_02 0:48

Está bronceadita, qué maravilla.

SPEAKER_04 0:59

Entonces ya me tomo mucho sol ando andar, and this forms part of series adulto. Uno de muchachitos lo soltaban in esa playa y se acordaban de ponernos bloqueados solar and regresábamos bien bronceados, bien negritos, and nothing paste. Ya después te pelaste y listo, nada pasó, ni una manchita ni nada.

SPEAKER_02 1:18

Las arrugas, las manchas, ay no. Maquíate luego. ¿Cómo haces si te estás pelando más en el mundo?

SPEAKER_04 1:22

Si no te estás pelando, qué terrible, entonces un cuidado con la piel y los accesorios de adulto y todo.

SPEAKER_00 1:27

Sí, o sea, comenzar una rutina todos los días, ya eso es de adultos, que todos los días yo me pongo mi base, el team, sí, el SPF, cuánto tiene, los químicos y a todo importa.

SPEAKER_04 1:38

De cuanto es el bloqueador.

SPEAKER_02 1:39

No, el sombrero, el sombrero a la ancha y las gafas gigantes para que no te haya el sol. Cuando una jovencita, yo me echaba hasta Coca-Cola y me salga y me echaba el sol.

SPEAKER_04 1:48

Yo me ponía aceite con remolacha y zanahoria para que quedara ese color espectacular, porque era como ponerme a freír.

SPEAKER_00 1:56

No, yo simplemente no me ponía bloqueador. Eso era enemigo, y yo me acuerdo una vez que yo fui a Cartagena, yo regresé negra, negra. Negrita, así toda. Then I had like 14 años and no me import. Ahí sí, a quemar el mar. Uff. Esos eran los momentos más bonitos, and we dimos cuenta that we had, and now we are the adult. In what moment we dimos cuenta that we are adult.

SPEAKER_04 2:28

Yo todavía no me he dado cuenta que nadie me diga nada, por favor.

SPEAKER_02 2:34

I think I didn't know that nobody resolved my problems, that no one was my mama here for me to salute, or my papa said, No, I have to take the decision, I have to pay you. And I think the day that I had the first bill in my house, I said, I said, Mama, don't you prefer, you can go to this service basically. And I have my life of other manner, and I sent me adult. And when I met problems, I didn't hear my mother, so resolve because you're like, Oh my God, I'm adult.

SPEAKER_00 3:04

Claro, no, for me was when I was my medicine. Oh, this is not my mother, I don't have to say for my life, I imported all these things, and so I want to consider. So, apart from other things, for example, the Disney that you were saying are Disney Renaissance. Yeah, the Renaissance, okay, in this era.

SPEAKER_04 3:31

No so I'm saying, and I moved sola, when I fui delay the seno maternal, ya me fui de la casa, aparte, mira, mamá me voy. ¿Cómo que te vas así? Mamá, ya, me siento como que ya no tengo que estar viviendo, ya estoy en edad de vivir con mi mamá, o sea, tenía que ser yo. 22 años, una cosa así, no sé. And ya busqué casa y amó casa, and ya empezaron a hacerse todas estas diligencias de adultos, chama. Ya después pagaba alquiler, super lo que era comprar. Exactamente, decoré a mi gusto, tal y qué sé yo, algo super sencillo, me acuerdo, pésima experiencia. De que bueno, me jodieron todas, ¿sabes? De que pagué una plata, que se supone que después volví, después al final me jodieron todas. Experiencias, pero ahí fue que dije, mierda, sí, esto ya corre completamente por mi cuenta, aquí no va a venir ni mamá ni papá a salvarme. No es la comodidad de no, de tener tu casa propia, sino que estaba pagando alquiler, pues, porque me quise ir de la casa ya, ya me había graduado y tal, ya decía, ya sentía. Ya sentía que me tocaba ya irme de la casa, como que ya no tenía que hacerle ese peso a mi mamá, ya me tengo que ir.

SPEAKER_02 4:56

Y saber que cuando uno, disculpa que te interrumpa, y saber que when one is niña, you can be adult. I don't know if I pay my cuentas, for taking my target of credit, for me to via, for being a professional. And when you're in this top, I know, extraño the responsibilities when I was a nigga. Claro.

SPEAKER_00 5:13

Yo me fui de los 17 years, and in this moment, no, mommy, I say that. It's super faster, so you have to pay your bills, pay your rent, and yeah. Produce dinner and basically. Exactly. And then what cost a plant, what cost a cortina. A cortina for compromise to decorate a quarter.

SPEAKER_02 5:36

And valoras all, because nothing. And cuidas what has compared because it has cost. And so they said, No, this is a cuid. Because when you're jovencito y te regalan las things, yes, it does not. But imagine how cute your car, the compraste. Dios me, it's more distinct to what they did, or in this type of things, no, no, no. You have to say the sacrificial, and valoras what they were in such a moment.

SPEAKER_00 5:59

Exactly. Because one of the statistics that I think was more interesting was that the people, for example, scientifically adult at the 25 years, and the homes from 30 and 32. See, the prefrontal lobe, whatever, at this time. And so after this, literally, is sobreviving.

SPEAKER_04 6:25

Improvising. Sabes that you in this moment that we're conversing, I send you improvising much. O sea, you say, I don't soy una carajita, ya soy una tipa, I think. But improvisando, like I'm going to comport like ya no puedo simplemente emborracharme and the day to travel because the resaca meets it. Yes, no means else.

SPEAKER_02 7:07

Oh, no, and dolor de espaldas. O sea, yo veo my cómodo y veo la cantidad de cremas para tal hora para esto que hace 10 años atrás, no más, 10 años atrás, you digo, because yeah, the años te pesan and not only is como luces, son las vitaminas for that puedas tener energy and te va a tocar más adelante. Tú no estás in the 30, but yeah when you are in the 40s, yeah. O sea, yo me siento más que adultos. O sea, si tú me dices.

SPEAKER_04 7:34

Sabes que there was one who decía that the millennials are not done that you are adult. That no noses in serious. There are much ways that I think, it's so adult. But I think ahorrar, but I'm going to go back what I'm going to do with this. No, the adult is potented. But it's like the gentleman who is adolescente or post-adolescence, tranquil, this will stay well, the adult will go back, because they muries in the camera, but then you're adult and it's potent. Coach.

SPEAKER_02 8:18

Prepare, prepared and swab. When we're in a matinee to me, in three years to compare your terrenito, like there's this meme for you. You still in the nebulous. Instead of saying, I'm going to put me for the things, we have many people who are empreended. And so we cost more for the information. In my case, you say for me, obviously, no, we haven't gonna have this excess of information that the hovencitos have.

SPEAKER_00 8:58

But a you have, because we are in the era of the technology, a lot of them, I was mentally prepared to say at the 21 years we're gonna have how I have my 401k. Okay, for me, okay.

SPEAKER_02 9:40

Yo sí disfruté my etapa of juventud hasta que me di cuenta de que era adulta y seguía disfrutando.

SPEAKER_04 9:46

Yo me siento igual, lo sigo disfrutando, de hecho, de bolas, ya hay differencias, ahora tengo que cuidar a una persona that depends de mí. ¿Me entiendes? Eso está potente también. 100%.

SPEAKER_00 9:58

Es que esa es mi reason for the cual ser adulta, porque ahora I'm an ejemplo, eso también me madurar bastante andar, mira, you have two ojitos that to me están mirando. O sea, tú eres un espejo, si sabes, claro, ni más con la niña.

SPEAKER_04 10:12

Exactamente. Entonces, tocan replicarlo. Entonces, ahí me hizo madurar, and it's that you find mamma siendo adulta. Okay, quiero ser mamá ahorita, listo, this is the moment, vamos. But host you allocated my life. Okay, I fui, nothing me impeded, agarro an autobus, an avion, and I was, and listen. The first, I would say, was when I despegu del seno maternal, I fell to the casa, and the second name was the maternity. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_02 10:54

You find my mamma jovencita a 24 years, I think jovencita because I think I was super joven for her mamma, and see, this was a cable at the year, okay, you disfrutando de my adultez and so, but yeah, with hijabs, the chip cambia definitively.

SPEAKER_04 11:19

Es la mamá, mi abuela, ajá. Y pues algunas personas les cambian el chip, no a todas, but en la casa mayores sí.

SPEAKER_00 11:26

Sí, claro, y ustedes por favor cuéntenos cuando fue ese momento que ustedes de verdad entendieron o dijeron, sabes que llegué a otro nivel. Ahora sí, de verdad, soy adulta. O todavía no han tenido ese momento. Porque igual yo también conozco muchos, muchas personas que tienen 40, 50 años y todavía, en mi opinión, muy humildemente, no son adultos. Claro, donde están. Como que nunca les llegó ese momento. No sé si también los conozcan, pero también.

SPEAKER_04 11:55

Por supuesto, todos tenemos ese amigo o amiga que sigue siendo una pasada. Y todavía está actuando como un muchacho, dijeron nosotros. Una muchacha infinita, todo eso.

SPEAKER_02 12:09

Ahora, chicas, cuánto saying algo of adultos. In my case, a lot of me say, Me son, ay Dios mío, o sea, como there are phrases or actions. In my life I compressed. The five semana I felt and plants and I should wear my deck, like primavera, with the colors more big that I would say. And I said my mother, I am. And I say my mother, Mammy said, What is the one? When I said, You know, I'm not sure. And I am, I said, I'm pending that if the sun will get that, if it was. So you say that this is an attitude of adult.

SPEAKER_00 12:54

My mother had similar. And so he said, because he went at the six and eight of the day, seven of the day, and the sun, and he said, Nenny, you stay here, and all the others of the quadrants are away, and those are collaborating for that. So we have this, I don't know if it's hot.

SPEAKER_02 13:25

So there are those things that I think a little bit more. I know, you're with one this year, which I compressed this antifaz for dormant, because Elizabeth, you are dormant of eight hours and dorm. So I put in my telephone a musiquita, I put an antifaz, what's you? I can't dorm me up. Dime if it's the señora. I'm accounting.

SPEAKER_04 13:50

Antes era that 4 years of far, you aguant, don't dorm, dormant.

SPEAKER_02 13:58

No, imagine. Where you say no, I have to dorm, my life necessitates. And I think that if I'm not sure, I was a far three days ago, as you can. And I was the day at the 8 of the maiden in my house, no passing. But now no passing my noche tan fucking, i'm achacadisima the day. This is the señora.

SPEAKER_04 14:19

Chaman, for me the señora when vas a bailar te aplaudes.

SPEAKER_03 14:28

And you estoy pendiente de no matar. No, dile, permíteme, dile que tú tienes que aplaudir.

SPEAKER_04 14:43

See, applaudir bailando definitivamente is demasiado sencillo.

SPEAKER_02 14:47

Or empieza a bailar like the tía. No, let's say the niche tía. Okay, a little bit applications for those rhythms, case.

SPEAKER_00 14:56

I know, and for me it has been new that I am the who planned the events of the family. Antes there were our tears, and so it was the responsibility, not responsibility, simply a tradition that those are the who were, and those people, blah, blah, blah, and all this. Now we talk about us. Now we have to plan, we have to do what coincidence, who try what, blah, blah, blah, okay, in the house of what, those things.

SPEAKER_04 15:35

But alguien more.

SPEAKER_00 15:37

See, and inculcar this culture, okay. And so you have to salute your primary, those things that we have created, it's our responsibility to dare to, and it's part of disfrutar like family. For me, this has been like, I see, I have to plane the events, and I have Excel. This is my name three adult.

SPEAKER_04 16:02

Te lo prometo. Planification, no, and then a nice responsibility. The vida adult conlleva mucha responsibility labor, chama.

SPEAKER_00 16:13

I know. Y ahora me importa porque a los 21 años, when me votaron porque yo llegué en vivo and you dije, no, you tengo sueño, y le dije a mi jefa, tengo sueño, me voy a la casa, and me dijo, si te vas a la casa, no regreses yo. Okay, y no regresé. Imagínate, claro. But carreras, tengo que estar ahí a cierto tiempo, tengo que ser el ejemplo, oh my God.

SPEAKER_02 16:37

Sabes que es la parte dura, bueno, hemos hablado de la parte difficile que tú decías, and the part of responsibilities with the next, one part that is to create or be adults is despair to the young ads. Because when you was a kid, I said that the ability or the visible. Exactly, but when I recuer that my wife, and I was with my father, I said, my friend, we have this generation. So enter this shock that it's in serious, we're creating, and we're here, obviously. It's part of creating.

SPEAKER_00 17:18

But I think I think I'm in this day that it's like a cycle. These 10 years there's a generation, and you know, finitely. Claro, because you don't know that at the 30 years they sent it as a respect.

SPEAKER_02 17:48

But you think you're at the end that you have to go, but with alegria, and the process of 1000. Because you don't know when you don't stay.

SPEAKER_04 18:05

The salute is one thing, because we are pending the city medicine, I have to go to it, have a perfil 20, I have to go to why I'm because my life recupera que antes.

SPEAKER_02 18:19

And chequeo médico, el mamario, el papá Nicolás.

SPEAKER_04 18:27

Te importa más, ¿cómo es la vaina?

SPEAKER_00 18:29

O sea, te importa más because you dictate the mammogram, your corazon, cómo está, those things. O sea, the way we have to put this attention.

SPEAKER_04 18:40

En serious.

SPEAKER_02 18:41

No, a mí no, pero que me dice.

SPEAKER_04 18:43

Totalmente que si bebí mucho, I've got gastritis. Ay, entonces puro, pues.

SPEAKER_00 18:51

Yep. Y entonces I got three days in this diet, ¿qué tal estoy para ver si me stomach? The inflammation is potented. Todo, literally. There's an anecdote that you have to do.

SPEAKER_04 19:07

Anécdota of this adult.

SPEAKER_02 19:10

I have one that I'm going to do. You have a pelican or a series, and the front, me molesting, is my spirit. You are watching the series and you conversion with the series. No, but mira, it's at the time. My boss means, my amor, in seriously. But you know what I'm saying? Because you saw in my mother and in my abola, and then what I'm saying. It's a locker.

SPEAKER_00 19:37

No, I listened to the name of novels around.

SPEAKER_02 19:40

You in peliculas, young peliculas, see, but atrás, está atrás. And I said, okay, no te pueden escuchar. Button. As I'm literally.

SPEAKER_04 19:59

Hay niveles, definitivamente.

SPEAKER_00 20:01

Y como lo sobrevivimos todos.

SPEAKER_04 20:04

Improvisando. Yo improvisando, te lo prometo. O sea, todavía improvisando, la vida is a eternal improvisation. Marico, al final las vainas salen. Exactamente. Lo que va a hacer será, por más que planifices. Cuéntale tus plans top and reír.

SPEAKER_00 20:40

For me it has been YouTube. YouTube is all. If you don't see it on YouTube. A tutorial. TikTok también. Different materials that are displayed for one arreglar things in the casa.

SPEAKER_04 20:55

See, the tutorials ayudan much.

SPEAKER_02 21:00

Oye, resetear the telephone, YouTube. O sea, I ensew too. Todo te lo resuelves, and you know, GPT. That's a good thing.

SPEAKER_04 21:09

Ah, well, if we have her, see.

SPEAKER_02 21:13

See, no, and you feel that I'm a team one day a day. Really I don't know about what I'm happy. Lisa, I think that I'm in a better time definitively, I think I think my 20s and my 20s, but I think I think I'm formatted in those moments. And not agarrand, not stressing me, no, I don't know anything, because I think I'm not going to work, and I'll have parts of the eyes that I can do. But no, and respirating, this day I thought I was, and my adult fascinating because I have to be because what are you at this day definitively?

SPEAKER_00 21:51

Claro, and the adult is taking all the responsibilities.

SPEAKER_02 21:54

No.

SPEAKER_00 21:55

We don't need to take all the response because we enjoy how to be adults. No es cierto. Personas como yo trat to control, but aun así has averiguando. And I think we have to meet what I say, this would have been cambiar, right? I see we had to inverse at the 20 years, have a lot of things, taking my own. But no, you know that simply in our beings that we have to mature, there are much. And the suyo. No give you a certain life, you have to start doing this. That's clear.

SPEAKER_04 22:53

Exactly, no caer in pression. But you don't consider that ya it's time to. Pero por qué? ¿Por qué? ¿Según quién?

SPEAKER_00 23:08

Según quién, exactly. Tienes un para cuándo.

SPEAKER_04 23:12

Qué fastidio, sí, claro. O sea, uno hay como varios para cuándo que pueden haber existido, pero a mí, en este momento que tengo una niña, me fastidia de sobremesa que me preguntan para cuándo el otro. Pero qué necesidad de poner a la gente a reproducirse. Entonces, cuando no tenía, era para cuándo el bebé. Entonces ya tengo uno, entonces ahora es cuando el hermanito. Qué fastidio, no pregunten eso. No hagan preguntas innecesarias que nadie pidió. De verdad. 100%. Sí, porque es imprudente. ¿Y para cuándo la dieta? ¿Para cuándo te la pido? ¿Para cuándo la dieta y los mando? Imagínate. O sea, no sé, la gente está pasada, imprudente. Vale, no quiero tener más muchachos. Estoy conforme con una sola. No me pregunten más esa vaina que para cuándo el hermanito. Ver, para creer.

SPEAKER_03 24:01

Te molesta.

SPEAKER_04 24:02

Un poquito. Me fastidia de sobremanera, de verdad. Y así como la gente cuando no tiene hijos, cuando le preguntan ¿para cuándo? ¿Y por qué no? Y tal. Ay, yo estoy presente en una conversación así y me impacta.

SPEAKER_02 24:15

Por último, yo permito que te preguntes a alguien muy cercano a ti, pero hay gente realmente que sale de la nada y viene con la imprudencia que fastidia. Pero si es alguien cercano, ya sabes que bueno, ya te lo dije, o ya sabes, o por último, esa persona sabe que el tema puede incomodar. Pero when you viendra con sus imprudencias, sinceramente.

SPEAKER_00 24:32

Yo tenía, sí, desafortunadamente, yo, the papa of an extra rato me preguntaba, o sea, you don't know. No, I'm casada, what is he doing? But it is what I said, imprudence. In a whole moment I'm going to talk about estimates imprudent of the gentleman.

SPEAKER_04 24:57

So, if you subscribe to the phone, okay, it's imprudent. You have a fucking experiment in my house.

SPEAKER_00 25:06

And now you're putting my views, and so when you have some via, you don't bajar tanky. 100%. Ahorita salió a meme that there are pilot that they were saying meow, algo, say pilot, is in the air, is with them, igual she communicated meow. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 25:53

Escojamos when you are adult, pun.

SPEAKER_00 25:55

100%. Nuestros almas se pueden mantenere very high.

SPEAKER_04 26:11

Mira, un pro tip de la adult.

SPEAKER_00 26:14

YouTube, seguro.

SPEAKER_04 26:15

Ah, YouTube, ¿verdad?

SPEAKER_00 26:17

Pro tip, 100%. YouTube y Excel. Son mis pro tips. Son tus alliados. Sí, son mis alitiados in all that I have. And go with your interior vivo.

SPEAKER_02 26:28

Pro tip mío, sin duda, is education with intelligence emotional, because that's the base of that. Hay ratos para start super serious and turn the things as super focused. And there are interior and divertir. So we are super conscientious and one day a day, punto.

SPEAKER_04 26:46

Chao, my pro tip is flexible, I'll say physically, no? But I mean I ayuda mantener flexible to get yoga. Ejercicios oftimientos me gustan muchas, me ayudan muchas with the posture, agile. This is my pro tip. El ejercicio. See, you see, the pesos, the massacre, and all this thing. But I think it function much for this thing of the dolor, estir.

SPEAKER_00 27:34

But for sure, let's see what function for us, what pro tips we have. Subscribe to our canal of YouTube, subscribe to our redes sociales. Are we for learning, escuch, and quisier accompanying us, more than fine for us to be other episodes of Detroit?

SPEAKER_02 27:53

Nosotros.