GROOMED — A Survivor’s Story of Empowerment

The Healing Lounge with Marcia

The Healing Lounge with Marcia
GROOMED — A Survivor’s Story of Empowerment
Oct 01, 2025 Season 1 Episode 3
Marcia Williams, LPC | Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach

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In this deeply personal episode of The Healing Lounge, Marcia Williams—licensed therapist, narcissistic abuse recovery coach, and survivor—shares the raw truth of her 30-year marriage to a narcissist. For the first time on the podcast, Marcia steps fully into her own story, joined by her sister for an intimate interview about the journey that inspired her book, GROOMED: Life Married to a Narcissist and How I Overcame Narcissistic Abuse.

Marcia opens up about the shame she carried in silence, the heartbreaking reality of reactive abuse, and the fear of telling the truth about her marriage. She reveals the hardest part of writing GROOMED: being brutally honest about her most painful, hidden experiences. Yet through that honesty, she discovered the power of vulnerability and the freedom that comes when we break the silence.

This episode is more than a survivor’s story—it’s a guidepost of hope for anyone who has felt trapped, silenced, or broken by narcissistic abuse. Marcia’s healing journey reminds us that while leaving may feel impossible, peace and freedom are real and attainable. She explains how breaking trauma bonds, reclaiming her voice, and building community were vital steps in moving from surviving to thriving.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The reality of living in a marriage with a narcissist—and why leaving isn’t simple.
  • What reactive abuse is, and why survivors often carry misplaced shame for it.
  • The courage it takes to tell your story and write about taboo experiences.
  • How breaking trauma bonds opens the door to peace and empowerment.
  • Why sharing personal stories helps survivors everywhere feel less alone.
  • How Marcia now uses her journey to help others reclaim their identity and freedom.

If you’ve ever felt isolated in your pain, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone—and that healing is possible.

Marcia now walks alongside survivors through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and her Passage to Peace community. 

Keywords: narcissistic abuse, healing journey, empowerment, Marcia Williams, GROOMED, trauma bonds, reactive abuse, survivor story


For 30 years, Marcia Williams lived in silence inside a marriage with a narcissist. In her powerful memoir GROOMED: Life Married to a Narcissist and How I Overcame Narcissistic Abuse, she shares the raw truth of that journey and the courageous steps she took to reclaim her peace.

This book is more than a survivor’s story. It’s a message of hope, resilience, and empowerment for anyone trapped in the cycle of narcissistic abuse. 

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