Faking It with Ariel and Morgan
Two intimacy coordinators reveal what actually happens behind the scenes of film and TV's most iconic intimate moments.
Full description:
We're Ariel and Morgan, two professional intimacy coordinators who choreograph sex scenes for film and TV. We pull back the curtain on how intimacy is really made—from the awkward logistics to the craft that makes it look effortless.
On Faking It, we break down:
- Heated Rivalry: the back arch, the bed share, and why good gay sex wins over hockey
- The hottest no-contact scene in cinema history (Secretary)
- Why Brokeback Mountain's tent scene needed more lube
- The invisible Buffy sex scene that required flawless pantomime
- Barbarella's orgasm machine
- PEN15's honest depiction of teenage arousal
What you'll get:
Behind-the-scenes secrets, absurd Hollywood stories, real talk about love and sex, and a front-row seat to the art of pretending.
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Faking It with Ariel and Morgan
Three ICs Walk Into a Podcast | Chala Hunter Talks "Heated Rivalry", Queer Joy & The Craft of Intimacy
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Heated Rivalry's intimacy coordinator Chala Hunter breaks down how the show's most talked-about scenes got made. Two intimacy coordinators sit down with her.
Full description:
This one's a BIG ONE.
Ariel and Morgan sit down with intimacy coordinator Chala Hunter, the creative force behind the intimacy work in Heated Rivalry, for a deep dive into how some of the most talked-about scenes on TV actually got made.
From her early days of learning the job during #MeToo to stepping onto a set packed with choreography and high emotional stakes, Chala pulls back the curtain on what it takes to build intimacy that feels grounded, safe, and electric.
In this episode:
- How she found her way into intimacy coordination when the field was still being defined
- Why she prioritizes trust, play, and actor agency over rigid choreography
- How Heated Rivalry balanced tenderness, heat, and authenticity without losing its heart
- Why representation doesn't have to feel "authentic to everyone" to still be meaningful
- What happens when three intimacy coordinators get together and the nerding starts before the mics are even warm
A behind the scenes look at the craft
It's insightful, funny, incredibly revealing, and a rare behind the scenes look at the craft from someone doing the work at the highest level. This one feels like a milestone episode.
Watch along timestamps:
- Episode 4 (Rose): 21:07 – 24:29
- Episode 6 (The Cottage): 20:15 – 22:37 and 32:34 – 33:27
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Credits
Heated Rivalry | Director: Jacob Tierney | Crave
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