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Faking It with Ariel and Morgan

Faking It with Ariel and Morgan is the podcast that strips down the mystery of Hollywood’s most private moments, and makes you laugh while doing it. Hosted by Intimacy Coordinators Ariel Leigh Cohen and Morgan Smith, each episode dives into the world of film sets, sex scenes, and all the awkward, hilarious, and surprisingly tender stories that come with them.

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Faking It with Ariel and Morgan

From Nightmare to Nirvana | "Insecure" Sex Scenes Have The Range

February 25, 2026 • Season 1 • Episode 15

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This week we’re diving into Insecure — and honestly? The range.

Morgan introduces Ariel (who has never seen the show 👀) to two wildly different intimacy moments from Season 4: one chaotic, jealousy-fueled nightmare fantasy and one slow-burn reunion that might be one of the most emotionally satisfying TV hookups ever.

We break down:

How a comedic sex scene can be intentionally not realistic — and why that works
“Pop the tags” and the audacity of imagining such a thing
The crackling eye contact, breath work, and micro-choices that make the reunion scene explode
Tender Black love on screen and why we don’t see enough of it
The blink-and-you-miss-it position change that tells you exactly who’s in control

This episode is funny, nerdy, and unexpectedly emotional; it's a perfect example of how a show can pull off slapstick fantasy and deeply romantic intimacy in the same breath.

Listen to the episode of the Indie Film Podcast where we were interviewed behind the scenes HERE.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers Episode 4: Lowkey Feelin' Myself (Time Code: 11:53), Episode 8: Lowkey Happy (Time Code: 25:17). We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — Insecure (Season 4)

Creators: Issa Rae; Larry Wilmore/ Showrunner: Prentice Penny

Episode 4x01 “Lowkey Feelin’ Myself”
Director: Kevin Bray
Writer: Issa Rae
Intimacy Coordinator: Mia Schachter
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Issa Rae; Jay Ellis; Christina Elmore

Episode 4x08 “Lowkey Happy”
Director: Kevin Bray
Writer: Natasha Rothwell
Intimacy Coordinator: None
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Issa Rae; Jay Ellis
© 2016–2021 HBO Entertainment / Issa Rae Productions / 3 Arts Entertainment. All rights reserved.

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