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Do You Feel Like Your Blessing is Taking To Long - Ep.5 Talk Ya Shit Podcast

• Big Slick (Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast) • Season 1 • Episode 5

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Welcome back to Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast — where real talk meets real life. In this episode, Big Slick dives into one of the hardest lessons to learn: being patient while chasing success.

If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering “When is my time coming?” or “Why isn’t it happening fast enough?” — this one’s for you. We talk about staying focused, trusting timing, and staying humble while you’re leveling up in life.

No shortcuts. No rushing. Just growth, grind, and gratitude.

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to Talk Your Shit Podcast. I'm your host, Big Slick. What's good out there, man? I'm glad everybody out there tuning in. You know what I'm saying? First of all, to all the listeners, everybody that's at work, everybody that's in their car right now, everybody that's home, all the truck drivers on the road. I appreciate you stopping in and listening to your boy Big Slick on the Talk Your Shit Podcast. We got another great show going on, another banger going on right now. I got another letter that came in, right? These letters are coming in back and forth. I'm telling you to write in to talk your shit daily at gmail.com so you can be a part of the show and share your story with us. It's called the Let's Talk About It Letter. All right. What gives you a chance to talk about what's going on in your life or certain situation you might want an opinion on, you know, and I'm here for that opinion. I'm gonna give you that raw, uncut, not sugar-coated, straight up, unfiltered opinion from a male perspective, you know, because that's the only way I can do it, you know. I'm saying so. I'm gonna give you my real opinion on anything you you send in, and we talk about all topics, you know, life, uh, relationship, work, whatever it is, we discuss it on this show. So without further ado, I'm gonna jump right into this letter that was sent in. I'm super excited about this show. Let's see, let's get it. So, this is gonna happen. I'm gonna read the letter first, and then I'm gonna go back through and give my opinion on it. All right, let's get it. Being impatient about what the future of my life is gonna be when you're doing good for yourself. How do you keep yourself focused without rushing the process of timing on your blessing? How to remain humble? Great question, great question, and I think a lot of people have that same question about trusting the process, about how long something is going to take to happen for you when you're working towards it. And the first thing I always say that it comes down to who's around you, what positive people you have in your circle, you know, what friends that you have around you that are truly positive, you know, that can help you with this journey when you do have doubts. Because the people with that good energy around you can help you through these situations because they might have been through that situation as well, or they've been on their own journey to where they know sometimes, hey, you might run into a roadblock, but keep on pushing. So I always go back to saying have a good circle around you, people with good energy, people that's positive. You do not want negative people around you at all, right? You got positive people around you, they're gonna keep you grounded, they're gonna keep you humble, they'll keep you motivated, they'll help you stay focused. Because what'll happen is that if you're around like-minded people, you will stay motivated. If you're not around like-minded people, you're not gonna be motivated at all, you know, and that's just what it is. If you see somebody, you know, everybody on on you know around you in your circle or your friends or associates, none of them are doing anything positive, or they're not, you know, they just complacent, they don't they don't want nothing new, they don't they don't want to start a new journey, they don't want no new goal, they just settle, then you're gonna eventually do the same thing because it looks like it's the norm. But if you're around people that's pushing the limits, trying to get better, trying to better their self and their situation, then you're gonna do the same thing, and that's what you need around. You know what I'm saying? People like that, they will keep you humble and keep you motivated. I'm gonna tell you another thing about negative people. So, what negative people would do is that if you tell them a goal that you're trying to achieve, if they can't see their self doing it, they'll automatically tell you, you can't do that. How are you gonna do that? You can't do that. Why don't you just do this? You know, take the easy road, you know. That's what they'll tell you. So that's why you don't keep negative people around you because they will put their doubt on you and have you looking crazy out here like you can't achieve nothing because they don't want to achieve nothing. So trust the process. A lot of people get confused with the process because they put their own time frame on it. Number one mistake that you can do is put your own time frame on a process. Because your time frame and divine timing is two different things. So don't get it twisted. A lot of people put stuff on their own time frame. Do not do that. What you need to do is know that is going to happen. Don't worry about when, don't worry about how. Just know that it's going to happen and stay focused. Of course, it's easier said than done. None, none of this, what I'm saying, is is you know, just simple. It's not, you know, it's it's simple. I'm saying it like that, but you know, sometimes people struggle with that. Just going on a journey and not knowing when they're gonna achieve their goals. But if you keep your eye on the end goal, that'll be your motivation through the journey, right? So let's look at it like this. Say you knew when you was gonna hit the end goal, and that path was showed to you, that whole journey was showed to you, right? So you know, on this journey, it's a lot of ups and downs, and you know, a lot of different things happen. So you think if that was all laid out for you, would you still be on that journey? A lot of people wouldn't. If you actually knew what you had to do to get to this journey, or how long it might take, will you still take that journey? That's why you never know what the journey is. You you don't know, you just gotta stay on it and trust the process that whatever you're trying to go for and achieve, that it's gonna happen. And just stay focused and know that it's gonna happen. Because I'm telling you, I guarantee you, if you knew all the ups and downs that you had to go through to get there, you probably quit before you even start. And then that's another thing that people do as well. So a lot of people are their own doubters, they they're their own haters. So you might have an idea in your head, and you'll denounce the idea before you even make a move on it. You will doubt yourself before you even do it because you're gonna look at it and go, How I'm gonna do that? When I'm gonna get the money to do that, or how am I gonna achieve that? And when is it gonna happen? And oh, that seemed like it's too hard to do, and and you never try. So a lot of people actually fail before they even try, you know, and as it just it just happens, man. We we get into our own head and convince ourselves that we can't do nothing, or we can't achieve something that might seem to you unachievable, but everything is achievable if you focus on it. So, again, trust the process, keep good people around you to keep you humble, to keep you motivated, to keep you going towards that goal. You know, a lot of people just love it when you know, when when it's sunny out, right? Everything is love, it's sunny outside, and you're not going through nothing, and every day is beautiful, and that's not real. That's that's a that's a fairy tale, you know. I'm saying the same way you enjoy when it's sunny, you need to enjoy the rain, right? You need to look at the rain as well. Because if you don't go through no type of storm, you you how you gonna enjoy the sun? You enjoy the sun even better when you go through rainy days, right? You enjoy it even better, so you have to go through something to get to what you want to get. If you just get it overnight, you're not gonna respect it. Anybody that gets something too fast, they might be happy that they got it, but do they really respect it? If they didn't have to work for it or anything, like it was just handed to them. People that work towards something and focused on their end goal when they achieve it, they cherish it, they hold on to it, they know what they went through to get to it. So they hold on to it longer, it means more to them. So always trust the process. Stuff don't happen in our timing, it happens in divine timing, right? Another thing is that a lot of people think if they don't see something had something happening, that nothing is happening. It's a lot of things that happen, you know, that you can't see that's going on going on in the background, you know, that you don't even you're not even aware of. You know, it can be people out there that'll just pop up in your life out of nowhere and help you with a situation. And this has happened. A lot of people be like, Well, I don't know how that happened. It's because you stayed on that path and you trust the process, and when you do that, stuff will start moving in your favor, it'll start shifting, you know, because you bring in that good energy towards what you want, you're attracting it, and that's real. You attract what you want, and you can attract bullshit too. It goes both ways. You got good energy, you attract good energy. If you always feel down and out and stuff like that, you're gonna attract people like that around you, you know, and that's what happens. But trust the process, stay focused, stay on it, it'll happen. Timing is not up to you. What's up to you is to keep on pushing. That's it. Just keep on pushing, keep on working towards your goals and being blessed. Every day you wake up is a blessed day. You know, there's a lot of people that didn't wake up this morning. It's just this real talk. So if you listening to this, you you see this, it's a blessed day for you. You know, every day is a blessed day. So, you know, it's not, you know, you're waiting on your blessings. You're not waiting on your blessings. Every day is a blessing that you can wake up. That is a blessing in itself. So anything that happens after that is a bonus because you're here to experience it. Some people ain't here to experience ups and downs, the good and the bad. Be happy that you can experience both things, right? So it's a blessing just to experience things and to have a journey to go on is the blessing. And if you don't enjoy the journey, you're not gonna enjoy the finish line. So enjoy the whole process. That's my opinion on that, man. Gotta enjoy the whole process. Great question. Glad you sent it in. People, I'm telling you, listen, keep on sending in these questions, man. They're they're great. It's called the Let's Talk About It Letter. Like I said, you email it to talk your shit at gmail.com. That's talkya shit daily. Look, I'm getting my own email mixed up. Talk your shit daily at gmail.com. Send it in, and I'll read, you know, your letter, and I'll give you my honest opinion on it. You know, and I'm gonna keep it raw, uncut, unfiltered. You know, that's the only way I can do it. That's the only way I know how to do it. And you know, and maybe your letter can help somebody else that's going through the same thing. You know, so whatever it is, you're not the only one out there going through it, I guarantee you. So definitely send your letters in, man. It's called the Let's Talk About It letter. Send it there, I'll put it on the air, and then we can go from there. All right. Let me throw it on the screen real quick right now, so everybody can snatch it up and get it. Here we go. Let's talk about a letter. Send it in, and we're gonna go from there. It's big slick. This has been another great episode. Another great episode on what talk your shit podcast, man. Keep it coming. Let's get busy. You already know what it is. I'm out. Pace.