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Talk Ya Sh!t
Why Hooking People Up Always Backfires?
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Welcome back to Talk Ya Sh!t, the podcast where Big Slick keeps it all the way real — no filters, no fluff.
In this episode, we’re talking about why hooking people up always seems to go left. You put somebody on to a job — they quit. You connect two people — they break up and blame you. You give game, plug opportunities, or offer discounts — and somehow you’re the bad guy.
Big Slick breaks down the truth about ungrateful people, free handouts, and why not everyone deserves access to your resources. This one’s for anyone who’s ever tried to help others and got burned for it.
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You, you, and you. Yeah, you two. Now, let's talk about it. What up, what up, what up? It's Big Slick, and welcome to another episode of Talk Your Shit. And that's exactly what we're gonna do. But first, let me get a shout out to all the listeners out there. If you at work, at home, in your car, or if you my truck drivers up on the road, man, getting it in. You know what I'm saying? I appreciate you listening to the show, tuning into your boy. Yo, let's jump right into it. Today's show is about why everybody always wants a hookup. Why? Why everybody wants the hookup? Let's check this out. Let's talk about it for a minute, man. Do you know the person that comes to you, whether it's a friend or family, come to you and go, hey man, hook me up with a job, man. Hook me, hook me up on your job. And you like, all right, oh yo, I got you. Don't worry about it. You know what I'm saying? I got you. I'm a supervisor there, or you know, I might be a manager or whatever. Yo, I got you. So you hook them up with a job. They good for like 30 days. Probation period usually be about 90 days or something like that. They're good for like 30 days. After 30 days, they start calling out, they start coming in late, they start acting crazy. You know what I'm saying? And then they want to use your name and everything. Well, such and such is my cousin, he's the boss, he the supervisor. They end up getting fired. Now, your bosses is looking at you like you're crazy, like, yo, I thought that was your family. I thought that was your friend. What happened? I thought he was good. Now you're looking crazy. You know what I'm saying? And now your family or friend coming to you like, oh, I ain't like that job. They was treating me funny. You the one that wanted the hookup. You came to me looking for the job. People kill me with that with the hookup. The other hookup. You know, somebody, your homeboy wants to hook you up, want want to hook up with a girl or something like that. Yo, I like her. Yo, hook me up with her. That's always a crazy thing. So you hooks him up, introduce them. They break up a month or two later. He comes and everybody blaming it on you. Yo, why you introduce me to her? Bruh, you came to me asking for the hookup. What are you talking about? Now you mad because you found out she's crazy. That's on you. But everybody mad at you. But you wanted the hookup. This is what kills me. People want the hookup, but then when they get it, they don't want it. It it makes no sense. It makes no sense. Here go another one. You got your own business. You know, it's a million entrepreneurs out there doing their thing. You got your small business, you doing your thing out there. Why, when you trying to build your business, everybody and their mama want the hookup. Bruh, I'm just starting out. What what do you mean you want the hookup? How can you get a discount when I'm just I'm trying to recoup on my investment? I'm I'm just starting, I'm a small business. You supposed to be helping me out. You over here looking for half prices, bruh. It don't work that way, man. Why everybody do that when some when somebody starts a business? They think they can get stuff for free off a half price. But you will go out to one of these big businesses out here and don't question no price tags at all. You just buy it, you just pay for it. Ain't no negotiating, you get it. Sneakers cost$150,$200. You buying them. But your homeboy, your cousin, or whatever got something going on, you asking him, yo, can I get it for can I get it for this price? Can I get it for that price? Stop doing that, man. So support small businesses out here, man. Because you're paying that money when you go anywhere else. Why don't you pay it towards one of your friends, your family? It's crazy that people be wanting hookups when somebody's trying to get their business established. I never understood the hookup with that one. That that's crazy. The last one, this this is the one, right? You hook somebody up with some good information, right? And that's the way you do it. You network. A lot of things pop off because of you networking with somebody. You know what I'm saying? They passing that knowledge along, they already experienced it, so now they can let you know. So you don't got to make the same mistakes. Maybe you can cut around the little corners, you know. I'm saying, get to point A to point B a little bit faster because this person already been through it. So this person hooks you up with information, tell you how to do it step by step, and you don't use it at all. Nothing. So that person just wasted all his time trying to put money in your pocket, trying to get you right, trying to get you ahead of the game, and you don't even use the information. Now, all these situations is what happens is that people stop hooking people up because somebody always messing up the hookup. So now when it's a good person's turn to get the hookup, nobody don't want to look out for the cookout. That's what happens, man. A lot of people messing it up for the next man because they ain't taking the hookup and using it, man. When you get good information, you're supposed to use it. You get plugged into a good job, you're supposed to use that job. And if you leave, leave on good terms. If you wanted a relationship with somebody, you're supposed to try to make that thing work out. You know what I mean? If somebody got a small business, come on, don't ask for the hookup. They just started. Let these people get established. Maybe later on down the line, you know. I'm saying they can look out for you, but if they just get started, how do you want the hookup? It makes no sense. So, people, this this is the takeaway from this episode, man. Stop asking for the hookup if you're not gonna use it. And if you're not using it, don't ask for it because you're messing it up for other people that really need a hookup. Come on, man. Listen, this is big slick. You already know what it is. It's been another great episode of Talk Your Shit. Now, listen, if you got a story you want to let me know about, email it in at talk your shit daily at gmail.com. Send it in. You know what I'm saying? I'll put it on a show, I'll talk about it, and I'll give you my honest, raw, uncut, unfiltered opinion. Because that's what I do. It's big slick and I'm out.