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My Parents Hate My Girlfriend
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What do you do when your parents don’t like your girlfriend? 😬
They say she’s not ambitious enough or not “the one,” but you know she’s kind, loyal, and hardworking. In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t, Big Slick talks about the real-life struggle of love versus family approval — when your heart says yes but your family says no.
We dive deep into:
💔 Why family judgment can damage relationships
🏠 How to stay true to your feelings without disrespecting your parents
🧠 When to listen — and when to follow your heart
This one’s about love, growth, and standing on your choices, even when people don’t understand them.
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What up, what up, what up, what up? It's your boy Big Slick, and welcome to Talk Your Shit. We got another great show for you today. But first, let me give a shout out to all my listeners. Whether you're at home, at work, in your car, or all the truck drivers on the road, I appreciate you tuning in. Yo, check this out. We got another letter. Somebody done wrote it so let's talk about it letter. We're gonna read the letter today. That's how I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna read the letter first, and then I'm gonna give you my honest opinion on it. You already know how I do. So, yo, let's jump right into it, real quick. So, check this out. This letter is about when your family doesn't like your girlfriend. That's already serious. Let's see what let's see what we're working with. My family thinks my girlfriend isn't good enough for me. She's kind and hard working, but they say she's not ambitious enough. Should I listen to them or follow my heart? All right, let's jump right into it. So your family thinks your girlfriend is not good enough. First of all, why do they even think that? You already said she's hardworking and she's kind. So why they think she's not good enough for you? You know what I'm saying? Is the first question. Or is it that she's not good enough for them? You know what I'm saying? It's a slippery slope out there. I know sometimes parents mean well, but sometimes it's for their own, they're looking at it in their own for their own benefit. You know, they act like they're with the girl. Nah, it's you the one that's with the girl. So the question still is, is all right, is the girl not right for you, or the girl is not right for them? You know what I'm saying? Because you and the girl is the one in really ultimately in a relationship that's gonna be together, you know. I'm saying your family being involved in a relationship is totally optional, you know what I'm saying? So that's up to you. You know, a lot of times parents want the best thing for their kids, and they supposed to. They they they definitely supposed to, but I think sometimes they might get a little overboard with it, you know what I'm saying? To the point where nobody is good enough for you. So that might be that situation, you know. I'm saying this might be something like that, but then again, you never know, it might not be. Maybe they see through the girl. I don't know. The thing is, is how you really feel about the girl, right? So you said she's kind and hard working. Do you feel like she's ambitious enough? Right? If she's kind and hard working, she's hard work, she's working towards something. So that's showing some type of ambition right there. If she's a hard worker, and then to me personally, at the end of the day, is follow your heart. You know, I'm saying follow the way you feel because only you know how you feel deep inside. Now, your parents might think they know how you feel, they raised you, but they don't know how you feel about this girl. You know, this is something totally different. These, these are different emotions that you tapped into with another female, so your parents can't know how you feel about that, you know. I'm saying they can relate to how they felt when they, you know, first met somebody or whatever, but that don't got nothing to do with your experience with this feeling. So I would say, what do you feel about it? Follow your heart. Do you feel like this is the girl you you want to be with? Do you feel like this girl is ambitious? Do you feel like this girl is gonna support your dreams as well? If the answer is yes, who gives a fuck what your family think? Because at the end of the day, it's you and your Rada Dow, man. It's you and your shorty that's gonna be together holding it down. Your parents ain't gonna be there holding it down for you like that, unless you're you're a mama's boy, and that's another episode. You can catch that episode that I already did. Unless you're a mama's boy, this is a different story. But if you're not and you're holding it down on your own, go with your gut feeling, man, because only you know how you feel. And if you make the wrong decision, guess what? So what? It's your decision to make, and it's a learning experience for you, you know. Live your life, man. You know, your parents can't live your life for you. You know, sometimes parents hold on so tight that they try to live your life for you, but they can't. They can't, you know. You gotta live your own life, man. So if it was me and I'm feeling this girl, I wouldn't care what nobody thinks. I follow my heart and go for it. I think you should go for it. If you feel like this is the one for you, do the damn thing, man. Keep it pushing and enjoy it. And if it's the wrong decision, who cares? It's all good. Nobody's perfect. That's it. You learn from it and you move on. But I wouldn't listen to my parents because what can happen is okay, say you listen to your parents, and now you feel like, yo, that was the one that got away. Now you're resenting your parents for the rest of your life, and you feel like you ain't gonna never find that true love because the one you did want got away from you. Who wants to live like that? You know what I mean? So I rather you I if it was me, I would rather live with taking that shot and seeing what happens rather than not taking a shot at all and never know what how it's gonna turn out. So go for it, man. Go for it. That's what I say. Go for it. Later for whatever, whoever says anything, do your thing, man. If you if you see something in this female that nobody else sees, then go for it. You know, later for your parents. That's my honest opinion. And you already know what it is. It's big slick. It's my show, talk your shit. And that's what I'm gonna do. I appreciate you sending this letter in, man. If anybody else wants to be a part of the show, just send your letter in to talk your shit daily at gmail.com. That's talk your shit daily at gmail.com. I'll read your letter on the show, give you my honest, unfiltered, raw opinion about it. Because that's the only thing I know how to do. Again, this is Big Slick. Talk your shit, and I'm out. Pace.