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Are People Taking Advantage of Your Kindness?
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Are people constantly pulling on your kindness, your time, or your wallet—and leaving you drained? In this episode, we break down what really happens when your generosity gets exploited and how to protect yourself without becoming cold, rude, or defensive. If you’ve ever felt guilty saying “no,” this conversation gives you the clarity and confidence you’ve been missing.
We unpack the real problem: takers, emotional manipulation, shifting stories, and guilt tactics designed to make you say yes before you even process the request. You’ll learn a simple decision-making system to vet every ask—check for specifics, look for patterns, pause before agreeing, and protect your energy with smarter boundaries.
Then we get practical. You’ll hear ready-to-use scripts for saying no, redirecting people to actual resources, and shutting down repeat behavior without an argument. We also talk about the power of supporting reputable charities with real transparency so your kindness goes where it truly matters.
This episode is your boundary reset. You’ll walk away knowing how to hold your line, keep your peace, and still be a generous person—without getting used, drained, or manipulated.
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What up, what up, what up, what up? It's Big Slick and welcome to Talk Your Shit. Yo, check it out. We got another great episode for you today. But first, I want to give a shout out to all my listeners. Whether you at home, at work, in your car, all the truck drivers on the road. I appreciate you tuning in. Yo, check this out. We got another great episode. I got another letter in that I'm going to read after I finish reading it. I'm going to give you my honest, uncut, raw opinion about it. And I don't care if you like it or not. So let's dive right in and see what we got for the day. When people take advantage of your kindness, I like helping people, I like helping others, but some people exploit my generosity. How do I protect myself without seeming mean? Well, that's first of all, I just want to say it's a great thing that you like helping people. But the thing is, you gotta help the people that's good people. You can't just help anybody. That's what I feel like. You know, it's a lot of people out here that that need help, but a lot of people are not good people, man. You know what I'm saying? And a lot of people just take advantage of it, and some people don't even really need help, they just take advantage of good people that they know they can get help from, which is bad because that messes us up, it messes it up. Let me get my shit right for people that actually need help, right? So I I you know I truly dislike people that take advantage of good people, you know. I I I you know that that shit irks my nerves, man. That's like bullying, you know what I'm saying? Now, and I'm the type of dude that like to slap fire out of bullies. So if you if you're a good person and and you being generous and trying to help people and they taking advantage of you, that that's terrible. And the way you can stop that is really know the people that you're helping, right? So if you if this is you talking about individual people that you're helping, sometimes you you might get get to know the person first, right? Before you start helping them, so they won't, so you can actually know what's going on so they can't take advantage of you, right? That's that's what I would do, my honest opinion. And another way that you can help people is just give to a charity, you know. It's numerous charities out here that you can give to the where you don't have to worry about you know, individual people taking advantage of you, you know, and make sure it's a reputable charity because we got some of those that's out here that'll rip people off too. So make sure you're giving it you know to the right people so it can get to the right people, you know. I'm saying that you can help people like that, but that's how you protect yourself. And the thing about seeming mean, forget about it's okay, it's okay to be mean sometimes. I'm I'm getting a lot of letters in that you know, people who don't want to seem mean or they don't like you know, a little slight confrontation. Sometimes you have to do that to protect yourself, you know. Sometimes you have to be a little confrontational, and I'm not and confrontational don't mean you you going up and slapping fire out of somebody. That's you know, it can be you standing your ground and letting people know if they're doing something wrong to you that you will not tolerate it. It's okay with drawing lines in the sand, it's okay with setting boundaries to protect yourself, especially when you're out here doing a good deed to help people, and then you got people taking advantage of you. So it's okay to be mean, so don't worry about being mean. Some people deserve that, they they deserve for you to be mean for you to be mean to them because they're using you and taking advantage of you. So that's how you do it. Address the situation and keep it moving. And you know, you want to help everybody, but the bad thing is that everybody doesn't deserve your help, they just don't, you know, it's just like that. We live in a world like that where people take advantage of good people, and that's sad, but that's what happens, you know, and it is it's not good at all. But I wouldn't worry about being mean at all because if you you know, people exploiting your generosity, then they're actually being mean to you, right? So stand your ground and keep it moving and help the ones that need the help, don't just be, you know, blindly, you know, just helping anybody, you know, actually put it in the hands of the people that truly deserve it and need it, and go to these charities. And if and if it's hard for you to screen certain people to know how they are, go to these charities and give there, and that's the best way to do it. But being mean, hey, sometimes you got to do it, and I I have no problem doing it at all. So do it sometimes, I'm telling you, stress-free, you'll feel good about it too. So these people that's acting like this, go out to them and let them know you're not having it no more because you just listened to talk your shit podcast. You got information from Big Slick. Tell them Big Slick sent you. That's what you need to do. Listen, y'all, it's been another great episode of Talk Your Shit. And if you want to be a part of the show, you can send your email into talk your shit daily at gmail.com. That's talk your shit daily at gmail.com. I'll pull your letter, put it on a show, and give you my uncut, raw, unfiltered truth, whether you like it or not, because that's what I do. This is big slick, and I'm out in pace.