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Why Is My Neighbor So Nosey? How to Set Boundaries Without Starting Drama
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Ever feel like your neighbor knows way too much about your life? The kind who magically appears every time you unlock your door, check your mail, or breathe near a window? In this episode, Big Slick breaks down how to deal with a nosey neighbor without creating neighborhood drama or making things awkward on the block.
We unpack a raw listener letter about a neighbor who watches everything, asks too many questions, and doesn’t understand boundaries. You’ll hear why some neighbors act like “porch detectives” and how small changes in your behavior can instantly protect your privacy and peace.
We keep the advice real, practical, and drama-free:
• How to avoid inviting unwanted conversations
• How to shut down small talk politely
• How to stop window-watchers from tracking your every move
• How to control what information you reveal
• How to set clear boundaries while keeping things civil
Whether you live in an apartment, a duplex, or a suburban neighborhood, this episode gives you the scripts, strategies, and confidence to reclaim your space.
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You, you, and you. Did I say you? Yeah, you too. Now let's talk about it. What up, what up, what up, what up? It's your boy Big Slick, and welcome to Talk Your Shit. Yo, we got another great episode for you today. But first, I want to give a shout out to my audience. Whether you're home, at work, in your car, truck drivers on the road, I appreciate you tuning in. Yo, check this out. We're gonna jump right into this letter that I got today. I'm gonna give you my unfiltered, raw, uncut opinion about it. That's all I know how to do. Let's get it popping. Let's see what we got for the day. My neighbor is nosy and won't stay out my business. What should I do? I like letters like this, straight to the point. Nosy neighbor. Look, check this out. How many of us got that nosy ass neighbor, man? What do you do with them? They're everywhere. You know the neighbor that seems to come out and check their mailbox the same time you come out and check your mailbox? The neighbor that wants to come outside and wash their car or something the same time you outside washing your car. What are we doing? I look through my window. I see you peeking through your window. What type of crazy ass shit is this? Is your neighbor nosy or are they a fucking stalker? Because it's crazy out here how nosy these neighbors are. And then look, check this out. I'm yo, check this out. The neighbor fuck around and get your mail, right now. He bringing your mail to your crib. You open the door, you see it's the neighbor, you're already cursing yourself. Like, oh, this what the fuck this motherfucker want. But you see, they holding mail, so you like, oh shit, it must be my mail. So you open the shit up. Why would a neighbor giving you your mail? The motherfucker trying to look over you in your crib to be nosy. It's it's crazy, man. That that people are so nosy. And why the nosy neighbors want to talk so goddamn much, man? Every time you see them, it's like it's a conversation. They want to they want to say something, they want to act something. It's something. Me, I don't do no eye contact. This is what you need to do with nosy name. Do not give them eye contact. Because once they see you, see them, it's a rap. Something is they're gonna talk about something, they're gonna start approaching you. Something is gonna run, don't no eye contact, bro. When you go in the crib, look straight at your door, open your shit and walk straight in. Do not pay attention to the nosy neighbor because if you do, you're gonna be there for about 15 minutes talking about some bullshit that you ain't even gonna remember when you go in the house. So it's crazy, man. Dude, I know everybody's had this neighbor. The old lady that sits in the window all day and watches everything. When I say everything, everything. This lady knows everything that happens on the block. Who moved in, who moved out, who arguing, who playing loud music, what call, who call it, the lady knows everything. This lady is on everybody block, whether you know or not, this lady exists on everybody block that sits in the window and watches everything happening all day. So if you're doing anything that you don't need to be doing, do not do it in front of this lady's house because she's gonna snitch on you if somebody comes around because she loves to talk and she loves company. So if somebody asks her what's going on, she's gonna spill the beans. This nosy lady is crazy. So, what you should do with this with the the nosy neighbor, right? Slap the shit out of them. That's what you should do. Not the old lady, though. Don't don't don't hit the old lady, not the old lady in the window, the other neighbor that's not an old lady. Slap the shit out of nah, seriously, don't slap them. You be wanting to, though. You can just just no eye contact, keep it moving, walk straight, avoid any conversation, right? I act a little, I look a little mean when I get out the car. So I I look unapproachable. Leave leave me alone. It's like it's been a long day. You don't really want to talk to me right now. So that's that's my face when I get out the car. I don't even care if I'm in the car having fun, music blasting, I'm chilling. If I see your ass outside, when I get out the car, my whole shit change up. I'm looking at you crazy. I'm looking crazy getting out. So you do that a couple of times. The nosy neighbor, first of all, is gonna stop talking to you and look in your way. Because they like, oh no, I'm not messing with this person. So that's my advice to you. You know, you can take either one you want to, you know what I'm saying? But no eye contact, keep it moving, head straight into the crib, stop talking. And if you do get caught up in a conversation, make the conversation real blunt and always act like you're in a rush. That's about it. And you should be good. You know what I mean? Another easy one. You already know what it is, man. It's big slick. This has been another great episode episode of Talk Your Shit. Now, look, if you want to be a part of the show, send your email in with you with your story, you know. I'm saying what's going on with your topic. I give you my straight, uncut, unfiltered, raw opinion about it. And if that's too much to send in an email, just put a comment down, man. Let me know. I read the comments, boom, and I still put it on the show. That's what we do around here. Listen, it's big slick. You already know what it is, and I'm out. Peace.