How to Avoid Toxic People (Protect Your Energy & Cut Negativity FAST)

If you’ve ever felt drained after talking to someone, chances are you’re dealing with toxic people. In this episode of Talk Ya Shit Daily, Big Slick breaks down how to identify toxic people and most importantly, how to avoid them without drama.

We all deal with toxic friends, toxic coworkers, and even toxic family members—but the real question is… are you protecting your energy or feeding the negativity?

In this video, you’ll learn:

•  The clear signs of toxic behavior
•  Why toxic people complain and hate on others 
•  How negative people slowly drain your energy 
•  The exact mindset shift to avoid toxic people effortlessly
•  How to stay positive without getting pulled into negativity 

🚨 Most people don’t even realize they’re surrounded by toxic energy until it’s too late. Don’t let negativity change who you are.

💡 Stay to the end to learn the simple strategy that makes toxic people avoid YOU.

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Transcript

Welcome And Quick Shoutouts

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You, you, and you. You, yeah, you too. Now, let's talk about it.

Signs Someone Is Toxic

When Family Turns Negative

How To Avoid Toxic People

Final Reminder And Sign Off

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What up, what up, what up, what up, what up? Welcome to Talk Your Shit Daily. And I'm your host, Big Slick. You already know we got another great episode for you today. But first, I want to give a shout out to all my listeners. Whether you're at home, at work, in your car, all the truck drivers on the road. I appreciate you tuning in. And if you didn't subscribe yet, hit the button, man. Yo, check it out. We're gonna jump right into the show for today. Listen, today's topic is how to avoid toxic people. Listen, I know a whole bunch of people want to know how to avoid toxic people. First of all, I'm gonna go through how to identify somebody that's toxic. And then stay to the end, I'm gonna tell you how to avoid them. First of all, how you identify a toxic person. If you got a toxic friend, toxic co-worker, whatever. The first thing a toxic person always do, I don't care, every toxic person does this is complain. They complain, complain, complain about everything in everybody. That's what they do. Half of their time is built with just complaining on people and hating on somebody else's situation, right? That's that's all they do. They they hate on other people's success. So toxic people is haters, basically, as well. So they hate on everything. So that's one way to identify a toxic person. Every time you see them, they complaining about something, and they're never talking about nothing positive, right? It's another thing about a toxic person. A toxic person never speaks positive like that, right? They speak more negative than positive. So every everything that comes out their mouth is is just negative stuff. Oh, I hate when this happens, or how I'm gonna do this, and nothing is is a is a resolute. They not they're not trying to resolve no situations, but they complain about everything, and everything is negative, right? That's another way how you can identify a toxic person. Another thing is this is when you talking to a toxic person. This is a way you identify them. When you finish talking to them, you feel drained like whew, like you just ran a marathon. Like you, like they was doing all the talking, and you out of breath, you your head hurt, all types of things are going on right now because they drained your energy, and that's what toxic people do, they're drain your energy because they're so negative. So they have you tired. When you finish talking to them, you're exhausted because you're drained at this point, because you're dealing with a toxic person, right? Another thing with a toxic person, if you come to them talking about any type of goals that you you plan to do, anything you're striving for, they're the first ones to tell you can't do it. How you gonna do that? What you talking about? You're gonna start your own business, man. Get out of here. Where you gonna get the money for that at? This is a toxic person that always do it, right? And this ain't necessarily this ain't narrowed down the friends. Like I said, this could be your friend, this could be your co-worker, it's definitely can be family, right? You know, a lot of people exclude family, but it's a lot of family that's toxic. A lot of people look past it because they're family, but sometimes they'll be the first ones to get you because you're more vulnerable around them. So be aware of family as well. Like I said, a lot of people overlook family, but you can't because you have a lot of toxic people in your family that you overlook. But if you sit down and really pay attention to them, you'll be like, damn. They've been doing that for a long time, and I never noticed it. It's another way, man. Did you know I'm saying you can identify these toxic people, right? So, how you avoid them is this. First of all, the first thing to do is don't engage in the negativity, in the negative talking. Don't don't do it, just just don't do it in the complaining, don't do it, right? Because toxic people enjoy other toxic people. So if you're not a toxic person and you don't indulge in none of this stuff, they're gonna leave you alone. It's as simple as that. So at this point, you ain't even you don't even have to avoid them. The way you carry yourself make them not want to be around you anyway, right? So that's that's definitely a major way to do it. Don't complain. When they complain about stuff, always talk positive. A toxic person hates when somebody speaks positive. A negative person hates when somebody speaks positivity. They cannot exist in that environment, they only can exist in a negative environment. Everybody know the saying misery loves company, right? Right? So if you speak in positive, they don't want to be around you because that's that's not company for them. You know, they want to be around somebody that talks like them, somebody that's negative like them. So this is another way that you can avoid toxic people by just being positive and being yourself. See, what happens is this how people get stuck around toxic people is that you engage them when they do speak negative about things. Don't engage, don't entertain that. Don't don't entertain it because they're gonna keep on coming back talking about negative stuff. They're gonna keep on coming back to you because they think you on the toxic team. So you shouldn't entertain it, and then it's a dangerous thing to entertain it because what happens next is that slowly you start becoming a toxic person before you know it. You start becoming a complainer about everything, you start looking at people and and hating on their success. Why they got that, why I can't get it. You will start thinking the same way because you're with a toxic person and you do this all day now. Now you became toxic and you don't even know how it happened because it can happen fast if you're around people like this. That's why you got to be mindful of who's around you, who's in your circle, who you're talking with, who you're spending your time with. Time is precious, right? So you need to pay attention to the time that you spend with certain people. Pay attention to what these people were saying, how they're talking, if they're negative or not, then you can identify the toxic people and avoid them and keep it moving. This was an easy one. Was this an easy one? This was an easy show for me. Listen, man, take heed, pay attention, stay away from the negativity, man. Stay positive, stay motivated, and keep it pushing. You already know what it is. This is big slick. It's talk your shit daily and I'm out. Peace.