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<v SPEAKER_01>So now we'll move into a time of hearing from God.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Our scripture today is Luke 5, verses 27 to 31.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Later, as Jesus left the town, he saw a tax collector named Levi sitting at his tactile tax collector's booth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Follow me and be my disciple, Jesus said to him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Levi got up, left everything, and followed him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Later, Levi held a banquet in his home with Jesus as the guest of honor.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Many of Levi's fellow tax collectors and other guests also ate with them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But the Pharisees and their teachers of religious law complained bitterly to Jesus' disciples, Why do you eat and drink with such scum?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus answered them, Healthy people don't need a doctor, sick people do.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I have come to call not those who think they are righteous, but those who know that they are sinners and need to repent.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Hey, you guys look great today.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Good morning.

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<v SPEAKER_02>My name is Joel.

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<v SPEAKER_02>I'm one of the leaders here.

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<v SPEAKER_02>And before I introduce our guest speaker, which is longtime friend Nathan, I want to catch you up to speed on what we're doing when we talk about practices.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So Alex, there's a slide.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So if you've been with us, you kind of this should sound like old news.

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<v SPEAKER_02>If you're newer, this is kind of the spinal cord, the backbone of what we are as a church community.

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<v SPEAKER_02>We tell the story of God in nine movements, which is God's action in the world, and then we faithfully respond with nine practices that correlate to each of those movements.

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<v SPEAKER_02>We talk about practices.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Um, we're talking about things that we schedule into our lives that we do that would shape us to become people who follow the way of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_02>It's like a trellis for a vine to grow, or it's a discipline that creates space to for God to work in us.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Um and so when we call them practices, they would be things that maybe don't come natural to us, but we would, as a community and as individuals, schedule these practices in our lives so that they would form us into uh the image of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_02>And so if if I'm like your basketball coach and you are we are the team, I would say we need to practice shooting and passing and defense and dribbling and left-handed layups, unless you're right-handed, then right-handed layups.

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<v SPEAKER_02>And I would expect as a team that we would go home and like you would be like Michael Jordan out in your backyard practicing foul shots or whatever.

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<v SPEAKER_02>And so that's kind of the hope is that we lay this out as a grid and a framework, and all of us would be locked into as a community, but also individually, scheduling these practices in our lives so that we would be formed into the way of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So after today, we're talking about hospitality, which correlates with our story movement of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_02>We only have two more movements of the story and then two more practices, and then we will have gone through kind of the core DNA of our new church plant community.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So um a long time ago, when I scheduled this sermon to be on this date, I thought, who could I bring in to share about this practice really well?

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<v SPEAKER_02>And the first person and the only person that ever came to my mind was my friend uh Nathan Riley.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So Nathan and his wife Carrie, I've uh Laura and I have known them for about nine years, and they've become really close friends and have been crazy generous to us.

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<v SPEAKER_02>They have four wonderful kids who are mostly high school age, which you will see pictures of them during his uh slide.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Uh, Nathan and Carrie were missionaries overseas for a bit.

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<v SPEAKER_02>In 2014, they planted a church in Albany called Hub City, um, which is still going strong, apparently.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Apparently, no it is.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Um, and we shared some time at uh Antioch Church in Bend together where he was the worship pastor.

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<v SPEAKER_02>But for the last uh six years since 2020, they've lived in St.

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<v SPEAKER_02>John's, North Portland.

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<v SPEAKER_02>And Nathan is the lead pastor of Red Sea Church.

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<v SPEAKER_02>And Red Sea prays for us as a church plant regularly.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Uh they support us financially for three years, they're giving us monthly um support.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Um, and I've been able to preach there about once a year for the last, I don't know, six years or so.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So they're as close as we have to kind of like a partner church that think similarly to us and support one another.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So uh Nathan and Carrie live with radical hospitals hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_02>It's grungy, it's messy, um, and it has been encouraging to me.

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<v SPEAKER_02>So I'm excited to hear from Nathan.

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<v SPEAKER_02>He's tall, dark, and handsome.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Give it up.

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<v SPEAKER_02>I don't know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hey, what is up, guys?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's uh it's good to see you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna raise this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm sorry.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I can't see mostly anymore, which is fine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But um, yeah, how are we doing?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um I feel like in so many ways I have been like your biggest fan from afar for over a year now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um praying for you guys.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh it's it's a delight to get to be a part of the Citizens Church story um from afar, but also to be with you in the flesh this morning is it's a huge gift.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So greetings, uh greetings from Portland, um, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the only city in the Pacific Northwest that is weirder than Eugene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, we're the only ones, and that I would contest is only because we're bigger.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like per capita, you guys have it locked down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um the weird factor here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh growing up in Albany and Corvallis, it was like this is a very different world down here in Eugene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You guys are the Oregon Country fair types, uh, which is amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, which speaking of, by the way, there are way fewer bare feet here this morning than I was assuming uh I was gonna see.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah, I know, I know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can pop those off if you need to, Jarrell.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just fine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but yeah, no, I I love Eugene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love Eugene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love that you guys love Eugene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and mostly I love uh that you guys want to see Jesus known and loved in Eugene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So keep at it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh you guys are doing great work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, like like Jarell kind of prefaced, you guys have been in this series engaging the story of God and specifically how God's story shapes the practices that we embrace as his followers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I really love, I really appreciate the fact that you guys use that language of practice because it implies uh that every single one of us are in process, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody's nobody's perfect at this yet, not even like Jarell and Lauren, and they're pretty pretty amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um but yeah, we're we're practicing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Practicing means a lot to me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, so I have been a youth and high school sports coach uh for for years.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh historically, that's been football.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And looking at me, you're probably like, yeah, this makes sense.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um this offseason this summer, my three lovely high school age daughters sat me down and asked me basically, like, if I even love them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and if so, then why is it that I spend all football season coaching like 75 boys who are not my children uh rather than supporting the sport that they love?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm a volleyball coach now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh that officially changed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh I know nothing about volleyball.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh I it uh other than the fact that the bus rides smell infinitely better.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm like Ted Lassoing my way into this sport that I know nothing about, um, but it's it's going great so far.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're having fun.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But my point is like every day we practice, every day after school, and usually on Saturdays, we drill and we condition and we hone our skills, and and progressively over time, what happens is we develop as athletes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I love that you guys are using that same language as you look at your following of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is something that we practice and it requires discipline and sacrifice, but there's really no other way to do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So uh it's a joy for me this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm stoked to be talking to you about the practice of hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, hospitality has become really a passion uh of mine and a and a central part of not only mine, but really my family's calling uh and ministry over the last several years.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'll get to some stories in a little bit, but uh let's talk about let's talk about the scripture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, our scripture reading this morning was from Luke's gospel, and it gave us a really beautiful glimpse or kind of a paradigm for the concept of Christian hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So so Jesus is talking to this tax collector, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, this guy named Levi, and he calls him to follow him, and instantly he he does.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh he leaves his tax booth, it says, and he jumps at the chance to become a follower of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then I want you to note this what is the very first thing?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like what is his first action or his first response that followed this kind of this conversion calling moment?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Bro throws a party.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Right, a banquet, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 29 called it a great banquet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and it's a party or a banquet that's full of whom?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, it's his former co-workers, it's his social circle, his neighbors, it's people that that Levi wants to meet Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so he's saying, hey, come come on over, come to my home, come to my table, meet my Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can follow him too.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's really fascinating to me, by the way, um, back at Red Sea Church in Portland right now, we are in a teaching series through uh the book of Acts, which if you're not familiar, it is literally it's the sequel to the book of Luke.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's part two of the story of uh of Jesus' life lived out through his first followers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And just like two weeks ago, last time I preached, I preached on Acts chapter 16.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's the story where the gospel makes its way into what is today the continent of Europe for the very first time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in the city of Philippi, we learn the stories of two, these two people, Lydia uh and this Philippian jailer, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like a corrections officer in the city.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And both of them come to, they they convert, they come to love and trust Jesus as Savior.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and then with both of them, their very first action after coming to salvation was to gather a whole bunch of people at their tables in their homes, was to throw a party, to throw a banquet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so it's just so interesting to me that Luke seems to be pointing out a pattern, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That when Jesus opens someone's heart, they in turn open their home.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We see it again and again in the stories of Luke and Acts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And those homes, when we investigate a little bit further, um become filled with radically uh diverse groups of people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can say it this way it's people from almost every color and collar and class.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So in this story, we saw the tax collectors.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The tax collectors were shady white-collar government contractors, right, taking money from people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh we see the the sinners as the Pharisees referred to them, which in Jesus' posse ranged of everything from like prostitutes to fishermen, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Working class blue-collar folks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and then finally in this party, we have these self-righteously pious priests, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>The the Pharisees, the the clerical collars.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've got all the collars, blue-collar, white collar, clerical collar.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so you have to assume can you like put yourself there at that party for a moment?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's awkward for everybody, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like being in that mix of people had to be uncomfortable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody wants the other people there, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You think the sinners are stoked to hang out with the Pharisees?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Absolutely not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The Pharisees even call out, they draw attention to the awkwardness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're like, why in the world would you eat with them?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think the translation that we read was eat with the scum, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's brutal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That kind of diversity breaks all social norms.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's not how we tend to party.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You think about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Think about the last time you went to like a big social function engagement, a party.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's all kinds of parties, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Was it was it for you, was it a fancy party?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Was it like a champagne and hors d'oeuvres type of party, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Or maybe you're like, that's not my jam, is more of like a Miller Light and Buffalo Wings kind of party, maybe watching a football game, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>A working class party.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I saw the horde that left the room a few minutes ago.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of you are like, it was more of like a pirate's booty and capri-sun kind of party, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're in that stage of life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've been there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, hold on, guys, parties get better.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They will they'll come back into your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, whatever it was, my point is there were probably a lot, I we can assume, at whatever party, that there were a lot of similar people from similar backgrounds sharing some sense of similarity, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're sharing in common affinity or uh a similar life stage, or we all have young kids, or whatever, whatever it was.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But Christian hospitality, we could say, requires diversity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Christian hospitality is not just aimed at the in-crowd, it's aimed at the outsider.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So uh are you guys up for a little Bible nerd, Bible language moment?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just let me, I want to unpack this word for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In the New Testament Greek text, this com these compound words are used for what we render in English hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, and specifically it's two Greek words.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's the word phileo or phyllo, which means uh familial love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh I met someone earlier from Pittsburgh.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so close by is Philadelphia, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Philadelphia.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, it's the city of what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Brotherly love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Somebody said birds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't want to talk about the eagles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um yeah, brotherly love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, the other word is the word xenos, which means stranger.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, if you've ever heard you can think xenophobia, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is the fear of those who are different than us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So in Greek, they just smash those two words together, and what you get is in English hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, in Greek, philoxenia or phylosenos.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, most literally translates.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The best literal translation here is loving the stranger, or what I like to do is make a verb out of family and say familying the outsider.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's Christian hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It goes far beyond uh just loving our church small groups.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh Christian hospitality goes far beyond hosting your extended family for uh Thanksgiving dinner.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh it really means showing real love to strangers and to outsiders and to unbelievers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've heard it said this way before, that it's not actually Christian hospitality until there's someone there who you wish wasn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Does that make sense?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh and some of you are thinking that is exactly what holidays with my family are like.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh, believe me, I get it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh our families are not always the most enjoyable, but they're still insiders.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're still insiders.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the reality here is that it doesn't take a bloody cross and an empty tomb for us to hang out with a whole bunch of people that look just like us, that think just like us, that believe just, that embrace the same values and and and lifestyles as us, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and I have this fear and this sneaking suspicion uh that my fear is that our churches today, churches across the nation especially, um, we we might get so good at the practice of community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And by community, I mean spending meaningful time and and meals and life with other Christians.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My fear is we might get so good at community that we never actually break into hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Does that make sense?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um So I want to challenge you to just think through the question like when are there unbelievers at your table?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Where are you making space for that in your life?

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<v SPEAKER_00>When is diversity present in your home?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh at the core of the gospel, we see that Jesus came to create one uh multicultural, multi-ethnic family uniting people of every color and color and class together into one family.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and guys, we are a part of that story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We are called to open up our homes, to open up our tables with the exact same intent.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So Levi.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love Levi's story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's a baby believer, he's been following Jesus for five minutes or something like that, but he he nailed the practice of hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh he's a great example.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But in the late 1990s, when it became popular, nobody wore a what would Levi do bracelet, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um so let's talk about Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's talk about Jesus' hospitality, an example.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um just out of curiosity, does anybody happen to know the what was the most common title that was used of Jesus in the New Testament hint?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Commonly, uh incorrectly, people often think that this was Jesus' last name, which it wasn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What was the title?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Christ, yeah, yeah, Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It shows up like I forget 530 something times in the New Testament, Jesus referred to as the Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Interestingly, Jesus almost never used that title of himself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everyone else did, but he had a different title that he preferred, and that title was Son of Man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Son of Man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if you're unfamiliar, it's a super cool title.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's got all sorts of roots in the Hebrew Old Testament.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It first shows up uh in the the book of Daniel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He has this crazy vision, and there's the son of man, it's this mysterious and and tragic and very heroic figure that shows up like riding the clouds and slaying apocalyptic beasts at great personal sacrifice.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He should he's almost like a Marvel hero, is really the vibe of the Son of Man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Jesus was like, you can call me that, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, I'll go by Iron Man, um, is essentially what it is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so over 80 times, 80 times in our four gospels, Jesus refers to himself as the son of man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what's funny is that almost every time it's super mysterious and everyone's confused.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why are you like, what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh Jesus even asked at one point, he's having a conversation with his disciples, and he's like, hey, who do who do people say that the son of man is?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they're like, Elijah?

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<v SPEAKER_00>They just start throwing out names.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jeremiah's John?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like they they no clue.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus enjoyed ambiguity, and I love that about him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh but there were three times specifically where Jesus could not have been more clear, not have been more explicit about the son of man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Three times Jesus makes these statements and they all start the exact same way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They start with the words, the son of man came.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So let's let's check those out really quick.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The first one's in Mark 10.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, The Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's a pretty clear statement, isn't it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Pretty concise.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The son of man does what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He comes and he gives his life in order to save others.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, now the next time uh we see this very similar statement, Luke chapter 19.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's like this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, the Son of Man came to seek and save the lost.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Very similar idea, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so both of those statements you really combine to speak to the very definition of Jesus' mission.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These statements are purpose statements for his life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He came to what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>To lay down his life on the cross, dying for sinners in order to bring God's salvation to the last and to the lost and to the least.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the crux of the Christian gospel right here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so those two statements really set our expectations high for the third statement, like incredibly high.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, are you excited?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You ready for it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here we go, Luke 7.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The Son of Man came eating and drinking.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah, amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean by comparison, you hear that and you're like, what is going on?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What?

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is that that seems so elementary, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It seems so basic, almost silly and inconsequential by comparison.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But listen, Luke knew exactly what he was doing when he penned those words in that way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and and I think what he was doing is this, that if those first couple of statements are ultimately defining Jesus' mission, and by his mission I mean like what work he was coming to do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that last statement it defines his method.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It defines how he was gonna do that work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we know, of course, the cross, the cross is coming, but first there's gonna be a whole lot of eating and drinking and hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um I don't think it would be an overstatement to to claim that that Jesus' primary method, his primary method of spreading the good news of his kingdom, his main strategy for like evangelizing the world, it wasn't mass preaching.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It wasn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was long meals around big tables late into the night with good food and with even better wine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what he did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um there's this Franciscan scholar, author, theologian named Robert Karras, and he he wrote a book about the book of Luke, and he said that in Luke's gospel, Jesus is either going to a meal, he is at a meal, or he is coming from a meal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I read that and I was like, I've never wanted to be more like Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This sounds amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The dinner table was the heart of hospitality for Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was absolutely central to his life and to his mission and to his ministry.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and when you think about Jesus' life, like all the way from his very first miracle, anybody remember that one?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He brought like 150 gallons of better wine to a wedding feast, which is awesome.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All the way to like one of his very final miracles, like his post-resurrection miracles, he's got a couple of them, and there's the the the fishing trip where he tells them to throw their nets in and they haul in like 150-something fish, which is just an interesting connection.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The wine and the fish sounds like a great party.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh the Son of Man came eating and drinking with wildly diverse people, with all sorts of outsiders, and so should we.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And not only uh was hospitality absolutely central to the life of Jesus, it's also a direct command to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's commanded of us as his followers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think people often think of hospitality and think of it as like it's a hobby for extroverts, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a holy hobby for you extroverts, but it's one that we introverts, we can just take a pass on it if we'd just rather not, because I don't like people in my space.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sorry, but no, it's it's it's not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not optional.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is expected of the church today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Did you know this to me is interesting?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Did you know it's actually one of the biblical requirements for church leaders and elders and pastors?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Did you know that hospitality is one of the things that they is like there's these couple of extensive lists in the New Testament, like 1 Timothy chapter 3 and Titus chapter 1, where Paul uh is saying everything that church leaders, elders, pastors have gotta be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says specifically that they are not qualified for leadership if they don't practice hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like it is right up there in the list next to sexual fidelity in marriage, next to living above reproach.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is a serious mandate.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think it's sad.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um we've heard the stories, we've probably been a part of the churches uh where pastors become uh disqualified or removed from ministry because of like egregious moral failings, gnarly stuff, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sexual affairs or embezzling money or bullying and abusing uh church members, whatever it may be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Who has ever heard of a pastor being removed from ministry because they weren't practicing hospitality, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, I don't know, it's been it's been three years now, and Pastor Karen has never invited her next door neighbors over for dinner.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think we gotta let her go, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, that it it that never happens.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, nobody does that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why not?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why not?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think it's because we don't take hospitality nearly as seriously as Jesus did, nor do we take it as seriously as our scriptures command.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So just for fun, rapid fire, I've got three different imperatives from the Bible from three different New Testament authors all charging us with the task of hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Romans 12, seek to show hospitality, Hebrews 13, do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, 1 Peter chapter 4.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So they say, seek to do it, don't neglect doing it, and then also don't complain about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's it's pretty clear.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's pretty clear.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so looking back at Jesus' life, um, we have a few stories, like just actually a handful of stories of Jesus where he's preaching to the masses.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He does that on occasion, but the majority, I mean the vast majority of his work came through personal encounters, through personal conversations and invitations to outsiders, to fishermen, to the tax man, to the woman at the well, the woman caught in adultery, right?

00:27:04.079 --> 00:27:07.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Like personal relationship.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh and and Jesus actually spent a whole bunch of time avoiding crowds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We read those stories where he's got to like, I gotta escape, I gotta get why?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he could find a table.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And anytime he found someone that would open up their home for long meals and these personal conversations, he was all about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Time to make people feel loved in real relationship.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And even the most diverse and disparate people find that their hearts were open to the gospel and disciples were made.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Disciples were formed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the power of Christian hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not just to open our homes, uh, to host the Christian homeschool co-op or whatever it is, not just to open our homes for like a Super Bowl party for all of my church buddies, uh, but opening my home and my heart to the outsider, to the downtrodden, to the different, to the other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And friends, it changes lives.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Changes lives.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so probably one of the best books that I've ever read on Christian hospitality is called The Gospel Comes with a House Key.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and Rosaria Butterfield writes this absolute banger of a quote.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, it's kind of long, but stick with it because it's so good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, Christian hospitality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It aims to meet strangers and make them neighbors and meet neighbors and by God's power welcome them into the family of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hospitality seeks the salvation of the stranger.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We serve a God who sought us out while we were strangers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God found us, he took us in, he made us part of his family, and he brought us to his table.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Our homes are not castles, but incubators and hospitals, and the gospel comes with a house key.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hospitality aims uh for strangers to become neighbors, and for our neighbors to become God's family, and our homes, our homes are not castles we can retreat into and draw the drawbridge and hide from the world, but but hospitals for the broken, and the gospel grants us full access, a house key.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And friends, I have become more convinced uh than ever that if we're actually gonna reach our cities today, gonna actually reach Eugene, we're gonna actually reach Portland with the gospel of Jesus, that is not gonna happen uh primarily through awesome worship services and through killer preaching, through great sermons.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If it's gonna happen, it's gonna start at our dining room tables.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is a lesson uh that God has been teaching me uh over the last several years as my family has leaned uh really as much as we can into intentional Christian hospitality, and it has been beautiful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, Jarrell said it's been gritty.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh he and Lauren have had a front seat to some of it and and some of our stories.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um it's been beautiful, it's been incredibly hard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um and at times incredibly heartbreaking, and it's been quite humbling.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but yeah, Jarell asked me to share some stories with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I'll just kind of in wrapping up, have a little story time, share some photos.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so North Portland, if you're not familiar, our neighborhood is called St.

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<v SPEAKER_00>John's, home of the famous St.

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<v SPEAKER_00>John's Bridge.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um and if you didn't know, St.

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<v SPEAKER_00>John's is really one of kind of the two armpits of our city.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like the concentration of drugs and crime, uh, of houselessness, and in particular gang, gun-related violence among young people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's endemic.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um our first year moving into the neighborhood, we averaged three shootings a week, um, and all within about a mile of our home and our church.

00:31:30.079 --> 00:31:34.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh we are also a really, by Portland standards, a very diverse pocket within our city.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're still pretty white, we're like 60% white.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but interestingly, our public schools in our neighborhood are only 20% white.

00:31:43.759 --> 00:31:45.279
<v SPEAKER_00>So do that math.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, a significant majority of the student body at Roosevelt High School, which is a couple blocks from our house and where we do a lot of ministry, um, live a lot of life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, majority of the student body there are from single-parent homes or zero-parent homes.

00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:10.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And the resulting poverty is overwhelming, which just kind of fuels it, it just breeds more of that vulnerability and crime and and abuse.

00:32:10.880 --> 00:32:27.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, specifically this summer, three of our local kids that we knew well, two of whom had spent significant time in our home and in our church, including spending holidays at our dining room table, uh, were victims of gun violence.

00:32:27.519 --> 00:32:31.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Um that brought the total, I believe, up to 12.

00:32:31.359 --> 00:32:40.880
<v SPEAKER_00>12 teenagers that we have known specifically through the school and the community over the last six years that have been shot.

00:32:41.839 --> 00:32:44.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, several of them were football players of mine.

00:32:45.359 --> 00:32:59.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Um this is what's interesting too, though, is that not only has it been the victims that spent time with us in our home, uh, but in at least a couple of these cases, so have the aggressors.

00:32:59.599 --> 00:33:10.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Like the shooters have eaten cheeseburgers that I've cooked on my barbecue and have played video games in my basement with my kids and have sat with us in church on Sunday mornings.

00:33:11.279 --> 00:33:16.880
<v SPEAKER_00>That has been an almost impossible reality to try to live with and deal with.

00:33:16.960 --> 00:33:19.279
<v SPEAKER_00>It's been even harder to walk through that with my kids.

00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:32.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Um when DJ, who is a kid that was in our youth ministry, um, gunned down Elliot, who was not only his teammate, but also my JV running back.

00:33:33.039 --> 00:33:35.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, he was 15 years old.

00:33:36.319 --> 00:33:39.440
<v SPEAKER_00>He's now serving 40 years in prison.

00:33:39.680 --> 00:33:42.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Um so this is a little bit of St.

00:33:42.240 --> 00:33:42.640
<v SPEAKER_00>John's.

00:33:42.799 --> 00:33:42.960
<v SPEAKER_00>St.

00:33:43.119 --> 00:33:44.079
<v SPEAKER_00>John's is tough, man.

00:33:44.160 --> 00:33:44.880
<v SPEAKER_00>It's tough.

00:33:45.119 --> 00:33:46.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we moved to St.

00:33:46.480 --> 00:33:46.880
<v SPEAKER_00>John's.

00:33:46.960 --> 00:33:48.160
<v SPEAKER_00>It was 2020.

00:33:48.480 --> 00:33:51.680
<v SPEAKER_00>And when we got to Red Sea, Red Sea Church uh was struggling.

00:33:51.839 --> 00:34:00.240
<v SPEAKER_00>And they were struggling because over the preceding decade, the the challenges of Portland um had really caused the church to kind of circle the wagons.

00:34:00.319 --> 00:34:01.279
<v SPEAKER_00>You know what I'm talking about?

00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:09.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Like just kind of face inward, and and we gotta just protect one another, and we gotta protect our kids from the godlessness and the brokenness of this culture.

00:34:09.760 --> 00:34:13.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And they were crushing it at Christian community.

00:34:13.519 --> 00:34:27.119
<v SPEAKER_00>They truly loved one another and cared for each other deeply, but the problem is they'd built their castle walls so high that they lost sight entirely of the world that Jesus had come to save.

00:34:27.280 --> 00:34:40.400
<v SPEAKER_00>It had been years, I think like five years or something like that, since any outsider had come into the church, met Jesus, been baptized, and the church was dying because of that.

00:34:40.800 --> 00:34:48.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, there was not a whole family uh in the congregation who had their kids in the public schools in our neighborhood.

00:34:48.320 --> 00:34:51.840
<v SPEAKER_00>There was there was one family, it was a single mom who had no other choice.

00:34:52.000 --> 00:35:01.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, so everyone was avoiding the schools like the plagues, which admittedly the North Portland public schools are like they are a bit of a dumpster fire.

00:35:01.440 --> 00:35:03.519
<v SPEAKER_00>But Christians were running away from them.

00:35:03.599 --> 00:35:09.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And so instead they chose to, we're gonna homeschool, or we're gonna Christian private school, or we're gonna charter our kids outside of the neighborhood, whatever it is.

00:35:09.760 --> 00:35:11.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Anything that's safer than this.

00:35:12.719 --> 00:35:18.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we spent time praying about it and decided, let's let's buck the trend, right?

00:35:18.400 --> 00:35:20.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Like let's let's go for this.

00:35:20.559 --> 00:35:33.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And I I just believe with all of my heart that if you are really serious about loving and serving your neighborhood, put your kids in that school, right?

00:35:33.760 --> 00:35:41.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Like you will find all of a sudden all sorts of time and all sorts of energy to get intimately involved in its betterment.

00:35:42.159 --> 00:35:43.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and so we did.

00:35:44.159 --> 00:35:47.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And that's when I began coaching youth football.

00:35:47.440 --> 00:35:55.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And that's also when our home became the like unofficial North Portland after school youth community center.

00:35:55.440 --> 00:36:07.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and God began filling our lives uh with some of the most broken, most traumatized, street-hardened kids uh we've ever met.

00:36:08.480 --> 00:36:12.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Every day after school, and all day on the weekends, kids would come over.

00:36:12.719 --> 00:36:21.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And they always came hungry, like literally hungry, hungry for food, um, but also hungry, starved for love.

00:36:22.480 --> 00:36:27.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Starved to feel wanted, starved to feel like they're part of a family, to belong.

00:36:28.559 --> 00:36:44.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And and what was crazy to me in those first couple years, the number of kids that would come over to our house and then just instantly fall asleep, like fall asleep on a couch somewhere, like they just needed a meal and they just needed like a safe place where they could sleep for a couple of hours.

00:36:44.719 --> 00:36:45.760
<v SPEAKER_00>It was wild.

00:36:46.079 --> 00:36:49.599
<v SPEAKER_00>So pretty quickly we decided like, so this is what we're doing now.

00:36:49.760 --> 00:37:10.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, we we adopted an open door policy, and my best guess estimate uh would be that over the last five or six years, we've probably had 250 to 300 different kids from the neighborhood, youth from the neighborhood spend uh meaningful time in our home, meals in our home.

00:37:10.719 --> 00:37:21.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh for the first couple years I kept track, we averaged it was like 4.75 extra humans per night eating dinner at our dinner table.

00:37:21.360 --> 00:37:32.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Um a really fun and sort of unexpected piece of that for us is that our kids were almost always the only white kids, uh, which wasn't intentional.

00:37:32.639 --> 00:37:36.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh it was just it was simply due to the reality of our schools, right?

00:37:36.320 --> 00:37:40.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Like our home became wildly diverse.

00:37:40.719 --> 00:38:01.760
<v SPEAKER_00>And then over the years, as guardians, and I say guardians because so many of these kids don't actually have parents, as parents and guardians began to know us and trust us because Carrie and I were both involved, super involved in the schools, we both uh coach uh youth sports teams, whatever, then kids would sometimes get to come and have sleepovers at our house.

00:38:02.000 --> 00:38:07.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Our deal with that was always that if you want to stay the night on Saturday, you have to come to church with us on Sunday.

00:38:07.760 --> 00:38:11.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we just started parading these kids uh into church.

00:38:11.599 --> 00:38:16.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And um, and then we started opening our home a little longer term.

00:38:16.880 --> 00:38:21.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes kids would come and stay with us for a week or two.

00:38:21.760 --> 00:38:26.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, one sixth grader once came over and just never went home.

00:38:26.239 --> 00:38:28.239
<v SPEAKER_00>She lived with us for almost two years.

00:38:28.480 --> 00:38:31.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Took like six months before her mom called us.

00:38:31.920 --> 00:38:34.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, she became like a daughter to us.

00:38:34.960 --> 00:38:45.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, God, uh, in I don't know if it was either in God's wisdom or as a punishment for my sins, he put us in a house with a swimming pool.

00:38:47.119 --> 00:38:53.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Um I came home from work one afternoon that very first summer in our house.

00:38:53.599 --> 00:38:54.559
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not kidding you.

00:38:54.719 --> 00:39:00.159
<v SPEAKER_00>We had 70 middle schoolers in our pool and in our backyard.

00:39:00.320 --> 00:39:08.159
<v SPEAKER_00>It was sheer chaos and complete and utter joy until I realized that they all wanted me to cook them dinner.

00:39:08.480 --> 00:39:12.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, we are no longer a Whole Foods family, by the way.

00:39:12.320 --> 00:39:14.079
<v SPEAKER_00>That ship long sailed.

00:39:14.159 --> 00:39:15.760
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm I'm I'm not exaggerating.

00:39:15.840 --> 00:39:20.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I source frozen burger patties from a restaurant supplier.

00:39:20.159 --> 00:39:21.199
<v SPEAKER_00>That's how we roll down.

00:39:21.440 --> 00:39:23.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I buy them by the hundreds.

00:39:23.199 --> 00:39:25.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and that's what we do.

00:39:26.639 --> 00:39:44.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And after these years and those hundreds of hours, and those hundreds of naps, and the hundreds of meals, and hugs, and sleepovers, it all eventually began to produce eternal fruit.

00:39:45.440 --> 00:40:00.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Um what we have found over the last several years is that about 80% or so of the folks who have come to Saving Faith in Jesus and been baptized at Red Sea Church have been these local public school kids.

00:40:01.119 --> 00:40:08.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes then later, their single moms follow, follow suit, find Jesus, jump in the baptismal tank.

00:40:08.800 --> 00:40:18.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and what's so cool for us is that almost every single one of those sort of faith journey stories began with a meal in our home because we opened the door.

00:40:19.599 --> 00:40:28.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And so uh the ministry of hospitality has led to a massive change at Red Sea Church.

00:40:29.039 --> 00:40:38.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, what we found is that it's it's scared off almost all of our suburban commuters, which historically had been kind of the backbone of our church.

00:40:38.719 --> 00:40:39.679
<v SPEAKER_00>They're gone now.

00:40:39.760 --> 00:40:52.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Um but the church remained the same size because we backfilled with functional orphans and widows, like people from the immediate community, the immediate neighborhood, which we absolutely love.

00:40:52.960 --> 00:40:56.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and it's super messy and it makes budgets really tight.

00:40:56.800 --> 00:41:00.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, but man, Jesus is on the move.

00:41:00.239 --> 00:41:03.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And um it's been a huge blessing to us.

00:41:03.360 --> 00:41:07.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It's been costly, uh, personally costly.

00:41:07.519 --> 00:41:11.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, we've really had to deconstruct or tear down our like castle mentality.

00:41:11.760 --> 00:41:13.119
<v SPEAKER_00>That doesn't exist anymore.

00:41:13.280 --> 00:41:21.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Like, we had to embrace this whole concept of home as hospital, home as soup kitchen.

00:41:21.760 --> 00:41:24.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, it's cost us our privacy, for sure.

00:41:25.119 --> 00:41:27.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Like that doesn't that doesn't exist anymore.

00:41:28.000 --> 00:41:35.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but we decided that our family, it had to be bigger uh than just our family.

00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:39.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh and so now this is a crazy development.

00:41:39.440 --> 00:41:44.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Now kids from the neighborhood even go with us on our family vacations, which is a lot.

00:41:44.159 --> 00:41:49.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh a couple summers ago we spent a week on a houseboat um down at Lake Shasta in California.

00:41:49.840 --> 00:41:54.639
<v SPEAKER_00>If you look really hard at this photo, you can probably tell which ones I made.

00:41:54.880 --> 00:41:58.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, they're glowing.

00:41:58.320 --> 00:42:00.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Um yeah.

00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:03.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And just in this picture, so many stories.

00:42:04.079 --> 00:42:12.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Um Jasmine, the one in the lower left, uh and Geo, her um cousin in the upper right.

00:42:12.239 --> 00:42:15.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Those two kids were baptized just a year before this.

00:42:15.760 --> 00:42:20.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, along with their older brother, who's now actually a student here at U of O, which is pretty cool.

00:42:20.639 --> 00:42:26.159
<v SPEAKER_00>A year after that, their grandma, who raised the three of them, Grandma Kat, uh, was baptized.

00:42:27.920 --> 00:42:34.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Um this last summer, Jasmine was one of the three kids struck by gunfire in our neighborhood.

00:42:35.119 --> 00:42:36.960
<v SPEAKER_00>She survived, thank God.

00:42:37.119 --> 00:42:40.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, she's uh she's doing she's doing okay.

00:42:40.800 --> 00:42:46.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Prayers were answered, but for so many others, um they're not okay.

00:42:46.320 --> 00:42:47.679
<v SPEAKER_00>They're not here anymore.

00:42:48.400 --> 00:42:49.760
<v SPEAKER_00>That one rattled us.

00:42:50.000 --> 00:42:53.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Jasmine's one of those kids that spent months of her life in our home.

00:42:55.760 --> 00:43:06.000
<v SPEAKER_00>But God has given us this window of opportunity to know and to love a lot of kids uh who really need it.

00:43:06.480 --> 00:43:24.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And we have walked through messy, hard, broken stories, but it's been amazing and humbling to watch God use us, our church community, as a lifeline uh to this broken neighborhood, and uh, we wouldn't change it for the world.

00:43:24.480 --> 00:43:28.239
<v SPEAKER_00>My wife and I say to each other all the time we've done life and ministry all over the world.

00:43:28.400 --> 00:43:31.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, we have never done life anywhere harder.

00:43:32.079 --> 00:43:32.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah.

00:43:32.960 --> 00:43:33.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Let's go.

00:43:34.239 --> 00:43:35.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Sounds like my dining room.

00:43:35.840 --> 00:43:41.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, like we've never done life anywhere harder, and at the same time, we have never felt more at home.

00:43:42.239 --> 00:43:50.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And and and it took us uh opening our home, opening our family, opening our lives to find that, right?

00:43:50.639 --> 00:43:53.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And so, hospitality, guys, it's a gift that gives both ways.

00:43:53.920 --> 00:43:55.679
<v SPEAKER_00>It blesses the outsider.

00:43:55.920 --> 00:44:04.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, but what you'll find as you practice it is that it also blesses the insider, and that God is amazingly present um in all of it.

00:44:05.440 --> 00:44:12.639
<v SPEAKER_00>I've been talking way too long, so I'm gonna stop there, but let me just end with the question: where might you start?

00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:19.280
<v SPEAKER_00>With whom can you share your table?

00:44:21.440 --> 00:44:22.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And why would we?

00:44:23.599 --> 00:44:30.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, the reason we would is because while we were yet sinners, Jesus shared his table with us, right?

00:44:30.960 --> 00:44:35.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Which is what we remember here every week as we receive communion.

00:44:35.920 --> 00:44:40.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, we remember that while we were strangers and while we were sinners, Christ died for us.

00:44:40.719 --> 00:44:44.559
<v SPEAKER_00>He gave us his body, which we remember in the bread and his blood.

00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:51.360
<v SPEAKER_00>We remember uh in in the cup, and we feast on God's grace that makes strangers family.

00:44:51.840 --> 00:44:55.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And so I want to invite you uh to come to the table as we respond in worship.

00:44:55.920 --> 00:44:59.920
<v SPEAKER_00>I'll pray for us, and I think the band's gonna lead us in a few more songs.

00:45:04.719 --> 00:45:18.239
<v SPEAKER_00>God, thank you uh for your love that is so big and abundant that you would see fit to make strangers and enemies family, sons and daughters.

00:45:19.119 --> 00:45:22.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Um and that cost you tremendously.

00:45:22.400 --> 00:45:28.159
<v SPEAKER_00>You had to give your son away in order to make us sons and daughters.

00:45:28.400 --> 00:45:31.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And um, may we not take that for granted.

00:45:31.360 --> 00:45:38.960
<v SPEAKER_00>May we worship you uh for all your goodness and place our faith and trust and hope in you and the good news of your gospel again today.

00:45:39.199 --> 00:45:43.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you for your ultimate hospitality that transforms us.

00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:47.920
<v SPEAKER_00>May we receive it with full hearts in Jesus' name.

00:45:48.880 --> 00:45:49.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.
