Commander's Intent

What Being Deployed for Christmas Taught Me That Will Last a Lifetime

Derek Oaks

In this heartfelt episode of Commander’s Intent, Derek Oaks and Rob reflect on choosing gratitude even during holiday separation—whether caused by military service, demanding careers, leadership responsibilities, or life circumstances beyond your control. Drawing from years of deployments, missed Christmases, and time spent far from family, they share powerful stories about perspective, service, and finding meaning when you’re missing the people who matter most.