Episode 19: Let the Good Times Roll, Naught in Nawlins 2026

Pack your bags and come along with Jason and Stef as they take you inside their experience at Naught in Nawlins 2026!  In this episode of In the Playroom, we're recapping our time in New Orleans, sharing what the event was like from our perspective, the people we met, the connections we made, the unforgettable moments, and everything that made the weekend one to remember. We talk about the excitement and anticipation leading up to the event, what it was like walking into the Naught in Nawlins experience, navigating a busy lifestyle event, meeting new couples, reconnecting with friends, and finding those unexpected moments that make lifestyle trips so special. We'll also get real about what didn't go exactly as planned, the lessons we learned, and what we'd do differently the next time around. Whether you've been to Naught in Nawlins before, you're thinking about attending in the future, or you're simply curious about what a large lifestyle event is really like, come hang out with us as we spill the tea on NOLA 2026! Grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let's relive the weekend together.

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SPEAKER_00 0:09

Welcome to In the Playroom, the podcast where the doors are open, the lights are low, and nothing is off limits.

SPEAKER_03 0:16

We're your host, Jason and Stephanie. Each week, we're bringing you honest, unfiltered conversations from our personal journeys to the swinging lifestyle.

SPEAKER_00 0:24

Just a heads up, we are not professionals, therapists, or lifestyle experts. What we share here is based on our own real experiences. The good, the awkward, and the absolutely unforgettable.

SPEAKER_03 0:36

Whether you're curious, already exploring, or just love hearing what goes down behind closed doors, you've got a place right here with us.

SPEAKER_00 0:43

So kick off your shoes, pour a drink, and step into the playroom.

SPEAKER_03 1:03

Oh my god, I know that we say this every time, but a lot of stuff has been going on. We had to completely redo all like repaint our entire house.

SPEAKER_00 1:14

And do all the molding and the siding and all that.

SPEAKER_03 1:17

And the trim work on the windows and everything else like that. Because, you know, unfortunately, soon we may be moving. We may not. I really don't know yet. However, this episode is gonna we're gonna talk about our time at Naughty in New Orleans. We made one, but I really don't think that our listeners care to know what the fuck we ate or anything else like that, or what time we woke up.

SPEAKER_00 1:44

So this episode is gonna be not really, I mean, we did mention those things, but like that's not what our whole point was on the other one. But it was we were putting so many like of the small details into the episode that we had what almost an hour-long episode and we were only through day two.

SPEAKER_03 2:02

And I don't want to do a part one, part two. I just want to get through with it, right? I mean, it was an amazing event. If you haven't ever thought about going to Naughty in New Orleans, please go. I do know that it gets a little expensive.

SPEAKER_02 2:15

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 2:15

Uh, but I mean, I think it is worth it. Totally worth it. We have our high points on the week, and we also have our low points on the week, too. And we're gonna talk about both of them and just go from there, right? So we got there on a Tuesday. Uh, we got there the day prior to the party happening.

SPEAKER_00 2:36

But there was quite a few or quite a bit of people that was there on Monday, even.

SPEAKER_03 2:41

Yeah, oh absolutely. I was in the where we were in the signal chat as as well as the Yap app.

SPEAKER_00 2:47

Telegram.

SPEAKER_03 2:48

Or Telegram. I always mess that up.

SPEAKER_00 2:50

You too.

SPEAKER_03 2:51

But uh we were in that group chat and people were already posting that they were there, and FOMO was hitting very, very, very hard. We were already in Louisiana, but we were in North Louisiana for about a week, and I I kept just telling Stephanie, I was like, you know, I really want to go down today.

SPEAKER_00 3:08

I stopped getting on and looking because it was making me want to be there even sooner.

SPEAKER_03 3:15

But I mean, all in all, I think it's uh an amazing time. And yeah, so let's talk about so we got there on a Tuesday, right? Um, you know, we checked in our hotel. Uh one thing that I that kind of like scared me is knowing that I had to leave our vehicle unattended and not in a like secure parking lot.

SPEAKER_00 3:39

Like for the hotel. It wasn't in like the hotel parking lot, they don't have parking lots.

SPEAKER_03 3:44

Yeah, I mean they have street parking, but it's it's more or less like a come as you, you know, well, the one first front of the hotel is no parking, it's an unloading zone.

SPEAKER_00 3:54

But otherwise, it's like side street parking or like paid parking garages. There's nowhere free to park. Yeah, I mean, and the the hotel obviously has valet, but it's valet in itself was like $60 a day. A day. And that's it. That's if you're leaving it there. But if you take it out and come back, it's another $65, even if you already paid $65 for that day.

SPEAKER_03 4:17

Yeah. So we decided to get Spot Hero. It's an app. Uh it would tell you the nearest parking garage, it would tell you the nearest parking spot, like a reserve parking spot, etc. Uh, you pay for. So we actually got that, and it wasn't that bad. It was only like a three-minute walk.

SPEAKER_00 4:33

Yeah, I mean, it was literally a block away. Um, I paid a hundred and like eight dollars for the week.

SPEAKER_03 4:40

Yeah, and we could go in and out as much as we wanted. As much as we wanted. Now, what I will say, what irritated me is the fact that the bottom floor was is specifically designed, and there's signs around there that says this is for oversized parking. Oversized vehicle parking. Or oversized vehicle parking. And it seemed like everybody in a kia soul or a fucking Toyota Corolla wanted to park down there because they didn't want to walk down the the flight of stairs or the ramp.

SPEAKER_00 5:08

Right.

SPEAKER_03 5:09

Fuck you, whoever that was. I hope you stub your toe.

SPEAKER_00 5:12

We had to squeeze my my big Betty and upstairs.

SPEAKER_03 5:16

Yeah, I mean, I had to do like a 20-point turn just to get upstairs and into a parking spot. And I feel really bad for some of the individuals that were there because I know that they had to bring trailers and everything else like that with equipment.

SPEAKER_02 5:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 5:30

How the fuck did you do that? I have no idea. But I where the fuck did you park? Uh I have no idea.

SPEAKER_00 5:38

I bet like the vendors and stuff probably had vendor parking. Oh no, maybe not necessarily vendor parking, but like the uh Bob in his name, isn't his name part? Yeah, Bob, who puts everything on for naughty, might have somewhere where they specifically can park their trailers and stuff. Maybe he probably could have figured something out for that. I don't know. We didn't bring a trailer, we don't know.

SPEAKER_03 6:00

But, anyways, after we got there the first day, I mean you went and got your nails done, and I went into Walmart, and then we we got to the hotel room. They checked us in early. We would beautiful hotel room, by the way.

SPEAKER_00 6:12

Oh, it was amazing.

SPEAKER_03 6:14

The the hotel was we stayed at the Saint and it was amazing. There wasn't a party there, no, but it was still a full takeover. Yes. Uh, but it was it was amazing. The bar was very elegant and everything else like that. But yeah, we checked in and rested for a little bit, and then we got up and went to dinner. Now we're we're not really gonna talk about dinner. Yes, we did. We never we're not gonna really talk about dinner, the portion, but we are gonna talk about what happened after the dinner.

SPEAKER_00 6:46

No, so we went, no, because we went, didn't we go to the poll party the first day too? And be or no, the first poll party was the next day.

SPEAKER_03 6:53

The second day, yeah. So after dinner, we just went to the IHOP right next door, everything else like that. Right across the street. I mean, it was probably two blocks away.

SPEAKER_00 7:02

No, it was literally right across the street, and just to like catty cornered from us.

SPEAKER_03 7:07

Oh, well, anyways, it became a flood in New Orleans, and you know, I heard it multiple times throughout the you know, us getting ready for this trip of hey, you never know what the weather's gonna do. We should have known better because we're from Louisiana. And we know how Louisiana weather is, but we're from North Louisiana, not not South Louisiana.

SPEAKER_00 7:29

We're not used to the qu how quick it floods because they are below sea level.

SPEAKER_03 7:33

And holy shit, we had to get trash bags from iHop from the waitress from IHOP.

SPEAKER_00 7:40

Oh, because you said that you're right. I'm thinking of from the Nopsy, it's Captain. Okay, yep. You're right. You were right. I said it okay, and it's and then it's recorded, so that's all you get.

SPEAKER_03 7:52

There we go. That's all I need. I'll just replay this episode. But so yeah, we got uh we got trash bags. Uh there was a couple that was struggling with us, and we hopped across a river, what it seemed like, to get to our hotel room. And then, yeah, and the trash bags worked about halfway through the street before that and then they ripped.

SPEAKER_00 8:16

We waited. We were like, we were told that like the rain rain doesn't last long, just give it like 20 minutes and it'll stop, and then the roads will clear. We waited outside iHop for over 20 minutes, and it just kept getting heavier and heavier.

SPEAKER_03 8:30

But what was so funny is when she said that, I literally saw a fucking wet floor sign just get sucked up by the drainage system. And I'm like, I don't think it's gonna go anywhere, dude. But whatever. But yeah, so we I mean we struggled through it together, and then we were trying not to get our shoes wet. Um, you know, they were actually wanting to take their shoes off. I'm like, yo, dude, don't take your shoes off. Like you're gonna get stuck, you're gonna get stuck by a fucking needle or something. Like, yeah. Uh, but yeah, I mean, we made it, we finally made it across.

SPEAKER_00 9:04

And we went up and got ready to go to Colette's.

SPEAKER_03 9:06

Yeah, we went up, got ready to go to Colett's. Um, and I had to dry off my tennis shoes with the hairdryer. You did, which was hilarious. But yeah, so after that, we went to Colette's um and shit, holy crap, it was packed.

SPEAKER_00 9:22

It was so packed. And we got there fairly early, uh like not long after they opened.

SPEAKER_03 9:28

No, I mean, we were we were actually walking behind um shoot, what are their names?

SPEAKER_00 9:33

Dan and Lacey.

SPEAKER_03 9:34

Dan and Lacey from The Swing Nation. And he even mentioned it was like, hey man, you're wearing shorts. I don't think you're they're gonna let you in. And I'm like, Oh crap. And then, but I remember something in like the chat where I had told you before we got on the rubber boot.

SPEAKER_00 9:49

Yeah, they did we did the riverboat tour beforehand, and if you went on that, you could wear shorts.

SPEAKER_03 9:55

Yeah, and so they're like they're being very lenient tonight and whatever else, and he was like, Oh, okay, cool, whatever else.

SPEAKER_00 10:01

And then said he wish he would have known that and he would have worn shorts.

SPEAKER_03 10:04

And then, yeah, we just we just walked over to Colette, and it was pretty you would have never known that that was a swinger club at all. From the street, no, you wouldn't there was there was no signs, there was no sign on the door, there was nothing. I mean, even within the group chat, it was just like, hey, go to the I think it was like a green door or something like that. Yeah, yeah, go to the green door, some colored door, and then that's it. And okay, cool. But I mean, it it it wasn't that packed when we got in there, but within Well, the the the bottom floor was like the dance floor was pretty packed when we got there. No, I mean I wouldn't say it was that packed when we got there because I mean we we ended up seeing um uh shoot Anna and Robert from uh Shameless Care. They also have the podcast uh Sex is Good, and we were hanging out with them. I mean, we're affiliates with Shameless Care, so we were talking to them, and that was actually the first time we met them. And so, yeah, so we were like we were getting to know them, meeting them, introducing ourselves, and then probably about 15 minutes later, I had to go use the bathroom and I had to fight through the dance hall to get to the bathroom. Now, after that, we ended up going upstairs and hanging out with a couple, whatever else like that. But it got so busy so quick.

SPEAKER_00 11:26

Yeah, I mean, and to compare, like we've never been to Colettes in New Orleans before. Um, but we've been to the Colettes in Dallas, and we've been told like the one in New Orleans is a lot like the one in Austin, but we haven't been to the one in Austin either. And I will say the setup is way different than in Dallas. I mean, it it has similarities. Oh, it's way different. It has some similarities, but the whole setup is different. And um it is very narrow halls, but as long as like you can get up and down the stairs, which are very narrow, um once you get to either downstairs or upstairs, whichever direction you're going in, it kind of opens up. But um I felt like it was way smaller than the one in Dallas. The dance floor seemed it was the dance floor seemed bigger, but everything else seemed smaller.

SPEAKER_03 12:20

I think everything about that club seemed smaller than the one in Dallas.

SPEAKER_00 12:25

Everything's bigger in Texas.

SPEAKER_03 12:27

Yeah. Yeah. Uh but except for me. Shut up, yes, you are. But anyways, um it was definitely smaller, but it was a it was a very good, very good venue. We actually went going up, we actually went upstairs and was hanging out with a couple and talking to them, getting to know them. And then we decided, like, hey man, and like it is way past our bedtime. Like, I mean, because we're old fucks, right? At this point.

SPEAKER_00 12:53

But we also were like trying to pace ourselves because we knew the next night we were gonna be up later. So by like midnight, it was probably like 11 45.

SPEAKER_03 13:03

We're like, we're gonna call it a night so we can get up in the morning and yeah, and then yeah, so then yeah, we went to our room and we passed out, we fucked and passed out and uh Okay, but on the fucking part, you've gotta make the you've gotta tell a story. Well, I I used all three holes.

SPEAKER_00 13:21

Well, no, the neighbor.

SPEAKER_03 13:22

Oh, you the neighbor? Okay, yeah. So we were fucking and no, that was the next night.

SPEAKER_00 13:28

No, that was the first night.

SPEAKER_03 13:29

Oh, was it?

SPEAKER_00 13:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 13:30

It was. Yeah, it was because that was whenever we didn't realize they still had vanilla people in the hotel. Yep.

SPEAKER_00 13:38

And we were fucking until like 4 a.m. Okay, we said we wanted to call it a night because we wanted to get up the next morning, but we were fucking until four when we got home or back to the hotel room. And as soon as we finished, Jason was like, All right, I go nine night. And then all of a sudden you hear, thank fucking God, through the wall.

SPEAKER_03 13:57

Yeah, and I thought it was the room to the left of us, but apparently it was a room to the right of us because we we we already knew the couple that was in the room to the left of us was there for he was actually a DJ for for one of the venues. And then we we were talking to the couple that was going to the room to the right of us, yeah, and I was like, Oh, I'm so sorry about last night. They're like, We just got here like 20 minutes ago. And I was like, Oh shit, okay, yeah, that makes sense now. Yeah, so it was someone that was gonna be checking out the day that the party officially started, you know, whatever else. Whoops, yeah, so whoops, but you know, well, whatever.

SPEAKER_00 14:36

Whatever, we're in a hotel. Fuck it.

SPEAKER_03 14:38

Absolutely. Uh, but I mean, it was it was yeah, so we we ended up fucking and we went to bed. For some reason, my body clock will not say, hey, you're on vacation.

SPEAKER_00 14:51

No, and I was so mad.

SPEAKER_03 14:54

And throughout the entire time, it didn't matter what time we went to sleep, I was up by 6 30, 7 o'clock. So again, we got through fucking at 4, but I was up at 6 30.

SPEAKER_00 15:04

But like we're we're we're opposites. Like you're an early bird, and I'm a night owl. So you getting up early, even on vacation, after we stayed up till four, I was fucking dead.

SPEAKER_03 15:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 15:18

And you were normal, and I wanted to throat punch you.

SPEAKER_03 15:21

Yeah. Okay, okay, so uh the first day.

SPEAKER_00 15:25

We went to we walked around a little bit and explored like around the house.

SPEAKER_03 15:29

We went to the the pool, and then we went to the pool party, which I think was really good. Uh the host there was awesome. Um I mean they they were had a lot of fun games, they had a lot of fun prizes, everything else like that. I mean, it was it was a blast. It was definitely a blast.

SPEAKER_00 15:47

It was. Which one was that one at?

SPEAKER_03 15:49

That was at the Nopsy. We never went to the pool party at the Aster. We never did. But we s we looked leaked one day. Yeah, we we looked, but we didn't go, we didn't attend. No. Uh the one at the Nopsey, their pool on the top floor was act was a lot bigger, in my my opinion.

SPEAKER_00 16:07

Oh yeah, and it was way more lively, but I think the Aster was the chill party.

SPEAKER_03 16:11

Well, the Aster was was the full nude part or pool party.

SPEAKER_00 16:15

I think in the Yap app though, it was labeled as the chill, the chill pool party.

SPEAKER_03 16:20

Well, they just had it chill hours of the pool party.

SPEAKER_00 16:22

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 16:23

Like chill hours. But but yeah, we we did that and it was it was a lot of fun. And then after that, we went to go pick up our friends from the airport. Uh so some of our friends we went with them actually. Uh they talked us into going. And I'm glad that they did. Oh, yeah. Because we we had a blast. We didn't really get to hang out with them that much. We were because we were all doing pretty much our own thing. Um, but I mean, we were so glad that they talked us into going. I mean, we saw them a lot in passing.

SPEAKER_02 16:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 16:52

Uh we did eat dinner with them a few times or and and everything else like that. But I'm still very, very thankful that they did talk us into going because that was shit. We've never done in the in the 14 years we've been in lifestyle, we've never done an event like that.

SPEAKER_00 17:08

No, and we've been saying for years we wanted to check out Naughty, and I don't think we ever would have like jumped that hurdle if they hadn't have been like, We're I we're going, y'all should go with us.

SPEAKER_03 17:21

Yeah, absolutely. But and then the second night, you know, we picked them up and then we um we didn't go off to eat uh that day.

SPEAKER_00 17:31

No, we all got back and got ready for the main party.

SPEAKER_03 17:35

Yep.

SPEAKER_00 17:36

And then that was um Bordello. The Bordello night, which was my favorite night. Um and then day two, like they had daytime themes too.

SPEAKER_03 17:47

Like during the day, um on the second day was I really didn't care for the daytime themes because I didn't like I mean there's so many normal families walking around. So for instance, like the funny shirt one, right? Yeah, you know, and and you know, Robert said this in his podcast, and it it and I felt the exact same way uh when we were there. I don't want to wear a shirt that says I'm here to fuck someone's wife or whatever else like walking down the street with a woman, walking down the street. Yeah. Well, I mean, there's still people there on vacation. Yeah. And to me, that's just that's very untasteful. Yeah. You know, we're supposed to be a good influence for the lifestyle, but yet we're trying to wear shit like that in public.

SPEAKER_00 18:38

And I just I get the theme, but I I get the negative side of it too.

SPEAKER_03 18:43

Now there was like some funny t-shirts, you know. I was wearing a polo, but my polos were like subliminal messages, right? I mean, it looked like I mean it looked like patterns, but when you look closer, it was like it was something different positions, yeah, it's something different, but or titties or whatever else it was, but I wasn't straight up wearing a shirt saying, I'm here to fuck someone's wife. And I do get it, like you're in New Orleans. However, there's still kids walking around. Yeah. And so I really didn't care for the theme days. I didn't wear my Bobby Boucher jersey.

SPEAKER_00 19:19

I didn't I wore my um Saints jersey.

SPEAKER_03 19:22

Yeah, well, yeah, yeah, you did.

SPEAKER_00 19:25

Um but that was to the pool party.

SPEAKER_03 19:27

And the pool party was yeah, we'll we'll get about that. We'll we'll we'll get into that.

SPEAKER_00 19:32

We already skipped we already went over it.

SPEAKER_03 19:35

Oh yeah, yeah. Well, I thought I thought you were talking about the beach party. Never mind.

SPEAKER_00 19:40

Oh, no, no, that's the next day.

SPEAKER_03 19:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 19:43

So um the second night's theme was through the looking glass, and Jason was like his own play on like the Queen of Hearts and I was Alice, like a a slutty Alice. Um The Crazy That was the third night.

SPEAKER_03 20:03

No, it was it went it went Bordello Neon through the looking glass Mardi Girl.

SPEAKER_00 20:11

No, it was Neon but then Mardi Girl.

SPEAKER_03 20:13

Okay, never mind.

SPEAKER_00 20:15

But it was through the looking glass, right? Yeah, through the looking glass.

SPEAKER_03 20:20

Which is a play on Alice in Wonderland.

SPEAKER_00 20:22

Yeah, I already told them you were Queen of Hearts and I was Alice in Wonderland, but you were like there were so many guys in the in the like the Queen of Hearts theme that I loved it. You kept walking past them like there's another one. There's another one.

SPEAKER_03 20:37

Well, everybody had the same polo as I had. Yeah. Because no one wanted to wear a Mad Hatter full costume and potentially get rained on and be stinky during a swingers club. Because I mean, or a swingers party, because obviously if you're gonna get wet during a swingers party and then immediately it gets hot during, you know, as you're walking there, you don't want that.

SPEAKER_00 21:01

Right.

SPEAKER_03 21:01

No one's gonna want to approach you. So I think a lot of individuals have the same idea I had of just saying, hey, let's just wear a short sleeve polo and call it good. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 21:13

So I mean and it worked out. I mean it was still fun. We checked out the Nopsy for both the first night and the second night. Um and we would just go back and forth between the two halls, uh like the dance areas or club areas that they had going on. They had an EDM room and like a like a today's kind of hip hop music kind of room. Or no, it was like today's and then 90s.

SPEAKER_03 21:38

Well, it was it was more or less like today's music and top hits music and then an EDM room. Yeah. And and that was every night, except for the very last night they had a live band.

SPEAKER_00 21:50

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 21:51

So Which was cool.

SPEAKER_00 21:53

Um Um the third day What all did we do the third day? The third oh The third day was my favorite day.

SPEAKER_03 22:02

Okay, we'll talk about it.

SPEAKER_00 22:04

We got to tour the um mortuary in New Orleans. They have little theme rooms. It was like a whole interactive like tour. It was amazing. If you go to New Orleans, even if it's not during naughty, fucking go to the mortuary.

SPEAKER_03 22:24

Yeah, so you know, we we signed up as just me and you. We did not sign up as a podcast, we do not sign up as anything. We just signed up as me and you. And we I remember getting an email and I r replied to the email saying, hey, what is this? you know, whatever else. So what it is is uh industry day or industry tours with what they called it. And they wanted to give us a little bit as a sneak peek of their naughty Halloween. Now, naughty Halloween is or yeah, naughty now naughty Halloween is going to take place at uh the mortuary. And Bob and Tess and all them, like, you know, they they put this on for us, they chartered a bus, and it was amazing. You know, we amazing we actually ended up we were just hanging out at the shameless care booth, and Anna was going as well.

SPEAKER_02 23:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 23:20

And so Anna kind of tagged along, everything else like that. And I think at the when we got there, they started giving us different tickets, and we got two different color tickets. I mean, you had the same ticket, same color ticket, she had a different one. Yeah, she was like, dang it, whatever.

SPEAKER_00 23:34

And I was like all excited, and she was nervous, and she was like, I don't want to get scared. I'm like, I'm so excited, I was all pumped on it to go.

SPEAKER_03 23:40

But I think it was more like it was way more different than what I was expecting. I was expecting to have like a shit ton of jump scares, yeah, everything else like that. It there was a few. Um little, but it it really wasn't. And we and Bob put this on because all of us people that are in the industry, even though we're very, very small in the industry, like we're we're not even on the spectrum, really. Um, he still included us, and it it's all about bringing people together. And you know, we were chatting with everybody that was there. Uh, we got to talk to Bella and Jace from 4R Play or 4 Play. Um, you know, we hung out with Anna, and then we started talking to you met new friends, the Smut Lovers Club.

SPEAKER_01 24:29

Oh, I did.

SPEAKER_03 24:30

You met way new friends. Like, as soon as you started talking to them, I was like, Yeah, I'm I'm just gonna sit here.

SPEAKER_02 24:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 24:36

Um, but I mean, you met great friends, and we started talking to another couple, they were there, their travel agency. Um, I cannot think of the name. What is it called?

SPEAKER_00 24:50

Um Unchained Travels.

SPEAKER_03 24:53

Unchained Travels, yes, absolutely. And their table, their booth, we didn't have a booth, obviously, but uh they had a booth and they had some of the best stickers ever. I've never collected so many stickers. I mean, obviously.

SPEAKER_00 25:08

I've never wanted to collect so many stickers.

SPEAKER_03 25:10

Yeah, I mean, obviously, we took like one, maybe two apiece because we're both making cups for next year.

SPEAKER_00 25:16

Um, but you're not making the cups. Well, you are eventually.

SPEAKER_03 25:21

I mean, they were they were so amazing. Just like some of the sayings on there was like um it was the blow me, blow pop, yeah, yeah, the blow pops uh logo, but it said blow me. Uh there was one that was like the what looked like the I voted sticker. Yeah, but it was I ate pussy today or I suck dick today or I fucked someone's wife today. I fucked someone's wife today today, everything else like that. So I mean their their play on the on the logos were very, very brilliant.

SPEAKER_00 25:51

Oh my god, they were amazing. I loved them.

SPEAKER_03 25:54

And we yeah, but and they they were some of the nicest people we were able to talk to. And we ended up being like we became Facebook friends with them, we're still talking, everything else like that. And she is absolutely fucking gorgeous.

SPEAKER_00 26:09

Yes, my favorite sticker from them is the raccoon that I swear to god he designed straight off of her.

SPEAKER_03 26:18

Yeah, well, okay, she's a sexy raccoon.

SPEAKER_00 26:21

She is a sexy raccoon, it's not like just a r regular like raccoon, but it's a sexy raccoon.

SPEAKER_03 26:27

It's a yeah, but I mean it's had to have. Yes, because she is gorgeous.

SPEAKER_00 26:32

And the shirt on the raccoon said stay trashy.

SPEAKER_03 26:35

Yeah. But yeah, and then after that, yeah, we went to uh neon night, right? That was the third night. Yep. We went to neon night. Or we went to dinner.

SPEAKER_00 26:45

No, didn't and wasn't that the uh foam night or foam party that we tried to catch and then went to the party?

SPEAKER_03 26:51

Yeah, so after the mortuary went, we went to the foam party, however, and this is a a complaint of mine on uh and it's not anything to do with Naughty in New Orleans. It's no there has uh it's it's the amount of people that are there, and I totally get it. But holy shit, it took 15 minutes just to get to the bar. I didn't even order a drink.

SPEAKER_00 27:16

No, we didn't even get a drink.

SPEAKER_03 27:18

And then we we uh it took us another 30 minutes just to get out of the bar because it was so packed.

SPEAKER_00 27:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 27:25

But I mean it was still a fun time.

SPEAKER_00 27:27

I mean we stayed for a little bit and it was it was very and like very like like upbeat party. It was a gr and it looked like a great party. Everybody was having fun. Um it was just too crowded for me. Yeah, and yeah. But it I mean it w the party itself was amazing. But if you're someone who is not necessarily claustrophobic, but doesn't necessarily like being in like confined quarters like that, it might not be your cup of tea. But if you're the party like club people who's on you, yeah, yeah. That's your that that is your jam right there. It was amazing. Everybody that was there was having fun. Okay. So after the phone party, after we left that, we um went and grabbed dinner, went back to the room and got ready for neon night.

SPEAKER_03 28:20

Yeah, we went to dinner with our friends and or was that day three or day two? No, that was during the uh the yeah. That was the third day. Or no, the second day.

SPEAKER_00 28:30

Second day, I think. Never mind. Second day we went to dinner with them. That night, no, because we left the phone party and then we went to um crystals.

SPEAKER_03 28:39

Which I do not recommend.

SPEAKER_00 28:41

I mean it was good, but if you're not used to it, it did not it didn't settle well. It did not settle well. Um but then we went and got ready for neon night and we went to the Nopsey for that party. Um and then the next the the last day we got up and we um went to a rope class. We did do one of the um speed datings, and though that was really cool. There was a lot of daytime events that they had planned that we haven't really talked about. There were so many of them, there there's too many to actually like name them all. But there was some really great ones from the rope classes to the there was like a blowjob class. There, I mean there was all kinds of stuff.

SPEAKER_03 29:28

But we ended up going to a rope class and and then ended up buying a shit ton more rope than a shit ton more neo or neon won attachments and everything else like that.

SPEAKER_00 29:40

For the East M. Um And then we got where did we what did we do on the last day after the the rope class? We decided that we were going to go to the party at the Aster that night. No, we've been at the parties at the Aster. The Nopsey The entire time yes, the Nopsey was where the dungeon was. I got the the location switched. Um the Nopsey had the dungeon, and um that's where like the rope class was and all of the kinky like attachments and things were that you could buy, all the ropes and everything like that. But we got ready for the fourth night, um, and we were like, you know, that's something we've always wanted to do, that's something we've always done together, and we just never wanted to mix like swinging with that. And seeing it during the rope class, we were like, why not? It's not any different.

SPEAKER_03 30:37

Well, I think that the the longer we're in this, the more um adventurous we are that we're getting.

SPEAKER_00 30:45

I mean, we've always been kind of adventurous with each other, but we're we're slowly venturing out with others too.

SPEAKER_03 30:51

Yeah, but I never considered us as like a kink couple. No, but I mean, now, like after, especially after the East M, you know, got involved.

SPEAKER_00 31:00

We've always felt like light BDSM, very, very light BDSM, very light, yeah. But a little bit. I mean, I like I like BDSM, but I'm not one for pain. I like the paddles and the floggers and all that stuff. I just don't want marks, mark I don't want the whelps.

SPEAKER_03 31:16

Yeah. I mean, I don't think you mind like the marks that go away within a day.

SPEAKER_00 31:21

Yeah, that I'm fine with, but the ones that are there for more than 24 hours, I'm not okay with.

SPEAKER_03 31:25

Correct. Yeah. So yeah, we we spent the last night of the party in the dungeon, and um, I mean, it was a blast. Um, I mean, we had a lot of fun. We we brought the East M. And what turned into me hanging out with Stephanie and us playing uh turned into more of like a demonstration uh because everybody kept coming up and going, like, oh, what is that? And I would show them and I would you know as obviously ask for consent.

SPEAKER_00 31:55

Well, at the time it was on my ankle, so I started touching them. Yeah, and it was really cool for me because I've never I've always been the one that had it done on me, but we got a new tripper for our East M. So I can wear it around my ankle now, and it was really cool being able to be like, Oh, can I touch you? Yeah, and like showing it on them.

SPEAKER_03 32:14

And then, yeah, so I mean, and then some of the individuals they would try to talk to their spouse to get on the table to where you could do it to them, whatever else, like that. And then there was a couple that that we were talking to for over since day well, it's the one that was day one.

SPEAKER_00 32:30

We got they were the ones we got flooded with.

SPEAKER_03 32:32

No, that was not them. They were they were both from Canada, but that was not them. Um no, we met them right after that. Yeah, they they ended up showing up, and man, she is so just beautiful. And we we need to reach out to them.

SPEAKER_00 32:47

We haven't reached out to them since I haven't logged back into my telegram since I got a new phone, but man, they were just so beautiful.

SPEAKER_03 32:54

Like they were they were awesome. They were an amazing couple, amazing couple, super sweet, and then super funny. He was playing with you on the East End for a little bit, and then she was playing with you for the East End on a little bit. She really didn't want it done to her, which is completely okay.

SPEAKER_00 33:10

Oh yeah, we know a lot of people that don't like it. That's it's weird. It's not it's it's not something people would think of. It would be sexy.

SPEAKER_03 33:19

But what I am gonna say, and and I kind of realized this uh during that night, uh, when we went there for that that second part of the day uh to buy some more stuff. Um, you know, Bob is right about something. Like we should stop fucking trying to fight each other.

SPEAKER_00 33:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 33:37

You know, there was two companies there, and and I'm not gonna name the companies at all, but it was the fact that we were talking to one of them and they were telling us about how horrible this other company was, what it blah blah, whatever else. I'm like, oh man, that really sucks, you know, whatever.

SPEAKER_00 33:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 33:55

And then but we would go over there and we would hear the same shit, damn near it. But but he was he wasn't very negative. He was just like, Yeah, she doesn't like me, whatever else, like that.

SPEAKER_00 34:06

I mean he yeah, he didn't say a negative thing about her.

SPEAKER_03 34:10

Or I'm he he really didn't say a negative thing about her or the company. He he spoke on how she has been trying to put them down. Yes, and you know that that's why Bob like put this whole event on for the influ or not influencers, but in the industrial or shit, industry uh the industry uh day is to where we could all come together, we could all network, we can all gave us a speech on the bus about how we need to stop tearing each other down and fight the fucking common enemy, yes, which is you know the muggles in the world that hear the word swingers or hear the word non-monogamous and immediately think we're Satan, we're we're we're the devil, and that's that's not who we are. We're the most loving, caring people. But I think at least one of them on that side of the fucking street should listen to Bob's speech at least one of them. Oh, definitely, you know, because I mean that kind of is like wow, why would you do that? You know, yeah. I mean, we don't talk about shit, we don't talk shit about other podcasts. No.

SPEAKER_00 35:19

I mean I mean I have heard other people talk about other podcasts. We're that's not us, and we're not one to talk about it. Yes, we don't talk about other people. This was just it just was a freak moment. Like we didn't even tell the other guy that they were talking about him. He flat out started telling us.

SPEAKER_03 35:39

Well, no, so I mentioned that we got the tripper from you know, we got a new tripper, and he said, Oh, have you seen mine? Which is really cool because his just clips onto the belt. There is no strap, there is no nothing. You you put the magic wand in, or not the magic wand, you put the neon wand in and you just clip it on your side. There is no there is no tripper for it. The the machine itself is the tripper.

SPEAKER_00 36:04

What you set it into is the tripper. And I liked his and I don't know. I like the one that straps my leg for now, but I haven't actually uh he he used his on me. I don't I mean they all felt the same.

SPEAKER_03 36:19

But I mean regardless, I do think the second place we went to had way better rope because the conductive rope we got from the first place, I could damn near put my finger through it. Yeah. And it's yeah, you know, whatever. But I mean it's still it's still cool. It's still cool, it's still a beautiful color, and it's just it's it's thicker rope. Yeah. But so after the dungeon, you know, we we ended up finding a new playroom because during this entire time we thought the playrooms were either the dungeon or at the Aster. At the Aster and said playrooms on the second R floor or whatever, whatever it's called. Yeah. Um, however, we found out that there is actually a another playroom at the Nopsy. And we didn't know about that we didn't know about, and it was so low-key. It was, it was it was such a nice vibe. It was, yeah, it was a nice vibe, it was everything because I think the one at the Aster was awesome. I think that they had some great rooms, but it was so overwhelming just trying to get into the elevator to go because I mean there was at least a 30-minute wait for the elevator. We figured out a trick. Just go to the first floor and click the elevator because they all go to the first floor and then click it, and then click the floor you want. So for next time, if the elevators go down, do that.

SPEAKER_00 37:42

We may get it the we may or may not have broken three of the elevators. Not we as a meet, me and you, but we as in naughty as a whole.

SPEAKER_03 37:50

Yeah, we did because I mean the elevators are they do have a weight limit, right? And normal people, once it starts beeping, they'd be like, oh shit, too much weight.

SPEAKER_00 38:00

Not even that. Normal people don't squeeze in like sardines because we're swingers aren't afraid for bodies to touch. Normal people are. So everybody's like, come on, we can fit more in. We can fit more out.

SPEAKER_03 38:11

As the buzzers going off, going, hey, you're you have too much weight on here, right?

SPEAKER_00 38:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 38:16

Uh so yeah, and we ended up like or Naughty ended up shutting down like three out of the five elevators.

SPEAKER_00 38:24

But um during the industry tour, they were supposed to be getting two more running. And I think they lasted like half the night. I don't think they stayed.

SPEAKER_03 38:33

No, they did because the Naughty crew actually ended up like putting someone by the elevators. Oh, that is true. And was like, hey, no, you cannot go in there. It's it's beeping, get off, right?

SPEAKER_00 38:46

She's they started kind of limiting the what the company was going in. Yeah, that is true. That last day we were there.

SPEAKER_03 38:54

Now, what I will say is, you know, you did see some crazy ass people. You did see some people that would um there was one guy that tried to steal a fucking, or he didn't he didn't try, he stole a side-by-side from the cops and ended up getting arrested.

SPEAKER_00 39:12

No, he didn't actually steal it, he couldn't get it started, but he tried, and then when he looked up after failing, he had guns pointed at him.

SPEAKER_03 39:20

And these are people that are there for Daughty, right? Yeah, and you know, this is the type of shit that Bob has to go through. This is the type of shit that anybody that's in an industry that that hosts parties, host clubs, whatever else like that, you're gonna have stupid people like that. But what I will say is like I don't know, like we really never experienced any people crossing boundaries or anything that was non-consensual. Um, however, I will say we really didn't play at this event. It was more or less me and you fucking till 4 a.m.

SPEAKER_00 39:55

every fucking day, every night.

SPEAKER_03 39:58

Um, but we really didn't get to play with anybody, and it was more or less about like and that that's what I loved about how we went there and the mentality we went there. It was about me and you. Yeah. It wasn't more or less about me and you trying to fuck other people, it was all about me and you and just having fun. Right now, did we fuck eight in front of other people every night? Every night, yes, we did, yeah, but we didn't go out of our way of trying to fuck new people, and you know, say what you will.

SPEAKER_01 40:34

And it wasn't like it ruined our night not to fuck somebody else.

SPEAKER_03 40:38

No, and say what you will, like I still had a blast. I mean, there was some some still little little bit of play, um, but I mean it wasn't like we were having full-blown orgies every night in the orgy room and everything else like that. And what I will say is I I I was very intrigued with this room at first, but once we went in there, I did not care for it. The dark room? The dark room. Yeah, I did not care for it.

SPEAKER_00 41:07

I was really excited about it, and I feel like if they would have picked a different room in there and had better like air circulation, like airflow.

SPEAKER_03 41:18

It's not even just that, it's it's the concept of it. It's it's you know, we do this together, and it's it's the same thing as like a glory hole or whatever else like that. I mean, yes, the the idea excites me, but no one's I mean I would have only played with you in there anyways. Yeah, but uh we okay, but let's say we didn't. At that point, you know, it was You have no idea who's fucking you. Correct, absolutely. And it's it's I'm not gonna sit here and yuck anybody's jum because if that's what you're into, that's what you're into, and more power to you. I mean, there was females in the female glory holes getting fucked throughout the night. You know, the normal glory holes were not really being utilized at all. No, and from what I've seen, I've I only saw one person using them.

SPEAKER_00 42:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 42:09

Um, but the female glory hole, anytime we went around there, there was a line to there was a line to use it. And you know, that's that's awesome. I'm not here to yuck anybody's yum.

SPEAKER_00 42:19

I just I all I'm saying is like at first we were super excited to experience that, and then once we got in there, it it just it wasn't what I thought it was, and I don't necessarily excite us as like as much as the thought did before we got there, but seeing it in person wasn't like oh, I need to try this.

SPEAKER_03 42:44

No, it wasn't even that, it was it was when we were in there, like we were clinging on to each other because we didn't know, you know, and and I get it, like that's that's sometimes that's part of the like the the excitement of not knowing, but the to me that's also the fear is I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 43:02

Well, a lot of it for me though, in there was I'm clumsy and not being able to see.

SPEAKER_03 43:10

You're just gonna fall on all the dicks.

SPEAKER_00 43:13

I I will, and I I was holding on to you mainly because like the room itself was intriguing, but uh it was intimidating and intimidating once you got in. But at the same time, I was clinging on to you because I was like, I'm about to fall face first in someone's ass crack.

SPEAKER_03 43:29

Yeah, but I mean it was it was I mean it was a fun like it's a it's an exciting room, but I'm just I'm not a fan of it. Um now like the semi private rooms, the orgy rooms, the crystal room, all that stuff, the exhibitionist room, all those were were great. Amazing, yeah. It was amazing to me. Um, but I do think that I think by not promoting or Not because there there was nothing on the app about Nopsey hosting a playroom. I don't think so. I think that that I think that that did that a little bit of a disservice. In in my opinion. And it's and maybe they did that for a reason. Maybe they did that saying, hey, we have 3,000 fucking swingers here. There's one floor of a playroom in a dungeon. Maybe let's keep this low-key for the ones that do know. To where they want if they want to get away, whatever else like that.

SPEAKER_00 44:32

Yeah. Or maybe it's just for the ones because we didn't find out about it until we were in the dungeon. So maybe it was known for the people that actually utilized the dungeon. And I think that's really what it was. Yeah. If you went there and you were playing in the dungeon, you kind of found you got like the inside secret to the Nopsey playrooms. Because I don't remember seeing anything about Nopsey playrooms.

SPEAKER_03 45:00

It's it's not on Yap app at all. It wasn't.

SPEAKER_00 45:03

I don't remember seeing it.

SPEAKER_03 45:05

But I don't know. Like I still had an amazing time. Oh, it was awesome.

SPEAKER_00 45:10

Um definitely ready to go next year. We're definitely going to go next year, I think. Hopefully.

SPEAKER_03 45:16

Hopefully.

SPEAKER_00 45:17

As long as everything works out.

SPEAKER_03 45:19

The way it should. Yes. Yeah, absolutely. Um, but I mean it was it was a lot of fun. And then we actually got to hang out at the shameless care booth a lot. We actually hung out with them a lot. And we actually did an episode with them, and I can't believe we didn't talk about that. Um, we did an episode with them. If you haven't heard it, go back to our last episode. Uh, that's our episode with Robert and Anna from shameless care. Now, I will tell you the audio is pretty bad. Um, we try to get an office, they didn't, they didn't have any offices available for us to record in, so we had to record in the lobby. Again, this is within a half a mile area, there's 3,000 swingers.

SPEAKER_00 46:01

Yeah, there was people going in and out the whole time.

SPEAKER_03 46:03

The whole the the whole hotel is nothing but swingers or lifestylers, right? So everybody that's coming in and out are lifestylers. Obviously, they see our podcast shit out there, whatever else. They got nosy, they got nosy, curious. I don't want to say nosy, but curious. But curious, and you know, we're talking to Robert and Anna, and you know, it just you could hear a lot of background noise. I tried to cut as much out as possible, but it was still still super hard.

SPEAKER_00 46:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 46:37

Uh, but I mean, all in all, like I loved our conversations with Robert and Anna.

SPEAKER_00 46:41

Oh, 100%.

SPEAKER_03 46:42

And I'm so glad that we went. If if anything, I'm so glad that we went just to meet them because I feel like the relationship that we have with them now, with us being their you know, affiliates, um, man, I'm so excited for it.

SPEAKER_00 47:03

Oh, me too.

SPEAKER_03 47:04

Like they're amazing people, beautiful people, kind-hearted people.

SPEAKER_00 47:09

I loved getting to know them.

SPEAKER_03 47:10

Oh, absolutely. And yeah, so but other than that, we woke up Sunday. Stephanie was mad at me because I woke her up at like again, seven o'clock saying, Hey, we gotta go.

SPEAKER_01 47:25

Yeah, I was not happy.

SPEAKER_03 47:26

Uh so what's good about it is like we packed the day prior, um, and then we woke up and or I woke you up, and then we left. Um I took some of the stuff to the truck with us or with me, and I came and got the truck.

SPEAKER_00 47:41

Well, I was just sitting there waiting with the little trolley.

SPEAKER_03 47:44

Yeah, and then yeah, we drove back. Um, and we have kept in contact with some of the couples uh that we've talked to.

SPEAKER_00 47:51

I have not because I got a new phone and I have not signed in in Telegram.

SPEAKER_03 47:56

Well, you're just a horrible person. I know you owe them all a teddy pitcher.

SPEAKER_00 47:59

I guess I do.

SPEAKER_03 48:01

But I mean, it was all it was a fun time, and you know, that's one thing I'm excited about for next year is I know a lot of the people that we were talking to this time.

SPEAKER_00 48:09

We'll be there next year.

SPEAKER_03 48:11

We'll be there next year, and it's gonna be like a you know, almost like a reunion. Reunion, yeah. Yeah, like a reunion thing. And even though we we may not have fucked with them, or we may not have fucked them, but I mean there's we all still got to know them. We all still got to know him, and that's just making it more exciting for next year, or in the event we do play with them. Right. That's that's what it's doing, is it's just building up the anticipation and the excitement and everything else like that.

SPEAKER_00 48:35

Oh, absolutely.

SPEAKER_03 48:36

But other than that, um, do you got anything else for this episode? No, all right, y'all. On that note, stay sexy, stay weird, stay safe.

SPEAKER_00 48:45

And keep swinging those pineapples.

SPEAKER_03 48:47

Bye y'all.

SPEAKER_00 48:47

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