Trust-Based Living

Why Honest Self-Reflection Beats Harsh Self-Criticism

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We’ve all experienced that inner voice tearing us apart after a mistake. Harsh self-criticism feels accountable but keeps you stuck on problems. Honest self-reflection creates space for growth without shame or judgment. Shift from “I failed because I’m terrible” to “What can I learn?” Curiosity-driven questions like “What happened?” build understanding and growth.

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