Are You Autistic? Beyond Masking, Labels, and Self-Identification

Summary & Takeaways:

In this solo episode, host Wendela Whitcomb Marsh (Wendy) breaks down the complex vocabulary of the autistic community. Whether you are "late-diagnosed," "self-identified," or just starting to see yourself in the stories of others, this episode is a supportive guide to understanding who you are and how your brain works.

• The Problem with the Medical Model: The DSM-5 focuses on deficits and "disorders," but autism is better understood as a developmental disability that affects how you experience the world—not something that needs to be "fixed."
• The Myth of Functioning Labels: "High functioning" and "low functioning" labels are often unhelpful. A "high functioning" label often ignores the massive effort required to cope, while "low functioning" labels often cause people to overlook a person's strengths and voice.
• Understanding Masking: Masking is "performing neuro-normativity" to survive in a neuro-privileged world. While it can be a tool, it is often exhausting and leads to autistic burnout.
• Neuro-Privilege vs. Neuro-Typical: Society is built for the "neuro-privileged"—those whose brains align with the majority. Being neurodivergent (Autism, ADHD, etc.) isn't wrong; it’s simply a different way of processing the world.
• Identity-First Language: While "person-first" language (person with autism) was taught to professionals, many autistic adults prefer identity-first language (autistic person) because autism is an intrinsic part of who they are.
• The Validity of Self-Identification: Clinical diagnoses aren't accessible to everyone. Wendy validates self-identification, noting that no one knows your inner world, history, and reactions better than you do.

About Your Host:

Wendela Whitcomb Marsh, MA, RSD, is an award-winning author, TEDx speaker, and the host of the Amplifying Autism Podcast. While not autistic herself, Wendy has spent her career and personal life advocating for, learning from, and loving the neurodivergent community. She is the founder of Adulting While Autistic and is dedicated to helping late-diagnosed adults find clarity and support.

• Website: wendelawhitcombmarsh.com
• Instagram: @adultingwhileautistic
• Books: Wendela Whitcomb Marsh on Amazon'
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