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The Authentic Christian (Ep. 38)

Luke Evans & Devon Patton Episode 38

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In this episode, Pastors Luke Evans and Devon Patton talk about the importance of authenticity, why people can recognize when your faith isn’t genuine, and reflect on the past two weeks at summer camp and the impact of living out what you believe.

SPEAKER_02

Welcome to another episode of the New Life podcast. We're so glad that you decided to join us again. They're here. We're here. Everybody's here. We're back on schedule. We're back on schedule schedule. Everybody's back. We were away for a couple weeks. Mateo was away for a couple weeks. Spencer was away for a couple weeks. I was away for one week. We were at summer camp. I was here. Luke was here. Someone had to hold down the fort. Lonely. He was a lonely boy. Like Davy Crockett at the Alamo. Dude, speaking of Davy Crockett, uh big raccoon in your yard? No. Big groundhog in my yard. But really? Oh, you gotta kill that thing. Really? He'll destroy your whole the ground. The yard right now is not uh they're kind of tearing it up. That's true. I think that's he might be displaced on it. Yeah, he that's probably what it is. But Georgie, Sai has one of those like raccoon hats, like a Davy Crockett looking hat that we got at Bass Pro. And so Georgie found it and she's just been rocking it. Like she thinks it's hilarious. Yeah. So that's it. Sorry, I don't know why I started with that, but there we go. Davy Crockett. That's it. How things just get weaved. That's how it goes here with the New Life podcast. But yeah, these guys were away, and I was here by myself for basically like two weeks. It was quiet. Was it did you enjoy that or no? No, I missed you guys. Oh you always like to hear that. I knew that. I was just wanted to say that on the pot. No, it was quiet. Love that. Some days it was nice. It was really chill, but most of the time. And now they're doing summer camp outside. There's like 200 kids out there running around. 200? No, maybe not. Maybe 150. In between 100 and 200. With leaders, there's definitely 200 people out there. Yeah, probably. Just tearing it up, dude. 100 degrees. You gotta yaw.

SPEAKER_04

I gotta yaw that I tried to get powered through, but it did not work. You got 100 degrees that's the worst.

SPEAKER_02

My voice is just coming back. That's the worst. You know when I yawn a lot? When I on when I get like not nervous, but like, yeah, kind of like nervous or like anxious. You're a lot like before I preach or something like that. Before I go up to preach, like when we're singing and worship, I worship I yawn a ton. And I think I always think, like, man, people probably see me and like, man, what was he doing last year? Dude, there's this girl in youth group, Caitlin, and it's hilarious because it's like every time we do worship, and then at camp, I notice it like she does, she yawns, and she's just like it's like dude, you didn't want to like cover your mouth or something, but it's so fun. She'll just be like like during during worship. And so now that you said that, I was like, that's that's hilarious. Really keeping you keeping you excited and fresh, you know. You know, you know. Now you're making me yawn again. Look at this guy. Wow, it is contagion.

SPEAKER_04

Oh sleepy boy.

SPEAKER_05

Sleepy boy.

SPEAKER_04

You got it?

SPEAKER_02

You contain no, I don't wanna I don't wanna yaw on it. Uh also we have to make an announcement. You can't can you see, can they see him? He has to stand up at the end. He has to stand up. Come here, Johnny. Get on over here, buddy. Come wave to come stand over here, wave to the camera. Come on, some stand right here. I mean, you can kneel down there. Watch the candle. This is uh Johnny. Johnny's interning with us this summer.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

Give it up for Johnny. Give it up for Johnny, everybody.

SPEAKER_04

You might recognize him from this clip. Insert clip. Insert clip. All right, but Johnny's gonna be helping us out in the youth department.

SPEAKER_02

He's one of our he's was our student leader. He just graduated, and so he's he's helping us out this this summer. So if you see Johnny, if you need him to do something on a Sunday morning or Wednesday night, just tell him hey. He's not allowed to say no. He's not allowed to, yeah, but that's it, Johnny. Thanks, buddy. Okay, see you, Johnny. Yeah, see you, bud. Good job. Good job. Well done. This is his first ever podcast because there's no shot he's ever listened to before. No, don't do that. No way. I've asked him. He calls it the Unk Squared podcast. The Unk Squared Square podcast, which is not wrong. Yeah, he says stuff and I don't really know what he's talking about. Like he just like raffles off these like random sayings and stuff, and I'm like, I don't know. But he calls everybody chat and he calls us unk, and so yeah, it's great. Unk squared. Oh, he's saying chat when he does that? Yeah, it sounds like he's saying Chad when he does because he rolls the T. It doesn't make any sense. Like, why is he calling everybody Chad? Chad. Yeah, Chad. That's it, Chad. Oh, that's funny. Well, we're glad you're here, Johnny. Yeah. Thanks for being here, bud. And just because you don't watch doesn't mean other people aren't watching. And so big shout out to all the followers out there. Oh man. The people that come up. I think the lady on the day, she came up and she told me that she was like, I was like legit dying laughing at something that happened. Like she's just like eating her dinner, like laughing, like spitting out her food. I was like, hell, that's I love that word dinner time entertainment. Who needs Wheel of Fortune? Yeah, not me. That shows ridiculous. Also, shout out to our friend Roberta and her son Trey. Her son Trey is in triple A with the Houston Astros out in Sugarland, Texas. He's a pitcher. We're praying for his call-up any day.

SPEAKER_04

So we got some fresh lids, dude.

SPEAKER_02

We got some sweet Sugarland Space Cowboys merch. What are we thinking? Hat on, hat off. Uh please put it back on. Okay. You got it. This might be the comfiest hat I've ever put on my head, though. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

It's got this really cool thing. Here, this is a good one.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I don't know who invented that. They're not gonna zoom in on that. Did you see that? That was sick. Yeah, it's like a I don't even know how it stays. It's like uh it's like a dry fit, like a golf one. This guy actually seen something like this before. I've never seen this technology before in my life. She also said that he was gonna sign them, and then he was like, Oh, they probably don't want me to do that. And I was like, Are you kidding me? Are you kidding me? So that would have been epic. Chase, when I mean uh Trey, when you get called up, uh we'll need some signed ones. Chase McLaughlin plays for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. That's why that popped in my head. Oh, Trey, when you get called up, first game in the New York area, we're there. We're there, and we need some autos and also on field passes. Yes. Also throw out the first pitch. Yes. You throw out the first pitch, I'll sing the national anthem.

SPEAKER_04

Okay, let's go. That would be awesome. New life sponsored by New Life Podcast. In Yankee Stadium.

SPEAKER_02

Uh what do you think the cheapest? Speaking of sponsored by New Life Podcast, what do you think the cheapest soccer team costs to get your logo on their jersey? There's gotta be like, you mean like professional? Yeah, but like in England, there's like a league we can get.

SPEAKER_04

There's like a sixth level uh in sports. Dude, in sports men's league, let's throw it on a jersey.

SPEAKER_02

That'd be sick. Dude, my Milford League, we could I could change the name to the New Life podcast and get jerseys. Do you guys even have jerseys in the C League?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. Professional sports. Wait, I just found out the other day that C League plays this way on the two side hoops. No. Like two games at once. No, no, no. That's what they told me the other day when I was there. They don't even give them full games.

SPEAKER_02

Bro, they told me the other day that C League is the two sideways and there's two games at once and no refs.

SPEAKER_05

No, bro.

SPEAKER_03

Bro, what league are you playing in? That's what they told me. Did you have a game last night?

SPEAKER_05

No, I have a game tonight. So you play at Parsons on the big court with two refs. Or at West Shore.

SPEAKER_02

I don't even know what that is.

SPEAKER_05

It's outside.

SPEAKER_04

Outside. It's the record center. They do have hoops by the harbor. Somebody's driveway with two of those hoops that you just pushed up. Can't dunk. No dunking. No dunking.

SPEAKER_05

It's like it's Milford Sea League. All the games are in Bridgeport. I don't know why. No, West Shore is like it's uh like a school-turned community center. It's awful.

SPEAKER_02

Um wait, what time's your game tonight? Seven.

SPEAKER_05

Oh, dude.

SPEAKER_02

You were telling me the other day you had a game at like 9 45.

SPEAKER_05

It's Tuesday and Wednesday. I'm a double header. I'm missing tomorrow.

SPEAKER_02

Church. Priorities. Priorities. God honor you to that. You'll drop 20 tonight because of that.

SPEAKER_05

I hope so.

SPEAKER_02

What's your career? What's your uh season high right now? Four points? Come on.

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Come on.

SPEAKER_02

What are we doing? A whole game? Come on, bro. All right, we gotta get it. How much playing time are you getting?

SPEAKER_05

Um we gotta get in the lab. We play 40 minutes. I'll probably play 20. Yeah, we gotta get to the game.

SPEAKER_03

We gotta get in the lab. We need more than one basket every 10 minutes, dude. We gotta get in the lab. That honestly. Are you but you're deferring? I can I can tell you. He's every personality. You're deferring. He's the infinite. You're not catching it like I'm I'm going to the bucket right now. Like you're you're you're looking to check it out.

SPEAKER_05

But I know, I know, I know my strength in basketball. What's your guy's record? Four and one, five and one. All right, so he's a role player. He's a role player.

SPEAKER_02

He's a role player on a winning. That's generous. Yeah, I mean Draymond doesn't see. He's setting picks, dude. He's just he's high five and he's got a few.

SPEAKER_05

Somebody's got to do the dirty work. I'm also unbelievably out of shape. There's no way that's true. That is true. When we went to open runs with Luke, I needed a sub like five.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, that is true.

SPEAKER_05

And I was high schoolers. You need a sub with high schoolers, too.

SPEAKER_02

I played like eight games around screaming at kids, but I also wasn't really running that much. You know me. Just shooting. When we play soccer on Friday, goalie only. I can't wait for you guys to see how good Max is. Why did you again? I'm glad that there are good soccer players playing with us, and it's gonna be great for the community, but we're just gonna get torched by all these dudes. Why? It's indoor soccer. It's not. That means you're like the fourth best person there. He's on my team. I'm playing goalie. Yeah, we've already established that he's on our team. Yeah. But but we need Fred to show up. He's not coming to this one. We're just chatting. Now we're just chatting. Yeah, we're just talking. Nobody cares at all about any of this.

SPEAKER_05

We got a new fourth member today. Yeah. Dude, a camera and microphone. The fourth member. Just not.

SPEAKER_02

The four horses of the apocalypse. You have to use the microphone. Tell us your name. Who are Spencer?

SPEAKER_04

He's here. This is what he looks like.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, this is what I look like.

SPEAKER_04

Way better looking than you guys thought. He didn't even wear a hat today.

SPEAKER_01

I didn't, no. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

He knew he was gonna be on and he was like, no hat.

SPEAKER_02

No hat. Or also 14 shirts at one time.

SPEAKER_04

I'm a long sleeve wearer.

SPEAKER_02

He's a long sleeve guy, but also multiple long sleeves on top of each other. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Like Joe here in that one episode of Friends. Yes. Could I be wearing any more clothes? Could I be wearing any more clothes? Exactly.

SPEAKER_02

Alright, well, that's Spence. I'm glad that you're here. Johnny, we introduce Johnny. We introduced Spence. This is a big day for the podcast, guys. It's huge. It's crowded in here. It's five years. What we want to talk about. There's no fun facts. There's no nothing. We don't have anything? No, we just chatted for 11 minutes. People have been already skipping this part. Alright, alright, alright. We are talking about what, Mateo? Authenticity. Authenticity. What's it mean? What's the definition? He's got no notes. No, he's not prepared. No notes at all. Being authentic.

SPEAKER_05

The quality of being genuine, real, or true to an original. Dude, I kind of like that. To an original.

SPEAKER_02

You know what? I think this applies. Sorry, this is just what I thought about. But we were talking about this yesterday. Mateo came over, had some pizza for lunch with our friend Pastor Danny. And it it was we were talking about like this old furniture that my wife is obsessed with. Because like we when we moved everything in, like it's a thousand pounds. Like it's all. And so last night I was like giving my wife a hard time while they were there, and I shouldn't have, I apologize. Um, but I was giving her a hard time what after they left to, and she was like, You have to understand, like, this is what people pay for. Like, this is like they want authentic stuff, they want real stuff, and like you were talking about that is like authenticity, and we're talking about that. And it's like, yeah, they I'm like, can we just go to IKEA and buy some outdoor furniture or buy something that's not like this? Ikea. I'm like, it's fine, like it'll and Nicole's like, yeah, but these pieces are they're vintage, they've lasted, they've standed like the test of time. Like these outdoor, this outdoor furniture has been outside for 20 years, and it's still great. You just gotta repaint it and fix it up, and it'll be awesome. It'll last another 20 years. And it's the same, obviously, with people. It's like the real people are the ones that last. The ones that are authentic are the ones that will stand the test of time that will through the problems, through the storms, through the ups and the downs, through the the bad weather of life, it's like those are the people that that will remain. And so I think it's an important topic for us to talk about. But it just made me think of of yesterday. But I'm like, oh, it's the same with people, it's the same in our relationship. Yeah, yeah, and it's the same with our relationship with God, right? I mean, when you see people who are saved, uh, and then they go through some stuff and all of a sudden you don't see them in church anymore, or you don't, you know, you don't see them as frequently, they don't they're not reading their Bible as much, they're not doing the things they're supposed to do, whatever, they kind of fall by the wayside. It it makes you wonder if it was ever real to begin with. And I think in order to last as a Christian, to go through some stuff um and hold fast to what it is that God's done in your life, right? That like you're saying, that realness, that authenticity of you know, if it's real, you'll make it, if it's real, you'll last. Like in a in anything, in a friendship, in a marriage, in your relationship with God, like real, true, authentic relationships mean that you put up with some stuff and you you you push through the difficult times. Certainly God has been real enough with us to put up with us, you know. We can learn how to be real with other people. And when we're not real and we're not authentic, I think people see right through that. Oh, definitely. Eventually, eventually, sure. Yeah, and like you said, like the people with their faith. I think on the other side, a flip side of it too, is I think a lot of time we see people who they get the miracle, like God answers the prayer. Like it's not like oh, problems arose and they stepped away from their faith, which happens all the time. But on the opposite side of that, you see people who they come to church because they need a miracle, they need God to move, they need Him financially to bless them, they need a healing in their body, and then that happens, and then they walk away as well. And so on the opposite side of that, it's like whatever it is, the authentic faith will remain peaks, valleys, like whatever is going on in your life, whatever situation it is, those are the real relationships that step through. But like you said, people will see through that. We see it more often than not dealing with teenagers like and young adults and high school kids. Because like they could read you like a book, like immediately they'll know, like we've had students who we've had lead not leaders or or they've had teachers or people and leadership above them. And it's like, well, why don't you like that person? Like, why don't they respond? Like, why are they not like picking up? And it's like, dude, because they know you're fake. Like they know it's all fluff, they know you're just trying to like encourage like just just again, just give them some type of answer or something, but you're not actually invested in in what they want and who they are, because it's not authentic, because it's not real. Yeah, it's easy to it's easy to what's the saying? It's like the for students it's like they don't care what you know until they know you care. Yeah, and something like that. And it's like that's the truth. It's like well, they gotta see it, they gotta see it lived out in your life. And if it's not being lived out in your life, if it's something that is unauthentic, it's pretty easy. Well, that's one thing for Pastor Luke will pat him on the back here is and I've tried to mirror it in my own life, but it was like Pastor Luke is a real person. Like it's not like there's pastors and there's leaders that are like we were at camp with like some other youth pastors, and they're like, I'm like making a joke or or saying something or talking about just regular life or complaining about something, and they're like, Well, you're the pastor. I don't know if like you like, and I'm like, we're all real people here, like we are genuine people, and like in the best way, like making sure that like faith is normal and it's it's like it's something that I that we can kind of we've looked as us in this room, like we've looked at your life and been like, oh, that's that's a faith that it makes sense, it's easy, but at the same time, like we've always known no, this is a like an authentic person, like this is just a real person, like you know what I mean. It's like it's not it hasn't made our faith look like it's unattainable or it's this this other thing. It's like no no no, this is real life, and so well I appreciate that. But and I also think I think that what in whatever you're called to in life, especially as a pastor, but if you're just saved and you're just a Christian, like we're not called to be like I'm not called to be to act like a pastor, like I'm not an actor, right? And I think a lot of times you see, like you're talking about, like you'll see people, depending on what situation they're in, and you're like, there's no way you're really like that in real life. You know what I mean? And so I think the more authentic you can be with how how you communicate to people, because I think that's how Jesus was, right? Like Jesus was the same to everyone that he interacted with. And then Paul obviously writes about you know, to this person, I'm I'm I'm the like I can interact with that person, I can interact with this person, I can interact with this person. And if you're a different person everywhere you go, like when I go, when I'm at home, when I'm at church, when I'm with you guys, when I'm at my men's league, when I'm out at the store, like if I'm a different person at all those places, it's gonna get A really old really fast, like hard to keep up with, like all the different facades and faces that you put on. And it's just way more easier to just be like, Man, I'm just the same person, like everywhere that I go. Like, I would hope and pray that the guys on my men's league that don't know Jesus, that see me interacting with them when they come visit church on a Sunday or they come to something, like I'm the exact same person in those two places. Yeah, like I don't try to put on a front, and I think that that's important for everybody to understand that the aut the authenticity of Jesus is what drew people to him. The fact that he would sit with a woman at the well, that he would have dinner with Zacchaeus, that he would be this person to everybody and be real with people was what people were drawn to. And the reason people pushed away and why Jesus pushed away from the Pharisees and people like that is because of their fakeness, right? Of their, you know, your lofty religious pride, but I know behind the scenes, you know, you're full of this, you're full of that. Like no nobody, nobody's drawn to people like that. People are drawn to real, authentic people. Yeah, and I think that part of that, again, like you said, because growing up when I was a kid, like a teenager and in college, like I was like faking it in my faith at certain moments and certain times, and it's just exhausting. Like it's like it's physically, mentally, spiritually exhausting. Like you're just trying, okay. I gotta remember not to say this around this person, I gotta remember to not uh do this with these people and and do all this. Act a certain way around a certain way when I get home from college, I gotta be this person. That's not it's like it's exhausting, but also at the same time, like you said, like you're putting in the work, you're spending time in prayer, you're spending time in God's word, you're going to church, you're serving, you're doing all these different things, and that becomes the authentic, that becomes the new norm, that becomes easier. And so it's like for me, that's what it was was once I had rededicated my life to Christ, those new normal, like other people recognized it and saw it and was real. And then my even my relationships, I talked about it a few weeks ago, even my relationships with non-Christians became stronger because of that. They knew I wasn't just faking it to try and hang out with them. No, they knew, okay, this is who I was. I've rededicated my life to Christ, and they accepted me for it, and we moved on from that. And that's how you know that those friends are real as well, even if they're authentic friendships. Right, those those authentic friendships of like, you know, when we do something or we let somebody down and all of a sudden they just cut us off. It's like, well, how real how authentic was that friendship? Like, how how real was that? And and I think that that's that's important to find people in your life, or even in a marriage or whatever it is, to find people in your life that are real enough with you and allow you to be yourself around them, so that that realness is, you know. I mean, we've known each other obviously almost your whole life, and so like you would have to do something extremely egregious to me. Like probably you'd probably have to kill somebody close to me for me to just be like, Oh, I'm never talking to Devin again, like I'm I'm over him. Like I that maybe is too long of a leash. But you know, like you you it's if it's real, it's real. Like you don't just you know, you don't just turn your back on people or forget about people or avoid people just because you know something's gone on. If it's if it's real, let it be real. And like you're saying, you know, obviously me being a youth pastor all those years now, you being a youth pastor, these guys working in youth, you know, teenagers I think are the the hardest one, like the most nerve-wracking one to be around because you you don't want to come off as fake because the minute you do, they will not respond to you. Yeah. At all. Like you you've lost your window to communicate to them. Oh, definitely. It's just you have to be uh authentic, real, genuine. You have to actually care about them. Like, and that's why it takes like one of the big things is like knowing their name. Like you know what I mean? It's huge, like for teenagers, like knowing their name, like following up, checking in on them, like Emiline from Youth Show. Always gets like so mad, like because her mom posts on Facebook like everything that they're doing, which is great. Like, carry body stuff. Like, but it's like stuff like that, or like they'll go on vacation. I remember one time I was like, Did you have a good time on vacation? She was like, That's so weird. How did you know I was on vacation?

SPEAKER_04

I'm like, Your mom put it on Facebook.

SPEAKER_02

I don't know what to tell you, but like stuff like that. Like, they have to know, and you're paying attention and noticing like the things that they're doing and and what's going on. Like, if they had they got a new job, you're asking them, Well, how'd the how'd work go? Like, how'd everything go? Like, you're you're actually invested in what they're doing, and or like uh what's them called? I used to drive Victor home. Like Victor, he's working here this week. Like, I love Vic. Like, I used to drive Johnny home sometimes after youth, and it's like like these different things, like just again, just investing in them, letting them know, like, hey, if I ever need a ride, like they're gonna be there. If I ever need money, like we gotta go, or I need to go and I need something to eat, like they're gonna take me to go make get McDonald's and we'll have some fun. So it's like those little things that kids pick up on immediately. Sorry, I don't know what happened. Um, yeah, so the kids they pick up on it quick, like really, really quick. But it's not that's what like me and Nicole were talking about it in ministry, is like these guys who like we've talked about it before, they like give up or like youth ministry. It's like it's not hard, like I I get it, like there are seasons where it's difficult, but it's like when it comes to like actually like encouraging the students or like providing stuff and opportunities for them, like it's very simple. Like Tuesday mornings we go to Starbucks and like we're just there and it's just available, or we'll do soul food on Fridays in July, and it's like it's just available and it's just there.

SPEAKER_04

Well and it's like what else are we doing?

SPEAKER_02

I'll never forget when we used to go to the when we went to the dream center out in LA those couple of times. Great trips, great trips, yeah. And I'll I'll never forget the the guy that led the team, like the homeless teams and stuff. He said, he was like, we don't, he's like, the only thing, the reason that we've lasted this long, he's like, is nothing special that we're doing. The only reason that we're this successful in our homeless ministry is because we are in the exact same place, the exact same time, every time every single week. And he's like, the people know all these new people come in and out. We want to help, we want to help, we want to do this. He's like, we don't do anything special, all we do is be consistent, and the fact that we're consistent and we're real, even in this type of work, is why people show up over and over and over again, and why God has done what he's done through us. And I'll never forget that because I was like, man, like you're saying, I know I know we trash, you know, I I don't mean to sound like the old guy and trash like young ministers or youth pastors or stuff like that, but like there's no way you can come into a youth group, say, Hey guys, I'm your new youth pastor, and then 18 months later you leave and think that those kids are gonna think that you're authentic or real. It's just or it's just not gonna have an impact on. No, it's just not, but it's the same in a very small sense of like like we we've talked about it before, but Drew, my brother, shout out big Drew, he's listening right now. Oh, you know he is. Is he invites his friends from work to church every Sunday? And what do they know? Drew's going to be there, right? Like he's he's not a pastor on staff, he's not in ministry, he's just he loves our church, he's grown up in this church, he wants to invite his friends to church, and so what is it? That's an authentic relationship, that's a genuine relationship, that's consistency that it's showing up. It's like anytime you show up, dude, I'm gonna invite you every week. And one of those weeks that you show up, I will be there. And it's like I'll be there every single time. And it's like it's the same not just in ministry, it's in our everyday life. It's like people need to see that. You want your family members to come to church, you gotta continue to to tell them about Jesus, you gotta continue to invite them, but also you gotta be here. So when they do show up, when they do call you on that week that they need to come to church, you're here regardless. Yeah. I mean, we gave you a camera and a mic this week because you were at camp last week. Uh he said he wanted to share some stuff. What what did you see as far? I mean, that so that week that you just spent at camp with those kids, you now have become something to them, right? Like a core memory. We all have memories of our camp counselors and like the moments and the times that we had. Like I have pictures praying over him, praying over you, praying over you. Like, we all have those like core memories. So now those kids are gonna look at you in that light. And Jake, shout out to Jake. And shout out Jake Lopez. Shout out to Jake. Yeah, took a whole week off.

SPEAKER_01

And so and Chrissy.

SPEAKER_02

Chrissy, Mateo was there. We were all there. I think it's really cool though, like Sof and Jake. Not that that's not cool that these guys help, but like Sof and Jake took a I mean, they work real jobs. Dude, I can't even talk about it because I'm a circle. They took a week off of work, like like vacation time that they could take to hang out with their friends or their family, to go serve, to go sleep in a cabin with a bunch with a bunch of teenagers with no showers and water pressure, and the food actually was a lot better this year than it was previous years. Super debatable. But yeah, in previous years, it was better. Did I say it was good?

SPEAKER_04

No.

SPEAKER_05

But you had to get nuggets six times last week. Dude, that's better. I don't know.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, dude, those nuggets with the barbecue sauce. All right, go ahead. Um, no, yeah. Should we go to Buffalo Wild Wings right now?

SPEAKER_01

Great idea. No, um this past week was like in was incredible. One of the reasons I wanted a mic was to just talk about the impact being a leader has on not only you, but the kids as well. Like you guys just talked about the fact that you remember praying over us. Like you remember doing and we remember that. Like that's a fond memory that we can look back on and like like associate not only our relationship with you, but now our relationship with God, because those weeks had an effect on us. Yeah. Like going into this past week was a little nerve-wracking, like, because I know how important it is to be authentic. I know how important it is to take this line of work seriously because these kids are going through stuff. Like these kids have real lives at home. They go through things that we don't always see and we may not always have the answer for. But staying rooted in your word, staying rooted in God, having the um dialogue with them that the word speaks through you was like a huge point in this past week that like I really wanted to um I really wanted to make it.

SPEAKER_04

Johnny's just down there getting super comfortable.

SPEAKER_01

He's just laying down fully horizontal right now. No, but it was incredible. I like you just said, like, you're gonna start crying. I'm not gonna start crying. That'd be crazy. The first episode on the podcast, and crying. Second, first and last. True, second episode. Um, it was genuinely incredible. The relationships that were that were built this past week, the the way that I saw um specifically Jake and Soph. Like, we talked about the fact that like me, Matt, and Chrissy, they we work here. Right. This is our job. We've been to camp before too so many times. Jake has been to camp, but like over the past couple of years, he hasn't been there because he's been like he's a family now, he's a full-time job, but seeing them really like get after it, like, like pray over the kids, like like foster those relationships, grow them to something where it's not just like I'm here to watch you and make sure you don't like kill yourself while you're here, but like I I want to see you grow as a person. I want to see your relationship with God like grow into something that you're gonna fall back on when you get older, and that this wouldn't just be a week that is great. Like we had fun, like we competed, we almost won. Shout out Orange Team. Orange we were we were up for a while, orange code. It almost doesn't count, but it's all right. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04

Put in a good effort.

SPEAKER_01

We tried we didn't come in last. We didn't come in last. We almost did, we didn't. Um, but at the core root of camp, it's about uh it's about like growing your relationship with God as a kid and having those memories that like when you're older and you're going through something, you can think back like, man, I remember as a kid when I was I was going through this and I was going through that, or maybe I was going through nothing, but I felt great being in a in a in a situation and a community that believed in the same things that like everyone did and like really got after it. It was genuinely a phenomenal week. And those kids are wild.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, they are they're so crazy, but they're so much fun. They're the best. They are the best. And that's your hope, right? You hop your hope and your prayer for all the kids that go to camp, or just kids that come to youth group, or the next generation of our church, kids, youth, young adults, is that it becomes something so real to them, something so authentic that they can't run from it, right? Like that's what we pray. Like, God, help help them to never be able to run away from you. Like, help them for this thing to be so real that when they do try to run away, the minute they do something they know they shouldn't be, it just that camp moment, that those real authentic conversations and people praying over them and worship moments, like that those just pop back into their mind, and whatever it is that they're doing, they feel disgusted doing, and they just run back to you because of that that realness and because of that authenticity of of the moment. And I think that's the test, right? That that's the judge of how real it is is you know how how easily, how easily, whether it's a relationship, whether it's your your spiritual walk, your relationship with God, whatever it is, the true test of authenticity is how difficult is it for me to walk away from this, right? Whether it's a friend, whether it's a marriage, whether it's my relationship with God, if it's real, it'll be really, really hard to walk away from it. And that's what you gotta pray for the next generation of the church is that it would be just so much more difficult for them to walk away from God than it was for us or the generation before, the generation before that they would that the experience they have would be so real that it would just change and transform. I wonder who that is, dude.

SPEAKER_03

We're filming. What do you think we're filming, Matt?

SPEAKER_04

I have no idea what's going on.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_04

Shout out to TT Sandy. She just rolled up. She is authentic.

SPEAKER_03

She's authentic right there. Talk about authentic.

SPEAKER_02

I thought it was the Lord knocking and the door will answer. She was like, what is happening here? Just saw Johnny sleeping on the floor down there one day. She's like, who's this homeless man sleeping on the floor here? Um, yeah, so the last thing that I'll say about camp really quickly was it was cool. Like, they authentically, the students like authentically worship, which is really great. Like they do here too. I don't want you to think that they don't because they do. But it was great. It's because Blake, Spencer's brother, he helps us out in so many avenues as far as like media, but playing an instrument and different stuff. So him and Caleb and Colby, they don't have to be a good thing. Work in the summer too. He's out there working. So it's like, but they don't often get a chance. We try to as much as we can, but to just be in worship, to just be in service and just and just enjoy it. And so it was cool. One of the nights I got to go up and like just put my hand on their shoulder and pray with them. But Blake like always just like goes up and he's just like on his boy's shoulder. He just like goes up and like every time pray for it. It's the best. Yeah, it's so much. Oh, the camp huddles. It's great, but he's just like that's just genuine worship. And then there was another situation with one of our students, Becca, that she came up to me and she was like, Hey, Pastor Devin. She's like, My friend, like, really needs prayer. Like, she like really needs somebody to pray for. Like, is there a female leader that you could find? And I was like, Not right now, but I was like, but go pray with her. Like, and she was like, like authenticity, like she was like, I don't think I can do that. Like, I don't know about that. Like, I don't think I can. And I was like, I was like, I'm like, please. I'm like, what she needs right now is somebody to pray for, and what is available right now is you. Like, so I was like, you don't have to pray in her ear, you don't have to pray out loud, but you know God, like you can pray to him and you can go pray for her. And so it was like that was like Tuesday night or something like that. And so she went and prayed for and she did it. And then on Thursday night, there was a girl like up at the altar who nobody was praying for, and out from the back came Becca, and she, I'm gonna start. I get an emotional. Yeah, dude. But it's like you can't talk about that. She was just like, she just like sprinted to the front because like her friend needed to like prayer, and it was like, oh, it's like, what is that? Like, it was this growth because of like this action, but it's that authenticity of like, I don't know how to do this, I need help. All she needed was somebody just tell her you can do it. Like, and it was like, and she did, and so and then at the end of the week, she was up running, rushing up to the front to pray for her friends, and I was like, Man, that's sick. That's awesome, dude. You could we could you could do a whole nother podcast just about stuff like that, like just it was cool, stepping out in faith, right? Yeah, finding that next week, but but that's like a perfect example, and I know I know who she is, that's why I got emotional because she's a sweet kid, and like like I I said it on Sunday of finding the middle ground between like I either have too much religious pride, which we see at camp a lot with like you know, kids like the minute someone needs prayer, like the kids are running to the front, like ready to push people over because they want to pray out so loud for everybody, and then the kids over here like that that are like I could never do that. I couldn't do that, and it's finding that middle ground of like her humility to come up to you to say, Hey, can you find a female leader?

SPEAKER_03

And you to say to her, Well, you can go pray for her, and her humility to go, nope, I can't, no, I can't.

SPEAKER_02

I don't know, I'm not gonna prove it, but to step out in faith, to listen to someone who's older than her, who is obviously real in her life that can speak to her to tell her to go do that, and then her step out in faith and go and do that. Yeah, it was sick. That's awesome, dude. Like when she the last night when she like ran up to do, I was like, So there I was like dude, yeah, I would have lost it. I would have lost it. Yeah, dude, that was sick. So that's awesome, man. That's awesome. Uh great time. Camp's the best. Shout out again to our church. Oh, you have one more thing?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, if I could say one more thing, that'd be great. Go ahead. Please do. Then I'll thank you. The amount of text that Soph and I got at the end of the week, I was crying the entire weekend, and she could attest to that. Like, it was the the text that we got just saying thank you for being our leader. Like, you made such an impact this week was so cool. That's so awesome. But not only that, to see Soph doesn't watch this podcast. I'll be honest, she hasn't watched. Look sweet. So she so she's not gonna get mad that I said this because she will have no. She will have no idea. She was pretty nervous, like going into it, you know, because like she she's a youth leader, obviously, but she's not like very known.

SPEAKER_04

She, you know, she's to herself, she's not best as on they were like, when do you graduate in youth a few weeks ago? We did Bible study.

SPEAKER_02

So was our leader, and then we were talking about like graduation and like end of the school year, and they were like, When's your graduation date? And she was like, You think I'm a student?

SPEAKER_04

She just covered in tattoos in the middle of high school? I think thought she was 18. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

I was like, What do you think I'm doing? Oh, it's crazy. This is my fiance. That's true. She's 18 years old. Yikes. Um, no, but she was pretty. She's not. She's 25. Um, no, leading up to the week, she was pretty nervous. She was like sleeping. Yeah, but like it's like it's a big thing. I was I was hyping it up.

SPEAKER_02

I was like, There's no way to prepare someone for absolutely you cannot.

SPEAKER_01

Um but seeing throughout the week progressively her get more confident is the wrong word, but like comfortable in in being a leader and being there to support and help and just be there for the kids was like was one of the best things I've ever seen. Like, especially being her fiance, like seeing that growth from the beginning to the end of the week, where at the end of the week she was laying hands on kids, like leading a full small group by herself. She was taking on very hard questions, and the text that she got, man, like it was yeah, dude.

SPEAKER_02

That was sorry, now we're just like talking about all the cool stuff. Um it was like sick to me. Like there's the Snack Shack after Sick in a good way. Sick in a good way. It was really cool to me. That at the end of service, there's like a time for the kids to have free time and go to the snack shack and stuff. And it was like every night, except for the last night, because we had ended early anyway, but it was like the first three nights of camp for senior high, like our kids were so invested in the like conversation piece of like growth together, like authentic authentic conversation, authentic growth, being real with each other after service that like we had other youth groups, and that's fine, and and like they finished with what they were doing, and they're running to go get mozzarella sticks and ice cream and stuff, which is great. But our kids were just like so that was so secondary to them, which was they were locked in. Like, it was like, no, we want to get through these questions, we want to keep having conversations, we want to talk about what we're dealing with, and it was like like kids like testimonies from Spence and Jake and Soph and Chrissy. It's like the kids are praying for one another, like there was a group of girls at the end that they just stayed, and like one of the girls was dealing with something, and they were like, Alright, well, let's just pray now. And so they all laid hands on her and prayed. And it was the boys were sitting there afterwards, and like all these other kids, like at high in high school, that's all I'm thinking about, right? It's like I'm going out and hang with my friends, I'm going to get a milkshake, I'm going to like do whatever. And it's like, nah, I just want to stay here present in this moment. Like, it's not gonna last forever. Like, I want this right now, and it was well, and I think the cool part is you know, you said something nice about me, so I'll say something nice about you. I think the I think the cool part is is I don't think that that happens by accident. No. I think that you guys have developed a culture within New Life Youth of a culture of conversation, if you will. Yeah. Of you have 632, you have soul food, you do small groups once a month, you have Bible study once a month. Like you've created a culture where kids are comfortable talking to each other and talking to their leaders about their problems, but not just in a because they're real and because it's authentic. Yeah. Not just talking to them about it, but also praying about it, trying to help them work through it. Because anybody can go up to anybody and say, Hey, I have this going on, and anybody can say, Oh man, I'll pray for you, and then just go their separate ways. It's another thing to say, man, why do you feel like that? I wonder what what's going on in your life that makes you feel right, that that culture of conversation of like, man, let's hash this out and then let's come up with a solution for it. And so I don't think that that happens by accident. I think that happens because of the culture that's been created where kids know, man, this place is this place is real. These people, these people care about me, these leaders care about me, my youth pastor cares about me, Mateo cares about me, the people at camp care, like that. Again, we've been talking about auth authenticity, so to put a bow on it, like that that's what comes out of being authentic. Yeah. Is like we can dig deeper into these things, we can get closer to each other because I don't have to worry about them stabbing me in the back or them running away or them leaving or quitting or this or that. Like we're connected on a deeper level because we're connected through Christ, but we're also connected through this authenticity in Christ that we all have. Yeah, and so I think that that I think that that's just a testimony of what's been going on, and we just see it all because that's what happens with God, right? Like you see it all come to fruition, like you plant the seed, you you you cultivate it, you water it, and and then you watch it grow, and that's that's what comes out of it is you know your experience, you know, and you know, the the things you're talking about of all these kids that can't like that's that's what comes out of it. And so I I you know you can't I can't put a price on on authenticity. Definitely. That's great. Good stuff. Great week. Awesome week. Great week. It's awesome. That's the best. So thank you again. I was gonna say this before, but thank you to everybody who bought stuff in our bake sales so we could send our kids and every time. And people may want to go back and be a counselor. Dude, let's go rip it.

SPEAKER_04

Dude, both of you. We should go. That'd be so sick. We should just go and riff it and see what happens.

SPEAKER_02

Get summer to go again, then she'd go one. I might be in, dude. Yeah, she went one year. She went just like uh Bens and Sof did. She came with me when we were the summer we were engaged. Oh, that's sick. Oh, yeah, I think you guys were my leaders. I was probably there. Yeah, you were. Yeah. I don't remember. I was all aboard. I don't remember that. He was that the year we played hammered the whole time. Is that the year we played volleyball every day? We have free time. Oh, yeah. Volleyball. Sand volleyball. It was like at night volleyball. Sand volleyball is the best, dude.

SPEAKER_04

It's probably like we would eat our dinner in like 10 minutes so we could go play volleyball. Like it was like if we could 20 more minutes left.

SPEAKER_02

Leaders and kids. There was like executive staff that were like, oh, you guys are playing volleyball again? It's like, we're playing volleyball. Volleyball might be my second favorite sport to play. I took volleyball in college as a class. First being rugby. We just have to take rugby. And then we played volleyball. You ever play volleyball? No. It's volleyball two on two in a uh racquetball court, and you can hit it off the wall. That sounds incredible. The only rules you can at the ceiling. So it's like you serve it, and then when you serve When you like it, what are we doing right now?

SPEAKER_04

Let's go to Spike, you could instead somebody you could hit it off the wall.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, it was so sick, dude. That sounds cool. Why did that never pick up? How is pickleball cool and that's not? What are we talking about? Not walleye ball? I don't know. Pickleball is crazy. It's not doesn't sound like pickleball's not cooler than that. That sounds awesome.

SPEAKER_04

Remember when Chrissy said pickleball has literally changed my life.

SPEAKER_03

Can we get her on the positive? Down out, Chrissy. Talk about unauthentic, huh? No, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_04

She's gonna be so mad. She doesn't watch. No, yeah, there's no wish.

SPEAKER_03

Chrissy, we're kidding. We love you. You're the best. If you watch, if you don't watch pickleball.

SPEAKER_04

Pickleball literally changed my life. Never played again after that.

SPEAKER_03

She said that last summer, and I think two weeks ago in staff meeting. She's like, when are we gonna play pickleball, guys? This is a year ago.

SPEAKER_04

She's been waiting with her paddle ready to go.

SPEAKER_05

I always got a paddle in my car. Me too. I do, too. Never drunk. I always got basketball shoes, running shoes, and pitchers.

SPEAKER_04

Jake's like super into it, right? Jake Lopez?

SPEAKER_05

He was. I don't think. Yeah, I mean I played with him.

SPEAKER_04

I think he pretty he's good because he played tennis in high school.

SPEAKER_05

Alright.

SPEAKER_04

Ew, dude. Alright. Are we playing a game or are we done? Don't worry about it.

SPEAKER_02

You know how hard that's gonna be to edit? You're gonna have to pop from camera to camera to camera. He just wants to play.

SPEAKER_04

He just wants to play.

SPEAKER_02

Also, how are we not gonna hit anything throwing that thing around? We got it. This is gonna be a good thing. That's what I meant. Johnny could pass it to you.

SPEAKER_05

Wonderful. Alright. For those at home that don't know Cash Friends. Essentially, it's watching suits. He's watching suits, dude. Biggest Reels watcher I've ever met. Yeah, Johnny's algorithm is crazy.

SPEAKER_02

Brody's gotta be up there with him. I don't know, dude. Brody stays watching. Anytime I'm gonna do it. I do learn all right. I do love it. On YouTube, like the YouTube shorts, like that kind of reels. Are we playing or not?

SPEAKER_05

He's just like scrolling. I'll be next to him. He'll just be like, are we playing or not, dude? Just always show him your reels.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, we've already been pretty long, so if we're gonna play, let's do it. And we can't have stuff to do.

SPEAKER_05

Catchphrase. Uh kind of like charades. No, no. It's like what's that? Nicole should be getting apples to apples. Sure. You just gotta describe it without saying the word.

SPEAKER_02

Taboo, isn't it? The one with the buzzer.

SPEAKER_05

Yes. Here we go. Nope. You're handing it. You don't have a mic.

SPEAKER_02

You're handing it. So so me and Mateo are on a team, right? Yeah. So I have to describe it to Mateo and then you and Spencer on the team.

SPEAKER_05

That's how you win. I'll do uh toss-up is like all the categories. Oh, I like that. Uh this is an app that we well, it's like a football every football season.

SPEAKER_04

Oh, fantasy football. ESPN.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, yeah. Nice. That's what you went with not worldwide leader in sports? That's not the answer. The answer is fantasy league. Are we gonna cheat or are we gonna play this forever? You didn't want to at least pass it. Alright, this is a practice, right? That's his lying face. Uh they make you do this when you go for your driver's test. Uh test? No, no, when you're in the car, it's a certain way to do something. A right-hand right-hand park? Parallel park. Correct. Bingo.

SPEAKER_04

Right hand park was his first test. Right hand park. On an airplane, you might pay for extra room. Yes, but leg room. Yep.

SPEAKER_01

With one hand. Um, we eat this. It's Lay's and salsa, but simplify. Chips and salsa. But salsa and chips. No, for your first answer. Chips and guac? No, it reminds it rhymes with chips.

SPEAKER_02

Chips and dip. Yeah. You can't do that. You can't say rhymes with this this guy's telling ESPN as an answer.

SPEAKER_05

It has to do with your stomach and when you eat IBS. When you eat something, you don't gain the weight because it's really fast.

SPEAKER_04

Oh, metabolism. Fast food.

SPEAKER_01

I wish, dude. We're gonna win. BTS. Uh the green scenes. Yeah, what's it called? The short. K-pop. Yep. Nice, dude.

SPEAKER_04

Oh, if I'm going on a walk up a mountain. When it runs out, it's You lost. Time's out. Time's out.

SPEAKER_02

Time's out. My favorite is it's an app. We do the ESPN. Yep. Yep. Fantasy League.

SPEAKER_05

So I just press start again. I still cheated, but I didn't know that.

SPEAKER_02

No, that was a practice round. Because we both cheated. I couldn't see the show. Who else cheated? Spencer said rhyme.

SPEAKER_05

No, okay. No rubber.

SPEAKER_04

Yo, Mako is half German Shepherd, half.

SPEAKER_02

I don't know. Wolf?

SPEAKER_01

I know, I know, I know.

SPEAKER_04

He's a Siberian.

SPEAKER_01

Bad friend.

SPEAKER_04

If you have bigger jeans, unauthentic. I don't know. It changed, it changed.

SPEAKER_05

No, no, no. You have to do the shit.

SPEAKER_04

If you cut a shirt, it's a cutoff.

SPEAKER_05

It's a sleeveless.

SPEAKER_04

You cut it at the bottom, you are Crop top.

SPEAKER_05

Yep. There we go.

SPEAKER_04

Come so close to that camera.

SPEAKER_05

Husky was the answer. Yes. Oh. I didn't know that.

SPEAKER_01

Milky Way galaxy is a part of the. No, sorry. All the planets are in a galaxy? No. Smaller than that. Two words. Solar system. Bingo. Oh. Dude, you almost made me look really dumb there.

SPEAKER_05

I was like, ugh. Uh sport, you're dressed in all white and you have a sword.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, um, fencing. Nice. Surrounds your house keeps your animals in. Uh, it's these rock formation in Wales. It's real famous. Uh, the the heads. Nope, that's not. That's Easter Island heads. The sisters. Nope. They're not people. They're just rock formation. I don't know this one. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_04

It's in Scotland, isn't it?

SPEAKER_02

Um they put this in ice cream sometimes. Cookie. Chocolate chips. No. Cookie go. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

That was dumb. Stonehenge is the code. Oh, if you're doing crunches, you're working on your abs.

SPEAKER_02

Dude. What? Apple core. Alright. So I think we've established who's also It's kind of a game of chance passing it around. Wouldn't it make more sense to pass it back and forth to your teammate until the buzzer goes and then however many got right is the winner.

SPEAKER_01

Would that make more sense? That's how Danny likes to play it, and we make fun of him. I don't make fun of him.

SPEAKER_02

Well, I just this is a game of chance. This is basically a game of chance. Because if I wanted to, yeah, I could take as long as I wanted to. And once I hear it beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, then it just hears it to me. Whatever. You can change the category. Alright, last one. Last one. Or whatever. Then we're out of here. Ooh. Beyonce's husband.

SPEAKER_05

Jay-Z. Yep. John Cotta. Hove. John Cata. Yankee Stadium.

SPEAKER_02

Also, how many times are you allowed to skip?

SPEAKER_01

You get one skip, brother. No, you can skip as many times as you want. You get one skip, bro. These guys don't know how to play games. Um, the first sport you said. You said that's your second sport. I said, Oh, actually worked. I remembered. That's my bad. I knew we were making fun.

SPEAKER_05

Uh pastry snack comes into wrapped in tin foil. Cupcake. Are you kidding me? Right and tin. Oh, Pop Tarts.

SPEAKER_04

Pastry snack comes into wrapped in foil.

SPEAKER_02

Uh he was married to Angelina Jolie, famous actor. No, the other one. Tom Cruise? He's in Landman. Tom Cruise was no idea. Come on, Collie. Tom Cruise. Billy Bob Thornton, dude. No. I would have never got to be. It's a magazine.

SPEAKER_01

It's also a drink. Vogue. Uh, uh, uh. Let me get a glass of Vogue. Oh my gosh. Let me get a glass of Vogue. Uh Along came Polly. What?

SPEAKER_02

Along came Polly, Knicks fan. Excuse me. Do you guys have National Peter?

SPEAKER_01

Ben Tiller. Yes.

SPEAKER_03

Nice. Jeez Louise. Got it eventually. We got it.

SPEAKER_05

We got it.

SPEAKER_04

It comes on the side with some food.

SPEAKER_05

Sour cream salad. Uh what the thing is a source. Girls. Yes.

SPEAKER_01

Sour cream salad. I tried to tell it's bad food.

SPEAKER_03

You can skip like that in the middle of your table.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, what's uh short, opposite? Tall. Yeah, what's on the ground is green. This guy's doing it.

SPEAKER_04

And saying opposites.

SPEAKER_05

Get that clip.

SPEAKER_03

Get that clip. Get that clip. Get that clip. Clip it. Clip it clip it up. Do it over and over again. Please, please do it over. Is there an eagle in here?

SPEAKER_00

Oh that's the dude.

SPEAKER_03

I love that.

SPEAKER_02

Johnny love that bit. Yeah. Well, well, that's it. For the New Life podcast. Play that outro music.