God’s Patience: Why He Hasn’t Given Up on You - S2E34

How many times have you made the same mistake? Confessed the same sin? Promised to change and then... didn't? And yet — here you are. Still loved. Still pursued. Still welcomed back.

In this episode, we're exploring one of the most underappreciated attributes of God: his patience. We'll unpack what it really means that God is "slow to anger," why his patience has a purpose (not just passivity), how it has limits (no, really), and how the patience he's shown you should reshape how you treat the people who test yours. If you've ever wondered why God hasn't given up on you, this episode is your answer.

"God sees everything you've done wrong — every sin, every failure, every broken promise — and he chooses to keep working with you rather than discarding you. That's not weakness. That's supernatural restraint."

In This Episode, You'll Discover:

• What "slow to anger" really means — and why theologians call it "longsuffering"
• Four aspects of God's patience — including the sobering truth that it has limits
• Why God's patience isn't passive — it has a purpose, and it's actively buying time for sinners to be saved

Practical Applications:

• Find hope when you keep failing — God isn't tired of you, and his patience hasn't expired
• Use this time wisely — patience isn't an invitation to procrastinate on obedience; it's an opportunity to respond
• Extend patience to others — you've received far more than you could ever be asked to give

Your Assignment This Week: Spend some time reflecting on God's patience in your own life. Think about a specific sin or struggle you've dealt with over and over — one where you might have expected God to give up on you by now. Thank him that his patience hasn't run out and that he's still working with you. Then ask him to show you one person you need to extend more patience to this week — someone who's testing your limits the way you've tested God's.

💬 Community Question: Looking back at your life, where do you most see God's patience at work? Is there a specific area where he's been especially patient with you — a struggle that's taken years, a pattern he keeps forgiving, a growth process that's been slower than you'd like? Your story of God's patience might encourage someone who's feeling hopeless about their own repeated failures. Email us at Charlie@heychurchmedia.com or just hit the "Send us a text" link below!

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Transcript

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You're tuned into Everyday Theology in Plain English, making sense of God's truth for your everyday life. Here's your host, the man who started Six Diets this year alone, but is loved by a God who never gives up on him. Charlie Miller.

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Hey there. Welcome back to Everyday Theology in Plain English. I'm so glad you're here. Today we're talking about something that might hit close to home. God's patience. Let me ask you something honest. Have you ever wondered why God hasn't given up on you? I mean, think about it. How many times have you made the same mistake? How many times have you confessed the same sin? How many times have you promised to change and then didn't? How many times have you wandered away, grown cold, neglected what you knew was right? If you're anything like me, the answer to that is a lot. And yet, here you are. Still loved, still pursued, still welcomed back. That's patience. Divine patience. And honestly, it's one of the most underappreciated attributes of God. We talk a lot about God's love, his grace, his mercy, but we don't talk much about his patience, his willingness to bear with us through our slowness, our stubbornness, our repeated failures, his refusal to give up on people who have given him every reason to walk away. When I look at my own spiritual journey, the thing that amazes me the most is that God hasn't thrown in the towel on me. I've given him plenty of opportunities. And yet, he's still here, still working, still waiting, still patient. Here's what I want you to know right up front. God's patience isn't weakness or indifference. It's strength, it's love. And it's the reason you still have time to grow, to change, to become who he created you to be. Today we're going to discover together why God is so patient and what his patience means for your life. So, what do we mean when we say God is patient? The Bible uses a beautiful phrase to describe this attribute. God is slow to anger. That phrase appears repeatedly in Scripture in Exodus 34, in Numbers 14, Psalm 86, Psalm 103, Joel 2, Jonah 4, Nahum 1, and many, many, many more. Slow to anger, not quick to punish, not easily provoked. God takes his time before he acts in judgment, giving people plenty of space to repent. Theologians sometimes call this attribute long-suffering, which literally means suffering long. God endures our sin, our rebellion, our slowness to change longer than anyone else would. And here's what divine patience looks like: God sees everything you've done wrong, every sin, every failure, every broken promise, and he chooses to keep working with you rather than just discarding you. And that's not weakness, that's supernatural restraint. So let me unpack several aspects of God's patience today. First, God's patience is rooted in his desire that all people come to repentance. 2 Peter 3, 9 says, the Lord is not slow in keeping his promise as some understand slowness. Instead, he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. And this is key. God's patience isn't passive, it has a purpose. He's giving people time, time to hear the gospel, time to respond, time to turn from sin and turn towards Him. And when you look at the world and wonder why God doesn't just judge all the evil right now, this is the answer. His patience is buying time for sinners to be saved, including you and me. Second, God's patience is demonstrated throughout Scripture. I mean, think about the storyline of the Bible. Again and again, God's people rebel, they worship idols, they ignore their commands, they break their covenant with Him. And again and again, what does God do? He sends prophets, He gives warnings, He pleads for them to return. He waits, He's patient. Think about specific individuals like Abraham lied about his wife twice. Moses argued with God and struck the rock in anger. Defid committed adultery and murder. Peter denied Jesus three times. Did God discard any of them? No, he was patient with them. He kept working with them, he kept bringing them through their failures to fruitfulness. Third, God's patience does have limits. This is important to understand. God's patience is vast, but it's not infinite in the sense that it goes on forever and ever without any consequences. Throughout scripture, we see that eventually, when people persistently refuse to repent, judgment comes. The flood in Noah's time, the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, the exile of Israel, and ultimately, final judgment for those who reject Jesus Christ. Romans 2, 4 and 5 warns do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, forbearance, and patience, not realizing that God's kindness is intended to lead you to repentance? But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God's wrath. God's patience is a gift meant to lead us to repentance, not an excuse for continued rebellion. Here's the sobering truth. God's patience is not permission to keep sinning, it's an opportunity to turn around. Every day of patience is a day of grace, and it should move us toward change, not away from it. Fourth, God's patience with us should shape how we're patient with others. And this is where the application starts to become obvious, right? If God has been incredibly patient with you, bearing with your failures, with your slowness, with your repeated mistakes, how should you treat others? Well, Colossians 3, 12 and 13 says, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another. We're called to imitate the patience we've received, to bear with others the way God has borne with us. Quick pause. If you don't mind, drop a comment to let me know this is all making sense. Or if you have any questions. Without any feedback, it's hard for me to know if folks are getting anything from this podcast or if there's anything we could do to do it better. I'd love to hear from you. So now you might be thinking, okay, Charlie, God is patient, but how does this actually change how I live? That's a great question. So let me give you three practical ways understanding God's patience can transform your life. First, God's patience gives you hope when you keep failing. Let's picture someone, we'll call him Marcus, who represents a pattern I've seen in many people's lives. Marcus has been a Christian for years, but there's a particular sin that he keeps falling into. Every time he falls, he feels more hopeless. He says, like, I should be past this by now. He thinks God must be so tired of me. But here's what Marcus needs to understand: God's patience isn't running out. Yes, sin is serious. Yes, Marcus should pursue holiness with everything he has, but the fact that he's still struggling doesn't mean God has given up. And maybe that's you today. Maybe you're tired of confessing the same sin again and again. Maybe you've started to wonder if God is tired of hearing about it. And here's what I want you to know: God is not tired of you. He is slow to anger and abounding in love. His patience hasn't expired. The fact that you're still here, still wanting to change, still seeking him, man, that's evidence of his patience at work in your life. Second, God's patience calls you to use this time wisely. So let me paint you another picture. Imagine a woman, we'll call her Heather, who knows there are things in her life that need to change, right? She feels the Holy Spirit's conviction, but she keeps putting it off. I'll deal with that later, she thinks. God is patient, there's no rush. But Heather's misunderstanding patience. God's patience isn't an invitation to procrastinate on obedience, it's an opportunity to respond before it's too late. Now here's the question: God's patience asks. I'm giving you time. What are you doing with it? Every day of patience is a gift. Don't waste it. 2 Corinthians 6.2 says, now is the time of God's favor. Now is the day of salvation. The right time to respond to God's patience is always now. Third, God's patience empowers you to be patient with others. This is where it gets practical in your relationships. Think about the people in your life who test your patience, the family member who keeps making the same mistakes, the friend who never seems to grow, the coworker who keeps disappointing you, the church member who is just exasperating. How patient are you with them compared to how patient God has been with you? When you remember how long God has put up with your failures, how many times He's forgiven you, waited for you, worked with you, it becomes much harder to be impatient with others. You realize you've received far more patience than you could ever be asked to give. As we wrap up today's episode, here's what I want you to remember: God is slow to anger. His patience has outlasted your worst failures. And his patience has a purpose to give you time to repent, to grow, to become who He created you to be. Don't take His patience for granted. Use it wisely and extend it generously to others. So here's your assignment for this week. Spend some time reflecting on God's patience in your own life. Think about a specific sin or struggle that you've dealt with over and over, one where you might have expected God to give up on you by now. Thank him that his patience hasn't run out and that he's still working with you. Then ask him to show you one person you need to extend more patience to this week, someone who's testing your limits the way you've tested God's. And here's our community question. Looking back at your life, where do you most see God's patience at work? Is there a specific area where he's been especially patient with you? A struggle that's taken years, a pattern that he keeps forgiving, a growth process that's been slower than you would have liked? Your story of God's patience might encourage someone else who's feeling hopeless about their own repeated failures. Don't forget to check out our companion guide for this season that goes deeper into each of the weekly topics. You can find the links to order it in the show notes. Next episode, we're tackling Christianity's most kind of mind-bending doctrine, the idea of the Trinity. How can there be three persons but just one God? I promise we're going to make it understandable, and I'm going to show you why the Trinity isn't just a theological puzzle, but something that challenges and changes your daily life. This one just might blow your mind. Until then, remember, God has not given up on you. And every new day is another chance to respond to his incredible, long-suffering love. Thanks for joining me on Everyday Theology and Plain English. I'm Charlie Miller, and I am so grateful that you're part of this community. I can't wait to continue this journey with you next time.