Some men build fantasies. Some build entire lives. And some build both at the same time – so neatly separated that one half never knows about the other.

In this second part of my journey through the nine need archetypes (the title remains a tribute to Vanessa Eden’s *Why Men Pay 2,000 Euros for One Night* – my slight price increase is due to the passage of time), I meet the Saviour, who calls his wall a liberation. The Self-Discoverer, who reveals a side of himself to me that he is not allowed to show anywhere else. The Pragmatist, who simply skips the whole tedious foreplay of dating. And one final archetype, where I know pretty much exactly what I’m talking about. With real encounters, an uncomfortable detour into the biology of monogamy, and a question from the audience at the end that stayed with me for days afterwards.