Allan&Eve: Marriage Is Not a Game
We are a Christian couple with a heart to see marriages restored and built to last. Our mission is simple: to help couples make it down the aisle and reduce divorce through honest, faith-based conversations. From singleness and dating to marriage, divorce, and remarriage, we’re tackling it all with biblical wisdom and real-life stories.
Allan&Eve: Marriage Is Not a Game
Married but Still Friends With Your Ex? Why Social Media Boundaries Can Make or Break a Marriage.
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Marriage requires mutual respect, boundaries, and accountability—especially when it comes to exes and social media.
If your spouse tells you they are uncomfortable with you remaining friends with an ex, and you ignore them, continue anyway, and expect the marriage to be healthy… that is not love—that is disregard.
You cannot dismiss your partner’s feelings, cross clear boundaries, and then expect peace, trust, and unity in your marriage. That behavior creates confusion, insecurity, and division. A marriage cannot thrive when one spouse chooses their own comfort over their partner’s peace.
This video breaks down:
- Why staying connected to exes while married is inappropriate
- Why “I don’t see an issue” is not a valid excuse
- How ignoring boundaries damages trust
- Why mutual sacrifice is essential in marriage
- The role of respect, unity, and accountability between spouses
Marriage is not about doing whatever you want and asking your partner to “just understand.” Marriage is about honor, oneness, and the protection of the covenant.
Remember, it's Allan & Eve here to help you believe that marriage is not a game!!!