El lado oscuro del crecimiento personal

En este episodio hablamos de una verdad que casi nadie se atreve a decir: el crecimiento personal no siempre se siente expansivo, luminoso o poderoso. A veces se siente como caos, frustración, duelo, confusión y una versión de ti que no reconoces.

Catherine Neri y Eduardo abren una conversación íntima sobre ese lado oscuro del proceso: cuando ya tienes herramientas, conciencia y lenguaje emocional… pero igual caes en el hueco. Hablan de dolor físico, identidad, sensibilidad, relaciones, regulación del sistema nervioso y la presión de querer responder siempre como “tu versión más elevada”.

Este episodio es para quienes están cansados de la espiritualidad superficial y de la autoexigencia disfrazada de evolución. Para quienes quieren dejar de vivir relaciones heredadas, empezar a conversar su verdad y entender que una vida auténtica también requiere aceptar estaciones internas, actualizar acuerdos y humanizar el proceso.

Aquí no romantizamos el sufrimiento, pero tampoco lo negamos. Lo usamos como puerta a conversaciones más honestas, vínculos más conscientes y una vida diseñada con intención.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

La sociedad en la que vivimos nos obliga siempre a estar en verano y en primavera y dale, vende, y sale en las redes sociales, y di lo que sientes, e integra, y di, y todo perfecto. Y es como, no tengo energía para eso.

SPEAKER_00 0:12

El lado oscuro del crecimiento personal, tan tan tan tan tan.

SPEAKER_03 0:17

Va a deshumanizar un poco quienes somos nosotros.

SPEAKER_01 0:20

Es lo más satisfactorio de la vida ando retador. Cuando uno no está consciente de sí mismo y de los otros. Es tan reconfortante para el otro lado saber que no estás bien. No sé quién soy si no estoy logrando algo.

SPEAKER_03 0:53

Porque la vida pasa, pero es desde dónde lo vive y cómo lo vive.

SPEAKER_01 1:01

Hola, hola. Bienvenidos y bienvenidas a un episodio más del Club El 1% Podcast. A ver, bienvenidos y bienvenidas. Vale, me hace demasiado feliz. Yo nada más con el saludo, ya se me subió la frecuencia. Es como que ya empezamos a grabar. Qué rico este episodio.

SPEAKER_00 1:27

Hoy le vamos a hablar de el lado oscuro del crecimiento personal. Tan, tan, tan, tan, tan.

SPEAKER_01 1:37

El lado oscuro del crecimiento personal. ¿Quién no ha estado? Que haya estado en conciencia y ha dicho, ya haya empezado ese proceso que un día dice, cuño a la madre, me hubiese quedado dormido sin tener este nivel de conciencia, porque wow.

SPEAKER_03 1:52

Pero antes de comenzar, yo soy Eduardo Rodríguez. Pueden conseguirme en las redes como Eduardo Rayabajo JRP, apasionado de la comunicación, de la persuasión, and nuestro entorno, el universo y nosotros mismos sí.

SPEAKER_01 2:08

I soy Katherine Neri, psychologist and therapeuta, specialist in trauma, apasionado for ayudaring to connect with support personality, and such a transformation that we have, in a catapulta that we impulses at the crecing and the expansion. This is where you have your version. In the podcast, we have the conversations profundas and intensive for a question and reflexion, and in the membresía, we have the community, the family, the amigos who are transiting retos, transitando experiences, classes, okay, all the information and comparing for the version.

SPEAKER_03 2:58

The community is perfect for this puntually, because it's acompanied when we are in our moment. Definitely a canal that se llama Loops and Blockchains, where we have to compare because in a whole moment we tranca la rueda, and as Kathy, not sort of the version today.

SPEAKER_01 3:20

Entiendo, her man, a meeting me lay the rueda, ya salí del foso, te entiendo.

SPEAKER_03 3:27

Agarrarnos todos la mano en Mercurio Retrogado y que es así o no.

SPEAKER_01 3:33

But no, no, we're going to philosophy hablar until we encantaría leerlos in los comentarios cualquier cosa que ustedes sientan like miércoles, sí. Wow, el crecimiento personal that's the máximo, it's divine, no renunciaría a él. Vale a contar que no renunciaría a estar despierted, no renunciaría tocer consciente. It's the most satisfactory of the beauty and at the same time retador, because it is lucky, contraction and expansion.

SPEAKER_03 4:09

But then when there's something that's a regalito that one says, Conchale, I mean I live. And if I did difficult, because basically if you get dormant and ignorant, the life is a good difficulty.

SPEAKER_01 4:28

I divorced, I don't know what you're doing, dormant literally in a hotel, cinco, okay, but it's not, it's exactly.

SPEAKER_03 4:44

I don't know. I don't know my mom, you know, with the generation of it, okay. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you don't suffer this, and then the reloaded more. 100%, so in the camera personal, and we're liberating that, no, it's not, two years, three weeks, coño, you quit.

SPEAKER_01 5:09

Totally. And then I permit to have conversations, how rich is a conversation profound. O sea, you don't know, always you know, you know that sort of conversations profound. I'm gonna say that I'm gonna evolution, I think the profound has incrementated. But what is a conversation profound and say, I'm telling you, I mean, I don't know, I was this, I said this, and not the superficiality. You know that when one is consciente of him and of the others, when he's in a mess, what does the gentleman is of others? The menganito, the importantito, the beauty of suit, philosophy and others, right? And of retro, and of the regalo of the crecement personality, this is a loss.

SPEAKER_03 5:55

But in fact, this capital trating. Episodio, my amor, episodio. Yeah. Entreguate. Entréguense. No, we're not entregamos. It's because there's another person in the comments episodio. En algún momento colará. Este capítulo es.

SPEAKER_01 6:23

Episodio, mi amor.

SPEAKER_03 6:26

Ya, espérate. Este episodio. Vamos. Este episodio va a dehumanizar un poco quienes somos nosotros, porque muchas personas que nos escuchan, nos escuchan hablar de todos estos temas. No queremos que tengan la ilusión de que aquí tienen a dos seres elevados. No sé, Gandhi. Sí, sí, sí. O sea, a ver, hay muchas cosas que hemos liberado, and esas cosas que hemos liberado se las queremos compartir. Hay muchas frameworks que hemos generado, muchos frameworks que hemos aprendido de terceros que nos compartimos because we ayudan and we signed ayudando. But eso no quiero que decir que de vez en cuando nos estamos in nuestra fósita y nos estamos in nuestro huequito. And justamente ahorita, yo por lo menos estoy in un huecazo. O sea, yo estoy metido ahí de cabeza, así como la vestruiga. Y es horrible porque.

SPEAKER_02 7:33

Cuéntanos de tu huecazo, mi amor. Cuéntanos de tu huequito, ¿vale? ¿Qué te está pasando en este momento? ¿Cuál es tu reto? ¿Cuál es tu sombra, tu oscuridad?

SPEAKER_03 7:42

Pero déjame terminar el puntito, te lo voy a contar, pero es horrible porque cuando estás en esa situation, recuerdas todas las cosas que has aprendido y que has usado para salir del hueco antes, pero simplemente es como una fuerza que es como no quiero salir del puto hueco. Déjame meter en mi hueco.

SPEAKER_01 8:04

Quiero seguirme regocijando en mi miseria.

SPEAKER_03 8:06

Claro, o sea, déjame ser un fucking adicto in my redes sociales. Ya saldré del addiction and serious.

SPEAKER_01 8:17

Claro, but yoento in the world, but at the same time, is consciente that you're in the weeco and it during the weak. For example, the profound Eduardo is a race of super, that you don't have exercises and is encerried and seen impotent, and I'm going to do it. But in this process, the thing is that you know when it will turn, which is what they're saying in the process, there are things in which it is super high, there are in the wheel and say, I don't have the wick, I'm going to go to the wheel, and I'm in my mind, and I'm going to get back, and the second says no, I reflection, I entered, I saw it, and the wake that is, an apprentice.

SPEAKER_03 9:11

But in dude, I think it suffers when you're down, and as Kathy, you operate the life. And this year for me was a retool of calistenia, and I said, Wow, you will be positions avancing of calistenia, a mozzarella, which are things that not have the 1% of the population, which is part of, for those who are in the capital of the philosophy, trying to expose it in the possibility to have things that not have the 1% of the population for end converter in this person who is the 1% that is extraordinary. But compro those, and the aguanto. The operation says that in three months is listening, but the operation in the umbrella and the resonance, this, and this, no, I can't regulate it. And then I said, There were three months, but sorry, there are three months. And so it has a surprise and there are days that I said this is my reality, I think. What I'm going to do, and I'm like a physiotherapy, and I said, I don't know in this place where I'm sorry, there's more time. So when there are things that are easy, that you don't control, which is usually where there are much apprentices, like Kathy said, it's difficult. And so there are days in which I simply are the best, and I'm the person, there are things that I characterized, or something like much priority in my life, and I'm super grinch and I'm sensible.

SPEAKER_01 11:35

I'm super sensible, my gordoal, it's very sensible.

SPEAKER_03 11:38

I'm super sensible, I was on Iker.

SPEAKER_01 11:56

Aparte no, but we can see that all passes for me. And obviously, I don't want to say that I'm destructive, nothing, but it also is in such a little bit. You accostonella, he was a Iker at the football, you know, the reto, Iker, like typical frustration of a kid, and you know that I'm Eduardo, I'm escuching in the bank, but I started, and I think my papa is in conflict and I entered what I was saying.

SPEAKER_02 12:37

And I mean in my life, my papa.

SPEAKER_01 12:40

Claro, I'm crazy existential. And you're a officer of Eduardo, Eduardo X se puso a officer, to juggle, estaba frustrando, and you go, mi amor, cuéntame what genuinely for intervention in the situation. A la mierda Iker, no joda. No quiero una mierda, no.

SPEAKER_03 13:05

Nunca in my life.

SPEAKER_01 13:06

Nunca, nunca. But it never did Iker.

SPEAKER_03 13:10

Okay, it was encerried.

SPEAKER_01 13:12

But the name was that you dije, mi amor, I said what they happen to Iker. Claro, you're mega frustrated. Yo le dije, bueno, está en mi amor. But then one of the important things that we're saying demand, and I said, It's like when I say, amor, I'm gonna have a regard, you mean, my amount, estoy super sensible. Yo, I'm gonna go deliver, déjà me apoyarlo. And then me dijo, and when you violate, mierda, yo voy a resolver this, no? Al baño, y ahí está en la situation, a hablar con Iker, y luego se volvió ahí. Y luego me venía y volví ahí.

SPEAKER_03 13:44

No, me metí en la en la bañera.

SPEAKER_01 13:48

Pero ahí dándote cosas para salir regular, o sea, como que al principio fue de una. Por eso, pero te lo quiero reconocer.

SPEAKER_03 13:54

Nunca en la vida, pero déjame. Claro. Me metí en la bañera, que agua caliente así.

SPEAKER_01 14:01

O sea, el primero se fue a evadir.

SPEAKER_04 14:03

Claro.

SPEAKER_01 14:03

Cuando yo le dije, entró in conscience. Pero no le dije como que sale aquí ni nada. Le dije, coño, ¿y qué le está pasando esto? Él entró in conscience. No le dije nada, fui con Igor. Él solito fue intervenir, and then se dio cuenta que no tenía la capacidad de intervenir and she retires lentamente. So that instead of evadir, coño, me regular. And fuiste a la bañera. De repente you entered to vapor, can you cantando el baño top oscuro?

SPEAKER_02 14:34

Yes, it's regular.

SPEAKER_01 14:38

I le cuesta hablar, and my escribed al papa. And I escribed a car to always say y todo se arregló. Aparte de que se escucha la carta y te juro, papá, that was desde la molestia.

SPEAKER_03 14:56

No, no, no, no, no, no me dijo que te voy a hasta las 9.15. Lo que dijo was, mira, fue desde la molestia y tal. Perdóname, me gustaría hablar with you. If there's my quarter, if you're afterwards and if no quieres hablar, lo entiendo. But if you quieres hablar, then hasta las 9.15 because it's dormant, avisame what you're tranquilo.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

I should go with attention, Inger. Con attention, Inger. Aparte los hieroglíficos de la carta, super coach y la letra Ingel.

SPEAKER_01 15:32

But well, okay, al final. See, it's heavy, no is a color de luz, no lo sabemos resolver, there are crisis, but dentro of the crisis, what is regular, and at the same time, Iker estaba frustrated, se met su baño, se reguló, and you mandate su cartica.

SPEAKER_03 15:50

Sí, vale, demasiado bello. O sea, es que de verdad hay miles de apprendizages, but no es el objetivo del capítulo, pues. Pero del episodio.

SPEAKER_02 16:00

Me encantas joderte con eso. Es que.

SPEAKER_04 16:04

No, no, no, no, no. Te lo tiraste doble.

SPEAKER_03 16:10

Entonces, sí, o sea, cuando pasan cosas in the way that you asked esa inercia que we have, tenías ese effecto complexo, todas things that we have heard, the intentions, el contexto. And there are things that simply the life passes and teaches a prueba. And in those days, in verdict me has ayudding much.

SPEAKER_01 16:38

Dentro de este foso, I think it has been a great emotional for me, this reto physical, because my life gets already delivered, and my social gets already delivered. The other day I felt a pase a Rocky, al Perdrito, and I was an hour caminando, and I was muriendo el dolor. Imagine that.

SPEAKER_03 17:23

And it's clear, this is my essence, this is what I'm saying, and romper what I'm saying is. But there's a moment to take this decision and I'm gonna say the gymnasium, which is one of the ayudas, but I don't have the decision. So these days after this decision and the wicket, because effectively when you travel and has had the process and has this kind of herbs, the probabilities that you send are infinitely. Most of that is what I started, what time you have to drive a tips to be, which I think is one of the appends. Recoge ahí, recoge ahí, recoge ahí.

SPEAKER_02 18:56

Ay, que te la vale.

SPEAKER_01 18:58

Ajá. Todavía tengo el susto. Vale. Ajá, que este episodio no solamente es humanizarnos a Eduardo y a mí en el proceso, sino humanizarse a ustedes mismos andanos in su proceso de crecimiento personal. Because vas a elegir a la larga la versión más elevada de ti, vas a responder, vas a pedir perdón, vas a hacer la conclusion and the apprentice, but then experimentar the emotion that has sent, the frustration of that exercise, the delor of the brother. Tienes que permitirs experimentally the emotion that at the final is to experiment your humanity. And when I was of this, I recorded that one of my amigos when I was on a process of duel of a relation of parent, I decided you had this, I divorciated, okay, I was and say that I'm going to sit. But the coach is in the mierda, okay, human, insult, I don't know what I was doing for. Everything was full, what I tried to cotacy.

SPEAKER_03 20:56

If you see a depression, if you want to be tristed, no, no, I don't do that. I don't do that, a me no means, I try to do it to me, but I don't mean it was nothing, and so if I try to do it, I'm going to occur like, because I don't do that, and then I'm with the pelea, and there's a city of.

SPEAKER_01 21:12

And when I'm in person, because if I say that it's not and I try to do it, the problem is yours, it's two. And you recuerdo that you said super personal. And I said, My amor, it's funny because I'm yours, okay, what's happening? And I recuered that one means that if I think you have to admire me. Y wow, o sea, es tan reconfortante para el otro lado saber que no estás bien andas no estoy bien and no sé qué carrizo me pasa.

SPEAKER_03 22:09

Sí, y es arrecho, ¿no? Because it's algo que has pasado muchas veces ando. Entonces, fíjate, the other day means that you just passed with the situation, so you know that you're going to de la mañana, but no estoy.

SPEAKER_01 22:33

And Kathy me dijo that it was that we're context, I'm describing that and the noche, and certain things that we have put for this routine ayuda to do it. And you are my morning person, Edu knows. And Edu is more night person, and so it's more faster than the routine of the noise, to me, it's more faster than the routine of the mail.

SPEAKER_03 23:11

And what I wanted to do is one that's automatically. If you don't super inflow in the camera, I can send my camera.

SPEAKER_01 23:22

Totally. And in this experiment, the frustration of the library and a fashion, he said, I'm with all the routine of the morning, and I'd be my partner in this, and I think that it went, I'm the typical person who the house that I left the cortisol, the river blanket for it, and I was a day after my palators, obviously, since he was in fashion, being very durable like I'm with me with him, I said my amor, okay, I didn't. I'm deception. I'm deception because I'm sorry, and who was sensible, turned the picture, or obviously. I didn't know and I said, No, in fact, I tried from the way you try to meet with dure, and we're going to learn, and we are like, but we are in a little bit distinct because the two knows what it is.

SPEAKER_03 24:53

It's automatic. Yeah, it's like no, no, no, this is not applicable with this group, but with the 1%, that we are with the same uh philosophies and the same conversations, it's different, all passive, compared to the loops.

SPEAKER_01 25:22

What is this other low oscuro?

SPEAKER_03 25:24

A ver, cuéntanos tu, cuéntanos.

SPEAKER_01 25:28

Ah, to my low oscuro in this moment. No, no, you know that one of the things that happens when you personal is that you've got the low oscuro, okay, the ability to be those two things. My low oscuro in this moment is that I don't know what I'm saying. Okay, I don't know, I mean I have much of the retirement, with all that in the episode in terms of dinner with much, and I did that if I do. Okay, like I sort of create, avancer, to stay at the life. And I don't know what I'm saying if I'm not. I'm going to learn certain things that I want, but not because I cost because I don't have force of voluntary, but I'm questioning if I elegant me or things that are the society, and so it's like if I disfruct the life, in fact I didn't arrange, but I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_03 26:52

This year, for situations external that we're talking about what I was saying in the X and Z, in fact, it has been an year of introspection. We were with the psychodelic, and now we're a little fun of this. When you have this, in fact, it's like a study, it's a lot, it's like we don't have the year the club, what you say, that's what we try more. And so we're more at the dental, and so it's like okay, no, you can't because I don't want to vendor. And so the clear.

SPEAKER_01 27:38

If we were in this moment, in oven and year, and I think that the society in which we obligate to be in the verano and in primavera, and there are social and say what you say, integrates, and it's perfect. And it's like I have energy for this. And my focus not in strategies of events, it's in how internally. And I think that was super, and this we were saying, we are integrating in this moment in vegetables, so we have to. And basically, if we're going to say in the year, the year was an awesome year of much. So, you should say, the a year was in the maximum splendor, creating videos, creating, creating resources, creating. And this year is. Okay, we're going to create raíces for creating. If you reflection, we're avancing demo this year, okay, the name of conscience, the nice crecement, but today it's a crecement internal, it's more of raíces. Today we are exteriorizing, and it's okay. It's okay.

SPEAKER_02 31:39

Incredible.

SPEAKER_03 31:39

Okay, unfortunately, we could comparate, of course, dealing.

SPEAKER_01 32:24

But we have to create in the world internal.

SPEAKER_03 32:27

And permítanme invitation, like I invited, to the Club. And we have super win, super high, and this is empowered, and we're in my maximum. Then we pass on our chimp, we're peleando, we're seeing our somebody and guard or see where it's with curiosity and trying to get something. And we are on all of it.

SPEAKER_01 33:28

For people, for people philosophy, for our version. And we can go to the reading social media like EduardoRayita, Katy.ner or Club del Uno Official. If you're gonna do this video, get a like and envío to this person who is atraves the other, who is frustrated, or says who is, and is this who commented and compared, compartan el episode that siempre es reconfortarte para alarma escuchar esto. Les mandamos un beso enorme. Espero que les haya gustado el video and nos vemos in un próximo episodio. Chao, chao.