¿Tu relación está apagada? Mira cómo puedes encenderla

La mayoría de las parejas no terminan por falta de amor. Terminan porque dejaron de jugar, de sorprenderse y de actualizar la relación.

En este episodio del Club del 1%, Catherine y Eduardo hablan sobre una de las amenazas más silenciosas de las relaciones modernas: la monotonía emocional, sexual y energética.

Hablan de cómo una relación puede verse “estable” por fuera, pero sentirse desconectada por dentro. Y de por qué el juego, la curiosidad y las conversaciones incómodas pueden devolverle vida a una pareja que cayó en piloto automático.

Desde sexualidad consciente, fantasías, diversión y citas distintas… hasta cómo crear experiencias memorables con tus hijos, aprender cosas nuevas juntos y dejar de vivir desde la rutina heredada.

Este episodio no se trata de “hacer más”. Se trata de diseñar una vida y una relación que realmente se sientan tuyas.

Porque el 1% no vive relaciones heredadas. Las conversa, las actualiza y las elige constantemente.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

Qué divertido ver a la gente un poco incómoda, súper divertido hablar de sexo porque a la gente no le gusta hablar de sexo y está bú, entonces qué divertido ver a la gente un poco incómoda.

SPEAKER_00 0:07

Tengo unos clientes que vienen a terapia de pareja. Ellos decían como que, coño, esa ya no es lo mismo, las salidas no son iguales y divertidas o lo que sea. Y son buenísimas. Pero fue más divertido, como niños, jugar a y jugar ese juego. En el sexo podemos hacer lo mismo.

SPEAKER_01 0:21

Hay muchas respuestas. No va a haber nunca una sola respuesta para nada de la vida. Explora el juego.

SPEAKER_00 0:26

No hay excusa. El tema es el deseo de querer en verdad hacer cosas diferentes, de apalancarte de las personas que ya han recorrido eso, de probar cosas nuevas, de decir si a tantas personas les gusta eso porque a mí no me gusta. Seguramente no le gustaba mi versión de hace 10 años atrás, pero la de hoy le voy a dar la oportunidad y te gozas la vida. Porque no queremos que lo reciban como que, oh, Eduardo y Katherine son los que tienen la respuesta de todo. No, no, no. Muy humanamente, muy experimentalmente llegamos a esto. Hola, hola. Bienvenidos y bienvenidas a un episodio más del Club El 1% Podcast. Ahí le vamos dando nuevos giros a esa presentación, según el mood de Eduardo. Bueno, bienvenidos al episodio de hoy. Hoy les vamos a hablar sobre la monotonía y cómo levitarla en la vida. O sea, cómo no caemos en monotonía, sobre todo en el tema de pareja, de cómo nos divertimos más y creo que también individualmente. En todo, en todo. Sí. O sea, cómo no caemos en la monotonía aburrida y nos divertimos. Que la vida sea acerca de divertirse, de disfrutar, no solo de alcanzar, que es importante, de avanzar, que es mega importante, pero de disfrutar del proceso. Entonces aquí les vamos a ir comprando como que nuestros hacks. But antes de entrar, aquí Eduardo Rodríguez.

SPEAKER_01 1:58

Anderi, Katy.Neri en las redes sociales.

SPEAKER_00 2:04

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SPEAKER_01 3:27

They're in the lista that you can, haciendo.

SPEAKER_00 3:34

Así es. Entonces, Eduardo Rodríguez, como te dice una amiga, Ducksonator. Ustedes saben cómo salió el tema de Cateuska. One day I in my postparto, Antonella, I was in crisis existence, I said that the homes campaign before integrations in the personality, and you said, I mean, like my race. And the pelucar me la pint in negro, and aparte me lay like Snape, the Harry Potter. And when I went to Eduardo, Katiuska. And then I said, I did this. Aunque I'm young with my pillow and my color, I'm Katiuska.

SPEAKER_01 4:16

Katiuska forever. Santi debería ponerles una photo of Snape.

SPEAKER_00 4:21

No, horrible.

SPEAKER_01 4:22

Atrévete, Kateus. Yo se las voy a poner.

SPEAKER_00 4:25

Santi, pónsela, pero es horrible. Pero bueno. A ver, la monotonía. ¿Qué sientes tú que es monotonía? ¿Qué palabras dirías? Hagamos el oídito que hemos hecho en algunos episodios. ¿Qué palabras dirías que te hacen decir, mierda, estoy en monotonía?

SPEAKER_01 4:43

Rutina.

SPEAKER_00 4:46

Lane.

SPEAKER_01 4:50

Cero creatividad.

SPEAKER_00 4:53

Desconexión.

SPEAKER_01 4:58

Cero innovación.

SPEAKER_00 5:01

Automático. Aburrimiento.

SPEAKER_01 5:05

Cero diversión.

SPEAKER_00 5:06

Aburrimiento. De verdad, todo lo positivo, cero.

SPEAKER_01 5:09

Claro, porque vamos para lo positivo.

SPEAKER_00 5:11

Ya.

SPEAKER_01 5:12

En la cara así del como el equalizer de los sonidos y que cero.

SPEAKER_00 5:16

Claro. A ver, y es que hay una línea muy delgada when in verdad, o sea, por ejemplo, yo que soy una persona who's high achiever, who me gonna consider things, that action for me is the problem. It's more facilitating to monotony, you know? Of course, the niggas, the command, the data, and they're curious, and three seminars.

SPEAKER_01 5:46

And the thing is that the final year, many of the problems that we wanted, if you put it in essence, they are small. So take a routine that facilitates X, X of the time, X of the Right in the top where you are is super positive. So I think the problem is not revisiting and not being pending of okay what we're doing and what intention.

SPEAKER_00 6:08

And the disbalance, because I think that much that when we put methods, we have this vision board, no séquence, put it to it, but no, much in those vision boards or in those cards of manifestation, you don't pull how you can see you in the process of it. This is my meta, that you can't $50 mensually disfrutando, compartment with my family, in connection with my kids, in presence, with stress. It's distinct.

SPEAKER_01 6:50

And at the final year, fíjate that what I did the poor intention and the poor planification, because when you say okay, I'm gonna get $50, not in three years, this is a vaina, and you have to say, and I don't have any space to come. And then usually, no, that's two 15 minutes, 20, this planification intentional and conjunct with what you say, which is the filter of this ser that we are constructed and of what I want to do, is it more facilitating? But like I said, in fact, much important is revisiting.

SPEAKER_00 7:39

But you can see a parenthesis. No, yeah, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_03 7:58

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 7:58

And for this, I'm gonna put it in context. For that episode in a little bit different, because we don't think that we receive them like oh, Eduardo and Katherine are those who have the response to that. No, no, no, very human, very experimentally, we go to this, and we listen a travel delor to not be in X punto, de la búsqueda, and in ese calibrage llegamos. Entonces, para ponerlos en contexto, but personality, yo soy una persona que para mí no se me hace fácil action. O sea, you action by one, creo, avanzo, tengo que trabajar, trabajo extra, o sea, como que en el hacer no es un problema. My reto, for muchas años, and that gracias a Dios, and much to be with you and this, it was disfrutar of my process, and Edu is very good creating processes, structures, your reto is to avanz, get those passes, because he priorized much your liberty and your diversion. So for many times we had a conflict with him about how I do and create to put in my diversion and my liberty. And Eduardo, which is one of the things that we asked in my life, it's like, okay, if you do the video, there's my diversion. A part of the deport, apartment. So it came in an insight that the diversion is one part in my life, and in the meeting and in the others, and it was, but it's always so pegged with this diversion that it's like no, that's other history of life like the me, for example, we have more at the end to have a lot. So with this insight, cuent. Okay, what does you have to do with this that you move that has been?

SPEAKER_01 9:55

When you have a thing that we're talking about the monkey, it's like zero reads social, zero Netflix, zero, because we're full of work and we have to take things a little bit. Obviously, it's probably that we're a monotonia, but it's a monotonia sane, because the decided with conscience. I think the problem of the monotonia is the monotonia per se, but it's the monotonia involuntary, for you know, it's the that and you know what is, and it explodes for a line, explodes for stress, explodes for a own, explodes for bread, explodes in much, and my life is super monotony. So, this is the license that I said. And with respect to what you said, this journey has been a little bit of autoconocement, and in this auto-connectivity, trying to duplicate esforces in the things that I have failed and trying to meet things that are not so good, like for example the action, like you said, I think that one of my life was the diversity, from the diversity, because he's venezolana. So I wonder, for example, at the moment that I was creating, we had a primary who was a little bit like the rapid, and it was like no, I mean me with the viewers, and you don't tomorrow today, but me siento ahí con ellos, habla de la vida, de los negocios, de la vaina. And yo dije, manico, si hay una pelota, no me dieron. O sea, no me dieron nunca, o sea, nunca me van a ver. Entonces, claro, en este conocimiento me doy cuenta that the vida surge, sube el tono in responsibility a medida que vas creciendo, obvio. Hijos, vainas, one of things, and things that for me are necessary, como ser. And, for example, for me, you know that those different of kids. And it's very difficult to consider a nigga, no le gusta jugar. And just the point of the realization, that is why juggle is something of what you can apalancar seriously for romper the monotony. And we're going to expand in this thing and live in multiple facets, but it's in general the takeaway that such obviously, but you don't know that in the way that we're going to learn it's like, it's not true. You don't work in this area of my life. For example, in the area sexual, that's an area that you can talk about. So, yeah, how is your relation sexual? Coño, es que siempre is monótono.

SPEAKER_00 12:43

Claro, que si siempre is misionero, siempre, you have 17 years with this person, and the relationships are very parecida. But if you met this component, you think the plus, the tratami, that's curiosity. O sea, the curiosity in the area that in your life, for example, if you text fastidia of your relationships and disconectada, okay, why do you?

SPEAKER_01 13:20

No, no. No, vale, fue buen chiste.

SPEAKER_00 13:29

No. Ok, ajá. Entonces, yo jugaba full con ella, uh, por ejemplo, se hacíamos a jugar a que, no sé, yo me llamo Patricia y estoy casada con no sé quiéncito, y tengo dos hijos, ando en no sé qué, y yo describía anda como que el perfil de mi avatar in this video, igual my prima, and you describía tal, and we passengres, o sea, I mean my casa and jugamos, and we pass one hour another doing an avatar, and después, 30 minutes and juggling. What you do with the sexuality? Ceci y yo, my prima and yours, we have like Catherine and Cecilia the work, but it was more diverse as nibbles jug at creators a person distinct and ago. In the sex, we can see the same, imaginatively. Let me say to my parents that my friend, imagine that I'm fulanista de tal and I connect in no done, and we're in a fantasy sexual and imaginative that excites demo. O sea, for example, to me, this is something that I'm gonna full, like imagination and create roleplays in the case. Okay, we are the two, and he went on, you want to emotional, I agree with. For example, it's a type of work that does the sexuality, which will desperate demo your relationship.

SPEAKER_01 14:54

I don't know what was the inventory who created like juguetes sexual.

SPEAKER_00 14:59

What?

SPEAKER_01 15:00

Because in fact the vaina is super diverse.

SPEAKER_00 15:03

Super divertido.

SPEAKER_01 15:04

Super divertida, exactly.

SPEAKER_00 15:09

It's clear, there's emotion because it's a lot of sexuality, comparing juguetes, okay, vibradors, there are millions, okay, there are a million dollars. Depends on what you gotta do.

SPEAKER_01 15:24

Now we have nuestra gavet. Ya tenemos que, ya están creciendo, ya tenemos que tener un lugar más seguro.

SPEAKER_00 15:36

Sí, sí, sí, sí. Y Everdino no lo mentira, entonces yo le podía decir, ya va, Everdio no le mentimos, entonces nosotros no le podíamos decir que es cualquier cosa. O sea, le iba a decir the verdict, but no le voy a decir the word. This is a masajeador, yes.

SPEAKER_01 15:57

This was a wave of my infancy with my friend. When I was at the house of my abuela, my abola had always dildo. And revistas, Ivana, that's the thing of the epoch of the revival.

SPEAKER_00 16:12

My abuela is very avancing in the epoch, bad.

SPEAKER_01 16:16

And my ego era to encontra it.

SPEAKER_00 16:26

No, and you escape hasta in the tanker, Ziploc.

SPEAKER_01 16:32

And we encontrar.

SPEAKER_00 16:42

And it was a vibration. The abuela of Eduardo me screwed on Instagram, and that else. But for example, it's like, there's the fantasies, the thing of the juguetes, email. Now we have competed, there are those who used one day and provide, and ya no nos gusta much, and there are others who are the favourites, okay, they're using, and you mean, and the other, and we track a situation. Other things that have demoted the niche. Yo, for example, me disfrazada full. O sea, that if I so I'm the princess, no sé qué cosa, or otra cosa. Disfrazate in the sexuality, cómprate una peluquita, cómprate un traje, o sea, otra cosa distinto, and I juro, I think that you can dare bochorno because nobody's me done a little bit of pin, but they're demo divertido. Irte a comprar la peluca, irte a comprar el traje, my amor, traje this, we're gonna juggle, it's super divertible, it's super diverse.

SPEAKER_01 17:59

And I juro that obviously the thing sexual encodes, it's super diverse to learn of sex, because the people don't give a sex and it's divertido that the gentleman a little bit incomoda. It's brutal. But it transcends the sex. And we disfrazas to the nib, bromas, and disfrazed and gozaste. Because apart the cocinero that's like, 'That's me, Mario,' no sé qué, no te entendés italiano, no te hablando de la noche, no estamos hablando in personajes in the mesa. There are things that are tight, but completely. And the scenas ambient in your car.

SPEAKER_00 19:02

Entonces te mueres de la risa con los niñitos hablando mexicano, con el acento that no has a good idea with the mexican, but they're intent. Pusiste la canción de Coco of the Pelican Mexican and cantaste and te reviste, and commiste mexican. This is something that you have demo, tus hijos lo van a pasar demasiado bien, and no se los va a olvidar ninguno, and that te acuerdas del día mexicano.

SPEAKER_01 19:21

Claro, it's like those areas of the life where you send that there's monotonia, the simply divertido, and it's an antídot incredible of the monotonía.

SPEAKER_00 19:36

And for example, I think I'm not that there are one that when I have patients, I'm gonna say that they're in therapy of parents that they said, 'cause that's the mean, the people are not equally diverse or what you see. And when one embedded indague, and I think I was culpable, when you dating with alguien, you always don't talk, but I do a copy. Or the time, and they're bailing, and bailes and divertes, because they surprised by the other person, because they abreste, because I was that when I was with all of those builds, miércoles, I don't know if this escuched, but no, I've got my buy to that. And one of the ayuda much is that in the cure parajes of our quarters, there are no podemos because the niche no tenemos con quién dejar los X. So agarramos, pone la television, cantamos karaoke, nos servimos una copita de vino, si no quieres tomar, anda te gusta, no sé, fumar, fumar, no sé. O sea, como que abrirte tocando algo distinto que harías tal vez in una scena jodiendo con tus amigos because no lo haces con tu pareja, or that lo harías con un nuevo date because no lo haces con tu pareja. Entonces es demasiado distinto when incorporas because she aminoras and relaja el ambiente. O sea, después de ese traguito, después de que se fumaste, después que se lo que sea, she se sienta very distinto, sabes, and conectas in a little bit different, there are other conversations, te ríes, no sé qué. And you say, trae this, comprehensive, I'm going to juggle these cartas that are like preguntas and lay distinct.

SPEAKER_01 21:30

Otherwise, super important to acot, and the music, because 18 years was created, and they present certain opportunities, and they have present certain opportunities and expuesto to call it, and those things has experienced, and these experiences seem convertible in the personality that you create. But realmente, if you exponented, puedes sorprenderte de considerar. For example, when I say, this is of this year, that you put in this way that I did, I'm going to cut it.

SPEAKER_00 22:15

No, I can't more.

SPEAKER_01 22:16

No, clear, but in this moment, two years, one year and a year, I don't know absolutely nothing. And I joded because my mother came, and I joded like Paola, for the moment I did the canton, but in the journey I did that really count. Hot take. Okay, those countries. I don't want to say that those are Adele, but those countries. It's a question that the broma is an instrument and talk. And so I lanced in this journey of a pico cantando, and Catherine saw this much exposed to the who had in your life, and a little bit, we're going to cant in the line. And now it converted, and now the new that we have comments is converted in capable of appending to talk about guitar. But at that we have anything. And so this is juggling. It's exponential to things and dark, tercer opportunity, and I dismissed anything. Deported. No, you nunca fui deportista. Capaz hay un.

SPEAKER_00 23:50

No es que darte con is that you are. Essas son las palabras limitantes of the idea. No es que yo soy así, no es que a mí no me gusta leer. But for example, the mother said, No, it's not you don't learn, but you say, Talvez no te has leaded a little bit that you gotta leave, it's like me does it. Well, if you have swagger the Odisea in the college, or 100 years of solid. But what does it mean if you learn a life? I have various to recommend it. That's one. Also that a me divierte much at the adult, I emailed the lecture and I empected much at the crecimiento personnel and it's cool and I am, but there's a part of the lecture that you never discovered that were the novels erotic. And they're built, okay, trying to camp the thing and Catherine vuelve the sex. Lo siento, it's like I encourage this thing. But I think I think that it's something that has been for me, always for me that you masturbate at the 11 years, it's like normal, it's like the sex is part of my life, and I'm here all the days and for me this is. I don't know what I was about to do, what I mean, I mean innovation for other things. And so when I empected sexually, when I email the juguetes sexual, when I empty what I'm talking about, okay, it was like revelation totally. I'm gonna hear it because it's like amiga, date, no tienes to quedate ahí.

SPEAKER_01 25:31

No, no, si nos conoces in the world real, a me no me gonna have sex because we have sex because we divert. Nos divertes, the gente no le gusta hablar de sex, entonces is the moment that conoces more.

SPEAKER_00 25:42

A part of it's a thing that normally is like I'm demasiado monotonous with my pareja, and so elder who conform with that and ya amount to my equipped pareja that don't have much sex divertido, or busco for fucking. So tienes que traer juegos nuevos. If you todos los días juegas monopolio, qué ladilla.

SPEAKER_01 26:13

Y eso es que buen ejemplo, porque sobre todo el monopolio, mierda. Se hace larguito el monopolio, ¿no?

SPEAKER_00 26:18

Exacto, se hace súper ladilla y ya estás a mitad del juego y dices, ay, quiero que se acabe, ¿sabes? Y después te ladillo tanto que dices, ya yo no juego monopolio.

SPEAKER_01 26:26

Eso, eso también pasa full. O sea, como que pruebas una actividad una sola vez, por eso decía antes probarlo dos, tres, y sobre todo se ha pasado una década. Yo si no se ha probado, pasado una década, tienes que volver a probar todo. Total. Porque eso, tienes una mala experiencia y ya se te quedó esa conexión cerebral de que no, esto es una cagada, no me gusta.

SPEAKER_00 26:42

Claro. Por ejemplo, a mí no me gusta el monopolio, pero de repente salió una versión nueva de Monopolio que es del de cartas y me encanta.

SPEAKER_01 26:50

Pruélo, Monopolio de Cartas.

SPEAKER_00 26:52

Claro. O por ejemplo, descargarse en el celular. Hay una application que se llama Verdad Sexual, que es súper buena. El perro. But well, at the final area esas ideas. Pero estábamos hablando cuando estábamos hablando del podcast, and there are examples that you decía, in the sexual Eduardo decía, bueno, eso también with the paternity, slash maternity. For example, the other day we were at the Cajun with a group of. It was super diverse. It was a lot of people.

SPEAKER_01 28:00

And this rompew the broma. But not all you don't know where. Well, considering that he says.

SPEAKER_00 28:09

And I'm going to add this cajon de chame, which just when we had the activity in the river, we did, I'm going to come with pizza. And Eduardo said that all the things of the alimentability in my life, with all the Iker, the gluten, and no séquence, siempre hemos sido super strictly, but desde hace un poco nos estamos flexibilizando for this, for divertirnos, for that no quiero decir that we're going to come a commercial mierda. No, but we invited a command pizza. And we're like, ¿será que vamos a conocer? Android was like, no, o sea, vamos a comer pizza with ellos, and if they cause maladic, le damos su broma, yo me tomo mi broma. And we terminó una pizza de masamadre que nos cayó bueno, a little bit spectacular, super sencillo, but with a montagna bellísima, that no we hubiésemos visto if no nos hubiésemos adversando top and to jugar, a divertirnos. Los niñitos terminaron, terminamos y una montaña, and we corrected into ellos, super bien. So, really, the monotonía don't think that you have to move to Paris, that you have to camp of relation, that just with your parents nothing, that no sufficient dinner, because by the way, this via super barat, the thing of the carnet, gasoline, okay, yeah. But the house is the first time.

SPEAKER_01 29:53

This capital is a piece.

SPEAKER_00 30:42

Hazlo como tengo, ¿sabes? Pones en Alexa o en YouTube lo que sea, la música mexicana, le dices, niño, vamos a hacer hoy. Una ambientación mexicana, le pintas unos bigotes, y empiezas a hablar, tatá, no sé qué, ¿no?

SPEAKER_01 30:56

Te lo amarras aquí, una camisa de esas de salir si tienes de cuadrito, culo y si no tienes el cuadrito, lo que sea, y ya.

SPEAKER_00 31:02

Y el acento mexicano. Exacto. ¿Qué más? 100%.

SPEAKER_01 31:07

Pero bueno, muchísimas gracias. ¿Quieres decir algo más?

SPEAKER_00 31:12

No, que espero que lo pongan en práctica y que la vida sea más divertida, es lo que más les deseo a todos, porque para eso estamos aquí, para vivir y divertirnos, para hacer nuestra mejor versión, sí, mientras nos divertimos.

SPEAKER_01 31:23

Porque jugar también is del 1%.

SPEAKER_00 31:25

Porque jugar también. Claro, 100%, porque una vida del 1% es una vida que se divierte. Total, sí, no. No es que trabajas 247, no respiras, no haces nada, solo alcanzar a alcanzar a trabajar, trabajar, trabajar. No.

SPEAKER_01 31:42

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SPEAKER_00 32:25

So if you quieres serve del 1% and vivir una vida distinta, métete en el club del 1%, nuestra membresía, que es una cosa espectacular, and that abarcamos todo. Abarcamos el tema de las relaciones, abarcamos el tema de la comunicación, abarcamos el tema de la salud, porque tú no puedes ser una persona del 1% in animal and tus otras áreas ser una mierda. O sea, it's algo que tiene que ser un conjunto. O sea, tú vas creciendo tus differentas áreas, tengo una relación, voy construyendo una relación que se diferencia, voy construyendo unas financias que se diferencian, voy construyendo una salud that se diferencia, and ahí terminas siendo una persona extraordinaria. Entonces, si esto llama tu atención, te esperamos dentro del club. Que tengan lindo día ando en un próximo episodio.

SPEAKER_01 33:05

No olviden suscribirse, darle like, compartir este episodio con una persona que sientan que está cayendo en monotonía. Me pueden conseguir en las redes sociales como Eduardo Rayabajo Jr.

SPEAKER_00 33:16

Y a mí como Katy.nery.

SPEAKER_01 33:18

Y en todas las redes oficiales, al Club del Uno Oficial.

SPEAKER_00 33:21

Que tengan lindo día, un besito. Chao, chao. Chao, chao.