Nunca le digas NO a tu pareja

¿Y si el problema no es tu pareja… sino la forma en la que se responden?

La mayoría de las relaciones viven atrapadas entre límites mal comunicados, deseos reprimidos y conversaciones que nunca ocurren. Nos enseñaron a pedir permiso, a adaptarnos para no incomodar y a creer que amar es limitar partes de nosotros para que la relación funcione.

Pero una relación auténtica no se construye desde el “no”. Se construye desde el “¿cómo sí?”.

En este episodio hablamos sobre cómo transformar tu relación en un espacio donde ambos puedan crecer, expandirse y sentirse libres sin dejar de sentirse equipo. Desde dinero y proyectos personales hasta sexualidad, deseos incómodos y acuerdos que necesitan actualizarse.

Porque el problema no es cambiar, es pretender que tu relación nunca tenga que evolucionar contigo.

Si sientes que tu relación se volvió logística, si te cuesta hablar de lo que realmente quieres o si tienes miedo de que tu pareja te limite… este episodio te va a confrontar.

Las relaciones extraordinarias no aparecen.
Se conversan. Se diseñan. Se eligen.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_03 0:00

Tu pareja realmente puede ser la persona que más te limita en el mundo or te potencia.

SPEAKER_01 0:05

Muchas veces hay cosas que te pide tu pareja that no se trata de que le digas que sí siempre anda. Hay cosas en las que tú, como persona, pues genuinamente no puedes, pero no tienes por qué amarrar a tu pareja because you can do this. Entonces yo le dije, ¿tú querías darle un beso a la familia?

SPEAKER_03 0:22

And the final yeah is this.

SPEAKER_01 0:23

You no firmaste it in piece. O sea, hablamos. And the episode of hoy is in front of this. O sea, ¿cómo podemos hackear for that this no ocurra, for that your pareja no sea until you te sientas limited, sino a puedes sentir too? You nunca quiero sentir que Eduardo no puede hacer algo because he's con me and I quiero hacer esto.

SPEAKER_03 0:42

Lo que pasa es que nosotros estamos pensando que un límite sano siempre es decir que no, y no es verdad.

SPEAKER_01 0:51

Hola, hola! Bienvenidos y bienvenidas a un episodio nuevo del Club del 1% Podcast. Hola, hola. Hoy traemos un episodio interesante. Siento que primero va con el tema de las parejas, ¿sí? A veces creemos que, organificas, creen que pareja te hace sentir limited, libertad, tu vida no es la misma, because in pareja a nivel negativo inquiette limited to be. And the episode of this, okay, why we are so queen occurring, so that your pareja no season a little bit where you send limited, but a little bit where you can explore, evolution, because if we apunt to that season a large play, no of hour of 10 years. So the pareja will be this way that you can evolution.

SPEAKER_03 1:51

Nunca digas no to your parents.

SPEAKER_01 1:54

This is the hot take. Nunca le digas no to your parents, and so the episode of hoy. But an entry in the Katherine Neri and I'm going to get the redes sociales like Katy.ner, so I psychologist, therapeuta, apasion of crecimiento personality, especially in trauma, in embodiment, in transformation of patrons for a campaign profundamente in the race and creating a lot different.

SPEAKER_03 2:31

And apart experto en crianza, because Katherine, a quien vamos a dar las gracias por este espacio.

SPEAKER_01 2:38

Cierto, este espacio está aquí gracias a Atlas Finanzas. ¿Quiénes son Atlas Finanzas, Edu?

SPEAKER_03 2:43

Atlas Finanzas are nuestros patrocinantes del podcast, los quantos ayudar todos sus sueños financiers, desde las inversiones más grandes del mundo top to reordenadshire finances, salir de deudas, and an alliance that she sees of finances for your objective completely personalized. And if you click on the link that is above, you're completely gratuitous an assessor with else for the panorama financier that has and planification. So, Edu, where the thing is really from a revelation that we have been culpable in certain moments of the life, realmente intuitively we have been in this, but not a framework. In which basically, like Kathy said, your parents are the person who more limits in the world or who has potential. And there are certain tips that are one or the other. Just coming on the capital that part of the whole issue is because things were created in a dependency, not from the criteria. So we're going to pay permission to obtain something in a juggernaut, if I don't compare X, in the college, if we don't or not. So we have a moment in which your relation, your parent, adopts this role, and you involuntarily of your future, sometimes transcendental, and to import what your strategy financier, like if it's 50-50, if it's in a pot. And so de ahí surge this capital. The response is limited.

SPEAKER_01 5:15

But I think in base a lo que you establish, de alguna manera no aprendemos a escuchar nuestro deseo, validarlo, andar cómo is possible que se haga realidad.

SPEAKER_03 5:31

Pero a veces lo wey, but dudamos inocencies for a confianza and for a delegacia.

SPEAKER_01 5:36

But a sense of the design, no left force, no left value. It's like you have this chispita here, and the other one means that's not and I don't know what it's in my life, and yeah. But I have this chispa, but it's important in my life, I don't want to track, why I do possible. So there's a tender is demo lean in my reality. But because the meeting is the prime limit, and then it's headed. No, no, it's limited. Ahorita no I'm gonna say in my reality, how do you have real so that this would occur?

SPEAKER_03 6:11

And my parents create that no, igual the voice, igual que Phil creates, which is what we are saying. But igualito como quedas parado tú del otro lado siendo la pareja, me entiendes? O sea, hay definitivamente algo mejor que es a lo que vamos. Entonces ya, la lanzamos. El realization is siempre en vez de decir no, preguntar cómo si. It's a super apuesta. La respuesta no es no. Porque tu pareja si te lo está diciendo porque claro, ya pasó por el proceso interno de que creo que esto es importante. The pregunta entonces is como si for a un si ando con llevar el dialogue. Button participant to talk about the plan that has something. It would be that you say your parent gives a plan tan perfect that in a way, and you say 100%. Or see. And so clearly no prepared for this decision, so what you do from the road for that? So, for example, the other day coming, and that was where we got all this realization. During a while, we moved to a car, and we have experiences that we appreciate that when we met in the things anytime there was a lot of time. And it is a bad head, if you're my swing, it was like quite a way to see it. I said that I compare an apartment, and really we had a bad sort of stories are equal. The market the history not imagined, but performed much flexibility, or sometimes that was our opinion, not necessarily.

SPEAKER_01 9:05

So I think that was a little bit on the thing, okay. En el caso ahorita es como que no vamos a comprarnos la casa ya porque nosotros tenemos como meta tener 10 mil dólares de ingresos residuales. Entonces, primero alcancemos los primeros 5 mil dólares de ingresos residuales que no dependan de nuestro trabajo, and ahí nos compramos la casa. Porque si nos compramos la casa ya mismo, entonces alargamos demasiado esos ingresos residuales, porque comprarse la casa is subir tus gastos a 30%, entonces ya no tienes capacidad de ahorro, entonces ya no puedes inversire in other negotias. En fin, it's like analysis. So, Eduardo Lance trajected this example because it's in the past, there was another form of personally and in pareja, we said no, no, we can compromise the casa. No, no, it's not compared to the casa, it's that I'm the adelante because we're going to have this and this. And so Eduardo is how we compromise the casa. Claro que we should compare the casa. Antes of the appartment for inversion, this is this in the bolts, and we got $5,000 of ingredients residual, and now we comprend the casa. And the mindset much, like those, including the mucha risa because Eduardo preguntated a day to the niggas, the dinner, the dinner of the world, what quisieras have? And we didn't have a casa grande. Antes era Eduardo, okay, we're a meter, I'm a meter, vamos a meter. Ella venda departamentos in pre-venta, but in venta privada, because we met with ella for compromise at a full bajo cost, and XZ.

SPEAKER_03 11:23

XZ, but because we are alineados delay.

SPEAKER_01 11:26

Claro, del cómo see. Tell me in a principal at the ingresse residual, and Eduardo fue tan incisivo, tan clear with his idea, and I'm sorry that I had in me this responsibility that hoy is part of my meta, because I have the value, because I enter the opportunity of liberty, because not really and appreciate to create and diversificate your ingredients for publishing other lines. And now we're going to have a class of finances.

SPEAKER_03 12:00

No, no, but this is the thing, because I abaroyes and other example. For example, in our negotiation, Catherine is much more soadora in the sense that it's not soñadora, but that does create much things, much of the product. So now it's Catrinot.

SPEAKER_01 12:37

Concentrate, Katrin, you have to design it. And yeah, literally we have a framework. Much of it, esto se alinea con esto, por qué quieres hacer eso, que aquí también is simplemente decir sí por sí. O sea, when you vas a decirle que sí to your parentheses, which is the idea of this podcast, de este framework that we're going to compare, if you incomodes a team to say that's it, then it's important to enter the necessity of funds, because there are, for example, no, the sexual, I'm done with the episode sexual, but it's important. Well, I'm going to explain because the sexual I'm going to talk about for another example.

SPEAKER_03 13:27

If there's one of you escuching, you matter.

SPEAKER_01 13:29

Claro, desesper because I did what you mean. Okay, I'm a lanzar, but I'm going to certainly. And ignores what you want. No, it's saying that your parents at the same time that you said to me and negotiate. And for it, I'm going to have much conversations incomodermic, and you're going to stay much in connection with you for this to the other person and to me. And here I was with the example not sexual. It was a year, like three years, I started in the car and I was super frustrated because I was all the day traveling, all the time I was traveling, I had to do the saddle encerrado, I was there. Eduardo in this moment did the car, you don't travel in a place in which I'm fine because he had two years ago and he was full casero and so I said that Eduardo, yes, no sé qué, no. And so you say to Eduardo, Ay, my amor, is that me acompañas al centro comercial a pasear? I think I was chiquit, I had an a year and a year, and Eduardo, ay no, my amor, what fastidious, you don't need a centro comercial. You mean I'm like, this carajo no me apoyo, no me quiero, o sea, no me complace. Este, exactamente, literal. And that discussion, I mean, and just in this moment, I was going to say the necessity, enter what I need. And I did that that you could have been aired libre, you could sit in the casa, me sent me encerrated, adults and not even of kids, and I did it, but I don't know. You don't know my necessity, you did, my friend, accompany me to the center commercial, and he didn't go to the center commercial. But what do you want to do commercial? What does it have in this moment? And I would compare my insight, but not for the case, let's terminate the example, I'm reflection, and then I regress and I say, my friend, in fact, I'm full, because I think we are ABC, and you know that you're a center commercial meeting, and I don't affect full. And I said, Kathy, I haven't said, I've said that you need to have ABC, and I say, Okay, okay, you can get more in the house, but I perfectly have energy to restaurant and it clearly the living like adults and the house. So in this point, let's say what's your pareja for that your pareja sends like equipped by passing to me. Or hubby, Katy, vete sola, you go to Iker, or no we're hooking, we're mañana, put out a pick, okay, negotiate, that your pareja no sea limit. And I go with the ejemplo sexual.

SPEAKER_03 16:44

Ajá, Catiuska, van por ti.

SPEAKER_01 16:47

Tal vez estas personas no eran el capítulo pasado de Catiuska.

SPEAKER_03 16:50

Bueno, Catiuska is el alter ego de Kathy.

SPEAKER_01 16:53

Created by Eduardo and me. For example, you have a fantasy and I don't know if my spirit will have, and we have much with amigos that Eduardo and you compared our dese and fantasies, like philosophical sexuality, and they said, I my jam had this. For example, in this case in particular, it was that it could be a trio. But the mess because untrillo. Yo le dije, No puedo creer that después 11 años juntos, you mean that no, es que ella no le gustan las mujeres, o sea, no hay manera that ella pueda tener un trio. Andes tus manos en el fuego because it's like.

SPEAKER_03 18:11

Acto seguido. Acto seguido. Jugamos verdad reto.

SPEAKER_01 18:15

Acto seguido, yo le dije, yo me tomé personal, yo dije: Yo le voy a demostrar a él that es un tema de que él no habla con su pareja.

SPEAKER_03 18:23

Katherine se cayó a las. No, no. Me la gente así pensando. Lo que hicimos fue jugar verdad-reto. No, o sea, se armó organicamente, pero tú aprovechaste, pues.

SPEAKER_01 18:35

Yo le he ido in my mente.

SPEAKER_03 18:36

Drinking game of reto.

SPEAKER_01 18:38

Claro, yo le tenía in my mente, and when I'm the opportunity, no pelea. I was juggling, they had 24 years, 25 years. Entonces to reto, and me. Or no, al revive, to me, and you said, and you're a member of Eduardo. No lo puedo creer. And I think there are various things to rescatter. There are limited things for what you're saying that my parents will say or something, because when you trade a desire to the mess, you train a necessity, no matter what cumplir it, no doesn't forget it real, no doesn't forget, but you don't try it. It's your dad, so that your parents and negotiate. And this person is listening for this. For example, I had things in the sexual with Eduardo and vice versa. And you said I want to do this. And Eduardo Miércoles, I think I'm listening to this today, but I will explore. If you realmente, I will explore. But when he or you think that he's evaluating or that you are evaluating and I'm letting the reflection of the pork of my block, the pork no matter, this is demasiado liberador. So when Eduardo said I'm listening, but we will explore, for me, it was demasiado in the corner, because I think eventually not listen and not, but not because it was an introspection for what he incomodes, I'm not. And the final Eduardo one day started relations and I said, Okay, we're gonna try this fantasy that you have to our imagination. And I was in the imagination, and I was in the imagination, and I was thinking more sick to me, and until 7-8 years ago I said, Kathy, I'm listening to this. And it was like wow, what no, I don't know with Eduardo. 100%.

SPEAKER_03 21:23

So I'm thinking about what I'm saying, like for. You think that's something important that you use that when the involuntes the other person, and the other person, because this framework that we are saying is not competes really with a limit sane. What is that? And it's right. After the limit sane is simply multiplication by those, like Katherine, it's the cómo and the cómo asum, and in this response is the area where the two common, like this framework that you establish. Of the necessities. So a lot of things we have to multiply by two this because we go to something in which the two are judgment, but the principle is applicable, which is how we can learn the two in a manner that we feel common. For example, in this case, really you don't have to be, or what was the fantasy that our life is to imagination. And okay, what I'm here for me, what I'm saying for me, what's it for me? And I evolution in this conversation. And one of the I'll say to the microphone is that it was super linked with my favorite of my life. So my favorite of the life. I don't know if you have been, but it's so good. And at the end of the day, it's this who basically was conditioned to the others, living for the others, do the things that he could have, and this section of people who basically met in the reto that they had to say, and I never said that. So the people turned in the scenes more absurd of the life, because simply don't say no. And obviously, the principle of the romanticism of how they have experiences, and then I have the way that definitively needs a no, but with the framework that we're saying, this would transform in a way. And the felicity in this balance of me to have things that I expand, but renunciation to my moral, to my ethics, to my ideas, that we have my ideas.

SPEAKER_01 23:51

Claro, and I think there are things in which you like a person who genuinely, but no needs for amarrary to your parents to do this, okay? Okay, what's the India, what's what you want, and exploration to see if there's other involvement of this necessity in which you send for accompanying and this experience. And if there's another involvement, then my mother to the India and you go to the other thing, you go to your opportunity, we can via separate, I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 24:50

Claro, exactly. Exactly. Obviamente, no se toman todo literal, no?

SPEAKER_01 24:56

Exactly. And I had much manas of things, but they had an account that ella said that you don't have to do it, and she said, This account we should have and track many ways. But in it was much this if you have this, what do you think about me, or this homes and not the mute? Okay, bullshit, quitémonosas social that the things don't be dead or others. Connect with your necessity in this moment, and that's what you're gonna get feliz at me to import what the demand is what's my spirit if you think I have a trio, what's my esposa if you can have a course of coaching of 5000? No vas a verse if you don't try. And obviously, if you have this framework in pareja, then empezate a cute cómo reaction of a manner that makes that the other notion track.

SPEAKER_03 26:16

Number one, explicitly framework you can say that you say, and a caprichoso since you see because I don't connect. Maybe.

SPEAKER_01 26:40

And negotiating. It's accommodating after that, cajou, and ah, well, perfect, let's do this. O sea, we're doing this because I send it super aline, you know, and the two are complacent. So I think it's something in demo difference for your pareja is in a life and a space in which you can see all the life, and not that I'm in pareja, and so I limit to all this. No, you can in your pareja the life that you can, but for that, conversion incómodas, conectarte con tu necesity, and explorar con curiosity.

SPEAKER_03 27:58

Atlas. So el link now in the entire link so you can have your assessor completely.

SPEAKER_01 28:12

Claro que sí, because this assessor is gratitude. And in fact, having a service spectacular in this assessor to ayudan to expand the money of cómo el tema financiero, ofrecer indexados, o sea, una cantidad oficial that te va a ayudar a tener otra perspectiva for that puedas trazar el camino to get al point A donde estás alors to that B where X Sue is reality.

SPEAKER_03 28:37

And ayudarte to respond to your version. I pregunto cómo si primero tienes que convertirte en otra persona, en otro ser, y en ese ser extraordinario que puede lograr eso. Así que déjanos ayudarte a responder el cómo si en el club del 1% de nuestra comunidad paga, donde también la puedes conseguir abajo, donde tratamos todo. Cómo si podemos tener la mejor salud, nuestro mejor cuerpo, nuestra mejor energía, cómo si podemos tener las mejores relaciones del mundo donde podemos sentirnos escuchados y complacidos. Cómo si podemos.

SPEAKER_00 29:28

O sea.

SPEAKER_03 29:31

Ay, cónchale.

SPEAKER_01 29:38

Mi amor, nunca te los aprendes.

SPEAKER_03 29:40

No tengo que trabajar eso. ¿Cómo si me los puedo aprender?

SPEAKER_01 29:43

Pon unas etiquetas aquí.

SPEAKER_03 29:45

Ya respondió el cómo sí. Así que bueno, no dejes que my primera pausa le quite fuerza to my commentary. Te esperamos dentro del Club 1% para que tú te conviertes in tu mejor version.

SPEAKER_01 29:55

Puedes como EduardoRayabajo or like Katy.nery or juntos in the Club del Uno oficial. Espero que you have disfrutado this episode. Envíale this episode to this amigo or this amigo that you see that today's invitation in my parents or that can be things that no attribute to before. Mandale this episode for exploration with curiosity why.

SPEAKER_03 30:19

Mandale este.