La Única Verdad Que Necesitas Para Actuar

La mayoría de las personas vive frenada por una pregunta invisible:

¿Qué van a pensar de mí?

Pero ¿Qué pasa si el problema nunca fue la crítica?

¿Y si el verdadero problema es que estás construyendo tu vida alrededor de opiniones que ni siquiera importan tanto como imaginas?

En este episodio del Club del 1%, Catherine Neri y Eduardo Rodríguez exploran una idea incómoda pero profundamente liberadora: la mayoría de las personas están demasiado ocupadas pensando en sí mismas como para dedicar tanta energía a juzgar tu vida.

Hablamos sobre validación externa, people pleasing, miedo al rechazo, funas en redes sociales, crecimiento personal y cómo recuperar la libertad de actuar desde tus propios deseos en lugar de vivir desde expectativas heredadas.

También exploramos una poderosa reflexión inspirada en Conversaciones con Dios sobre identidad, autenticidad y el costo de vivir la vida que otros eligieron para ti.

Si alguna vez has sentido miedo de exponerte, de cambiar, de empezar algo nuevo o de decepcionar a alguien, este episodio es para ti.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

No dejes de vivir tu vida y de accionar por lo que piensan las demás personas, porque realmente no le importa.

SPEAKER_02 0:05

Tiro mierda y eso me hace sentir mejor.

SPEAKER_00 0:07

Claro, porque si yo hablo mal del otro y yo no me parezco al otro, entonces estoy mejor. Claro. Y como no estoy tan feliz con lo mío, mejor le tiro mierda al otro y así no veo ni mierda.

SPEAKER_02 0:16

Pero en esencia, igual me sabe mierda.

SPEAKER_00 0:17

Y bueno, en el episodio de hoy vamos a hablar un poco de algo que les atormenta mucho al 90% de las personas, por no decir el 100%, que es el dejarse llevar por lo que opinan los demás.

SPEAKER_02 0:28

Todo el mundo le sabe a mierda. A nadie le importa. A nadie. And if you're at this point, nor encima. What quieres say mañana? ¿Quieres empezar a Instagram nueva where you hablas de X y Z, have tall things, tienes for team, because it will get to me feliz.

SPEAKER_00 0:46

Cosa much that habits more of you, or not, sino that se enter more people that when they funan in the redes social. Partamos de ahí, o sea, tu tía puede hablar y habla el primo y se le dice al vecino, some three, cuatro pelagatos, y ya más nadie se enteró. Te fuiste a otro país y ya nadie sabe. Cuando te funan in the redes sociales, te funan en el mundo, no? For example, ahí funaron a Isabel Aladera, horrible, que no, que el otro, que el novio, que el ex, etc, ta, ta, ta. Y ahí está feliz igual, vende miles de productos, está con su nuevo novio, está embarazada y ahora la gente la va a hablar. Y el que la odia la sigue criticando y ya sigue teniendo fama. Hola, hola. Bienvenidos y bienvenidas a un episodio más del Club 1% Podcast. A ver, por aquí su servidora, Katherine Neri, psicóloga, terapeuta, especialista en trauma y amante, ayudar a las personas to conectar con su poder.

SPEAKER_02 1:39

Por aquí Eduardo Rodríguez, contador de professional, but apasionado de la comunicación, la persuasion, and ayuda a las personas to that the university and that ellos mismo que sí. Me pueden conseguir en las redes como Eduardo Rayabajo JRP.

SPEAKER_00 1:52

And I mean, Katy.nery. Juntos construimos el Club 1% Podcast and we can see in Club El 1 Oficial in todas las cuentas. And we creamos el Club El 1% Membresía, que es una membresía paga que te ayuda a ti tocando your version. Because if we have a lot extraordinary to have resultados al 1%, we can see what the 99%. And conform with a okay is all that we aleja this 1%. And so in this podcast, we ayudamos a conversation that we mobilizes. And in the club, we should make it. And in the episode of something that we atormenta much to 90% of the people, for not saying 100%, the others. And we're going to know what this antídoto radical that will ayut more what the other people and construct your mind. And gracias a quién estamos, Eduardo.

SPEAKER_02 2:49

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SPEAKER_00 3:22

And the part of us is gratitude in this session. Nothing.

SPEAKER_02 3:37

So disclaimer, I think the first part of the capital will be pessimistic, and we're going to have a little bit of this because we don't have to perform the esperance in the world, but we have to enter the world. Because if we are condemned to have a constant friction and lucha with things that really don't camp, and with accepting, we're going to have the loss the final tunnel. It's the reflection a little bit at the end of the way that realmente those people don't interested in the absolute who is, what does it mean, absolutely nothing. And this reality you can have many postures. You can put the posture of when I interested anything. You can turn the posture of you not to perhaps in the world and in the humanity and in the society and if there's a gentleman. And really nothing to do with that. Simply of the natural human. The people, they imported you. And this would sound horrible, but I said the part that would sound a little pessimistic, but it's liberal for what Kathy. And that's good. Okay, there's a problem. When you do the way to the situation, instead of deception of the mind, it's entertaining, maneuver in this reality. If all the people really interested those, you for example who are in this world of them, you have to do it. A little bit of the reflection in which I was, for example, I mean I can't take a look at me for something, combination and me. And in this conversation, I'm wow, what cool canal of YouTube in which I simply reflect my reflections on the life, and I'm this broma, and yeah, no le gusta. And then I think what I want to do with this, I can't do that, but at the final year, apart from me, yeah. But if you want to do the person, connect this that nothing interesting to my life, no is attractive for alguien to escuch me reflection. Okay, how do I empower with a table, with a ton that I accompany what I can enjoy, how to empaquet the message that I do for something that would do it. Because you are watching the video to append it for me, not because I don't know the exit of Eduardo.

SPEAKER_00 7:20

We're gonna get it all subscribe, subscribe, subscribe to Claudio Luna Portugal. Claro, totally. And when I go in the social person who gets an influencer who admire, is because the person says that, or sure like her, or is a model to go, and then this, from my beneficial.

SPEAKER_02 7:41

And at the final year, for example, the people pleaser. It's a hot take, okay? But for example, my hot take with the people pleaser, which are the person who complacen to the world, and so you can see no, because Fulanita, she lives for the demand, it's demo. At the final day, Fulanita, the manner in which she conceives this internal and living and dormant tranquil in the camera for dormant in the noche, is that you don't want to go to his gentleman. And this is, but at the final day, it's for him.

SPEAKER_00 8:19

No, but there's a transfondation of this.

SPEAKER_02 8:22

Cuéntanos, Kathy, cuéntanos.

SPEAKER_00 8:23

Okay, a people pleaser because people pleaser, because you're complacent to me because I think I am, but I think I'm because I sent you a lot, it's in beneficious.

SPEAKER_02 8:30

It's what I quite say, it's 100% personal. Totalmente es lo que voy a la entrada.

SPEAKER_00 8:45

O sea, no es despreocupado de que te complazco infinitamente because te amo por sobre mí. O sea, at now sí, terminas siendo ante el people pleaser que le doy todo a lo que termina amando more than seja de ultimate, it's a compensation toxic of the personality for the amount.

SPEAKER_02 9:06

Exactly. But the point is mantening. Totally. In verdict, what we're talking about, because it disblocked tantas. When you entire the natural human being, since we're very important. When you escuch this, you can get away, cool. But what does it have a pension? And what you say? The person who hate. Okay, and so, cool, get this posture. But the other posture that you say is okay, I'm going to get why some of the other people, why am I the human people, and I'm going to palancar me to this and if really, for example, you have the vision like yours of impact, the focus is the other person. Why don't I do the thing at the convenience because the other person is because, and when they are in this low camera, we have much of this impression that the people for what, for sure, that is a certain degree. But really, what is the way is that there's something that we're doing that will benefit to that person.

SPEAKER_00 10:14

And I think it's super important that you said, one of the things that you have to do, and that I'm gonna do much of your realization, is that performing much time in action or not action or repensar those things, what does the other of me, if you have this, I will juzgar, if you have that, and at the moment no importer, and if you juzga, or if the other person juzga your comport, or is because this person can do this and not, and they're just, and then it's like señal because you're here in my house and you know, and so it's more faster to criticism who attacked the valentity of you to have it, or because I think basically the anterior.

SPEAKER_02 10:57

It's a reason individual. If you pull a pension and it's a realization delicious life, el que te tire amor at the final time egoista. The queen odd is more of a life. And then I tire mierda, and this means more of a lot of people.

SPEAKER_00 11:12

Claro, because you have mal and you know me parasitic, I'm more. And if I'm fine with load, I'm tired of mierda a little and my mierda.

SPEAKER_02 11:21

But in essence, or okay, I will get amor, and it sure is feeling, but it's para desbloquear la broma. I'm tired of amor, but no amor tampoco. And so there are gente como yo, como you, me gusta pensar like the people who are escuchando, entended that Mario, lanzar hate, no lanzar hate, we're languaging amor, but you don't lanzar amor to the person. Amor, amor, amor, amor.

SPEAKER_00 11:48

No, and as hate or amor because you lanzas amor to me devolution, more than lanzar amor and odd, if it means me devolution, I think my hack personal has been like I focus on my physics, okay, I have to. So I think that the part of the responsibility of the crew of the person to be in a way of is like this is a projection, and if you look at the other, is because there's something that's more in me, and I should focus me in me and yeah, and at the time I'm affirming what I'm saying. So it is about one. So that is about one, and it's perfect, and if all we prefer to one, the world is a little more. Because if all the people, not to go to anything or not, because everyone's doing the life, but not all the people doing the more.

SPEAKER_02 12:32

But if all of the reality, which is the proposal of this, it's a little bit much more transparent and much more faster. Much more fashion. And at the point of comments and this idea central, at the end of the day, we're gonna support that you have much methods, much, because what you have to do is the mind and the insegurid. And there are other things in the camera, but principally a mind, an insegurid, a trauma. And this is of the other, of the other person who attacked, and to the person a mess. A nobody learns, to nothing. And if you get at this point, you can get a normal enzyme. What does it say again? Because it will get to me. But deal, ayudar nos enciende, ayudar nos hace felices, ayudar is that our experience human seasons are maravillosa. I quiero ayudar because the most important in my life is ayudarte. Me encanta ayudarte, me hace sentir demasiado feliz ayudarte, but I quiero ayudarte a ti andar muchas personas. Así que comparte el video. But in the process, I mean feliz yo. Claro. Me siento lleno yo. Y es la realidad. And no hay que taparlo. Because the final tappando, ah, él dice que es por los demás, pero no es por los demás. No, no es por los demás, está bien. Pero qué vas a hacer con esa información. Claro. Por donde te lo vas a tomar. Because then it's cierto that if you receives a logic demo 20 miles more lent. And this is what you have in other capital, the leverage. Because then te puedes quedar que, ah, no, pero si no es por mí, entonces no quiero tu ayuda. Es que es por los three.

SPEAKER_00 14:24

Es por los dos, pero siempre nos tenemos que poner in primera nosotros. Es que sí. And you dictate, because no means the crecimiento personality, no le ayudaría in this. But no ayudo, for example, in such a problem with su perro. But you don't have any idea, no append, and if you can enseñ.

SPEAKER_03 14:56

Claro.

SPEAKER_00 15:00

And one of the things that you said, alright that I said in it they do the other people who think of it, the people say, I but okay, there's money and in fact not because I don't think, but I'm not from others, like I say, I think I'm a puta, and I don't know this, aunque it's my idea, because I'm in this wheel and I have something to experiment. And so I'm going to say two things. The first, you know, there's a thing more that doesn't more of you, or not, sino that enter people that when they funnel in the reason. When they function in the reading social, you know? And it's seven years. And yeah, and for example, I funera, horrible, that no, that the novel, that the ex, etc. And they're feliz equal, vendor products, is with his embarrassed, and then the gentleman will say, and the criticism, for example, Isabella Aladera, you don't know the video.

SPEAKER_02 16:03

And in the right, I Eduardo, the male 36 in Cutter, not the video. No, but it was for me. But it was for Isabella, no?

SPEAKER_00 16:16

Claro. For me, when you're imagining that your vector, the person, your family, if the person in seven years, they will be there. But no imported. But we're gonna make it in the case because it's fine to solve it. At the moment, what we can transmit is that nobody to be able to action for what the other person, because really no imported. It's one of the things I'm gonna say in the other. For putting it a little bit in context, it's a people who have a full journal during all his life and in a moment to her because he had 40 years, not functioning my mind, and you're insulting in the journal, such as the bolígrafo, and the impulse of it, and when you're screwing, says that no screen, sino that is doing a dictator and a conversation with Deus. Entonces in the library is super cool because this person does all the questions that we have to, you and the respondents. You said that it's because these things were responsible, it's like 100%. This would be of alguien more elevate than Deus totally. But the point of this, is that he went in a moment to say, What are the pecados? And I don't know if they depend on this with religion, but the transformation of what I'm gonna say. And he said, No exist the pecados, okay, no existing those pecan, it's a creation of the religion, and the people insist and insist, but what is the pecado? He said, No exists. But if you want to say to me, what is the pecado, the issue, because the kids of Death, okay, those are this for experimenting what serious in an experience human. So he said, The poor is this, a life in which you're objective principal to experiment what is human and create in a new identity and visit the life of another person. And if you parece well, lo dejes because eligience what is. And I think when those criteria aligned, coherent, and clear with us, it's not important what the other. If you can see OnlyFans, OnlyFans. But you seem OnlyFans, not for dinner, but really you feel and human.

SPEAKER_02 19:15

And it's dinner. Exactly. What imported? So the time in internet, I'm making it in this, but what I'm gonna do. I mean no means I don't have anything. This is the point number one. And the point number two, it's interesting that you tell you to just reflect when I was doing this and I did this that in the only moment that this corpses a bit, and for this, for me, the part essential of the beauty is procreate and serve paper and take hijas, the way not to say that for me it's fine. It's just because it romps a bit more. That's where in life it a little bit, because I genuinely have things that not for my felicity, that not for my life, that we have to investigate, that I think sacrificed because the amount of father and mother is a sacrification and it's a reality. And we enter this way of not anything. So for those who are parents, and I think they identify, it's wow.

SPEAKER_00 20:36

And I think that it romps the other later. Okay, like for the kids who today no tienen criteria or crecences, when they are six, they have more criteria, and they are adolescents, you eres the dios.

SPEAKER_02 20:53

It's verdad.

SPEAKER_00 21:10

Totally. And I think when the homes are grand, that they have their criteria, that you don't depend on you, that they can venture for you, that you create, because they can be your friends, but you don't have lecture as we've heard, and then application. And we're gonna say they say well, but at the final, I can't get away to it.

SPEAKER_02 21:55

I've got a tip of, but. Una vez más recordarles that if they dance click above finances, they can have this assessor completely gratitude for that, for example, with the kids would generate this fund of such a person. There's a library of persuasion that the panacea developed, which is called amigos and influenciar people. Figure that in this library, one of the principles that I imagine in the subconsciente me developed for this conversation with me was just a capital complete that the idea principle that I decided was that all the people who imported to them, like we are talking about. Because everyone is. And this, for example, is a tip that they do, but that's true, because we have applicated in many circumstances that a lot of one thing that we have to say intelligent in this remote, I think that's it. But if you're in one a one, escuch a other person, avalar, say, wow, what's your idea? There's other than this. Because everyone's like, And use it strategically.

SPEAKER_00 23:20

Okay, at the end, for what we are saying, for people are more felicity. One, for more relationships in this way. So what you do is what you need for nothing, because it's feliz in this way. But take this in mind, depends on what you want to learn and depends on the situation, and principally at the center of the episode for paralyzing and what the others, because in the moment, aunque the capacity of me and rumors or what, really not your bienest of them. So I hope that you have this episode, that I should reflect, that I asked to think about you, to action, and preoccupied with what you mean in the others. I think that much of what the others is a voice more introject, this imported what they said the others, and we created a concept, no, inconscient of cup, okay. And terminaste introjecting the voice of your mom or your papa and tuya, but no is tub, because the nipples realmente no nos importa lo que hicimos, somos nosotros, and yeah. Entonces, envíale este video a esa amiga o a ese amigo o a esa persona que tú sientas que a veces se deja guiar por eso y quieres ayudarlo a que suelte para que pueda accionar y para que pueda ser más feliz.

SPEAKER_01 24:52

Lo tienes en mente. Mírame, lo tienes en mente.

SPEAKER_00 24:56

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SPEAKER_02 25:29

Me encanta, es tan nuevo.

SPEAKER_00 25:30

No tienes nada que perder. Entonces, bueno, que estén bien.

SPEAKER_02 25:38

Claro, cómo no invitarlos a la membresía. Because all that we have is information. Valiosa, pan, pan, valiosa, pan. Tienes que atajarla, ponerle un título, escribirla, tal, ponerte a ti mismo para que puedas aplicarla. En el club ya está hecho. En el club ya está hecho para que llegues, aprendas y te apliques.

SPEAKER_00 25:59

Claro, claro. Andarte estás acompañado, no tienes que esperar tiempo averiguando tú en ensayo de error andes a dos personas que están ahí para responderte, para escucharte y para acompañarte. Entonces, si quieres entrar en la membresía, aquí abajo, por menos de lo que cuesta, una comida afuera. Entonces, bueno, un besito, que estén bien. Chao, chao.

SPEAKER_03 26:13

Chao, chao.